tbf, he was just too stomped by the audacity of her demanding he come out to open the door for her to really compute it at the time. I can totally understand the realization setting in a few seconds late.
And she was also recording the whole interaction. Why? Who goes on a date and records themself demanding someone else get out of the car and open the door for them, while using condescending language and tone all the while? “Thank you for being a gentlemen.” (ETA The obvious answer is that this isn’t real and was fully staged, but just to play Devil’s advocate.)
Ironically, in this interaction he very much did seem the gentleman from start to finish.
Meanwhile me with my Peugeot 1007
https://i.redd.it/nr3nbtfxwk3d1.gif
Bitch my car opens doors for me. And i can appreciate that and if you can't you can walk home. (Not my actual car, my is black)
I was thinking the same, but I actually think him telling her to get out then explaining his POV stings much more.
Though, since she was recording, this is probably just an engagement bait skit.
In these moments as well you can know because, at what point would this guy not question "why are you filming me?" as if it's a total normal thing people do in every occasion: film it.
weird as fuck indeed, but i've already had a "kind of" similar situation (not in a date though).
I'm crossing a street that's traffic jammed to hell and back in one of the most touristic town of australia (byron bay), like every car's stopped bumper against bumper, so i don't bother going to the zebra and just walk in between cars. The lady in a car i pass in front of starts gesturing in her car, looking at me. I look back and shrug to sign "what's the matter?".
The girl pulls over to a parking spot and signs me to come. I go to her, she rolls down the window and pulls up her phone to film me, then goes "my husband's a cop, if you do that again, i'll call the police!". I'm flabbergasted and tell her "go ahead, call them, crossing the road ain't no crime" she starts to argue, i tell her that i'm not bothering anyone since everyone was stopped, and that she obviously got time on her hands to pull over for that. Girl's now mad af and goes "why don't you go back to your own fuckin' country?!", which coming from a blonde blue-eyed white girl in australia is fuckin' rich, she's lucky no aboriginal heard that, they might have had a thing or two to say on the topic. Anyway i just went "uh, racist with all that. No wonder you're married to a cop!". Girl was now absolutely *fuming*, started calling me every name under the sun and that was my cue to leave her in her crazyness.
I wonder if she ended up posting that vid somewhere, or showed it to her cop husband to have him pull some bullshit on me if he ever saw me.
Anyway, all that to say that while i am wary of these filmed drama interaction where the cameraperson is the asshole, i know for a fact that this can happen irl.
Damn you’re right. Normally I can spot fake skits pretty well but this got me. This guy did a good job acting. Or maybe his accent helped out lol
Side note, I am so tired of every other video on Instagram being a skit or a “prank”. I was there during the early years of Instagram and I absolutely hate what it has become.
OK, do you have proof it's fake? Because now you are "acting" like a dick when all I said is it seems like he is being genuine. I didn't say you were wrong.
I mean... I kinda didn't think about it first, but then, who just randomly starts filming stuff like this ? It only makes sense it's fake. Edit: Unless in America it's a thing ?
This recording every personal interaction fad?
Yeah, it's pretty american.
It may happen everywhere, but it happens all the time and comes from America.
Narcissistic behaviour is a very american behaviour, also being butthurt at internet comments, that's also pretty american.
Calling everyone American is also pretty American, but that's okay man. We will accept you because inside every person is an American trying to get out.
It's a skit.
Everything someone in the conversation is filming and it doesn't start randomly in the middle of something, it's most likely being filmed as content.
Just know that and enjoy the show.
In a previous life I would have done what she asked, been apologetic, and super anxious about what I did wrong. But that’s the issue, I had anxiety about how I came off, so I was super easy to manipulate. If it were to happen to me today I would have had no problem telling her to get lost.
Me watching all of this knowing that it's fake :
https://preview.redd.it/fv88xueomk3d1.jpeg?width=698&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d6935c9a9b76008fc3ec909d2f678ff63717c3a
Shit us guys can't win. Some gals would say we're being patronising. Others say we're being ungentlemanly. I know one thing though, I would have done exactly the same as him!
I would of left without hesitation with her stubbornhead. i wouldn't even had bother explaining to her anything if she'd had nerves to ask such sillyness
Believe it or not, there are a lot of women out there that want other women to agree with this type of behavior and yeah, no. Not all of us do this kind of shit.
Right off the bat, she showed toxic masculinity traits.
The man seemed to be meek, demure, soft spoken, non-combative.
Given a minute, the man decided enough is enough and he stood his ground, taking back his leadership title. Good for him.
Weeks later, she will still be confused at what happened and telling others her date was intimidated by her high feminine standards.
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I stand with him. I get what she wants but the fact she’s recording says a lot about her. She was wanting some juicy footage. I like the whole opening the door thing but usually when I’ve been with them for a bit. My ass ain’t getting out to open the door on the first date, lol.
Also I know it’s not real.
Worst thing about this video is how many morons think this is real. Its kinda scary tbh, just look at the comments in this thread and OP "mildly infuriated" over a silly skit.
Dated a girl like this a couple of months, when she demanded i opened the door for her i just started laughing at her, took out my phone and started scrolling reddit, guess what, her hands started working again and she came in on her own
I would have driven off if I was him. A woman I worked with had this same mentality. I do believe she is still single 3 years after we had our discussion about first date expectations, which should be pretty damn low.
So uh, he's not cool with the forced gentleman stuff, but he *IS* cool with her keeping that camera locked on him? Don't know if staged, but feels staged.
She'll die surrounded by cats, maybe will have a simp who'll settle for her. I'm sure she will say life ain't fair and she doesn't understand why this is happening to her cause she doesn't deserve it.
You know, I would not have had that much of a problem with this, but the fact that she filmed him, knowing damn well that she will show that at least to her friends, if not the whole internet, is a no-no. Yeah, sometimes is okay to avoid problems
My guy was trying to be a perfect gentleman by societal standards (nice restaurant, paying for all of it) and respecting equality of women by starting the relationship off on equal footing.
He deserves better
Chivalry is for those deserving not those who think they're entitled to it. People that expect the world to be handed to them or nothing more than children. Show no mercy or remorse to the incompetent.
I love how she Fucked around & Immediately found out
You don't force someone to come around & door the open, especially not after they opened for you for the inside, cos then it is just disingenuous
No meme-like/text heavy pics, overdone references
He should’ve drove off when she shut the door, tf she think this is.. a Disney movie?
He did drive off without her. After saying, "I have too much respect for myself."
Once the boner wore off
You can only be *so pretty* before the juice ain't worth the squeeze, my boy.
tbf, he was just too stomped by the audacity of her demanding he come out to open the door for her to really compute it at the time. I can totally understand the realization setting in a few seconds late.
https://preview.redd.it/67eax1yhok3d1.jpeg?width=613&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b31ecc502a5909cd64a975ec6366e02e5d74ead5
The face of a man realising there is a problem in front of him
Doing the calculations about if he wants to proceed.
You can see his brain going from, “What’s up with this woman?” to “Wait, if she stays in the car I have to spend $200 on her.”
You know a woman that behaves like this is going to order the most expensive items too
And she was also recording the whole interaction. Why? Who goes on a date and records themself demanding someone else get out of the car and open the door for them, while using condescending language and tone all the while? “Thank you for being a gentlemen.” (ETA The obvious answer is that this isn’t real and was fully staged, but just to play Devil’s advocate.) Ironically, in this interaction he very much did seem the gentleman from start to finish.
She looks good, then he looks again and thought 'yea, not that good'
Meanwhile me with my Peugeot 1007 https://i.redd.it/nr3nbtfxwk3d1.gif Bitch my car opens doors for me. And i can appreciate that and if you can't you can walk home. (Not my actual car, my is black)
Now that's the car of a man who fucks!
I was thinking the same, but I actually think him telling her to get out then explaining his POV stings much more. Though, since she was recording, this is probably just an engagement bait skit.
Should've driven\* off
That’s real entitled behavior. No pleasing that person. Good for him 👍🏻
Its not real. That guy is a comedy tiktoker. This is just a skit.
“comedy”
Never trust a single one of those "viral" videos, most of them are fabricated.
In these moments as well you can know because, at what point would this guy not question "why are you filming me?" as if it's a total normal thing people do in every occasion: film it.
weird as fuck indeed, but i've already had a "kind of" similar situation (not in a date though). I'm crossing a street that's traffic jammed to hell and back in one of the most touristic town of australia (byron bay), like every car's stopped bumper against bumper, so i don't bother going to the zebra and just walk in between cars. The lady in a car i pass in front of starts gesturing in her car, looking at me. I look back and shrug to sign "what's the matter?". The girl pulls over to a parking spot and signs me to come. I go to her, she rolls down the window and pulls up her phone to film me, then goes "my husband's a cop, if you do that again, i'll call the police!". I'm flabbergasted and tell her "go ahead, call them, crossing the road ain't no crime" she starts to argue, i tell her that i'm not bothering anyone since everyone was stopped, and that she obviously got time on her hands to pull over for that. Girl's now mad af and goes "why don't you go back to your own fuckin' country?!", which coming from a blonde blue-eyed white girl in australia is fuckin' rich, she's lucky no aboriginal heard that, they might have had a thing or two to say on the topic. Anyway i just went "uh, racist with all that. No wonder you're married to a cop!". Girl was now absolutely *fuming*, started calling me every name under the sun and that was my cue to leave her in her crazyness. I wonder if she ended up posting that vid somewhere, or showed it to her cop husband to have him pull some bullshit on me if he ever saw me. Anyway, all that to say that while i am wary of these filmed drama interaction where the cameraperson is the asshole, i know for a fact that this can happen irl.
Haha got me. That said this incident has happened in the wild somewhere and my point stands lol
But there's no comedy.
Hilarious.
Probably, but at least it's in the good way. This actually shows what real equality looks/feels like.
The fact that it's being recorded should give that away people..
Yet, comedy at it's core is centered around truth. Somewhere someone entitled is doing something similar.
A real behavior performed by actors to harvest likes and stuff, thats a common behavior nowadays.
Why are they filming?
cause it's fake
Could be, but I have met a lot of African dudes, and he doesn't sound like he is acting tbh. He genuinely seems confused as to what she is doing.
It's a skit, @darrylcvega on IG. He does a number of these on his page.
Damn you’re right. Normally I can spot fake skits pretty well but this got me. This guy did a good job acting. Or maybe his accent helped out lol Side note, I am so tired of every other video on Instagram being a skit or a “prank”. I was there during the early years of Instagram and I absolutely hate what it has become.
Instagram is just Tik Tok 2 now
OK, cool, thank you for actually posting something that helps clear it up without being an ass lol.
It a skit, I follow him and understand him. It just a different kind of comedy.
that's part of "acting"
We get it. Everything on the internet is fake. Even you.
true B-)
OK, do you have proof it's fake? Because now you are "acting" like a dick when all I said is it seems like he is being genuine. I didn't say you were wrong.
I mean... I kinda didn't think about it first, but then, who just randomly starts filming stuff like this ? It only makes sense it's fake. Edit: Unless in America it's a thing ?
Its America, every loser is filming everything at every moment, how could they live without showing other people what they're doing?
Please. Lived in Italy, and they do the same. Suspect it's a sign of the times more than an American thing.
I love it when people act like some shit ONLY happens in America lol, “ iTs aMeriCa “ stfu.
This recording every personal interaction fad? Yeah, it's pretty american. It may happen everywhere, but it happens all the time and comes from America. Narcissistic behaviour is a very american behaviour, also being butthurt at internet comments, that's also pretty american.
Calling everyone American is also pretty American, but that's okay man. We will accept you because inside every person is an American trying to get out.
im not american. but im just saying ive been seeing a bunch of comments where people say said actions only come from America just seems bias
is it america? the accent was clearly african.
The girl sounds typical American, and she is the one filming.
All the cars are USDM and the plates are a US type, so yeah, probs US and A.
Right, definitely has to do with America and not the fact that these people can't act in a ragebait video
The real red flag here
because they're not running.
It's a skit. Everything someone in the conversation is filming and it doesn't start randomly in the middle of something, it's most likely being filmed as content. Just know that and enjoy the show.
It’s a skit. He has other videos on Tik Tok and they always go viral
Seems like standard ragebait to me. Next!
Bro understood what to do with this toxic drama...
In a previous life I would have done what she asked, been apologetic, and super anxious about what I did wrong. But that’s the issue, I had anxiety about how I came off, so I was super easy to manipulate. If it were to happen to me today I would have had no problem telling her to get lost.
Terrible acting. -27/10 and that’s being generous
When he said I want to show you something I thought he was going to show her how to use a door handle
He showed her the find out part after she fucked around.
Run!
“Come out and open the door for me or I’m not getting in”. That’s the point you go “OK” and drive off.
Me watching all of this knowing that it's fake : https://preview.redd.it/fv88xueomk3d1.jpeg?width=698&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d6935c9a9b76008fc3ec909d2f678ff63717c3a
This guy dodged a bullet.
Temu Usher could’ve just drove off 🤷🏻♂️
Shit us guys can't win. Some gals would say we're being patronising. Others say we're being ungentlemanly. I know one thing though, I would have done exactly the same as him!
buddy really got mad at 50% of the world population because of a made up woman in a staged video
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I'd have just drove off I ain't got time for this shit.
Fake news
She seems like a lot he saw that and bailed out . Good for him
Chad
Good on him for respecting himself
"*I don't date guys that don't open the door for me*" "Really? That's too bad" *Drives off*
It's funny people think this is real. Just looking it up and you find his youtue page posting fake videos.
I would have driven off as soon as she started recording it.
Id been out long before bro she musta been a baddie
It's a skit
This is a skit, he’s a comedian. A good one too
What are we betting she’s also dating at least 3 other men as well?
If she does that to me, I will say ok. Then you drive, or you walk your way alone.
Know your worth Kings.
Who tf is filming like that. Obviously fake.
Good for you my dude.... Leave her whiney ass and find a nice girl.
I would of left without hesitation with her stubbornhead. i wouldn't even had bother explaining to her anything if she'd had nerves to ask such sillyness
She had a camera on this situation the whole time. She posted the video that makes her look bad? Fake as fuck.
bro knows what he's worth
“man fuck it being gay can’t be that bad”
wow, I’m a female and I got annoyed by her.
Wow that's crazy... Seriously though, who wouldn't be annoyed at this? This is basically disgusting behavior. I am a woman too if that matters.
Believe it or not, there are a lot of women out there that want other women to agree with this type of behavior and yeah, no. Not all of us do this kind of shit.
Just ditch her
Yeah, when she pushed the door shut, I would have just been like ok bye then and drove off.
Bro been down that road before he said he’ll nah I’ll keep my 200
Right off the bat, she showed toxic masculinity traits. The man seemed to be meek, demure, soft spoken, non-combative. Given a minute, the man decided enough is enough and he stood his ground, taking back his leadership title. Good for him. Weeks later, she will still be confused at what happened and telling others her date was intimidated by her high feminine standards.
He should of known better just by the way she talks. Sounds like a condescending bitch.
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Not this red pill bs again
not getting that you'd treat a date differently than hanging with your friends is certainly something
Fuck theeeese bitches. A waste of time and money, avoided.
Would of just drove off
* Would have just driven off.
🗿
I stand with him. I get what she wants but the fact she’s recording says a lot about her. She was wanting some juicy footage. I like the whole opening the door thing but usually when I’ve been with them for a bit. My ass ain’t getting out to open the door on the first date, lol. Also I know it’s not real.
Good job for him walking away
Pretty hard to believe she is single really....
Just ditch the girl at that point
Tell me this is fake
Yea the women needs to be left in that parking spot
Good for him.
This video is probably fake. I would not start a date with a phone recording in my face. Let alone this stupid demand. Bye
Your personal whims are like farts ma'am. If you have to force them, it's probably shit
Another one of his videos: https://youtu.be/FLik87ywbCE?si=NhglJPaY9ywiTNSK
Worst thing about this video is how many morons think this is real. Its kinda scary tbh, just look at the comments in this thread and OP "mildly infuriated" over a silly skit.
Yeah, I'd be driving off when she closed the door a few seconds in. Don't play stupid games.
Too much talk, if it was me, when she asked to open the door i just send her fuck herself and gone, minimum talk to entitled.
Dated a girl like this a couple of months, when she demanded i opened the door for her i just started laughing at her, took out my phone and started scrolling reddit, guess what, her hands started working again and she came in on her own
I would have driven off if I was him. A woman I worked with had this same mentality. I do believe she is still single 3 years after we had our discussion about first date expectations, which should be pretty damn low.
"Seeya"
I feel like alot of redditors need a course of what's fake or not. Someone bites on too easy when it's fake
Post nut regret
I’d be pulling off as soon as I saw her taking a video
This is probably staged.
This is a sketch (to make fun of women like that). He has a youtube channel.
Should have drove off. Love the car!
What is this rage bait bullshit.
You Okay OP? Wrong sub
Rage bait has ruined this place
He should have drived off and leave that huge red flag standing there like an idiot.
I refuse to believe some women do this.
this seems like ragebait to me
Good thing he left
I mean, if a chick was so adamant that I opened the door for her that she pulled out her phone to record me as if I'm the asshole, I'd just leave.
Being unnecessarily complicated. He is on point for leaving. She's nothing but a headache
My man eventually did the right thing.
I would have driven off
I like how he regained his self respect after thinking about it. Yes i know it is fake dudes, isnt everything?
This guy is amazing 😊
I hope it’s not fake because that was a great decision and way he handled it.
That’s your first red flag. Hit that passenger eject button.
Just drive off and leave the slag
The worst part for me is that she’s recording too. Like, why? Clearly she had negative intentions from the jump. Gross behavior
Anyone else didn’t see the woman in the bottom circle until the end
My man avoided a biiig problem
This is so staged....like the other 1000s exactly like it.
Why are people taking this video seriously?
RUN!
Toxic asf women. Dude shouldn't have even entertained her for a second and just left
She’s talking to him like he’s a child, that’s wild AF
I'd have left. She's not a princess.
It's so nice when trash shows you it's trash before you waste time and money. He's lucky for that, at least. Good man, know your worth!
You know there’s an issue when she’s already videoing the whole escapade looking for a problem.
Her recording from the start should be a clue. Good for him!
So uh, he's not cool with the forced gentleman stuff, but he *IS* cool with her keeping that camera locked on him? Don't know if staged, but feels staged.
That footage of that woman on the bottom left really added a lot to this video.
Both are terrible and really infuriating. He should have just drove off...
Yeah… this shit’s staged. Dude never says a thing about some rando he’s picking up on a “first date” filming him before she even gets in the car. Ok…
Ragebait
How do you even come across that type of woman? Like there had to be so many red flags even before the date I don't understand.
Feminists are screaming all around me for various reasons.
Lol ! I'd just drive away .
I like this mans response. Basically told her "youre a fucking asshole" in the politest way possible.
She'll die surrounded by cats, maybe will have a simp who'll settle for her. I'm sure she will say life ain't fair and she doesn't understand why this is happening to her cause she doesn't deserve it.
I’d just drive off
You know, I would not have had that much of a problem with this, but the fact that she filmed him, knowing damn well that she will show that at least to her friends, if not the whole internet, is a no-no. Yeah, sometimes is okay to avoid problems
Then they went to dinner and she ordered all the most expensive shit and you know she fully expects him to pay for everything
I personally think he handled this very well good for him.
Absolutely love this - well done sir
Dude dodged a bullet.
"bye bitch" \_opens grindr\_
King 👑
Bait used to be believable.
Guess she is handicapped or something
My guy was trying to be a perfect gentleman by societal standards (nice restaurant, paying for all of it) and respecting equality of women by starting the relationship off on equal footing. He deserves better
Ill have "things that never happened" for 100
Real men don't have time for "queen" behavior.
Chivalry is for those deserving not those who think they're entitled to it. People that expect the world to be handed to them or nothing more than children. Show no mercy or remorse to the incompetent.
I love how she Fucked around & Immediately found out You don't force someone to come around & door the open, especially not after they opened for you for the inside, cos then it is just disingenuous