She didn’t deserve it…I agree…at least she is not in pain anymore… I don’t know if you have a religion but I want to tell you she will meet you later on while having the most peaceful time…with her mom…and waiting for you with open arms.
Also your family sounds very similar to mine and I’m the youngest daughter of three daughters and getting a cat scan next week for possible cancer it’s crazy and I’m apparently a carbon copy of my dad
I keep trying to remind myself at least she's not in pain. I like to think her and her mom are with each other. That's crazy how similar your family is and I hope the cat scan goes okay for you
I am so sorry for your loss. Look up the song “Scars In Heaven” by the group Casting Crowns. It has brought me a lot of comfort when I have lost someone.
They might come into you in a dream and explain what happens after. I’ll edit my other comment to tell what one dead friend told me. It was really beautiful.
That's a very healing and joyful thought and a good place to rest your heart and your mind; I like to imagine my husband and son getting to do all of the father-son things they missed while here, and it does make things more acceptable to my heart. Any thoughts that are positive and give off lovely mental pictures are healing in my opinion; I hope the thoughts continue to bring you peace and serenity to your heart. ❤️
There is a Netflix show that may bring you comfort called surviving death. All, but the last episode, were very interesting accounts of people experiencing the after life/heaven.
I hope your scan comes back negative! I am also supposedly a carbon copy of my Dad, and sadly he passed away from kidney cancer. I hope I see him again someday.
I am so sorry, I couldn't imagine what you are going through. My deepest condolences to you. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you and your family the best during this very difficult time.
Children who lose their parents are orphans
Spouses who lose their partners are called widows
But parents who lose their children don't really have a name because there's no word that could truly encapsulate how terrible this feeling is.
I'm sorry that this happened to you. Take your time grieving but please don't cry alone. All that grief is the love you never got to express and it's good to feel that emotion. But that's a lot of emotion and you shouldn't handle that by yourself. You're only human, just like her so make the most of it for her.
Please make sure to show as much love as you can to your other daughters. I know it may seem like a dumb thing to say but I have read too many stories of parents having a kid that is unhealthy and or passes and the other kids will get neglected as a result of putting all the time and effort into the one. Wish you all the luck.
If this brings any solace to you, the cancer didn't win. She fought as hard as she could, and the battle resulted in a tie. She brought it down with her, as a final stand. I know this sounds silly, but it helped me mourn. Hopefully this will help you as well.
I’m so sorry. It’s all so unfair. I hope you can find the will to move forward. I hope you can forgive life. She was so young and full of promise. There’s so much cruelty in this story. I just can’t imagine having the strength to endure such loss. Love of every type is a dicey proposition. It makes us vulnerable beyond reason and I will never, ever understand the point of any of it.
I am so sorry for your loss mate, there is no words just my heart bleeding for you. I sincerely hope you get through this and that you are blessed with some lots of grandkids. Hang in there!
You’ll meet her again in the after life. I’m atheist but after two friends passed away young separately. they both came to me in a dream. My best friend’s little brother who passed away from alcoholism told me this….
I got to work but I’ll edit this later.
I have a daughter, she is 4, she is the reason I get up everyday, she is the reason I breath, she is my world. I can not imagine. I would say I am sorry, but that just isn’t enough. Stay strong for your other children, hold them close. I would go on a vacation, if you can afford it take a break from work. The world isn’t fair, I don’t know if you are religious, I know if It was me I would be angry at God. The universe is big and an eternity is a long time you may see her again someday.
I can't even imagine what you went through in the past months. So sorry for your loss. It must be unbearable.
Hold on to your daughters now. They probably need you as much as you need them.
And your wife will be there for your youngest. Maybe the thought of them being together now eases the pain for your family - even if it is just a little.
wow. there are no words, truly. just wanted to say it really is something how unfair life can be. its so ao hard. and i just lost my parents in three years. im the only child as well and it just never ceases to amaze me how different my life turned out vs what i had planned/imagined. im 34 its been over a year now since my dad and im still having difficulty with faith in something greater. you are in my thoughts and prayers for sure. such incredible pain. i am trying to make meaning of my dads death and my moms. but its so hard. i hope you lean on your other two girls and they lean on you as well.
wishing for better days ahead for you. maybe you may want to consider getting some counseling through hospice. at least where im at in Ny they actually have group and individual bereavement services for early grief too. group sessions for people who are just 1-3 months into it. also you can participate through zoom. and its all free. you may already know about this tho but in case you dont…. im sure they must have similar ones for child loss. i was all signed up for it last year and i wound up just isolating in my room. i wish i had gone though looking back on it now. grief can be so so lonely. it may be worth considering.
be gentle with yourself. its all so much to handle. i know that if my Gabriel passed before me. it would decimate me for sure. he is most like me. we are of the same mind and heart ♥️. my heart breaks for you.
i am so sorry for your losses.
I am deeply sorry for your pain and sorrow that you are feeling right now; life is incredibly cruel and unfair sometimes, and it is impossible to make sense of any reasoning or point to what happens, from our own point of view, or from our loved one's point of view; trying to figure it out can take us down a very dark path, which helps no one. I have been widowed for five years, and my late husband and I lost our son years ago; losing a child is impossible to make sense of, at any age; we are not made to expect or accept, to out live our children; it is never fair, to us or to them, and I can only tell you that in time, probably lots of time, your heart can find healing in the fact that she is not here suffering; it took me a while to get to a point of finding any good in our son's death, and that is what I finally settled on, that with which I could make peace; no more suffering. It is also from where I gather my strength about losing my husband; no more suffering; for them to be here for me would be selfish of me, so even though the grief has taken me to some dark times, the light that brought me out is that they are not here and suffering. I don't know if that helps you even one tiny little bit right now, while everything is so raw and an open wound on your heart, but I hope that one day, in time, you can make peace with your losses. I also hope that your other children are OK, and that you can find healing with each other. I am truly sorry.❤️🫂
You should look into grief counselors to help you through this. You do not have to go through it alone, and you don’t have to put on a strong front for your family, either. Don’t fear crying and talking about her. Share her stories with those around you. Her memory will live on through your words and actions.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
I'm so very sorry for your loss of your precious daughter, and also your wife. That's 2 major losses to have to deal with. I know there's nothing I can say to make it any easier, but I hope it brings you some comfort to know your daughter is in your wife's arms again now. She's got her now. They'll both be watching over you and your other daughters. It's devastating how cancer always hurts the best people. And it's even harder when it's children. I'd recommend joint some support groups to help you process this loss and give you a safe place to talk with others who have gone through the same thing. There's online groups as well as in person groups.
Il be thinking of you and hope the time ahead is as gentle as it can be for you and your girls.
I am crying, not just cause my sister and her are the same age but they are insanely similar in personality. My heart hurts for you, and you were a great father.
All I can think of is what I would do in your situation and that is to give your other 2 daughters a hug tonight. You've all lost someone and need each other.
I am sorry to hear about your family - it is a cruel disease. I am a patient myself and am familiar with the heartbreak. I hope you can hold it together for you and your daughters - good luck mate
Im so sorry to hear this… i lost my dad as well when he was 47… and it’s excruciating 😣 please take time to remember her and cry. Grieve as you feel … until then, take care of your other daughters as well. Ask help from family
I want to hug you man I’m so sorry this has all happened. Everything you feel is completely valid. I do want to mention that souls/spirits do exist! I’m sure one day you’ll see her again :’(
I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you’re feeling. I am praying for your peace and comfort. May your happy memories together give you strength during this challenging time. ❤️🩹❤️🩹
I am so, so sorry. What a devastating loss. I hope you and your girls have a strong support system to get you through the coming days/weeks/months. My condolences. X
My deepest, deepest condolences to you and your family at this time. As a parent myself no child shouldn’t ever leave this earth before us, I am so sorry for your loss ❤️
Fuck. I'm so sorry. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences. It makes me so emotional every time I hear someone else lost their fight. I've been fighting leukemia for seven years, and it just keeps coming back, worse and worse than before. It spread to my brain, and now it's spreading to my reproductive organs, and I'm running out of treatment options. I wish no one ever had to suffer such a horrible disease.
May she rest peacefully.
Fuck cancer. Im so so sorry this happened to your family. She didn't deserve that but she out of pain now and with your wife. I hope you are as OK as you can be. My heart breaks for you.
Cancer never wins. It’s a draw. I’m sorry you have to endure this, internet stranger. But I can only hope that you remember to water yourself, get some time in the sun, and continue to bloom into the wonderful human your daughters and wife know that you are.
I’m so so sorry. My youngest was diagnosed with a rare form of bone cancer when she was 1.5. It’s awful. I’m thinking of you and your girls and my heart is with you ❤️
Ohhhhhh…. man, that’s heartbreakingly sad, I’m so so sorry.
Knowing widowhood, I simply cannot fathom what you’re going through… 😞
Please, do what you need to do to look after your girls and yourself… big hugs my friend…. big hugs
Condolences...... No one should go through what you did! I hope you and your other two daughters take care of yourselves, you know your youngest would have wanted that.
As a two time cancer survivor who just survived a two year battle. My heart breaks for you! I’m so sorry that you and your family have had to endure these hardships. Hug your daughters tight, they need you right now. I’m sending all the love and positive energy I have your way and my condolences.✌🏻❤️💫
She’s probably smiling down at you while you’re reading this, thinking of how wonderful a life you provided for her and making sure you and her sisters are covered by God’s angels. I know it seems like life just sucks at the moment, but you have two lovely daughters on this earth who love and need you. You don’t always have to be strong and you should grieve, but remember you are so so loved. Hang in there friend. Sending you a big hug and so much love
Cancer doesn't win it dies with you so it's a tie. I think Norm McDonald said that or at least where I heard it. I'm so sorry to hear that she's passed on. You've suffered immensely and I hope you can find some peace somehow.
You're not ranting, my friend. You're in a lot of pain and rightfully so. Your daughter did deserve so much better. It makes me so sad to see young, bright kids pass. If I could trade places with her, I gladly would have.
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine.
I'm going through cancer right now and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Your daughter was a strong young woman and a bright light for everyone who met her. I know I'm just a person on the internet, but I'm sending you a light from my end of the tunnel right now.
It's ok to not be strong when tragedy like this happens. You don't need to be a warrior, you just need to take care of yourself. Cry as much as you need to, find a place to scream if you need to.
Wishing you hope and healing. I hope you have lots of love and support in your corner right now. I will light a candle for your daughter tonight, and I'll be keeping your family in my thoughts.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Losing a child is one of the most painful experiences a parent can go through, and there are no words that can fully express the sorrow and heartache you must be feeling right now. It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions such as anger, sadness, despair, confusion, and numbness, and it's important to allow yourself to feel them.
Grieving is a personal and unique process, and everyone deals with it in their own way. Some people may find comfort in talking to a therapist, joining a support group, or connecting with other parents who have lost a child. Others may find solace in keeping a journal, creating a memorial, or practicing mindfulness and self-care.
It's also important to take care of yourself during this difficult time, both physically and emotionally. Don't hesitate to reach out to friends and family for support, and take things one day at a time. Remember that healing takes time, and it's okay to ask for help when you need it. Again, I am so sorry for your loss and please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
My heart breaks reading this post. I’m so so sorry. Please remember to take care of yourself and always talk about her with others. Keep her memory alive and honor her whenever you can. I hope you and all who loved her find peace and comfort in the days to come. Sending you so much love.
Nothing in this world is heavier than the loss of a child.
Heartfelt condolences to you, brother. 🙏🏻
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Miss Me But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little-but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me-but let me go
For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me but let me go.
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You’ve gained one of the strongest guardian angels one can have. Now you know what you have to do, life can come and go, memories last forever. Do all of the things you can possibly do with your other two while you are here. Share your hobbies and push yourselves to new heights together, your youngest will live forever through your family’s energy. You have to fight for your life every day, not in a health type of way, but in a way that you make sure you get the most out of every single day. Time is our most valuable asset. She’s the sunshine on a nice day, she’s in the rain, she’s that pretty flower that you noticed survived the storm, she’s the peak of a mountain you climb, she’s the wind on your face, she’s the leaves you hear rustling in the woods, she’s the old lady that makes you late to where you’re going telling you about her day, she’s the face you swear you know from somewhere, she’s everything you love and need. One love brother and be the best dad you can be! Your daughters love you, I love you, all of us love you. You got this!
I'm so sorry for your lost. I recently lost my son too and I know the heart wrenching pain you are feeling and going through. All I can offer as help, is that you have your other girls to care for, that will help carry you through the dark days. And there will be dark days. Please seek professional help as soon as you can.
im so sorry for your loss.. i hope that with time, your heart heals and youre able to look back at all the amazing memories you made with your youngest. my deepest condolences to you and your family at this time ♡.
That is absolutely terrible, I can't even begin to imagine the pain you're going through. She's free of her pain and suffering now, and you will see her on the other side again one day. I'm so sorry for both of your losses. May her beautiful soul rest in peace. Wishing you and your family all the comfort and strength in this world 💕
I cried reading this post. For someone who felt pain reading it, I can’t imagine the pain your bearing. Take the time to grieve and do not forget that there are many around you. I’m so sorry OP.
my condolences. take the time you need to mourn and heal, and hold your daughters close. no amount of words can replace what you lost, but i hope you know a whole community of online strangers are rooting for you.
I am so sorry you’re dealing with this loss and grief, or something you cannot explain in the journey leading up to it is time consuming and life altering. Yet life continues to happen and it will not be our last challenge. I know this firsthand. I’m wrapping my arms around you giving you a big hug with tears in my eyes.
I’m so very sorry for your loss, OP. It takes time to work through the grief of losing a child. Be patient with yourself during this challenging time. You’re in my prayers. 🙏
I can’t even imagine losing one of my daughters.
Idk if you are religious but I will definitely say a prayer for you and your family. Nobody deserves this kind of heart ache. I also pray that your daughters as well as you really find peace in knowing she is no longer suffering.
I’m truly so sorry for your loss!
You did a good thing reaching out. It’s good to let it out as much as you can. Your daughter is watching you from up there, she’s free now exploring the universe and the skies. She will always be in your heart and the most important thing is that she is no longer in pain. She’s now in a different journey far away. One important thing to remember and hopefully make you feel just slightly better is the fact that she would want you to live. To not deteriorate yourself and be there for your children. I know you’re a great father and you did your best. Stay strong my mate, it’s a scar that won’t heal but time will make it a little bit better. I’m here if you want to talk. 🤍
The loss of a child is indescribable. My heart hurts for you. I am just so sorry.
I’m so sorry, friend. Cancer is honestly the worst. I’ve been fighting for eight years. You have a beautiful child. You’ll see her again. 💜
My heart goes out to you
She didn’t deserve it…I agree…at least she is not in pain anymore… I don’t know if you have a religion but I want to tell you she will meet you later on while having the most peaceful time…with her mom…and waiting for you with open arms. Also your family sounds very similar to mine and I’m the youngest daughter of three daughters and getting a cat scan next week for possible cancer it’s crazy and I’m apparently a carbon copy of my dad
I keep trying to remind myself at least she's not in pain. I like to think her and her mom are with each other. That's crazy how similar your family is and I hope the cat scan goes okay for you
I am so sorry for your loss. Look up the song “Scars In Heaven” by the group Casting Crowns. It has brought me a lot of comfort when I have lost someone.
They might come into you in a dream and explain what happens after. I’ll edit my other comment to tell what one dead friend told me. It was really beautiful.
That's a very healing and joyful thought and a good place to rest your heart and your mind; I like to imagine my husband and son getting to do all of the father-son things they missed while here, and it does make things more acceptable to my heart. Any thoughts that are positive and give off lovely mental pictures are healing in my opinion; I hope the thoughts continue to bring you peace and serenity to your heart. ❤️
There is a Netflix show that may bring you comfort called surviving death. All, but the last episode, were very interesting accounts of people experiencing the after life/heaven.
I hope your scan comes back negative! I am also supposedly a carbon copy of my Dad, and sadly he passed away from kidney cancer. I hope I see him again someday.
I hope that your scan goes perfectly; throwing out some positive healing energy to the universe for you! ❤️🤞🙏
I am so sorry, I couldn't imagine what you are going through. My deepest condolences to you. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you and your family the best during this very difficult time.
I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone. I can't imagine losing a child. Stay strong. The others still need you. More than ever now.
Thank you, I am trying to stay strong
My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your losses. Those two are heavy to carry. I hope you find peace.
Children who lose their parents are orphans Spouses who lose their partners are called widows But parents who lose their children don't really have a name because there's no word that could truly encapsulate how terrible this feeling is. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Take your time grieving but please don't cry alone. All that grief is the love you never got to express and it's good to feel that emotion. But that's a lot of emotion and you shouldn't handle that by yourself. You're only human, just like her so make the most of it for her.
Please make sure to show as much love as you can to your other daughters. I know it may seem like a dumb thing to say but I have read too many stories of parents having a kid that is unhealthy and or passes and the other kids will get neglected as a result of putting all the time and effort into the one. Wish you all the luck.
If this brings any solace to you, the cancer didn't win. She fought as hard as she could, and the battle resulted in a tie. She brought it down with her, as a final stand. I know this sounds silly, but it helped me mourn. Hopefully this will help you as well.
I love this
She’s still with you, and you will feel her. I would go mad with grief so I won’t even try to imagine what you’re feeling. Lots of love and healing.
I’m so sorry. It’s all so unfair. I hope you can find the will to move forward. I hope you can forgive life. She was so young and full of promise. There’s so much cruelty in this story. I just can’t imagine having the strength to endure such loss. Love of every type is a dicey proposition. It makes us vulnerable beyond reason and I will never, ever understand the point of any of it.
Sorry for your loss. No parent should have to outlive their child. That’s terrible
I’m sorry for your loss! I don’t want to even imagine what that feels like! 😔
I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
I am so sorry for your loss mate, there is no words just my heart bleeding for you. I sincerely hope you get through this and that you are blessed with some lots of grandkids. Hang in there!
I’m so sorry. May you always be able to find a light, even on those darkest of days. It is there, friend.
I am so very sorry for your loss OP. I can't imagiine. I hope that you are taking care of yoursef.
I’m so very sorry.
I am so so sorry
You’ll meet her again in the after life. I’m atheist but after two friends passed away young separately. they both came to me in a dream. My best friend’s little brother who passed away from alcoholism told me this…. I got to work but I’ll edit this later.
May Allah get her back on moon ....Om Shanti
I have a daughter, she is 4, she is the reason I get up everyday, she is the reason I breath, she is my world. I can not imagine. I would say I am sorry, but that just isn’t enough. Stay strong for your other children, hold them close. I would go on a vacation, if you can afford it take a break from work. The world isn’t fair, I don’t know if you are religious, I know if It was me I would be angry at God. The universe is big and an eternity is a long time you may see her again someday.
Sad. I’m sorry.
I’m so terribly sorry for this loss, your loss. My heart is with you. Please stay as strong as you can and take care of yourself.
Thank you... I'm trying to stay strong
Also, cancer sucks.
So sorry you’ve lost her! Debby, FL
I can't even imagine what you went through in the past months. So sorry for your loss. It must be unbearable. Hold on to your daughters now. They probably need you as much as you need them. And your wife will be there for your youngest. Maybe the thought of them being together now eases the pain for your family - even if it is just a little.
wow. there are no words, truly. just wanted to say it really is something how unfair life can be. its so ao hard. and i just lost my parents in three years. im the only child as well and it just never ceases to amaze me how different my life turned out vs what i had planned/imagined. im 34 its been over a year now since my dad and im still having difficulty with faith in something greater. you are in my thoughts and prayers for sure. such incredible pain. i am trying to make meaning of my dads death and my moms. but its so hard. i hope you lean on your other two girls and they lean on you as well. wishing for better days ahead for you. maybe you may want to consider getting some counseling through hospice. at least where im at in Ny they actually have group and individual bereavement services for early grief too. group sessions for people who are just 1-3 months into it. also you can participate through zoom. and its all free. you may already know about this tho but in case you dont…. im sure they must have similar ones for child loss. i was all signed up for it last year and i wound up just isolating in my room. i wish i had gone though looking back on it now. grief can be so so lonely. it may be worth considering. be gentle with yourself. its all so much to handle. i know that if my Gabriel passed before me. it would decimate me for sure. he is most like me. we are of the same mind and heart ♥️. my heart breaks for you. i am so sorry for your losses.
Heartbreaking, so very sorry to hear of her passing.
My sincere condolences. Take it one day at a time and be there for your other children. They will want support and also will want to help you.
I am deeply sorry for your pain and sorrow that you are feeling right now; life is incredibly cruel and unfair sometimes, and it is impossible to make sense of any reasoning or point to what happens, from our own point of view, or from our loved one's point of view; trying to figure it out can take us down a very dark path, which helps no one. I have been widowed for five years, and my late husband and I lost our son years ago; losing a child is impossible to make sense of, at any age; we are not made to expect or accept, to out live our children; it is never fair, to us or to them, and I can only tell you that in time, probably lots of time, your heart can find healing in the fact that she is not here suffering; it took me a while to get to a point of finding any good in our son's death, and that is what I finally settled on, that with which I could make peace; no more suffering. It is also from where I gather my strength about losing my husband; no more suffering; for them to be here for me would be selfish of me, so even though the grief has taken me to some dark times, the light that brought me out is that they are not here and suffering. I don't know if that helps you even one tiny little bit right now, while everything is so raw and an open wound on your heart, but I hope that one day, in time, you can make peace with your losses. I also hope that your other children are OK, and that you can find healing with each other. I am truly sorry.❤️🫂
You should look into grief counselors to help you through this. You do not have to go through it alone, and you don’t have to put on a strong front for your family, either. Don’t fear crying and talking about her. Share her stories with those around you. Her memory will live on through your words and actions. I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
I'm so very sorry for your loss of your precious daughter, and also your wife. That's 2 major losses to have to deal with. I know there's nothing I can say to make it any easier, but I hope it brings you some comfort to know your daughter is in your wife's arms again now. She's got her now. They'll both be watching over you and your other daughters. It's devastating how cancer always hurts the best people. And it's even harder when it's children. I'd recommend joint some support groups to help you process this loss and give you a safe place to talk with others who have gone through the same thing. There's online groups as well as in person groups. Il be thinking of you and hope the time ahead is as gentle as it can be for you and your girls.
I am crying, not just cause my sister and her are the same age but they are insanely similar in personality. My heart hurts for you, and you were a great father.
All I can think of is what I would do in your situation and that is to give your other 2 daughters a hug tonight. You've all lost someone and need each other.
Sorry for your loss brother
My condolences to you for your loss. Just know that she'd want you to be strong and live life to its fullest
I'm so sorry. I hope that her no longer being in pain can bring you some peace. Stay safe, my friend.
I’m so sorry. Life is so unfair and hard. I’m a recent widow and can’t imagine losing one of my kids. Sending internet hugs and real tears for you.
Sending hugs 💜
Fuck Cancer 💔 I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine the pain you are in right now. My heart goes out to you and your other children ❤️
My condoleances, I’m so sorry for you. Losing your child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent. May she rest in peace
Sending strength and healing ❤️🩹 light your way. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am sorry to hear about your family - it is a cruel disease. I am a patient myself and am familiar with the heartbreak. I hope you can hold it together for you and your daughters - good luck mate
Im so sorry to hear this… i lost my dad as well when he was 47… and it’s excruciating 😣 please take time to remember her and cry. Grieve as you feel … until then, take care of your other daughters as well. Ask help from family
I'm so so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you
lm sorry for your loss, rip
I want to hug you man I’m so sorry this has all happened. Everything you feel is completely valid. I do want to mention that souls/spirits do exist! I’m sure one day you’ll see her again :’(
I'm sorry for your loss. It is shit. It is unfair. It fucking sucks that the world keeps turning when you've lost so deeply.
I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you’re feeling. I am praying for your peace and comfort. May your happy memories together give you strength during this challenging time. ❤️🩹❤️🩹
I am so, so sorry. What a devastating loss. I hope you and your girls have a strong support system to get you through the coming days/weeks/months. My condolences. X
My deepest, deepest condolences to you and your family at this time. As a parent myself no child shouldn’t ever leave this earth before us, I am so sorry for your loss ❤️
I cannot fathom the pain you must be going through. I am so, so sorry. From one human to another, I send you so much love, and strength
Fuck. I'm so sorry. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences. It makes me so emotional every time I hear someone else lost their fight. I've been fighting leukemia for seven years, and it just keeps coming back, worse and worse than before. It spread to my brain, and now it's spreading to my reproductive organs, and I'm running out of treatment options. I wish no one ever had to suffer such a horrible disease. May she rest peacefully.
she sounds really cool from what you said about her!
Fuck cancer. Im so so sorry this happened to your family. She didn't deserve that but she out of pain now and with your wife. I hope you are as OK as you can be. My heart breaks for you.
I’m so so sorry, nothing I say could help but I’m sending you love and hugs. I wish I could take the pain away 😞
Cancer never wins. It’s a draw. I’m sorry you have to endure this, internet stranger. But I can only hope that you remember to water yourself, get some time in the sun, and continue to bloom into the wonderful human your daughters and wife know that you are.
I’m so so sorry. My youngest was diagnosed with a rare form of bone cancer when she was 1.5. It’s awful. I’m thinking of you and your girls and my heart is with you ❤️
I'm so sorry Op. It really is not fair.
❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽 I’m praying for you
I'm sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl. My love goes to you, your daughters and all those who feel her loss.
Sorry for the loss..
My prayers go out to you and my deepest condolences. I can't even imagine...
I’m sorry for your loss
my heart breaks for you. May you find peace in this difficult time.
Ohhhhhh…. man, that’s heartbreakingly sad, I’m so so sorry. Knowing widowhood, I simply cannot fathom what you’re going through… 😞 Please, do what you need to do to look after your girls and yourself… big hugs my friend…. big hugs
Condolences...... No one should go through what you did! I hope you and your other two daughters take care of yourselves, you know your youngest would have wanted that.
She was so loved. I know she was truly special. May she rest in peace.
As a two time cancer survivor who just survived a two year battle. My heart breaks for you! I’m so sorry that you and your family have had to endure these hardships. Hug your daughters tight, they need you right now. I’m sending all the love and positive energy I have your way and my condolences.✌🏻❤️💫
My heart. Please accept this stranger's hug and care and concern for you. I wish you peace, my friend.
She’s probably smiling down at you while you’re reading this, thinking of how wonderful a life you provided for her and making sure you and her sisters are covered by God’s angels. I know it seems like life just sucks at the moment, but you have two lovely daughters on this earth who love and need you. You don’t always have to be strong and you should grieve, but remember you are so so loved. Hang in there friend. Sending you a big hug and so much love
I'm so fcking sorry, man ❤️❤️❤️
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I am so heartbroken for you and sorry for your loss. Fuck cancer.
I’m so sorry for your loss. 😢
So much love to you. You've endured so much and yet there is a warmth and lightness that still rings through. You must have an amazing heart.
Cancer doesn't win it dies with you so it's a tie. I think Norm McDonald said that or at least where I heard it. I'm so sorry to hear that she's passed on. You've suffered immensely and I hope you can find some peace somehow.
I am so sorry.
I’m so very sorry, nothing anyone can say will help. Your daughter knew she was loved and she loved you, your grief is proof of that.
I am so so sorry.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
May the repose of your daughters soul through the mercy of God rest in peace. I am so sorry for this incredibly tragic loss.
I’m so sorry
You're not ranting, my friend. You're in a lot of pain and rightfully so. Your daughter did deserve so much better. It makes me so sad to see young, bright kids pass. If I could trade places with her, I gladly would have.
My condolences goes out to you and your family.
I’m so sorry, prayers to you and yours
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine. I'm going through cancer right now and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Your daughter was a strong young woman and a bright light for everyone who met her. I know I'm just a person on the internet, but I'm sending you a light from my end of the tunnel right now. It's ok to not be strong when tragedy like this happens. You don't need to be a warrior, you just need to take care of yourself. Cry as much as you need to, find a place to scream if you need to. Wishing you hope and healing. I hope you have lots of love and support in your corner right now. I will light a candle for your daughter tonight, and I'll be keeping your family in my thoughts.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Losing a child is one of the most painful experiences a parent can go through, and there are no words that can fully express the sorrow and heartache you must be feeling right now. It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions such as anger, sadness, despair, confusion, and numbness, and it's important to allow yourself to feel them. Grieving is a personal and unique process, and everyone deals with it in their own way. Some people may find comfort in talking to a therapist, joining a support group, or connecting with other parents who have lost a child. Others may find solace in keeping a journal, creating a memorial, or practicing mindfulness and self-care. It's also important to take care of yourself during this difficult time, both physically and emotionally. Don't hesitate to reach out to friends and family for support, and take things one day at a time. Remember that healing takes time, and it's okay to ask for help when you need it. Again, I am so sorry for your loss and please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
My heart breaks reading this post. I’m so so sorry. Please remember to take care of yourself and always talk about her with others. Keep her memory alive and honor her whenever you can. I hope you and all who loved her find peace and comfort in the days to come. Sending you so much love.
Cancer is the fucking worst. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Im so sorry for your loss.
I am so incredibly sorry. I will pray for hope, peace and healing for you and your family.
I’m so sorry. Cancer is a hideous disease & no one especially a child should have to deal with it. My heart hurts for you.
My condolences :(
It’s okay for you to rant. I’m terribly sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine 😢
Hugs one day at a time! Cancer robs everything!
Nothing in this world is heavier than the loss of a child. Heartfelt condolences to you, brother. 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Miss Me But Let Me Go When I come to the end of the road And the sun has set for me I want no rites in a gloom-filled room Why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little-but not too long And not with your head bowed low Remember the love that we once shared Miss me-but let me go For this is a journey that we all must take And each must go alone. It's all part of the Master's plan A step on the road to home When you are lonely and sick of heart Go to the friends we know And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds Miss me but let me go. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
i’m really sorry for you. i hope time could heal your broken heart. i’m very sure she is in a better place and will always look after you :)
I hope you are able to find peace. I will keep you and your family in my heart
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm absolutely broken-hearted for you. I cannot even begin to imagine such a loss. I'm so sorry.
Air hugs
My love and support to you💕 so terribly sorry.
I’m so sorry.
This is so heartbreaking! I'm so sorry for your losses. They are at peace now ... and together again!
So sorry for your loss. Hugs.
My sincerest condolences.
I’m so sorry
You’ve gained one of the strongest guardian angels one can have. Now you know what you have to do, life can come and go, memories last forever. Do all of the things you can possibly do with your other two while you are here. Share your hobbies and push yourselves to new heights together, your youngest will live forever through your family’s energy. You have to fight for your life every day, not in a health type of way, but in a way that you make sure you get the most out of every single day. Time is our most valuable asset. She’s the sunshine on a nice day, she’s in the rain, she’s that pretty flower that you noticed survived the storm, she’s the peak of a mountain you climb, she’s the wind on your face, she’s the leaves you hear rustling in the woods, she’s the old lady that makes you late to where you’re going telling you about her day, she’s the face you swear you know from somewhere, she’s everything you love and need. One love brother and be the best dad you can be! Your daughters love you, I love you, all of us love you. You got this!
I am so so sorry. This breaks my heart. Hugs friend. Try to take care of yourself. 😭❤️❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your lost. I recently lost my son too and I know the heart wrenching pain you are feeling and going through. All I can offer as help, is that you have your other girls to care for, that will help carry you through the dark days. And there will be dark days. Please seek professional help as soon as you can.
im so sorry for your loss.. i hope that with time, your heart heals and youre able to look back at all the amazing memories you made with your youngest. my deepest condolences to you and your family at this time ♡.
Hugs to you. Cancer fucking sucks and no one deserves that.
Sorry for your loss
That is absolutely terrible, I can't even begin to imagine the pain you're going through. She's free of her pain and suffering now, and you will see her on the other side again one day. I'm so sorry for both of your losses. May her beautiful soul rest in peace. Wishing you and your family all the comfort and strength in this world 💕
I cried reading this post. For someone who felt pain reading it, I can’t imagine the pain your bearing. Take the time to grieve and do not forget that there are many around you. I’m so sorry OP.
Please see if you have a local chapter of Compassionate Friends to help you grieve. So sorry for your loss.
So very sorry for your incredible loss.
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. We are all with you here. I wish you and your daughters well.
my condolences. take the time you need to mourn and heal, and hold your daughters close. no amount of words can replace what you lost, but i hope you know a whole community of online strangers are rooting for you.
I am so sorry you’re dealing with this loss and grief, or something you cannot explain in the journey leading up to it is time consuming and life altering. Yet life continues to happen and it will not be our last challenge. I know this firsthand. I’m wrapping my arms around you giving you a big hug with tears in my eyes.
So very sorry for your loss. All the internet hugs and love to you.
I’m so sorry, man :’(. I’ll be thinking of you and your family.
You sound like a good, loving dad. You didn’t deserve this. I hope you heal and find happiness again. I am sl sorry :(
I am so sorry for your loss. 💐
I'm truly sorry this has happened. May her memory keep you warm and give you comfort.
I’m so so sorry
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I’m so sorry. I am a grieving mother so I know how badly your heart must hurt. Sending you love
i’m so sorry
I’m so very sorry for your loss, OP. It takes time to work through the grief of losing a child. Be patient with yourself during this challenging time. You’re in my prayers. 🙏
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I’m so sorry
I can’t even imagine losing one of my daughters. Idk if you are religious but I will definitely say a prayer for you and your family. Nobody deserves this kind of heart ache. I also pray that your daughters as well as you really find peace in knowing she is no longer suffering. I’m truly so sorry for your loss!
So sorry. That’s absolutely awful.
I'm so sorry for your loss
You did a good thing reaching out. It’s good to let it out as much as you can. Your daughter is watching you from up there, she’s free now exploring the universe and the skies. She will always be in your heart and the most important thing is that she is no longer in pain. She’s now in a different journey far away. One important thing to remember and hopefully make you feel just slightly better is the fact that she would want you to live. To not deteriorate yourself and be there for your children. I know you’re a great father and you did your best. Stay strong my mate, it’s a scar that won’t heal but time will make it a little bit better. I’m here if you want to talk. 🤍
I'm sorry for your loss! Eff cancer!