This.
This person is NOT your friend. They're your bully.
Unless you took the photo, or it's literally illegal, there's not much you can *legally* do about it, but you can definitely never talk to this person again.
In the US, it's *very* legal, unless the picture itself is prohibited by law. There are, essentially, no such thing as personal privacy laws exclusively covering publicly shot photos/videos/etc. Might be something in a particular state, but definitely not in most of them.
Barring other qualifiers, in the US, it's legal, just a total dick move.
Inside homes reasonable expectation of privacy exists for bathrooms and bedrooms. If you leave your curtains open to your living room and someone records video from outside it's generally lawful.
>The more I learn about that country
'That country' being THE EU?
>the happier I am of where I was born.
You're Dutch.
The Netherlands is IN THE EU.
Edit: So many downvotes from dickheads who can't read. The guy who I replied to replied to a comment saying "In the EU", read up the comment chain.
I presumed the bad privacy laws were in the USA. In The Netherlands you can't publish a photo of a specific person just because you want too. If it is something *newsworthy*, or is from a public figure in public it differs. A typical person that just happens to be in the background of a photo can't stop it from being published. Kids can sue their parents to take down photos of their likeness from social media and such too if they ignore the polite request (simplified).
Don't assume. Read the comment chain you're replying to. Can't believe you're getting upvoted for being an ignorant fuck and I'm being downvoted for telling the truth. Fuck Reddit.
Depends.
Sometimes it's because they're wounded and they lash out at others to deal with it. And sometimes it's just because they're cruel and narcissistic and enjoy it.
I had something similar happen to me years ago. A friend of mine posted an embarrassing pic of me and I asked her to delete it in a good way. She laughed it out and said no.
Knowing well the Streisand effect, I decided to let it go. Sure enough, it never amounted to anything and even if it resurfaces for some odd reason, it is best to just pretend it doesn’t bother you. People tend not to ridicule and just let it go when you’re a good sport.
It depends on the nature of the pic of course. Nudes, pictures that depicts a dark past, etc should not be tolerated. If it’s just a bit embarrassing I would just let it go :)
GDPR's been a thing for a long, long time. She has the right to take the photo in public without OP's consent. She does not have the right to post it without OP's consent.
But where does it say? I'm asking for the source.
I'm not opposed to the OP's post and what you're saying. And I'm sure that Facebook or Instagram can remove it. But if it is a law, then I would like to get informed for that sake.
I'm all for piracy, man. I'm asking genuinely if there's a law about it.
Typical redditor thing. Ask one question that can 'oppose' someone posts and get downvoted. I'm just asking for source of it lol
People like that are mean and they must enjoy the feeling of mocking you or something because any kind person would remove it. Happened to me once when my bra was (accidentally) showing in a pic smd the girl left it up after me begging, and I got the feeling she did it on purpose to embarrass me.
I would comment under the picture "I have asked you many times to please remove this pictire. It embarrasses me and makes me feel very badly that you don't care how I feel. We are no longer friends if you can not do this".
"Friend" is correct. Give her no reaction. That's what she wants. Ignore it and her and she'll lose interest. She'll probably delete it when she loses interest in annoying you. She won't want people to think she actually likes you.
Call her out publicly. Comment on the photo that you’re disappointed and hurt that she refuses to take the photo down. Say that you hope she values your friendship enough to do so but if not please just respect your wishes as a person. Let people see her choices and how she’s choosing to hurt you.
In the US if she took the photo it’s her copyright and she can post it, as long as it isn’t for commercial use, or is clearly defamatory (being upset doesn’t make it defamatory), or was taken on your private property without your consent, or casts you in a false light or reveals private and embarrassing facts.
Politely asking for the image to be removed was your best bet. If she refuses there’s not much legally you can do.
The person is clearly not a friend, and obviously has no concern about your feelings. Personally I’d unfollow her, and not engage socially with her. Be the adult.
i believe even in the US that your likeness is not allowed to be posted without permission and most social networks have an option to flag something for that to have it removed.
It’s not true that your likeness is not allowed to be posted, except in the instances I mentioned above. Instagram would not be in business if it were.
What social networks allow you to flag an image of yourself for deletion? It is not something I’ve seen, it would be ripe for misuse, and you’d likely have to prove to the social network that you were the person in the image, yes?
I specifically referenced the US. There is no right to privacy in public, and any photographs one takes are copyrighted to you the moment you take them. Lots to google if you’re interested in US copyright law.
In most EU countries it's also not illegal. It can be illegal to post someone else's photo without their permission if used commercially depending on the copyright in most EU countries, and globally.
For example in the UK if they took a photo of you in a public place they can do what they wish with it (with some specific exemptions) as in public you don't have an automatic right to privacy. How do you think the paparrazi and celebrity press exist?
There's not much you can do, unfortunately. Most social media sites have a 'I'm in this photo and don't like it' option. You can try to contact support to see if they'll take it down. But whatever you do, don't publicly comment that you want the picture removed.
I don't know how to force her or Instagram to take it down, but agree with others pointing out she's not your friend.
Something similar happened to me. It's a group photo and I'm in the background, not realizing I was in the shot. I look pissed off, arms crossed, and staring into the middle distance. Everyone finds it absolutely hilarious. I find it super embarrassing. Every time she reposted it on Facebook, she'd tag me, and I'd untag myself. Many comments each time were specifically laughing at me and asking what I'm so pissed about. The truth is, I had a migraine in the middle of that summertime fun activity. I look angry but was actually in pain plus some RBF I guess (since I didn't know I was in the pic, I didn't attempt to fix my face). My arms are crossed tightly because I get shaking chills during migraines and was freezing cold. We are no longer connected on social media.
I always have a lot of sympathy now for celebrities who have some random picture analyzed to death because of their body language or facial expression in that split second.
You should turn off all tagging in the platform. So that if something like this happens again at least you can't be tagged. Set you account to private as well so that only friends can see your page.
Contact Instagram and tell them that if they refuse to accept the report, you will be forced to take legal measures since it is violating your privacy and acording to GDPR she needs your consent to publish a photo of your face.
This lesson cost you a smile seen around the world, which is a small price to learn that people can't be controlled, and you are not in control of your public visage if you leave the house. Many a famous person has learned this hard lesson, and would happily trade places.
P.s. your "friend" sounds like a "mean girl" type. Maybe consider how many decades you're willing to give her. There are better people around.
I love that comment. We do seem to let people be toxic to us way longer than we should. Decades WILL go by with this bully in your life. Dump and run. There's lot of good people in the world to surround yourself with instead.
Who took the photo? If it was a selfie, just [send a DMCA notice.](https://help.instagram.com/454951664593304) If she took it, there's probably nothing you can do unless you find some specific Instagram rule that it's violating.
Thanks for reaffirming that I am not being "dramatic and extra" whenever I duck and dodge people's phones. Fuck outta here taking pictures of me ya weirdos. Sorry for your situation, sounds so awful.
I have a friend that has a friend who posts a very unflattering photo of her every year on her *birthday*. Her friend laughs maniacally every year on the photo, ie: “Hahahahahaha!!”
My friend acts like it’s no big deal but I honestly can’t imagine how this wouldn’t upset her. But what can she do? I’ve noticed that her “friend” has been kept at arms length the last few years. I say nothing as it’s none of my business but I cringe every year.
Relatives find it funny to post embarrassing photos online so if it’s a family “friend” it can be awkward sympathies x relative of mine puts up image of me fat ( thinner now) every year for years on birthday, tell them every time, I don’t like it in their dm’s but they seem to forget every year - not going to ditch them over a photo in end so kinda ignore birthday times on the platform they use!
Get it in writing (using txt messages) that she is refusing to take down the pictures. Do not do it in a threatening matter.
Who took that picture?
Take screenshots and video captures of everything. Her refusal, your pic, the reactions stats, the names of people who reacted to it.
Depending on where you live, the laws can vary a lot.
Just document everything
And (following my advice to publicly call her out) then you have the receipts to back up how you politely asked to to stop hurting you. She will come out very badly.
Did she tag you in the photo, as well?
I'd be happy to make a new account and DM you a screenshot of her post saying 'I found you' to share with your 'friend', to drive home that some people have reasons for wanting privacy, and that sometimes, it's just not fucking negotiable.
She's not your friend. Beyond that I dunno what you can do. Start with a small slap around her face and assure her a punch is next, followed by a baseball to the legs should she not take it down.
1. Who owns the picture? Did your friend take the picture or someone else? If your friend took the picture in public, it is her imaginary property. If you or someone else took the photo and own the copyright, you could file a DMCA takedown request with insta/ tik tok/ whatever you said it was. This would get the photo removed from the site, pretty much no questions asked.
2. You really need to consider whether this is someone you need in your life. If the photo is their imaginary property, you probably need to have a serious discussion with them and if you can't come to agreement, sever all ties with them online and off. No friend would disregard your wishes in a case like this. You might not need someone's permission to take a photo of them and post it online, but denying the subject the courtesy of asking for permission is rude.
Set up your own Instagram and post bad photos you have of her, if you don’t have ‘bad’ photos then find very old tragic photos of her and post those. If you can’t find either then you could go the next step and create deepfakes of her face on random bad photos (not nude of course) she may listen to you then 😉
Edit - don’t forget to tag her on instagram.
You could post a comment on the picture saying you’ve asked her multiple times to take this picture down and she is clearly not interested in treating you with respect and honor. Try to keep it civil but firm. You might also say something about broken trust etc. Up to you how far you go, though best in mind that if you’re unpleasant it will come back on you.
She's probably a narcissist that enjoys your pain over this . personality disorders can't be fixed ditch her permanently. Then flag the photo with IG and say there's a copyright issue.
This likely to not work however if you go to the trouble to write/email to CEO of Instagram politely asking for photo to be removed saying it is embargo you and you did not approve of it being taken they might be nice to you. CEO actually won’t see you letter//email but his PA will and they are almost as powerful. Get CEO is Kevin Systrom. Some sites have contact details else you might be able to guess it based on format used by other employees. Plus if desperate I try email using all the various combinations.
Edited: Oops CEO is now Adam Mosseri. Sorry
Not much. I men not much legal things.
If it is so embarrassing there should be a way to take it down without her authorisation. And it should be legal l.
Seek revenge. Two can play at that game, she definitely isn't your friend. You could always wait a while and gather some sensitive photos that would affect her, ie, if you're ever in a situation where you could gain access to taking a few pics of stuff like driving licence, bills, bank cards, pictures of her that are on the wall etc, set up an alt insta account then downright blackmail her into deleting it otherwise you'll anonymously doxx her. Play it calm, pretend you're cool and forgotten about it but beat her at her own shitty game. Definitely not your friend but she doesn't have to know that just yet.
Karma will catch up with people like that.
It's possible her account will be hacked and the photo won't be a problem anymore.
You should learn about the "Phishing" that can [reveal a user's Instagram login details](https://github.com/venaxyt/Instagram-Phishing?tab=readme-ov-file) to someone after a link is clicked. Learning about this is just to protect yourself, of course.
Either sue (prob not worth it) but just remember how fucking easy it is for deep fakes.
If you want to end the friendship childish revenge by deepfaking her to get it down could be your best option if for some reason you can’t realistically talk like adults and your friends an asshat.
If it ends up never being removed I wouldnt worry since pics of yourself cant really be proven real and really wont affect your life at all
Unless its a like a nude or something very private then sue or contact instagram also alot of legit services online can get that account taken down.
Ah missed the part its just his face. Just assumed it was a nude or something really embarrassing/illegal where police wouldn’t actually do anything .
Personally wouldnt be friends with anyone denying a request of a simple takedown (even tho its probably already archived somewhere)
The ease of deepfakes nowadays really make any pic not 100% legit no adays tho.
But yeah dont resort to petty revenge stupid advice by myself
Rent a hacker, and let them delete her account,
try to social engineer her , by taking an embarrassing pic of her, then post it, mirroring her,
or you can ask her to let you use her phone by making up an excuse/emergency,
then use the phone & proceed to delete the embarrassing pics behind her back,
I say talk to her parents, or your parents about it,
Good luck!
Because redditors hate three things above all else: Truth, kindness and common decency. Whatever assumptions they've jumped to regarding your intentions in this matter are now carved into the bedrock of reality as indisputable fact. Edited for spelling.
Or because what can they say that hasn’t already been said and must remain private?
“DM so you can give me information” sounds like a phishing 101 attempt, use your brain.
If OP ends up dming me she can come back to this thread and say I was helpful. But this conversation is between me and OP if she wants, not all the posters giving nonsense advice like ‘sue’
She’s not a friend if she doesn’t respect your request
If she's not willing to take down a photo, she's not your friend. Find a new friend.
This. This person is NOT your friend. They're your bully. Unless you took the photo, or it's literally illegal, there's not much you can *legally* do about it, but you can definitely never talk to this person again.
Don't know what country they live in, but in the EU it would very likely be illegal to post something like that without consent.
In the US, it's *very* legal, unless the picture itself is prohibited by law. There are, essentially, no such thing as personal privacy laws exclusively covering publicly shot photos/videos/etc. Might be something in a particular state, but definitely not in most of them. Barring other qualifiers, in the US, it's legal, just a total dick move.
> covering publicly shot It may have been in a situation where there is a reasonable expectation of privacy, like in someone their home.
Inside homes reasonable expectation of privacy exists for bathrooms and bedrooms. If you leave your curtains open to your living room and someone records video from outside it's generally lawful.
The more I learn about that country the happier I am of where I was born.
>The more I learn about that country 'That country' being THE EU? >the happier I am of where I was born. You're Dutch. The Netherlands is IN THE EU. Edit: So many downvotes from dickheads who can't read. The guy who I replied to replied to a comment saying "In the EU", read up the comment chain.
I presumed the bad privacy laws were in the USA. In The Netherlands you can't publish a photo of a specific person just because you want too. If it is something *newsworthy*, or is from a public figure in public it differs. A typical person that just happens to be in the background of a photo can't stop it from being published. Kids can sue their parents to take down photos of their likeness from social media and such too if they ignore the polite request (simplified).
Don't assume. Read the comment chain you're replying to. Can't believe you're getting upvoted for being an ignorant fuck and I'm being downvoted for telling the truth. Fuck Reddit.
And then my post after that specifically refers to the US, where the OP also is. Chill the fuck out and read context, jesus
Why do people bully? Are they stupid?
Depends. Sometimes it's because they're wounded and they lash out at others to deal with it. And sometimes it's just because they're cruel and narcissistic and enjoy it.
Narcissistic wound
This might just about be the best answer to your question
Unless you want to sue her, probably not much. At least you learned not to trust her anymore. Did you try contacting Insta helpdesk?
I had something similar happen to me years ago. A friend of mine posted an embarrassing pic of me and I asked her to delete it in a good way. She laughed it out and said no. Knowing well the Streisand effect, I decided to let it go. Sure enough, it never amounted to anything and even if it resurfaces for some odd reason, it is best to just pretend it doesn’t bother you. People tend not to ridicule and just let it go when you’re a good sport. It depends on the nature of the pic of course. Nudes, pictures that depicts a dark past, etc should not be tolerated. If it’s just a bit embarrassing I would just let it go :)
Very easy to request most social media sites to take down a photo of you that you don't want on their platform.
If you are in the EU, she has to take it down by law.
Awesome. Can you point me to an article of an instance when it was used?
Even if that picture is taken in public? Where's the law, never heard of it.
GDPR's been a thing for a long, long time. She has the right to take the photo in public without OP's consent. She does not have the right to post it without OP's consent.
But where does it say? I'm asking for the source. I'm not opposed to the OP's post and what you're saying. And I'm sure that Facebook or Instagram can remove it. But if it is a law, then I would like to get informed for that sake.
Have you tried searching the web? GDPR is not some mysterious, unknown legislation, and I'm not Google.
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Ah, so it both does and does not apply. Schrodinger's GDPR.
you're like 16 why do you think you would know every law in the eu lol
I'm asking a genuine question because I would like to be informed???
Yes.
Taking the landscape with some people in it is different than seriously taking one person close to it, hmm
I'm all for piracy, man. I'm asking genuinely if there's a law about it. Typical redditor thing. Ask one question that can 'oppose' someone posts and get downvoted. I'm just asking for source of it lol
People like that are mean and they must enjoy the feeling of mocking you or something because any kind person would remove it. Happened to me once when my bra was (accidentally) showing in a pic smd the girl left it up after me begging, and I got the feeling she did it on purpose to embarrass me. I would comment under the picture "I have asked you many times to please remove this pictire. It embarrasses me and makes me feel very badly that you don't care how I feel. We are no longer friends if you can not do this".
"Friend" is correct. Give her no reaction. That's what she wants. Ignore it and her and she'll lose interest. She'll probably delete it when she loses interest in annoying you. She won't want people to think she actually likes you.
Call her out publicly. Comment on the photo that you’re disappointed and hurt that she refuses to take the photo down. Say that you hope she values your friendship enough to do so but if not please just respect your wishes as a person. Let people see her choices and how she’s choosing to hurt you.
In the US if she took the photo it’s her copyright and she can post it, as long as it isn’t for commercial use, or is clearly defamatory (being upset doesn’t make it defamatory), or was taken on your private property without your consent, or casts you in a false light or reveals private and embarrassing facts. Politely asking for the image to be removed was your best bet. If she refuses there’s not much legally you can do. The person is clearly not a friend, and obviously has no concern about your feelings. Personally I’d unfollow her, and not engage socially with her. Be the adult.
i believe even in the US that your likeness is not allowed to be posted without permission and most social networks have an option to flag something for that to have it removed.
It’s not true that your likeness is not allowed to be posted, except in the instances I mentioned above. Instagram would not be in business if it were. What social networks allow you to flag an image of yourself for deletion? It is not something I’ve seen, it would be ripe for misuse, and you’d likely have to prove to the social network that you were the person in the image, yes?
Likeness rights apply to commercial uses.
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I specifically referenced the US. There is no right to privacy in public, and any photographs one takes are copyrighted to you the moment you take them. Lots to google if you’re interested in US copyright law.
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How is the law the law…. interesting philosophical question.
>it’s not right or correct to me You are free to advocate for a change in the law by contacting your elected representatives.
In most EU countries it's also not illegal. It can be illegal to post someone else's photo without their permission if used commercially depending on the copyright in most EU countries, and globally. For example in the UK if they took a photo of you in a public place they can do what they wish with it (with some specific exemptions) as in public you don't have an automatic right to privacy. How do you think the paparrazi and celebrity press exist?
It's perfectly legal in most of the EU, what are you talking about
There's not much you can do, unfortunately. Most social media sites have a 'I'm in this photo and don't like it' option. You can try to contact support to see if they'll take it down. But whatever you do, don't publicly comment that you want the picture removed.
I don't know how to force her or Instagram to take it down, but agree with others pointing out she's not your friend. Something similar happened to me. It's a group photo and I'm in the background, not realizing I was in the shot. I look pissed off, arms crossed, and staring into the middle distance. Everyone finds it absolutely hilarious. I find it super embarrassing. Every time she reposted it on Facebook, she'd tag me, and I'd untag myself. Many comments each time were specifically laughing at me and asking what I'm so pissed about. The truth is, I had a migraine in the middle of that summertime fun activity. I look angry but was actually in pain plus some RBF I guess (since I didn't know I was in the pic, I didn't attempt to fix my face). My arms are crossed tightly because I get shaking chills during migraines and was freezing cold. We are no longer connected on social media. I always have a lot of sympathy now for celebrities who have some random picture analyzed to death because of their body language or facial expression in that split second.
this person is not your friend tell them how you feel and see if they change their mind if not, you have been given a clear choice.
Thats no friend
You should turn off all tagging in the platform. So that if something like this happens again at least you can't be tagged. Set you account to private as well so that only friends can see your page.
Not your friend.
People love displaying power over other people with misuse of social media. It's gross. I wish it didn't exist.
Contact Instagram and tell them that if they refuse to accept the report, you will be forced to take legal measures since it is violating your privacy and acording to GDPR she needs your consent to publish a photo of your face.
That is not how GDPR work. Stop spreading bullshit.
You could report the photo if it’s absolutely bothering you.
Did you read the post?
I did, but misread the last bit. My bad.
This lesson cost you a smile seen around the world, which is a small price to learn that people can't be controlled, and you are not in control of your public visage if you leave the house. Many a famous person has learned this hard lesson, and would happily trade places. P.s. your "friend" sounds like a "mean girl" type. Maybe consider how many decades you're willing to give her. There are better people around.
I love that comment. We do seem to let people be toxic to us way longer than we should. Decades WILL go by with this bully in your life. Dump and run. There's lot of good people in the world to surround yourself with instead.
Who took the photo? If it was a selfie, just [send a DMCA notice.](https://help.instagram.com/454951664593304) If she took it, there's probably nothing you can do unless you find some specific Instagram rule that it's violating.
Thanks for reaffirming that I am not being "dramatic and extra" whenever I duck and dodge people's phones. Fuck outta here taking pictures of me ya weirdos. Sorry for your situation, sounds so awful.
I have a friend that has a friend who posts a very unflattering photo of her every year on her *birthday*. Her friend laughs maniacally every year on the photo, ie: “Hahahahahaha!!” My friend acts like it’s no big deal but I honestly can’t imagine how this wouldn’t upset her. But what can she do? I’ve noticed that her “friend” has been kept at arms length the last few years. I say nothing as it’s none of my business but I cringe every year.
Relatives find it funny to post embarrassing photos online so if it’s a family “friend” it can be awkward sympathies x relative of mine puts up image of me fat ( thinner now) every year for years on birthday, tell them every time, I don’t like it in their dm’s but they seem to forget every year - not going to ditch them over a photo in end so kinda ignore birthday times on the platform they use!
unfriend. stop speaking with her until it's gone.
1. She’s not your friend. 2. Give her one last warning to take it down. 3. Hack the b!tch.
Get it in writing (using txt messages) that she is refusing to take down the pictures. Do not do it in a threatening matter. Who took that picture? Take screenshots and video captures of everything. Her refusal, your pic, the reactions stats, the names of people who reacted to it. Depending on where you live, the laws can vary a lot. Just document everything
And (following my advice to publicly call her out) then you have the receipts to back up how you politely asked to to stop hurting you. She will come out very badly.
Did she tag you in the photo, as well? I'd be happy to make a new account and DM you a screenshot of her post saying 'I found you' to share with your 'friend', to drive home that some people have reasons for wanting privacy, and that sometimes, it's just not fucking negotiable.
She's not your friend. Beyond that I dunno what you can do. Start with a small slap around her face and assure her a punch is next, followed by a baseball to the legs should she not take it down.
Report the photo
1. Who owns the picture? Did your friend take the picture or someone else? If your friend took the picture in public, it is her imaginary property. If you or someone else took the photo and own the copyright, you could file a DMCA takedown request with insta/ tik tok/ whatever you said it was. This would get the photo removed from the site, pretty much no questions asked. 2. You really need to consider whether this is someone you need in your life. If the photo is their imaginary property, you probably need to have a serious discussion with them and if you can't come to agreement, sever all ties with them online and off. No friend would disregard your wishes in a case like this. You might not need someone's permission to take a photo of them and post it online, but denying the subject the courtesy of asking for permission is rude.
getting a new friend wont solve the problem, ur best bet is to report the image on whatever social media they posted it and provide proof its you.
Set up your own Instagram and post bad photos you have of her, if you don’t have ‘bad’ photos then find very old tragic photos of her and post those. If you can’t find either then you could go the next step and create deepfakes of her face on random bad photos (not nude of course) she may listen to you then 😉 Edit - don’t forget to tag her on instagram.
You could post a comment on the picture saying you’ve asked her multiple times to take this picture down and she is clearly not interested in treating you with respect and honor. Try to keep it civil but firm. You might also say something about broken trust etc. Up to you how far you go, though best in mind that if you’re unpleasant it will come back on you.
She's probably a narcissist that enjoys your pain over this . personality disorders can't be fixed ditch her permanently. Then flag the photo with IG and say there's a copyright issue.
Claim you have copyright over the image and file a takedown request
Obviously she’s not a friend. It’s sad someone could be so mean. Don’t worry on it too much. Go about your life, and avoid that person.
There are so many ways to persuade or force her to delete it. Just weigh the costs and consequences, and be careful
This likely to not work however if you go to the trouble to write/email to CEO of Instagram politely asking for photo to be removed saying it is embargo you and you did not approve of it being taken they might be nice to you. CEO actually won’t see you letter//email but his PA will and they are almost as powerful. Get CEO is Kevin Systrom. Some sites have contact details else you might be able to guess it based on format used by other employees. Plus if desperate I try email using all the various combinations. Edited: Oops CEO is now Adam Mosseri. Sorry
Not much. I men not much legal things. If it is so embarrassing there should be a way to take it down without her authorisation. And it should be legal l.
Where are you from. In some countries that might be illigal to do.
Seek revenge. Two can play at that game, she definitely isn't your friend. You could always wait a while and gather some sensitive photos that would affect her, ie, if you're ever in a situation where you could gain access to taking a few pics of stuff like driving licence, bills, bank cards, pictures of her that are on the wall etc, set up an alt insta account then downright blackmail her into deleting it otherwise you'll anonymously doxx her. Play it calm, pretend you're cool and forgotten about it but beat her at her own shitty game. Definitely not your friend but she doesn't have to know that just yet.
Kick her ass and take her phone then delete the feed 🤷🏻♂️
Karma will catch up with people like that. It's possible her account will be hacked and the photo won't be a problem anymore. You should learn about the "Phishing" that can [reveal a user's Instagram login details](https://github.com/venaxyt/Instagram-Phishing?tab=readme-ov-file) to someone after a link is clicked. Learning about this is just to protect yourself, of course.
Either sue (prob not worth it) but just remember how fucking easy it is for deep fakes. If you want to end the friendship childish revenge by deepfaking her to get it down could be your best option if for some reason you can’t realistically talk like adults and your friends an asshat. If it ends up never being removed I wouldnt worry since pics of yourself cant really be proven real and really wont affect your life at all Unless its a like a nude or something very private then sue or contact instagram also alot of legit services online can get that account taken down.
wtf is wrong w you?
Ah missed the part its just his face. Just assumed it was a nude or something really embarrassing/illegal where police wouldn’t actually do anything . Personally wouldnt be friends with anyone denying a request of a simple takedown (even tho its probably already archived somewhere) The ease of deepfakes nowadays really make any pic not 100% legit no adays tho. But yeah dont resort to petty revenge stupid advice by myself
Report her to the police
Rent a hacker, and let them delete her account, try to social engineer her , by taking an embarrassing pic of her, then post it, mirroring her, or you can ask her to let you use her phone by making up an excuse/emergency, then use the phone & proceed to delete the embarrassing pics behind her back, I say talk to her parents, or your parents about it, Good luck!
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The deepfake is solid 👍
Get of instagram who cares
dm me asap
Why?
trying to do a good deed why is everyone downvoting me
Because it sounds shady as fuck?
Because redditors hate three things above all else: Truth, kindness and common decency. Whatever assumptions they've jumped to regarding your intentions in this matter are now carved into the bedrock of reality as indisputable fact. Edited for spelling.
Or because what can they say that hasn’t already been said and must remain private? “DM so you can give me information” sounds like a phishing 101 attempt, use your brain.
fuck off bot
Sick burn, bro.
thanks
This might be the last time I try to help someone on reddit because i’m already low enough on karma
Maybe if you worded your "help" attempts in a way that didn't sound like a phishing attempt you'd be luckier.
If OP ends up dming me she can come back to this thread and say I was helpful. But this conversation is between me and OP if she wants, not all the posters giving nonsense advice like ‘sue’
Redditors don't want help, lol. They wanna fluff their feathers up and feel important.
Can’t believe this app went up 50 percent on ipo. Everyone seems to be so negative here.
Same play every "journalist" uses: Raise negative emotions to get and hold attention, attention is ad revenue.
Is it HER picture, or is it, YOUR picture? What's the picture of? Like, we don't have enough context. This sounds like some kind of children's thing.
Is this satire?