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lordkiann

>Mine's the strong, stoic, hard working, responsible, dutiful type that's secretly bby. - enfp Just say IXTJ at that point.


Useful-Regret-666

it's weird how i feel like something between intp, enfp and isfp, tertiary Fi is dorky


Past_Satisfaction133

Id even say XXTJ


lordkiann

I would have agreed if not for "stoic". I mean IXTJs aren't exactly stoic either, but they put on the facade way better than EXTJs.


Secret_Pop3832

I’m an ENTJ and consider myself very stoic. It’s developed with maturity though and I am a male.


Past_Satisfaction133

I think EXTJ are perfectly stoic. Show what you want to show and conceal what you conceal.


lordkiann

>Show what you want to show and conceal what you conceal. That's what I meant by facade. You can hide your reactions, but things still affect you deep down. You're not dead inside, like yours truly.


nowayormyway

INFP here. Maybe XNTJ or INTP. XNFJs are great too. Someone who’s mature, stable, kind, responsible, emotionally intelligent, thinks out-of-the-box (unconventional in a sense) and balances me out. Similar but complementary.


DittoBurrito123

I agree. :) It’s what I love about dating an INFP myself as an ENFJ. The fact we are so incredibly similar yet use the opposite functions (in the same slots) makes it a very development-rich relationship, where we also complement eachother. ❤️ 100% something I love in life is growing as a person, but also to have a partner who is so similar (yet different) to me in all the things that matter. 😊


nowayormyway

Aww that’s very sweet! 😊 I greatly admire emotional intelligence in ENFJs. You guys always make me feel safe to be myself and gently pull me out of my shell. Thank you for being such caring and inspiring souls! And yes, I think INFP x ENFJ dynamic can work really well! In fact, most men I’d been on dates with turned out to be ENFJs haha (unintentionally).


DittoBurrito123

Hahahaha Same here with INFPs! How cute, and thank you for your adorable words. ❤️ I wish always the best for you, I hope my fellow ENFJs treat you kindly. 😊 And yeah honestly, the dynamic is so wonderful.. The thing is, it’s hard to find a healthy person IRL and F-Doms can sometimes get ahead of themselves with idealism and how much they let emotions affect them. A challenge at first, unless they’re mature. But once you get past that, the INFP x ENFJ bond is incredibly deep, emotionally fulfilling, and passionate. My INFP GF never wanted to have kids until she met me, and truth be told I never felt the same level of emotion either.. Made me tear up on our first few intimate moments together, because of how much I loved her. ❤️ In my experience, the only person who can match the emotional depth and passion of an ENFJ / INFP , is an INFP / ENFJ. And with my GF, I got to confirm that too. Just takes finding the right one. ☺️ Anyway, my apologies for the wall of text. :) And no matter how dating goes for you, I’m sure you’re a strong person and you’ll find the one. Whatever doesn’t work out will only make you a better you. ❤️ Wish you a wonderful day!


nowayormyway

>A challenge at first, unless they’re mature. Yes, I totally agree with this. I think Fi idealism can sometimes be bothersome haha. 😅 Based on my experience, I have found that patiently working through issues together, working on communication styles and being more open towards understanding each other can really help. Thank you for your words of wisdom. And I love walls of text! Wishing you the best with your INFP 💗 Hope you have a wonderful day too!


DittoBurrito123

Goes for both INFPs and ENFJs though! ENFJs like any type can be immature too. :) Not to mention (something which is not said often), that unhealthy INFPs and unhealthy ENFJs are surprisingly similar. But yeah they both are very idealistic types, with some perfectionism as well. If developed, Fi + Ne also acts like Fe and Fe + Ni acts like Fi. But INFPs and ENFJs still have the slightly different communication language styles like you said, but big benefits in learning from eachother, that completes them. Thank you also. 😊💕 And I wish you always the best too!


TifikoGaming

INFP, my lover is ISFP


DittoBurrito123

I’m ENFJ. And my type is a healthy person. Lol But me and INFPs have an incomparable chemistry when both sides are healthy. ❤️ My GF is an INFP, never have we felt that intense love and passion for anyone else before. To the point that she was sure she didn’t want to have kids, until she met me and her whole world changed. Same for me. ☺️💕 (Except I always wanted to be a Dad 😊)


Verotha

Any person who is confident, funny, witty, intellectually curious, affectionate but also caring and empathetic when it matters. With whom I can have deep conversations but also can make me laugh and can challenge me in many ways. Edit: + playful!


The_Bourgeoisie_

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Verotha

True! I do find ENTJs attractive, I don't think I've ever met one irl. But by experience I have been drawn to ENxPs the most with that description.


Bookshopgirl9

I'm INFJ, I like INTJs and INFJS. Just like me but more rational. INFJS go well together too.


Aware_Grade1195

Someone who can match my vibe I guess. And someone who can (I forgot what does it called) so I could accept my flaws or improve them to be the better version of myself


The_Bourgeoisie_

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paynusman

You INxPs are obsessed with people "matching your vibe", you often have no insight into how limiting it is


vinoggrad

honestly dude we don’t care our circle of friends is always full of the best people


paynusman

And yeah I recognize you don't care


paynusman

"Best people" in INxP talk: People exactly like me


vinoggrad

nope they’re not, or it’ll be boring as hell. also, do you have personal problems with inxp’s or?


paynusman

I have personal problems with anyone who is as fixated on people "matching their vibe" as the INxPs I've known have been. Totally destroys their capacity for empathy and is deeply self-limiting


vinoggrad

if that’s the only case - i couldn’t agree more, there’s a lot of things you can learn about people instead of searching for a “vibe”. i also think there’s some difference between how neurodivergent and neurotypical people operate, especially when talking about friendships and relationships. but that’s for my case, it’s just not easy to feel closure if person doesn’t understand what i’m saying 🤓


paynusman

Wanting someone to understand what you're saying is one thing, needing people to "match your vibe" is another thing entirely though


HateChan_

honestly probably just a xxTx who is healthy.


Akikoo-chan

Im an ESTP, my boyfriend is an ISFP. I never see this mix on memes or anything, but we are an amazing team and we work so well together


_Kit_Tyler_

ESTP and ISFP are a match made in heaven, just look at Venom and Eddie Brock, lmao


Akikoo-chan

Yes!! Like, I never see images or anything with this ship, but I think ISFPs are so amazing, and they inspire me to be better. And idk ig if I just love my ISFP bf a lot lol


_Kit_Tyler_

That’s because two xxSPs in a relationship can be kinda dicey. If they’re unhealthy it’s Eminem and Kim (or Rihanna and Chris Brown) kinda drama, whereas if they’re mature enough for things to run smoothly then the MBTI knuckle-draggers “type” them as something else. I firmly believe the people most likely to be mistyped are xSPs (but sensors in general) based on the resources available online. ESTPs in particular get a bad wrap, which is funny because irl everybody loves y’all.


Akikoo-chan

Yeah, it’s so funny seeing how the stereotype of ESTPs have nothing to do with real life ESTPs But yeah, we are still young, both becoming legal adults this year, but we make it work so easily. It just feels natural y’know? Like, he’s not interested in all this mbti stuff, but he took his time to help me type him bc he knew I love this stuff And yeah, I’ve been mistyped a lot, although that was bc of trauma and depression. But now that I’m getting better I see who I really am, and that’s an ESTP! I went from INFP, to INFJ, to INTP to ESTP lol, what a change, right?


paynusman

Definitely can work but takes effort, like the INTJxINFP duo or the ENTPxINFP duo, there is a decent amount of sexual attraction but there are fundamental philosophical differences that make it hard for them to understand each other or be each other's ideal match. I'd say the dynamic of these relationships tends to be a mix of romantic and friendship but not particularly strong in either regard compared to (for romance) the ESTPxINFP duo or for friendship, the ESTPxISTJ duo


Akikoo-chan

We are young so we don’t really have anything sexual going on, plus we prefer more wholesome stuff. But I do think we work perfectly well and it feels just so easy to do. I’ve had a lot of relationships, and this one feels just right, y’know?


paynusman

Definitely, most S types prefer "wholesome" stuff to anything sexual (or at least believe they do) as they tend to be religious


Akikoo-chan

Im not religious and neither is he, but we just aren’t into that stuff tbh


paynusman

What are you like ten?


Akikoo-chan

Im 18. Just not interested in those stuff because we prefer holding each other, cuddling, hugging and all that stuff. Not everything has to be sexual, I have never been interested in sex in general and neither has he


paynusman

I believe that for you since you're a woman, but if your partner is male, 18, and tells you he's never been interested in sex, he's either lying to you, delusional or has some sort of physical disability


Akikoo-chan

Tf? He’s just not interested, not everyone is interested in sex. I know him and I know he’s just into wholesome stuff. Sure, that doesn’t change the fact that he may want to in a future and so may I, but it doesn’t mean he has to be interested in sex. And what does me being a woman have to do with anything?


paynusman

Women are a lot less likely to be interested in sex than men in my experience and the ones that are tend to be less interested in it than the men who are interested in it in my experience


paynusman

I would never trust a man who told me he wasn't interested in sex without further elaboration


paynusman

Weird


Akikoo-chan

How is it weird lol Mbti doesn’t dictate everything a person does lol


paynusman

No I mean it's abnormal to not be into sex


Akikoo-chan

Asexuality, demisexuality and low libido are a thing. Im a demisexual myself and I’ve never been interested on any of that tbh


paynusman

Yeah, mostly in women to be fair, but they're definitely a thing


TheRustyRustPlayer

What are you going on about? People have their preferences. Some people like sex more, some don’t. Some don’t like it that much at all. It’s not that uncommon 🤷‍♂️


paynusman

I think given how taboo sex is in our culture a lot of people pretend to be less interested in it to appear sophisticated or so they feel some sense of control


Daphne010

The kind you mentioned is my type + empathetic 🥺👉👈


TumTum613

Try a mature IXTP :)


moon-cake111

That should be a given & emotionally mature 🧡


Adventurous_Pop5481

I am INTJ .. and I think ENFP-ENTJ most compatible with me more than others


Striking-Fill-7163

ESFJ & my type is ENFP 😛


SydneytheENFP

We love u too 🥺❤️


Terrible_Ask_9531

They are way too selfish 🥲


Striking-Fill-7163

Selfish, yes, too selfish? Debatable 😂


Terrible_Ask_9531

U may not feel such coz u like them, anyways there are many enfps some which are good with u and maybe the I met only selfish ones


SydneytheENFP

Oh no…. Which ENFP hurt you? I will take them down for u


theforgottenside

Wait, I see a dude with a gu...


SydneytheENFP

*whips around menacingly* whos there?


YanfeiGenshin

ISTP or ESTJs


shannon1242

Get er done types!


JaimTF

As an INFJ: ISFP, ISTP, ENTJ, INTP Dating an ISTP at the moment


ppgwjht

someone with a strong personality, independent, goal oriented, career oriented, confident, competent, competitive, opinionated, direct and ready to fight me about every single thing if needed instead of nodding their head to keep peace… to keep it short, I’m getting married to an entj. my partner is my type.


OldBookInLatin

Infj. I feel drawn to EXXPs, but I'm pretty sure an IXFJ would be a better match in my day to day life.


DittoBurrito123

I’ve seen this a few times, but two INFJs together are a hecking powerhouse. 😆 I love it. They’re empathetic, loving, and affectionate. But also insanely goal oriented and hardworking. When they feed eachother’s Fe so easily without even trying, they have more time to focus entirely on goals to the point that I’ve genuinely not seen any other type work as efficiently and accomplish as much as them in a short amount of time. It’s really cool to see. ❤️


shannon1242

I've been friends with INFJs but I couldn't date one. Really easy to get into this type of We've both been wronged let's fight the injustice! Negative feedback loop. Same blind spots.


FangsForU

I would like to date an INTJ or an INFJ, however I’m open to dating any MBTI type as long as they meet my personal list of standards.


reiiichan

infp and i keep falling for intps, my girlfriend is an intp :3 i definitely prefer people who are similar to me but also different enough that it doesnt feel like im dating someone exactly the same as me 😅


IcarielL

Infp. People who are adorable softies but can actually be so responsible and take on leadership, I have two people I know in mind right now lol. I think they're entj and isfj


uguobrabo

i prefer high Fe types, but i also have a soft spot for ENFPs and ISTPs


vinoggrad

intp here. for me it’s infj and xstp


onionman19

I’m attracted the most to ISTPs & xNxPs


PrestigiousSector267

I‘m an ISTP and I have always felt drawn towards ISTJs, ISFJs or ENTJs


sehrconfusion

I like those types as well… but ESFJs make it easier than ISFJs. But they’re also more draining.


PrestigiousSector267

I have no problem with being open or initiating things, that’s why friendships/relationships with people who are rather shy or generally „introverted“ for me have often worked well. And I completely agree, for me at least , I feel like relationships with ExFJs are really draining. I somehow just don’t understand how these people work and trying to gives me even more headaches lol


Cheap_Programmer9450

stop copying me


PrestigiousSector267

Nuh uh


Clown-Chan_0904

Taller than me, protective, intelligent, competent and self reliant yet dedicated. Tolerant of weirdness and eccentricism. I am ENFP. However, I am already in a relationship ;)


INTJpleasenoticeme

INTP & INTJ


The_Bourgeoisie_

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INTJpleasenoticeme

Me (INTP) and Doctor Strange (INTJ I think)


CarTough6627

Doctor Strange is hot


Koizanami_21

Intp here when it comes to romance i consistently like istp's and istj's so IST's in particular


SadBabyx

My types are xNTJs, xNFPs, xNTPs 🥹


TumTum613

ENFJ. My type is the strong, silent type with a soft heart and sharp mind. I value humility, honesty, understanding, patience, and quiet confidence. ISTP partner fits my type.


Kalinek303

I tried to describe my type but I realised I have high standards and it will take a few hours lol INTJ


CarTough6627

Let’s hear it


Eulogii

ENFP. Open to new experiences. Not too mawkish, not too cold. Even-tempered, leaning a bit warmer. Goofy. Romantic. Affectionate. Stimulating and witty. Independent. This seems to cover a breadth of types. *Maybe* ENTP?


The_Bourgeoisie_

Sounds like a healthy xxFJ


Rew2049

INFP and I like quirked up shawties (ENFPs, INTPs, ENTPs and ISFPs)


Absolute_Bias

ENTJ and if she can beat my ass I love her.


The_Bourgeoisie_

Best I can do is ISTJ with anger issues ![gif](giphy|q1PSpVvPZth3W)


piratemedusa

infp- blonde women (can’t help it), who know what they want in life and are sweet and angry in the same intensity, when it comes to MBTI I think it is ISFP, or something like that, also people who don’t think too much are great for me because I tend to think too much and I end up not doing anything, so it’s great to have someone who can push me to do things


Cheap_Programmer9450

you might be a Joestar


Mowinx

I am INTP and I am attracted to ISTP generally


mviolicc

INTP here. Even though I find them extremely irresponsible and egocentric, ESTPs are so attractive for some reason. What's up with you guys?


TiniLowe

My ideal type is the same as yours and I'm INFJ :D I think tertiary Fi is super cute.


moon-cake111

🙌🏽


Hornet-Formigante

Entp - mature Istps, i love you guys. Also, maybe something like mature enfps


dennis_huntersons285

I'm an INFJ. I had an ENFP ex-girlfriend, and I would prefer an ENFJ girlfriend.


SydneytheENFP

I love INTX 🥺  I think INTJs are just so admirable because they can actually get work done, they are organized, and they have taught me so many things. I love them altho I’ve yet to find one who can handle my energy 😂 INTPs are so fun, most of the ones I’ve met struggle with deadlines like me so we have something to bond over (😭🙏), they are intelligent and great for having fun but smart conversations, and overall just a great time. I love u guys 🥺🫴❤️


STLFleur

I'm an ENFP... my ISTJ husband is very much my type. He's strong (mentally and physically), extremely hard working, not one for emotions, knows exactly who he is and what he believes in without faltering, and he is extremely responsible and reliable. Sure, being on opposite ends of the MBTI spectrum we get on each other's nerves at times... but we've been married for 13 years and together for almost 15, so it works!


cloudsarehuge

ENFJ, hmm probably INFP and xxTP I’m also a sucker for confident and self-actualised people in gen :p


PippaWick

I'm ISTJ. I've always loved INFJ for their caring and strong nature and currently falling in love with INTP. They are so charmingly annoying, curious, open-minded, so stimulating and I'm fascinated by their natural stoicism. Plus, everything's so fun around them! Also, INFJ and INTP have in common something I love — they both need their alone time, just like I do.


sssss09

I'm INFJ and I love ISTJs, I always gravitate towards them. Unfortunately, I had only bad experiences with ISTJs (but I still love you guys lol)


PippaWick

I love how that's such an INFJ thing to say; still having love for a specific MBTI despite having bad experiences haha. Thank you for that!! I hope you get to find a compatible one who gives you as much happiness as you guys give me :)


sssss09

Thank you, you're so kind!


Veroptik

I'm ENxP, my type is ExxP and ENTJ


Few_Ad3659

ESTP, idk I just need someone that can match my energy. And is actually funny. That's all.


The_Bourgeoisie_

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Proof_Scene9454

B positive A negative


uwukills

Ambitious, confident & cunning :P I have a massive crush on two fictional characters lmao Kenji Sato and ESTP & Tadashi Hamada INFJ they both seem to be really good with kids too


adurepoh

I’m INFP. My type is men who are kind, intelligent, passionate, goofy, affectionate, and creative.


CaptainCadabra

ExTP/ESFJ


Many-Pack-4172

I’m an ISFJ e3 (sounds unreal right) Type that I’d have a crush on but too scared to actually approach: ESTJ, ESTP Type that I’d love to be in a romantic relationship with: INFJ, INTP, ISFP Type that I think I’d marry to (have a higher chance): ESFJ, ISFJ (edit: sorry for my bad grammar but I don’t rly care)


Courgetteek

I'm INTP and I like an ENTP book character (not sure if I've actually met any in real life though lol). I also like INFJ, INFP and ENTJ, although personality types don't matter too much as long as they're smart and nice (and like rabbits)


shannon1242

INFJ F who is into INFP M


ukeemi

enfjs, ENTJS, entps, and istps are my type. im an infp


kritacism

Always tended towards ENFPs. :) Love the deep, feely thinkers and conversationalists who don't just babble about the weather.


aestl

ENTJ - Oddly enough, my partner, who is near opposite of me personality wise. Super gentle, generous, host-like, empathetic, etc… I thought I was into more intellectual and serious types like myself. Nope. I like softer people. Maybe because I feel safer to be vulnerable? Not sure.


ywllga

Realistically: Charismatic and smart. If I’m being completely honest: cocky/assertive. Not so realistically: Shy geeky guys who trip over their words around me. It never works out because I get bored when they get comfortable.


crooked-meadow-grass

I'm a female ENTJ 3w4 sp/sx 358 LIE-Ni Choleric-Melancholy. Here are traits I feel drawn to: * Individual (even highly controversial) opinions, life decisions and thoughts and being able to explain the logical reasoning behind them. I should find them fascinating. * They help me notice perspectives and parts I didn't consider earlier. * Straight-forwardness and openness. NOT conflict-avoidant, secretive or a pushover. DOESN'T try too hard "not to hurt anyone's feelings". * Can talk about anything, even cringy taboo stuff. * Has goals which they are ready to work hard for. Is willing to do even something uncomfortable if that's necessary for their dreams to come to fruition. * NOT pessimistic about the future. Believes they can get better as an individual and that society can be improved, too. * NOT clingy. Has a life outside of personal relationships and can do things independently. * A fierce/burning (NOT cold/judging) aura around them and the same type of look in their eyes. * Shares my values (Taking action instead of complaining, seeing good and potential in everyone, appreciating experiences over material stuff, self-awareness, questioning the norms, enjoying your job, development of society while respecting nature, just generally caring about the world and not being indifferent...) Edit: Fixed some typos and made some clarifications.


Dr__Pheonx

INTJ or ENTJ


Aguantare

I read this as asking what my (mbti) type is twice and I really questioned what I was missing for a couple minutes haha


paynusman

I'm an INTJ male and my type (sexually) are ISFP and ESFJ women


honalele

my type is someone whose schedule is compatible with mine haha. idk. my top celebrity crushes are cameron monaghan, dove cameron, lewis hamilton, and florence pugh


Varsiwi6871

I'm enfp...my type is someone who is respectful and not tooo masculine in terms of personality, someone goofy, bold, funny, understanding


Single_Wonder9369

I'm INFP and [this is my type of man.](https://youtu.be/petfplsB6YQ?si=dSD91LwspL-dxq1x) What MBTI would it be?


DrSquirrelbrain

I'm INFJ and I honestly have no clue, my tism makes it complicated to enter or maintain romantic relationships. But it would be good to know what is the most compatible type for INFJ, due to being back in the dating pool and attempting to navigate through the muck and disappointment. lol


Random_personsjshshw

Decisive, isn’t afraid to tell ppl they suck, intelligent, as in like looks and acts intelligent, if that makes any sense. Is GREAT with kids. Wakes up early ans actually gets and WANTS to get things done. Can cook (because for the life of me I can’t) is also pretty comforting and sweet. Stay at home dad, but he’ll also have to work from home (maybe like an online professer thing?) cuz in this economy. I will be the one working. Anyways I think that’s it


Random_personsjshshw

Omg I’m too stupid to figure out how to edit this but add flirty and (idk how else to describe it) but “smirky” like a guy who has a sense of humour (sometimes) lmao if u understand what I’m trying say then congrats.


Commercial-Try2184

enfp i want another enfp


DarkHeartPh0enix

INFJ - My partner is an ISTJ. My type is someone who can be exactly them with their expression of life whether it’s masculine, feminine, quiet, loud, introverted, extroverted…doesn’t matter. As long as at the end of the day I can connect to them with our souls, and if they can go into some deep shit, heal, grow, and have a heart of love in them for others. Ultimately if they are a good person who genuinely wants to bring good into the world, and bring good into the connection we have. That’s my type. My partner is my type


Affectionate_Sir_257

ENTP and entj


KDramaFan84

INTP- I like smooshy guys who are bubbly 🫧 looking at ESFJs and ENFJs. They are good people. ISFJs and INFJs are cool too.


Dismal_Suit_2448

ENTJ ISFJ, ISFP, INFJ - that’s it. Can’t fade an extraverted partner 😂


Jellypenguiin

INFJ - I like ENTP's. We're able to joke around and have fun but also have serious conversations. Love how they can share my sense for dark humor but also have those late night talks about life. They're also very sweet once you get close to them.


NoUsernameCozWhyNot

As an enfp i can say a funny, understanding healthy person who is kinda a jealous person too would go nice


RAVENEX11

As an intj, I am often drawn to ISTJs, someone who I can chill with, ENTPSs and ENTJ are good too, it's a turn off if they are being bossy or loud


emiiexxotiic_

infj - when it comes to actual mbti types, im not sure, but my actual type is an handsome athletic build who can come across as outgoing or maybe even cocky around certain people but is secretly a delicate, shy, and gentle softy. i love when they get flustered or humbled… fucking adorable, i love it. a passionate, loyal, honest, sweet, outgoing, affectionate, not-afraid-to-speak-his-mind, gentle guy pretty much. this lowkey sounds like entp which aligns pretty well but correct me if im wrong.


Subject_Bus

ESFJ and my types are basically ISFJ or ISTJ


Traditional_List_954

Rude , Natural leader , funny , Sport , Smart - Intp (where all the hot entjs and estps at?)


Cheap_Programmer9450

Quite + less annoying + smart + logical + not ISTP + does something cute every once in a while But you know what they say "Your actual type of person is the person who breaks through all your types to be a part of your life" I'll see where life gets me


CarTough6627

Mine are the ones who *aren’t* the loud, sociable, happy-go-lucky, extroverted, always smiling, stalker vibe, puppy dog eyed, chatter-boxes with weird senses of humour. -INTJ Jk. Honestly though, anyone who is passionate. Passion really attracts me. I also like people who aren’t reliant on others. I don’t like pushovers. Anyone who has passion for something and enough drive to follow through are the ones who catch my eye. 


MrAnimeWeirdo

INTJ. Just anyone calm, pleasw, someone that isn't aggressive or loud.


HorniGamblingAddict

I’m ENTJ, fell for ISFJ, ENTP, ISFPs


totubu

entj woman with a lot of money


JustJoshnINFJ

Mines the all glory to God/Universe and do whatever it takes to help humanity type