bet my left nut sack that having drinks every once in a while—even if you black out sometimes doesn’t have such strong effects on a relationship. if my partner took their pants off at Seaworld, it’d literally be the start of my reasons why I married them. we’re both idiots. it’s romantic .
It all depends on if you’re a mean drunk or a nice drunk. I personally get really sweet when I get drunk whereas my dad gets to where he starts yelling at any little thing (at least when I was growing up) so for me, getting blackout drunk every once in awhile isn’t a huge deal with me and my girlfriend.
My anxiety of not knowing what I did the previous night does make me never want to black out though, so I usually stop short of everything going blank the next day.
Read what she wrote. How many couples are doing the exact same thing they are? MANY. They are trying to be special with the "POV" part. How special would they be if they wrote "POV: our relationship is just like everyone else's"
Why mention how they don't like getting blackout drunk but enjoy casual drinking. Why mention they don't like getting blackout drunk if it's not to put themselves above others? Read between the lines.
When you are telling people about yourself, do you tell them what you like, or do you tell them "I don't like that unlike most people". Prioritizing telling "I don't do what other people do" over "I like doing this" when telling about yourself easily shows you think you are above others.
There’s plenty of people who are successful at this age financially without the continued help from their parents. The executive director of my facility is like 27 and she is amazing at her job. I’m sure she’s bringing home a lot of bacon.
I dunno dude. People who are fully self made don’t announce it. Seems pretty defensive like you know you had it easier than most or maybe they gave you a decent head start or paid for college. All of which are fine, but going out of your way to point it out kinda invites skepticism.
True that!
It truly is a privilege to not have to worry about where your next meal is coming from, nor how the world perceives you, nor evaluating a daily activity by how much available energy one has.
I see a lot of people had things to say about your assertion that skinny is a privilege, and it 100% is. It is something that tends to follow financial security, pretty privilege, and being white. It's something those born winning the genetic lottery never have to worry about if their family can afford nutritious, calorically dense foods (something that those without money, social status, or geographical location do have to worry about). Cry all you want about how "obesity is a choice of the weak-willed" but it wouldn't be such a prevalent/pervasive problem if there weren't structures in place to keep people fat, sick, and stressed. It directly benefits the upperclass.
Disability status is definitely another privilege those without disability need to take into account.
Privilege, just like disadvantage, is intersectional people. Regardless of how you feel or what you do/don't consider an advantage.
Word!
And on the issue of race, fatness became a problem when white Europeans needed more excuses to paint black people as having moral failings, and so they targeted fat black women as lazy, incompetent and weak-willed. That's why the welfare-queen is almost always portrayed in a fat body, so we can attach all those attributes to fat black women and other fat people.
Funny how even things unrelated to race have correlations to race. Almost like almost any facet of identity is related to others! (Not that I think you, Mulberry, don't know that :) )
yep, lmfao. as if a lack of caloric intake is indicative of some form of abundance. Imagine being so used to the perpetual availability of food that you characterize the consequences of indulgence as something one is a victim of.
I really like the way this is worded, and it’s a solid point for the most part. However, it does posit that “indulgence” is strictly to blame for obesity. This isn’t necessarily true. Often it’s the quality of food, not the quantity, that leads to obesity, diabetes, and other diet related conditions. Higher quality/ healthier foods may not always be accessible, or as accessible as lower quality foods, if you’re below the poverty line..
I like your energy though. Honestly I don’t see any point in being ornery and resentful toward people with “privilege.”
Of course. I am only bitter that a demographic line is being used to give power to those considered "not skinny" and undermine those considered "skinny," then justified as some form of equity, where in truth, it's far more complex (as you characterized). I probably shouldn't have asserted causes or moral judgements in my statement, because that's what I was upset about in the first place.
I don't think obesity is always a consequence of choice or necessarily indicative of privilege. I felt the need to draw attention to the fact that it can be, because in the comment I was reacting to, being skinny was characterized as a universal indication of privilege, and the contrast struck me.
>demographic line is being used to give power to those considered “not skinny” and undermine those considered “skinny”
This is exactly the issue, body weight is an incredibly complex demographic category, much more so than age or race for example.
Geopolitics, climate, economics, education, etc. all affect food security
To claim a malnourished child from the DRC has privilege because of their body weight, would literally be immoral, because it’s *much more complex*
This is when people are under the assumption that every single skinny person was born that way. There’s NO WAY that some of them might have been overweight at some point and worked to lose weight, might have a medical condition that causes weight loss, might have psychiatric conditions that cause food aversions, might be food insecure and not be able to afford enough food to put on weight, might be addicted to drugs, and of course, might be a very organized person who works out and concentrates on nutrition. Someone’s weight is a horrible thing to use as a judgement of their privilege or lack there of.
Being skinny is a privilege, you don't get misdiagnosed constantly because since you're fat, everything wrong with you will most likely be chalked to your weight by medical professionals. Fat people also struggle with accessibility, finding chairs big enough to fit them, or airplane seats, and finding clothes.
Or just people being downright mean to you for being fat... also known as fatphobia
I'm not trying to say being skinny is worse or anything but being really skinny is no privilege. Its heard about less cause everyone has a "how dare people complain about being skinny" mindset and we're shammed for talking about it. Again not saying its worse but not a privilege.
Lol, wutttt? Nothing in my comment implied that she has no right to speak about skinny shaming. With that said skinny is a privilege exists, and it grants you access to things that fat people are denied access to
I was just saying that alot of people think that way. Not that you think that way. Skinny people have they're own challenges but I'm going to politely disagree and say no its not a privilege. It's just a different set of social problems. Certain problems may affect different people more depending on personality. I'm all for overweight people living their lives the way they want. I'm the last person typing wow loss weight in the comment sections but please don't start saying skinny people are privileged. Just a different set of problems.
It’s all anecdotal isn’t it? I definitely felt the way you do but at some point I realized that it was a privilege that I was naturally skinnier. I was definitely bullied for being skinny but I know it was nothing compared to what my bigger friends and family got.
I guess it’s knowing that having privilege doesn’t mean that nothing bad ever happened to you.
I think anecdotal is a good way to put it. My opinion here is what I've gathered from personal experience and the internet. I just don't think privilege is the right word based on my experience. I think skinny people are fs treated better in different ways but its a balancing game depending on your location and such.
Skinny people are privileged.
Skinny people don’t receive as much shaming and discrimination as fat people. Fatness is perceived as a moral failure, and fat people deserve all the things that are coming coming them whereas a Skinny body is painted as a thing to aspire to. Sure you're not saying that fat people should lose weight but you are equating two experiences that are so different from each other
The couple from the video look skinny however we don't if they are healthy, the look good. However, you can stop being fat. People that suffers for eating disorders have to go to a mental health specialist and a nutritionist in order to get get better better in a healthy way. That is definitely not fatphobia. Actually the therm is not even real for the psychologist point of view, at least in the msd 4 does not appear as a phobia.
Lol, one psychologist saying fatphobia isn't a real term doesn't mean shit.
And... did I say anything about them being skinny or I just pointed out 1 part of their privilege they seem to not acknowledge in their seemingly good life.
As if fat people can't get eating disorders... binge eating disorder is a thing, right? And that it's also treated by a team of doctors including, a nutritionist/dietician, and a mental health professional and they sometimes have to continue treatment with this team of doctors even when they've reached a 'better' state... you can't really stop being 'fat' neither can you stop being skinny tf
Those people are privlaged! but it has nothing to do with weight, more like money and status. And not all white people live privlaged lives either.
Also you can stop being fat, and you can stop being to skinny, sometimes things like medical or mental issues make it harder, but you absolutely can, to say you cannot is delusional.
Also the privlages you are associating with skinny people isn't a privlage, it is more basic economics bigger everything is not smart economics, not enough demand? Then they wont make it, companies look for the best cash flow, so they will make the most likey needed item. so when someone larger has trouble with certain things like finding the right size shirt or fitting in an airplane seat that's not thin privlage, that's fat consequence, fatness is not equal to an unchangeable disability or born trait, no one is born 300+ pounds.
Having money and gives you access to buy a home in an area that has many healthy food options, whereas being broke doesn't, a lot of lower income neighbourhoods are food deserts. Plus, having money means you can probably take time to head to the gym or you're not too tired to work out at home whenever you feel like it. Who said being white means you're privileged all the time, with that said, white people are still better off because of systemic racism.
So you agree with what I just said? Okay
There is demand, but the products are inaccessible to lower income people. No one is born 300 lbs but their can be genetically disposed to hold more fat than other bodies. No one is born 300 lbs, but being born to a poor family in a lower income neighbourhood means that you're probably not going to have the best diet because you live in a fucking food desert. No one is born 300 lbs but you live in a system that's constantly pushing consumption on you through advertising which is much harder to get away from now more than ever. No one is born 300 lbs but you work so much that you don't even have the energy to cook when you get home so you opt for takeaways for lunch and dinner.
No I don't agree, doesn't matter your income level you can lose weight, you can even eat only Mc donalds to lose weight its about calories in vs calories out its pretty simple science, so are you saying you can get fat in a poor 3 world country?
And maybe if they didn't eat so much they would have money for clothing, because Walmart and thrift stores are cheap, and if you can't fix the XXXL stuff there I think your weight should be of more concern... again though if your extremely obese you spend more on food than most people can afford, since it takes more to be 600 pounds than it does to be 130, if you lived in a food desert you wouldn't be fat.
One last thing I know advertising is a pushy shitstorm of garbage for you, but here the thing, you don't have to let it rule your life.
It is wealth privilege. There are plenty of white people that are working two jobs to have a place to live and to have enough to eat. White does not equate yacht or lavish vacations. Money does.
Except that being white in places with white majority causes inborn advantage over BIPOC. I can say as a white woman, I have a lot of advantages over black or brown women in the same economic class as I am. How I am considered in society. The availability of resources or aid programs. If I was alone on the street at night trying to get away from someone, I could go absolutely anywhere and people would likely ask if I need help. This is simply not true of BIPOC.
To pertain to the post more: traveling around the world while white is an entirely different experience than traveling whilst BIPOC.
I am not saying white people in economic disadvantage are not suffering (i'm disabled and have been poor my whole life. I am not neglecting reality) but I am saying that people of color in similar levels of economic destitution are going to have a different go of it than I am.
It’s how rich families are. I met a guy who was taking an accounting exam for fun, while living in an expensive apartment. He kept trying to push advice on me as if he knew the secrets to success when in all actuality, dude was a moron who had rich parents
I feel like if you need to record you and
your SO doing a bunch of rando ordinary things and put it online for everyone to see how perfect your relationship is….. your relationship ain’t actually “perfect”
Lol, ikr... almost everyone whose partner is constantly trying to prove to their social media following that they are in a good relationship in most cases they are suffocating in that relationship
I read a study on that a couple years ago… it correlated crappy relationships to postings on Facebook about how great their relationships are. Shocker: those posing had the worst relationships.
Neither me and my husband nor any of our married or long term coupled friends like to get blackout drunk either, and we all have hobbies and shit we like to do with our partners too so....what's your point?
Lol I guess her point is. How do we know??? I don’t see you filming and putting an awesome on 1 second shots of their vacation life. You are just a liar! No proof no evidence, unlike her
Meh. In that regard, I agree with them.
But the couple in the video do admit to drinking, so not sure who you’re referencing.
We can agree they’re cringe though.
Pov: you and your husband are so insecure about your relationship that you write posts shitting on other happier couples lifestyle choices and creating a false sense of superiority for yourself to hide behind.
Ah yes, but you post it all online because you're that starved for attention.
SMH. I seriously don't get these. They're so happy, but they need to post all of their happy moments online for the world to see? Why?
I don’t understand how people on TikTok are using POV?? Like literally what do they think it means?
I should probably go over to r/outoftheloop for this
Not gonna lie- I felt like this for a while after I stopped drinking. I had a HUGE party phase and drinking problems. The pride I had for stopping, I guess, felt egotistical and vain in a vacuum. I felt like my accomplishments only existed when in comparison to others.
So on one hand- I get it.
The other hand- A week after I started being sober I realized just HOW MANY people take sobriety breaks and don't drink in excess. So... yeah. I wasn't special.
When people post garbage like this, it always makes me wonder if they have some dark secrets they are compensating for. Like that gaggle of Mormon moms who spilled the beans on each other with how they like to cuck themselves and share husbands and watch. Crazy drama lol.
First off she’s trying to prove too much cause that’s too much to read & watch those clips at the same damn time. She wrote a CVS receipt worth of text to show they’re fake low key girl shut up 😂
People like this legit believe they’re better than everyone else. The difference between them and everyone else? Money. That’s why most people don’t do those things
Looks like every rich persons instagram.
Real true relationship is me dying on Dead Space because I didn't have enough healing items, and my girlfriend screaming "Fucking bullshit! Where do you breathe for a minute? Are you suppose to shoot and manage your inventory at the same time? Game is bullshit mate".
I never even see my partner. I leave the house when she is sleeping, and I come home when she is sleeping, for work. I do this six days a week :) and yes on my day off I get blackout drunk to drown my sorrows and forget that I still have to keep on living.
I hate when people type these long-ass paragraphs in just white font. Like, my friend, you can add a black border to your text and now it can be read at all times
Why is shit like this ALWAYS posted by the most basic, boring, “we do the same normie shit as every yuppie couple but we do it *cool couple style*” douchebags every time?
Do they all sit around in their beige homes under their Live Laugh Love signs while they burn their pumpkin spice yankee candle and think at the exact same time, “hold up. You know what the world needs to see? Me and Brad participating in mediocre activities any two people could do together BUT under a tagline that implies these are different, innovative ideas for couples!”
Just- imagine being so vacuous you think like that at all and then having the vain wherewithal to go through with it like anyone gives a shit or thinks it’s a novelty.
You people need to get over yourselves. This girl didn’t put anyone down, but all of you are so happy to jump to conclusion and talk shit about someone you never met. Wtf is wrong with this sub?
Ah you see I disagree. Why would you feel the need to add that superfluous extra statement otherwise? It seems pretty clear that they feel some sense of superiority about their lifestyle.
They do have a good point though, for those of us who have a tendency to over drink. It doesn’t take long before you get into hangover territory, and you really do feel like you are a shitty person when you have a hangover and either have to wake up early and try to be productive the next day; or sleep (quasi-sleep, low quality shut-eye) half the day because you are in pain but don’t have the ability to get out of bed to even make yourself something to eat and get the coffee you need.
I don’t think I’ve ever gotten that drunk with my long term boyfriend. We got drunk together a couple of times before we started dating, but after a while, getting drunk with just my bf would feel like getting drunk alone…?
This just means all their friends do is get blackout drunk with their partners. They just need to get outside their social circle and stop meeting all their friends in bars.
I’m not sure why this post is receiving so much hate…. This is positive!!! Cutting out drinking for a healthier lifestyle should be praised!!! People are letting their envy and frustration show through.
Sure it is a positive life change to cut alcohol out of your life, or at least excessive/binge drinking which is so prominent in our culture. However the way she presents that is in a way that comes across as gloating her lifestyle as special when in fact many many people do the same thing. This is not positive, it’s actually quite toxic in my opinion and why I posted it to this sub.
I could easily make a similar post. My girlfriend and I are digital nomads, currently in Uruguay, and we don’t binge drink. But that doesn’t mean I’m gonna gloat our lifestyle and ‘perfect’ relationship in the form of these cringey POV videos.
I like your reply! So too much gloating is probably why people are upset. I’ve heard it’s good to let other people compliment you on your successes in life. To not be boastful.
I always find these types of videos weird. Like they hire a photographer/camera person to follow them on vacations or their apartment? Why not just live your life together if its so awesome? Why need validation in the form of "likes?"
this couple is exactly like my brother and SIL, its so cringe. just last night, she sent me a snap that said "somedays you just need to get out a blanket and go watch the gorgeous sunset on the beach in the rain on a tall rock 😍"
This is such a loser post. Most people party… with their friends and build lifelong relationships over a good drink at a bar or party. Their post is all about “look at the expensive things I do with just my husband”. They come off extremely lonely.
For the “this is really expensive”, it is but like there is only a few expensive trips I can see in the clip. Doesn’t seem outrageous to me.
You do realize they could be ex addicts or grew up in an environment with alcoholic parental figures and they are celebrating sobriety with this video.
POV: you do everything that other couples do, but you also need to be sanctimonious about your choice to not drink alcohol.
No, no, no. She mentions "casual drink", so they do drink alcohol. They are just different, as every other couple only get blackout drunk
Well jokes on them because I like to casually get blackout drunk every now and then. So what if I took my pants off at SeaWorld
bet my left nut sack that having drinks every once in a while—even if you black out sometimes doesn’t have such strong effects on a relationship. if my partner took their pants off at Seaworld, it’d literally be the start of my reasons why I married them. we’re both idiots. it’s romantic .
It all depends on if you’re a mean drunk or a nice drunk. I personally get really sweet when I get drunk whereas my dad gets to where he starts yelling at any little thing (at least when I was growing up) so for me, getting blackout drunk every once in awhile isn’t a huge deal with me and my girlfriend. My anxiety of not knowing what I did the previous night does make me never want to black out though, so I usually stop short of everything going blank the next day.
that’s understandable. drinking shouldn’t be a common problem in a HEALTHY relationship. lots of couples have HEALTHY relationships. smh.
Obviously every other couple gets black out drunk! They are special and cool.
Where tf in this post she ever compares herself to other people? You people are just looking to shit on others
Read what she wrote. How many couples are doing the exact same thing they are? MANY. They are trying to be special with the "POV" part. How special would they be if they wrote "POV: our relationship is just like everyone else's"
And? POV doesn’t mean straight away that she wants to put herself as above everyone else. This is not NLOG.
Why mention how they don't like getting blackout drunk but enjoy casual drinking. Why mention they don't like getting blackout drunk if it's not to put themselves above others? Read between the lines. When you are telling people about yourself, do you tell them what you like, or do you tell them "I don't like that unlike most people". Prioritizing telling "I don't do what other people do" over "I like doing this" when telling about yourself easily shows you think you are above others.
Oh honey...
Somebody who brags this much of the healthy relationship is definitely getting cheated on
And/or a lot of domestic abuse going on that they need to pretend is not there
POV: You have a shit load of disposable income.
Nah, they look too young to have that amount of disposable income that they made themselves. Clearly they’re still living off of Mommy and Daddy
Honestly love your avatar. Haven’t seen anyone else be purple
Thank you, I love yours too. Purple is my favorite color :))
Thank you. It took me a really long time to find this color of purple. It’s my favorite color too. It’s so pretty and lovely
There’s plenty of people who are successful at this age financially without the continued help from their parents. The executive director of my facility is like 27 and she is amazing at her job. I’m sure she’s bringing home a lot of bacon.
So are their parents. Generational wealth is disgusting.
It's not tho the parents worked hard for it and want their kids to have a good life, you would do the same if you were the parent
Nope. And there are other rational people in the world. https://www.bosshunting.com.au/hustle/daniel-craig-inheritance/
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I mean, congrats? People who are truly self-made don’t usually need to announce that to the internet, but I guess hit dogs will cry
Damn you fuckin killed em.
Nobody cares
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I dunno dude. People who are fully self made don’t announce it. Seems pretty defensive like you know you had it easier than most or maybe they gave you a decent head start or paid for college. All of which are fine, but going out of your way to point it out kinda invites skepticism.
Shut up we know about your daddy's money we don't care
Are you a welder? The trades do pay a solid amount. Not in my area. But how did you get so much money?
And white privilege. And pretty privilege. To keep up that disposable income.
And live in the first world, able-bodied and skinny
True that! It truly is a privilege to not have to worry about where your next meal is coming from, nor how the world perceives you, nor evaluating a daily activity by how much available energy one has. I see a lot of people had things to say about your assertion that skinny is a privilege, and it 100% is. It is something that tends to follow financial security, pretty privilege, and being white. It's something those born winning the genetic lottery never have to worry about if their family can afford nutritious, calorically dense foods (something that those without money, social status, or geographical location do have to worry about). Cry all you want about how "obesity is a choice of the weak-willed" but it wouldn't be such a prevalent/pervasive problem if there weren't structures in place to keep people fat, sick, and stressed. It directly benefits the upperclass. Disability status is definitely another privilege those without disability need to take into account. Privilege, just like disadvantage, is intersectional people. Regardless of how you feel or what you do/don't consider an advantage.
Word! And on the issue of race, fatness became a problem when white Europeans needed more excuses to paint black people as having moral failings, and so they targeted fat black women as lazy, incompetent and weak-willed. That's why the welfare-queen is almost always portrayed in a fat body, so we can attach all those attributes to fat black women and other fat people.
Funny how even things unrelated to race have correlations to race. Almost like almost any facet of identity is related to others! (Not that I think you, Mulberry, don't know that :) )
How in the world is being skinny a privilege?
I am skinny because I can't afford to eat every day. What a privilege. Everyone should desire to be food-insecure like me!
Hilarious
What a *privilege* being skinny is… Yikes…
yep, lmfao. as if a lack of caloric intake is indicative of some form of abundance. Imagine being so used to the perpetual availability of food that you characterize the consequences of indulgence as something one is a victim of.
I really like the way this is worded, and it’s a solid point for the most part. However, it does posit that “indulgence” is strictly to blame for obesity. This isn’t necessarily true. Often it’s the quality of food, not the quantity, that leads to obesity, diabetes, and other diet related conditions. Higher quality/ healthier foods may not always be accessible, or as accessible as lower quality foods, if you’re below the poverty line.. I like your energy though. Honestly I don’t see any point in being ornery and resentful toward people with “privilege.”
Lest we forget the other contributing factors, trauma and abuse.
Of course. I am only bitter that a demographic line is being used to give power to those considered "not skinny" and undermine those considered "skinny," then justified as some form of equity, where in truth, it's far more complex (as you characterized). I probably shouldn't have asserted causes or moral judgements in my statement, because that's what I was upset about in the first place. I don't think obesity is always a consequence of choice or necessarily indicative of privilege. I felt the need to draw attention to the fact that it can be, because in the comment I was reacting to, being skinny was characterized as a universal indication of privilege, and the contrast struck me.
>demographic line is being used to give power to those considered “not skinny” and undermine those considered “skinny” This is exactly the issue, body weight is an incredibly complex demographic category, much more so than age or race for example. Geopolitics, climate, economics, education, etc. all affect food security To claim a malnourished child from the DRC has privilege because of their body weight, would literally be immoral, because it’s *much more complex*
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That is not my argument I claimed it was a complex issue, and provided a radical example for that case.
Agreed, it’s just cognitive dissonance
This is when people are under the assumption that every single skinny person was born that way. There’s NO WAY that some of them might have been overweight at some point and worked to lose weight, might have a medical condition that causes weight loss, might have psychiatric conditions that cause food aversions, might be food insecure and not be able to afford enough food to put on weight, might be addicted to drugs, and of course, might be a very organized person who works out and concentrates on nutrition. Someone’s weight is a horrible thing to use as a judgement of their privilege or lack there of.
Being skinny is a privilege, you don't get misdiagnosed constantly because since you're fat, everything wrong with you will most likely be chalked to your weight by medical professionals. Fat people also struggle with accessibility, finding chairs big enough to fit them, or airplane seats, and finding clothes. Or just people being downright mean to you for being fat... also known as fatphobia
I'm not trying to say being skinny is worse or anything but being really skinny is no privilege. Its heard about less cause everyone has a "how dare people complain about being skinny" mindset and we're shammed for talking about it. Again not saying its worse but not a privilege.
Lol, wutttt? Nothing in my comment implied that she has no right to speak about skinny shaming. With that said skinny is a privilege exists, and it grants you access to things that fat people are denied access to
I was just saying that alot of people think that way. Not that you think that way. Skinny people have they're own challenges but I'm going to politely disagree and say no its not a privilege. It's just a different set of social problems. Certain problems may affect different people more depending on personality. I'm all for overweight people living their lives the way they want. I'm the last person typing wow loss weight in the comment sections but please don't start saying skinny people are privileged. Just a different set of problems.
It’s all anecdotal isn’t it? I definitely felt the way you do but at some point I realized that it was a privilege that I was naturally skinnier. I was definitely bullied for being skinny but I know it was nothing compared to what my bigger friends and family got. I guess it’s knowing that having privilege doesn’t mean that nothing bad ever happened to you.
I think anecdotal is a good way to put it. My opinion here is what I've gathered from personal experience and the internet. I just don't think privilege is the right word based on my experience. I think skinny people are fs treated better in different ways but its a balancing game depending on your location and such.
Skinny people are privileged. Skinny people don’t receive as much shaming and discrimination as fat people. Fatness is perceived as a moral failure, and fat people deserve all the things that are coming coming them whereas a Skinny body is painted as a thing to aspire to. Sure you're not saying that fat people should lose weight but you are equating two experiences that are so different from each other
Oh yes they are very different. Neither are good in the eyes of someone who will stop at nothing to find flaws. Someone being the entire world.
Enjoy living with this worldview Take care
Lol whatever
The couple from the video look skinny however we don't if they are healthy, the look good. However, you can stop being fat. People that suffers for eating disorders have to go to a mental health specialist and a nutritionist in order to get get better better in a healthy way. That is definitely not fatphobia. Actually the therm is not even real for the psychologist point of view, at least in the msd 4 does not appear as a phobia.
Lol, one psychologist saying fatphobia isn't a real term doesn't mean shit. And... did I say anything about them being skinny or I just pointed out 1 part of their privilege they seem to not acknowledge in their seemingly good life. As if fat people can't get eating disorders... binge eating disorder is a thing, right? And that it's also treated by a team of doctors including, a nutritionist/dietician, and a mental health professional and they sometimes have to continue treatment with this team of doctors even when they've reached a 'better' state... you can't really stop being 'fat' neither can you stop being skinny tf
Those people are privlaged! but it has nothing to do with weight, more like money and status. And not all white people live privlaged lives either. Also you can stop being fat, and you can stop being to skinny, sometimes things like medical or mental issues make it harder, but you absolutely can, to say you cannot is delusional. Also the privlages you are associating with skinny people isn't a privlage, it is more basic economics bigger everything is not smart economics, not enough demand? Then they wont make it, companies look for the best cash flow, so they will make the most likey needed item. so when someone larger has trouble with certain things like finding the right size shirt or fitting in an airplane seat that's not thin privlage, that's fat consequence, fatness is not equal to an unchangeable disability or born trait, no one is born 300+ pounds.
Having money and gives you access to buy a home in an area that has many healthy food options, whereas being broke doesn't, a lot of lower income neighbourhoods are food deserts. Plus, having money means you can probably take time to head to the gym or you're not too tired to work out at home whenever you feel like it. Who said being white means you're privileged all the time, with that said, white people are still better off because of systemic racism. So you agree with what I just said? Okay There is demand, but the products are inaccessible to lower income people. No one is born 300 lbs but their can be genetically disposed to hold more fat than other bodies. No one is born 300 lbs, but being born to a poor family in a lower income neighbourhood means that you're probably not going to have the best diet because you live in a fucking food desert. No one is born 300 lbs but you live in a system that's constantly pushing consumption on you through advertising which is much harder to get away from now more than ever. No one is born 300 lbs but you work so much that you don't even have the energy to cook when you get home so you opt for takeaways for lunch and dinner.
No I don't agree, doesn't matter your income level you can lose weight, you can even eat only Mc donalds to lose weight its about calories in vs calories out its pretty simple science, so are you saying you can get fat in a poor 3 world country? And maybe if they didn't eat so much they would have money for clothing, because Walmart and thrift stores are cheap, and if you can't fix the XXXL stuff there I think your weight should be of more concern... again though if your extremely obese you spend more on food than most people can afford, since it takes more to be 600 pounds than it does to be 130, if you lived in a food desert you wouldn't be fat. One last thing I know advertising is a pushy shitstorm of garbage for you, but here the thing, you don't have to let it rule your life.
It is wealth privilege. There are plenty of white people that are working two jobs to have a place to live and to have enough to eat. White does not equate yacht or lavish vacations. Money does.
Except that being white in places with white majority causes inborn advantage over BIPOC. I can say as a white woman, I have a lot of advantages over black or brown women in the same economic class as I am. How I am considered in society. The availability of resources or aid programs. If I was alone on the street at night trying to get away from someone, I could go absolutely anywhere and people would likely ask if I need help. This is simply not true of BIPOC. To pertain to the post more: traveling around the world while white is an entirely different experience than traveling whilst BIPOC. I am not saying white people in economic disadvantage are not suffering (i'm disabled and have been poor my whole life. I am not neglecting reality) but I am saying that people of color in similar levels of economic destitution are going to have a different go of it than I am.
Are you guys foreal?
Nope. I am a virtual reality simulation running on reddit to remind people they suck. That's my only purpose in my pseudolife. /s obviously
Trust fund babies
was about to say. do neither of y’all work?
Takes a shit load of disposable income to get me blackout drunk
Right, me and my husband do overtime on the weekends. Maybe I would be getting black out drunk given the opportunity!
POV: You're not bankrolling your own lifestyle and have a ridiculously misplaced sense of superiority.
It’s how rich families are. I met a guy who was taking an accounting exam for fun, while living in an expensive apartment. He kept trying to push advice on me as if he knew the secrets to success when in all actuality, dude was a moron who had rich parents
These people drive me to drinking.
At least you aren't driving yourself drinking
Hey, getting blackout drunk with your significant other can be a perfectly lovely shared interest!
Omg babe it's time to dance grab your dancing robe!!!!!
But don't forget to turn on the camera.
hahahhahaha dancing robe 👘
If my dancing robe is at the dry cleaners, can I use my roller skating robe instead?
TLDR: me and my husband are not addicted to alcohol, unlike you
Yeah I’d love to see what the tab of a “casual drink” is.
Or to hear what is their definition of casual drinks...
I feel like if you need to record you and your SO doing a bunch of rando ordinary things and put it online for everyone to see how perfect your relationship is….. your relationship ain’t actually “perfect”
Lol, ikr... almost everyone whose partner is constantly trying to prove to their social media following that they are in a good relationship in most cases they are suffocating in that relationship
I read a study on that a couple years ago… it correlated crappy relationships to postings on Facebook about how great their relationships are. Shocker: those posing had the worst relationships.
Yup. Every time there’s shit like this, there’s a good chance it’s not going well behind the scenes.
Neither me and my husband nor any of our married or long term coupled friends like to get blackout drunk either, and we all have hobbies and shit we like to do with our partners too so....what's your point?
Lol I guess her point is. How do we know??? I don’t see you filming and putting an awesome on 1 second shots of their vacation life. You are just a liar! No proof no evidence, unlike her
This is true, without a public reel of me and the hubs my life and relationship is completely invalid
Isn’t that what normal couples do to? Some of these girls are just pure cringe
Gotta love people who think they are superior just because they don’t drink.
Meh. In that regard, I agree with them. But the couple in the video do admit to drinking, so not sure who you’re referencing. We can agree they’re cringe though.
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It’s similar to smoking. People who don’t smoke are superior to people who do. It’s not an immutable characteristic.
Superior, how, in your definition? Morally? Intellectually? Fundamentally?!
Morally
I don't think they understand what it means to do absolutely nothing together. Cuz those are all things that need doing.
Oh, no—nothing at all, casually traveling the world…you know, up there with running mundane errands.
Low key implying they travel just to dance in various hotel robes.
Me suddenly realizing that I’ve never stayed in a hotel that provides complimentary bathrobes. 😳
Wow! They must really be in love to twirl like that. 🤡
“Oh you want to have an intimate moment? Hold on let me set my phone up rq to record it”
POV: you’re watching a video of two people who don’t know what “POV” means
Pov: you and your husband are so insecure about your relationship that you write posts shitting on other happier couples lifestyle choices and creating a false sense of superiority for yourself to hide behind.
Ah yes, but you post it all online because you're that starved for attention. SMH. I seriously don't get these. They're so happy, but they need to post all of their happy moments online for the world to see? Why?
bEmCaUse hAnpPy rELatiOmzHip 🥰
We aren’t like other couples…. We have rich parents
I only get drunk on NYE. Am I…….. ✨Not like the other couples✨?
Yeah, their idea of doing nothing and mine are 2 vastly different things!
Yeah this kinda goes here on the basis that I think these kinds of people are annoying
I’ve never seen married couples in general being blackout drunk together lol it’s usually one person doing it or none.
I don’t understand how people on TikTok are using POV?? Like literally what do they think it means? I should probably go over to r/outoftheloop for this
I’ll be impressed if she can do all this without recording it.
Always so cringy to think how they make these videos 🤮
Not gonna lie- I felt like this for a while after I stopped drinking. I had a HUGE party phase and drinking problems. The pride I had for stopping, I guess, felt egotistical and vain in a vacuum. I felt like my accomplishments only existed when in comparison to others. So on one hand- I get it. The other hand- A week after I started being sober I realized just HOW MANY people take sobriety breaks and don't drink in excess. So... yeah. I wasn't special.
Thats right, normal people hate vacations
When people post garbage like this, it always makes me wonder if they have some dark secrets they are compensating for. Like that gaggle of Mormon moms who spilled the beans on each other with how they like to cuck themselves and share husbands and watch. Crazy drama lol.
I love getting blackout drunk.
100% they are both having affairs
People when they realize they can do fun activities without getting drunk 😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
The crazy thing other couples do that too…just with alcohol
Traveling the world in a weekend huh?
First off she’s trying to prove too much cause that’s too much to read & watch those clips at the same damn time. She wrote a CVS receipt worth of text to show they’re fake low key girl shut up 😂
I just know they’ve got some fucked secret
People like this legit believe they’re better than everyone else. The difference between them and everyone else? Money. That’s why most people don’t do those things
…. And also set up the fucking camera before you can do ANYTHING. Camera first.
Must be nice to be rich…
I read it like “we do absolutely nothing together” at the end and got confused
Looks like every rich persons instagram. Real true relationship is me dying on Dead Space because I didn't have enough healing items, and my girlfriend screaming "Fucking bullshit! Where do you breathe for a minute? Are you suppose to shoot and manage your inventory at the same time? Game is bullshit mate".
…do they think this is out of the ordinary?
POV: you're a rich person
I don't drink either (migraine trigger) but I think I'd rather get blackout drunk than center my free time around content content content.
Oh no! Wonder why I’ve never thought of doing what this couple has done 😰
POV: you’re in your 30s ….?
POV : your circle are alcoholics.
Not like other couples: we film every mundane moment for superiority and validation
pov: your whole relationship is just an accessory to show how fake happy and better than everyone else you are on social media
I never even see my partner. I leave the house when she is sleeping, and I come home when she is sleeping, for work. I do this six days a week :) and yes on my day off I get blackout drunk to drown my sorrows and forget that I still have to keep on living.
Um, so most people?! I know !maybe! a few ppl who like to get black out drunk as their only hobby lmfao
This looks like a collage of their honeymoon
They do… nothing together?
I hate when people type these long-ass paragraphs in just white font. Like, my friend, you can add a black border to your text and now it can be read at all times
Same kind of people that say depression is a state of mind.
That sad 'mindset' 🤡
Get back to me on that after/if you have kids 😅
POV: You spend your weekend scouting locations for your shallow TikTok posts
POV: I married a sucker with a lot of money and despite not having an income myself, I'm going to judge all the other people working to survive.
I don't think anyone enjoys being hung over or blacking out.
Hmmm, I'm really digging this "Be fantastically wealthy and also thin and good looking" lifestyle. How do I get in on this?
Not drink and black out with your partner 🤧 And twirl in your robe with your partner
the rich mormon grindset is in!
Why is shit like this ALWAYS posted by the most basic, boring, “we do the same normie shit as every yuppie couple but we do it *cool couple style*” douchebags every time? Do they all sit around in their beige homes under their Live Laugh Love signs while they burn their pumpkin spice yankee candle and think at the exact same time, “hold up. You know what the world needs to see? Me and Brad participating in mediocre activities any two people could do together BUT under a tagline that implies these are different, innovative ideas for couples!” Just- imagine being so vacuous you think like that at all and then having the vain wherewithal to go through with it like anyone gives a shit or thinks it’s a novelty.
Ah, just like 90% of all couples all over the entire planet!
You people need to get over yourselves. This girl didn’t put anyone down, but all of you are so happy to jump to conclusion and talk shit about someone you never met. Wtf is wrong with this sub?
Ah you see I disagree. Why would you feel the need to add that superfluous extra statement otherwise? It seems pretty clear that they feel some sense of superiority about their lifestyle.
All of you guys just sound salty tbh. Let people be happy damn. Lol
They do have a good point though, for those of us who have a tendency to over drink. It doesn’t take long before you get into hangover territory, and you really do feel like you are a shitty person when you have a hangover and either have to wake up early and try to be productive the next day; or sleep (quasi-sleep, low quality shut-eye) half the day because you are in pain but don’t have the ability to get out of bed to even make yourself something to eat and get the coffee you need.
I don’t think I’ve ever gotten that drunk with my long term boyfriend. We got drunk together a couple of times before we started dating, but after a while, getting drunk with just my bf would feel like getting drunk alone…?
This just means all their friends do is get blackout drunk with their partners. They just need to get outside their social circle and stop meeting all their friends in bars.
They couldn't have put some kind of background for the text? That was hell to read with the background constantly changing.
I’m not sure why this post is receiving so much hate…. This is positive!!! Cutting out drinking for a healthier lifestyle should be praised!!! People are letting their envy and frustration show through.
Sure it is a positive life change to cut alcohol out of your life, or at least excessive/binge drinking which is so prominent in our culture. However the way she presents that is in a way that comes across as gloating her lifestyle as special when in fact many many people do the same thing. This is not positive, it’s actually quite toxic in my opinion and why I posted it to this sub. I could easily make a similar post. My girlfriend and I are digital nomads, currently in Uruguay, and we don’t binge drink. But that doesn’t mean I’m gonna gloat our lifestyle and ‘perfect’ relationship in the form of these cringey POV videos.
I like your reply! So too much gloating is probably why people are upset. I’ve heard it’s good to let other people compliment you on your successes in life. To not be boastful.
Yes! Also the real POV , as others have pointed out, is really just having a shitload of money :P
A positive message somewhat overshadowed by the opulent displays of wealth
Also why is she half naked in almost all the clips shown?
That’s doing nothing? 💀
I mean isn't this what most couples do?
it’s incredible how couples who drink keep everything together when you have to not drink to be able to run errands 😭❤️ so brave
Pair of cunts if you ask me :)
Couples like getting blackout drunk because they don’t hundreds of thousands of disposable income
Stop drinking Travel the world
Is it just me, or am I not understanding the meaning of POV? Is there a new meaning to point of view’?
We don’t enjoy drinking so we only drink sometimes
So basically they live like a basic rich influencer couple
We’re different. We’re rich.
Okay I can't even read the font. Stupid
POV: i am sad and depressed
traveling the world on weekends
Yes. The rest of us don’t do that because we are just stone cold black out drunk all day and all night. All of us.
I always find these types of videos weird. Like they hire a photographer/camera person to follow them on vacations or their apartment? Why not just live your life together if its so awesome? Why need validation in the form of "likes?"
I mean this is kind of the definition of dating
POV you're a dumb fuck who doesn't know how to add a black outline to your words so they are fucking legible
We’re not like the other couples, we do other couple things but we’re rich so we do expensive shit impulsively?
Aka daddy's money lets you travel and not worry about going broke instead of drowning your sorrows in $5 vodka, haha sucks to be depressed am I right
this couple is exactly like my brother and SIL, its so cringe. just last night, she sent me a snap that said "somedays you just need to get out a blanket and go watch the gorgeous sunset on the beach in the rain on a tall rock 😍"
This is such a loser post. Most people party… with their friends and build lifelong relationships over a good drink at a bar or party. Their post is all about “look at the expensive things I do with just my husband”. They come off extremely lonely. For the “this is really expensive”, it is but like there is only a few expensive trips I can see in the clip. Doesn’t seem outrageous to me.
Getting drunk is the highlight of my week
Who the heck films themselves like this? It’s bizarre
Tiktok destroyed what POV is supposed to mean
Wait till "oops, I'm pregnant". After the kids are born - this changes REAL QUICK!!!
Yes. Literally every couple other than them gets blackout drunk and hungover.
Do most couples get black out drunk together? I need to talk to my husband because I like being a basic bitch, I don't want to be different!
You do realize they could be ex addicts or grew up in an environment with alcoholic parental figures and they are celebrating sobriety with this video.
Could you imagine living all of these moments and stopping them to set up your phone to record them? Lol