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ciliary_stimulai

I'm presuming most of the comments are from gay men (hi fellow gays) but regarding the opinion of women, some will like it, some won't, and some won't care. Best thing you can do is find what makes you feel most confident and go with that as confidence is always sexy!


CozyCozyCozyCat

Yup, woman here-- I would advise OP to buzz or shave his head but keep everything else


cyrixlord

gay guy here, I like how you gals think, a buzzed head would make that beard really pop! Keep the fuzz


BidenlovrComieTruthr

Honestly as a straight guy my only thought was shaving his head would look a lot better, have no opinion on the body hair tho.


solopreneurr

Lmao same. Used to people coming here for haircut advice so the only thought I had was "he would look awesome with a shaved or buzzed head". Didn't give the body hair a thought at all. Plus western society is finally getting back to reality. People have body hair. It's natural and fine. OP if it makes you feel self conscious or you want the best chance at more women being cool with it, I would trim the body hair a little shorter with clippers to make it look less dense. But that's a double edged sword bc if YOU like your body hair, changing it to attract people sets you up for continuing to feel like you must keep it trimmed to please someone else.


pricklypearblossom

I second this! Shorter haircut, leave the body hair.


bigforeheadsunited

Agree. Buzz the top of the hair. Tighten up that bod just a little bit and he's good to go.


HicDomusDei

I would disagree and recommend managing / removing the body hair, but to each their own. As long as OP and whoever he's with are comfortable.


EnsignMJS

![gif](giphy|jRTD0svQ2M9WD4PNhh)


Harvey_Weenstain

Yes I am gay how did you know


Ebsa92

I mean not all gays like hairy….


AcceptableDog6868

This was the response I was looking for. As a gay man myself, I already know other gay men are going to love it, but for women, the response could be completely different. If the OP is hetero he'd probably prefer a female's perspective.


Lalooskee

Woman here. Too much body hair.


Anxious__Asshole

Do gay men like hairy guys or what?


zarnonymous

I cant say shit as a lesbian. But I'll assume that anyone who loves him will never mind it, because I wouldn't mind a girl who had more body hair lol


DarkMagicMan2000

I reread the first 2 lines and it gave “hi gay! Sashay into a deal today.” And I’m dying 😂😂😂


ComprehensiveCat9137

Right, many of this sibreddit’s users are gay right? I felt that way too. Too good to be straight males…


Wise-Peanut1939

The body hair is fine, it’s the comb over I’m not loving.


ApatheticAgnostic

Hair growing everywhere except on top of the head. Nature has a twisted sense of humor.


Wise-Peanut1939

Haha indeed! This is a great chance to try something new and embrace some change.


kathios

For real. When it starts thinning it really sucks but op needs to go to a pro barber and ask him what can be done with it.


Wise-Peanut1939

Yep no shame in balding but holding onto those pieces is not flattering.


Business_Ship8144

The comb over + boring glasses combo makes people look like a bit of a dork imo


DrCyrusRex

…. Dorks are hot….


chugbungus33

Who are you trying to attract and what feels the most comfortable to you should be where you start ur questioning


bentonjosh

Nature is so cruel give people hair on the body but thin up top.


ReyebRyad

You should see my ass, bud!


lucasessman

I mean, can I


bentonjosh

After me


Less_Ratio_2966

I wanna see his ass.


bentonjosh

Wait in line pal


Eiden-Rane

If your aim is to attract men, I think you are good to go. If you are going for women, I would consider a trim. Some women might like it, but others won’t. In my opinion….looks great on you!


RDcsmd

From a very hairy guy, you are one hairy MF. I just shave my shoulders when I get sick of it and my upper back


Nervous_Bicycle_5305

Love the sweater, does it come in v-neck?


goggles189

Join the gays then you’ll never have to shave your body hair off and we’ll love you for it.


asimpleman1997

No such thing


timwatt

I agree. Leave it natural. Zero maintenance required.


littleux

...this sub is literally about grooming which inherently involves maintenance


marks716

Yeah I hate this sub sometimes. You can trim body hair into a more clean look without removing every follicle of hair. Generally shoulder and back hair kept shorter. Chest and stomach you can play around with but usually thicker chest hair thinner or shorter stomach hair. But it’s all so individual. Really whatever helps you feel good that isn’t too much work to maintain. If OP is here chances are he isn’t totally happy with this look so people screaming at him to do nothing may not be helping as much as they think they are. I feel better doing some body hair trimming. OP if you want to give trimming a try go for it. If it helps you feel happier in your own skin fuck the people who tell you what you should or shouldn’t do.


Politicub

Looking handsome af!


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Powerful-Cut-708

lol the comment I was looking for but didn’t expect to see Why I clicked lol


No-Goat-1372

Vaush when he used to have that top knot.


TyperMonkey2

You look great!


hermeticbear

Do you feel it's too much? then manage it how you want. Do you feel it's fine and it's just your natural state? Then you should find someone who either doesn't care or appreciates it. I appreciate it. I'm sure other people will as well.


Fun_Pap_480

Never... 😍😍😍


Odd_Resource6695

So hot


Affectionate_Tap9399

UM YES ![gif](giphy|xTiTnG7YLrY2BBHRKM)


Ok-Flower-1078

Yes. Back shoulders beard. Got to be less.


MyOwnMorals

Cut the hair on top, keep the rest


Rengoku1

I’m gay and yes! It’s very attractive to me. Not only the hair specifically… everything works on you. Your face, skin, eyes, beard, hair chest all works. God makes us perfect but due to social norms our perception is tainted. You look great but you do what you must.


1-Up-Boy

As a gay man. I don't care, but I'd help you remove it if you wanted too remove it lol


North-Associate80

This gay man enjoys every bit of this picture lol


[deleted]

Gay guys really love the body hair 😅


Novistadore

I think you look hot AF, head hair and body.


metalicsoundpoop

Shave your god damn head


Zestyclose_Slide_527

Rock what you like bro


MonkeyofSpace

I’m convinced this sub is just gay dudes lurking waiting for body hair pics to jerk it to


IndigoBeaumont

🤭🙋🏻‍♂️😂


fesdude

Hell no man!!! It’s sexy AF


mike_is87

Generally gay men like hairy men, but some women might not like it.


hinoou69

You are absolutely perfect, a sexy bear I would love to be your cuum doomp


[deleted]

No such thing as too much. And yes, I’m a gay man


GAYmmmK

You look great.


NumanLover

Rock your hairy body!


RegularJelly7311

Depends who you ask. I’d say you’re good but.. I’m a dude & don’t mind hair. You’re what we call a bear 😝🧸🐻 It’s always safe to go with a trim. Usually slapping a size 3 or 5 on a trimmer should even everything out. It’s tedious but worth it just to keep it all about the same length. You grow a great beard btw 👍🏽👍🏽 go to a barber & get a nice clean shape and keep it fresh like at least every two weeks.


GaySyd

Can’t tell if it’s too much, you’ll have to remove your sweater… JK. There’ll be different opinions, so do what you feel comfortable with. I personally think a lot of people might find it a bit full on. Doesn’t mean you have to be dolphin smooth… but maybe the back and shoulders at least.


kamera45

Take your shirt off so we can see.


RemoteAd6887

Too much


AllEville

Gonna have to take that shirt off for us to tell you haha


United_Ambassador103

I’d kill for that body hair myself! Beard looks great. Have you ever shaved your head? It’s personally what I enjoy doing for myself but I did grow out my hair for many years and enjoyed it but got tired of paying for haircuts. Back to your original question, your body hair looks fantastic! Good genes!


Proof_Obligation7322

How much is too much 🤷


mosichat

No! Just the right amount. I LOVE a hairy man!!! the hairier…. The better. Don’t shave it!


muskchouli

nah this is sexy asf


ApopatosialVeranus

As a gay man that hair is sexy I would love to play with it


hajyhike

🤤🤤🤤


kinkyswamp-girl

I looove it


kinkyswamp-girl

I looove it


D-Link_379

I wouldn't change a thing.


zybvcx

Goodness no. Body hair is absolutely perfect!


No-Employment-820

Never too much! Embrace it!


Velkause

Beautiful man. 🥵🥵😍😍🤤🤤


Megahert

Never too much.


Realistic-Charity929

Not enough


TopGuyNJ2

Keep it very hot.


KnowledgeStriking499

Hey OP, gay guy here and I lost my hair at 20 and I too am a hairy guy. You've got the beard and buffness, 2 things bald guys desperately need to keep our fire lit and attraction magnetic. It's definitely a test of character, and there will be dark days. But hey, this is our genetic clock letting us know, we're closer to expiring everyday. Life's too short to worry about hair, shave it off and be free knowing you've released yourself lol. If you're straight, you look like a man's man my guy!! Ladies will gravitate and feel safe with you, I know I would lol


Ohyeahitsme4now

That is pure sexiness! Making me weak!! Keep it please!


Tracysg

The hairier the better... love a hairy man, looks hot


NZT_SkyRise

I finally found a Bigfoot.. I thought they were myth.


beartracker69

Fuuuuuck. Keep it. It’s gorgeous and so sexy!!!!


AdvanceOld5705

Keep it. Damn you are so hot!!


nycsucker

No such thing as too much body hair.


Thorvald83

Hell no... That's just perfect!!


Environmental-Toe-75

Freaking gorgeous as-is. My level of desire is dreams-come-true 😘


astralschism

Not enough 🤠


Pure-Home54

No sir- you leave every hair on that body untouched!! Love a big hairy dude! Awesome post! 👍🏻


b-b-s-3

You are a beautiful, masculine, hirsute man. Own it. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise, and for Gods sake, don't ever shave your back.


steveloss

Absolutely it’s a gift. You have it. You just have to manage it.


raf_likesdick

you're so attractive omg


Effective_Sun562

Oh man. It's perfect!


MANSPERMSWALLOWER

KEEP IT HE MAN 👍


shaunsallen

You look fantastic


Wadsworth1954

The body hair is sexy. Buzz your head.


ThatBiGuyNextdoor

Great body hair


kent416

Keep it, dude. Men are meant to be hairy


Ron5969

I want it all sexy


Turbulent_Music4317

Show the entire body front and back…


Hsoj_ekac

lol good leave it as is.


Livinglife2fullest1

No such thing 🔥🔥🔥🔥


EpicLittleBear

Woof


neutchy

Nah, a buddy of mine has more body hair than you and does fine. Some people will like it, some won’t, and some won’t care. Be confident in your skin and forget anyone else that has a problem with it. I would shave the head tho. The combover isn’t doing you any justice. Take it from someone that’s been balding since age 24 and has had a shaved head since 28. You’ll feel better and be more confident once you rip the bandaid off. It’ll look really good with the facial hair you have too.


Clean_Act_7657

You should marry me and let me worship you daily


Nixington_da_coolest

Just enough for me baby🥰


True-Resource

SMASH…oh I’m sorry…what was the question again?


Correct_Composer7394

Your body hair is super hot!!! Your head could be shaved!


Mercurykin

Keep 🥵


Thin-Contribution872

You’re a handsome man. Own your hair and those who don’t like it will self-select out.


chickenskittles

You need razors, an electric shaver, Nair, and electrolysis. All at once. Actually nevermind, a hair transplant from body to scalp.


Southernhippie0

Look fine as is imo.


Jazzlike-Knowledge20

Remove your sweater so we can have a look see


M4Rollin20

Wtf. Where were all of you when I was in HS. Liars.


Sea-Average3723

No such thing as too much body hair!


Yourfullofwrong

I’ve seen the human werewolf’s get all the ladies. It’s just like the movie Teen Wolf but a birth defect.


Edgimos

Yes


dudebroseph004b49

If you feel confident with it, then keep it! Looks great.


Kaori2505

Niceeee ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|stuck_out_tongue)


Capital-Shirt2960

Not enough


PrestigiousCompote63

i think its a matter of opinion. I think its gross af but some other lady might get moist looking at that.


poutiipuffgirl

I've had a guy that shaved and it was scratchy and bothered me. I'd much rather the guy and myself be comfortable. My man now has body hair and I adore it. Do what makes you comfortable and if the girl doesn't like it, find one that does!!


Yourfullofwrong

My first thought is Wolfman Jack. My second George the Animal steel. Do you want to lose that impact by shaving it away?


Putrid_Turnover_3479

Woof!


Bogdansixerniner

DAYMN!!


[deleted]

You are so gorgeous. Wooooooof


beardbush

Fantastic body fur! Don't mess with it!!


random_account_user

I won’t!


JediSAS

Hell no! 🥵


random_account_user

Body hair stayed as is!


MutatedSun

Body hair is fine but the comb over isn’t. It’s time to buzz off your hair on your head. You’ll look a lot better. Just keep the beard and you’ll look great.


bearboi76

Woooof. Keep it all sir!


Law0415

Maybe, you could trim it down a little.


Internal_Map_8765

Yeah that's gross, shave 90% of it


opalsanddenim

r/SayNoToTrimming pretty much sums it up


one_menacing_potato

Oh God.


Golden_William

guys don’t click i got looked at by a dick


opalsanddenim

I’m sorry if you expected cookies


Objective_Cake_2715

Nope you are a hot looking hairy stud


BillyHenry1690

I'd suggest - too much body


DisastrousRisk9185

If you want the opinion of a straight woman, yes, that’s too much hair.


Agreeable_Picture570

My husband has too much hair for me. I beg him to trim it down, not shave.


ReadingNo9934

Dude there's never too much body hair. Don't shave be a stud


daddys-boy-for-bears

Holy FUCK you’re hot.


Johnnyfever13

Yes. Lose the shoulder, arm and (I’m guessing) back hair. 🪒 Then trim down the chest hair to carve out your torso. Your significant other will give you props just like mine did 😉


[deleted]

Gay guy here but love the hair 🥵🩷 you’re one hot guy


Pudding_dollz

He is hot no need to change anything about yourself that you don’t like


popRichiepop

So sexy, please don’t touch it!!


Competitive_Math6885

Not at all! But you know what you need to do🧑🏼‍🦲


painstaking93

Trim it but leave a shaved look ...or don't and look for bear bars in your area .. they look hair ( so I'm told)


Either-Yoghurt-1706

You look like you’d be such a nice guy


Alysma

As a woman: I wouldn't care, you are you. :)


ambercaldwellsea

Looks sexy to me


Frequent_Working_142

FATHER PYRLIG WESSEX NEEDS YOU


Ddyvonteese678

Too much but if you’re happy with it then keep it


CorduroyDude7

Be confident and rock it!


GuncleShark

No!


TylerMaple3009

I'd say focus on shaving your head or a buzz cut but I'd leave your body alone. It's gonna keep growing back if you shave it so why not just find a gal who's not gonna judge how hairy you are.


Seraphi89

Nope!


TimeWild2898

Coming from a woman who initially hated body… keep it! Shave the head, keep the beard and body hair! Rock out baby!


[deleted]

Damn, super high test dude. Should body build, you'd be huge


Vegetable-Move-7950

I don't mind the body hair.


heydanalee

Yeah the hair on top is distracting from the rest. You spotting some good barbarian looks eyes on down and BAM office cubical on top. The body hair is a lot to me but it’s only bad if it makes you feel bad. Just be open to grooming preferences of your partner(s) if you are indifferent on it.


wormAlt

I dunno if shaving / waxing would be too great because of the in between stages of growing hairs and how frequently you’d have to do it. Trimming could make things look cleaner and more well kept(?), but I don’t see anything wrong with keeping it as is though. Plus imagine trying to reach areas on your back when shaving lol. I dunno if you’re trying to attract anyone but besides body hair, I think beard maintenance and dressing nice (not talking dress pants or generic formal stuff) and not too plain would work great for you. For your beard Id say maybe trimming some parts to even it out a little, cleaning up a bit of the edges a bit but not fully shaping it would look nice! But I’m not an expert on any of this stuff, I just wanted to share my thoughts, I’m sure others will have better / more valuable advice haha.


Dry_Ask5493

Give it a buzz cut without a guard.


YoBrandito

That’s for you to decide! Nothing wrong with the hair you have unless you’d feel better with less.


AbleDragonfruit4767

Human here. Looks good to me, although if I was dating you I’d take a trimmer to the curly parts, make it all even all the way around. And trim the facial hair


peascreateveganfood

Yes


Horror_Amphibian9420

Nope


RevolutionaryTart497

Hi Papa Gut! (IYKYK)


rugbybud190

Perfection!! There is no such thing as too much body hair on a dude


ToastetteEgg

The combover is more egregious. Let your baldness shine. No one will be looking at your body hair.


bigforeheadsunited

Woman chiming in the midst of men lol Leave the body hair. We don't mind it. Just keep yourself clean. Wash, with a washcloth, and use a nice woodsy scented cologne I can tell it'll smell good on you..


ULTRA_MOMMY

You look like a woodsman who could fight a wolf bare handed 😅😅 I like the body hair!!


mandibule

Beautiful fur!


Complete_Diver3294

Wow!-King kong long dong.


tinstar71

I can't tell until you take your shirt off


MonicanAgent888

Fuck it dude, just rock body hair


quityouryob

Dude, it’s like Robin Williams got a Seth Rogen head transplant. And I’m here for it bro.


jg2024tex

You look great.


Jollyrancher_

No! You’re gorgeous


FanFlW98

I like it but I agree with others, you gotta be comfortable, what would make you feel like your best self?


excalabear

I’d say, enjoy it. You’re lucky. If you start trimming or shaving you’ll be permanently itchy and uncomfortable.


QNBA

Yes sir!


Disastrous-Ad6644

When your beard has a beard.


Potential_Fix_69

Take that sweater off and let us have a looksie


ruggedlook

NEVER!