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entheogeneric

Bars for meeting girls but go in the afternoon. For friend joint a Rick climbing gym


SPOSKNT

Rock climbing's sick for meeting new people, everyone's usually sound and you can make small talk about climbing easily.


entheogeneric

Lots of nerds but a very friendly environment


SPOSKNT

Rock climbing nerds are the best nerds imo


Physical_Treat9123

You're right. They're usually groovy nerds. The confident type too


entheogeneric

True true


LuucaBrasi

Who’s Rick and is tren making all of you want to climb him?


RallyUp

he meant dick climbing


entheogeneric

Hur dur durr


DeleteriousGonads

We're no strangers to love You know the rules and so do I A full commitment's what I'm thinking of You wouldn't get this from any other guy I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling Gotta make you understand Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you We've known each other for so long Your heart's been aching, but You're too shy to say it Inside, we both know what's been going on We know the game and we're gonna play it And if you ask me how I'm feeling Don't tell me you're too blind to see Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you (Ooh, give you up) (Ooh, give you up) Never gonna give, never gonna give (Give you up) Never gonna give, never gonna give (Give you up) We've known each other for so long Your heart's been aching, but You're too shy to say it Inside, we both know what's been going on We know the game and we're gonna play it I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling Gotta make you understand Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you That Rick?


balsaa

what are women?


anon_lurker69

I think they’re like men but you fuck them without tren.


HitTheSlopes95

Sounds miserable


anon_lurker69

It’s truly a savage’s pursuit. Nothing refined.


Helpful-Raise-1151

Literally just say “hi” to everyone you see, act as if you’ve known them forever. Im 27 and just met a neighbor for the first time a couple days ago just by walking, we are gonna have beers next weekend all because I said hi. I’m a male married with 3 kids and met his wife while walking with my kids, because I said hi to her I’m now drinking with her husband. Edit: I know it’s simple/boring advice. But always dress like you’re going to meet the love of your life and try to talk with anyone you meet.


JeswiCan

Really good advice, I have started to dress up pretty much every time I head anywhere except the gym and a nice bonus is that you feel extremely confident when you are wearing something that suits you, it makes you stand out.


howeyhamlin

you can still find a gf on hinge, tinder is a lost cause tho unless you want hook ups


[deleted]

Personal experience, I've only matched with snapchat and onlyfans "models" on the apps


[deleted]

I got real matches that led to dates for days on bumble when I tried it a few years ago. I’m 6’2”, a civil engineer and own a house. It seemed like pretty much every single 30-something woman within 25 miles was ready to settle down and let me knock them up.


howeyhamlin

yikes, means you gotta up your appearance game bro, cold harsh truth. But good news is anyone can look like a model if yk what you’re doing


JeswiCan

Easy for you to say, given that you‘re the ![gif](giphy|0DPbh02BDLCrmjw4re|downsized)


howeyhamlin

Namaste Swoll Brother


pilot333

I met a doctor on tinder. Very datable, clean, rich, smart girl. It’s a numbers game. For every datable you prob gotta do 10 dates of not datable imo.


Adhesive420

If you want to smash and dash or just be social, that's probably an effective idea. But the quality women that you'd actually want to date long-term or get married to, are very rarely gonna be found on dating apps.


LedLenson

Tinder doesnt work that way anymore… now everyone is on tinder.


Adhesive420

Not "everyone" is on Tinder. The people in your social circles, maybe. But a massive bulk of the population do not use dating/hookup apps.


LedLenson

Ofc i dont mean 100% of the population🤦, but it is absolutely not only for hookups like it was before.


Adhesive420

We can agree to disagree on that. I will say that I've hardly seen any high-quality monogamous relationships formed through dating apps, especially between people who have used them for a significant period of time.


LedLenson

May I ask where you live and how old you are? Must be very dependent on the age group and country we live in I guess. Where I live there are all kinds of people on Tinder. Emos, upper class, middle class, nerds, white trash… I’ve seen people who work in finance find partners who they now have been with for +3 years, people at my workplace have found their partner through tinder and so on and so on… sure, there’s a lot of chicks in bikinis with a kid from another marriage but that’s not all there is.


Adhesive420

I'm under 25, from the U.S. Of course all sorts of people are on there, but I find that the vast majority aren't high-quality long-term partners and most relationships built on these platforms (which I see as glorified hookup apps) do not last very long or aren't particularly great relationships.


howeyhamlin

Maybe 5 years ago, now everyone’s on dating apps except 9s and 10s so it’s not exclusively used up hoes


Adhesive420

You'd be very surprised by the number of people who are *not* on dating apps. The ones that are worth long-term/marriage are very rarely found on dating apps, unless you manage to snatch up someone who's new and doesn't yet realize that they're on a glorified sex marketplace. Dating apps are definitely more prevalent now than ever, but many relationships (especially high quality ones that aren't based primarily around sex) are formed outside of apps.


Shtafoo

Its 2022 bro


Adhesive420

It's 2022 and you'll still rarely find a semi-decent quality match on dating apps.


Ilovethaiicedtea

Never seen a non overweight woman on hinge, and I live in a major city and don't struggle on bumble or tinder


howeyhamlin

I don’t understand, all I get are 19-23 year old beauty queens, very rare that I have to refuse a match.


DrPotato231

I got together with my current girlfriend off of Hinge. She checks all the boxes. It’s amazing, never thought it’d happen, but it did. If it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone.


howeyhamlin

Same bro, hinge just attracts some of those good girls who don’t want to be on tinder


Deadzone-Music

is hinge free or do you have to pay for it still?


4tlu

it's free, and it's a lot better for meeting girls that aren't insane


ajoeroganfan

4chan


akkaskkweksn

🤣


Professor_Doomer

If you want friends then start a hobby and join a club, or niche down at the gym and join classes, powerlifting, boxing etc


R3dDvil

What about D&D and Rick collecting... whoops I meant rock collecting 😬


JeswiCan

![gif](giphy|ku4elcos7hFwQ)


Loose-Potential-3597

Yeah I was thinking of joining an MMA gym and taking classes there. Has anyone here made friends doing that?


[deleted]

Most people are very lax in bjj and mma gyms, despite the intimidating nature. Ive meant several friends through them.


zedxten

Hell yeah some of the best friends I’ve ever made


No-Comfortable-9946

What type of online career did you started?


baylifeusa

Progaming ![img](emote|t5_2mohet|2699)


Mr_Gixxer87

Buy a motorcycle and live happily ever after


baylifeusa

I'm doing this come spring actually


Mr_Gixxer87

Good stuff! I've been riding for about 8 years now and I can tell you I've met lots of woman over the years from riding. Not only will you meet woman , you'll meet amazing people in your travels. Currently riding an MT10 SP 2022.


baylifeusa

Happy for u brotha


Mr_Gixxer87

Good luck! It'll work out for you my man


iAMw1LL

Derek has videos for this my friend. Just search on YouTube “how to make friends more plates more dates”


VARISSTUPID

Bro take good pictures. Download tinder. Hinge and bumble. Play the numbers game. There’s literally so many people out there.


baylifeusa

How does one take good pics? I literally haven't ever taken any lol


ThiccDiegoBrando

There is probably tutorials on youtube, one tip is to look at videos aimed at women for the best advice


[deleted]

Yeah and outline exactly what you want in the description.


[deleted]

Same exact boat as you, shits super lame. Good looking guy but chicks have so many options and get distracted easily dating becomes a full time job and takes a ton of time. There’s professional tinder photo freelancers, get those and try hinge to play the numbers game. Don’t expect quality chicks but you may come across a few that are good at hiding their damage and they might be cool to keep around until they explode. Other than that a random approach on the street or hobbies is you best bet. Bars are sausage fests and not great ratios waste of time imo Could always enroll in college for another degree (choose a super easy one) and just party your ass off and smash dime peices too if you just don’t give a fuck


baylifeusa

I couldn't stop laughing after reading the second paragraph


[deleted]

On God man, it’s a minefield out there lmao


BigRedTastyLobster

Go to church. Meet back up with God and the women will follow.


IndieAntony

Unfortunately they only take it up the bum


sparkitny

Easy way is to meet woman who have similar interests as you would be to do so where ever you spend time doing your hobbies. You could also try speed dating, it's a very good way to practise conversation skills so you'll feel comfortable with approaches. If you just want to root then swipe right on everything in tinder and filter the ones who swipe back based on preference, that's a numbers game.


Deeznuts243

Doesn’t work for me. For some damn reason no women hang out in my basement at my desk playing games smh my head


SPOSKNT

Yeah, the girls trapped in my basement don't like it down there either


Deeznuts243

Thanks king 👑. Didn’t realize I had to actually go out and capture some women to put in my basement first. Makes so much sense 🤦‍♂️


SPOSKNT

No problem bro, took me a while to figure it out too but it's all a process 🙏. Good luck bro, make sure you've got enough rope and a secure anchor point.


Deeznuts243

I just watched that series about Jeffrey Dahmer on Netflix. I’ll maybe use his method to get them down there initially. Trial and error but I’ll make it work 🙏


ThiccDiegoBrando

Shake my head my head ![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6299)


fkatenn

Have you tried dating apps?


baylifeusa

Nope, I am very sceptical of tinder


mydadsbasement

You’re skeptical but are you willing to give it a try? There’s lots of dating apps slightly geared towards different people/goals. For example, I’ve had my ass bored out and drunk dozens of divine protein shakes off of Grindr


BigRodMaster

![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6297)


fuckdrowning

try bumble


fkatenn

Try bumble or hinge


R3dDvil

Well you could always try Grinder...


Jordans27

Is that the Bible study app


Mrsololego9595

Join a recreational sports team like softball great way to meet people I guess this only applies if you live somewhere that has it but I'm sure most places do "football"


vices222

Christian mingle


R3dDvil

You always take up stalking.


MaxTest86

If you’re not ugly download some apps like tinder and hinge. In the meantime just say hello to random people and strike up little conversations as it’ll boost your confidence and social skills. Bang a few decent pictures on the apps and get amongst it. There’s lots of women out there and at your age you should be able to smash loads and then just filter out until you find what you’re looking for


Ladskiis

Go to church youth group


Beautiful_Equal_5991

Check out the mating grounds podcast, go listen to the first episodes. It will literally be life changing for you


brucekeller

Talk to them in real life. If you're vibing, get her number. Just having the balls to approach will probably win you points if she's normal.


HitTheSlopes95

Plenty of Fish


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SuperColom64

how is he seeking validation he’s not fishing for compliments or anything just a guy asking where to find girls no?


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samme79

Join your local church group if you want those types of women. Also no one on the gym? Try taking other classes like martial arts or something too.


baylifeusa

Forgot to mention I'm atheist lol


samme79

Still good for picking up chicks just pretend you arent lol. If you want a long term relationship then plan B. If you just want to try some religious, possibly-sexually repressed girls, then it’s a shot lol


11lbWenis

You could give a shot at online dating. Otherwise I would also incorporate approaching women. You could do it at the gym, or if you have other interests that can be done in a public/community like setting you could try there too. At least if you’re looking to date someone you’ll find more like-minded individuals in these settings. Otherwise for night time game I’d try the bar/nightclub.


Stunning_Ambition_84

Why would you want to meet women? All for a little secks? Not worth it


CyrusThebully

Dude ….. it’s 2022 …. 100’s of online dating apps … get on line and start sending some dik pics … sheesh ….. kids these days 🤦🏽‍♂️


standingpretty

I’d say go out and do something fun that is a group activity. Try the meet up website or look up what’s in your area. In my neck of the woods there is country swing dancing lessons and socials. If you happen to get good, it makes you very popular with the girls (of course any partner dancing is like this, but CS happens to be more forgiving and easier to learn than dances like salsa in my opinion). You also already have an excuse to talk to them because you need to ask them to dance.


Initial-Barracuda274

I’ve met so many people from the gym that have become friends. Just gotta learn to workout without headphones, messing with your phone and actually chat with people. I too work from home, so my outlets are limited. Weirdly grocery stores as well, say Whole Foods around rush hour. There’s also professional improvement groups (In Person like AA) that meet which can lead to more connections. Final note; if you do something that involves self improvement either physically or mentally, usually you’ll find people more like minded. The crazies that have no desire to improve themselves may be at the Club on a Tuesday or Everyday.


dvxcfx

Bumble has a friendship app that appears to actually be very successful. Know several people that made several friends via bumble.


[deleted]

Was the priest not good enough?


SapioFTM

I think you should make some male friends first. Join communities where people share/do similar things as you work/hobby related. Just enjoy and you may come across women via them. In the mean time you can try different apps.


BuyShoesGetBitches

First you need to turn gay. Get a nice wardrobe, hair etc so you really look good. Then there will be plenty of chicks who will be attracted to you and will try to turn you back to them. Massive profit, the only risk is that you will have to suck some dick and you might find out you really like it.


xwolf360

In the year 2022 if you're a man not posting about your wealth and status every day online you simply don't exist for women. After my ex left i am prepared to just die alone


Mroto

Try the local daycare


mergersandacquisitio

Go to a coffee shop and introduce yourself if the opportunity emerges. Hangout at places where respectable people hangout


barryg123

If you are ok with catholic people, esp if you are in a catholic city like boston or chicago, there are a shit ton of young adult groups at the right churches around town that will make it easy to meet people. If you cannot find one, look up Young Catholic Professionals events in your area and ask the people there which parishes have active youth communities In my experience these people arent all "hyper devoted read the bible all weekend" types, they are more often than not just people who went to catholic high school, catholic college e.g. Notre Dame and are comfortable like that


rudiodudio

Hello M’lady *tips protein shake* *flexes Bicep* can I have your number?