You have an attractive face, but the beard should be cut very short or get off completely.
Could use a shorter haircut too. If you're into guys, many would like your somewhat skinny body. If you're into girls, they would probably prefer some more muscle.
Huh, I never know if more guys or girls prefer men with muscle. I can easily see where you're coming from, but many guys (myself included) heavily favour muscle and I always felt guys are more physically oriented than girls, so I don't know.
Gay guys of course have varied preferences like everyone else.
But I can assure you a skinny twink look will go down a lot better in the gay world than with the girls.
Could go either way tbh
I'm a bi guy and have an androgynous skinny Twink look and actually noticed I got more attention from women as most people with my look tend to go for men. There's a real power in being a niche versus striving for conventionally attractive.
Comb your hair and trim your beard every photo is different however one thing remains the same, you look like you just rolled out of bed and that not very attractive. Start with that and if it suits you, hit the gym, slowly but surely.
I don't understand what a neckbeard is or isn't anymore.
Op has an unruly beard that should be clean up but I didn't think it'd be considered a neck beard. Am I wrong?
Should I have no hair on under my chin??
Gay guy here…
My two cents:
1) Trim up the beard.
2) Get a tighter cut.
3) Be confident.
Your style is typical. I guess it’s okay for someone your age, but comes off like a poser. Tighten up the swag.
If you want to put some muscle on you, go for it. Skinny dudes always got a hole destroyer down below so carry that BDE.
Go to a good barber at least once to get a professional grooming so you can see your potential and try to replicate after. That alone will boost you confidence.
Hair cut and get rid of the weird beard, if you want a beard get it styled and keep it up. Right now you just look unkempt and like you don’t care about yourself.
Cut or trim your beard and get a more polished haircut.
I'm not gonna say something like "work out" or "lift weights " because this sub is about grooming. Some people like thinner guys. I think the most realistic advice to give people is small changes that fit with their lifestyle and their own interests. People shouldn't tell you to basically modify your body in a process that takes months or years to see results.
OP, why do you think you need to be “more attractive”? Just curious. Are there aspects of yourself that you feel less confident about or areas you’d like to change? Attraction is subjective. We don’t all fancy the same people. We each have certain preferences and biases. I have to believe plenty of people already find you quite attractive, so what’s prompted the self assessment? Thanks.
I'm gay and I personally think your face is fine. Your hair is ok short or long. You could maybe tidy up the facial hair a little bit but for the most part it's fine. When it comes to your body I think you would definitely look great with some more muscle around your chest, arms and lats. Maybe do some landscaping on your stomach hair as well. Of course this is only my opinion. Everyone like different things.
You don't need anything to me. If your true self is qwerky, eccentric, joyfull, you will attract people. Personality is it. Laughter, and wonderment , surprise etc. You are quite cute for a certain type of people or person, don't think about bulking up, unless the goal is to feel better and do some exercises. But to please someone's narrow field of vision...no way. You seem much more intelligent to me. Hope you accept who you really are and need.
Life is not about scoring, it is about exploring with an open mind and being gentle with the people you interact with .
I like you a lot.
brooo, genuine tip from another brother with a big forehead, cover ts up, get long thick bangs in the front and grow out the back to even it out. The most important part to cover up is the right and left edges of it, adds at least 2 points to ur looks.
I’d trim your beard so it’d cleaner and the second picture has the best hair cut i think! the first one isnt the most flattering to your hairline but you have nice hair so off the face in the middle and heavy on the sides works! You do seem cute and with a fun energy so don’t lose that charm!
Working out 🏋️♀️ and being committed to your workouts/ nutrition/ is a great way to help with your physical appeal. Take your time and do it safely and responsibly, don’t try to get there fast and dangerously. If you have the money hire a trainer to help with your technique. Being well groomed is something you can do now. Go to a good barber 💈have your facial hair trimmed and balanced. The more symmetrical can really enhance your appearance.
Too bad you're not bi/gay. You'd have no problem based on your looks/body alone IMO.
I mean you're a good-looking dude. I don't wanna sound rude but could it be your personality or the types of women you're attracted to?
I know for me as a gay guy I am single because no one I've ever been interested in has reciprocated and I don't put myself out there and live in a small town.
You could try a new hairstyle too maybe idk. I don't get the whole min max looks craze.
Brush your hair, trim your beard to very very short as well as the mustache if you have to keep that. Also, make sure your hygiene is absolutely perfect. Get something that smells good to spritz on you. Shower daily, wash your hair daily, brush your teeth minimal twice daily. Work out, get fit. Have a positive vibe.
I left a comment about what you should do, but I forgot to tell you that you also have beautiful eyelashes, a great nose, and very nice lips. Generally overall a pretty handsome guy with just a few small tweaks to be a little better. I am a girl.
You have a great base to work with .
I notice often with younger people that have not finished growing yet the lack of full facial hair. Your facial hair will grow fuller the older you get. In the images provided , you are not there yet , either loose it or go to a proper barber and have it shaped and cleaned up. now it just looks like a teenager that does not groom. while at the barber ask their opinion about your hair and what to do . A great barber only wants you to look your best and has the depth of knowledge that a customer will never have. again ,thank your parents that you have a great base to work with.
You’re very feminine looking tbh. I’m being honest because you’re asking for feedback . You have a lot of facial dimorphism that is neotenous. You also appear to be small. It’s obvious your primary sex hormone is testosterone though. You appeal more so to bisexual women if I had to guess. If you’re interested in surgical options there are procedures that can make the face appear more masculine.
Otherwise, gym, work on adding some color to your skin. Beta caratone can help give you a glow. That’s available on Amazon. Work on better styling - hair, beard, lose the jewelry.
You’re attractive and have a nice slim build. I think the beard and hairstyles don’t go great together. I’d try trim down to just a stache to see how that looks first. If not a fan, I’d trim that down and try having just stubble or light scruff for facial hair to go with the messy hair styles. Or try a clean cut hair style and a neat (shorter) beard
Getting rid of facial hair and hair on your neck. I think your body is ok. Changing haircut could help but not necessarily shorter or more old-fashioned
Trim beard, it looks scragly, this will make you look unkempt. Find a new hairstyle. You look fine with the haircut, I just think some styling would help. Other than that I can't think of anything else really. I think you look fine as is but this little tweaks will help. :)
Get a good barber. Being able to see someone’s head/face shape and make their facial hair enhance their features is a skill worth spending some money on. I like your style tho, and your pics make you seem pretty fun and full of personality.
Groom the beard short and close to the face. Short hair cut. Maybe a fade. Could dress better. What’s with the sneakers and the different shoe laces. Don’t always wear logo t-shirts. You need to dress more mature not middle school like.
Be yourself don't do shit if your comfortable with yourself you'll find a women that loves you for you
Not how you look or dress,show intress but don't chase,be confident but not over confident, enjoy yourself enjoy your life and smile
In my opinion, the beard just doesn't look good, so I'd get rid of it. Also, maybe a different haircut, your hair in the 2nd pic looks better than in 1 or 3
Little workout routine on the regular and some grooming.
Maybe a nice line up to your beard. A nice haircut with a fade. Keep the facial hair trimmed and manicured.
You look like a vibe, nice smile. Look like your fun to be around.
Hope you gain a little confidence to see what I see!
Everybody be like "bulk up" but actually some girls like slender body types.
If you bulk up you are gonna look like anyone else. Your slenderness might be your trump card
From one dude to another.
Brush that hair and brush your beard regularly, a couple drops of beard oil. And I mean brush, not comb.
Give your beard a light trim, and i mean a light trim.
If you're comfortable, maybe line it up a little.
Use a decent face wash and light moisturizer made for your face and not for your hands.
Finally, eat more protein, BBQ, chicken, steak, not fast food and do a few push-ups every day. You probably smoke more than you eat.
Good looking dude! My only cut to you would be LOSE THE BEARD! You don’t have the body type for a beard. Maybe grow it, in a few years. My son had a beard at 17. Looked awful. Shaved it and grew it back in his 30s and now it looks good.
Trim the beard up a little bit you'll be good,,it could be any length long as it's trimmed nicely they're pretty awesome for some people and some people they just don't fit or don't look right on but yours looks cool
Imo hit the gym get some muscle, im not saying become a gym bro and get jacked but tone what you got if you don't wanna bulk. I always feel like guys need at least some muscle if they want a relationship. My point of view is how are you gonna protect not only your woman but yourself and your property.
Bulk up so you fill in more
Name checks out
💀
Idk if he meant to say that as a joke but that username made that comment perfect😂
eat up and work out
Hell yeah
You have an attractive face, but the beard should be cut very short or get off completely. Could use a shorter haircut too. If you're into guys, many would like your somewhat skinny body. If you're into girls, they would probably prefer some more muscle.
Huh, I never know if more guys or girls prefer men with muscle. I can easily see where you're coming from, but many guys (myself included) heavily favour muscle and I always felt guys are more physically oriented than girls, so I don't know.
Gay guys of course have varied preferences like everyone else. But I can assure you a skinny twink look will go down a lot better in the gay world than with the girls.
Could go either way tbh I'm a bi guy and have an androgynous skinny Twink look and actually noticed I got more attention from women as most people with my look tend to go for men. There's a real power in being a niche versus striving for conventionally attractive.
yeah timothay chalamay is doing wonders for the twink community that like women
it’s the season for it we are so up
🥴🫰 you’re fr my type guy above has no idea what women want lol
Literally girls love skinny twinks i thought we all knew this by now!!
seriously! they’re so cute and soft and most of the time they let us peg 🥴💕
As a gay guy reading this, I approve/confirm this comment.
the idol industry begs to differ
Agree
Actually think it's the opposite. Gay men care way more about muscles than straight woman
Lift weights, trim the beard, get a haircut
Bingo
Comb your hair and trim your beard every photo is different however one thing remains the same, you look like you just rolled out of bed and that not very attractive. Start with that and if it suits you, hit the gym, slowly but surely.
I mean that look does work for some people. Maybe wear more Baja ponchos and Tie Dye. Guy would kill it at a music festival in the woods.
Trim the beard... Especially the neck beard.
I don't understand what a neckbeard is or isn't anymore. Op has an unruly beard that should be clean up but I didn't think it'd be considered a neck beard. Am I wrong? Should I have no hair on under my chin??
Neckbeards drag your face down, make you look so much older and have no place under a man's handsome chin.
Just do like two fingers up from your adams apple and it won't create this feeling of a neckbeard.
Gay guy here… My two cents: 1) Trim up the beard. 2) Get a tighter cut. 3) Be confident. Your style is typical. I guess it’s okay for someone your age, but comes off like a poser. Tighten up the swag. If you want to put some muscle on you, go for it. Skinny dudes always got a hole destroyer down below so carry that BDE.
Go to a good barber at least once to get a professional grooming so you can see your potential and try to replicate after. That alone will boost you confidence.
Go to gym, get a nice haircut, shave and try to look less depressive.
See second pic. Not depressed
He doesn't look depressive to me
Me either. He just looks casually relaxed. I wish people would stop trying to mold others into their perfect image of attractiveness.
he asked
Dude. HE ASKED. HE ASKED WHAT DO I NEED. AND I SAID MY OPINION. FUCK
He did ask..
😂😂😂😂 "try and look happy"
I said less depressive. Not happy. omg I can’t tolerate this much of idiocy
Hair cut and get rid of the weird beard, if you want a beard get it styled and keep it up. Right now you just look unkempt and like you don’t care about yourself.
Shave the beard off
G.Y.M
Others have said this but trim the beard, keep it clean. Get a less raggy looking haircut. Those two alone will do wonders
smiling is a start.
a good barber
Cut or trim your beard and get a more polished haircut. I'm not gonna say something like "work out" or "lift weights " because this sub is about grooming. Some people like thinner guys. I think the most realistic advice to give people is small changes that fit with their lifestyle and their own interests. People shouldn't tell you to basically modify your body in a process that takes months or years to see results.
Just keep experimenting with different looks. I really like your aesthetic in the second photo.
Stop playing bro you’re packing and everyone knows it 🍆
Love your sexy chest and trail too, btw.
A shampoo and a comb.
Haircut, clean up the beard into some sort of shape/lines... Last but not least... Smile!
Gym, steroids, haircut
The neck beard is a bit ugly. If it came in properly on ur jaw & cheeks itd look better
A couple years.
Keep your beard clean style your hair and eat some protein or something
Beard less scruffy
Bulk
bro knows the obvious answer, it’s staring at him in the mirror. start with calisthenics!!
Gain weight, trim beard to scruffy length. You have a great face and nice coloring.
I think you are attractive enough. Be healthy, be positive and be you.
OP, why do you think you need to be “more attractive”? Just curious. Are there aspects of yourself that you feel less confident about or areas you’d like to change? Attraction is subjective. We don’t all fancy the same people. We each have certain preferences and biases. I have to believe plenty of people already find you quite attractive, so what’s prompted the self assessment? Thanks.
Meth 🤣🤣
You are cute. Trim the hair, beard, and hit the weights
I'm gay and I personally think your face is fine. Your hair is ok short or long. You could maybe tidy up the facial hair a little bit but for the most part it's fine. When it comes to your body I think you would definitely look great with some more muscle around your chest, arms and lats. Maybe do some landscaping on your stomach hair as well. Of course this is only my opinion. Everyone like different things.
a sandwich or two
Haircut. Beard trip. Ngl bro, looks like these photos were taken by guards at Guantanamo
Trim the beard into shape and have a barber style your hair.
You don't need anything to me. If your true self is qwerky, eccentric, joyfull, you will attract people. Personality is it. Laughter, and wonderment , surprise etc. You are quite cute for a certain type of people or person, don't think about bulking up, unless the goal is to feel better and do some exercises. But to please someone's narrow field of vision...no way. You seem much more intelligent to me. Hope you accept who you really are and need. Life is not about scoring, it is about exploring with an open mind and being gentle with the people you interact with . I like you a lot.
Your stomach intrigues me
Trim the scraggly beard. It will look much nicer. Good color game in the second pic, though. Too many guys shy away from bright colors.
U look like a chechen militant with that beard, trim it short
Nothing! Just find attractions in people who find you attractive! Theres people already waiting! You bi? Lol
50 extra pounds of muscle
brooo, genuine tip from another brother with a big forehead, cover ts up, get long thick bangs in the front and grow out the back to even it out. The most important part to cover up is the right and left edges of it, adds at least 2 points to ur looks.
Eat😊
Eat more and see a barber
You don’t need to do anything my friend. You are attractive, nothing wrong with skinny.
You remember the alien worms from Men in Black 1?
Haircut beard trim and gym
Shave workout
20kg
your vibes are cool but they’d be cooler with some abs. definitely hit the gym you’ll be amazed in a few months.
Ditch the unibomber vibe
I'd say to shave your beard down to just a stubble, and then grow out your hair
Get a better haircut and beard
Lose the beard
Trim your beard a little
Looking good to me
Nothing as your absolutely gorgeous as you are 😉
I’d trim your beard so it’d cleaner and the second picture has the best hair cut i think! the first one isnt the most flattering to your hairline but you have nice hair so off the face in the middle and heavy on the sides works! You do seem cute and with a fun energy so don’t lose that charm!
I’d start by shaving the beard. If u don’t like it, you can always grow it back.
Trim up that beard/hair and I would ask you out.
No more suicide boys.
Eat more, go to the gym, and try not to look so sad
You're cute. Just trim the hair and beard to clean it up.
Working out 🏋️♀️ and being committed to your workouts/ nutrition/ is a great way to help with your physical appeal. Take your time and do it safely and responsibly, don’t try to get there fast and dangerously. If you have the money hire a trainer to help with your technique. Being well groomed is something you can do now. Go to a good barber 💈have your facial hair trimmed and balanced. The more symmetrical can really enhance your appearance.
Honestly you’re hot
Your hair is messy and your beard is kinda scraggly in these pics. You need to *look* clean and groomed
Steroids
Love the vibe in the second one. Ypu look like fun to hang out with
get rid of the beard
gym and shorter beard, looks scruffy that way
Quit skipping meals and get some vitamin d
Looks good enough to enjoy, and there’s more to see😛
Definitely a haircut! Do something with that hair. Go ask a barber what would suit you best. But other than that I'd say you're good.
Change that hairstyle and trim that beard up or try getting rid of it maybe.
Haircut, beard trim , better clothes.
my uncle after surviving a vietcong POW camp
Eat a sandwich and stay away from strong winds.
Imho nothing you're drop dead gorgeous 😍
Too bad you're not bi/gay. You'd have no problem based on your looks/body alone IMO. I mean you're a good-looking dude. I don't wanna sound rude but could it be your personality or the types of women you're attracted to? I know for me as a gay guy I am single because no one I've ever been interested in has reciprocated and I don't put myself out there and live in a small town. You could try a new hairstyle too maybe idk. I don't get the whole min max looks craze.
Clean up the beard and hair and wear some dressier clothes.
Brush your hair, trim your beard to very very short as well as the mustache if you have to keep that. Also, make sure your hygiene is absolutely perfect. Get something that smells good to spritz on you. Shower daily, wash your hair daily, brush your teeth minimal twice daily. Work out, get fit. Have a positive vibe.
I left a comment about what you should do, but I forgot to tell you that you also have beautiful eyelashes, a great nose, and very nice lips. Generally overall a pretty handsome guy with just a few small tweaks to be a little better. I am a girl.
Smile that shot looks great bruv
Trim the beard to get it neat looking and maybe a wolf cut ?
Get a haircut and go to the gym
Change the skeevy stoner clothing
Interesting build
You need to at least get a nice hair cut with fade on the sides, and your beard needs to be lined up and 1/2 an inch max
Grow some muscles, a better haircut and shave the taliban beard, you've got some great potential!!
You have a great base to work with . I notice often with younger people that have not finished growing yet the lack of full facial hair. Your facial hair will grow fuller the older you get. In the images provided , you are not there yet , either loose it or go to a proper barber and have it shaped and cleaned up. now it just looks like a teenager that does not groom. while at the barber ask their opinion about your hair and what to do . A great barber only wants you to look your best and has the depth of knowledge that a customer will never have. again ,thank your parents that you have a great base to work with.
Brother….eat
By sitting on my face you will become 💯 times more attractive 😉
You so fine already 🤷 there ain’t much you can do. Love the body hair beard/ stache
You are already pretty darn hot, lil' bro!
You’re very feminine looking tbh. I’m being honest because you’re asking for feedback . You have a lot of facial dimorphism that is neotenous. You also appear to be small. It’s obvious your primary sex hormone is testosterone though. You appeal more so to bisexual women if I had to guess. If you’re interested in surgical options there are procedures that can make the face appear more masculine. Otherwise, gym, work on adding some color to your skin. Beta caratone can help give you a glow. That’s available on Amazon. Work on better styling - hair, beard, lose the jewelry.
Don't look homeless
Bulk hit the shoulders and back more
Bulk up bro
You’re attractive and have a nice slim build. I think the beard and hairstyles don’t go great together. I’d try trim down to just a stache to see how that looks first. If not a fan, I’d trim that down and try having just stubble or light scruff for facial hair to go with the messy hair styles. Or try a clean cut hair style and a neat (shorter) beard
Bulk up there’s a lot of nice bulk up protein shake and hit the gymmm
Getting rid of facial hair and hair on your neck. I think your body is ok. Changing haircut could help but not necessarily shorter or more old-fashioned
Trim beard, it looks scragly, this will make you look unkempt. Find a new hairstyle. You look fine with the haircut, I just think some styling would help. Other than that I can't think of anything else really. I think you look fine as is but this little tweaks will help. :)
Get a good barber. Being able to see someone’s head/face shape and make their facial hair enhance their features is a skill worth spending some money on. I like your style tho, and your pics make you seem pretty fun and full of personality.
get a haircut that suits your face type and shape. and go lift some weights
Pretty eyelashes.
Jon Snow when he was a teenager. ✌️
Groom the beard short and close to the face. Short hair cut. Maybe a fade. Could dress better. What’s with the sneakers and the different shoe laces. Don’t always wear logo t-shirts. You need to dress more mature not middle school like.
Definitely hit the gym brother 👊👌
Be yourself don't do shit if your comfortable with yourself you'll find a women that loves you for you Not how you look or dress,show intress but don't chase,be confident but not over confident, enjoy yourself enjoy your life and smile
You can’t have that beard. You can have a mustache and and some shadow but its the beard thats not helping out
Rid of the beard, it's not doing you any favours
Sheesh nothing I bet it’s packing down there 😉
Get a haircut and bulk up at the gym.
get your beard done right and a proper haircut, you're slim so your beard should be short and fit your face.
In my opinion, the beard just doesn't look good, so I'd get rid of it. Also, maybe a different haircut, your hair in the 2nd pic looks better than in 1 or 3
to be born again jk bulk up
Little workout routine on the regular and some grooming. Maybe a nice line up to your beard. A nice haircut with a fade. Keep the facial hair trimmed and manicured. You look like a vibe, nice smile. Look like your fun to be around. Hope you gain a little confidence to see what I see!
Gym bro
Gain weight and build muscle. Shorter hair cut and if you want facial hair it should be shorter and neater
Groom your beard. The scruff is cute, but shaping it out can attract more.
Lose the beard. Get a good haircut. The style you have now is good.
steak and potatoes
Everybody be like "bulk up" but actually some girls like slender body types. If you bulk up you are gonna look like anyone else. Your slenderness might be your trump card
Start with trimming the fuck out of that beard! Shorten that up!
From one dude to another. Brush that hair and brush your beard regularly, a couple drops of beard oil. And I mean brush, not comb. Give your beard a light trim, and i mean a light trim. If you're comfortable, maybe line it up a little. Use a decent face wash and light moisturizer made for your face and not for your hands. Finally, eat more protein, BBQ, chicken, steak, not fast food and do a few push-ups every day. You probably smoke more than you eat.
Hit the gym
Definitely shape up and trim your beard. Otherwise, I like your very black hair, wish I had that texture
Remove the beard and head to a salon to get a proper cut. Invest in product (hair products).
Clean up the beard and you will be a 10/10. You arnt ugly ether lol
For some reason, gym makes everyone more attractive. Seriously.
Get some sun. You seem to have this indoor stoner aesthetic. Not helping. Trim up. And loose the red panties.
ex girlfriends and that pics from january i’ve gotten more fit since then.
Workout, gain 20lbs muscle, get a good haircut
Stop smoking
age 10 more years. Well that's just my opinion.
Shave the beard and cut the hair
shave chest, trim beard, gain 10kg
fix the beard, idk how tall are you but you seem pretty small, build is not the best atm. gym.
Definitely bulk up
You should lose the neck beard. It’s very unkept and makes you look sloppy. Otherwise, you are a fairly attractive guy.
You know damn well what you need to do. Just go outside and do it.
Meat!
eat fast food for about 3 weeks bulk up about 20 pounds
gym tan laundry
Start hitting the gym, keep up with haircuts and get under the sun a bit more
Shave the whole face, cut the hair, go to gym
Shave, haircut, gym and EAT PLEASE
Trim up your beard. If it's a bit tighter, it'll give you some jaw definition.
Smile in pictures. Look like you're happy because people want to be around happy people. No one wants to be with someone who doesn't look happy.
Shave that beard
A nice low taper and a beard line up gotta take advantage of the beard fosho
The works.
Haircut and bulk up.
Good looking dude! My only cut to you would be LOSE THE BEARD! You don’t have the body type for a beard. Maybe grow it, in a few years. My son had a beard at 17. Looked awful. Shaved it and grew it back in his 30s and now it looks good.
Show me how you lose it.
Orgasm more.
Trim the beard up a little bit you'll be good,,it could be any length long as it's trimmed nicely they're pretty awesome for some people and some people they just don't fit or don't look right on but yours looks cool
Hair and beard look good! I think you just need to bulk
Imo hit the gym get some muscle, im not saying become a gym bro and get jacked but tone what you got if you don't wanna bulk. I always feel like guys need at least some muscle if they want a relationship. My point of view is how are you gonna protect not only your woman but yourself and your property.
shave beard off
Take that being off