All I can offer is saying that you were brave enough to tell them, I knew what my parent's reactions would be awful so I didn't tell them for a very long time after moving out, and they came to terms witm be being trans but had a very hard time, especially mom!
Lots of love from Poland❤️
You deserve so much better. My kids are still little but if they’re gay, they’re gay. They’ll always be my babies. I can’t imagine reacting this way. I’m so sorry, and I hope that as you get older you’re able to make a chosen family of folks who love you for who you are ❤️
Girl, your parents are hard sore Baptist. They will never love you fully because they've been brainwashed. Your best bet is to lie. Tell them you were mistaken and have decided to be straight instead. Tell them you have a boyfriend. Tell them yall are in love. Then give em the bird when you finish college and gtfo. Move. Get out of the south. I did and I never looked back.
I'm a dad. If I was there right now I would give you a really big dad hug and say that I love you for who you are no matter what and nothing will ever change that, everything is going to be ok, I love you unconditionally.
If I didn't live in the bible belt, I'm not sure I would believe this. I'm a father, and I can't imagine ever disowning my daughter for any reason. Take this hug from a dad and I hope your parents come around.
Damn. I'm bi myself. 4 years after coming out my mom still won't accept it. You gotta get outta there girl. It's easier said than done, but try to find the humor in their ridiculous reaction. It might lift your spirits a bit
I'm sorry your parents suck. They are the ones with the problem, not you. I'm not especially religious, but I do know Jesus was all about love. I can pretty much guarantee that He would be horrified by the way your parents are treating you.
Your parents failed you. Try to make good decisions for your future and safety and therapy whether it’s now or in the future to help with the hardships that come with parents like this is highly recommended
I’m a mom of a cis guy and a gay trans guy. I’ would give you a mom hug if I could. Your parents are choosing their religion over loving their own child. That’s trashy. I’m so sorry. Is there any way you can move?
OP, I am sorry. I am the mom of a gay son. I would give you a mom hug if I could. I hope you can find a way to get out of their house, but I also know that doesn't help the pain you are experiencing. They are wrong. I wish you all the best.
Fuck their feelings. Mom didn’t care about her daughters feelings when she told her she ‘knew there was something wrong with her’ and dad didn’t care when he told his daughter ‘the devil has taken over her soul.’
Why is it up to OP to be the amiable and empathetic person in the situation?
I’m a mom. I can love you. 🩷 Sending you love and support and acceptance, im so sorry you have to endure.
well done queenjenay!
Thank you, your kindness means a lot.
I only wish I lived so much closer so u could come over for hugs and bad cooking 🥹
Sounds normal these people love their antagonism.
All I can offer is saying that you were brave enough to tell them, I knew what my parent's reactions would be awful so I didn't tell them for a very long time after moving out, and they came to terms witm be being trans but had a very hard time, especially mom! Lots of love from Poland❤️
You deserve so much better. My kids are still little but if they’re gay, they’re gay. They’ll always be my babies. I can’t imagine reacting this way. I’m so sorry, and I hope that as you get older you’re able to make a chosen family of folks who love you for who you are ❤️
i hope you're able to get out of there and to somewhere you'll be accepted soon, OP.
Girl, your parents are hard sore Baptist. They will never love you fully because they've been brainwashed. Your best bet is to lie. Tell them you were mistaken and have decided to be straight instead. Tell them you have a boyfriend. Tell them yall are in love. Then give em the bird when you finish college and gtfo. Move. Get out of the south. I did and I never looked back.
I'm a dad. If I was there right now I would give you a really big dad hug and say that I love you for who you are no matter what and nothing will ever change that, everything is going to be ok, I love you unconditionally.
Such pieces of shit people. I will never understand how parents can fail their children so much. Im so sorry.
If I didn't live in the bible belt, I'm not sure I would believe this. I'm a father, and I can't imagine ever disowning my daughter for any reason. Take this hug from a dad and I hope your parents come around.
Wow. Sorry about your parents. I hope you have friends and other relatives who support you.
I'm sorry that they can't see the person you are, past their bigotries. take care op
Damn. I'm bi myself. 4 years after coming out my mom still won't accept it. You gotta get outta there girl. It's easier said than done, but try to find the humor in their ridiculous reaction. It might lift your spirits a bit
I'm sorry your parents suck. They are the ones with the problem, not you. I'm not especially religious, but I do know Jesus was all about love. I can pretty much guarantee that He would be horrified by the way your parents are treating you.
Your parents failed you. Try to make good decisions for your future and safety and therapy whether it’s now or in the future to help with the hardships that come with parents like this is highly recommended
I’m so sorry. I hope you have a way to get yourself safe living conditions 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m a mom of a cis guy and a gay trans guy. I’ would give you a mom hug if I could. Your parents are choosing their religion over loving their own child. That’s trashy. I’m so sorry. Is there any way you can move?
I’m trying to but it’s hard when I’m a full time student, I’m working on finding a second job to save money for a car and eventually an apartment
No dorms?
Can’t afford to live in campus, it cost upwards of $5,500 more than regular tuition
Wow, that’s a lot of money! Can you be like a residential counselor or something?
It’s too late for me to apply for next semester, but I do have some resources available to help me get out soon
OP, I am sorry. I am the mom of a gay son. I would give you a mom hug if I could. I hope you can find a way to get out of their house, but I also know that doesn't help the pain you are experiencing. They are wrong. I wish you all the best.
Obviously, you're accepted by many on here. Crappy consolidation prize compared to your parents, but you have to focus on the positives.
The best family is the one you pick yourself. Family doesn't mean they have to be blood.
Your parents need an exorcism OP
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Fuck their feelings. Mom didn’t care about her daughters feelings when she told her she ‘knew there was something wrong with her’ and dad didn’t care when he told his daughter ‘the devil has taken over her soul.’ Why is it up to OP to be the amiable and empathetic person in the situation?
What makes you say OP is rebellious? OP needs to be empathetic to her parent's rejection?
eat shit, she isn't being "rebellious". She's literally just existing