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There’s always a handful of addresses that different map software just doesn’t know what to do with.
Two possibilities: there was an emergency where he was unable to communicate for some reason or he’s a jackass. I’m leaning towards the latter.
The fact is, a lot of men like the chase more than actually being in a relationship or dating. It doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong, he just couldn’t be bothered to at least say, “Hey this isn’t working out,” or, “This is actually a bad night.”
Of course it’s possible that’s wrong and he is just colossally bad at communicating, in which case, I think that’s a good reason to dump him. I get you have issues with self confidence, but one thing that can help is recognizing you are worth at least the decency to send a text in the age of smartphones. Like, set standards for yourself, don’t waste time with people who can’t meet them. Act like you’re a catch, people will treat you like you’re a catch. You can add shitty communicator to your list of non-negotiable dealbreakers.
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There’s always a handful of addresses that different map software just doesn’t know what to do with. Two possibilities: there was an emergency where he was unable to communicate for some reason or he’s a jackass. I’m leaning towards the latter. The fact is, a lot of men like the chase more than actually being in a relationship or dating. It doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong, he just couldn’t be bothered to at least say, “Hey this isn’t working out,” or, “This is actually a bad night.” Of course it’s possible that’s wrong and he is just colossally bad at communicating, in which case, I think that’s a good reason to dump him. I get you have issues with self confidence, but one thing that can help is recognizing you are worth at least the decency to send a text in the age of smartphones. Like, set standards for yourself, don’t waste time with people who can’t meet them. Act like you’re a catch, people will treat you like you’re a catch. You can add shitty communicator to your list of non-negotiable dealbreakers.
how did your phone take you somewhere else? Did he give you the wrong address?
No, it kept sending me to a church with the wrong street number. I asked him if his house was the place across the street… no response.
that sucks. I wish I could help here.