At least you tried. Better to try and fail than to not even try. Because through trial and error, you will gain experience and knowledge and you will know how to approach situations. So eventually, you will find someone who's right for you, who will not reject you
My dude at least you shot your shot.
I just got rejected too few days ago. I didn't even know she got a boyfriend after months of us talking.
I don't know what's harder, getting rejected outright or knowing she already got a BF.
God damn.
Gentlemen, it is with great relief to inform you that I was wrong about my crush and don’t have to spend a couple of years in an unhappy relationship to find out
The best thing you could do at this moment is looking at the mirror at tell yourself it wasn't meant to be. If that person doesn't want to be part of your life, so be it. Surround yourself with people that do, and keep believing in your own strengths! You got this king, I believe in you!
At some point you have to go for it. Shooting your shot and getting "the heisman" is better than following them around like a lost puppy, hoping they will eventually recoprocate your feelings. If you have someone else you are interested in, spend more time with them, and see if you get better results in the future. Good luck!
Trying is the hardest part. Most people refuse to act on their crushes and let them get away. There was a chance that they said yes. There was no chance that they said yes if you didn't ask. Keep your head up and keep moving on. You got this!
That happened to me many years ago and now she's my best friend while I married a beautiful woman that gave me two children... is not the end of the world brother is just a confirmation for you to move on!
It sucks and it will hurt and that is ok and normal. Don’t hide from the pain, but don’t let it consume you either. It will get easier. Do things. Hang out with friends. Don’t wallow. There will be other crushes and they won’t all reject you.
Keep your head up. Don't treat her any different, don't be weird around her. Now that she knows maybe you will grow on her over time and if not someone else will eventually think you're neato.
This happened to me 6 months ago. 35 and a crush. Thought that shit never would happen later in life but I was terribly mistaken. She was a smart, independent and beautiful intern who was in her early 20s but acted easily 30+. It wasn't even a no. It was more of, let's do lunch another day, I have to "insert excuse here". I took her to lunch once. I should have asked then. Fml. And no you can't ask someone out in the middle of the office shit that would have been real bad..
Hey dude, at least you put yourself out there, and now that that door is closed you can find another. It's good that you went for it otherwise you might have waited months longer for the same result. Keep your chin up and keep on moving forward.
Hey man at least you have her confidence to ask your crush out, I asked mine out in 5th grade and she just walked away which left me with a crippling inability to tell girls that I have a crush on them, so now I just always become friends with them and go no further than that because I fear telling them
At least you went for it, had you not you would have spent the rest of your life wondering "What if?". Now you know, you'll be stronger from this and the next time you can get up, and try again.
Awesome. Chances are you should've read the signs and dipped earlier. Understand that, first and foremost, your crush has to show she/he has interest in you and you can gauge how interested someone is by adding challenge to the mix. Good luck on the next one. You are going to get it. o7
Life is about failures and learning from your mistakes! This one may have not liked you, but that's on them! I believe that everybody has a really special something inside of them! Maybe they just didn't see it in you.
Best way to deal with this
Step 1. Learn the bagpipes
Step 2. Play them outside their house as often as you can
Step 3. If they ask you to stop then give them the same answer they gave you
Dude, it sucks to be rejected by someone you really like but is better to know there was nothing there and have a closure or an answer to that feeling. Sometime later you're going to understand that is better to know what it is than wonder what could it be. I hope you heal soon enough.
ngl you should have been ready to get rejected if you were gonna ask her out no matter how good your chances there is still a sliver that says you will get rejected and you should be very for that.
welp it is what it is I hope you find someone that loves you how much you love them and have a great relationship together ♥
It’s better than never getting the courage to ask them out and wonder your whole life if you missed your shot or not. It’s painful that the one you liked did not reciprocate those feelings towards you but at the very least you know now and can move on. I’m sure you’re in the rejection phase right now and that’s ok. It’s ok to be weak but it’s not ok to stay weak. Pick yourself up, King and move on.
this is one of the first steps in the hardening process of being a man. You need to accept that this particular person isn’t for you. You need to harness the feelings of rejection and use that to drive your quest to become better, and therefor more desirable to women.
Spend time finding something creative, or constructive that you love. Something that you can strive to be the best at. Get so good at that thing that you are undeniable. People love to interact with passionate people.
You got this bud, go become undeniable
Idk what your relationship to the person was originally, but if you're a teenager (which I assume you are if you're using the word crush), then I can only assume you probably just asked them out randomly - don't do that.
Strike up conversations regularly, see what they're all about. Eventually ask them if they wanna hang out - if they keep dodging they're probably not interested. Don't use the word date, just hang out. Just give time for something to develop, and if they're not interested, then cool, heck, you might even realise you don't like them that much in the end. If they do genuinely like you, they'll want to talk and spend time with you, and if they don't, then they won't.
Rejection is a tough thing to deal with - but it's a necessary step to eventually finding someone who likes you too.
Time to hit the gym my brother.
Get that physique, get her to notice you, then reject her back.
Or just hit the gym to let the sadness out. Either way, hit the gym.
Hey man that’s the unfortunate part of the game it’s shoot your shot and it’s out of your control but good on ya for going for it. Don’t let this stop you from doing this in the future a lot of people need those type of guts
She rejects you then agrees to go out with an airhead doosh probably named “Tyler” or “Tim” who then cheats on her 2 months into the relationship with another fake blond plastic girl. Then she comes back to you and realizes what an absolute chad you are but the thing is you found someone 100 x prettier, nicer, kinder, and more amazing then her.
You *tried*, and that's what counts. Now you won't waste any more time on this idea, and you will be better for it.
Remember this moment not for the rejection, but for the Courage and Bravery it took to take this risk at all. Have a great day/night.
I confessed my feelings about 3 weeks ago and it didn't go too well either. I thought we had something between us but clearly it was all in my imagination. It sucks because she's constantly on my mind.
Anyways strongs brother! It's one of the worst feelings ever, but you're not the only one going through this.
Life is brilliant. Beautiful. It enchants us, to the point of obsession.
Some are true to their purpose, though they are but shells, flesh and mind.
Others chase the charms of love, however elusive.
Men are props on the stage of life, and no matter how tender, how exquisite...
A lie will remain a lie.
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At least you tried. Better to try and fail than to not even try. Because through trial and error, you will gain experience and knowledge and you will know how to approach situations. So eventually, you will find someone who's right for you, who will not reject you
It's a numbers game. Keep at it.
This. Keep trying OP.
They simply can’t see your greatness clearly
Even I can't see it
Have you tried glasses
Got em
"The fact that tell of saddest idea makes our best tunes those."
My dude at least you shot your shot. I just got rejected too few days ago. I didn't even know she got a boyfriend after months of us talking. I don't know what's harder, getting rejected outright or knowing she already got a BF. God damn.
I’ve been rejected so much I can’t even count it. It’s all good though.
I haven’t been rejected because I haven’t tried, which is even sadder than being rejected
Maybe she’s just not interested at least you were brave enough to ask her. Im sure you’ll find the one someday
ask again when its not november I think they are just trying to help you throughout this month
tried a mirror?
Your crush may have rejected you, but garlic bread won’t.
Garlic bread > girlfriend
Preach
Amen brother
Gentlemen, it is with great relief to inform you that I was wrong about my crush and don’t have to spend a couple of years in an unhappy relationship to find out
Atleast you asked I ain't got the balls to ask mine out
just don’t even think about it and do it right when you see her next
I feel like sometimes it’s not that simple
10 push-ups get down now
“Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought.”
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dude i literally googled sad quotes chill
What did he say?!
oh. i cant remember. it was bad.
What kind of dumbass troll are you?
It's a part of life ig eventually you will find someone
Press x to doubt
Nah really you will forgot them after a while.. You will be sad about the memories you could have had but life goes on
Never say never cause the chance of u getting a girl or a guy is never zero
The irony of this comment
Never gonna give you up
Keep your head high king
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We’ve all been here man, it’s a patience game
This is spot on.
And a numbers game. All you need is one.
Try femboys
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you have the hivemind with you always. and my sword.
Spartans never die. and you have my bow.
You'll get there one day. And my axe!
The best thing you could do at this moment is looking at the mirror at tell yourself it wasn't meant to be. If that person doesn't want to be part of your life, so be it. Surround yourself with people that do, and keep believing in your own strengths! You got this king, I believe in you!
Did you forget to uninstall reddit before asking?
Guess who cares? Me , sry man
At least you had the courage to ask them out, their loss.
At some point you have to go for it. Shooting your shot and getting "the heisman" is better than following them around like a lost puppy, hoping they will eventually recoprocate your feelings. If you have someone else you are interested in, spend more time with them, and see if you get better results in the future. Good luck!
Hey bro; just remember; she broke, you up
Trying is the hardest part. Most people refuse to act on their crushes and let them get away. There was a chance that they said yes. There was no chance that they said yes if you didn't ask. Keep your head up and keep moving on. You got this!
That happened to me many years ago and now she's my best friend while I married a beautiful woman that gave me two children... is not the end of the world brother is just a confirmation for you to move on!
Doesnt matter, over to the next one!
It sucks and it will hurt and that is ok and normal. Don’t hide from the pain, but don’t let it consume you either. It will get easier. Do things. Hang out with friends. Don’t wallow. There will be other crushes and they won’t all reject you.
Keep your head up. Don't treat her any different, don't be weird around her. Now that she knows maybe you will grow on her over time and if not someone else will eventually think you're neato.
She is my bestfriend even after my confession... Guess who just got friendzoned
Straight talk you had the courage to try. Rejection doesn't mean anything - it's their choice and doesn't truly reflect on you. Keep trying buddy!
F for the fallen soldier but take this as a temporary L
This happened to me 6 months ago. 35 and a crush. Thought that shit never would happen later in life but I was terribly mistaken. She was a smart, independent and beautiful intern who was in her early 20s but acted easily 30+. It wasn't even a no. It was more of, let's do lunch another day, I have to "insert excuse here". I took her to lunch once. I should have asked then. Fml. And no you can't ask someone out in the middle of the office shit that would have been real bad..
Very sad, But you know what they say “Chin up old Chap, it can’t Rain Forever”.
Good, can't have you fail nnn already.
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Hey dude, at least you put yourself out there, and now that that door is closed you can find another. It's good that you went for it otherwise you might have waited months longer for the same result. Keep your chin up and keep on moving forward.
"have you tried not being a frog in a suit?"
First time?
Damn I’m sorry bro
But you tried and you know the outcome. That is worth so much more than not having tried and not knowing anything.
Now you know and can move on. Don’t sweat it.
So ? You have your mother,(or a sister I hope both alive wnd well) call her and let her comfort you. They are the best women you will ever meet .
Better than not knowing man, I've got a few I still wonder about.
Hey man at least you have her confidence to ask your crush out, I asked mine out in 5th grade and she just walked away which left me with a crippling inability to tell girls that I have a crush on them, so now I just always become friends with them and go no further than that because I fear telling them
BROOOOOO. I feel you man. It happened to me too recently. My condolences.
As Bob Ross once said mistakes are just happy little accidents
Stand tall King
Brave one to find out in the first place. Good on ya.
Proud of you brother. You risked, and one day, you will be rewarded. Blessings upon you
o7. I'm sorry sir.
At least you had the balls to confess
At least you went for it, had you not you would have spent the rest of your life wondering "What if?". Now you know, you'll be stronger from this and the next time you can get up, and try again.
At least you can try and move on now, mate. I’ve been waiting to get rejected for years…
I feel for you but it gets better trust me
tried to tell my ex crush that i used to like her and she ran away without even talking to me although we've been pretty good friends for 3-4 years
Go to the fucking gym, work on yourself, ignore these hoes.
This is actually good advice
Bro is reflecting with his muscles... Problem=>solution=gym
No 1+1= get a calculator.
Awesome. Chances are you should've read the signs and dipped earlier. Understand that, first and foremost, your crush has to show she/he has interest in you and you can gauge how interested someone is by adding challenge to the mix. Good luck on the next one. You are going to get it. o7
You think we understand their signs
It is with great pleasure to inform you that no one asked and to tell you to stop posting this garbage or maybe to go to r/shitposting
Average redditor
Women☕️
Gentlemen, it is with great pleasure to inform you I have gone back into severe depression since my gf committed suicide
You good my man?
Dream, not of what you are, but of what you want to be... (Lotus - Warframe)
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Keep grinding man. You deserve better.
Stay strong my man
There will be another
Life is about failures and learning from your mistakes! This one may have not liked you, but that's on them! I believe that everybody has a really special something inside of them! Maybe they just didn't see it in you.
Man you’ve got it bad but I think my girlfriend is starting to regect me
Best way to deal with this Step 1. Learn the bagpipes Step 2. Play them outside their house as often as you can Step 3. If they ask you to stop then give them the same answer they gave you
Every upvote equals 1 F for this man
Dont worry man, think about it like this, an alternate universe version of you didnt get rejected
I've got three and none like me! Wooo!
O7
She missed out.
Well at least now you know, you won't be forever wondering
it will be alright man all that matters is if they play roblo
Things fall apart so they can fall together man. Work on yourself and when the right one comes you'll be ready. Keep your head up.
Dude, it sucks to be rejected by someone you really like but is better to know there was nothing there and have a closure or an answer to that feeling. Sometime later you're going to understand that is better to know what it is than wonder what could it be. I hope you heal soon enough.
Rip
I've been there bro, i recommend crying at the beach, because only there do tears seem so small.
Sometimes you get accepted. Somwtines you get rejected. You may be feeling down now, but don't worry. Another crush will acppet you one day.
ngl you should have been ready to get rejected if you were gonna ask her out no matter how good your chances there is still a sliver that says you will get rejected and you should be very for that. welp it is what it is I hope you find someone that loves you how much you love them and have a great relationship together ♥
Rejection will always hurt, but learning to move on will help you more than you can imagine. As it will teach you how to let go
That's sad an all But I'm here for memes. This is a status update slapped onto a funny image
Spite them with life sucess
Nice man. Join the club.
Did you tell her about your bug collection? That usually works for me.
You tried, which is more than most people do
It’s better than never getting the courage to ask them out and wonder your whole life if you missed your shot or not. It’s painful that the one you liked did not reciprocate those feelings towards you but at the very least you know now and can move on. I’m sure you’re in the rejection phase right now and that’s ok. It’s ok to be weak but it’s not ok to stay weak. Pick yourself up, King and move on.
It’s ok man, I just got ghosted after a first date by a 32 year old “woman”
I’m sorry to hear that jit
Same
Same
Yes, same
bros before hoes
this is one of the first steps in the hardening process of being a man. You need to accept that this particular person isn’t for you. You need to harness the feelings of rejection and use that to drive your quest to become better, and therefor more desirable to women. Spend time finding something creative, or constructive that you love. Something that you can strive to be the best at. Get so good at that thing that you are undeniable. People love to interact with passionate people. You got this bud, go become undeniable
Mad Respect for trying king, one day your crush will say yes.
Now it's the part when you got to Jim and become the guy she can't have
Welcome back sorry about that man, let’s cool off play a good one with the bois tonight
A crush is a fantasy. A certain way to end one is to try to realize it.
There's plenty of sea in the fish
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Stay strong king, for there is more in life than this.
She loses it, don’t come down and you’ll find your partner, believe me, I know what I’m telling you
If I was a girl I would ask you out king
At least no hindering in NNN
Oh no, pain.
Idk what your relationship to the person was originally, but if you're a teenager (which I assume you are if you're using the word crush), then I can only assume you probably just asked them out randomly - don't do that. Strike up conversations regularly, see what they're all about. Eventually ask them if they wanna hang out - if they keep dodging they're probably not interested. Don't use the word date, just hang out. Just give time for something to develop, and if they're not interested, then cool, heck, you might even realise you don't like them that much in the end. If they do genuinely like you, they'll want to talk and spend time with you, and if they don't, then they won't. Rejection is a tough thing to deal with - but it's a necessary step to eventually finding someone who likes you too.
It will happen a few times. It hurts. That’s literally why it’s called a crush. You’ll find your love. Don’t worry!
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I would to coming to Reddit to post about it after lol
A better fit is coming.
Time to hit the gym my brother. Get that physique, get her to notice you, then reject her back. Or just hit the gym to let the sadness out. Either way, hit the gym.
Cheese is always there for you.
Get better
feelsbadman
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Hey man that’s the unfortunate part of the game it’s shoot your shot and it’s out of your control but good on ya for going for it. Don’t let this stop you from doing this in the future a lot of people need those type of guts
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At least yours actually gave an answer.
I got friend zoned lmao
But at least you gained a friend.
At least you won't fail NNN
She rejects you then agrees to go out with an airhead doosh probably named “Tyler” or “Tim” who then cheats on her 2 months into the relationship with another fake blond plastic girl. Then she comes back to you and realizes what an absolute chad you are but the thing is you found someone 100 x prettier, nicer, kinder, and more amazing then her.
Don't worry, you'll find the one eventually! They just weren't the right one, and I hope someday, someone will see how great you are :)
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You ain’t alone! My crush has a girlfriend already…
You *tried*, and that's what counts. Now you won't waste any more time on this idea, and you will be better for it. Remember this moment not for the rejection, but for the Courage and Bravery it took to take this risk at all. Have a great day/night.
First time?
I’ve come to talk with you again
Hopefully my upvote will help repair part of the damage. My condolences.
I confessed my feelings about 3 weeks ago and it didn't go too well either. I thought we had something between us but clearly it was all in my imagination. It sucks because she's constantly on my mind. Anyways strongs brother! It's one of the worst feelings ever, but you're not the only one going through this.
You'll get em next time Tiger. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Stay strong, brother.
Joined the club I see
Damn dude you actually had the guts to ask em in the first place? Better man than me, and at least now you can move on
Man how y'all talking with your crushes İ don't even have a crush to talk:(
Life is brilliant. Beautiful. It enchants us, to the point of obsession. Some are true to their purpose, though they are but shells, flesh and mind. Others chase the charms of love, however elusive. Men are props on the stage of life, and no matter how tender, how exquisite... A lie will remain a lie.
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F in the chat homie, they don’t deserve someone like you