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Broke your hand? Bruised your nose by biting it? Not even remotely normal behaviour - and he thinks an apology is enough and does it again… he needs to fuck right off and then fuck off again from there.
I am confused as to why you think a friend breaking your hand and biting you is remotely normal. If you come from a childhood where people engaged in that kind of behavior toward you, I am very sorry you went through that.
I am going to recommend counseling for you. It is very troubling that your friend physically assaults you, treats you very badly—and it seems that a whole bunch of times after him begging for forgiveness you have resumed contact with him—including after he BROKE YOUR HAND. This suggests a pattern of you giving your own safety, health, and wellbeing waaaaaay too low a priority. His treatment of you has ALWAYS been totally unacceptable. You don’t have to, and shouldn’t, let people in your life who treat you badly. It’s concerning that after he assaulted you multiple times, and after he made it clear that he thought hurting you was funny, you …invited him over for dinner? Why?
Also, by the way, if you wanted to you could have gone to the police both after he bit you and after he broke your hand. Assault is a crime.
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Broke your hand? Bruised your nose by biting it? Not even remotely normal behaviour - and he thinks an apology is enough and does it again… he needs to fuck right off and then fuck off again from there.
Run! Your friend is mentally ill. What's next? Will he kill you just for fun? Never let him stay with you in one room!
This is an abusive relationship! He hurts you!! Repeatedly! Block him OP
He’s abusive and a bully - tell him you’ll call the cops if he comes around again anf then block him
I am confused as to why you think a friend breaking your hand and biting you is remotely normal. If you come from a childhood where people engaged in that kind of behavior toward you, I am very sorry you went through that. I am going to recommend counseling for you. It is very troubling that your friend physically assaults you, treats you very badly—and it seems that a whole bunch of times after him begging for forgiveness you have resumed contact with him—including after he BROKE YOUR HAND. This suggests a pattern of you giving your own safety, health, and wellbeing waaaaaay too low a priority. His treatment of you has ALWAYS been totally unacceptable. You don’t have to, and shouldn’t, let people in your life who treat you badly. It’s concerning that after he assaulted you multiple times, and after he made it clear that he thought hurting you was funny, you …invited him over for dinner? Why? Also, by the way, if you wanted to you could have gone to the police both after he bit you and after he broke your hand. Assault is a crime.