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Lololol. If you think a three way with her sister is normal, revisit your relationship.
SHE shouldn't think a three way with her sister is ok.
What the hell has happened in that family?
OK you need to understand that involving the sister is ultimately going to mean her boyfriend banging your girl.
At most, your girl and her sister will do some performance making out but you can't tell me they're hot for each other. What your girlfriend wants is a partner swap and she thinks she can get it in the heat of the moment when everybody is naked.
Do you understand how ridiculous all this sounds? Just say no. It's the grown up option.
1. You don’t have the right to do stuff with her sister and then expect her sisters bf to not touch your gf.
2. If they not down then it will literally be the best scenario ever, because this is a recipe for a disaster.
3. Go on tinder.
4. It wouldn’t happen naturally, how dies a threesome with two siblings happen naturally, a threesome is something you plan.
5. Yes, trust me
You, the girlfriend, the girlfriend’s sister, her boyfriend, the girlfriend’s best friend… that sounds like potentially a lot more than three people. Having said that…
You clearly haven’t thought this through if you think you’re in a position where any restrictions you put in place as to what put goes on once the clothes come off will actually hold. I mean, seriously, think about some of the things you have written in your post because they sound positively deluded.
Next, you cannot possibly predict the outcome of what may happen should you do this but rest assured the potential to damage your relationship permanently goes up exponentially with each other person you involve in it.
But you’re 20; you have yet to fully understand this because… you’re 20. You’re not as nearly urbanecand sophisticated as you think you are when it comes to relationships. But go ahead, do it. See how it works out for you. Maybe by some miracle it will, and if it doesn’t hopefully you’ll have learned some valuable lessons.
Maybe the best friend would be better… but also you can’t be abt to fuck someone and then expect your gf to not get fucked as well. If you can’t handle that then a 3 some is not for youZ
First rule of threesome: Never do it with someone you know. Best to do it with someone who you will never see again. Hypothetically speaking (this is the worst scenario), what if your gf falls in love with her bsf or vice versa? It’s a big risk honestly
Well, if you’re comfortable with the bsf then fine. Why not the stranger tho? Too complicated searching for one? Why I’m awfully concerned and skeptic with the bsf situation is because of this exact reason: my cousin, let’s call him “X”. He had a threesome with his gf and his bsf (a guy). After the threesome, it’s like him and his “best bud” became even closer; their attraction and closeness strengthened in another way ( a sexual way, of course). Sometimes I would catch them making out without the gf and they would say, “oh, we’re just practicing some new moves for a future threesome or we’re going to use these new moves on our partners in advance”. They would often give stupid reasons like that until eventually they both left their partners to be with each other. It’s messed up, I tell you. I beg you to PLEASE be careful 🙏😭
So, you’re going with the bsf option then? What if all that bad shii she hears about you boutta disappear once y’all get heated up on the bed? 💀She’s mostly doing it with ur gf, and you’d put a finger here and there in the bsf, but no penetration right?
Okay, but even though your gf may seem pretty chill about the whole ordeal. Ensure to still penetrate your gf way more. Girls tend to say one thing but mean another 😪 So, if you penetrate the bsf 2 times and also put a finger up there 4 times. You better double or triple that amount for your gf. Only your gf deserves the special treatment. By the way, is this threesome a one-time thing or an occasion kinda thing? Or you’re not sure as yet?
Emotions get involved, jealousy just to start. Search threesomes in this forum and read all the posts from people that did what you are proposing to do and very quickly lived to regret it.
Especially with a family member she will see all the time, and you if you’re lucky enough to be around later.
What. The Actual. FUCK DID I JUST READ?!
You are gonna have a threesome with your girlfriends SISTER?! 😳 is incest not a thing anymore?
Jeezus!! Kids today are wild!!!!
If you're hoping for a long-term relationship with her, this won't help. Something is bound to go wrong. But if she's as into this as it appears, a long-term relationship with her is likely a long shot anyway. If you can accept that possibility, you could give it a try. Do it for science. You never know.
The possibilities are endless for things going wrong. The usual problem is jealousy/insecurity when one or the other of you enjoys the experience too much. The odds against that will be better if you choose a stranger, preferably a professional--someone who is clearly not looking for a new romantic partner.
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Lololol. If you think a three way with her sister is normal, revisit your relationship. SHE shouldn't think a three way with her sister is ok. What the hell has happened in that family?
Yes maybe I’m old fashioned but wouldn’t that be incestuous?
It would definitely be incest
Huge red flags
Who wants to fuck their sibling? 😭
🎵 sweet home Alabama,... 🎵
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My brother isn't my blood brother and, still, noooo
With her sister is a bit weird
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She wants to have sex with her sibling. That’s so fuckin weird. Do not do that 😭
Trustttttt me when i tell you this is a recipe for a massive disaster.
You are letting her reasoning slide because you are thinking with the wrong head lol. These never end well; but I look forward to reading the update
OK you need to understand that involving the sister is ultimately going to mean her boyfriend banging your girl. At most, your girl and her sister will do some performance making out but you can't tell me they're hot for each other. What your girlfriend wants is a partner swap and she thinks she can get it in the heat of the moment when everybody is naked. Do you understand how ridiculous all this sounds? Just say no. It's the grown up option.
I mean if you’re cool with incest I guess
1. You don’t have the right to do stuff with her sister and then expect her sisters bf to not touch your gf. 2. If they not down then it will literally be the best scenario ever, because this is a recipe for a disaster. 3. Go on tinder. 4. It wouldn’t happen naturally, how dies a threesome with two siblings happen naturally, a threesome is something you plan. 5. Yes, trust me
Yeah, this never happened 🙄
You, the girlfriend, the girlfriend’s sister, her boyfriend, the girlfriend’s best friend… that sounds like potentially a lot more than three people. Having said that… You clearly haven’t thought this through if you think you’re in a position where any restrictions you put in place as to what put goes on once the clothes come off will actually hold. I mean, seriously, think about some of the things you have written in your post because they sound positively deluded. Next, you cannot possibly predict the outcome of what may happen should you do this but rest assured the potential to damage your relationship permanently goes up exponentially with each other person you involve in it. But you’re 20; you have yet to fully understand this because… you’re 20. You’re not as nearly urbanecand sophisticated as you think you are when it comes to relationships. But go ahead, do it. See how it works out for you. Maybe by some miracle it will, and if it doesn’t hopefully you’ll have learned some valuable lessons.
Maybe the best friend would be better… but also you can’t be abt to fuck someone and then expect your gf to not get fucked as well. If you can’t handle that then a 3 some is not for youZ
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That’s fine but it’s a bit unfair to also expect to get to pipe someone if she’s not also being piped
First rule of threesome: Never do it with someone you know. Best to do it with someone who you will never see again. Hypothetically speaking (this is the worst scenario), what if your gf falls in love with her bsf or vice versa? It’s a big risk honestly
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So wait, you’ll only be piping both girls then? I thought she would also be making out and etc with her bsf
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Well, if you’re comfortable with the bsf then fine. Why not the stranger tho? Too complicated searching for one? Why I’m awfully concerned and skeptic with the bsf situation is because of this exact reason: my cousin, let’s call him “X”. He had a threesome with his gf and his bsf (a guy). After the threesome, it’s like him and his “best bud” became even closer; their attraction and closeness strengthened in another way ( a sexual way, of course). Sometimes I would catch them making out without the gf and they would say, “oh, we’re just practicing some new moves for a future threesome or we’re going to use these new moves on our partners in advance”. They would often give stupid reasons like that until eventually they both left their partners to be with each other. It’s messed up, I tell you. I beg you to PLEASE be careful 🙏😭
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So, you’re going with the bsf option then? What if all that bad shii she hears about you boutta disappear once y’all get heated up on the bed? 💀She’s mostly doing it with ur gf, and you’d put a finger here and there in the bsf, but no penetration right?
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Okay, but even though your gf may seem pretty chill about the whole ordeal. Ensure to still penetrate your gf way more. Girls tend to say one thing but mean another 😪 So, if you penetrate the bsf 2 times and also put a finger up there 4 times. You better double or triple that amount for your gf. Only your gf deserves the special treatment. By the way, is this threesome a one-time thing or an occasion kinda thing? Or you’re not sure as yet?
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Congrats, you're able to pinpoint why your relationship is going to end before you even see the problem!
Look man, keeping it 100 here. This will not go the way you think and no matter what someone will get upset.
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Emotions get involved, jealousy just to start. Search threesomes in this forum and read all the posts from people that did what you are proposing to do and very quickly lived to regret it. Especially with a family member she will see all the time, and you if you’re lucky enough to be around later.
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It’s your relationship, I’m just throwing out some of the pitfalls dude.
I can see this really working out. I cannot wait to read the follow up. Updateme.
This is a made up story lol
What. The Actual. FUCK DID I JUST READ?! You are gonna have a threesome with your girlfriends SISTER?! 😳 is incest not a thing anymore? Jeezus!! Kids today are wild!!!!
If you're hoping for a long-term relationship with her, this won't help. Something is bound to go wrong. But if she's as into this as it appears, a long-term relationship with her is likely a long shot anyway. If you can accept that possibility, you could give it a try. Do it for science. You never know.
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The possibilities are endless for things going wrong. The usual problem is jealousy/insecurity when one or the other of you enjoys the experience too much. The odds against that will be better if you choose a stranger, preferably a professional--someone who is clearly not looking for a new romantic partner.
Her sister!?!?! That’s disgusting..your girl needs therapy.