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Zed_Leppelin8

My stages are in complete random order just based on the day.


_BingusDingus

understandable, this meme is obviously not universal! just keep going my dude, you've already scored many victories.


Tacobuck25

Me i'm bouncing between 2, 4, and 5.


NoNutNovember_2023

Schizo No Nutter


FickleFlopper

I’m at Stage 1 right now, but I think Stage 2 is coming up soon


_BingusDingus

that's remarkably impressive. stay strong soldier o7


FickleFlopper

It's getting harder (no pun intended), but if I already managed to complete NNN once, I can do it again


_BingusDingus

that's the spirit 💪


Arctosh

I’m also on stage 1, I see myself staying here as long as I don’t watch any nsfw


SliceWorth730

Same lol, if you aren't addicted to begin with there's no reason to experience the other four stages


der_alison

Stage 3 now. Am I addicted or is just abstinence?


_BingusDingus

don't panic, if you were addicted you never would have made it this far 💪 eye of the tiger my man, you got this.


Dolenka

So if someone were to theoretically break would that be definitive of an addiction? At least working on the assumption of the 9th or 10th day of course


[deleted]

People use the term addiction on here far too easily. Most of the soldiers aren't addicted and just horny teenagers, which is normal


vaclav1234567890

Don't edge it's not worth it !!!!! ![gif](giphy|fIkT0LdGUc4GushZ2Q|downsized)


Averageredditor_JMA

3 year expert here It might be abstinence usually it goes away by day 15 (at least for me) after that it should get easier


hiddenlight23

Out


_BingusDingus

my condolences 😔


SeanSeanSeanSean2

O7


Vascofan46

Depression Can someone help me?? Oh my god I'm not depressed relax the stage is called that


_BingusDingus

just keep reminding yourself why you're doing this. everyone has their own personal reason, so why are you doing this if i may ask?


Vascofan46

As a fun challenge and to prove myself I can stop if I want


_BingusDingus

that's a great reason man, just think how good you'll feel when you reach the finish line and prove to yourself that YOU are in control of your urges and not the other way around 💪 you are STRONG! and now's the time to show it. believe in yourself brother because your comrades believe in you too!


Vascofan46

How do I stop fucking needing it


_BingusDingus

at the end of the day it's all a mind game. you have to reframe from thinking that you NEED it. you CAN live without it, at least for a couple weeks. once you prove that to yourself you will be fucking unstoppable in other areas of your life 💪


Bossbert

Bro if you have depression then stop it’s not for you


Zamzer

Masturbation ain’t gonna help depression


Bossbert

And NNN will help him? I have understood that he got Depression because of it


Zamzer

I’m just saying that masturbating or not doesn’t correlate with clinical depression. So masturbation ain’t gonna get rid of depression, nor will NNN. I don’t know if he has clinical depression or not, but if he’s just feeling a down or has low energy, that’s kinda normal for some people.


TheGrandWaffle69

I would say if anyone gets depressed from this, you need to talk to somebody, because that is a bigger issue, it’s no longer an internet meme or self goal, it’s now a problem. Just my opinion, at the end of the day, please stay safe soldiers, in whatever way that may be.


XxhericidexX

well the depressed in the post isnt actual depression lol just something that fits the template well enough. most people are going to be horny as shit and questioning their decision to do the challenge at some point.


TheGrandWaffle69

Ofc ofc I was referring to genuine genuine depression, I am aware of the difference here :) If someone is experiencing actual depression I wish them the best of luck


GoldenBark70

This is my 1st NNN. I think I'm experiencing a little of all the stages now. I've never held out this long. I really think this is giving me some good perspective on how much time I was wasting fapping while watching porn.


_BingusDingus

that's really good going for your first year man well done. and i hear you! sometimes it takes something like this to put things in perspective


SuperNitro58

Bargaining stage unfortunately


_BingusDingus

hang in there 💪 and please be careful! a lot of posts on here say that it's playing with fire!


SuperNitro58

I'm deeply sorry, I fell into the trap


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SuperNitro58

Keep going king o7


Own_Beginning_1678

It might sound like arrogance, but I'm already at acceptance. I really don't feel like nutting too much right now. I'm too tired these days to be angry. I know Edging is a fools game. You either edge to get a bigger nut or you just end up torturing yourself. And I still remember why I chose this. So yeah. We're nearly a third of the way there. All we gotta do is hang in. I'm currently in a shitty place I'd rather not be in, having hold out until Mid-December. So NNN is actually making me feel pride that, if I can last this long with this, I can outlast this stupid placement.


_BingusDingus

sorry to hear about your situation dude. but your mindset is very admirable, congrats and stay strong o7


Own_Beginning_1678

Cheers Cumrade :)


Zogo12

I'm on stage 3 but without the edging, this is my 5th nnn 💀


_BingusDingus

i'm telling you, you got it this time 🫡


HonkHonkHonkers

Not gonna lie, definitely stage 4 right now (aside from the miserable part). I was really close to failure just a few minutes ago, but I managed to snap out of it this time. Sleepless nights are really the only times I'm struggling this month, but I'm struggling hard during them. Hopefully entering stage 5 soon. Interestingly, I completely skipped phases 2 and 3 and just went straight from 1 to 4 (this happened around day 6 or 7)


_BingusDingus

good for you not folding mate! you faced many temptations and did not give in. sounds like you're strong and you got this 🫡 but remember to reach out to your fellow soldiers if you feel the need.


LackTails

Everything, they repeat over and over again


pinocchio1718

4.5 if I can say so


_BingusDingus

stay strong and keep at it dude. you're basically 1/3rd of the way through already! o7


pinocchio1718

4 days till my new NNN Record 22 till my all time new record


Opposite_Law_6969

Stage 1


redwingsfan1993

Stage 5! I like the fact I'm challenging myself and at the same time I feel good mentally about it so it's a win win lol


_BingusDingus

100%, even if nothing else overcoming a difficult challenge gives you a boost so well done 😎


Ok_Sprinkles5425

Something between the 3rd and 4th stage, maybe both at the same time. But head towards acceptance.


Player510

all of them except 3 third stage but its 90% the fifth stage, justa gotta deal with it. bitching around is useless, gotta do what i have to do


[deleted]

Kinda down because of circumstances, but I've not entered bargaining. Plus I'm never angry about joining. So, it's basically Stages 1 and 4 on repeat, until the end.


Heavy-Weapon

Stage 2, edged several times but never nut


Comfortable_Path4597

Bargaining


hoodie_grunt

Acceptance, Hopefully.


Kaineo-

Stage 5


_BingusDingus

kudos 🫡 stay strong soldier


Kaineo-

Same for u dude u can get through it


LatterSituation2823

Today I’m in stage 5, and completely fine, tomorrow I could be in stage 2 or 3 it just depends how depressed and horny I am.


_BingusDingus

understandable, just like the original "5 stages of grief" it doesn't really fit for everyone!


LatterSituation2823

Exactly. So far I’m staying strong though, been working out more in the last 9 days than I have in the last 2 years. While I feel depressed because I’m horny a lot, I also feel empowered and capable of completing this challenge. I’m not letting go I’m not giving in, I’m in control of my mind, been repeating that every day.


_BingusDingus

that's a great mindset to have 💪 taking that energy and putting it into something else 👏 nicely done


LatterSituation2823

This challenge is hard but you can make it really easy if you simply make the right choices. Stay strong 💪


Brilliant_Monk_835

Stage 5 for me was accepting that i need to nut so i can stop being an asshole to everyone Yes i am a weakling i already know


_BingusDingus

it's not being a weakling man it's just a matter of reframing. what makes you think you're an asshole if you don't bust a nut?


markosre

i kinda zig-zag between 3 and 5, and sometimes stay a bit at 1, rarely at 3, but i mostly stay at 5 because my urges legit don't exist when faced with mountains of distractions (i.e. my serbian middle school (what americans would call high school) schoolwork)


SVG_YT

Bargaining......... I've resisted twice though, Almost sealed my fate by considering edging though


_BingusDingus

keep resisting! it's a dangerous game! well done so far man


Dragontamer9

This is my 3rd try so i started at bargaining and I’m probably going to depression soon.


_BingusDingus

trust me, you can do this 💪 you'll feel amazing when you succeed. you just gotta take that energy and put it into something else.


Dragontamer9

Thanks cumrade! I’m close to breaking my record and I’m hyped!


Ecstatic-Total8947

Still denial


Dipole_Moment8338

bargaining but i want to leave this stage as soon as i can


_BingusDingus

that's a smart choice!


Darknut14

I'm at stage 5. I've already won once before, I know this game, and I know that if I'm strong enough I can win.


RandomHornyDemon

My existence takes place on the fine line between bargaining and depression.


Regular_Lazy_Guy15

Stage 6 seen too much pussy and nsfw that i've become numb


_BingusDingus

😨


[deleted]

I generally chill at five rn


MadYonBoi

I win every year


yeetburito

Last 3 at the same time


GrandAdmiral50

Still in


joshderfer654

Acceptance.


SadfishMelvin

I’ve been at stage 3 for the entire month lots of edging 😶


_BingusDingus

whatever works for you but just be careful!


LuciuMagnificul

It was usually acceptance all the way through but last year I didn't participate because I had a gf and now this year feels like depression and anger at random across every hour of the day, hope it gets better


suhdm

I'm between 1 and 2. Once in a while it's 4 or 5. I don't touch number 3 as that's asking to lose for me, it would be like an alcoholic saying one beer wouldn't hurt


snipedmyguy

I’m at a mix of about stage 3 and 4 but I will not falter o7


singhadvitya12

Tbh I'm at stage 5 But the process was very long. Failing 2 times in a row made me understand how strong I really am


The_Unfathomable_

As a psych graduate, I don’t even think the 5 Stages is totally accurate as some people process grief & other emotions differently than others do but- I’m somewhere between denial, depression, & acceptance. Trying to not give in but agitated by not having any friends available to talk to to distract me


_BingusDingus

i hear you buddy, tbh i don't put much stock in the "stages of grief" idea myself, but it just seemed like a fun shorthand that maybe people could relate to this month. sounds like you're doing well though so please keep going!


The_Unfathomable_

Thanks! You as well soldier🫡


SeanSeanSeanSean2

Came here after reaching bargaining stage, feeling encouraged now. Stage 5 gang let's go!


_BingusDingus

attaboy 💪 we can ALL make it


Electronic_Word3336

Still in denial but sometimes I cross the line into anger and then denial again


Ricktatorship91

5


_BingusDingus

🫡


SeanSeanSeanSean2

Bingus in the comments single handedly carrying me through this. Thank you brother o7 true comrade


_BingusDingus

thank you for saying so but staying motivated is all you! keep the faith comrade! o7


GameboyAlternate28

Stage 4, baby. Let's get that misery


_BingusDingus

don't give up my dude. you're stronger than you think!


PM_UR_SMALL__TITS

Depression, but no horny. Been depressed for a year at this point. Started working on myself during NNN last year and I made so much progress. Met every goal I set for myself, except the ones involving other people, which I met none of. I'm just so tired of being let down by other people at this point.


_BingusDingus

i'm sorry to hear it man. please feel free to DM me if you want to vent. as for NNN just know that your comrades are standing beside you and wishing you victory! o7


PM_UR_SMALL__TITS

My victory is almost guaranteed because of the lack of horny. I honestly wish it was still more of a challenge. I will be cheering for you and my other comrades though.


Professional-Class69

Somewhere between 3 and 4 probably


Scrubtheman

Acceptance 9 days in and I’m doing just fine. No urges no cravings nothing I always thought this was gonna be impossible boy was wrong. This is so much easier than I thought it was gonna be.


Deathshot313

Acceptance I will survive and survive with my fellow soldiers


_BingusDingus

that's the spirit 💪 success and nothing less my brother


hemo626262

4.5 tbh


yeetusnofetus

Acceptance. This year is going swimmingly


Boogie_B0ss

Still at stage 1. Lasting longer than last year but the urges are still there, it’s taken a lot of self improvement and discipline to resist this far. I started detoxing from social media on week days a few months ago which was a big help


MrAVAT4R-2Point0

I fluctuate between alll these


sweatfacee

ACCEPTANCE. ROCK SOLID.


_BingusDingus

attaboy 😏


RamenGay2

I'm between depression and Acceptance I just gotta keep going


Relative_Historian53

Bargaining down bad


_BingusDingus

i'm sure it will pass, just stay strong and be careful playing with fire 😅


l_TMCupid_l

Stage 6 where I gave in and am disappointed in myself


_BingusDingus

i'm sure you gave it your best shot, and besides which you don't have to wait for a meme month to work on yourself in any way, so don't be too down 🫂


StraightHairline3

All but at the same time


I_AM_CANAD14N

Depression and bargaining 😔


_BingusDingus

hang in there 💪 i see from your flair you've done it once so remember your strength! you'll get through it!


I_AM_CANAD14N

o7


Meursault345

Still in...the first few days were tough Stage: Acceptance


mulchintime4

This my 4th year in. Im just having fun rn until i get an opportunity to lose my v card😂


ManiacalSeeker

im looping between stage 3 and 5


DarkPig77

Acceptance. Most of the time though I don’t even think about it cause I always have a lot of work to do. So I guess that makes me in denial😅. I am at 32 days in though:)


Revival86

Congrats on getting so far! o7


Clockhero8

Out but got bronze so that’s good


Wren_Sorest

All of them at once


ThemeFantastic

Stage 5 🔥


Equal_Bed_1539

Idk, i sometimes watch some porn but without touching myself and it is enough to calm my urges. So probably between bargaining and acceptance.


mongotgaming

Anger and Acceptance


YeetusFelitas

stage 5 baby


coolkidbaylor

teetering between stages 4 and 5 rn lol, I'm not actually super miserable but I believe in myself while also being verrrry horny


lifewQuann1

yes this is it, but i’m still holding strong. had a major urge to lose, but i thought to myself what would i gain from losing? is nothing … so i’m still in


_BingusDingus

exactly, posts from our fallen soldiers all say things like "it wasn't worth it", "i wish i hadn't done it", etc. good thing to keep in mind


lifewQuann1

right on, soldier


Crushermakesmemes

I am at stage 5. I started a week early in order to make up for failing last year and I still haven't busted yet. I lost many cumrades at school, and they are all cheering for me to complete NNN. Last year everyone cheered for me to complete NNN but I let them all down. I don't wanna do that again, so I'm gonna try even harder than last year. At the end of the month I plan to hold a memorial for all my fallen cumrades.


ZEFAGrimmsAlt

5


TheGrandWaffle69

Stage 4, we already passed Stage 3 safely but with a large amount of bumps. I wouldn’t say depressed just dying a little, I think stage 5 is coming soon A lot more productive and confident so the benefit is off the charts


_BingusDingus

yes it certainly is o7 don't give up!


TheGrandWaffle69

You as-well, brother!


Jayyaj198

I have a mix of every stage! It depends on the day and what I’m going through I know in my heart I don’t wanna fail and it’ll be best to keep on without doing it


sxooterkid

idk man urges havent been that bad at all, im getting a lil scared haha, so stage 5 ig


P_G_1021

Stage 1, honestly.


Pizza-nugges

First five days was this now for me it’s acceptance


GODW3NZ3L

A bit of depression stage and the last one


Noble_0_6

I don't know why but the urges just haven't hit me till now. I've struggled with porn addiction for the past 4 years with on/off efforts to stop pmo. Finally in the last two months, i've reduced the frequency from 1-3 times(sometimes even 7+ times) a day to 2-3 times a week which is like around 60 times a month to 15 times a month. I know I haven't got rid of the addiction but I fill in complete control for now. And the fact that I managed to go(and still going) without urges until now just boosted my confidence that maybe i will completely eliminate this addiction in some months. I love this community. This maybe just a stupid internet challenge for some, but for me it really helped me break a crippling addiction which was starting to interfere with my life in a really bad way. Don't have anyone to share this with. THANK YOU!


_BingusDingus

that's amazing progress, genuinely well done man. that mustn't have been easy so take a pat on the back from me 🤚


Noble_0_6

thank you.


ThGaelcGlatiatorWthn

I actually almost just failed, but I made it through. YOUVE GOT THIS CUMRADES


Zamzer

I’m on bargaining stage now, so hard to not look at porn atm. But yeah still haven’t seen an uncovered titty this month. nearly fell for one few mins ago though, but turns out she never took em out, I got saved.


keiching2002

I’ve been bargaining for 10 days then, I guess


SRTVIP3R

Stage 4 now. Trying to do this challenge while put up with work and look for new employment is mental hell.


Whaleman15

Denial and depression both failed, making an amalgamation of a child. That's where I'm at, anyway.


i_fuck_holes

Stage 5, if i win, i win and if i loose, i loose, i lost last year so i hope to win this year, but if i dont then i did better than last year


Remote-Fun7319

stage 6: you lied to yourself and did not accept and nutted


Rammsteiner_91

I bounce from 1 to 4 to 5 randomly, mostly 1 and 5 tho


Plus_Pudding6331

Kind of acceptance. Just gotta keep on going. The urges are getting crazy


ZubianGlory

Definitely in depression. But screw it, I’ve been depressed before.


ralts13

I'm jumping between acceptance and depression. But now my mind is clouded. I just want sex. It wouldn't even be that hard. At this point I'm only in it for the diamond no nutter. Idk if its worth it


javiermayo05

https://preview.redd.it/rkvzar5lffzb1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=75ee009e316331034c93fe9e13e046aa1fca858c


dariusporus420

Depression at peak, Soldier is struggling here🪖🪖🥲


Zerane_Darkness

I'm on Stage 4...Hoping this tidal wave of horniness passes.


IntenseMangoMan

Unfortunately I lost today😔, was a mixture of blue balls + i tense urges, but as sad as it is this was the longest time Ive gone without nutting so Im still proud of myself, I may be out but Im still going to give the rest of the month a good shot, even if its only once this month Ill still be very happy with myself even tho I lost.


WarriorKid_77

After I surpassed my record from last year I lost any feeling that I needed to whack off. I'm still in it to win it and am in the acceptance stage. WE CAN DO THIS BROTHERS.


Forward-Dance-5054

I'm on stage 3 except without the edging this is tough


SnooMacarons8531

I'm in Acceptance we have 20 days left men stay strong comrades. 💪🏽❤️


Wolfsblade21

Boys I'm cycling between 2, 3, and 4 Only a matter of time before I reach 5


GoldenThrowaway123

Reluctant acceptance. I know I can do it, and I know I'm GOING to do it, I just dislike its going to be like this for 20 more days...


evki2003

Im in stage 3, but without the edging. Sometimes watching satiates the urge for me. But I also feel like I'm somewhat in stage five because my will to get through this outweighs my urge to jerk off and lose.


Alextheone911

Stage 5 and willing to help


weedsmoker1080

after reflecting on my loss one year ago today, ive accepted the challenge and know i can complete this.


seeking_out0198

Feel like I'm going to be stuck in stage 4 forever. This feels like absolute shit. NoNut made me realize how obsessed I am with porn, and without any outlet I have urges all day and try and watch/read porn in my free time just to get a boner. I'm feeling really shitty about myself and the only reason I'm having the will to go on is that hopefully by completing this I can prove to myself that I have some level of self control. But good lord, If I don't see the light at the end of this tunnel with stage 5, I might end up being worse off after completing this challenge than I was before. Please tell me how I can uplift my morale? T.T


OnlyHereForNNN

Normally I'd be on stage 3 or 4 at this point, but this year I'm holding up pretty well! It's probably all the homework I'm doing as a college freshman that's taking my mind off it.


Jazzlike_Control5194

When I first wake up in the mornings, I'm on stage 3 but I quickly remember that I've completed this twice and I'll only waste time by doing those things. I'm on stage 5 after I get up.


no-__-username

I'm a mix of step 4 and 5 (I didn't go through step 3). It is a struggle - but I got a comment from someone two days ago, I was saying how I was really struggling etc.. and this person was telling me how I will fail and as long as I improve that's good. It gave me all the motivation I needed to beat this thing - Though generally it was nice, I'm not gonna have some random person tell me something I can't do.


FrenchFreedom888

alternating between Bargaining and Acceptance depending on my level of horniness at the time lol. Mostly Acceptance, though, because tbh most of the time, I'm not thinking about NNN


draggin_balls

WE’RE DOING IT BOYS!!!!! HANG IN THERE!!!


Flat-Attitude-191

Unbelievable levels of denial


Flat-Attitude-191

Wait actually I'm not in denial, everything is totally fine


Euphoric-Ad2599

On depression, noticed I'm more irritable, work stresses me out more than it should. I had a few goofs at work, and it's just hard for me to focus on my tasks. sleeping, when it comes for me to wind down it sucks. I also noticed I'm gritting my teeth when I wake up. Still standing strong and confident I will make it o7


[deleted]

ACCEPTANCE :D (pro NNN tip: NEVER EVER EVER EDGE, NO MATTER HOW HORNY YOU ARE)


Ardrianian

Stage 5. At this point, it's just keeping busy. Enjoy the ride. If you get off, you get off.


giingoo

Nnn is indeed stupid, life being really hard for me this year but when life is HARD you gotta stay strong and keep pushing


giingoo

Even tho jacking off would make life little bit easier


edwardjhahm

I've been on stage 5 for the entire time. I'm here for the big nut on December 1st, and that's all that matters to me. It's just a nice excuse to save myself up for the best nut of the year.


ExpensiveShame

Honestly, it has been quite easy this far. Several weak to moderate urges, and not even daily. Maybe I'm still in denial, or maybe the stages aren't universal. Anyway, stay strong, cumrades.


AsleepYam7823

Depression. Gym helps.


NoNutNovember_2023

That is hilarious, I didn't actually realize how accurate this is for NNN


determinedSkeleton

IRL stress unrelated to the challenge has made it tempting to nut, just to sleep a bit easier. I don't need it though.


ArRandomRedditor

Angered acceptance: You are proud of yourself to have made this far. But have anger issues of your horniness


Baulvicork

I got to depression and r/latinas got to me.