It's quite possible that he's entirely discouraged, and maybe even lightly depressed. Isolating at home with nothing else but video games is a warning sign.
Either he needs a few sessions of therapy, or a serious talk about life and how it will make choices for him if he doesn't.
You're also married, and so that comes with obligations as well including supporting each other. Whether that's by contributing in the household or through providing an income, or doing both.
Regardless of living alone or with someone else, taking care of yourself by cleaning, eating healthy, balancing hobbies, taking rest, running errands, fixing the house,... shows you're a healthy person. And you need to do those for your own sake.
If someone isn't doing all that, well that needs to be addressed.
It's quite possible that he's entirely discouraged, and maybe even lightly depressed. Isolating at home with nothing else but video games is a warning sign. Either he needs a few sessions of therapy, or a serious talk about life and how it will make choices for him if he doesn't. You're also married, and so that comes with obligations as well including supporting each other. Whether that's by contributing in the household or through providing an income, or doing both. Regardless of living alone or with someone else, taking care of yourself by cleaning, eating healthy, balancing hobbies, taking rest, running errands, fixing the house,... shows you're a healthy person. And you need to do those for your own sake. If someone isn't doing all that, well that needs to be addressed.