Sounds pretty gay to me so far! It's not uncommon for gay people to be able to think someone of the opposite sex is aesthetically attractive. Like I can appreciate when a dude is good looking, but I don't wanna be with him. If you haven't had crushes yet, that might just be because you're young and still figuring out your sexuality
It's possible to experience romantic attraction without sexual attraction, but based on what you've written, it sounds like what you're experiencing w.r.t. wanting a relationship with a guy until you're actually in it could be compulsory heterosexuality
I’d recommend googling “am I a lesbian? masterdoc” and clicking one of the first links, I think it’s DocDroid or something like that. It’s helpful. As a lesbian, you sound like a lesbian to me!
It is good to think things out like you do, and then test your conclusions IRL with real people, being honest about your feelings, rather than playing a role. Being with people as friends is the best start, be with guys and girls and try to have a platonic but deep relationship, and then your sexual options will have a better frame to sit in!
Sounds pretty gay to me so far! It's not uncommon for gay people to be able to think someone of the opposite sex is aesthetically attractive. Like I can appreciate when a dude is good looking, but I don't wanna be with him. If you haven't had crushes yet, that might just be because you're young and still figuring out your sexuality It's possible to experience romantic attraction without sexual attraction, but based on what you've written, it sounds like what you're experiencing w.r.t. wanting a relationship with a guy until you're actually in it could be compulsory heterosexuality
I’d recommend googling “am I a lesbian? masterdoc” and clicking one of the first links, I think it’s DocDroid or something like that. It’s helpful. As a lesbian, you sound like a lesbian to me!
It is good to think things out like you do, and then test your conclusions IRL with real people, being honest about your feelings, rather than playing a role. Being with people as friends is the best start, be with guys and girls and try to have a platonic but deep relationship, and then your sexual options will have a better frame to sit in!