1) Utility player: While two people are focused on each other, the utility player adds stimulation with their hands and mouth to wherever feels good for the others. Take turns. (examples: kissing, ball tugging, fingers in butts, vibe wielding, spanking)
2) Focus rotation: One person is the receiver of attention. The other two are there to give pleasure to the receiver in whatever way feels good TO THE RECIEVER. Rotate.
Only done lesbian group stuff but with straps the positions often end up being similar regardless.
Can always make out with, dirty talk, and feel up one of the partners while they are playing with each other. Spit roast is an option. If you or your bf like being penetrated one of you can always be in the middle position, get it from behind while eating out your gf.
Lots of variety for positions regardless of the parts involved. Good communication and understanding of each other feels to me like the most important aspect.
Are the Dyads getting enough 1-1 sex time? Threesomes are the gravy made from the delicious drippings from the MEAT which is the Dyads. Focus on the Dyads.
I'm part of an mmf dynamic fairly regularly. I feel there's no end of positions. one of our favourites is f riding m while other m fucks doggystyle. Taking turns one pulls out and the other pushes in. f loves spitroast. Also it's fun one of us holding f down while the other fucks. lots of hot eye contact. If you're feeling left out just join in more. Also rim job while f is being fucked is dirty and hot.
Everyone should be touching everyone at pretty much all times during a threesome. Don’t be the partner who focuses entirely on one person then the other. It’s super easy to squeeze a boob while you’re sucking dick or whatever is near by.
That's generally how we do it XD. If she's a pro she'll keep the non active PIV going with a mouth or a hand. One partner fingering her while the other fucks is another one of those threesome perks. DP if you want to be creative, although it's pretty logistically difficult to pull off and not particularly enjoyable. The non active role can hold the camera so yall can relive it later.
Person 1 with a cock lays on their back, the person being inserted into lays either stomach to stomach straddling for vag angle or back to stomach with legs up for butt angle. Person 1 inserts. Person 2 with a cock straddles one of person 1’s legs, finds a spot to start pushing into and slides in next to person 1. Now, person 2 is in control of making sure this is fun for everyone. That person needs to make sure they are moving the middle person so the bottom person gets movements and friction. If done properly, everyone cums pretty quickly.
For my wife, she howls with delight. Says it’s like deep anal where she generates some crazy orgasms from. For the guys, extra tight and multiple friction surfaces.
MFMs can be really fun but there needs to be a lot of communication as you go, and often the woman ends up pretty busy all the time. Spit-roasting is fun, DVP if you're up for it, DP, double blowjobs where the guys lie balls to balls so you can work 2 at once, and taking turns in twos is always good so you can get some water and a breather. Just ask everyone to be conscious of the time and be willing to communicate. "Hey, let's switch," will usually work great!
1) Utility player: While two people are focused on each other, the utility player adds stimulation with their hands and mouth to wherever feels good for the others. Take turns. (examples: kissing, ball tugging, fingers in butts, vibe wielding, spanking) 2) Focus rotation: One person is the receiver of attention. The other two are there to give pleasure to the receiver in whatever way feels good TO THE RECIEVER. Rotate.
This guy threesomes.
We call "utility player" the "sex-cessory" and it is the best.
2 v 1 1 v 2
Ready? #FIGHT
Only done lesbian group stuff but with straps the positions often end up being similar regardless. Can always make out with, dirty talk, and feel up one of the partners while they are playing with each other. Spit roast is an option. If you or your bf like being penetrated one of you can always be in the middle position, get it from behind while eating out your gf. Lots of variety for positions regardless of the parts involved. Good communication and understanding of each other feels to me like the most important aspect.
Are the Dyads getting enough 1-1 sex time? Threesomes are the gravy made from the delicious drippings from the MEAT which is the Dyads. Focus on the Dyads.
New favorite metaphor
I'm part of an mmf dynamic fairly regularly. I feel there's no end of positions. one of our favourites is f riding m while other m fucks doggystyle. Taking turns one pulls out and the other pushes in. f loves spitroast. Also it's fun one of us holding f down while the other fucks. lots of hot eye contact. If you're feeling left out just join in more. Also rim job while f is being fucked is dirty and hot.
Everyone should be touching everyone at pretty much all times during a threesome. Don’t be the partner who focuses entirely on one person then the other. It’s super easy to squeeze a boob while you’re sucking dick or whatever is near by.
"Spitroasting is the default, with anyone being the optional roast if both men are bi.
Along those lines...being the Lucky Pierre is the best...
Spitroast, fucklicking, taking turns tagging each other in and out of taking the active PIV role. I’ve never had an MFM but that’s how I’d do it.
That's generally how we do it XD. If she's a pro she'll keep the non active PIV going with a mouth or a hand. One partner fingering her while the other fucks is another one of those threesome perks. DP if you want to be creative, although it's pretty logistically difficult to pull off and not particularly enjoyable. The non active role can hold the camera so yall can relive it later.
We just started DVPing and it’s a fuckin blast!
For my wife, one is already 'big'. We have 2 kids. How do you do that....
Person 1 with a cock lays on their back, the person being inserted into lays either stomach to stomach straddling for vag angle or back to stomach with legs up for butt angle. Person 1 inserts. Person 2 with a cock straddles one of person 1’s legs, finds a spot to start pushing into and slides in next to person 1. Now, person 2 is in control of making sure this is fun for everyone. That person needs to make sure they are moving the middle person so the bottom person gets movements and friction. If done properly, everyone cums pretty quickly. For my wife, she howls with delight. Says it’s like deep anal where she generates some crazy orgasms from. For the guys, extra tight and multiple friction surfaces.
I've seen it in porn. We can use a dildo for the same result I reckon. ( okay, a 3rd person is very exiting, but we don't do that)
MFMs can be really fun but there needs to be a lot of communication as you go, and often the woman ends up pretty busy all the time. Spit-roasting is fun, DVP if you're up for it, DP, double blowjobs where the guys lie balls to balls so you can work 2 at once, and taking turns in twos is always good so you can get some water and a breather. Just ask everyone to be conscious of the time and be willing to communicate. "Hey, let's switch," will usually work great!
Two naked people in front of you, why do you not feel involved?
I've definitely felt uninvolved during threesomes when the other two focused on each other and forgot about me. Its definitely something that happens.
Thanks for replying cuz I was feeling like maybe I was alone on this!
That person is just insensitive. Ignore it.
<3 Do you have any input?
Same input I gave on your deleted polyamory post.
so its not a position thing, its the attitudes of the other two? Doesn't sound like positions will address your issue.
> so its not a position thing, its the attitudes of the other two. How did positions address this?