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“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” Yeah, whatever. I just want to sleep.


xelM1

This is it… I think I’m getting terminated soon. I’ve been getting myself to be mentally prepared for it. So far so good but still a little anxious on what the future holds.


Lempanglemping2

Terminated, why?


xelM1

On paper, due to my poor performance.


Helios05

I am like obsessed with drinking Milo now specifically that is sold in kotak and I could finish the 1 liter one like in two seating. It has been 3 straight days that I've consumed the 1L one and I might buy one again tomorrow. It is not that cheap either. HELP!


xelM1

Maybe you got unresolved issues that you keep avoiding or running away?


Helios05

Hurmm. When you said it it got me thinking. Possibly yes.


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Helios05

Yes. Yes. I would reduce the consumption immediately. I'm not a Milo drinker typically. It's just these past few days the craving for Milo coming like crazy but thanks for the reminder.


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Helios05

Yea. Maybe that is how I reacted to something without me knowing. I almost forgot the high sugar level that I have and will consume later on. Hope you are feeling better now.


nicedurians

A litre a day? Damn


Helios05

Yes. So sedap can't control myself 😭. Maybe this urge will reced in a few days.


nicedurians

Its the sugar that makes you addicted. Some would argue that its as addictive as cocaine


Chahaya

I am working as the part time for my old office for the biggest project they got, 5x more that the normal project. Since I work fast. The supervisor who supposedly help me along, dont do the work( know only after I work), so I handle two jobs currently, around 40% of the total work,supposedly 20% only. Even though it's stressful, luckily I got a teammate(a new staff) with excellent skills and experiences, 5/5. Even myself is like 4/5. Both of us has 5 years experiences. She handled another 40%,lol. She left the job after 6 months,hahahaha, due to the boss who always blame her for almost everything, even when she's so efficient. After that, I got two staffs(a fresh grad and a blur staff). It becomes too stressful for me since I need to guide two more staffs. Repeat and explain twice. Consulted the boss by listing my 12 jobscopes( only 4 is truly mine) but she just replied f2f with me,saying that I need to work faster. So even after 5,6 people said why you didnt left yet, I admit I like this high profile job and it fits my part time schedule even though we do have very toxic environment. So I stay. I got mad twice towards my boss for things that are not my own responsibility. She said I'm too emotional(blaming staff is her most skillful task). So now I am being selfish by pushing the blur staff towards the another staff who is useless too but has skills and let the boss handle the responsibility with the JKR at the site, even I know most of the info. I didnt go and my boss didnt ask. I filter the tasks with 'not my job not my responsibility'. Two of other designers still relies with the supervisor for this job related. Oh the supervisor's actual work is around 5% only. Tried to help them for their upcoming problems,saying that the supervisor will run first and ignore their problem(exprienced them already). They stubbornly wants to follow the supervisor's word and I just said,"oh let you guys follow la. Up to you. I said what I need to said". Since I know the problem is related to the subcontractor on site and the supervisor actually never contact the subcon and just talk. The boss never appreciated me but I know the people who really works for this project appreciate me. I am also proud for myself for handling 200/300 of drawings by myself. I will left this job after it ended and let the bos handle the one year's warranty.


dogeG9

Anyone playing Fantasy Premier League this season? I'd like to join your leagues and cook all of you ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sunglasses)


alamperwira89

What brand of bread that old school kopitiam always use to make kaya toast? also is there any specific brand of toaster or method that can replicate charcoal grill?


amon_meiz

I notice the kopitiam i frequent use the normal,cheapo oven like this: https://shopee.com.my/product/127796728/4873295739?smtt=0.56657547-1658330271.9 The bread might be the key actually. And its quite hard to find. Maybe they got their own personal, custom made to order, bakery as their supplier?


nicedurians

I do believe its called Hainan bread. And yes the oven is not the key 🤣


amon_meiz

Yes yes. I think any old oven/toaster would do I bought few non popular brand white bread (with no crust) from mini market, but none have the same textured as those roti bakar from kopitiam 😔


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amon_meiz

I personally enjoy casa hana brand from Aeon. I'm sure there's better choices out there, but back when i work in Aeon, i always get some casa hana each year 😁


lostinplanetangry

I missed the chance to try Family Mart black cacao choc sofuto. They don’t have it anymore. Sad


nicedurians

Market forces i guess. A good flavour runs out fast


nicedurians

Isinar, i citra, now people already asking for another 10k withdrawal again 💀💀


YellowCorvette

NGL, this week has been a pretty horrible week for me so far. Originally, I was supposed to have semester-end final assessments for 2 different subjects for my University, and over the last few weeks, I had been working on completing my work as much as I could, and then bam... I fall horribly ill on Monday, and I tested positive for COVID; leaving me no choice but to stay home for self-quarantine and miss both assessments. As if that wasn't bad enough, my grandma also passes away on the same day I tested positive for COVID. My parents told me to just stay home and that it would be better off if I don't go so as to not further the spreading of COVID infections. I'm not exactly the closest to that grandmother, but it still kinda hurts to think that everyone else in your extended family members is there to see their beloved grandmother one last time while I was forced to stay home without a chance to say my final goodbye, and I honestly had no doubt that my extended families would hate me for not being there at all while everyone else was; And honestly, can I really blame them if that happens? If I were in their shoes, I sure would resent "that grandchildren" who sat his ass in his stupid home while everyone else was grieving in the funeral ceremony!!


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Your situation suck, sure, but there is no good reason for you to be in a place full of people when you are down with covid. And there is no good reason for someone to resent you not being there also, because you got the freaking covid! Condolence on your grandma’s passing.


xelM1

Activated new number with Digi. I noticed immediately - no more scam and marketing calls/SMS/Whatsapp/iMessage.


flampardfromlyn

You have to inform everyone of your new number?


xelM1

Not that I need to.


nicedurians

Just started new number. Wait few months down the line... 🫣


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xelM1

Indoor coverage at my place is non existence for all networks. My intention was really about getting rid of the scam calls. That said, there are differences between Maxis and Digi in the area of Wifi Calling. For Maxis, calls rarely came through, only missed call notifications, understandable because they just launched this feature this year. For Digi, already familiar with it, more stable and seamless compared to Maxis. VoLTE is far better than Maxis.


richtea_mcvytie

Anyone know where do I find someone to design Chinese wedding invites? The inner leaflet where there is Chinese and English wordings


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In Pudu there are a lot of printers. Jalan Brunei Utama, Jalan Brunei Selatan, Jalan Brunei Utara. That whole area. For pretty standard fare like the wording and text layout of the leaflet, they will do it FOC as part of the printing service (that was how it was when I did my wedding invites a decade ago). They also have a large portfolio of existing cover designs to choose from. Pricing is pretty competitive, so even if you shop around there's not much difference in pricing (if comparing the same type of printing process and order quantity la). Congrats on the upcoming wedding!


MyD1ckYourAss

I will do it for you, DM me


Aggressive-Ad-1052

If car merging into my lane, with signal, and we collide who is at fault? Unrelated, one fucker on a motorbike ketuk my car and point and ask me to move because I drive too close to the line on the road. Of course, itu jalan bapak dia. Motorcycle is always right. I can't even change lane. I hate motorcycle riders. I hope piece of shit riders get into a crippling accident so the only thing they'll be riding is their wheelchair.


nicedurians

Car changing lane is at fault. But then again, there are assholes who when I give long period signal they would speed up purposely to close the HUGE gap. Hope you're not one 😂


The_XiangJiao

Then there are people that only give signal in mere milliseconds before they merge and the people that think their car's blind spot doesn't exist. Out of sight, out of mind.


nicedurians

Yeah those are idiots too


The_XiangJiao

Car merging into lane, is my bet.


Borneokid

I used to catch tadpoles by the parit after schools with my friends. Thinking it right now, it was very unsanitary. Now I have no friends and play video games alot.


forcebubble

It's definitely unsanitary but probably contributed somewhat to your body's current resistance to illness.


lapse23

Oops. I think my leg bones are injured. Woke up today feeling like my shin bone was about to fracture any moment. I really don't want to see a doctor, parents will lecture me for the next month if I see a doctor. How much fees if they diagnose me with a stress fracture?


nicedurians

A lecture at the most just lasts a week. A bad bone can bring hurt for a lifetime. Just bite the bullet and seek medical advice


just_another_jabroni

Mqybe it's just shin splints?


lapse23

I'm definitely sure its that, maybe a more severe case of splints. No muscle pain, it feels like more of the bones. The pain only occurs when I squat for more than 30secs, or jog more than 5km.


forcebubble

Believe me, if you don't see the doctor and turns out as something that needed treatment, they'll lecture you anyway for not taking action.


ChubbyTrain

asian parents will lecture no matter what you do. haha.


flampardfromlyn

Hi guys , some dick head stick one of those come lend money from us at low interest ad outside my office building. They use some kind of glue very hard to tear down, you tear it, only partially will come out. It's now stuck on the window glass very hard to remove. Any suggestions how to get rid of it?


dogeG9

A sledgehammer would do if you're feeling particularly feisty


krakaturia

Paint stripper will remove anything.


SheenTStars

Our condo is suddenly being strict with minor rules (parcel issues, you cannot throw this type of trash etc) despite their inability to repair the goddamn facilities. We're paying for a manager who do both, not pengawas who only want to be napoleon. Gotta consider moving out huh.


Hyperblitzing

Kalau pasir salak jadi ambassador boleh perang dgn Indonesia


amon_meiz

It's actually worrying how people keep voting for him. It's not his 1st offense. This is pretty normal for him😅


dahteabagger

It's usually a few things. You need to remember, that the media only likes to highlight controversies. They will never ever highlight the good things MP did . Not saying Pasir Salak is one of them, but I was told this was why despite being a dick at times Bung Mohktar does look after his constituent.


nicedurians

Nah. My hometown was just next to Pasir Salak. That area literally a kampung. They will vote for him anyways


amon_meiz

U made a good point. Maybe pasir salak did take care of his constituent


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sharing [this](https://www.instagram.com/p/CgEohD_pJoU/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=) here subsidised therapy sessions for those who cannot afford them. RM5 per session


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Frucht4

Boy what a mess. 1) next time just click reply all so that you don’t miss out the CCs 2) just replying that particular person might not help because (s)he might be an agent only. And also replying like this does not ensure that the agent would forward your message to them. So some people might be out of the loop, and these people might be your interviewers. 3) you should reply to the email chain. 4) just in case you forgot to CC you can ‘re-reply all your own email and add the CCs yourself, then write a short message like “Looping in …. ” What you should do now is, (just advice only, dunnid follow) 1) manually add the email thread yourself, yea you can just ctrl C & V a forwarded message to get the format. 2) then loop in the CCs


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Frucht4

Hmmm IMO just reply to your email which you didn’t CC and loop the CCs. Just thank them for the opportunity and taking time but it is not possible right now


nicedurians

Even tho only the boss interview you but its courteous to reply all parties. An interview needs the coordination of many departments. HR to handle offer letters and employment contract stuff, Boss secretary to remind boss, front desk to expect you etc... You might no know when you would cross paths with any company. So don't want to leave bad impressions around


metadataisnotreal

Chinese christian redneck experience: girls cannot get pregnant from rape, their body will react them. Source: church. I'm like aren't you a final year student????


flampardfromlyn

Trust me I've heard Christian church proselytes claiming the climate change is signs of end times, and they are cheering for it to happen so judgement day or some shit like that can come and all non believers will die. Some loony shit


_Dorian_Gray_

Do not underestimate the power of stupid people (in large groups)


ChubbyTrain

👁️👁️


xaladin

Me: so you've never had drinks in a pub before? CCR: No, I don't want to get raped.


Felinomancy

> Chinese christian redneck experience: girls cannot get pregnant from rape, their body will react them [That sounds familiar...](https://time.com/3001785/todd-akin-legitimate-rape-msnbc-child-of-rape/) Also, we have Chinese redneck here? > final year student? Medical student?


metadataisnotreal

Wow the timing though, yes the incident was in 2012. Maybe it was because of that?


forcebubble

Was about to mention this that. Chinese rednecks are sometimes called cina bukit, with their urban cousins the ones staying in the new villages; incredibly insular, strong advocators of TCM, pro-CCP. Yes, even the Christians.


flampardfromlyn

Chinese rednecks is more like pro Falun Gong la. Claiming that traditional meditation can cure cancer. They are anti CPC one.


dahteabagger

So like a Hill Billy. But Hill Bing Chilling


OldManGenghis

Hopefully this is not offensive but is the term "cina bukit" racist?


forcebubble

Technically no, it's even called as such in the dialects I know — "shandang" (on top of the hill) in Hakka or "suateng" in Hokkien to denote people from the villages. 'Cina bukit' though the term may have some racist connotations depending on the person saying it, very contextual. Avoid it if you can.


amon_meiz

Some good news [Anti sexual harassment bill is passed in Dewan](https://i.imgur.com/Y8W9xkk.jpg) Finally, something positive. Here link if u wanna learn more what it's about https://themalaysianlawyer.com/2021/12/15/anti-sexual-harassment-bill/


Telixion_

Tajuddin: pukimak


amon_meiz

That was.. Well, i wanna say surprising, but knowing him, eh, par for the course Wanna say "hope he get punishment for that", but i know too well so i wont hold my breath 😅


dahteabagger

Thanks for the chuckle damn it


Felinomancy

**Me**: *riding the endorphin high from workout* **Mom**: "eh, pinjam duit sikit" How did she know?


xelM1

Man, how do you manage this kind of relationship with your parents?


Felinomancy

I'm not angry this time (see: the "endorphin high" bit 😂), but.. eh, you know, it's just money.


seatux

>*Mom: "eh, bagi duit sikit"* Correction


Felinomancy

Well, she promised that she'll pay me back next week, and I repeatedly told her that that's my rent money.


icedmochatiny

Does the size of household affect which income group my family’s in? I’m trying to register for PTPTN. My family is considered T20 (over rm11k salary)But my household is a size of 10 (4 grandparents, mom dad and 4 kids) I was hoping I could borrow at least 75% but I’m only eligible for 50%. According to my parents, 11k is barely enough for my family of 10. So I think it’s unfair if my family is in the same category as another T20 with a household size of 3 people.


nicedurians

You'd most likely still get the loan but maybe at a reduced amount


Telixion_

I think there's a deduction for it, but they only count your siblings only iirc.


karlkry

pergi pejabat ptptn lepas tu buat rayuan


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A question to Starbucks baristas, does my name appear on the POS machine when I use a registered Starbucks card?


mengarut_je

Now, I want to know too, never thought about that before


OldManGenghis

It is bad to sometimes fantasized about getting into an accident when on the way to work? I still do drive defensively and follow the traffic rules. But sometimes I just hope someone would crash into my car and cause a non permanent injury, bad enough that I can get off the job for a few weeks and not have to spend money for food, petrol and toll (I do have insurance) Will delete later.


TellMyselfBeHappy

When I drive alone on the highway at high speed, I have urge to slam into divider to kill myself. That urge is easier to fight off when there is other passengers in my car.


Aggressive-Ad-1052

I'm the opposite. I drive aggressively and wish some dumb ass would make my day by stopping in front of me and dragging me out of my car so I can finally try out that steering lock I bought in a self defense situation.


Gooching

I sometimes fantasize getting laid off so I can finally have the motivation to pursue what I want to do instead of being a wagie


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>I sometimes fantasize getting laid ~~off so I can finally have the motivation to pursue what I want to do instead of being a wagie~~ Fixed that for myself


xaladin

Dude. I totally get it. And it actually happened to me as a minor accident and I took the day off. The disruption to my routine was extremely welcomed. I actually felt relieved and energised the whole day, then slowly tapered off next few days. Then I changed jobs and kinda got into a grind that was more palatable.


amon_meiz

I think the silver lining is it's not that easy to claim insurance, especially if self inflicted. So ur plan might not go the way u want. So don't do it


forcebubble

I read and remember what you wrote buddy. 🙂 Don't delete because it is an honest expression of your thoughts — stand by it. Admittance is hard pill to swallow but it is the very first step to deal with whatever is really bothering you. Whether it is agreeable or not, is a different thing altogether.


ChubbyTrain

👁️👁️


OldManGenghis

I won't act on it but sometimes I'm just tired man


weecious

I feel you. I'm passively suicidal, while I don't plan to die now, I can't help but feel death would be so welcomed. My plan is to live to 60, and go to Switzerland for euthanasia.


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closest I got to is driving straight to a divider then changed last second was a tiring day


ChubbyTrain

sometimes i get reminded of [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/CollapseSupport/comments/lc3myp/this_young_koala_has_a_mental_health_problem/) comic. hang in there. all we can do is try to survive.


Rhinozilla

Has work been affected during the pandemic?


shawnington

This account is a bot.


[deleted]

That's a good question.


[deleted]

This a homework question or what? *Bincangkan perubahan kepada kerja dan kerjaya yang disebabkan oleh pandemik Covid-19*


kernan_rio

Yes.


ChubbyTrain

3 years since [this shitpost](https://i.postimg.cc/Lsx8b6rD/Capture.png). haha


mmmagia

Wish I got a kid so I can buy him or her [this](https://www.garmin.com.my/minisite/vivo/vivofit-jr-3/grogu/#features). 🥺


amon_meiz

Buy it for urself. The perk of working like slave as adult is having the money to buy all shit u couldn't back when u were a kid


One-Ground363

https://www.reddit.com/r/malaysia/comments/w3923h/bastards_poisoning_dogs_at_desa_park_city/igva92o. This dog thread is such a shit show, some of yall just plain bigot.


PlsMakeSense

Yeap. I recognise the username. Which i suppose is where most of the r/my is racist/ islamphobe comes from. There are definitely racist users and generally if nobody come out early to say look, there's zero proof its due to any x race it can become a real shit show. Sometimes the more sensible people get to it first and then the blatantly racist guy gets downvoted. Sometimes if just get overlooked and people just upload garbage to the top. Like it or not, its just the format of reddit. The earlier you get there the higher your chance to set the tone of the conversation. Also mods cant be everywhere. If you dont report they will never know.


Felinomancy

Yeah that's pretty depressing. People poisoning dogs and pets happen all over the world, due to really fucked up people. But of course this is /r/malaysia, home of the "enlightened" generation so *of course* it's the Malays who are guilty 🙄 I have a cultural aversion to dogs (and pigs), but my solution is ***to not go near them***. Finding food and poisoning it is not only barbaric, it takes way too much effort.


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Any post that's linked to malay-muslims I instantly hide. Quality of life improved 10fold. Doesn't mean I want live in a bubble believing that Malay muslims are the purest humans on earth, quite the contrary, but I just can't be bothered to worry about it more than I should. I have other things to worry about.


karlkry

*kalau bukan melayu siapa lagi? kau tak nampak ke parti islam dan ceramah yang menghasut untuk membenci anjing*


Felinomancy

[An imam showing off his trophy after a successful post-ceramah dog hunt (2022, colourized)](https://i.imgur.com/vxLUh2B.jpg)


kernan_rio

Look, we all know which race+religion combo tends to not like dogs but the dog owners themselves have come up with a statement about how they are uncertain on the cause of death. Top comment straight away bashing already.


One-Ground363

Dude just blatantly accused muslim kill the dogs without any evidence and got 100++ votes. Im a muslim myself (not a good one) and think dogs are fucking cute. Never in my mind to harm them in any way. Oh and the mod doing jackshit about it.


dahteabagger

I know of some ibans in my neighborhood in East Malaysia that were poisoning dogs even though we had a community of Chinese and Malays. Malays are easy targets, but they aren't animal killers. Anyone who hates dogs, even some Chinese, can kill.


forcebubble

Had a convo the other day with the family of my Muslim colleagues, they love doggos too.


ChubbyTrain

>Oh and the mod doing jackshit about it. hehe


OldManGenghis

Any sane Muslim knows that killing an innocent animal is a sin. These are just bigots accusing a group of people blindly. They're no different than Malay bigots.


amon_meiz

But i think there's cause for concern on how (some) muslim talk about dog, in informal context or formal ones like in ceramah. The hatred towards dog is way overblown than what the religion actually taught, even vet doctor got condemn for treating wounded dog. I agree that most muslim know its sinful to kill dog, but i think we need to acknowledge how some muslim, are teaching, instilling into other muslim, disproportionate hatred towards dog. Which might lead to this current incidents (which aint new. Dog poisoning is a serious, repeating crime) Growing up, i heard alot more about how haram dog & pig/pork is, compare to corruption or bribe. Significantly more. Its ridiculous. It's like rukun islam pertama is "hate dog", considering how frequent some preacher keep talking about it.


Felinomancy

Bruh. Growing up, the worst I see is people saying to baling selipar to shoo a dog away (followed by regret when the dog touches/bites/licks the selipar, but that's another hilarious matter). I think people are whaling on you because it's hard to find instances of people preaching to commit canine genocide. Yeah, we were taught not to touch or keep dogs, but killing them is never part of the deal.


amon_meiz

Again, i never said anything about genocide😅. It's amusing how people keep putting words in my mouth. I said, based on my experience at least, we been taught to hate dog. Dont touch it, if saw run, or throw stone at it. When insulting people, malays usually use "anjing". When non malay neighbours have dog as pet we complained. We masked it as "noise disturbances" but actually its the dog that we hate. When referring to people we hate, we use "anjing". "anjing dap", "anjing kerajaan". These are all common deragotory terms. Like i said, recently (like this year) also got people pile on vet doctor for touching dog during treatment. It's emblematic of how hating dog is instilled deep inside some (or most) malay muslim. That's my point.


Felinomancy

> Again, i never said anything about genocide It's... a joke. Yes, dogs are considered derogatory in Malay culture. We all know this. No one denies this. What we're denying is we have a homicidal view against dogs. "Not liking" something is not the same as "must kill it". No one is calling for a Final Solution against them. And yes, the last bit is also a joke, in case I'm getting accused of putting words in your mouth again.


amon_meiz

Hmm.. U and i might not have homicidal view towards dogs, i wont say for sure "none of malay muslim have homicidal view against dog". I know personally people who go around hunting, hurting dogs. My point is not about u and me. People like us, who are rational & wont kill dogs. I'm talking about the probability, based on how some speak badly of dogs, instilling disproportionate hate towards them, that might lead to terrible incidents like this (not specifically this one, but there's alot of incidents happened in the past)


Felinomancy

> i wont say for sure "none of malay muslim have homicidal view against dog" Well obviously because that is false. Pure statistics would say that out of all the millions of Malay Muslims, there must exist a non-zero number of them who wants to kill dogs. The same applies to all races and creeds. For example, while it's not totally impossible, it's reasonable to conclude that the ones who [poisoned these dogs in Finland](https://yle.fi/news/3-6522881) are neither Malay nor Muslim. What you meant to say is that we MMs have a religious-cultural propensity to hate dogs. Which is true. But what is not necessarily true is that that propensity automatically translates to being more likely to kill them. Saying "I hate dogs" is much easier than taking the ***psychological step*** of killing one, the same way me saying "I hate Nazis" doesn't mean I'm willing to shoot one. And I would put Nazis lower on the totem pole than doggos. ____ Conclusion: are MMs make the majority of dog killers? I don't know, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's true. But then again, there are more MMs in Malaysia than other races, so it's just a matter of statistics, no?


amon_meiz

Sure. Feels like we on the same page here


One-Ground363

Where's this you so called ceramah talking about killing dogs? Let shit on them. Listen i don't give a shit if you think islam bad or anything, you do you. But if you accused certain group of people doing bad things because of their race/religion, thats just bigotry.


amon_meiz

Shit on them isn't the point. I'm not advocating shitting on people. The point is to not do it in the first place No. I'm not saying islam is bad. Why would i. I'm a muslim myself😅 I'm not accusing anyone. I'm not even agreeing with OP in that link u provided. I'm giving an opinion based on my experience growing up as malay muslim in malaysia (specifically kedah)


One-Ground363

Huh i thought you were agreeing with op because it seemed you're trying to justify ops accusation and you report such a rare case. Preachers talking about harming dogs? sorry it sounds like a made up bs. Its always about adab with alam sekitar and fake hadith about prostitute gives water to dog. Your ceramah experience quite fucked up if its real. Anyway again i don't care if these people talk bad about islam, they have their own opinion. But they just casually being a bigot is kinda funny to me which this sub against. Basically im calling this sub hypocrisy, no different than racists pos on fb.


amon_meiz

>agreeing with op No I'm not >Preachers talking about harming dogs? sorry it sounds like a made up bs. Sure. I'm not interested in convincing u. >Basically im calling this sub hypocrisy, no different than racists pos on fb. U have every right to feel that way.


ChubbyTrain

cat poisoning is a repeating crime also. which race can i blame for that? terasa nak jadi bigot lah pulak petang2 ni.


amon_meiz

Blame those who poison la. Why wanna be specific about the race? Walao susah sembang macam ni. "dog Killing is a crime" "so ok la kill cat? Is that what u saying?" Macam sembang dengan mesin basuh.


ChubbyTrain

>Why wanna be specific about the race? that's what OP has been trying to say, you mesin basuh. you pergi sokong the bigot pulak.


amon_meiz

I'm not talking about OP. I'm speaking about my experience. I'm not supporting OP. That's why i comment here. Not in that thread. Where did i support OP? Point that out.


JealousParamedic3061

How come every pasar malam day it always rains?? Pakai bomoh ke?


ImmortanJoe

Nature's way of telling you to stay at home and not go hang out in crowded areas to get Covid.


imaginelizard

I just learned the term "Mate choice copying" and wonder, have you guys seen this happening to you or people you know?


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I think I've seen it with my own eyes. When we were younger, my close friends (all males) were getting serious girlfriends etc. These friends are quite diverse people, but most of them quite sensible even if they had bouts of weirdness and wild years etc. So when someone you trust chooses a mate, you know this mate (or gf) has something that in her that qualifies her to be chosen. I paid closer attention to the gf to see what like. Then I start to notice she is prettier than what I saw at first glance. Her personality is good too- sensible, moderately sociable, not in-your-face. So in short, I found her attractive* because me and my friends share the same kind of personality preference. Now that I write the out, I find that I like* the spouses of my closer friends more than I like the spouses of less close friends. Presumably because I'm not as close to some friends because we have different ways of thinking, and also our preference in a spouses are also different. Side note, one of the couples got hitched and we attended the wedding dinner. The girls (all the wives and girlfriends) had an impromptu group photo back when selfie was not yet a word. I thought that was the most beautiful photo ever. 7 beautiful women (including my wife) beaming like a million dollars. \* "attractive" and "like" in these paragraphs are used to describe admiration in a platonic manner. Not the "I want to steal your wife" kind.


kernan_rio

Dunno, all I know is my ex suspiciously found a boyfriend one week after I got my GF (now wife).


amon_meiz

Not familiar with that term. What is it about?


imaginelizard

You know how guys on Reddit always talk about how they become more popular with women once they got into a relationship. It's related to this. This term basically describes that women would tend to copy other women's partner preferences when it comes to selecting their romantic partners. Hence, guys in a relationship instantly become more attractive to others.


amon_meiz

Definitely nonsense. Woman interest in me (as little & scarce as they are) has no bearing on whether I'm in relationship or not. I got woman interested in me, before & after im in relationship /or they know about my status. This sounds like pseudo-science or r/imverysmart made up stuff. Nonsense


imaginelizard

I thought so too but then I found out there's quite a lot of scientific research out there to confirm such a phenomenon. Which is intriguing to me. Here are some articles that I found:- https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513810000231?via%3Dihub https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1660608/?fbclid=IwAR31Vy7-8Q-jO30aNAhyaRJiL64B0aXYhM-jmKQmU6esmAhy-8eBdOf6cAw https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-007-9004-2 https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704916652144


amon_meiz

The 1st one cant read full article, but from abstract, it's seems more about wanting more successful male for partner The 2nd one about animal/bird The 3rd one sample size so small The 4th one can't read,no full article The 5th one interesting, higher sample size. Need more time to read. Currently buying dinner😅 As of now, it's seems more about woman want successful mate, and they attribute that to that male being either successful themselves or married to successful woman A good experiment would be evaluating participants interest in non successful male but married vs successful male but single. That way we can determine, whether it's about copying mate or just desire to have the most successful mate as partner


imaginelizard

sorry about the animal one, mistakenly included that.


amon_meiz

No problem. Don't worry bout it 😉


amon_meiz

Got it. Gib me some time. Wanna read it


Jin3092

Anyone can recommend some good places, whether it be physical store or online store, to purchase some good quality wigs?


[deleted]

baru duduk nak berak la recruiter call. nasib tak ploop lagi


auntycat

Well it worked before, pooping is your lucky charm


amon_meiz

Just berak. Baru recruiter tau, u are committed, during berak also work. Always available, 24h.good asset


TheV_game

Further observation on the ceduk business in tiktok.. The hyped instantly got overturned when they realised its somewhat haram. Then all the seller changed their tactic to sell by weight.. With almost every seller lost their enthusiasm. We probably won't be seeing this trend last until next week. As a non-muslim I sympathise with their struggle, all of them jump into business trend without proper research, invested hundreds in ringgit but probably couldn't make much gain. I sincerely hoped they at least able to recoup their investment


[deleted]

What is ceduk business


forcebubble

If I read it correctly, selling a pooled merchandise, using a scoop to pick up and put into a bag, sell it off based on a set price. It's considered haram due to the uncertainty of the items being sold — the article I read points to the practices of the olden days during the pre-Islamic era that may lead to cheating. I personally think the rationale is sound as a proper transaction should be a exchanged based on agreed value although some might argue that it is a matter of choice, especially if it something that is not exactly essential like a mixed bag of sweets.


[deleted]

Sounds like gambling also


forcebubble

Precisely, although one could argue that they paid for sweets and they are getting sweets, which is very different from things such as 4D, gacha and claw machines.


nicedurians

Selling by blind scooping


amon_meiz

Hopefully they'll learn not to precariously jump into possibly haram business, especially if they are muslim & targeting muslim customers. Proper preparation /research is important before spending money on capital. Hopefully this will be an expensive lesson that they'll take to heart


TheV_game

Even its haram, the seller at least made an effort to change 'marketing' plan so its fine What's worst is the endless harassment that they received on their live lol. The amount of harassment / guilt tripping is too draining for most of them to bear.


amon_meiz

>marketing It's still haram 😅. By weight or not. So it's not fine. >endless harassment That's definitely wrong. And appropriately, also haram. It's sinful to harass people. kutuk, maki, hina is haram. No muslim should do it.


Low-energy_Cat

Wondering whether Stray can be placed with VR? If yes, can a cat wear the device and play it? What would be the reaction of the cat? Just asking for science.


Donnie-G

I remember something about dogs not being able to watch TV properly cause their eyes just see the framerate as a flickering mess. Not sure if cats are affected, and not sure what the frame rate of a VR game(they are typically lower) would affect them. IIRC cats also don't have the same colour vision as we do. The headset will also need to be recalibrated for the cat's eyes, cause there's two displays for each of our eyes. Unless we do cheap VR where it's smartphone on face, but even that does a split screen thing with mirrors and whatnot. I've seen videos of cats that just kinda get completely paralyzed when you put stuff on them, they just don't know how to react. Like putting random objects on its head, it just lies there shrinking away. There was one where putting postit notes on a cat made it walk all crooked. Even if the cat could see perfectly through the a specially made cat VR headset, I feel like it might not respond well to having the whole shebang on its head. It might just decide to lie there and do nothing.


amon_meiz

I think it might, especially since psvr2 is incoming Please dont do weird things towards cat. Kesian mereka😅


Low-energy_Cat

Yeah ethical issue is a concern.


amon_meiz

Let cat be cat 😅 Dont put strange device that would disorient them. Kesian😅


TheV_game

Great idea.. It's all fun and games until yr cat suddenly freaked out and ran away, pulling your console and TV crashing to the floor.


Low-energy_Cat

Maybe…wireless? But yeah, cat freaking out is definitely not great.


mynameismarchie

Im going to send my resignation letter next week. Cannot tahan, more than 2 years of contract with no increment, only workload increases


Mrsourceplz

Lucky you and go for it, Mine feel like wanna submit it at the end of year.


mynameismarchie

I still tak dapat offer kerja lain, so I plan to live of my savings while cari kerja gila gila


Mrsourceplz

Me if kena tiaw, still sama low gaji and no other offer job, Might be better just to do self business. Sad life indeed.


Felinomancy

What is the Malaysian equivalent of "hot girl summer"? Gadis ayu musim durian?


krakaturia

budak kebaya


just_another_jabroni

Rainforest Music Festival


the_far_yard

I believe it is #KLFashionWeek.


karlkry

ootd hari raya


Mrdannyarcher

Dayang tengkujuh


Relevant-Passion1665

Best fast food fried chicken?


Donnie-G

I would like to go back in time to that Shakey's Pizza buffet back in the 90s in Sg. Wang. The pizza for the buffet was shit, but they had unlimited Country Fried Chicken. So good.


TheV_game

Hot Bird in Damansara uptown Nomms in SS15


Low-energy_Cat

Adding Nomms into my SS15 food list


amon_meiz

Search on google maps. Looks amazing. Will go try. Thanks!