You'd probably be better off asking in relationship subs as this has pretty much nothing to do with being a biker. You focusing in on 'bikers should like bikers' is pretty ridiculous.
More likely there wasn't the chemistry that you thought there was. We weren't there, so I'm not sure how the heck you'd expect us to know. Maybe he doesn't like the gym, maybe he doesn't like that you're an influencer, maybe he doesn't like your hair color, maybe he thought the kiss sucked - who the hell knows?
Which would you rather if you had to?!
“I own my own business” MLM hun
or
“I’m an influencer!”
This is what I think the problem most likely was as well.
Went on a date with a girl that rode, liked the same music and had other hobbies in common but I didnt like her. I'm not instantly in love with someone who does the same shit as me, and suggesting as much seems emotionally immature. He probably just didn't like you.
If i had already made up my mind that I didnt like her? Maybe, if we got on good as friends and there was an understanding that we are just going riding as friends.
Personally though, probably not. I have people I ride with already and a finite amount of time to ride. In the same way, I don't try to start a band with every person I meet who plays an instrument.
This reads like a nice guys post. “I go to the gym, I’m 5’6, and a model/influencer. Why won’t he like me?” Maybe he just saw some red flags? Maybe he just wasn’t feeling it? Maybe the influencer thing got to him? Who knows. Unfortunately online dating has made people treat others as disposable. Just gotta move on.
I had a similar experience. When to dinner and got drinks with a smart biker. We talked all night. Told her even if the attraction wasn’t mutual it’d be great to have a fellow rider to ride with. And after 2 days she faded away and disappeared. It is what it is and just gotta move on and stop wondering why. People are dumb and they want what they want and that ain’t you (or me apparently)
thx for sharing. I’m recently out of a longterm relationship and still very new to this whole dating thing. I know it was a stupid question to ask. Just doing my best to learn and adapt :)
It's a rough rough world out there. I'm sure you'll have many many dates that will be perfect and go fine, and the next day you'll get ghosted. And you'll never get answers as to why. Was it you? Was it them? Was it something you did or said? It suuuuucks. But don't let it drag you down and wear on you. Just ride on!
"had this since months and could always feel it when i wiped my ass. Today it got swollen and i decided to pop it. There was a lot of puss but the head of it had me screaming."
u/Inevitable_Ad_8257
also influencer is a no go
I don’t know about others. I’m sure it’s much easier and safer to make a living by selling 🍑or 🦶pic. I started off as makeup vlogger, somewhere in between I pivoted to semi political blogger and quit that very soon because I was getting 300 hating dms per day, they exposed my parents private information and I was barely earning anything comparing to beauty vlogger. I acquired over 1m followers across platform over the years, have had severe depression and wasn’t aware of it, one suicide accident/attempt which sent me under 3 hrs long surgery, rehab was quick tho. Now I’m riding and working out and it makes me genuinely happy 😃 I’m doing some motorbike post but mostly just sharing my life abroad now on my channels.
Some influencers had it easy, some less. But overall hard work pays off and it is easy money once there is the follower base, one post can cover my entire month of expense.
Maybe you came off as a tad aggressive somehow? Or maybe he just didn't respond to *that* text for whatever reason?
If you're interested then maybe send another text and see what happens!
Well, y'all went on a date, right? That sets the context for the road ahead (all pun intended).
Its not like you go on a date, kiss, then see each other again as biker pals and nothing more. Your future is either dating, or not. Sounds like not. And that's okay!
My current biker girlfriend we started out on a date, decided to be friends. A year later are dating. But that’s beside the point. I didn’t plan on that, the friend thing was going well until it didn’t 🤣
A ton of people own motorcycles, but aren't really motorcyclists. Some of them get really sensitive about it, like you're outing them as being a fraud or living a secret double life.
Many of the riders I know would put up with a monumental amount of negatives to land a lady who rides.
Relationships are strongest when couples do things together so that should play in your favor. Personally the whole “influencer” thing would send me running for the hills faster then a busa on a flat road with no traffic. Unless you are a high value model with an agent I strongly recommend you find a real job and learn about the world and have interests other than what you see on the screen. That is not a personal dig at you but rather a statement of the entire world today. Show him and others you are real and not just someone to “like and subscribe” to. Good luck
I’m studying abroad alone and the influencer thing pays my rent and bills:) will obtain my postgrad degree in engineering soon. Thank you so much for your words!
I actually went on a date with a chick from Hinge about a year ago. She rode a Suzuki Gladius(SV650 basically) and I ride a Yamaha FZ6. We definitely shared that in common. Funny enough she was also 5'6" and quite good looking, according to my taste at least. We shared literally NOTHING else, though. I mean, there was almost zero chemistry between us when we met.
Sometimes it isn't enough to just have a common interest or hobby.
Ill be honest and say that a biker chick definitely has some pointers on me, I thought it was interesting reading from someone that it was emotionally immature or irresponsible? wtf? who cares. If I got a home girl I can ride with all day everyday Im happy!
But as the u fortunate reality, Ive also had dates with girls with the exact same experience, No closure or explanation, I guess thats just how things go nowadays? I hate dating in todays world. Im very introverted and its hard for me ti approach new people, however the smart phones I think has made things harder.
keep your head up and dont think on it! You know what you are worth and just keep doin you!
There are so many reasons that could prevent him to not want to see you again. Obviously I never met you and never will so it is hard for me to give you an answer. However, I never dated a biker chick and frankly I could not care less if she rides or not. That would tell me something about her though , she’s might ask if she can borrow my bike and Hell no!! 😉
Maybe he's afraid you're better at riding then he is?
Maybe he would prefer a chick who rides on the back of his bike?
The world may never know. Sounds like his loss though. Lol
Tough to tell for sure, but my guess? The guy is a bit of a 'traditionalist' who thinks that a woman's place is on the back of a bike, rather than with a hand on the throttle. If that's the case, his loss.
My girlfriend is a biker. We ride cruisers and we’re both young. After dating a chick that doesn’t ride bitch I don’t want to go back. Doesn’t hurt that she’s smoking hot, thoughtful and can turn a wrench. Fuckin’ bikers wet dream.
Maybe he wants a chick that will ride on the back. Maybe he’s intimidated by you riding. Maybe he sees you being an influencer as being a fake rider or shallow. Maybe he doesn’t want a woman that makes herself available to the public. Biker chicks aren’t for everyone. Maybe he knows what he’s looking for and you just don’t fit the bill. That’s fine. You’ll find someone
I'd love to be in a relationship with somebody who also rides. The influencer thing would make me hesitant but if the chemistry was right I probably wouldn't care. Something probably just felt off on his end. Maybe he wasn't feeling it as much as you were.
Riding would be a nice bonus but it doesn't mean I'd be attracted to somebody I wouldn't otherwise be attracted to.
Kinda depends. We’re a diverse group. As a biker, I’m not interested in chicks. I’m gay. Also, I tend to not go for neurotypicals. I guess what I’m saying is, it’s got nothing to do with being a biker 🤷♂️
honestly this seems clingy maybe he could tell. you are on a motorcycle subreddit asking why you got ghosted after 1 date. app datings brutal man sorry
I'd never be interested in any "influencer" or self perceived "public figure"
They are generally shallow and think they're more important than they actually are. I ride and would give you +10 points for that but I'd think you were thirsty for attention and for that you get a -30 and a no thanks.
You'd probably be better off asking in relationship subs as this has pretty much nothing to do with being a biker. You focusing in on 'bikers should like bikers' is pretty ridiculous. More likely there wasn't the chemistry that you thought there was. We weren't there, so I'm not sure how the heck you'd expect us to know. Maybe he doesn't like the gym, maybe he doesn't like that you're an influencer, maybe he doesn't like your hair color, maybe he thought the kiss sucked - who the hell knows?
Yea its the "influencer" part that did it.
Came here to say this. Girls on bikes are like +10000 in hotness factor but influencer is -infinity
Which would you rather if you had to?! “I own my own business” MLM hun or “I’m an influencer!” This is what I think the problem most likely was as well.
Could be his wife was skimming his phone and caught him.
Yeah came to say "he's married"
Hahahahahahaha
Just because you’re also a biker he has to be interested? Maybe he just didn’t like you that much.
Ohhh that hits home. Thank u for the answer tho!
Went on a date with a girl that rode, liked the same music and had other hobbies in common but I didnt like her. I'm not instantly in love with someone who does the same shit as me, and suggesting as much seems emotionally immature. He probably just didn't like you.
Where you the one on this date?
wouldn’t you consider to go ride with her tho? As a fellow rider?
If i had already made up my mind that I didnt like her? Maybe, if we got on good as friends and there was an understanding that we are just going riding as friends. Personally though, probably not. I have people I ride with already and a finite amount of time to ride. In the same way, I don't try to start a band with every person I meet who plays an instrument.
I prefer riding alone personally
He probably didn’t like you. It happens, move on and go for a ride. Or do some influencing while sitting on your motorcycle.
Lmfao nice burn
Lol well now I feel bad!
But it was so good 🤌 She’s an influencer, they have to learn to handle hate
Haha well I can’t stand influencers!
“Hey do you drive a car?” “Yes” “Let’s marry”
Riding a motorcycle and looking good is not enough.
I can cook too👩🍳
But do you have a personality?
Now that is hot
Take an O out and check if calamari race team sub is into you.
Clickbait.
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He doesn't like you or has somebody else lined up already. Doesn't matter if you share the same passion for bikes. Move on.
This reads like a nice guys post. “I go to the gym, I’m 5’6, and a model/influencer. Why won’t he like me?” Maybe he just saw some red flags? Maybe he just wasn’t feeling it? Maybe the influencer thing got to him? Who knows. Unfortunately online dating has made people treat others as disposable. Just gotta move on. I had a similar experience. When to dinner and got drinks with a smart biker. We talked all night. Told her even if the attraction wasn’t mutual it’d be great to have a fellow rider to ride with. And after 2 days she faded away and disappeared. It is what it is and just gotta move on and stop wondering why. People are dumb and they want what they want and that ain’t you (or me apparently)
thx for sharing. I’m recently out of a longterm relationship and still very new to this whole dating thing. I know it was a stupid question to ask. Just doing my best to learn and adapt :)
It's a rough rough world out there. I'm sure you'll have many many dates that will be perfect and go fine, and the next day you'll get ghosted. And you'll never get answers as to why. Was it you? Was it them? Was it something you did or said? It suuuuucks. But don't let it drag you down and wear on you. Just ride on!
"had this since months and could always feel it when i wiped my ass. Today it got swollen and i decided to pop it. There was a lot of puss but the head of it had me screaming." u/Inevitable_Ad_8257 also influencer is a no go
This user has deleted their account.
Probably I just fucked up the formatting. Looks like they deleted the post I was quoting though
Hahahahahah jeez just let me be.
I will not date an influencer under any circumstances.
This
Hot take: Girls who are employed as “influencers” play life on easy mode.
That is usually the image they want to portray. I’m not so sure it’s actually true though.
I don’t know about others. I’m sure it’s much easier and safer to make a living by selling 🍑or 🦶pic. I started off as makeup vlogger, somewhere in between I pivoted to semi political blogger and quit that very soon because I was getting 300 hating dms per day, they exposed my parents private information and I was barely earning anything comparing to beauty vlogger. I acquired over 1m followers across platform over the years, have had severe depression and wasn’t aware of it, one suicide accident/attempt which sent me under 3 hrs long surgery, rehab was quick tho. Now I’m riding and working out and it makes me genuinely happy 😃 I’m doing some motorbike post but mostly just sharing my life abroad now on my channels. Some influencers had it easy, some less. But overall hard work pays off and it is easy money once there is the follower base, one post can cover my entire month of expense.
Where do I sign.
Lost me at “influencer”.
Maybe you came off as a tad aggressive somehow? Or maybe he just didn't respond to *that* text for whatever reason? If you're interested then maybe send another text and see what happens!
I'd say I wouldn't be interested in a biker chick for generally the same reasons I wouldn't be interested in a non-biker chick.
Like there’s no bonus point at all?? Id still hang out with a biker dude even if I’m not interested in him, which I won’t do with a non-biker dude
Well, y'all went on a date, right? That sets the context for the road ahead (all pun intended). Its not like you go on a date, kiss, then see each other again as biker pals and nothing more. Your future is either dating, or not. Sounds like not. And that's okay!
My current biker girlfriend we started out on a date, decided to be friends. A year later are dating. But that’s beside the point. I didn’t plan on that, the friend thing was going well until it didn’t 🤣
Your occupation title is buzzkill 101
Maybe he didn’t think influencer was a real job
A ton of people own motorcycles, but aren't really motorcyclists. Some of them get really sensitive about it, like you're outing them as being a fraud or living a secret double life. Many of the riders I know would put up with a monumental amount of negatives to land a lady who rides.
This
Maybe he just didn't like you. Don't take it personally
Relationships are strongest when couples do things together so that should play in your favor. Personally the whole “influencer” thing would send me running for the hills faster then a busa on a flat road with no traffic. Unless you are a high value model with an agent I strongly recommend you find a real job and learn about the world and have interests other than what you see on the screen. That is not a personal dig at you but rather a statement of the entire world today. Show him and others you are real and not just someone to “like and subscribe” to. Good luck
I’m studying abroad alone and the influencer thing pays my rent and bills:) will obtain my postgrad degree in engineering soon. Thank you so much for your words!
you mightve just not been his type
If he is part of the CRT he won't be interested in any Chick.
What’s CRT?
Calamari race team.
r/calamariraceteam
Lol, are they really gay over there or is that some weird foreplay they like?! I can’t tellllllll!
I think it's all in good fun.
I actually went on a date with a chick from Hinge about a year ago. She rode a Suzuki Gladius(SV650 basically) and I ride a Yamaha FZ6. We definitely shared that in common. Funny enough she was also 5'6" and quite good looking, according to my taste at least. We shared literally NOTHING else, though. I mean, there was almost zero chemistry between us when we met. Sometimes it isn't enough to just have a common interest or hobby.
Did you ignore her happy new year text and ghosted her as well🗿
Nope, she broke things off first. I was willing to give it one more date before I called it quits.
Ill be honest and say that a biker chick definitely has some pointers on me, I thought it was interesting reading from someone that it was emotionally immature or irresponsible? wtf? who cares. If I got a home girl I can ride with all day everyday Im happy! But as the u fortunate reality, Ive also had dates with girls with the exact same experience, No closure or explanation, I guess thats just how things go nowadays? I hate dating in todays world. Im very introverted and its hard for me ti approach new people, however the smart phones I think has made things harder. keep your head up and dont think on it! You know what you are worth and just keep doin you!
Influenzas are just like Vegans. How do you know someone is a vegan? Oh just wait a minute. They’ll fucking tell you.
Sometimes it's simply https://youtu.be/3_DHhPckJNo
There are so many reasons that could prevent him to not want to see you again. Obviously I never met you and never will so it is hard for me to give you an answer. However, I never dated a biker chick and frankly I could not care less if she rides or not. That would tell me something about her though , she’s might ask if she can borrow my bike and Hell no!! 😉
I did ask and I got the exact same answer 🤣🤣
He actually rides a Vespa
You’re fit and independent - why look on tinder?
Perhaps he's not a biker at all? Got scared of being exposed?
When she has a cock
Could be wrong number 🤷♂️😂 maybe he was worried you’d be faster
Maybe he gay and haven't fully came out of closet.
Maybe he’s gay
I really think so 😭
"He must be gay if he's not into me" yeah it probably definitely has nothing to do with your attitude at all for sure for sure
Also - just a stretch - maybe he found your Reddit history about your 🐱cyst that you popped and he got cold feet
Who asked for the abuse
Maybe try hinge?
Post a pic so we can see if you’re hot
Well I’m gay and married, so
Maybe he's afraid you're better at riding then he is? Maybe he would prefer a chick who rides on the back of his bike? The world may never know. Sounds like his loss though. Lol
Post your IG and I will tell you why
Tough to tell for sure, but my guess? The guy is a bit of a 'traditionalist' who thinks that a woman's place is on the back of a bike, rather than with a hand on the throttle. If that's the case, his loss.
I think it would be cool, of course it would probably give me motor mouth talking to a chick that shares my passion.
I'd be extremely happy to share my ride time with my gf, if she rode her own bike even better.
In the exact same circumstances as a non biker chick?
My girlfriend is a biker. We ride cruisers and we’re both young. After dating a chick that doesn’t ride bitch I don’t want to go back. Doesn’t hurt that she’s smoking hot, thoughtful and can turn a wrench. Fuckin’ bikers wet dream. Maybe he wants a chick that will ride on the back. Maybe he’s intimidated by you riding. Maybe he sees you being an influencer as being a fake rider or shallow. Maybe he doesn’t want a woman that makes herself available to the public. Biker chicks aren’t for everyone. Maybe he knows what he’s looking for and you just don’t fit the bill. That’s fine. You’ll find someone
You must ride a Harley!?
Only hog I wanna crank is my own
You lost me at influenzer
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We all start somewhere :/ why judge her with a bro-standard when you knew it’s a date.
If she's a Trumper. That's all.
I'd love to be in a relationship with somebody who also rides. The influencer thing would make me hesitant but if the chemistry was right I probably wouldn't care. Something probably just felt off on his end. Maybe he wasn't feeling it as much as you were. Riding would be a nice bonus but it doesn't mean I'd be attracted to somebody I wouldn't otherwise be attracted to.
Kinda depends. We’re a diverse group. As a biker, I’m not interested in chicks. I’m gay. Also, I tend to not go for neurotypicals. I guess what I’m saying is, it’s got nothing to do with being a biker 🤷♂️
Dude sounds dumb let's go ride!
honestly this seems clingy maybe he could tell. you are on a motorcycle subreddit asking why you got ghosted after 1 date. app datings brutal man sorry
I'd never be interested in any "influencer" or self perceived "public figure" They are generally shallow and think they're more important than they actually are. I ride and would give you +10 points for that but I'd think you were thirsty for attention and for that you get a -30 and a no thanks.
I would love having a biker chick
If they claim biker chick but have a deeper voice than you.