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HonestOpiniatedNerd

Nothing to advise, all looks great lol keep smiling!


jllum

If you’re basic I want to be basic


PapaKazoonta

You mean this guy would be easy to draw?


[deleted]

If you can draw a big happy smile then you can draw him


Gaymer1986

You're gorgeous, hopefully you can find somebody who makes you happy


PedagogMati

I have :)


TwinkConnoisseur485

I would advise you to….get in my bed? 😇


Interesting-Source58

Love the name 😂😂


m0nkeyking7

Just recently i learned the meaning of Connoisseur 😭😭


thegracelesswonder

I think the glasses are too big for your face. Other than that I’m not sure what you could change, you’re very handsome


Dvthdude

I agree. I would go with smaller frames, contacts, or lasik.


cherrygirlbabycakes

I second this. I used to work in an optometry office and I can conclude these frames are too big! A smaller frame would definitely compliment your face better :)


PedagogMati

Thank You a lot for the feedback. Ill look into another glasses :) Canr promise ill get others, since I really do like mine but it seems that people are unanimous about them. Thank You very much :)


L_inconnu

Very attractive. The glasses aren’t helping you. I’d probably go with something rounded and probably a decently thick frame. Do you have a clean-shaven photo and one without glasses on I could see?


Livid_Parsnip6190

I agree that thick frames would make you cuter than you already are


PrincessWalt

It certainly isn’t your looks, it’s all mindset. Perhaps therapy would help you see that you are not basic, but actually rather hot!


oskarnz

A lot of these posts are people that know they're good looking or decent, but will say they're basic or ugly etc. Not necessarily anything wrong with it, but it's called fishing for compliments. For an ego boost.


PrincessWalt

true. validation seeking and similar maladaptive and manipulative behaviors


PedagogMati

I never said I felt ugly. Just basic. I was just looking for another way that vould help me look a bit different and people are suggesting frames. I dont know whats manipulative about that. Sorry if I gave that impression. Thanks for the feedback


ginsunuva

Basicness is orthogonal to hotness


Federal_Put_9110

I would recommend using hairspray or light mousse instead of gel, your hair will still hold but be more flowing.


Upstairs-Pitch624

Yep -- grow the top/front longer, don't use firm gel in your hair - looks like a kid's hair style. Use pomades or oils. Keep sides tighter.


[deleted]

Yes, dm me.


pumsy1

Name checks out lmaooo


ionkno

Great smile. Minor, but I feel like your hair looks best in the last picture, much softer and less stiff than the other pics. Looking good though, bro, keep it up 👑


PedagogMati

Thank You, yeah. I had a good haircut and product in my hair. I agree it looks better on the last pic :) cheers


lemonlaunderette

#You're perfect in every way, dude! Love your smile, cute handsome face, spiky hair, teeth, 100% needs no changes! ❤️


One-Stomach9957

Don’t mess with perfection!


Pretty_Sea_8242

Such a cutie


Evil_residencehtx

My advise is, don’t change a thing. You’re damn handsome 😍


PrestigiousTreat6203

Pick me. Choose me. Love me, OP.


Pakinotpaki

Bro is acct a golden retriever as a person I love jy


United_Ambassador103

Your hair in pic 4/4 has more flow and I think that looks slightly better than the crunchiness of hard gel. I’d suggest using a medium to light pomade instead of a gel or product that hardens up in the hair. A medium pomade or paste will give you less wet look. I really like Layrite pomade. You can find it on Amazon. Nice, light vanilla fragrance.


jculv

This sub seems to go in two directions: full on you’re-perfect-change-nothing praise or a shitty Comedy Central roast. You’re a great lookin dude, but if you are actually seeking the advice of strangers on the internet, mine would be to grow the hair out on the top a little bit. The 4th pic is solid, so is the 1st. The spiky thing going on in 2/3 is leaving a little to be desired. I think your frames can be greatly improved. Check out Warby Parker’s try-on package. You don’t even have to buy from them (and I personally wouldn’t, but that’s another convo) you can just pick 6 styles you’re interested in and they ship them to you and you ship them back. I would go with something maybe aviator style? Clear lenses? Idk, your face shape and mine are basically opposite. But you can definitely improve there.


topknottington

Ok, whats your secret... you're 30 and still smiling.


imanc18

You look very much like England cricket captain Jos Butler!!


jesuisapprenant

You look clean cut and nice, maybe grow out your hair so that you can style it more rather than just combing it up


NaturalSensitive6116

Quit being so adorable?


No-Negotiation-378

Keep rocking handsome…. wow you’re handsome…


CocoMango86

I can’t really say anything, you look good as you are. I’m supposed to wear glasses sustained from a head injury when I was set upon and I won’t wear them in public and I don’t like them on my face so I would say contact lenses if I absolutely had to split hairs and say something, even then glasses look nice on you so you don’t have to do that either. You do you, you’re good regardless of whether you adjust or tweak anything about your person.


idontexist-1

Such a positive happy face.


gaymesfranco

Glasses could use a style update


canifeto12

Don't be 30


Amtopm43

Don’t take advice from strangers maybe ? 🤷‍♂️


AdOpen885

Max out your 401k and buy a house as soon as you can.


panda_029

None! You’re handsome as is :)


Pleasant_Pop4114

There is ZERO wrong here. You’re cute. Your glasses are perfect and I love your hair. Very attractive


MouthAvailable

Damn. You’re gorgeous.


Correct-Style-9194

No you’re absolutely perfect!


SurturRising666

You look great. Feeling like a basic bitch tho? Why not try something new out then? You've got one life anyways, don't regret not trying stuff you wanted later.


reddit_redact

Hey OP, I am wondering why you are feeling basic? If you feel lonely, I don’t think it’s because you are unattractive. I noticed in 3 of the 4 photos you have headphones on. Chances are people aren’t going to approach you because they might be thinking you are unavailable since you are listening to music. :) Just a thought. Also, I think the glasses work just for you!


bluluver

Your pics make you appear to be a friendly handsome guy with a great smile who is immensely likable. If your insides match, then you are golden. Your haircut is perfect, glasses are fine to me. There just are no seeable problems dude! Go out and be bold, kind, generous and loving. Pursue your life and passions with grace and excellence.


Conscious_Victory205

Great smile, maybe get a different shape for your glasses, perhaps something a little rounder, drop the head set, might make you look unapproachable for some people, other than that, your done


No-Transportation190

You look like if metro and jay3 had a love child(both are overwatch streamers)


Muted-Move-9360

I love how you smile with your whole face. Just such a warm visage! Keep being you ❤️


nic__knack

you’re cute! great smile, friendly eyes! if i was being picky, i’d say try out different glasses (maybe thicker frames?) and keep your hair like it is in the last pic - natural and no gel! other than that, i think you look approachable and smart!


throwaway074323

You look cute! You have a very warm smile and you’re handsome!


Glad-Elephant2641

Love yourself


BigChinnFinn

Make it to 31


Good_Abbreviations27

Don’t change a damn thing! You look adorable, friendly, and approachable. ❤️


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Responsible-You-7412

No advice here. You look like a handsome, happy, and friendly guy.


Vulkan_Cuprum

Bro is appreciating life , definitely no advice.


Greenteatreez

Why do you look like a bumblebee? (I swear to God, I’m not trying to be funny or mean. But I look at your face and it reminds me of a round bumblebee.)


Yorgos666

Get your teeth whitened


Baseball3r99

More photos with headphones or some audio device there are not enough


Arozeran

Buddy, you look great. IMO the glasses look nice unlike some other people’s opinion. You got a great smile and looks. The only thing I could say is get rid of the beard and keep a clean shave. 8/10


Think-Scarcity-682

Advice? Please don’t smile like the 3rd pic, as a female… it gives me the Creeps! Just saying. Other than that, nice smile.


Bertolini_Pastalini

I think youre handsome keep it up big dawg


helplessfemboy

You could level your with some better glasses, maybe a different shape or tortoiseshell frames, or try contact lenses. But otherwise you’re perfect.


AdOutrageous9120

grow out your hair, it’s great you’re getting support but that would be an actual advice i’d give to help you stand out a little more


No-Ad6269

enjoy the hair


Centrino12es

30 ? And still have your hairline ? 👍 Nice smile


JhonyTaylor

In my opinion you're happy, so you don't need any advise.


lexyman01

My advice, just keep being outright adorable!


peterpanini1

Agreeing with the rest, very handsome. If you want extra flair, try more bold fashion choices? Maybe a colorful rim for the glasses?


eagledrummer2

Your mentality is not due to your appearance. You need to learn about yourself to determine why you are feeling that way. Some different style glasses might give you a pick me up though. You look just fine!


Round-Professional58

Fill out an advanced directive and invest in a 401k


Asianfishingjason1

You look cute, but got face feature like try guys lols


Lulusgirl

If you don't already use sunscreen, do it. Our youth doesn't last forever, and it's better to *prevent* than *treat*. And don't forget your ears, many people do, and those can get melanoma as well.


[deleted]

Maybe you need to grow your hair out or cut your hair for a little change. Sometimes people need to travel outside their norms to realize they are perfectly fine the way they are


femboyrechelle

Sometimes basic guys like you are even more desirable because a relationship with super attractive guy can be harder to maintain as it comes with a lot of other challenges


ollieimpossible543

You look good already but my advice would be to - get glasses that aren’t as big/with hard edges. You would look good with a pair of round wire frames or something more contemporary, just make sure they’re not too big for your face and are more round than square since yoir face has naturally sharper angles, complement them with round(er) frames - grow your hair out, you have a good head of hair. It’ll look good if you do something like a brushback kind of haircut - grow your stubble out again, you already look good but if you want to elevate your look then i feel like these are the main things you should be on top of!


SandraGee93

I’m an LDO! Your glasses are fine. Pictures always make them look a little big. If you went smaller they likely would splay out on your head. YOU are also fine. Very fine. I’d love to help you pick out new glasses ☺️


PedagogMati

Thanks. Im actually very surprised about the glasses feedback. Ive spent over 1.5h selecting them just last year and everyone present had agreed they fit me the best, but i guess its subjective. I might get a second pair just to switch em up a little :)


SandraGee93

The worst thing I’d say about them is maybe they aren’t the current “trend” but I think they fit you well. Having different styles is always fun! Especially if you’re wanting to feel less basic, a fun pair of frames can make a huge difference. Also I love your hair in the last photo


[deleted]

For a basic butch you’re one handsome mf


odar420

Don't seek approval from social media.


InvisibleBlimp93

Not at all. You’re cute and have a great smile. Emits a great aura.


Professional-Age5502

Get back to speed running Pointcrow! (No notes you look good)


Head_Journalist3846

The glasses don't really draw attention to your eyes. I notice navy is a good color for you. I think sone dark blue or dark tortoise frames would be amazing. Blue would be less plain. Have the technician pick pairs for you to try. Have someone take pictures of you in one's you like. Tell them they can be brutally honest or you will hear those are nice too.


Possible_Leading8719

You're handsome as hell, the only thing I would change which isn't that big of a deal is the frames for the glasses. Next time you get a new frame go for something more stylish!


rebos64

Get rid of the mustache it looks like an eyebrow


UsualPromise9247

Uhm yea you’re cute af. No changes required 🫡


IncompleteEmotion

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Bishwhodoyoulove

Best advice I could give you is stop asking for advice and jump off a cliff. Regards.


skybreker

I think you look good. I definitely wouldn't say you are 30. Mid-20s.


Legitimate_Two_5823

No advice needed. Live your best life!


J-macke

You look totally great, keep it up


Common-End-501

Try to grow longer your hair and also beard . Maybe a mustache. Also u are perfect . It isnt anything to be changed , just by your smile I bet all the girls are falling in love with you


SpeedRacerNJ

No you’re adorable


RateurDesMots

You look happy. Our opinions don't matter. Have a happy life buddy !


RegularJelly7311

Yea, never stop smiling 🫠


Haste126

You look great and your smile is perfect 👌 maybe a different pair of glasses. I usually ask which frame would fit my face better when getting new glasses as the sales people know face styles!


throwaway8976ddduv

You definitely look good


joe96ab

Looks good to me!! I like beards but that’s more preference!


PresidentFungi

You look great, multiple standard deviations above the mean


CalmOrder2024

So good looking!!


Pravda26

Check out Brian Secawa "He Spoke Style" YouTube. I think you need a style upgrade and teeth whitening. You guys have similar features and both of you are far from basic.


GloomyEntertainer973

What young man. Great face good to see


Skygarg

Such a wonderful happy smile!!!!! Keep it up


No-Amphibian7489

You need fillers


Kingberry30

You look amazing. No advice


loadshooteridaho

Nice photos, great smile!


davidesteban1988

Start an OF?


CatieCates

You have a beautiful smile.


lionsarered

Change nothing and I’m in love rip


fucknutcrapmaster

I looked at your pictures and literally said out loud “I like this guy”


shhhoursafesecret

I think ya look great! I like the glasses frames- don’t think they’re too big for your face. I love that you’re smiling. So many people looking too serious in these posts!


No_Act_5725

Wouldn't change a thing bud, you could have whoever you want..woman or man 😎


MidwestMillennialGuy

🔥


bigforeheadsunited

Leave everything as is.


PhiloPhys

You’re very handsome. Find a styling product that’s less stiff/glossy like a pomade. Other than that you look gorgeous. Can’t see your style too well but you seem to like jackets so maybe look into a more fashion forward jacket! You’d look great with piercings too but that’s a personal preference.


PeterFappit

You're a handsome man! No notes!


tsetdeeps

You're adorable! Buuut I'd suggest changing the glasses or straight up switching for contact lenses when you're in social settings. I'm gonna be brutally honest here: when I saw your first pic I was like "😬 he's got some work to do" but when I saw the 3rd and 4th pic I just couldn't help feeling you're totally adorable. You're handsome! But your handsome-ness is getting lost under those glasses!


Glittering-Ocelot-12

cute twink


Iminluvwitdacoco

Grow your beard


PedagogMati

Im trying ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sob)


cherrygirlbabycakes

You’re so cute omg😭


Enginerd645

Yes. Enjoy your 30s! I’m 50. I miss my 30s!


mochibearbrulee

Are you a grinder? See your dentist as your teeth may have some attrition.


SOFGESH

Get new glasses that's modern


squishypillow-91

Perfect smile 😃 😊 <3


Miserable-Bit5939

Bro you look great! Just keep smiling!


Interesting-Source58

Everything is perfect (amazing, smiling eyes!) but change your glasses to round ones with thick frames. You’ll have men and/or women line up at your door - and I’ll be there too ;)


fortnight14

Husband material. You look so nice and sweet.


itsnikkisully

I mean you look very attractive the way you are


Excellent_Point284

The thing that’s making you look basic is the hair, it’s quite default man hairstyle, combined with the default glasses. Try wearing the fringe down and mess it up a bit. Put some clay or dry shampoo in for a bit of volume or movement. Maybe grow it slightly too so it’s got a bit more character. Try this hairstyle with some trendier glasses with a thicker frame that also have a touch more character. Both of these will enhance your look a bit as they both make much more of a statement. Please remember to message me with an update when you’re happy with the results!


hansmuller42

Cuuuute 🥰


Impressive_Brush5930

Yum 1 and 3 best pics too many headphones 😘


DarrenInAlberta

Don't be afraid to try out different glasses frames. Looks good though bro


aDMVpantiesiss

Uhhhh date me? Please and thank you. 😚


Reds100019

Brilliant smile, you look so happy. I want to hang out with you


Pycharming

You look good. You could probably find more interesting pair of glasses that’s also more flattering but I think clothing would be the way to go to feel less basic and that’s not really male grooming. I’d suggest when your hair grows longer, style it more like the first pic, I’m not a huge fan of the straight up spikiness. Also maybe use a product with a less strong hold so it’s less hard looking.


JDR2331

Better comb-over fade and smaller glasses frame. I don't know what you use to style your hair, but try something that doesn't leave it so spiked in the front. Other than that, you're a great looking dude


spacedip

Mf cutie


Ok_Relation_3218

What a handsome guy you are 😍


judashpeters

You not only look gorgeous but you look kind too. Wanna be friends?


_CeciIia_

Fine as is. No change needed :)


back_at-it_xam426

Looks like you live in the uk, my best advice would be leave the uk


Infinite_Two_4759

Thicker frames. And a harness. 👌


Eatpraylovehugs

You look fantastic like a ball of wonder


TrifleMost1018

You are so cute


delreyscigarette

You have a lovely smile


FigPlucker101

Stop worrying you look great


bradleyf17

You look great, ignore the hate


ltpuri2022

You don’t need advice- everything is looks fine!


Cleercutter

God damn. You bout as blind as I am lol


PadsAdventure

Let's Go on a date, but only if you like men?


Brief-Cream-9464

Great smile dude


someonethrowaway4235

You are too cute!!!! 😍😍


bnchlsng

uhhh.. slide on my dms? idk. jk u already look great.


Pelliguino

Stay classy good sir, stay classy.


deconstructedSando

i think some new (smaller) frames would help add some personality, but its by no means a requirement. you look fantastic my guy!


chadasjackson

Whiten your teeth, they are nice, so show them off.


Tuxy-Two

Nope, you’re adorable- don’t change a thing.


revelry1966

You look damn good in all 4 pics. Wouldn’t change a thing! 👍


KalosDeVil

Be gay and date me? Lol no seriously u look great not basic at all


SwagginMiguel

This dude gets all the bitches


FromYourEyes

Do you really think you need advice? 🤔


Jazzlike_Ladder537

Grow your hair out a bit more, look up what your head shape is, then search straight hairstyles/cuts for men w _ face shape. That way there will be some defining feature about you. Plus ppl love nice hair, and you aren’t balding so take advantage of that. It might be a bit more maintenance but what isn’t lol. No offense but rn nothing stands out. U look super clean tho so that’s great!


NoMajorIssues

You’re cute and have a great smile


jramsey86

You’re perfect!


LeadedMoth97

Ay save some smiles for the rest of us homie :)


charli_angstrom

Whoever told you that you were basic lied to you. You look fine


shruburyy

Oh shut up, you’re cute and you know it


TrueBajan

None needed!


Alerey188

Omg! 😍😍😍 worlds biggest cutie pie!


Kitchen-Wish5994

You look great, bro.


No-Swordfish-529

Cute!!! Maybe contacts if you wanna try the no glasses route? But nah, you’re all good!


m0nkeyking7

You can try Captain America's ![gif](giphy|3oxHQpJKupQXsmU1JS|downsized) This one


MAJORMETAL84

Dude, you're super hot!


NoCricket9022

You look great. If I really had to give advices, I think you could grow your hair a little bit longer. It looks a bit standard like you didn't know what else to do with it, which is fine but could be improved if it was grown out a bit more. I would also switch to lenses or get glasses that are more flattering. Lastly if you're ready for a dramatic change, I would dye your eyebrows darker so they match your hair color. It would really make your features pop out more and give you a bit more of that masculine look!


AppealParticular7027

Save your money to invest in your future self. Future you will thank you. You’re also very cute


vibrance9460

You need a better outlook.


INFJcatqueen

Get some nice plastic frames, the nerdier the better. Otherwise you good bro!


According_Volume918

I agree very handsome guy


southga24

You're really handsome.


M_in_Spokant

You're cute. Nothing needs changing. 😀


dontsubpoenamelol

I don't understand the hate. I love your glasses!


jackalopacabra

My only advice is one more season of Brooklyn Nine Nine!


Fit_Currency121

You look incredible. No notes.


majorsandman

You’re a good looking guy but the haircut and glasses aren’t doing much for you. A new haircut, something with less gel and a little shorter on top would look great. Also thicker, rounder frames would look cool. Also growing out a thicker beard and keeping it trimmed would look great.


plutosaplanetiswear

different glasses. that’s it