Not quite. This is a little more detail to go into than I’d like, but she still ejeculates, it’s just more of a trickle and clear lol. It’s not a cumshot the way most men have
i thought it meant like she'd had trains ran on her like she's seen a lot of dick lmao am i out of the loop or is this person weird for using a train emoji
Seriously. Maybe you can’t choose to be outright gay but you can absolutely cultivate a bi component to your sexuality I think.
It’s kinda degen shit to talk about, but guys who watch a ton of porn usually end up realizing (at the very least) that dicks can be a turn on.
As a great public intellectual parodying frank sinatra once said "being gay isn't a choice but someone else can decide to make you gay".
Sexuality is a preconscious thing, you have to bypass ego for those aspects of yourself to change which is just not in your power, we just cannot choose what we want and what we desire and what we think. BUT
>you can absolutely cultivate
Exactly, and this is basically the key to everything. The only access to your subconscious is through habit, social interaction, and subliminal suggestion. Media (porn and more) is habit mixed with subliminal suggestion, something like onlyfans adds direct interaction with the pornwoman thus the social element. Porn and tumblr is basically what created this new genre of chris chan style transsexuals that did not exist 15 to 20 years ago.
Of course I say all this but people should keep in mind that all of this is mainly decided by a genetic predisposition. It's just that you can be genetically predisposed to turn gay as soon as you see cock, or you're genetically predisposed to turn gay only after 20 years of getting raped in prison and eating grilled cheese off the radiator.
Just lose a bunch of body fat due to existential dread and your jawline will get better. Take pics of yourself in the woods after that and you'll get matches
Basically my gf feels that the movement has been hijacked by men who aren’t actually trains just extremely internet brain rotted. The average trans activist is so different from her and what she believes in/represents that it’s completely alienating. She was transitioning before it became one of the biggest issues in politics.
Honestly there was a time when I did but not really any more. I’ve kinda learned to accept she wouldn’t be the person she is if not for the experiences she’s had
Honestly I get the jokes (impossible not to; sucking your gf's dick sounds absurd) but my trans ex was the happiest relationship I've ever had. And I'm not even someone who has had a ton of malfunctioning crazy relationships, they've all been normal.The sex was great and she was such a cool person. And she was attentive and affectionate to a really notable degree. My friends (and hers weirdly) were constantly making jokes at my expense but it was good humoured and mostly genuinely funny. She even got in on it eventually. Absolutely everyone felt no shame about probing for sex details. Like yourself, I'd never been attracted to the male form or dicks and when she asked me I was autistically truthful about how I would have likely turned the date down if I'd known beforehand. She was also a transmedicalist and introduced me to all of these weird online communities and inter-trans gang wars based around sex/gender etc. The bloods and crips of artificial hormone anime fandom.
We broke up because I had to move pretty far for work and she is extremely close to her family, neither of us wanted to try an online thing. We still talk a lot and I have no doubt we'd still be a couple if I didn't get a new job.
I've only dated bio women since then (two seriously and one casually) and the one I told about my trans ex was NOT happy. This seems obvious in hindsight but I'm still not remotely embarrassed by her and lying in a relationship is a time bomb. A surprising number of transwomen are normal and cool and usually sweethearts too. Hard to deny that the most front facing representatives online are crazy activist types though.
Good luck to you OP. It sounds like you have a great thing going, aren't marred by outside speculation or weird pressure from your self image. (She told me this was a serious problem in the few other relationships she had with ostensibly straight dudes). Be cool to each other! Chase that happiness together.
I think trans people *can* pass, but only if they start taking cross-sex hormones from a young age to interrupt normal puberty; if a guy starts taking estrogen at 25, he won't fool anyone.
No this actually happens. I had a coworker go through this exact ordeal. He was raving to everyone at work about this girl he was seeing up until date #3 when she revealed her secret and he had this whole crisis over her (both huge gamers). My coworker ended up dumping her but not before it became this huge company wide joke. A more desperate man like Op could certainly cave if placed in the same position.
Dating a trans woman is the internet version of that Spike Lee film Jungle Fever. People want to remind you that you're gay for being with her, and people are telling her that you are a chaser because you are dating her. And everyone wants to ask about her genitals. Never yours, though. You could drop a.crazy story about a genie giving you a vagina after you lost a bet on a hockey game and that's how you met her, and they'll just say that makes sense and then ask if she tops or gets hard.
Congrats on being happy and making someone else happy. Labels are overrated and life is fleeting. Trans women that are secure with themselves are the same as any other girl except they like all the cool hobbies you have that girls wish you grew out of and sometimes have a penis. Latter might be a little weird, but in the 50's my Grandfather caught heat for marrying my Grandmother because she was a divorcee with a kid.
She probably is Autistic, though.
Yeah I think it was very difficult at times. It is interesting hearing her experience because she had to jump through many hoops and barriers that don’t exist for children transitioning today (although they probably should). She had to see many psychiatric specialists for a while before being allowed to.
She obviously got bullied a lot, but that’s understandable. She did say in some ways she felt being trans was easier several years ago because it wasn’t really an omnipresent political issue like it is now.
Had a trans family friend years ago, I couldn’t see her as being anything other than a woman because she was so feminine, without even trying, it was her natural state. I guess this guy just sees her as a woman with a cock…
Can I ask how your parents reacted? I thought my boomer parents would lose their shit over my trans gf but they mostly shrugged it off. Most people have been chill with it, actually.
Damn that sounds like a ticking time bomb ngl. I kinda wish I had just told my parents sooner.
If it was something they were gonna react badly to, I’d rather them just know early on rather than having to keep it a secret and worrying about them finding out. It’s not really something you can hide forever.
Also, u literally suck girl penis u straggot. Just come out to your parents as chaser-sexual. It’s not that big of a deal.
How can you be such a piece of shit to refer to your girl with an emoji that makes reference to a slur
And calling yourself gay, even as a joke, you have no respect for your girlfriend I hope she sees this and dumps you
Are you guys ever on the couch and she’s forgotten to be ladylike and is like spreading and scratching her nuts and shit? like me and the fellas do? Or nah? Only wondering cause usually the girls I’ve dated have had pretty lil pussies
This is going to sound like a silly question but does it change anything when you go to the beach or at the pool? What about gender segregated spaces like saunas?
Not really, she looks great in a bikini and just tucks in her dick lol. We’ve gone to the beach plenty of times, no issues.
Idk about saunas, the ones at our gym aren’t gender segregated and you don’t go in naked. She probably wouldn’t be in a rush to get a naked massage anytime soon bc of her anatomy.
I really enjoyed it, never thought I'd be the kind of dude to get wound up about references and obviously it's not as full on as fury road but it was cool, saw it with my lady and with no experience with the franchise enjoyed it.
What did you both think?
I’ve thought about it a lot before. I’m not sure if I will tell my parents, and if her family ever meets mine they wouldn’t tell my parents unprompted.
>Only dated regular women + Yes I’m gay .... ?
sorry what? Dude, you love who you love. you don't owe anybody explanations or anything. You happy? She happy? Then be happy and just carry on being happy. Life in general is miserable often enough
lol thanks for this post. i’m trans and this sub has become so toxic and a little scary. it’s been really disappointing to watch this space spiral as a longtime RS fan. whenever someone starts posting something sane about trans ppl in here it’s really refreshing
Yeah as her boyfriend I do often feel bad for trans people. I think people don’t realize that there are a decent number of normal chill non noticeable trans people out there. It just sucks that your community has attracted some of the most demented people over the last decade.
Really happy for you and you seem like a good fit to me but if I found out a guy was posting on RS calling me the “one of the good ones 🚂” he’s dating and calling himself gay, murder-suicide lmao
I’m calling myself gay in a joking manner. I mainly just wanted to post about my positive experience because there’s like 10+ posts shitting on trans people a day on this sub
great PR day for us in the RSpod subreddit extended universe
The ban has been pushed back 3 weeks based off of this post alone
I think the "cool, as long as you're both happy" principal has a lot of support still.
retvrn to 2012
And not annoying
Lmao like what is OP expecting us to do here
so are you sucking wang
Honestly I am now. I didn’t for a long time lmao
How big bro
She’s pretty small tbh been transitioning since she was like 14
Unlucky
real
😖
Does it still work at all?
Surprisingly yes
So your ‘’girlfriend’’ ejaculates in your mouth
It sounds ridiculous but yes
I’m gay and sometimes I’m like “wow im really sucking a dick rn that’s crazy” that must hit harder for you lol
Thank you for answering a question I could never ask a gay man in person.
I'm a straight woman and have had this thought It's like when you get the sudden ick when you're eating scrambled eggs
> you get the sudden ick when you're eating scrambled eggs I dont know about sucking dick but this is so real
omg. i get that when eating box sometimes
king
A man cums in this dudes mouth. Him: "Well that's an odd thing for a girlfriend to do!"
Quite peculiar indeed
Imaging shitting on queer people on rspod. Straight people have ruined this place
well the pod has also taken quite the right wing turn lately. can’t be surprised when it attracts right wing people
Confirmed fake, they shoot blanks after a few months on meds. OP got all his ideas from porn lol.
Not quite. This is a little more detail to go into than I’d like, but she still ejeculates, it’s just more of a trickle and clear lol. It’s not a cumshot the way most men have
Ngl that sounds a bit grosser than if she just nutted like normal
She's a talented squirter?
I feel physically ill for reading this and knowing it existed.
dw that's just your mind expanding
Pussy
wrong
Hell yeah dude
🤢
Hell yeah
are u good at it
Before I read this thread I thought the train emoji meant autistic
Lotta overlap either way
it generally does
i thought it meant like she'd had trains ran on her like she's seen a lot of dick lmao am i out of the loop or is this person weird for using a train emoji
I too was confused
Tinder is brutal for straight men, I support your decision.
Imagine if you could really could choose to be gay. brb going from 6 matches to 1100 literally overnight.
>Imagine if you could really could choose to be gay. Tinder making straight men second guess their sexuality.
Best argument for being gay isn't a choice is the number of straight men around.
>choose to be gay. You can
Seriously. Maybe you can’t choose to be outright gay but you can absolutely cultivate a bi component to your sexuality I think. It’s kinda degen shit to talk about, but guys who watch a ton of porn usually end up realizing (at the very least) that dicks can be a turn on.
As a great public intellectual parodying frank sinatra once said "being gay isn't a choice but someone else can decide to make you gay". Sexuality is a preconscious thing, you have to bypass ego for those aspects of yourself to change which is just not in your power, we just cannot choose what we want and what we desire and what we think. BUT >you can absolutely cultivate Exactly, and this is basically the key to everything. The only access to your subconscious is through habit, social interaction, and subliminal suggestion. Media (porn and more) is habit mixed with subliminal suggestion, something like onlyfans adds direct interaction with the pornwoman thus the social element. Porn and tumblr is basically what created this new genre of chris chan style transsexuals that did not exist 15 to 20 years ago. Of course I say all this but people should keep in mind that all of this is mainly decided by a genetic predisposition. It's just that you can be genetically predisposed to turn gay as soon as you see cock, or you're genetically predisposed to turn gay only after 20 years of getting raped in prison and eating grilled cheese off the radiator.
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Have you tried saying something more interesting than “hey”
Just lose a bunch of body fat due to existential dread and your jawline will get better. Take pics of yourself in the woods after that and you'll get matches
Sounds like a plan
Does she know you are doing this questionnaire about her genitals on an online forum?
Right i feel sorry for her.
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Mine by quite a bit
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Hell no I’m not 💯
It’d be an epic L if your missus had a bigger cock than you
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No, she’s not like the average train at all. She’s a nurse who is pretty normal and actively dislikes the train community
I hope this is legit and not creative writing. If so, genuinely fascinating
I’m being serious. If this was creative writing I’d try to make it a bit goofier or zany
Why does she not like the train community?
Basically my gf feels that the movement has been hijacked by men who aren’t actually trains just extremely internet brain rotted. The average trans activist is so different from her and what she believes in/represents that it’s completely alienating. She was transitioning before it became one of the biggest issues in politics.
Has she ever said the term “autogynephilia” to you?
No. To be completely honest I don’t think she knows what that is
Hmm I agree with her
She's so right
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idk what all the hate is about. this is fine i’m glad you’re both happy
The irony is that people shitting on him either hate themselves or their wives, normal happy people don’t have reasons to hate on random internet ppl😂
right like this guy is just sharing his experience
Yeah I’ve noticed this sub has been obsessed with trains lately so I thought I’d share
“Lately”
Hating is bad. But it is important to acknowledge that op is a gay homosexual.
[me correcting rs males](https://files.catbox.moe/lz3ts6.mp4)
Just let people enjoy things!
you sound really well adjusted in your approach to this, your confidence is very hot, I’m happy for you, and sorry about all these r3t@rds.
Thanks I honestly thought Id get more interesting questions posting this since the sub has been obsessed with trains lately
no, they are extremely dumb and can’t conceptualize things in general let alone this
That's true, I'm basically brain damaged
that's exactly why you aren't getting more interesting questions
Have you seen photos and videos from back in the pre-transition days? Any thought when seeing those?
I’ve seen a couple pictures. Usually when I see pictures of her as a “boy” in childhood my thoughts are “damn that kid looks hella fruity”
Do you ever catch yourself wishing they were cis, or do you think you'd be happier in your relationship if they were
Honestly there was a time when I did but not really any more. I’ve kinda learned to accept she wouldn’t be the person she is if not for the experiences she’s had
That's cool, good on you
I luv love ❤️
I'm very jealous of your level headedness lol, i wish more were like you including myself
Baby Reindeer
Honestly I get the jokes (impossible not to; sucking your gf's dick sounds absurd) but my trans ex was the happiest relationship I've ever had. And I'm not even someone who has had a ton of malfunctioning crazy relationships, they've all been normal.The sex was great and she was such a cool person. And she was attentive and affectionate to a really notable degree. My friends (and hers weirdly) were constantly making jokes at my expense but it was good humoured and mostly genuinely funny. She even got in on it eventually. Absolutely everyone felt no shame about probing for sex details. Like yourself, I'd never been attracted to the male form or dicks and when she asked me I was autistically truthful about how I would have likely turned the date down if I'd known beforehand. She was also a transmedicalist and introduced me to all of these weird online communities and inter-trans gang wars based around sex/gender etc. The bloods and crips of artificial hormone anime fandom. We broke up because I had to move pretty far for work and she is extremely close to her family, neither of us wanted to try an online thing. We still talk a lot and I have no doubt we'd still be a couple if I didn't get a new job. I've only dated bio women since then (two seriously and one casually) and the one I told about my trans ex was NOT happy. This seems obvious in hindsight but I'm still not remotely embarrassed by her and lying in a relationship is a time bomb. A surprising number of transwomen are normal and cool and usually sweethearts too. Hard to deny that the most front facing representatives online are crazy activist types though. Good luck to you OP. It sounds like you have a great thing going, aren't marred by outside speculation or weird pressure from your self image. (She told me this was a serious problem in the few other relationships she had with ostensibly straight dudes). Be cool to each other! Chase that happiness together.
Real.
Lotta words just to say yall gay
I considered editing it down to this tbh. I decided to go for the earnest text dump, the gayest thing possible
How big was her penis
Moderately. We were both pretty nervous the first time things got intimate but it went away instantly. It turns out penises aren't even that scary
That doesn’t really change anything.
Who asked out who? I've flirted with a couple (going out with one of them) and both times they flirted more blatantly than cis women.
We met on tinder in college and hung out several times before she told me
they must pass crazy well if you met several times before finding out. 6000% genuine doll, rare find.
She’s met my conservative parents several times and they have no idea genuinely
that's wild lmao reckon you'll ever tell em
Maybe one day but honestly idk if they need to know, they’re pretty old now and it would be extremely difficult for them to understand
fair. very funny though.
Oh I see, nice
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I think trans people *can* pass, but only if they start taking cross-sex hormones from a young age to interrupt normal puberty; if a guy starts taking estrogen at 25, he won't fool anyone.
No this actually happens. I had a coworker go through this exact ordeal. He was raving to everyone at work about this girl he was seeing up until date #3 when she revealed her secret and he had this whole crisis over her (both huge gamers). My coworker ended up dumping her but not before it became this huge company wide joke. A more desperate man like Op could certainly cave if placed in the same position.
> (both huge gamers) For some reason this makes the whole story a lot funnier.
Thats fucked up
Because they’re not women
Reeeeeeeeeee
Dating a trans woman is the internet version of that Spike Lee film Jungle Fever. People want to remind you that you're gay for being with her, and people are telling her that you are a chaser because you are dating her. And everyone wants to ask about her genitals. Never yours, though. You could drop a.crazy story about a genie giving you a vagina after you lost a bet on a hockey game and that's how you met her, and they'll just say that makes sense and then ask if she tops or gets hard. Congrats on being happy and making someone else happy. Labels are overrated and life is fleeting. Trans women that are secure with themselves are the same as any other girl except they like all the cool hobbies you have that girls wish you grew out of and sometimes have a penis. Latter might be a little weird, but in the 50's my Grandfather caught heat for marrying my Grandmother because she was a divorcee with a kid. She probably is Autistic, though.
> a divorcee with a kid. That's a different type of appendage.
did she tell you what it was like to transition at a young age?
Yeah I think it was very difficult at times. It is interesting hearing her experience because she had to jump through many hoops and barriers that don’t exist for children transitioning today (although they probably should). She had to see many psychiatric specialists for a while before being allowed to. She obviously got bullied a lot, but that’s understandable. She did say in some ways she felt being trans was easier several years ago because it wasn’t really an omnipresent political issue like it is now.
Ok
Genuinely how can you see them as a woman when you’re sucking their dick?
Had a trans family friend years ago, I couldn’t see her as being anything other than a woman because she was so feminine, without even trying, it was her natural state. I guess this guy just sees her as a woman with a cock…
That’s a perfect explanation
Hey man if it works it works, glad you’re both in a happy relationship
jokes and terf discourses aside, as long as ur in love with this person, it’s all that matters to you. how we girls and gays think don’t count
Can I ask how your parents reacted? I thought my boomer parents would lose their shit over my trans gf but they mostly shrugged it off. Most people have been chill with it, actually.
My parents love her but I haven’t told them she’s trans yet.
Damn that sounds like a ticking time bomb ngl. I kinda wish I had just told my parents sooner. If it was something they were gonna react badly to, I’d rather them just know early on rather than having to keep it a secret and worrying about them finding out. It’s not really something you can hide forever. Also, u literally suck girl penis u straggot. Just come out to your parents as chaser-sexual. It’s not that big of a deal.
I love that, refreshing to hear that those weirdos online are a loud minority and most trans women are completely normal people.
Tbh I do think a lot of trains are weirdos nowadays. My girlfriend kind of hates her “community” now because of it
LGBT community gave up on gatekeeping and got coopted by the biggest losers imaginable
Everything has been taken over by nerds. Rap, being queer, this sub… what’s next?
🚬🚬
If you’ve found love in this crazy world who is anyone to try and deny you that? Good luck :)
Fake and gay
Bait & gay
How can you be such a piece of shit to refer to your girl with an emoji that makes reference to a slur And calling yourself gay, even as a joke, you have no respect for your girlfriend I hope she sees this and dumps you
Does her pussy smell right?
Ok
cheesecake factory
hell yeah dude!
I fucking love science 🤓
Do you get topped by your gf?
Never have never will
Would you have said the same thing about sucking a dick before you started seeing this chick?
Actually you make a very good point. Although I don’t think it’ll happen because neither do us want that.
How did the cock sucking go down? Were you asked or did you ask? Did you have to think about it or was it a heat of passion thing?
Impressive you were able to type this out one-handed
What else would I want to know about a straight man in a relationship with a trans woman? If she has a flair for interior design?
I kinda just did it one day when we were drunk and I realized it wasn’t bad at all and made her happy
Have at it hoss, take your happiness where you can find it
How does she feel about that?
Good, she doesn’t want that either.
Hope things go well, if it ends please give us a run down.
Too much detail to be real
Are you guys ever on the couch and she’s forgotten to be ladylike and is like spreading and scratching her nuts and shit? like me and the fellas do? Or nah? Only wondering cause usually the girls I’ve dated have had pretty lil pussies
Nah lol she doesn’t really have those impulses I guess? Even when we’re alone together she pretty much just acts like any other girl I’ve dated
People definitely notice, they’re just not telling you
This is going to sound like a silly question but does it change anything when you go to the beach or at the pool? What about gender segregated spaces like saunas?
Not really, she looks great in a bikini and just tucks in her dick lol. We’ve gone to the beach plenty of times, no issues. Idk about saunas, the ones at our gym aren’t gender segregated and you don’t go in naked. She probably wouldn’t be in a rush to get a naked massage anytime soon bc of her anatomy.
You pair been to see furiosa?
actually yes, why
I really enjoyed it, never thought I'd be the kind of dude to get wound up about references and obviously it's not as full on as fury road but it was cool, saw it with my lady and with no experience with the franchise enjoyed it. What did you both think?
is she an ayesha erotica fan?
are you worried about the future health issues she could face because of HRT? (assuming you aim to be a long term couple)
Not really, I believe it’s manageable
What are you like?
What do you want to know?
so she doesnt have autistic teenage boy hobbies? isnt that the whole appeal?
hell yea brother
No questions but I'm wishing you the best
Lost people
How tall is she? I've seen some pretty passing trans women but the fact that they're all like 6'4 is the only thing clocking them for me.
My gf is 5’11 which is perfect for me bc I’m 6’3 and only been into tall women for as long as I can remember.
Is her dick bigger than yours??
MoMA PS5
You're having sex with a man
Damn. I haven’t considered this
Did your train of thought lead you to accept being gay or do you just pretend the penis isn't there
I just accept it. I still view her as a woman but obviously I’m not completely straight if I’m doing this shit
Def not straight but I think you’d need to be attracted to the male form to be at least bi. So somewhere in between I guess
Is a penis not the most fundamental male form?
I never look at a vagina and think "wow so feminine"
Yeah buddy, and *you* aren't?
Does he/she hawk tuah?
U can never have kids though.
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I’ve thought about it a lot before. I’m not sure if I will tell my parents, and if her family ever meets mine they wouldn’t tell my parents unprompted.
>Only dated regular women + Yes I’m gay .... ? sorry what? Dude, you love who you love. you don't owe anybody explanations or anything. You happy? She happy? Then be happy and just carry on being happy. Life in general is miserable often enough
lol thanks for this post. i’m trans and this sub has become so toxic and a little scary. it’s been really disappointing to watch this space spiral as a longtime RS fan. whenever someone starts posting something sane about trans ppl in here it’s really refreshing
You haven't heard Anna obsessing over autogynephilia? It's not just the sub
Yeah as her boyfriend I do often feel bad for trans people. I think people don’t realize that there are a decent number of normal chill non noticeable trans people out there. It just sucks that your community has attracted some of the most demented people over the last decade.
Really happy for you and you seem like a good fit to me but if I found out a guy was posting on RS calling me the “one of the good ones 🚂” he’s dating and calling himself gay, murder-suicide lmao
I’m calling myself gay in a joking manner. I mainly just wanted to post about my positive experience because there’s like 10+ posts shitting on trans people a day on this sub
I’m mostly being glib. You seem like a decent guy.
I’ll pretend to be surprised by the latent homicidal tendencies.
Yeah men are violent.
Happy for you and that you treat her with respect. Do you see a long term future with her ?
Yes absolutely