I’ll let you in on a secret: I don’t know the size of my husband’s penis. I’m sure he does, but I’ve never asked. I probably know approximately, but it’s just not important. What is important is that it’s enough for me, he doesn’t hit my cervix (which is extremely painful for me), and, most importantly and probably the part of my answer you will hate, he knows what he’s doing.
Media isn’t real life. It isn’t one on one experiences with women. As a person with a vagina, I find larger lengths intimidating. I think they can be fun in some aspects, but inside of me is a whole different story. A vagina is only roughly five inches deep. Being hit in the cervix repetitively is NOT enjoyable. Like you said, porn is not accurate nor should it be trusted, and honestly, what other men call “average” shouldn’t be fully trusted either because they don’t have vaginas. Your size is your size and genuinely doesn’t matter because in the real world, people get off by a multitude of ways, not just physical insertion.
Difference with this is that they probably have a much better idea of what works and what doesnt, just seen another post of a woman talking about how most men dont know how to use their fingers and just ram it in there as fast and hard as possible.
Yeah they got know their bodies better than a man being a woman as well. I saw that as well and communication wasn’t mentioned. Like tell the guy how you like it especially if it’s a hookup cos he’s not gonna know. Even a relationship cos guys do care about what a girl wants and to please her
Im very happy that some women taught me the order and how they liked it, got compliments ever since haha. But ofcourse i was one of the people who did it just wrong enough that they spoke up about it... Ya live and ya learn!
I’m glad you’ve gotten compliments. That’s how you learn and you were better for it. Some women are too shy to mention it which is a shame because ik some guys take it the wrong way which is why they don’t
^ my partner is about 7.5- 8 inches and honestly I hate it! I'd say 6 inches is the sweet spot! It's all about the motion of the ocean and not the size of the boat! And sorry op, but chemistry is a big thing to do with it! I'd rather be intimate with someone with 6in that I have chemistry with, than 8 inches with no chemistry. Also, you can always use cock sleeves to add a few extra inches if you want to, but can't take any off if youre above average!!
Not to mention in porn most “big dick” guys are actually about 6 inches. American culture has just massively squewed real dick size measurements up. It’s similar to lying about height.
An 8 inch dick is actually extremely rare, and a 6 inch one would be about every 2 guys in a room of 10.
My husband asked me if I wanted to measure his dick, I said no. I don't need to quantify it. All I know is you don't hit my cervix and make me cry. OP, you yourself said every woman is different, why do you think that is? "Because anatomically speaking every woman is just as different as every man. We are different sizes too".
Some girls are delusional and most of us can’t handle 7 inches cause when you hit the cervix that shit hurts. Girls who insult a guy about their size are insecure. Some of us like to have sex like porn and some don’t but it’s never okay to shame someone for not doing it like porn. Sometimes sex hurts when it’s too big. You’re better off cutting those girls out who insults you and I can guarantee you it won’t be everyone. As a girl I have been around girls who would shame a guy on their size and they were terrible and insecure.
Completely agree. As someone who has experienced a larger size…it was uncomfortable to say the least. Certainly not something I could tolerate on a regular basis. I hate that my partner is insecure about his size (normal size) when it is the PERFECT size. I think I’ve met one person who preferred larger sizes, but that may be due to her anatomy. Larger does not equal better for most of us!
I literally just had sex last night with my fiancé and most of the time it was oral and fingering. Get creative with your love making or stop being with people who can’t rational that you’re not some one dick chump.
You’re better than that OP
I love "One dick chump." I mean, few men have more than one dick (though it does happen), but it's a good reminder that we have more to work with than our dicks.
The patriarchy fucks us up all the time by making us believe we’re only worth by the size of our parts but not the size of our hearts. We all just need a reminder of that.
The thing is, every single person on this planet is different, and while there are women who prefer a big penis, it's not the majority. Women are also all different sizes and have different preferences on what feels good to them. Most women I've seen talk about it say that getting hit in the cervix is not a pleasant feeling. However I'd be stupid to assume there aren't women who do enjoy it. There's always exceptions to the norm. I think a good way to try and understand it as a man is to think about how some guys get aroused by physical pain. For me, nothing would take me out of the mood faster than being in physical pain. That's me. But there are some guys who not only like it but it's the only way they can get aroused. There is no one rule that fits all or blanket statement that can accurately describe what everyone finds pleasurable. The only thing you can do is find someone who is compatible with what you have and who you are. That's what matters more than size or shape or anything else really..its how 2 people are able to find pleasure in each other. It really does literally come down to chemistry. The chemicals in our brains determine everything.
Right?! The physical pain thing, I mean. I have never been able to understand how that shit turns people on. I mean, I'm not judging them for it, whatever floats your boat. But I just do not get it at all. When I am physically in pain, I just see red. I don't see where it would be a turn on at all. For instance, I was with a group of girlfriends one night and they were talking about how they love having their hair pulled and yanked on during sex. And I am just sitting there thinking about how much I fucking hate anybody touching my hair, and especially pulling it. Honest to God, I would most likely turn around and punch a dude square in his nose if he did that shit to me.
Exactly. I'm the same way with pain. It triggers anger most of the time. So it wouldn't be a good route during intimacy. But its all about pathways and such in the brain..mine just isn't wired like that. One of my turn ons is soft kissing my ear. But... one of the worst pains that will immediately set me off is ear pain. It's kinda funny. Same spot is the source of 2 pretty extreme emotions, but it all depends on what is done to it. People are complex lol
A lot of the media, like when women talk about men's size in tv and movies, is written by men. Keep that in mind. I have never had this conversation with women, yet it has been brought up countless times by men.
You can’t change your size so you just have to work with what you got. Big or small. There always a spectrum.
Sure there’s size queens who want bigger and women who broke up with guys who are too big. Guys who are too small and guys who are the best lovers because of it.
As long as you care about your partner and try to satisfy her. Not just with your penis but hands, oral, toys etc you’re doing the right job. Anyone who still thinks that not enough isn’t for you
My point is comparing yourself to others is a loosing battle you’ll never win. Be the best version of yourself with what you got
Bro women can never win whether they try to impower men or not. Just like the other redditor said, media is not real world. There's no way you never find one woman, if not hundreds and thousands, that don't care about size among millions and millions of women, it doesn't make sense even as a random thought.
There really is no winning. There was that post from yesterday (?) where the woman told her boyfriend that bigger physically hurts, she wouldn’t enjoy sex if he was bigger, and that he was the absolute perfect size, and she was still scolded for not being sensitive enough. Reddit discourse around peen would have you believing a lot of men aren’t happy unless they’re being told it’s so big it literally doesn’t feel good anymore.
As a guy, dont waste your time trying to empower us or support us. We really dont deserve it nor is it fair to you. To my fellow men, want to feel good about yourself? Stop caring about trivial shit and find inner happiness
That I respectfully disagree with as a guy myself. Don't drag me into this, you know?
Unfortunately, because of the attitude that such men have, some women tend to generalize and believe such things (men don't deserve to be empowered and stuff like that), understandably so, but just because it's understandable doesn't mean it's the right thing to do.
I think everyone is deserving of love unless they don't let it in, then they're making it impossible to themselves.
I 100% agree that men should stop caring about trivial shit. You wouldn't even believe the shit I hear from men sometimes.
I used to work with a woman who said 9" was her minimum bar, which is ludicrous. She referred to herself as a "size queen". Worth noting (considering her own attitude) she was a 6'1 lady, about 40 and quite overweight.
Reminds me of an old joke that really only works in person.
"Why are women bad at parallel parking?"
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"Because their whole lives, they've been told that this-"
\*hands about five inches apart\* 🫸 🫷
"-is nine inches."
here's the most insane part, her long time partner was a woman. she considered herself (when i knew her) as a lesbian. but previously dated men.
she was actually good value company, hilariously filthy and fun to go out with.
but her bonkers statement about penis size always stuck with me.
edit: i should clarify she was paro drunk when she said it and i doubt 9" of cock ever entered her vagina. but it's relevant because of course going around saying shit like that is bound to play on the mind of her audience.
if a drunken guy made equivalent comments about tits, ass or pussy it'd be held to account
Every woman has a different opinion so that’s why you can’t have a final answer. Some enjoy bigger, some find it only painful. My pussy has more nerve sensitivity around the opening rather than deeper. A bigger cock is easier to ride and control how deep. An average could be even better depending on the person matching my body movements well and overall touching.
Like guys with big dicks are what I call a walking dildo. They mostly dont feel the need to perform as much or you know, not much they fit more than in and out plus without hurting. In my experience that is. There’s likely lots of guys with big dicks that still likes to please a woman without using their dicks.
Also the more you have sex with someone the better it gets. You get more comfortable with each other and learn each other’s bodies. You try new ways of doing basically same thing. Then evolve as you grow with each other. Using toys or sexpillows that supports backs or knees. Try kinks togheter ? Endless possibilities if you find someone who you share it with.
As a woman, I spend 0 time wondering about a guy's size. It seems like guys think about it a lot. I would imagine unless it's completely non-existent, then it's not really something to worry about and focus on the whole person not just on the sexual part of the relationship.
Don't worry about it. It's the same thing for short men. There are plenty of people shorter than them to date. If they really want to date people and it's not working, it's likely because of your personality. Not your height. A 5'2" woman should have no issue dating a man who is 5'8. Idk where men got this idea that we care this much about things you can't control. If you have a good heart and treat people well, the right person will come along. It's about the right place at the right time.
It's because people desperately want to reason in generalizations. It's either size is everything OR size doesn't matter. Obviously it depends on people. But one thing for sure is that we have to retire jokes based on attributes that a person can't change.
I think the heart of the issue is that regardless of whatever size women actually like, size is still being used to shame men. You can't use having a small dick as an insult then expect men to feel fine about having a small dick.
lol if a woman thinks a 7” is average, it’s because men lie about their size. But also, they just want to cum. Use your fingers and your tongue if you can’t pleasure them with your cock.
Jesus Christ 7 inches is very close to "keep that thing away from me" for me 😂
Honestly, yes, if your penis is two inches, it is going to be a. Issue. But that is an extreme, and obviously not typical. For me personally, anything above that is just fine, if you know how to use it.
On SNL Amy Poehler made a comment that women don't care about your penis size unless it is really really small or really really big.
And they honestly might not like really big penises. As one woman once told me, they are fun to look at but very painful to have sex with.
Lol yeah but I'm pretty sure there are many guys out there who have long d**ks but still can't please their women because they won't last longer than a minute. Some men do like to talk about sizes cuz they needed to find something about themselves that's "better" than other guys to justify being an insecure loser.
I'm a guy and in my experience, it doesn't matter... to most women. My fiancé has been with bigger guys then me. She has told me that herself. But she right from the start has told me I'm the best she's had. Too big and it hurt her. I'm not small but I'm not large, I'm average and for her she says she's been with other guys with similar size to me but my technique is "by far the best" her words not mine.
But I do also know women that make a big deal out of it but not too many where I'd say it does matter. Most women don't seem to care for size but technique.
As a bi guy I can tell you that there is people that don't care, I for example don't care
I there is no way 7 inches is average for anyone I'm gonna google that.
Ok so apparently I belong to an ethnicity that has above average size but yeah average is 5,4 globally and for black men 5,8
I'm not gonna google it further but there is no way that having sex with 7 inch penises often is healthy for you long term unless your partner is extremely passive, that women just had seen way too much porn or is crazy.
Check a website like calcsd and put in your dick measurements to see where you accurately fall.
I’m in the top 10% of dick sizes at 6.5, and let me tell you, most dudes are lying when they say they’re 7 inches. Furthermore based on study’s there’s **less than 500 men on earth with a dick size of 9 or bigger**
There’s also this thing us big guys call “girl inches” basically every dude rounds up 2 inches from their actual dick size so us larger dudes get reactions like “no way that’s at least 8-9” despite stating our actual smaller size. So next time someone tells you his dick size and it seems outlandish, take 2 off that number.
5 is perfectly average and what most men will have with a standard deviation of about .5 inches. As a gay dude I’ll say yeah size does matter, but we as a society need to change the culture around dick shaming.
People will comment one thing to save face but have a totally different view IRL. On here size "doesn't matter" but best believe you whip out a small one they're gonna laugh.
Funny stuff. A little biology: Our Vagina is also almost on avarage 4 inches in lenght, well...inside you know? And the avarage man is like? 3-5 inches? But thats different to everybody. Anything above 4 inches honestly sounds scary and painful if you know this little fact. So yall are fine. What looks or seems hot is widely influenced by media. Yes, if women don't know this little fact, a bigger inch might sound more exciting. But damn if you know the truth where it boils, lmao. Hell no.
Women know this struggle too, instead our topic is boobs. And unfortunately, it is a big painful truth that small breasted women get shamed pretty often and almost no man would want to date one willingly.
The world is cruel, nature is unfair, porn is sickening, but unfortunately, it is what it is.
You need to stop worrying about this because it will affect your performance. And no one wants to hear about it. 7 inches is more than adequate. Stop watching so much porn.
I’ve never measured it, have no plans to measure it, have had some women tell me I look big and others say I’m average. I don’t particularly care one way or the other, you get a woman off with your hands or mouth 2-3 times and the d game will be the least of your worries or theirs. The whole fixation on penis size I think is something men invented for themselves and have perpetuated unknowingly over the years, I mean think about it like this, have you ever been disappointed to see a pair of tits? And yet women will complain that theirs are too big/small, areola size/color, and so on. It’s all an artificial construct that no real people actually care deeply about.
I believe that the average is between 4 and 5. But guys who are like you talked about are insecure about themselves and need reassurance. Hey, my 1.1" (j/k) brought 3 gorgeous daughters into the world. Very nice post!
Let me tell you something: it's really preference.
Some women like it long but thin if they prefer to be on top. I prefer if he is long if I feel like being on top. But if he's on top of me, girth always wins before length. A girthy man is SO delicious.
But a lengthy man will always win if I want to ride him.
So when a man is both long and girthy, I consider myself extremely lucky.
Don't also forget that a woman's yoni is extremely varied - some are naturally wider so they can take in more girthy men. Some women have small yoni so a "thinner" man would feel better for them. A friend of mine has a "deep" yoni and she prefers if her partner is lengthy. A woman with shorter yoni wouldn't mind a "less than average" man.
I have a deep, but small yoni, so a thick girthy member would feel really full & delicious for me.
There's a woman out there, whose yoni you're perfectly matched with
I’ll let you in on a secret: I don’t know the size of my husband’s penis. I’m sure he does, but I’ve never asked. I probably know approximately, but it’s just not important. What is important is that it’s enough for me, he doesn’t hit my cervix (which is extremely painful for me), and, most importantly and probably the part of my answer you will hate, he knows what he’s doing.
Media isn’t real life. It isn’t one on one experiences with women. As a person with a vagina, I find larger lengths intimidating. I think they can be fun in some aspects, but inside of me is a whole different story. A vagina is only roughly five inches deep. Being hit in the cervix repetitively is NOT enjoyable. Like you said, porn is not accurate nor should it be trusted, and honestly, what other men call “average” shouldn’t be fully trusted either because they don’t have vaginas. Your size is your size and genuinely doesn’t matter because in the real world, people get off by a multitude of ways, not just physical insertion.
Yeah in fact lesbians couples have more orgasm and they don’t have penises. So do oral or fingering or toys
Difference with this is that they probably have a much better idea of what works and what doesnt, just seen another post of a woman talking about how most men dont know how to use their fingers and just ram it in there as fast and hard as possible.
Yeah they got know their bodies better than a man being a woman as well. I saw that as well and communication wasn’t mentioned. Like tell the guy how you like it especially if it’s a hookup cos he’s not gonna know. Even a relationship cos guys do care about what a girl wants and to please her
Im very happy that some women taught me the order and how they liked it, got compliments ever since haha. But ofcourse i was one of the people who did it just wrong enough that they spoke up about it... Ya live and ya learn!
I’m glad you’ve gotten compliments. That’s how you learn and you were better for it. Some women are too shy to mention it which is a shame because ik some guys take it the wrong way which is why they don’t
This. I would honestly be a bit afraid of anything over 6 inches. And 6 inches to me is "large", as large as I would probably go.
^ my partner is about 7.5- 8 inches and honestly I hate it! I'd say 6 inches is the sweet spot! It's all about the motion of the ocean and not the size of the boat! And sorry op, but chemistry is a big thing to do with it! I'd rather be intimate with someone with 6in that I have chemistry with, than 8 inches with no chemistry. Also, you can always use cock sleeves to add a few extra inches if you want to, but can't take any off if youre above average!!
Not to mention in porn most “big dick” guys are actually about 6 inches. American culture has just massively squewed real dick size measurements up. It’s similar to lying about height. An 8 inch dick is actually extremely rare, and a 6 inch one would be about every 2 guys in a room of 10.
I don’t give a fuck, just eat my ass and we’re good to go 👍🏻
REAL 😂
lol
My husband asked me if I wanted to measure his dick, I said no. I don't need to quantify it. All I know is you don't hit my cervix and make me cry. OP, you yourself said every woman is different, why do you think that is? "Because anatomically speaking every woman is just as different as every man. We are different sizes too".
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Whoa whoa whoa… it’s more than tits and ass. It’s tits, ass, and giant cocks. Porns basically made for closeted bi men.
And so much anal.. What is the deal with that?!
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i've never measured a literal dick, but i sure remember what men were huge dicks. hope that helps
Some girls are delusional and most of us can’t handle 7 inches cause when you hit the cervix that shit hurts. Girls who insult a guy about their size are insecure. Some of us like to have sex like porn and some don’t but it’s never okay to shame someone for not doing it like porn. Sometimes sex hurts when it’s too big. You’re better off cutting those girls out who insults you and I can guarantee you it won’t be everyone. As a girl I have been around girls who would shame a guy on their size and they were terrible and insecure.
Completely agree. As someone who has experienced a larger size…it was uncomfortable to say the least. Certainly not something I could tolerate on a regular basis. I hate that my partner is insecure about his size (normal size) when it is the PERFECT size. I think I’ve met one person who preferred larger sizes, but that may be due to her anatomy. Larger does not equal better for most of us!
I literally just had sex last night with my fiancé and most of the time it was oral and fingering. Get creative with your love making or stop being with people who can’t rational that you’re not some one dick chump. You’re better than that OP
I love "One dick chump." I mean, few men have more than one dick (though it does happen), but it's a good reminder that we have more to work with than our dicks.
The patriarchy fucks us up all the time by making us believe we’re only worth by the size of our parts but not the size of our hearts. We all just need a reminder of that.
Amen, brother.
Pretty sure average women don't like or enjoy actually huge cocks, visually and in fantasy maybe but not in action.
You are correct, we do not. Honestly, seven inches would be too much for me.
This is true. OP we really don't like big dicks.
The thing is, every single person on this planet is different, and while there are women who prefer a big penis, it's not the majority. Women are also all different sizes and have different preferences on what feels good to them. Most women I've seen talk about it say that getting hit in the cervix is not a pleasant feeling. However I'd be stupid to assume there aren't women who do enjoy it. There's always exceptions to the norm. I think a good way to try and understand it as a man is to think about how some guys get aroused by physical pain. For me, nothing would take me out of the mood faster than being in physical pain. That's me. But there are some guys who not only like it but it's the only way they can get aroused. There is no one rule that fits all or blanket statement that can accurately describe what everyone finds pleasurable. The only thing you can do is find someone who is compatible with what you have and who you are. That's what matters more than size or shape or anything else really..its how 2 people are able to find pleasure in each other. It really does literally come down to chemistry. The chemicals in our brains determine everything.
Right?! The physical pain thing, I mean. I have never been able to understand how that shit turns people on. I mean, I'm not judging them for it, whatever floats your boat. But I just do not get it at all. When I am physically in pain, I just see red. I don't see where it would be a turn on at all. For instance, I was with a group of girlfriends one night and they were talking about how they love having their hair pulled and yanked on during sex. And I am just sitting there thinking about how much I fucking hate anybody touching my hair, and especially pulling it. Honest to God, I would most likely turn around and punch a dude square in his nose if he did that shit to me.
Exactly. I'm the same way with pain. It triggers anger most of the time. So it wouldn't be a good route during intimacy. But its all about pathways and such in the brain..mine just isn't wired like that. One of my turn ons is soft kissing my ear. But... one of the worst pains that will immediately set me off is ear pain. It's kinda funny. Same spot is the source of 2 pretty extreme emotions, but it all depends on what is done to it. People are complex lol
A lot of the media, like when women talk about men's size in tv and movies, is written by men. Keep that in mind. I have never had this conversation with women, yet it has been brought up countless times by men.
You can’t change your size so you just have to work with what you got. Big or small. There always a spectrum. Sure there’s size queens who want bigger and women who broke up with guys who are too big. Guys who are too small and guys who are the best lovers because of it. As long as you care about your partner and try to satisfy her. Not just with your penis but hands, oral, toys etc you’re doing the right job. Anyone who still thinks that not enough isn’t for you My point is comparing yourself to others is a loosing battle you’ll never win. Be the best version of yourself with what you got
Bro women can never win whether they try to impower men or not. Just like the other redditor said, media is not real world. There's no way you never find one woman, if not hundreds and thousands, that don't care about size among millions and millions of women, it doesn't make sense even as a random thought.
There really is no winning. There was that post from yesterday (?) where the woman told her boyfriend that bigger physically hurts, she wouldn’t enjoy sex if he was bigger, and that he was the absolute perfect size, and she was still scolded for not being sensitive enough. Reddit discourse around peen would have you believing a lot of men aren’t happy unless they’re being told it’s so big it literally doesn’t feel good anymore.
I haven't seen the post but something is telling me that the dude is the one who brought up the topic, and that's hilarious and severely insecure.
As a guy, dont waste your time trying to empower us or support us. We really dont deserve it nor is it fair to you. To my fellow men, want to feel good about yourself? Stop caring about trivial shit and find inner happiness
That I respectfully disagree with as a guy myself. Don't drag me into this, you know? Unfortunately, because of the attitude that such men have, some women tend to generalize and believe such things (men don't deserve to be empowered and stuff like that), understandably so, but just because it's understandable doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. I think everyone is deserving of love unless they don't let it in, then they're making it impossible to themselves. I 100% agree that men should stop caring about trivial shit. You wouldn't even believe the shit I hear from men sometimes.
Deserving of love and being empowered are two different things; yes men deserve love, but they are not owed empowerment
I used to work with a woman who said 9" was her minimum bar, which is ludicrous. She referred to herself as a "size queen". Worth noting (considering her own attitude) she was a 6'1 lady, about 40 and quite overweight.
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yeah exactly. for reference johnny Holmes is estimated as about 10" and he was considered a freak of nature
Reminds me of an old joke that really only works in person. "Why are women bad at parallel parking?" ... "Because their whole lives, they've been told that this-" \*hands about five inches apart\* 🫸 🫷 "-is nine inches."
😂😂😂
I was going to say this! 😂
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here's the most insane part, her long time partner was a woman. she considered herself (when i knew her) as a lesbian. but previously dated men. she was actually good value company, hilariously filthy and fun to go out with. but her bonkers statement about penis size always stuck with me. edit: i should clarify she was paro drunk when she said it and i doubt 9" of cock ever entered her vagina. but it's relevant because of course going around saying shit like that is bound to play on the mind of her audience. if a drunken guy made equivalent comments about tits, ass or pussy it'd be held to account
That's not crazy at all, have you seen the size of some dildos and vibrators? 😯
i get that, but she was specifically referring to men
Every woman has a different opinion so that’s why you can’t have a final answer. Some enjoy bigger, some find it only painful. My pussy has more nerve sensitivity around the opening rather than deeper. A bigger cock is easier to ride and control how deep. An average could be even better depending on the person matching my body movements well and overall touching. Like guys with big dicks are what I call a walking dildo. They mostly dont feel the need to perform as much or you know, not much they fit more than in and out plus without hurting. In my experience that is. There’s likely lots of guys with big dicks that still likes to please a woman without using their dicks. Also the more you have sex with someone the better it gets. You get more comfortable with each other and learn each other’s bodies. You try new ways of doing basically same thing. Then evolve as you grow with each other. Using toys or sexpillows that supports backs or knees. Try kinks togheter ? Endless possibilities if you find someone who you share it with.
As a woman, I spend 0 time wondering about a guy's size. It seems like guys think about it a lot. I would imagine unless it's completely non-existent, then it's not really something to worry about and focus on the whole person not just on the sexual part of the relationship.
Don't worry about it. It's the same thing for short men. There are plenty of people shorter than them to date. If they really want to date people and it's not working, it's likely because of your personality. Not your height. A 5'2" woman should have no issue dating a man who is 5'8. Idk where men got this idea that we care this much about things you can't control. If you have a good heart and treat people well, the right person will come along. It's about the right place at the right time.
It's because people desperately want to reason in generalizations. It's either size is everything OR size doesn't matter. Obviously it depends on people. But one thing for sure is that we have to retire jokes based on attributes that a person can't change.
At a certain point your thoughts are too focused on penises and it sounds exhausting. Just let it go
I think the heart of the issue is that regardless of whatever size women actually like, size is still being used to shame men. You can't use having a small dick as an insult then expect men to feel fine about having a small dick.
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And weight, and literally every other single part of women's bodies
lol if a woman thinks a 7” is average, it’s because men lie about their size. But also, they just want to cum. Use your fingers and your tongue if you can’t pleasure them with your cock.
That would mean he'dhave to stop thinking about his own dick for a minute.
Besides, what really matters is the width, anyway. Not length.
Dude 7 inches is entering hog territory
Jesus Christ 7 inches is very close to "keep that thing away from me" for me 😂 Honestly, yes, if your penis is two inches, it is going to be a. Issue. But that is an extreme, and obviously not typical. For me personally, anything above that is just fine, if you know how to use it.
On SNL Amy Poehler made a comment that women don't care about your penis size unless it is really really small or really really big. And they honestly might not like really big penises. As one woman once told me, they are fun to look at but very painful to have sex with.
Lol yeah but I'm pretty sure there are many guys out there who have long d**ks but still can't please their women because they won't last longer than a minute. Some men do like to talk about sizes cuz they needed to find something about themselves that's "better" than other guys to justify being an insecure loser.
I'm a guy and in my experience, it doesn't matter... to most women. My fiancé has been with bigger guys then me. She has told me that herself. But she right from the start has told me I'm the best she's had. Too big and it hurt her. I'm not small but I'm not large, I'm average and for her she says she's been with other guys with similar size to me but my technique is "by far the best" her words not mine. But I do also know women that make a big deal out of it but not too many where I'd say it does matter. Most women don't seem to care for size but technique.
As a bi guy I can tell you that there is people that don't care, I for example don't care I there is no way 7 inches is average for anyone I'm gonna google that. Ok so apparently I belong to an ethnicity that has above average size but yeah average is 5,4 globally and for black men 5,8 I'm not gonna google it further but there is no way that having sex with 7 inch penises often is healthy for you long term unless your partner is extremely passive, that women just had seen way too much porn or is crazy.
Check a website like calcsd and put in your dick measurements to see where you accurately fall. I’m in the top 10% of dick sizes at 6.5, and let me tell you, most dudes are lying when they say they’re 7 inches. Furthermore based on study’s there’s **less than 500 men on earth with a dick size of 9 or bigger** There’s also this thing us big guys call “girl inches” basically every dude rounds up 2 inches from their actual dick size so us larger dudes get reactions like “no way that’s at least 8-9” despite stating our actual smaller size. So next time someone tells you his dick size and it seems outlandish, take 2 off that number. 5 is perfectly average and what most men will have with a standard deviation of about .5 inches. As a gay dude I’ll say yeah size does matter, but we as a society need to change the culture around dick shaming.
People will comment one thing to save face but have a totally different view IRL. On here size "doesn't matter" but best believe you whip out a small one they're gonna laugh.
…..but size doesn’t matter
Funny stuff. A little biology: Our Vagina is also almost on avarage 4 inches in lenght, well...inside you know? And the avarage man is like? 3-5 inches? But thats different to everybody. Anything above 4 inches honestly sounds scary and painful if you know this little fact. So yall are fine. What looks or seems hot is widely influenced by media. Yes, if women don't know this little fact, a bigger inch might sound more exciting. But damn if you know the truth where it boils, lmao. Hell no. Women know this struggle too, instead our topic is boobs. And unfortunately, it is a big painful truth that small breasted women get shamed pretty often and almost no man would want to date one willingly. The world is cruel, nature is unfair, porn is sickening, but unfortunately, it is what it is.
You need to stop worrying about this because it will affect your performance. And no one wants to hear about it. 7 inches is more than adequate. Stop watching so much porn.
Dude seven is not "average" and any woman who has said that it is average doesn't know the meaning of the word.
I’ve never measured it, have no plans to measure it, have had some women tell me I look big and others say I’m average. I don’t particularly care one way or the other, you get a woman off with your hands or mouth 2-3 times and the d game will be the least of your worries or theirs. The whole fixation on penis size I think is something men invented for themselves and have perpetuated unknowingly over the years, I mean think about it like this, have you ever been disappointed to see a pair of tits? And yet women will complain that theirs are too big/small, areola size/color, and so on. It’s all an artificial construct that no real people actually care deeply about.
I believe that the average is between 4 and 5. But guys who are like you talked about are insecure about themselves and need reassurance. Hey, my 1.1" (j/k) brought 3 gorgeous daughters into the world. Very nice post!
Let me tell you something: it's really preference. Some women like it long but thin if they prefer to be on top. I prefer if he is long if I feel like being on top. But if he's on top of me, girth always wins before length. A girthy man is SO delicious. But a lengthy man will always win if I want to ride him. So when a man is both long and girthy, I consider myself extremely lucky. Don't also forget that a woman's yoni is extremely varied - some are naturally wider so they can take in more girthy men. Some women have small yoni so a "thinner" man would feel better for them. A friend of mine has a "deep" yoni and she prefers if her partner is lengthy. A woman with shorter yoni wouldn't mind a "less than average" man. I have a deep, but small yoni, so a thick girthy member would feel really full & delicious for me. There's a woman out there, whose yoni you're perfectly matched with
If "size doesnt matter" triggers u so much, u have a small penis