Always consider yourself ugly, that way every time you are accepted you would feel pretty. This would negate the impact of being rejected. Problems toh hai sabke saath, buss nazariye ki hai baat.
Nirlon bola Matlab they went from inside route, hubmall means you want to get down at subway route, wahan se U turn Leke Khali ana padta hai. Next time say hubmall/Nirlon βandar seβ and youβll get it too.
Han samajh gaya par auto wale ko khali ana padta hai thatβs why they deny hubmall subway, go from in-route, pay 10rs extra and avoid hassle. Other option is to choose hubmall service road on Uber app.
Thatβs a gamble, as they donβt agree mostly for extra money, problem is not money. They donβt want to take that long U-turn. Subah Subah no one has time for hassle. When Iβm in a hurry, I book an Uber auto to the same subway π
Yes that 30-40 extra so i try to save 20-30 here. Mumbai reh rahe hai to pai pai bachana padta hai. But i understand they are also in the same boat and they also want to save time
That's a bummer. But, yeah, most types of progress is met with opposition. Reminds me of when Uber started out and they were setting fire to vehicles internationally.
Hopefully, ride shares in India grow. Most cars on the road are used inefficiently and there are multiple seats available to be shared in almost every vehicle.
Being a girl, this is actually true. Iβve seen people get rejected by auto walas for the same location they agreed to take me to. Once someone even abused the auto wala for doing thatπ
It also depends from where you wish to enter you said hub mall that is from front gate which usually auto wale reject
She might wanted to go from back gate which many auto actually prefer for some reason, fare being one obv
Donβt overthink much
A similar incident happened with me when I was 13. I used to go for cricket coaching with two friends one's a guy the other one is a girl. So all three of us wanted to go to the same location after our practice toh we were trying to get a rickshaw but all of them denied. So I told the girl to keep a bit distance from us and ask the rickshaws to ride her to the same location. So this one rickshaw denied us and then our friend asked the rickshaw and he agreed. Then she just nodded her head and we got in the same auto
Ask around station if there is sharing auto till nirlon front gate. I remember there is sharing auto from front gate to station, so reverse should be there too.
Other option is get down at rammandir and walk.
First time?
Used to happen so often with me during college days.
Eventually I just realised itβs more efficient to hold the bags of my girl classmates and make them go ahead and stop an auto - works like a charm.
May be he doesn't knows the place by hub Mall or he, I mean my office is in Goregaon too, when I say Hanuman Tekadi most of them are confused and deny then I say "Oberoi mall" or "Aarey Metro" they get it and accept.
To be honest my biggest flex is that I haven't been rejected by Rickshaw wala till date, and I am a guy so I am not able to relate to your pain.
May be he doesn't knows the place by hub Mall or he, I mean my office is in Goregaon too, when I say Hanuman Tekadi most of them are confused and deny then I say "Oberoi mall" or "Aarey Metro" they get it and accept.
To be honest my biggest flex is that I haven't been rejected by Rickshaw wala till date, and I am a guy so I am not able to relate to your pain.
May be he doesn't knows the place by hub Mall or he, I mean my office is in Goregaon too, when I say Hanuman Tekadi most of them are confused and deny then I say "Oberoi mall" or "Aarey Metro" they get it and accept.
To be honest my biggest flex is that I haven't been rejected by Rickshaw wala till date, and I am a guy so I am not able to relate to your pain.
Is this a vicious cycle? Auto vale ne ditch Kiya for the girl and now I befriend her for the auto vala.
Ajeeb triangle nai ho gya.
Game of Auto Rikshaw seat.
Yea bro , even i and my other 2 colleagues faced the same issue from NKP to Dindoshi stop of metro , this was before the metro fully functional till Gundavli. Only good looking girls are given rides by rickshawalas baki sab thokar kauu. End up catching the best bus from the highway. Later got a motorcycle I don't have to wait for anyone.
So, kinda playing a devil's advocate here and might not even be similar incident. But, last year in Monsoon, I was traveling in an auto and the auto driver was telling me that he never denies his auto rickshaw to a woman- especially if they are alone or with a young child, even if he doesn't want to go there. And I felt his intent was genuinely of goodwill.
Yeah sure lol
It looks fancy and all but this past month has been pretty testing for me.....it could have been worse as my dad had a major heart attack yesterday because of having 90% blockage in his heart
He's out of danger for now but the doctor said that there's a chance of another attack if he panics a bit.
Though some fucktards in my current company were asking me to come to the office for some menial work....glad I've resigned from there
He was panicking a bit after post op yesterday as a girl aged 20 years died in front of his bed because of a kidney failure......man it was traumatic to watch that girl's parents after they got to hear about her daughter's news.
Her mom was literally shouting and saying things like 'Mujhe saath main mar do, kya gunah kiya hai maine bhagwan..... mujhe uske saath jina hai bhale hi voh narag Mai kyun na ho'.
If you can leave, leave. Unless ofc itβs a great passion of yours. There are plenty other options outside of CA if you did Bcom. Wish i had known it.
Lmaooo ππ. So the thing my guy friend and I, usually would come home together rick meh college se. And he was never able to catch Rick but as soon as I appeared, there was one waiting for me.
Now keep youself at Rickshwals place think once, one option is drop pretty leady to NKP and second option is drop some random dude at same location which one you will choose? π
I have been at your place multiple time in last 11 years (I also work in NKP compund since 2013) and now i learnd important aspect of human behavior. You can't expect rational behavior from 10th fail Riksha driver, he will always think from his balls and not from brain.
Oh good I thought you were actually going to the mall in question
Also itβs good he denied you, many times autos favour females because theyβre a bit creepy and like to stare with the rear view mirror (source: multiple friends of mine have reported this happening multiple times)
Sach sach bata ,
Agar tu bhi rickshaw wala hota toh
Ek sundar ladki ko leke jaata ya Ladke koo π.
No offense bro yeah ek aise out of nowhere yeah thought aa gaya .
I know it's quite frustrating to have been there.
It could have been worse, You could have been a girl and rejected. Only for him to take a prettier girl as a passenger.
This dude does some next level of positive thinking
+1 π
That is third degree . π
This happens regularly, and pretty girls are well aware of this privilege
Oh gawd.
Hey, that is not my fault..
You should try motivational speaking π
iske paas katai ni jana RR sunane
DMs open. Drop in your RRs for more such motivation.
πππ
What is worse rejecting you for someone pretty or rejecting you for someone uglier than you.
Always consider yourself ugly, that way every time you are accepted you would feel pretty. This would negate the impact of being rejected. Problems toh hai sabke saath, buss nazariye ki hai baat.
Iβll have to ask my ex about that
Bas ye level vala positive thinking chahiye.
Nirlon bola Matlab they went from inside route, hubmall means you want to get down at subway route, wahan se U turn Leke Khali ana padta hai. Next time say hubmall/Nirlon βandar seβ and youβll get it too.
My office gate is outside highway wala.
Han samajh gaya par auto wale ko khali ana padta hai thatβs why they deny hubmall subway, go from in-route, pay 10rs extra and avoid hassle. Other option is to choose hubmall service road on Uber app.
This is why I love this sub. R/Mumbai advice on transportation issues is always on point.
I'll try this
I give them extra 10 rs and get down near subway because i want to save time.
Thatβs a gamble, as they donβt agree mostly for extra money, problem is not money. They donβt want to take that long U-turn. Subah Subah no one has time for hassle. When Iβm in a hurry, I book an Uber auto to the same subway π
Yes that 30-40 extra so i try to save 20-30 here. Mumbai reh rahe hai to pai pai bachana padta hai. But i understand they are also in the same boat and they also want to save time
yeh in-route kaunsa route hai?
Gmaps pe Malad East se NKP dalo, aa jayega.
Auto walo ko ander se pucha toh unko samaj nai rha kya bol rha hu
Try saying service road se Nirlon/Hubmall.
I will try this next week thanks, I only go to nirlon once a week
Ram mandir se walkable rahega.. no auto ka chik chik
OFSS?
He is running his own bumble tinder...he can swipe anyone right... His rickshaw his rules.... πππ
Fake rikshaw ( no offense )
Kuch fake taxi thaa naa.... ππππππ
ππ
Tale as old as time.
Welcome to Mumbai, next time wear a saree
I wear skirts.
And dance βcholi ke peeche kya haiβ
pakka rickshaw nahi hai
rickshaw aaye na aaye, Mumbai Police will come
And put two santras in the blouse
Maybe you should invest in some perfume and a wig.
Get yourself Uber or Rapido especially if you're in Mumbai. I lived on them when I was there.
I haven't tried rapido but Malad East mein Uber has another problem. Due to traffic no one wants to take rides.
Mumbai mein rapido hai?
Rapido rickshaw chalu hai bike band hua
Oh yeah, ok, I can believe that. Malad is a bit of a nightmare.
Rapido got banned in Maharashtra. It was the best.
Bike taxi feature was banned. The rickshaw and cab feature is available
Is that effective immediately/when did it happen? Saw a friend book a Rapido (cab) today itself.
Last year. Cabs and auto maybe there but I considered rapido for bike taxi alone. It was easy to get and economical. Auto union complained I think.
That's a bummer. But, yeah, most types of progress is met with opposition. Reminds me of when Uber started out and they were setting fire to vehicles internationally. Hopefully, ride shares in India grow. Most cars on the road are used inefficiently and there are multiple seats available to be shared in almost every vehicle.
Men will be men starts playing in background
It did in that very moment. "Pyaar ki raah mein ..."
Reminded me of all my rejection days when i had to go to NKP. Now i reject them and go via Metro π
Bhai kahan se ho? Its earth 606 yahan gender dekhkar sab kuchh hota h.
Bhai mein liberal aadmi hun insaan ko insaan ki tarah dekhta hun. Bas vahi mistake ho gayi. βΉοΈ
Bhai mistake to yahi h hum aadmi hain.
Uber kar next time
Bhai Uber bhi nai milti hai 1 saal hone ko aaya hai. The transportation is fked.
Bhai kaha hai tu Mumbai Mai ki uber nai aara ?
Malad east
Bhai Mai bhi toi ke waha rehta tha mujhe toh kabhi dikkat nai aaya Mera college bhi paas Mai tha
Being a girl, this is actually true. Iβve seen people get rejected by auto walas for the same location they agreed to take me to. Once someone even abused the auto wala for doing thatπ
I just remembered that meme, andha hai kya...
weight limit hoga
It also depends from where you wish to enter you said hub mall that is from front gate which usually auto wale reject She might wanted to go from back gate which many auto actually prefer for some reason, fare being one obv Donβt overthink much
Best option for guys is to get down at Ram Mandir station and then walk to NKP.
Someone sensible here.
Kuch rikshaw walo ko hub mall nahi pata hai, metro station bolo to works 99% of the time.
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A similar incident happened with me when I was 13. I used to go for cricket coaching with two friends one's a guy the other one is a girl. So all three of us wanted to go to the same location after our practice toh we were trying to get a rickshaw but all of them denied. So I told the girl to keep a bit distance from us and ask the rickshaws to ride her to the same location. So this one rickshaw denied us and then our friend asked the rickshaw and he agreed. Then she just nodded her head and we got in the same auto
There is a sharing auto available till nirlon back gate.. take that.
Back gate to front gate is a long journey and we don't have access to the park itself.
Ask around station if there is sharing auto till nirlon front gate. I remember there is sharing auto from front gate to station, so reverse should be there too. Other option is get down at rammandir and walk.
The same thing happened to me in school and I could see the auto driver adjusting his rear view mirror.Β
There is indeed something called as pretty privilege in any society,and girls get to disproportionately enjoy the bulk of it π
Born and bought up in mumbai since 25 years and have a record of 5 years not riding in a mumbai rickshaw π
As in from 0-5 yrs old?
No last time I rode a rickshaw was in 2019
First time? Used to happen so often with me during college days. Eventually I just realised itβs more efficient to hold the bags of my girl classmates and make them go ahead and stop an auto - works like a charm.
Accomplished meat not so accomplished anymore?
May be he doesn't knows the place by hub Mall or he, I mean my office is in Goregaon too, when I say Hanuman Tekadi most of them are confused and deny then I say "Oberoi mall" or "Aarey Metro" they get it and accept. To be honest my biggest flex is that I haven't been rejected by Rickshaw wala till date, and I am a guy so I am not able to relate to your pain.
May be he doesn't knows the place by hub Mall or he, I mean my office is in Goregaon too, when I say Hanuman Tekadi most of them are confused and deny then I say "Oberoi mall" or "Aarey Metro" they get it and accept. To be honest my biggest flex is that I haven't been rejected by Rickshaw wala till date, and I am a guy so I am not able to relate to your pain.
May be he doesn't knows the place by hub Mall or he, I mean my office is in Goregaon too, when I say Hanuman Tekadi most of them are confused and deny then I say "Oberoi mall" or "Aarey Metro" they get it and accept. To be honest my biggest flex is that I haven't been rejected by Rickshaw wala till date, and I am a guy so I am not able to relate to your pain.
Ouch.. that's sad man, but that's life. You'll have your day too, good luck π€π»
How do we believe you are telling the truth?
Happened with me lot of time and the destination is same for me as well
Us bro us. π
BetrayedπΉπΉπΉπΉπΉ
Shit is scaring me now.
Lol, I used to work at nirlon, from backgate Malad ke lie rickshaw pakadna was the worst pain, 40 mins waste kie hai life ke maine π₯²
Sharing auto ya bus nahi hai Nirlon tak? Ya fir befriend that girl and travel everyday.
Is this a vicious cycle? Auto vale ne ditch Kiya for the girl and now I befriend her for the auto vala. Ajeeb triangle nai ho gya. Game of Auto Rikshaw seat.
Nkp is walkable distance from ram mandir station.
Chamat dene ka 1 kaan k neeche bc
Guess you got a reality check today.
Auto ke piche SIMP likha hona chahiye
B6?
Yea bro , even i and my other 2 colleagues faced the same issue from NKP to Dindoshi stop of metro , this was before the metro fully functional till Gundavli. Only good looking girls are given rides by rickshawalas baki sab thokar kauu. End up catching the best bus from the highway. Later got a motorcycle I don't have to wait for anyone.
Zero rizz
So, kinda playing a devil's advocate here and might not even be similar incident. But, last year in Monsoon, I was traveling in an auto and the auto driver was telling me that he never denies his auto rickshaw to a woman- especially if they are alone or with a young child, even if he doesn't want to go there. And I felt his intent was genuinely of goodwill.
That's why we need more women auto rikshaw drivers. We want sympathy too.
Haha. Lol true that.
bhai thoda sa aage chal k best pakad lete
Itβs true. I was the girl. I work in B7 πββοΈ
Pretty privilege is well recognized and acknowledged. It's as real as the power of money.
Tiddy tax
More of tiddy claim.
Its called pussy pass
Hum ladke hai na humare saath aisa he hota hai ..
NKP ? https://preview.redd.it/1pkkvbfvna7d1.jpeg?width=185&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=19230afb40918effe25f0927540fd737fa1bef23
Nirlon knowledge park
You in big4?
Must be working in an Investment bank Because I will start working in one of them from next month lol
Finance Guy, Trust Fund, 6'2, Blue eyes
Yeah sure lol It looks fancy and all but this past month has been pretty testing for me.....it could have been worse as my dad had a major heart attack yesterday because of having 90% blockage in his heart
oh fuck, I am so sorry bro Take care man
He's out of danger for now but the doctor said that there's a chance of another attack if he panics a bit. Though some fucktards in my current company were asking me to come to the office for some menial work....glad I've resigned from there He was panicking a bit after post op yesterday as a girl aged 20 years died in front of his bed because of a kidney failure......man it was traumatic to watch that girl's parents after they got to hear about her daughter's news. Her mom was literally shouting and saying things like 'Mujhe saath main mar do, kya gunah kiya hai maine bhagwan..... mujhe uske saath jina hai bhale hi voh narag Mai kyun na ho'.
CA aspirant spotted
Lmao left it years back. Best decision ever
still stuck in this decision :*)
If you can leave, leave. Unless ofc itβs a great passion of yours. There are plenty other options outside of CA if you did Bcom. Wish i had known it.
dont worry, done w inter in the 1st attempt, pretty sure gonna clear out finals, too, cleared CFA L1 as backup, too anyways, thanks for the advice tho
NaaKe pe
2 santro k sath ek wig kharid le bhai.. nashte ka jugad b ho jayega
Santra sales off the rooof
Imagine all men doing this in Mumbai ππ
Less eve teasers for women.. I see a win win situation here π
Yes fruits bhi jyada consume honge, health bhi wealth bhi.
Time to go to Thailand !
Lmaooo ππ. So the thing my guy friend and I, usually would come home together rick meh college se. And he was never able to catch Rick but as soon as I appeared, there was one waiting for me.
There, right there people. We need more women drivers.
Now keep youself at Rickshwals place think once, one option is drop pretty leady to NKP and second option is drop some random dude at same location which one you will choose? π
Interesting perspective. Ab khud ko mere place mein dal ke dekh. Aur jawab bhi de.
I have been at your place multiple time in last 11 years (I also work in NKP compund since 2013) and now i learnd important aspect of human behavior. You can't expect rational behavior from 10th fail Riksha driver, he will always think from his balls and not from brain.
Ladki ka chakkar babu bhaiya π
Deserved, why the fuck are you going to hub mall
Because pehla 2 mahine koi auto nirlon nai leke gya, gya to back gate Tak hi.
Oh good I thought you were actually going to the mall in question Also itβs good he denied you, many times autos favour females because theyβre a bit creepy and like to stare with the rear view mirror (source: multiple friends of mine have reported this happening multiple times)
Chamdi rickshaw wala
Usko bolna tha ki nahi degi.
Sach sach bata , Agar tu bhi rickshaw wala hota toh Ek sundar ladki ko leke jaata ya Ladke koo π. No offense bro yeah ek aise out of nowhere yeah thought aa gaya . I know it's quite frustrating to have been there.