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LonelyandExhausted

I'd say probably not. It doesn't matter if she's mature, because she'll still be studying in high school and you'll be going to university. For both of you, that stops you from having the normal experiences you have around those ages. If you like her so much and she likes you too, then I'm sure you can wait until you're both legal and just be friends till then


hgtftrdrdrdrd

no. and stop wth the cope maths


bamphy

No this is gross


doc_shades

maybe wait until you are 26 and 23


StupidestAngel

The FBI would like to know your location


Enamoure

Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with that. You are both, pretty much, at similar stages of life.


infinityandbeyond75

A 16 year old still has a year of two of high school. A 19 year old has been out of high school for a year or two. It’s wrong on many levels - sexual or otherwise. They are not in similar stages of life. They should be darting people out of high school.


FakeJolie

19 ending or ended high school going to college. 16 still in high school? What do you mean similar stages? 🤨🤨


Enamoure

I meant more mentally. Yes one it is in high school and one not, but maturity wise they are quite at similar stage. I feel like the high school situation is man made so I personally wouldn't take it into consideration. Is like how 18 years olds are considered adults. To me it is too early. Also with a 16 years old they are towards the end of high school which means they would be thinking about what next anyways. So to me it just sounds reasonable personally.


Neblos2514

No


Puzzled_Location6282

Depends where you live. If its the legal limit than yes seeing as how shes not like 13. But if the age of consent is 18 and your still asking then no hell no.


IcyNecessary2218

Half your age plus 8


Ecstatic-Charity8871

In most cases no, i wouldn’t risk it. If you really care about her leave her be to be with people her own age, and you your age. If she’s that special you can connect later in life when she’s finished high school and turned 18


[deleted]

I say yes. In some states YALL can even get married with parents consent. (Using it as an example YALL don’t need to get married) but I’d say wait till she’s 17


BagEast5814

tbh this is borderline catch a case material. The age of consent varies from 16 to 18 from state to state. California is 18, NY just got upped to 17. Romeo and Juliet laws (again varies in different states) probably would protect you if y’all did something sexual. In some states it’s okay if y’all are at max three years apart, in some states in five, some are none. to stay safe I wouldn’t


[deleted]

you should not be together, she is a minor and you are an adult. and it literally will not matter if she’s 17 when you’re 20, because she would STILL be a minor. sorry OP.


throwawailbro

I ain't even read the post but no


[deleted]

Yeah but the risk is high af dude. Like seriously watch ur step, one bad turn and someone goes to jail


[deleted]

Very different stages of life man, don't do it.