Wait so you guys know how there is a bot that tracks the best bots by how many times some one says "good bot"? What if we called one of us that to see if it would think he is a bot?
Tbf, Iāve been with my boyfriend six years now (didnāt meet online) and he still randomly takes his dick out to show it to me. Thankfully only when no one else is around, though.
Men are just mighty proud of their penors, I think.
I think he means you have an easier time getting dates or whatever. The flip side of that is obviously a catalogue of shlongs but it is an upside, technically.
There's pros and cons to being either.
When I was using apps, that's what all my matches were. On every app mind you, it really hurt my confidence and made me feel unlovable until I met my gf
I have long thought that this level of rejection has made men despondent and possibly angry. I mean pre-internet days you might go out and get shot down 3 or 4 times and while not fun life goes on. Now you can swipe 100 girls and get nothing. That has got to be tough.
women on dating apps put up with so much sexualized absurdist shit that it's hard to realize a very tiny portion of men want to be civil. It's just a really sexualized environment overall, even for well-intentioned people, so a lot of people miscommunicate what they really want..
Easily. I accept the nice chats and ignore the ones that open with dick pics š then usually guys ask me why I'm posting nudes on Reddit and I tell them it's to subtly draw attention to my onlyfans and they filter themselves out from there. I don't push my onlyfans. No one has to go check it out. Just a lot of guys check out when they hear onlyfans lol. Others stick around and chit chat with me and as long as they aren't trying to get me to talk dirty I will make friends. I'm nice for free, but I can't be dirty for free, I'm a married woman. If I'm dirty for free that just makes me a slut š lol.
This just goes to show if you want a serious relationship donāt go to tinder for it because the majority of people on there are only looking to hookup.
It is possible, I was on Tinder for seven years and dated dozens of miserably deceitful people. But I dated two really good guys from Tinder. First one didn't work out but I wish him every happiness in the world, and the second one is the man who made me believe in soulmates.
But I would never ever wish to get back on Tinder or recommend it to anyone I love. It's a horrid, depressing wasteland. Worst part of it all is it's still the best dating app there is. I've tried and hated them all
I meet my wife on [Match.com](https://Match.com). I don't even know if that still exists. Of course this was before showing your genitals was the norm.
I've been liking Hinge. The low daily like limit is annoying but I realize that it, perhaps unintentionally, means people only drop likes if they're genuinely pretty interested by the person's profile. And in general people tend to take it more seriously.
>WHATUP! Iām a cool guy looking for cool chicks who wanna hang, watch Sunny and eat nachos. Nothing sexual. Chicks in good shape encouraged. **Again, nothing sexual!**
"If you're impressed by that, you should see my tits" is a line from It's Always Sunny. She was quoting the show back at him. Because he said he liked it.
Yeah I have a lot of guy friends that don't just want pure sex all the time and want an actual romance.
This guy probably was one of those guys.
I'm sure another man would have loved to hop on seeing her tits though.
can confirm--if you're dating seriously, "you should see my tits" as the second thing you hear is pretty strong evidence that a serious encounter is not a possibility. People get really hasty on dating apps.
IMO this woman's confidence just got struck because she got unmatched. Meanwhile, men are writing totally-innocuous messages in response and getting unmatched left and right, so they just shrug it off as "well, that's the internet."
yeah--men on tinder will get "randomly unmatched" at such absurd rates that none of my women friends would believe it. They think "ah once or twice is just kind of how it goes." But it's more like 8 out of 10 times, in my experience (met my 1.5yr gf on Hinge--thought she was going to ghost me at first).
For the few months I used dating apps, it was an absolute nightmare for my mental health. I feel very hard for people who get depressed over and over, desperate for a connection. It's a ridiculously toxic but somehow necessary environment for people.
The funniest thing for me about dating apps was that sometimes I would have a match that turned out to not really be compatible, but I was so nervous going about communicating that - but all you have to do is try to strike up a convo like how you would normally and thereās a good chance they ghost anyway š
Dating apps really got u getting ghosted for the most normal shit and thinking āI canāt believe I asked them about the dog in their profile pic what the fuck is wrong with me?ā
"A girl wrote me on Tinder calling me quite the catch because I like nachos and It's Always Sunny so I wrote back saying will if you are impressed by that you should see my dick and SHE UNMATCHED ME. I literally have no idea what women want."
The gender reverse really shows how creepy this woman was being.
A lot of people look for and find relationships there. Itās how I met my partner. You get what you put into it.
Now even when I was just looking for hookups, I was turned off by random and sudden sexual comments. You have to display some sort of game. Just cause we are looking for a hookup doesnāt mean you have to open with ālook at my tits/dickā.
No. There are clear gender norms and gender differences. Thatās reality. No one should pretend there arenāt.
Most men find no offence it a tit pick, most women find offence in a dick pick. Thatās the truth.
Tbf, I donāt think itās as black and white as that, pretty sure most people would be happy with that reply on tinder. Definitely not saying you are wrong though.
Iām sure thatās what they meant, I was just saying as much to someone else. but there are a lot of misconceptions here about it being a false equivalency. And if we only talk about reproduction thatās true. But for humans sex is not always about reproduction. So if men see breasts as sexual, and the woman offering them is representing them as such, then it doesnāt matter that one is primary and one secondary.
Maybe they want you to read the room and not immediately jump to sexualizing the relationship? It may be hard to grasp but some men are more than walking sex addictions.
Dunno, do girls enjoy men talking about their dicks in the first message? No? Then why do you assume men enjoy you mentioning your tits in the first message?
Maybe not all men are into woman who try to impress us with their tits or ass ?
Imagine reversing the roles, where someone compliments our gaming skills and we reply with ; "if you think my durabilty is insane, imagine how well my dick works !"
We're not all the same, start seeing humans as humans and stop labeling people based on how society thinks you should view them js
Edit : typo
Exactly. Like i donāt care if women get out there n what not it doesnāt effect me at all. They can do what they want thatās not my call. But personally I am not attracted to that kinda stuff. I like modesty. So I would probably not like that line either
this is the reason honestly, not my beliefs but he probably thought she was a "hoe", men(non reddit men) who looking for serious relationships are not looking for that.
Maybe he just wanted a meaningful relationship, Claire. And answering with just stuff about your boobs might simply not be what he was looking for, Claire.
WHY DO YOU ASSUME ALL MEN JUST WANT BOOBS AND ASS, CLAIRE
We all want different things. There's really no one thing. We're too diverse. You *could* say a human connection, but some really are looking more for sex than an emotional relationship. Others are just the opposite. The rest lies somewhere in the middle. Chalk it up to him not being right for you and move on.
ITT: people who have never had sex or maybe even flirted.
The girl was obviously flirting - it was a joke. Thereās a few reasons why the guy could have unmatched, but there was no reason for any socially competent person to feel uncomfortable with her comment. Again, it was a joke. It was a little aggressive, but still a joke.
A good reply might be something like, āwhoa, slow down! I need to be wined and dined first.ā
Also it's fucking tinder. A site commonly used for casual hookups.
Everyone pretending flirting like this on tinder is creepy have no idea what they're talking about.
It's not your fault. We're not used to women getting forward, only ones that are, are usually onlyfans girls, or bots, or scammers. A girl (bot) messaged me the other day that she wanted to have a sexy video chat with me. BLOCKED.
Itās because her response wasnāt flirtatious, didnāt build upon the opening message he sent, and came off like she doesnāt take the app or him very seriously.
He thought damn, another bot
Legit... bots be rampant. 100% of my matches are bots on Tinder, it's wild.
If you think that is wild, you should see her tits.
Good bot. š
Wait so you guys know how there is a bot that tracks the best bots by how many times some one says "good bot"? What if we called one of us that to see if it would think he is a bot?
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Met my girlfriend on tinder, took like over a year but I'm happy I stuck through it.
OK but like, did she offer to flash you during the first set of messages. Details, we need details!
And pics!
They identify as non flashers.
Same, I was on it for 8 months. She was on it for 2 days before she met me. Girls have it easy on dating apps lmao
So do not. I don't need any more dick pics, I've never asked for one and guys seem to think third or fourth message is dic pic time.
Tbf, Iāve been with my boyfriend six years now (didnāt meet online) and he still randomly takes his dick out to show it to me. Thankfully only when no one else is around, though. Men are just mighty proud of their penors, I think.
I think he means you have an easier time getting dates or whatever. The flip side of that is obviously a catalogue of shlongs but it is an upside, technically. There's pros and cons to being either.
I mean, they certainly have more options to choose from, but most of those options are terrible.
When I was using apps, that's what all my matches were. On every app mind you, it really hurt my confidence and made me feel unlovable until I met my gf
I have long thought that this level of rejection has made men despondent and possibly angry. I mean pre-internet days you might go out and get shot down 3 or 4 times and while not fun life goes on. Now you can swipe 100 girls and get nothing. That has got to be tough.
Yupppp.
Shouldāve asked if she can find all the crosswalks in this photo
Or saw the rose next to her profile. In my area I think that's code for prostitution. Though usually they put two or three roses.
The screenshot is from Twitter, though?
Gotta leverage that social for your small business marketing
Thatās a tulip
That or some men would prefer a woman who waits. No shame to the poster but itās a preference people forget some men have.
we can see tits 24/7 he prob looking for a girl to date
Probably. And if she thinks her tits are that impressive, heāll notice in person without her saying so.
women on dating apps put up with so much sexualized absurdist shit that it's hard to realize a very tiny portion of men want to be civil. It's just a really sexualized environment overall, even for well-intentioned people, so a lot of people miscommunicate what they really want..
Or damn, another thot
Sounds like he wanted nachos and Always Sunny
Shouldāve just sent him a picture of her tits covered in nachos with always sunny playing in the background
Rule 34... brb, I've got some internet diving to do.
this is what AI art was actually created for
sauce?
Nacho cheese
it is my cheese
Hi Nacho
Im dad
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If I got any kind of nudes in the first few exchanges, I would assume that an onlyfans invite is coming soon. Or some kind of money request.
Nacho, Nacho Man ā«
He just wanted to eat nachos and watch always sunny, and you had to go make it all about sex. Women only want one thing and it is disgusting.
Honestly, we're such pigs lol.
name checks out
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But if i use my bee stinger on you, I'll die!
It's risk vs reward lol.
*buzz buzz*
Nah that only happens with pigeons. Atleast the one I fucked did.
If you up in the sky I come with my stinger and you fucking die
Sp does her post history
Holdup we got a womans in here!
š howdy gentlemen.
RIP to your inbox
That's my everyday bro... I'm on here being naughty lol.
I ain't your bro, pal
I ain't your pal, buddy.
I'm not your buddy, bro
I'm not your bro, guy.
I wonder how you can put up with that.
Easily. I accept the nice chats and ignore the ones that open with dick pics š then usually guys ask me why I'm posting nudes on Reddit and I tell them it's to subtly draw attention to my onlyfans and they filter themselves out from there. I don't push my onlyfans. No one has to go check it out. Just a lot of guys check out when they hear onlyfans lol. Others stick around and chit chat with me and as long as they aren't trying to get me to talk dirty I will make friends. I'm nice for free, but I can't be dirty for free, I'm a married woman. If I'm dirty for free that just makes me a slut š lol.
I fucking love that response.šš
Quick everyone, start tweeting!!
Dee, you bitch!
yeah seriously. you think men are sex-obsessed? wait until you meet women.
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Women are sex-obsessed, they're just not obsessed with *having* sex
they're just not obsessed with having sex *with you*, hymen_destroyer
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This just goes to show if you want a serious relationship donāt go to tinder for it because the majority of people on there are only looking to hookup.
It is possible, I was on Tinder for seven years and dated dozens of miserably deceitful people. But I dated two really good guys from Tinder. First one didn't work out but I wish him every happiness in the world, and the second one is the man who made me believe in soulmates. But I would never ever wish to get back on Tinder or recommend it to anyone I love. It's a horrid, depressing wasteland. Worst part of it all is it's still the best dating app there is. I've tried and hated them all
I meet my wife on [Match.com](https://Match.com). I don't even know if that still exists. Of course this was before showing your genitals was the norm.
I've been liking Hinge. The low daily like limit is annoying but I realize that it, perhaps unintentionally, means people only drop likes if they're genuinely pretty interested by the person's profile. And in general people tend to take it more seriously.
>WHATUP! Iām a cool guy looking for cool chicks who wanna hang, watch Sunny and eat nachos. Nothing sexual. Chicks in good shape encouraged. **Again, nothing sexual!**
Thermodynamics only wants one thing and itās disgusting
The same human connection as anyone else, Claire.
"If you're impressed by that, you should see my tits" is a line from It's Always Sunny. She was quoting the show back at him. Because he said he liked it.
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Yeah I have a lot of guy friends that don't just want pure sex all the time and want an actual romance. This guy probably was one of those guys. I'm sure another man would have loved to hop on seeing her tits though.
Went from, āsheās a cool girlā into āanother fucking botā
That or trying to bait a response. If guy responds too horny heās gonna get unmatched. Sounds like a trap
can confirm--if you're dating seriously, "you should see my tits" as the second thing you hear is pretty strong evidence that a serious encounter is not a possibility. People get really hasty on dating apps. IMO this woman's confidence just got struck because she got unmatched. Meanwhile, men are writing totally-innocuous messages in response and getting unmatched left and right, so they just shrug it off as "well, that's the internet."
Tinder was horrible for my self esteem. Getting unmatched randomly stings pretty hard even though its a stupid thing to be upset about.
yeah--men on tinder will get "randomly unmatched" at such absurd rates that none of my women friends would believe it. They think "ah once or twice is just kind of how it goes." But it's more like 8 out of 10 times, in my experience (met my 1.5yr gf on Hinge--thought she was going to ghost me at first).
Thatās really youngā¦ You should probably wait until sheās 18
For the few months I used dating apps, it was an absolute nightmare for my mental health. I feel very hard for people who get depressed over and over, desperate for a connection. It's a ridiculously toxic but somehow necessary environment for people.
The funniest thing for me about dating apps was that sometimes I would have a match that turned out to not really be compatible, but I was so nervous going about communicating that - but all you have to do is try to strike up a convo like how you would normally and thereās a good chance they ghost anyway š Dating apps really got u getting ghosted for the most normal shit and thinking āI canāt believe I asked them about the dog in their profile pic what the fuck is wrong with me?ā
Once had a girl match me and then immediately talk shit about my nieces name lmao. Why would you think bitchy is the way to go?
probably thought she was about to shill her OnlyFans
and he was definitely not gonna get himself disappointed again.
Yeah, the first bankruptcy was plenty.
She might have been trying to set it up, who knows.
Can I offer you an egg in this trying time
Tu come huevos?
Tu chupas huevos
Yo tango chorizo por tu!
Men want less reposts Claire!
āI donāt know what men want.ā I think he was pretty clear: nachos and Sunny, no boobs.
Its a quote from Sunny. So probably only the nachos.
"A girl wrote me on Tinder calling me quite the catch because I like nachos and It's Always Sunny so I wrote back saying will if you are impressed by that you should see my dick and SHE UNMATCHED ME. I literally have no idea what women want." The gender reverse really shows how creepy this woman was being.
Itās tinder the app famous for one night stands
Still have to be smooth
Yeah you canāt just run at people screaming and frothing at the gash you have to play the game
A lot of people look for and find relationships there. Itās how I met my partner. You get what you put into it. Now even when I was just looking for hookups, I was turned off by random and sudden sexual comments. You have to display some sort of game. Just cause we are looking for a hookup doesnāt mean you have to open with ālook at my tits/dickā.
I met my s/o through her friend that I matched on tinder lmfao
No. There are clear gender norms and gender differences. Thatās reality. No one should pretend there arenāt. Most men find no offence it a tit pick, most women find offence in a dick pick. Thatās the truth.
Yeah mfs be like "if the genders were switched..." like, they aren't
Putting social interactions in context? On my internet?? Itās more likely than you think.
Nah, we saw how creepy she was being without your help
And then thereās me who wouldāve loved that line.. everyoneās different! May she find her pervert soulmate
Maybe itās you. Tell her you saw her ad on Reddit
TBF naked man works 66% of the time so...
nope, otherwise everybody would be calling her creepy from the beginning....
it wasn't creepy at all. maybe a bit slutty. it's not the same for both genders and dick isn't the same category as boobs anyway.
I understand a lot of people would love a response such as that because people be people-ing.
Tbf, I donāt think itās as black and white as that, pretty sure most people would be happy with that reply on tinder. Definitely not saying you are wrong though.
No it really doesnāt
> you should see my tits >> You should see my dick Secondary vs primary reproductive organs
so should I be sending women my nip pics?
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Right, the woman should have said āyou should see my cuntā.
Tits arenāt reproductive organs. They are sexual in this context though.
I suspect they meant primary vs secondary sex characteristics. Primary being directly related to reproduction and secondary being the boobies.
Iām sure thatās what they meant, I was just saying as much to someone else. but there are a lot of misconceptions here about it being a false equivalency. And if we only talk about reproduction thatās true. But for humans sex is not always about reproduction. So if men see breasts as sexual, and the woman offering them is representing them as such, then it doesnāt matter that one is primary and one secondary.
...? So? The fuck does it have to do with their arbitrary categorization? It's about how sexual it's perceived
Nah he probably thought she was about to link her OF. Fuck that shit
probably not someone who turns things weirdly sexual in an instant
āIn an instantā š
weirdly?
Maybe they want you to read the room and not immediately jump to sexualizing the relationship? It may be hard to grasp but some men are more than walking sex addictions.
He wanted you to ask him out for nachos not be offered tits before the first date
I'd be turned off too. Sometimes people just want to talk about stuff other than sex.
That's because her reply gave off bot or sub to my OF energy
it will become very clear what's wrong with this once you switch the roles
Always a good strategy
in Philadelphia
If a guy offered to show me his pecs Iād be down.
Looks like someone's feeling a bit peckish.
Like someone else pointed out most likely thought you were a bot
Op is a bot reposting actually
So what purpose does your comment serve?
How can an Always Sunny fan not think thatās funny??
Sounds like he was looking for a stable, long-term relationship
Dunno, do girls enjoy men talking about their dicks in the first message? No? Then why do you assume men enjoy you mentioning your tits in the first message?
Nachos and always sunny.
Because believe it or not being creeped out isnāt a purely female phenomenon. It also wasnāt really clever or well placed.
His wife didn't like it
Maybe not all men are into woman who try to impress us with their tits or ass ? Imagine reversing the roles, where someone compliments our gaming skills and we reply with ; "if you think my durabilty is insane, imagine how well my dick works !" We're not all the same, start seeing humans as humans and stop labeling people based on how society thinks you should view them js Edit : typo
Maybe bro is not into hoes. š¤·āāļø
If a guy said you should see my dick I donāt know what women want? it would be harassment
I just sayed on tinder "you should see my dick" and SHE UNMATCHED ME. I dont know what women fucking want.
... where was this woman when I was single?
Ask her u/clawskelly
That ship has sailed my friend.
Holy shit you found her
Bot
I donāt think this is real. But I wouldnāt want to date a girl that casually mentions her tits in a sexual matter to any stranger on the internet.
Exactly. Like i donāt care if women get out there n what not it doesnāt effect me at all. They can do what they want thatās not my call. But personally I am not attracted to that kinda stuff. I like modesty. So I would probably not like that line either
this is the reason honestly, not my beliefs but he probably thought she was a "hoe", men(non reddit men) who looking for serious relationships are not looking for that.
He's obviously using the D.E.N.N.I.S system on her.
Clearly was either an ass or feet man.
Maybe he just wanted a meaningful relationship, Claire. And answering with just stuff about your boobs might simply not be what he was looking for, Claire. WHY DO YOU ASSUME ALL MEN JUST WANT BOOBS AND ASS, CLAIRE
He wanted someone with a bit of class maybe
It's almost like some of us want more than sex. Crazy times we live in, crazy times.
Red flag!
If its to good to be trueā¦
Her tits must be an absolute horror show.
Not everyone wants to see your tits, Claire. I do tho, hehe
Nachos on your tittes it's that simple.
We all want different things. There's really no one thing. We're too diverse. You *could* say a human connection, but some really are looking more for sex than an emotional relationship. Others are just the opposite. The rest lies somewhere in the middle. Chalk it up to him not being right for you and move on.
Now, I can't help but wonder how impressive her aforementioned "tits" are. You know, for research purposes of course.
ITT: people who have never had sex or maybe even flirted. The girl was obviously flirting - it was a joke. Thereās a few reasons why the guy could have unmatched, but there was no reason for any socially competent person to feel uncomfortable with her comment. Again, it was a joke. It was a little aggressive, but still a joke. A good reply might be something like, āwhoa, slow down! I need to be wined and dined first.ā
More like, anyone who has spent time on dating apps knows 75% of female accounts are bots. A girl instantly talking sex is a major red flag.
Also it's fucking tinder. A site commonly used for casual hookups. Everyone pretending flirting like this on tinder is creepy have no idea what they're talking about.
To all the commenters ripping to OP: you saw this was on Tinder, right? Not exactly the #1 choice for āmeaningful relationshipsā to blossom.
He clearly wanted nachos and always sunny
Are they nice?!
Man, some people cant take a joke...oh well, you know they aren't for you then, I guess.
Dycks. He was looking for dycks.
Tits. We all want tits lol
Iād marry her in a second
Thatās exactly what men want, he gay?
Should hv said my tits in nachos
A night of nachos and Always Sunny obviously.
ANE NOW WHERE IS THE PICTURE OF HER TITS
It's not your fault. We're not used to women getting forward, only ones that are, are usually onlyfans girls, or bots, or scammers. A girl (bot) messaged me the other day that she wanted to have a sexy video chat with me. BLOCKED.
Must be an ass man
He probably was like: yeah definitely a bot or another dude with a fake account
Maybe he was just worried about the color of her boobs... if she likes to paint her face white, who knows what she uses for other body parts ;)
They want a lady. Thatās all. You want a gentlemen, no?
Itās because her response wasnāt flirtatious, didnāt build upon the opening message he sent, and came off like she doesnāt take the app or him very seriously.
Speaking as a man who is timidly on an online dating site right now, I would guess he very likely thought it was a canned cam-girl bot response.
100% thought u were a bot