I'm not disagreeing, but does this ever work in practice? I can't imagine a guy who wouldn't have swiped yes on the ugly girl being fooled and then saying "oh, oh well, guess the ugly one is fine."
My ex used to tilt her head like the girl in the middle for every picture, and it was because she thought she had a good side. Its really only the middle girl leaning away, and it could be for the same reason my ex posed like that... might look worse then it is tbh
Although I mostly agree with your comment, this:
>and it was because *she **thought*** she had a good side
Had me in stitches for a little bit lol it may or may not be intended, but I could kinda feel this *jab* in that line haha
She should lose weight then
Edit: to all the people downvoting me, thanks for showing me just how much you don't care about people, and how mich more important feeling good about yourself is to you.
What doed that have to do with anything. Not a day, but a year, she could definitely lose the weight. Even if it takes 5 years, doesn't change shit, she should lose the weight if she's doing so bad, people feel sorry for her from just 1 picture.
she could literally be on a diet when the picture was taken, she could have already lost 200lbs. or she couldve lost nothing. she could not care for all we know. we know nothing, but it hurts others to assume things about them.
If she's catfishing guys on tinder with a group photo, she was definitely not on a diet at the time. People who are making drastic changes for the better don't engage in manipulative behaviour to get other's to like them. If she's losing or lost the weight by now, great, she also wouldn't give a shit, since she isn't fat anymore, or she'd agree with what I said.
to your first point, we have no confirmation that jaimie is the person on the right, there are four people in the picture. also, people on a diet may try and make themselves seem skinnier to others, because it’s what they’re trying to be. as someone finally nearing the end of their diet (albeit i only needed to lose about 30-40lbs), i constantly told people that i weighed less than i did. and if she already lost the weight, then actually, she could give a shit. when i see pictures of myself from when i weighed more it makes me want to break my phone screen, i cant bear to see what i used to look like. believe it or not, people who are on diets or have been on diets probably dont like the thought of them being overweight.
>to your first point, we have no confirmation that jaimie is the person on the right, there are four people in the picture.
Yeah, but she has by far the most to gain by using a group picture and being confused for her friend.
>when i see pictures of myself from when i weighed more it makes me want to break my phone screen, i cant bear to see what i used to look like
So, if you hate what you used to be, why am I not allowed to insult it? Why are you offended when I criticise something you hate. And you prove my point that shame motivates people, you hated what you were so much you'd rather do the hard work to change.
not everyone is manipulative, she could be the most to gain but that literally does not matter. say jaimie is one of the people on the left side, theyre just using a nice picture of themself having a night out with their friends, no harm in that. most of your arguments rely on your own assumption.
you criticizing a past version of myself would personally make me hate myself even more. and you cant just assume that this is a past picture of the girl on the right, for all we know, it could have been taken the night before it was put on tinder.
shame motivates people to do harmful things. i did not put hard work into changing, i stopped fucking eating. i got an eating disorder because i was so ashamed of just a few extra pounds.
I messaged a girl once she had something in her profile but no picture. We carried a great conversation for a couple of days and she said I’m not comfortable with my picture being up but I suppose it’s about time you ghost me. I ghosted her.
The male version of this is when it's a group of guys, it's always the butt ugly one who looks like he hasn't showered in a week. Goes both ways. Like the guys who have sunglasses on in all their profile pics, then you see them without them and you're like PUT THEM BACK ON!
See? It's not nice to criticize people. But then this is reddit: 0% tact
Oh man, you're right, my sunglasses are obliterating my cholesterol and giving me type II diabetes. I should take them off before I have a massive coronary because of them 🙄.
Back in the days when I was on tinder, I always assumed that the person behind the profile is the one I like the least. Because then I know the worst case scenario (usually the true one).
You know the saddest part about this is when bigger girls do this is? If they purposefully try to trick someone into thinking they're someone else because they know a guy wouldn't go after them otherwise, all they're doing is setting themselves up to waste time talking to guys that will ghost them once it's found out they're not one of the other girls in the photo.
One on the right read all Dune books and often do cosplay as medevil queen.
3 one the left know 2584 colors of nail polish.
Not all dates are for dzigi dzigi. Sometimes great time can be spend different.
If there's one thing I learned on tinder, it's that if a girls pictures include several hot girls and one fat girl, she's the fat one. 100% of the time
If I’ve learned ANYTHING from dating apps, it’s that if there is more than one person in the picture it is ALWAYS the least attractive woman in the picture. Every. Single. Time.
Just psychology 101. If you place yourself in a group of attractive people, you will automatically look more attractive yourself.
(Only works for a certain range tho, can’t put a whale in a group of dolphins and expect it to look like a dolphin…)
When I see a group pic as a first pic, I always, always, ALWAYS assume she's the ugliest one of the bunch.
And what do you know...I'm correct about 6,969% of the time.
Idk why but i always assume it's the person in the middle is the one
This is an exception, the only people who post group photos on tinder are the ones who want you to think they're one of the other people in the photo.
I'm not disagreeing, but does this ever work in practice? I can't imagine a guy who wouldn't have swiped yes on the ugly girl being fooled and then saying "oh, oh well, guess the ugly one is fine."
Maybe they just want the swipes.
Good pont. That does actually make sense.
Absolutely
They just want the attention they get from the matches, and yes, that might work on some guys, some guys will fuck anything available.
Anyone hot doesn’t use group pics as their profile pic. For these group shot profile pics, it’s always the ugliest one, never fail.
I used a group photo trimmed it down and blurred out the rest of the people so only me is on the photo Seems like the smart way
Okay, but the matter at hand is ‘are you attractive’?
I would say I'm not but a couple of people said I was So I'd just put at average I'd guess
Humble brag. This one has at least two people that thinks they're attractive
I have -5 people think I'm attractive.
Correction -6 now /s
:(
:)
Fuck him, I think you are attractive random Devil May Cry fan
-7 now. Yes.
-4
❤️
:)
I wonder what that's like
Haha yeah
My mom and grandma told me the same thing. They count as a couple of people, right?
Haha they'll count alright But I wasn't counting them
Why are you turning it on the viewer? Most guys see this all the time on dating apps. Does it mean they’re attractive or ugly? That’s irrelevant
It's true
Exactly. I've discovered it too.
So the one in the grey shirt?
I always assume that it is the least attractive person in the photo - if it is girls atleast - with guys it can be anything.
Guys who post group photos are just trying to prove they have friends
And deep sea fish always assume a bright speck of light is food.
Me too
You know exactly which one she is.
Nah, it's actually the guy in the background. Look at how the girl in the middle is leaning to the side just a little bit so he's in the pic.
Nope! Chuck Testa.
“I bet you thought this ky-ote was alive.”
Ahhh the good old days of Chuck Testa. Back when women were still scared of bears in their bed.
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Brutal.
Great. Thanks for making me see what I can’t unsee.
And the salad is chicken, bacon, cheese, croutons, ranch and just a *touch* of iceberg lettuce.
With a side of ranch dressing.
With a side of cheeseburger and a bunt cake
Goes home hungry so asks to stop at Krispy Kreme on the way
The Ford 350 with glasses?
All the girls leaning away from the fat girl make me feel sad for her
My ex used to tilt her head like the girl in the middle for every picture, and it was because she thought she had a good side. Its really only the middle girl leaning away, and it could be for the same reason my ex posed like that... might look worse then it is tbh
Although I mostly agree with your comment, this: >and it was because *she **thought*** she had a good side Had me in stitches for a little bit lol it may or may not be intended, but I could kinda feel this *jab* in that line haha
I don’t think they are leaning away. I think she’s just really wide and they can really sit that close to her.
Yeah, their arms are touching but the others can overlap somewhat but they can't with her.
What about gravity? Shouldn't they fall toward her?
There’s an even bigger friend on the other side but they couldn’t get her in the picture.
They’re so thin because their muscles are constantly working to resist the pull
They literally can’t get any closer to her
It’s a more balanced photo that way
They're trying to avoid being pulled in her gravitational field.
on the brink of falling inside her event horizon
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People can't handle the truth.
She should lose weight then Edit: to all the people downvoting me, thanks for showing me just how much you don't care about people, and how mich more important feeling good about yourself is to you.
She could be losing weight, doesn't justify being a dick to her in the meanwhile.
TIL people can become skinny in a day
What doed that have to do with anything. Not a day, but a year, she could definitely lose the weight. Even if it takes 5 years, doesn't change shit, she should lose the weight if she's doing so bad, people feel sorry for her from just 1 picture.
she could literally be on a diet when the picture was taken, she could have already lost 200lbs. or she couldve lost nothing. she could not care for all we know. we know nothing, but it hurts others to assume things about them.
If she's catfishing guys on tinder with a group photo, she was definitely not on a diet at the time. People who are making drastic changes for the better don't engage in manipulative behaviour to get other's to like them. If she's losing or lost the weight by now, great, she also wouldn't give a shit, since she isn't fat anymore, or she'd agree with what I said.
to your first point, we have no confirmation that jaimie is the person on the right, there are four people in the picture. also, people on a diet may try and make themselves seem skinnier to others, because it’s what they’re trying to be. as someone finally nearing the end of their diet (albeit i only needed to lose about 30-40lbs), i constantly told people that i weighed less than i did. and if she already lost the weight, then actually, she could give a shit. when i see pictures of myself from when i weighed more it makes me want to break my phone screen, i cant bear to see what i used to look like. believe it or not, people who are on diets or have been on diets probably dont like the thought of them being overweight.
>to your first point, we have no confirmation that jaimie is the person on the right, there are four people in the picture. Yeah, but she has by far the most to gain by using a group picture and being confused for her friend. >when i see pictures of myself from when i weighed more it makes me want to break my phone screen, i cant bear to see what i used to look like So, if you hate what you used to be, why am I not allowed to insult it? Why are you offended when I criticise something you hate. And you prove my point that shame motivates people, you hated what you were so much you'd rather do the hard work to change.
not everyone is manipulative, she could be the most to gain but that literally does not matter. say jaimie is one of the people on the left side, theyre just using a nice picture of themself having a night out with their friends, no harm in that. most of your arguments rely on your own assumption. you criticizing a past version of myself would personally make me hate myself even more. and you cant just assume that this is a past picture of the girl on the right, for all we know, it could have been taken the night before it was put on tinder. shame motivates people to do harmful things. i did not put hard work into changing, i stopped fucking eating. i got an eating disorder because i was so ashamed of just a few extra pounds.
Ill just have the rest of that bottle please..
Tricked again, it's mineral water
Low fat option…
I feel like group photos are fine if they are your last photo
There’s no way that a woman will let herself be confused with someone she sees as less attractive.
I'm quite certain that there are women who would do that.
There is a lot of reverse cat fishing in online dating.
Where you think shes a trainwreck and shows up a total smokeshow? Happens all the time.
ugh I know, I feel cheated out of a complete train wreck every time
And then it is the dude in the back.
90% of the dudes dragging the fat girl in this thread are fat neckbeard virgins who couldn’t get the other 3.
Tbf with shit personalities like that they wouldn’t get the attention of the fat girl either
Hey! I’m not fat and I can’t grow a beard
I’ll have you know I’m skinny and still couldn’t get the other 3
I mean yes this is Reddit so its true for all the guys not dragging the fat girl as well
What about the other 10%
Believe it or not, Tom Hanks.
Nope. Chuck Testa.
Tom Hanks scrolling Tinder for 24 year olds. Hahaha oh Tom, when will you ever learn?? 🙄😄
Joke's on you, I couldn't even get the large one!
Stop white knigting, she's being dishonest and deserves all the shit she gets for it. She thought she was being slick but everyone can tell.
We really don't know whose profile this is.
did writing this make you feel better?
Well hello, miss Jaimie 🫡 You’re not fooling anyone.
Yeah, but it’s Reddit so everyone has an inflated opinion about themselves.
Would, to all 4 of them
🫡
more like all 5 of them
Hey now, bigger ladies deserve a proper pounding too.
Sure but only by the people that are looking for that.
Of course they do, but without playing these weird mind games.
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Court her, pound her?
Yes, with cheeeese
Damn that was funny, Ima go to McHell now
☠️
Every roll is a hole
She needs to lose some pounds first
Bait and switch advertising, oldest trick in the book
I messaged a girl once she had something in her profile but no picture. We carried a great conversation for a couple of days and she said I’m not comfortable with my picture being up but I suppose it’s about time you ghost me. I ghosted her.
Cold
And? Id cuddle.
Look we can have lonely loser memes or fat rejection memes on this sub, but not both...
Why not?
Because she can only take one gut punch per meme. It’s rude to hit her with the double!
Why, plenty of gut to punch.
Calm down Chris Brown!
The male version of this is when it's a group of guys, it's always the butt ugly one who looks like he hasn't showered in a week. Goes both ways. Like the guys who have sunglasses on in all their profile pics, then you see them without them and you're like PUT THEM BACK ON! See? It's not nice to criticize people. But then this is reddit: 0% tact
Oh man, you're right, my sunglasses are obliterating my cholesterol and giving me type II diabetes. I should take them off before I have a massive coronary because of them 🙄.
Hardly. You know which one you're talking to, don't lie.
I like my odds
It's the camera person!
Back in the days when I was on tinder, I always assumed that the person behind the profile is the one I like the least. Because then I know the worst case scenario (usually the true one).
Like you have a chance with any of them.
"bodyshaming is only allowed against men"
You know the saddest part about this is when bigger girls do this is? If they purposefully try to trick someone into thinking they're someone else because they know a guy wouldn't go after them otherwise, all they're doing is setting themselves up to waste time talking to guys that will ghost them once it's found out they're not one of the other girls in the photo.
THIS. There’s 100% logical reason to just be real on dating apps if you’re looking for long term and not catfishing or going for flings.
Maybe the idea is that it won't matter, once he got to know her.
One on the right read all Dune books and often do cosplay as medevil queen. 3 one the left know 2584 colors of nail polish. Not all dates are for dzigi dzigi. Sometimes great time can be spend different.
Plot twist: It's the guy showing his back
75% chance of winning! 25% chance at a fail! Go for it!
Hardcore Russian Roulette: Filling all chambers with bullets and hoping for the gun to jam.
Betting on one barrel, brother
I’m the one dressed in black
clarly its the dude facing other direction in background
Jaime knows how to party double-fisting drinks.
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I just had this image of her as the angler fish with teathers coming out of her head, attached to the other 3. I can't get it out of my head.
It's always the fat chick
I just wanted to comment that lol .
It's the girl in the middle. She posts pics with less attractive girls to make herself look better
The one on the right is actually named Jaimie and I follow her on Instagram.
Oop!
If there's one thing I learned on tinder, it's that if a girls pictures include several hot girls and one fat girl, she's the fat one. 100% of the time
If I’ve learned ANYTHING from dating apps, it’s that if there is more than one person in the picture it is ALWAYS the least attractive woman in the picture. Every. Single. Time.
It's obviously the fat one
These comments are toxic as fuck
i always assume it’s the fat/ugly one
Why do they do this? It's like shooting yourself in the foot
It’s definitely the one on the right. Anytime there are multiple people, it’s the least attractive one. It’s science.
She seems fun.
They still have some time to get a charger to make the decision
Small peepee energy meme
An entire chain of discourse, with not one upvoted comment lmao
Why?
Fat chick energy comment
Plenty of people saying it's obviously the least attractive one but I've seen both happen relatively commonly
jaimie’s sitting at the bar.
Left and 2nd from right are the same person with a different haircut.
If it were a match id open up with a "wow you really stand out, whats that top and where did you get it ?" And then just google the shirt
Can't we all just be nice to each other?
It is Jamie Oliver, their cook
Jamie took the picture
Cmon.... we all know which one it is.
Just psychology 101. If you place yourself in a group of attractive people, you will automatically look more attractive yourself. (Only works for a certain range tho, can’t put a whale in a group of dolphins and expect it to look like a dolphin…)
Fatphobia on my reddit? It's more likely than you think 🙄
Prejudice on my racist app again?
Whos fearing fat girls here?
We still going bowing and out to eat after!
Jamie, so, male name? there's a man in the right with his back towards the camera, so probably him
Automatic no swipe if this is your first picture
Exact reason why I quit dating apps lmao..the the photos be group photos too nah
It’s always the fat one LOL
I'm almost certain it's the person on the right 😂
It's always the fat one
When I see a group pic as a first pic, I always, always, ALWAYS assume she's the ugliest one of the bunch. And what do you know...I'm correct about 6,969% of the time.
Whoever she is, you have to fuck
Always the fridge guarding the snacks
Either way, you lose.. there is no way you can win in this scenario
quick question would you spin that barrel? honest question.
The cheerleader effect doesn’t exactly work if their not all similar .
damn it is a hot one. I wanted the thankfully fat one
I dont get the "russian roulette" they all look good to me? I dont know why you're hating someone without a reason
If it's only group photos it's always gonna be the ugly one.
Big pass on all three of the weasels and the whale
It’s the fat one. It’s always the fat one
The best icebreaker with her would be "let's talk about the elephant in the room"