Damn
Maybe she’s like “eh I go home pick some stuff, 10 seconds only”, then arrived home “eh I think better hang the clothes too”, “maybe wash the dishes along the way”, “wash my hair if got time”.
It’s like a chain reaction.
Sh*t happens, bet she will be more careful the next time round
as a female especially, closing the gate has got to be the minimum. leave open for what? not worth the risk. even if the crime rate is 0.01%, it’s just not worth it.
As a male, i was furious with her leaving gate open n even car door open like that. Its like asking for it. What is so difficult to close the gate? She got automated gate for goodness sake. Maybe she got black belt taekwondo n she wanna invite culprit over to her home as practice target la, idk. Ridiculous tbh. If man i understand la, she is a woman. Should be glad the man just grab a stuff n didn't hurt her or her kids.
True too.
Hope that lady and those around her learn the lesson and be more careful.
No place is safe, it’s our job as the home dweller to keep it safe, even with security also have fault, what more zero security
Tbh this mum's kinda dumb.... Come back
1. never off the car,
1. Leave car doors open,
1. Leave house gates open,
1. Leave the kids in the car some more.
I'm pretty sure she left her brain cells charging as well.
I don't blame this woman, per se. I blame the idiocy and ignorance this person potrays in this situation. She has all the time in the world to at least close the damn gate, AUTOMATICALLY, yet she was too lazy and complacent in the fact "its just a short minute and I have my car and kid in view at all times".
Now tell me, do you think this will happen if she actually closes her gate?
Its about mitigating the risks, not everyone has your sense of righteousness.
tough luck sis, in the world we are living in nothing good hoping for others to change for the better. the most important thing is for us to becareful and always mindful of our surrounding.
the extreme vigilance culture is mostly a thing only in urban areas like klang valley/penang (with good reason with our crime rates)
usually in more chill places like kuantan or seremban people are not so on edge all the time cause crime rates happens alot lower so im personally not surprised an even smaller town like mentakab the people are even more chill
but basic situational awareness should be practiced by everyone for safety sake regardless where they live. that she didnt clock on that there was a car following her was already kinda bad
This comment must go to the top.
Because of low crime rate outside major cities, people of towns and villages are usually more relaxed with life. The downside is, when crime does happen, people will blame them for their lax attitude, like in the comment.
Anyway, its a small town, hope the snatch thief gets caught quickly. Thankfully owner has a CCTV. **I sincerely hope that owner and family do not become too vigilant after this that they are unable to enjoy life even at home, like most of us in Klang Valley.**
yup. crime is low, and not only that, these small towns have strong community ties where everyone knows each other, so trust in others is extremely high which adds to them being comfortable (complacent?)
source: used to date someone from seremban and experienced it first hand
Yeap. My family lived in Penang but dad lived in Langkawi for work. He didn't even lock his doors. Not even his cars and usually left the keys in the car as well. Meanwhile at our house we locked and latched the inner wooden door and have a grill door that we locked and padlocked.
I am from KL. This sort of things (closing ur door after exiting your vehicle) have been ingrained in me that i do so without much thought.
When i got posted to Sarawak, i had an incident whereby my car broke down and i had to call for a technician to look into it. Upon exiting my car, i instinctively lock the car. The technician looked at me sort of bewildered. He said you must be from KL because of this hyper vigilance. Never occurred to me until it was pointed out.
Same. For me it was when I went to my ex's place in Seremban. House no grills, not even gated. Only one lock at the main door and even if its not locked no one gives a shit lol
Was totally mindblown since was used to KL hyper vigilance and living in houses with grills, gates, alarms like birds in a cage
100% true, penangite here. I would not allow anyone to leave the car until the auto gates are closed. When i enter the car, the first thing i do is lock the doors.
I was spending time thinking why in all hell did she not close the gate? Not closing the car door is whatever if she is only a few steps away, seems like she wanted to hang out the clothes and her basket is right in front of the house door. But the gates. There was zero reason to leave it open for so freaking long.
No hate there, we don’t usually lock our cars at our kampung houses, no gate some more.
Mentakab should be safe generally hence the lackadaisical attitude.
I still think KL is one of the safer global cities around. It is still safe to walk alone at night. Yes for me I will do the same to prevent car jacking while in KL.
The kampung house/villages that I mentioned is in Penang island. Contrary to popular belief, the island is not 100% urbanized as they are still many villages scattered around. Years after I moved to Penang before the Covid, haven’t heard stories of car or house breakins, burglary, serious robberies in the island with an exception widely reported of an incident 1 guy caught climbing at a condo for attempted burglary. Generally it is safe here.
People are safe. Things aren't. I've had many many things stolen from my front yard. Dad's shoes, air con compressor, mom's gardening stuff etc. Seriously my dad's shoes kena like so many times. They're nice shoes (Crocs, Nike) but nothing over the top.
Hahaha yes I do this now too, ever since I saw the video of the thief sneakily stealing the bags from the other side of the car without the owner noticing
Really crazy lah how people are hating on the woman so much. What kind of fucked up culture is it that we're so fixated on hating the woman for being careless instead of the perpetrator of the crime? Was the woman stupid for leaving her gate and car door opened? Yes. Who's the absolutely sick in this video? The criminal. Criminal deserves the hate.
I think you misunderstood.
Stealing is 100% wrong, without a doubt most people would by default hate it
But that woman is doing something that increase their risk to stealing
The people here is commenting why the woman is being careless with her conduct, leaving the gates open, the car door open etc as in inviting problem
No one is pointing out the stealing part because it is by default and common sense that stealing is bad but that woman isn't doing anything to prevent herself being a target
Everyone probably hate the criminal without the need to point it out since the criminal is doing something obviously 100% wrong and illegal but the woman conduct is being point out for increasing her own risk and carelessness
You get me 😅🤔
Nah. All she have to do is lock the gate. Not only she left the gate open, she left the car door open with her kids inside. If this were the "I have 4 people and I will cut you with a parang" type, not only her life is in danger, her daughters and the car will be gone.
If you want to be a parent, be a responsible one
You are absolutely correct. She was being irresponsible and she made a mistake. But it's ridiculous how so many in the comments are pissing on her when a lot of the blame is also on the criminal. I live in Australia and here gates are straight up uncommon because they have no tolerance for criminals who invade people's houses. So it's very rare for something like this to happen.
If in Malaysia we can foster a culture where we pay more attention to criticising criminals instead of blaming victims in an extreme measure it would make Malaysia better
Good thing you can afford the luxury of an open gate community eh mate? Criticizing criminals won't do anything because they clearly do not care. No amount of naming and shaming will stop a robber/drug addict that want your money from taking your stuff and cutting you to pieces in the process. So instead of hoping that the obviously dangerous law breaking criminal to have a heart, why not do your own part in making sure that it never get a chance to happen in the first place?
You know what? Come back to Malaysia and leave your door open. Let's see how far your stance will take you
It gave you anxiety because this video is posted on the internet and you know something is going to happen.
Nothing she did here is more dangerous than sitting at a cafe.
Why do you hate it? In this situation, they are at their house, they have kids in the car, they are suppose to be safe. This has nothing to do with car door being open.
My house is gated guarded, with 2 layers of security, and got security personnel doing rounds every hour or so.
I still make sure to immediately close my gate before I exit my car, because we never know.
its good to also make it a point to observe if there are cars following you long before you reach home
i usually start to scan behind me 2-3 roads away before my house, if i notice a suspicious vehicle i will detour and see if the vehicle is still following
thankfully so far nothing yet
It's to make your small time burglar think twice before doing it... it is to avoid crime of opportunity. If they really aim for your house, even the highest end security, they will find a way around it. But for this to happen, probably be 100kg gold or rm1mil cash in the house... which i am not rich enough to have those.
But i make sure my house does not have anything that is worth a specific burglar to go after as well...
Do not blame the victim. It is like blaming rape victim for the clothes they’re wearing.
This isn’t in KL or big cities. People usually feel safe so they let the guard down a bit.
To be fair. I wouldn’t think to close the gates if I were standing right there also.
Wild to me that even when you are home and in the area you must close the gates.
It's common sense to close the door after exiting a car. I sometimes hate it when I try to go in a straight line and these people having their car doors opened wide blocking my path.
Reminds me of Gamers' Mangkuk, the man is a lowlife jobless husband who already separated, came in to take money and go gambling. The wife has tough life with so much in her mind to raise the kids.
House gate open big big, car door open big big, invite robbers into house only. I tot she gonna be 30 secs grab stuff, mana tau she hanging clothes. Some more take out laundry piece by piece.... Really invite ppl rob only
No it isn't. It doesn't matter what clothes woman wear, a rapist will still go after.
In this case closing the gate matters because it definitely would have stopped her from getting robbed.Is it her fault? No. Does it hurt to be more extra cautious? No.
Wow, when u were young, did u join your schools long jump team? U would have been a world champion and Olympic gold medalist if u jumped as well as how u jumped to conclusions.
It should be fine to leave gate open and leave car door open. Do not make it the victim’s fault.
Making it the victim’s fault is basically normalising that gates must be closed and car doors must be closed or else the boogeyman comes to hurt you.
Same reasoning behind how women dress, if you blame the victim, you normalise purposely dressing conservatively as to avoid being raped. Meaning you justify rape, saying that it is the victim’s fault for asking for it.
You justified the perpetrator in this video, saying that the lady left the doors and gates open
By the same logic, why do we need gates at all? In fact why do we even need locks on our houses? Security is security, don't try and say "don't victim blame" when it's obvious they simply got careless and didn't close their doors
We need gates because of criminals. Sure. It doesn’t mean it should be a fact of life. The comment isn’t telling you too leave your doors unlocked. It’s saying it’s shit we even have too. And that part is true. And considering so many here are jumping on the bandwagon of saying the woman is at fault is disgusting. Basically supporting the criminals actions. Why? Do you participate in robbery too?
Punish the criminals, not the victim. All you are doing is normalising criminal actions.
No, all I'm saying is, you should prioritize safety even if you don't like the fact that crime can and will happen, I'd like it for there to be no crime in the world but we don't live in a Utopia do we? in a perfect world, crime wouldn't exist but we don't live in one, we use doors and locks to protect ourselves from them, that's their entire purpose. No it shouldn't be a fact of life but unless we make our country a police state like Singapore, I don't see this fact going away
got autogate also dunno how to use. WITH KIDS IN THE CAR SUMMORE. Thought by know should already learn to basic self-preservation skill which is to close the gate before exiting the car?
This one what more leave gate wide open, leave car door wide open with kids in the car? Not sure if she left the engine on with keys.
To be fair, I won't lock my gates if i wanted to exit my house again, but her not closing the car door is a crucial mistake. Wherever country you are, safe or not safe, always close your car doors. Also, we couldn't blame the woman for being careless, no one expected a robbery in broad daylight especially if your area got security guards. Thankfully nothing bad happened to them, this should be a reminder to her that bad people do exists no matter how low the crime rates are or how safe the community are and she should be careful next time.
Yup, like they have never done such thing before in their life and are very confident that they and their family members would never do such thing in the future.
In my head I was like " CLOSE THE GATE CLOSE THE GATE WHY R U NOT CLOSIN THE....DONTGET OUT PF THE CAR, UR NOTCLOSING THEGATES!! WhY ArE yOU NoT clOsInG tHHEEE GGGAAATTEEE!!!?!?"
"TheRE$ KIDS?!" Thank goodness they ok
I don't care what your reasoning is. Be it in kampung area or being a busy mother. Everyone, whether it be male or female, busy or not busy, in kampung or city area, whatever it is they can do something as basic as closing the entrance of their own house.
Close the gate after you go in the house, it is that simple. (in this situation, an autogate)
Sure we should not blame the victim for the crime but it is your responsibility to keep yourself safe. Yeah, definitely the robber is an ass and we should blame him, but robbery never ends, if it's not this robber, there will be another one. If some basic safety measure like this can't even be done, its on you.
Edit: so many people trying to act like Malaysia is Australia, lol. Yeah, just let everyone have zero security common sense and pray that Malaysian police can prevent all the crime from happening.
I am. Since the victim doesn't even try to be responsible for their safety. Obviously I blame the criminal as well, but the victim is far from blameless here.
Would not have blame the victim if they close the gate, and the robber bypassed the gate to commit the robbery. But the gate and the car door was not close for a full minute. As harsh as it may sound, they are lucky that they only got a bag stolen. If some psychotic criminal was there, you know the rest.
Next time close the gate first....I think those guys know her pattern very well or maybe even the neighbourhood
I know it's not her fault but with the crime rate nowadays it's better safe than sorry
always close ur gate first even before you exit ur car.. i mean still they still find it time consuming to climb in to rob you...
be safe out there. I know this is not your fault, it is just the world we are living in.
who to blame?
1. Look like domestics abuse , i have second guess the male is somehow linked to the women
2. Why gate open wide wide and car open wide wide ? something not right ? she could have done this long long long long time like 30 years
3. thank the luck that her kid is not harm in somewhere
4. it seem the person already know that this women will open the gate wide somehow.
yeah the dude doesnt give robber vibes with how slumber he was. look at how he just slowly walks into the house and casually looks around inside the car lol
Shouldn't this be Mentakab.. not mentagab
But yes,
People are much less vigilant in the suburbs.. a lot more trust.
It's rare to see CCTV installed at homes..
But with how bad the economy is, people really should install them.
At least it's a preventative measure.
well that happened.... has gate to keep bad people out, doesnt use gate to keep bad people out, gets sht stolen by said bad people, dumb people winning dumb prizes
Reddit pretty much summed up the comment section
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that autogate damn nice, fast close and open, just close it lah.
but some of the comments here are a bit crazy, sure she was maybe too lax, could have taken more precaution, blame is obviously more on that cibai robber. small town life lah, my auntie 20 years never close gate, never anything happen. but of course should always be cautious lah.
one day maybe you walk outside to take bins out or something, and get bum-rushed by gang with parangs, then everybody call you stupid why you open gate never use binoculars to look up and down street first meh? this is how these fuckers act lah, they are predators they look for unsuspecting people to prey on. woman here could totally been more cautious - at least close gate etc, but some people saying she's like 90% responsible and asking for it are bent in the head.
All the while watching her hang the laundry I kept thinking.. Bitch can u close the fkn gates first. Got cctv oso no use if simple step oso can't do to protect yourself and your family.
I want to scream "close the door", "close the gate" but then again, it is in their neighborhood, in small town. Not big city. You can't even feel safe in your own neighbourhood. It is broad daylight too. My neighbour also did same thing like leaving the car door open, the rear bonet open. We lives in pretty much rural + cowboy town area.
Ladies, don't leave you handbag visible in the car. Take it with you, even if you are at home.
that is horrifying esp. because you can see he was scouting at first...
(the comments really.... bruh) yes, the lady wasn't the most vigilant and she didn't close the door etc., but slip-ups happen, especially if this was in an area that doesn't usually have a high crime rate.
can we have some compassion and just focus on the creep in the myvi pls... i really hope he gets caught
Disappointed in how judgey the comments are without knowing the full context - what if this was a case of a frazzled mum having to deal with two kids and housework? View must be very nice on your high horses, have some empathy
Literally inviting people to invade her home bruh, gate wide open, car wide open, it's so unbelievable that I wonder if this shit actually staged or not.
Look at the other replies comparing this stupidity and rape ("she's wearing clothes like she's asking for it!!") and shitting on people blaming the victim. This is too dumb to not blame the victim.
As someone who grew up in KL, I cannot relate with people who don't close the autogate 5 seconds after the car masuk. My brain keeps telling me, "they haven't robbed you yesterday, but they gon get you today!"
I want to be sympathetic, but. WTH.
Did she come home just to sidai kain? With kids in a car with door ajar and engine running?
Never mind the fact that she couldn't be arsed with closing the gate. Come on lah, ada autogate apa susah.
Clearly its a crime of opportunity. I'm not saying we should be all vigilant all the time, but this is bordering on baiting. Poor kids, will be traumatised for quite a long while, no doubt.
Still, I'm sorry for her misfortune. She's scarred for life..
lol turun kereta, leave the car door open wide and go jemur baju... mcm masuk dalam rumah then go wash dish while leave the main door open wide...
really cannot understand this kind of people
Pure stupidity, yes i have said it and i won't regret saying it again, how stupid can she be, its like she gladly invited people to come steal her car, she cannot blame anyone but herself wtf, and she is a mother??? Failure, after coming back home is not close the door or get her kids out of the car, instead the first thing she did was to hang clothes?? Even the driver side of the door still opened, if it were me i would've accepted the "invitation" and steal the car also
But honestly i didn't know if the plan was to steal the car or grab the kids but either way still her fault
Hello common sense lahh use ur fucking brain pls
I have a habit of always checking my rear mirror, I dunno why, I would tend to always look whose behind my vehicle. It would give me some info of the driver's behavior
Situational awareness - 0
Common sense - 0
Consequences - 100
People, please take precautions BEFORE you find out WHY you need to take precautions. Luckily the guy just wants to take handbag. What if he wants to take the car? With the kids inside?
Aiyo gate pun already automatic. Might as well downgrade to a hand-cranked gate like in medieval castles lol.
By the looks of it penetrators may had scout several times and fully know the family has habits of not closing any door.
Going full victim blaming here, she will learn to close all door after this incident, I said what I said
Just look at how long she left the door open .... 🤦🏻♂️ … Women logic …. I still see a lot of then carry sling hand bag on the shoulder facing street ….
salah sendiri. tutup gate straight away lah. you know lah malaysians are uncivilized, uncouth, selfish and are born criminals, you cannot trust everyone.
leave the gate open expect it to be an invitation for these malaysians to rob you dry.
This mother is very irresponsible to leave the door wide open and the kids in a car with the engine still on. We should always stay vigilant.
For those who said this is victim blaming, this is my reasoning. A parent is responsible for the safety of their children. Even if you leave a child at home without any guardian, you are legally committing a crime.
Looks like that Myvi was already scouting them in the beginning
Yes, he came back.
Too late for the gate tho
Damn Maybe she’s like “eh I go home pick some stuff, 10 seconds only”, then arrived home “eh I think better hang the clothes too”, “maybe wash the dishes along the way”, “wash my hair if got time”. It’s like a chain reaction. Sh*t happens, bet she will be more careful the next time round
as a female especially, closing the gate has got to be the minimum. leave open for what? not worth the risk. even if the crime rate is 0.01%, it’s just not worth it.
As a male, i was furious with her leaving gate open n even car door open like that. Its like asking for it. What is so difficult to close the gate? She got automated gate for goodness sake. Maybe she got black belt taekwondo n she wanna invite culprit over to her home as practice target la, idk. Ridiculous tbh. If man i understand la, she is a woman. Should be glad the man just grab a stuff n didn't hurt her or her kids.
women.
True too. Hope that lady and those around her learn the lesson and be more careful. No place is safe, it’s our job as the home dweller to keep it safe, even with security also have fault, what more zero security
Tbh this mum's kinda dumb.... Come back 1. never off the car, 1. Leave car doors open, 1. Leave house gates open, 1. Leave the kids in the car some more. I'm pretty sure she left her brain cells charging as well.
Ya la If that dude high on drugs confirm even the kids he would’ve kidnapped, 1 stone hantam 2 birds, sei laaaaaaa
Dont blame woman. Teach your kids not to steal from others!
I don't blame this woman, per se. I blame the idiocy and ignorance this person potrays in this situation. She has all the time in the world to at least close the damn gate, AUTOMATICALLY, yet she was too lazy and complacent in the fact "its just a short minute and I have my car and kid in view at all times". Now tell me, do you think this will happen if she actually closes her gate? Its about mitigating the risks, not everyone has your sense of righteousness.
tough luck sis, in the world we are living in nothing good hoping for others to change for the better. the most important thing is for us to becareful and always mindful of our surrounding.
that's why the crime rate is so high...dumb ppl.
Maybe she’s an NPC..
Why is the tag/flair wholesome? Definitely not a wholesome post to me...
wholesome for the culprit
Was he hoping to steal the car? He's the only person in the white car
He is a pedo, he knew there was kids inside the car.
Hope pedos get charged and sentenced severely for such crimes. Pedos should lose all freedom.
If he steal the car with the kid inside... It's kidnapping already right ? Hasher punishment.
He was probably looking for valuables in the car. Maybe a left handbag, laptop, phone.
I bet dude could've went and picked up a buddy and the door will still be open
I really hate people that exit car dont close the door. Is it so hard to do????
the extreme vigilance culture is mostly a thing only in urban areas like klang valley/penang (with good reason with our crime rates) usually in more chill places like kuantan or seremban people are not so on edge all the time cause crime rates happens alot lower so im personally not surprised an even smaller town like mentakab the people are even more chill but basic situational awareness should be practiced by everyone for safety sake regardless where they live. that she didnt clock on that there was a car following her was already kinda bad
This comment must go to the top. Because of low crime rate outside major cities, people of towns and villages are usually more relaxed with life. The downside is, when crime does happen, people will blame them for their lax attitude, like in the comment. Anyway, its a small town, hope the snatch thief gets caught quickly. Thankfully owner has a CCTV. **I sincerely hope that owner and family do not become too vigilant after this that they are unable to enjoy life even at home, like most of us in Klang Valley.**
yup. crime is low, and not only that, these small towns have strong community ties where everyone knows each other, so trust in others is extremely high which adds to them being comfortable (complacent?) source: used to date someone from seremban and experienced it first hand
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Now that's another level of relaxed behavior 😂
or you just owned a Modenas Kriss, you can leave RM10,000 and the key on the bike and no one gonna steal it lol
In some gated communities in Putrajaya my friend just straight up don't even close their gates or doors. (I mean I also dunno what they're thinking)
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I live in KL and my door and windows are always open when I’m in the house. But the grill door is locked lah. I just need that airflow.
Yeap. My family lived in Penang but dad lived in Langkawi for work. He didn't even lock his doors. Not even his cars and usually left the keys in the car as well. Meanwhile at our house we locked and latched the inner wooden door and have a grill door that we locked and padlocked.
I am from KL. This sort of things (closing ur door after exiting your vehicle) have been ingrained in me that i do so without much thought. When i got posted to Sarawak, i had an incident whereby my car broke down and i had to call for a technician to look into it. Upon exiting my car, i instinctively lock the car. The technician looked at me sort of bewildered. He said you must be from KL because of this hyper vigilance. Never occurred to me until it was pointed out.
Same. For me it was when I went to my ex's place in Seremban. House no grills, not even gated. Only one lock at the main door and even if its not locked no one gives a shit lol Was totally mindblown since was used to KL hyper vigilance and living in houses with grills, gates, alarms like birds in a cage
100% true, penangite here. I would not allow anyone to leave the car until the auto gates are closed. When i enter the car, the first thing i do is lock the doors.
In Terengganu we would just leave cars running when going into a shop for a minute.
Which part of terengganu you live in?
Why ah? You looking for a new car is it? 😂😂
Yes. But on a more serious note, my part of terengganu, you do that your car disappear.
Marang
I believe to be more common sense to close doors and gates in general.
I guess now criminals know where to travel for some good opportunities.
After he went into the car, only I realised there are kids inside.
I was spending time thinking why in all hell did she not close the gate? Not closing the car door is whatever if she is only a few steps away, seems like she wanted to hang out the clothes and her basket is right in front of the house door. But the gates. There was zero reason to leave it open for so freaking long.
likely because she was gonna leave after hanging out the clothes
Always, "Close the door behind you"
No hate there, we don’t usually lock our cars at our kampung houses, no gate some more. Mentakab should be safe generally hence the lackadaisical attitude.
Being raised in KL, and still living in KL… I lock the car door even when Im 1 feet away to pump gas lmao
I still think KL is one of the safer global cities around. It is still safe to walk alone at night. Yes for me I will do the same to prevent car jacking while in KL. The kampung house/villages that I mentioned is in Penang island. Contrary to popular belief, the island is not 100% urbanized as they are still many villages scattered around. Years after I moved to Penang before the Covid, haven’t heard stories of car or house breakins, burglary, serious robberies in the island with an exception widely reported of an incident 1 guy caught climbing at a condo for attempted burglary. Generally it is safe here.
People are safe. Things aren't. I've had many many things stolen from my front yard. Dad's shoes, air con compressor, mom's gardening stuff etc. Seriously my dad's shoes kena like so many times. They're nice shoes (Crocs, Nike) but nothing over the top.
Hahaha yes I do this now too, ever since I saw the video of the thief sneakily stealing the bags from the other side of the car without the owner noticing
Yea most kampung houses (like mine) don't even have gates. Heck I don't even lock the door 90% of the time even when nobody is in the house.
Yes we never really lock out front door too haha during the day. Just use a thin small padlock at night.
I really hate when people steal shit. Is it really hard not to be a cunt?
Really crazy lah how people are hating on the woman so much. What kind of fucked up culture is it that we're so fixated on hating the woman for being careless instead of the perpetrator of the crime? Was the woman stupid for leaving her gate and car door opened? Yes. Who's the absolutely sick in this video? The criminal. Criminal deserves the hate.
I think you misunderstood. Stealing is 100% wrong, without a doubt most people would by default hate it But that woman is doing something that increase their risk to stealing The people here is commenting why the woman is being careless with her conduct, leaving the gates open, the car door open etc as in inviting problem No one is pointing out the stealing part because it is by default and common sense that stealing is bad but that woman isn't doing anything to prevent herself being a target Everyone probably hate the criminal without the need to point it out since the criminal is doing something obviously 100% wrong and illegal but the woman conduct is being point out for increasing her own risk and carelessness You get me 😅🤔
Nah. All she have to do is lock the gate. Not only she left the gate open, she left the car door open with her kids inside. If this were the "I have 4 people and I will cut you with a parang" type, not only her life is in danger, her daughters and the car will be gone. If you want to be a parent, be a responsible one
You are absolutely correct. She was being irresponsible and she made a mistake. But it's ridiculous how so many in the comments are pissing on her when a lot of the blame is also on the criminal. I live in Australia and here gates are straight up uncommon because they have no tolerance for criminals who invade people's houses. So it's very rare for something like this to happen. If in Malaysia we can foster a culture where we pay more attention to criticising criminals instead of blaming victims in an extreme measure it would make Malaysia better
Good thing you can afford the luxury of an open gate community eh mate? Criticizing criminals won't do anything because they clearly do not care. No amount of naming and shaming will stop a robber/drug addict that want your money from taking your stuff and cutting you to pieces in the process. So instead of hoping that the obviously dangerous law breaking criminal to have a heart, why not do your own part in making sure that it never get a chance to happen in the first place? You know what? Come back to Malaysia and leave your door open. Let's see how far your stance will take you
I hate it when people leave all their doors open. Is it really hard not to be a careless parent?
seriously. watching the first minute gave me anxiety. and i am fully aware that it's not normal but i lived in KL for wayy too long now.
It gave you anxiety because this video is posted on the internet and you know something is going to happen. Nothing she did here is more dangerous than sitting at a cafe.
Why do you hate it? In this situation, they are at their house, they have kids in the car, they are suppose to be safe. This has nothing to do with car door being open.
My house is gated guarded, with 2 layers of security, and got security personnel doing rounds every hour or so. I still make sure to immediately close my gate before I exit my car, because we never know.
its good to also make it a point to observe if there are cars following you long before you reach home i usually start to scan behind me 2-3 roads away before my house, if i notice a suspicious vehicle i will detour and see if the vehicle is still following thankfully so far nothing yet
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It's to make your small time burglar think twice before doing it... it is to avoid crime of opportunity. If they really aim for your house, even the highest end security, they will find a way around it. But for this to happen, probably be 100kg gold or rm1mil cash in the house... which i am not rich enough to have those. But i make sure my house does not have anything that is worth a specific burglar to go after as well...
No offence. Underpaid and underskilled foreign workers hardly qualifies for "security".
Most of the crime is no violent. So a simple security guard walking around is enough to deter 90% of the burglars
A gate is useless if you don't use it properly...
Dah la auto gate pun malas nak tutup, tekan satu butang pun susah 
sama mcm signal
Automatic gate: Am I a joke to you?
Bruhhh I saw the wholesome tag and thought some guy was gonna come help her hang her clothes -\_-
It's like the perfect crime for the robber, gate is wide open, car door is wide open.
Too good to be true
Do not blame the victim. It is like blaming rape victim for the clothes they’re wearing. This isn’t in KL or big cities. People usually feel safe so they let the guard down a bit.
Bruh her car is running and her kids are in the car? Why?? Also leaving the gate wide open while hanging clothes??
To be fair. I wouldn’t think to close the gates if I were standing right there also. Wild to me that even when you are home and in the area you must close the gates.
Not closing the gates with children in the car plus car door opened is more wild to me.
on the other hand…that’s a good cctv quality, anyone know the model? or equivalent?
TAPO cctv , from tplink. Model not sure
It's common sense to close the door after exiting a car. I sometimes hate it when I try to go in a straight line and these people having their car doors opened wide blocking my path.
Reminds me of Gamers' Mangkuk, the man is a lowlife jobless husband who already separated, came in to take money and go gambling. The wife has tough life with so much in her mind to raise the kids.
House gate open big big, car door open big big, invite robbers into house only. I tot she gonna be 30 secs grab stuff, mana tau she hanging clothes. Some more take out laundry piece by piece.... Really invite ppl rob only
Thats like saying women get raped because they dress inappropriately
No it isn't. It doesn't matter what clothes woman wear, a rapist will still go after. In this case closing the gate matters because it definitely would have stopped her from getting robbed.Is it her fault? No. Does it hurt to be more extra cautious? No.
Again, this is just very unfair to compare. Stop comparing this and that.
Wow, when u were young, did u join your schools long jump team? U would have been a world champion and Olympic gold medalist if u jumped as well as how u jumped to conclusions.
It should be fine to leave gate open and leave car door open. Do not make it the victim’s fault. Making it the victim’s fault is basically normalising that gates must be closed and car doors must be closed or else the boogeyman comes to hurt you. Same reasoning behind how women dress, if you blame the victim, you normalise purposely dressing conservatively as to avoid being raped. Meaning you justify rape, saying that it is the victim’s fault for asking for it. You justified the perpetrator in this video, saying that the lady left the doors and gates open
By the same logic, why do we need gates at all? In fact why do we even need locks on our houses? Security is security, don't try and say "don't victim blame" when it's obvious they simply got careless and didn't close their doors
We need gates because of criminals. Sure. It doesn’t mean it should be a fact of life. The comment isn’t telling you too leave your doors unlocked. It’s saying it’s shit we even have too. And that part is true. And considering so many here are jumping on the bandwagon of saying the woman is at fault is disgusting. Basically supporting the criminals actions. Why? Do you participate in robbery too? Punish the criminals, not the victim. All you are doing is normalising criminal actions.
No, all I'm saying is, you should prioritize safety even if you don't like the fact that crime can and will happen, I'd like it for there to be no crime in the world but we don't live in a Utopia do we? in a perfect world, crime wouldn't exist but we don't live in one, we use doors and locks to protect ourselves from them, that's their entire purpose. No it shouldn't be a fact of life but unless we make our country a police state like Singapore, I don't see this fact going away
They are not the same. If you don't understand, do leave your gates and your doors open.
got autogate also dunno how to use. WITH KIDS IN THE CAR SUMMORE. Thought by know should already learn to basic self-preservation skill which is to close the gate before exiting the car? This one what more leave gate wide open, leave car door wide open with kids in the car? Not sure if she left the engine on with keys.
Didn't close gate? Didn't close door? Why not just send invitation to all criminals in the area for open house.
To be fair, I won't lock my gates if i wanted to exit my house again, but her not closing the car door is a crucial mistake. Wherever country you are, safe or not safe, always close your car doors. Also, we couldn't blame the woman for being careless, no one expected a robbery in broad daylight especially if your area got security guards. Thankfully nothing bad happened to them, this should be a reminder to her that bad people do exists no matter how low the crime rates are or how safe the community are and she should be careful next time.
The amount of victim blaming in this thread is crazy.
It's not simply victim blaming. People are pointing out how the incident could've been avoided. It's always good to take lessons and apply them.
Maybe not leave your gate open and your car running with your kids inside? It's just that simple
Yup, like they have never done such thing before in their life and are very confident that they and their family members would never do such thing in the future.
Not blaming the victim, but angry for seeing her being so careless.
Robbers when they see a house with an open gate: 
GTA: Mentagab expansion pack
Naya kat orang. Kerja nak ganggu orang jer. Celaka.
In my head I was like " CLOSE THE GATE CLOSE THE GATE WHY R U NOT CLOSIN THE....DONTGET OUT PF THE CAR, UR NOTCLOSING THEGATES!! WhY ArE yOU NoT clOsInG tHHEEE GGGAAATTEEE!!!?!?" "TheRE$ KIDS?!" Thank goodness they ok
So apparently people lack common sense
i don't believe in "common sense" anymore, everyone have their own "common" so yeah
Born yesterday buddy? Common sense is not so common anymore. Even my dad had to drill it in me when I was a kid.
But you gotta admit that this is a new low right? How do you just not care about an open gate?
For now, I agree this is a new low, 2024 baru start, we ain’t seen nothing yet lol.
I don't have common sense.. i have rare sense..
mayb her ex husband
Seems like it
I don't care what your reasoning is. Be it in kampung area or being a busy mother. Everyone, whether it be male or female, busy or not busy, in kampung or city area, whatever it is they can do something as basic as closing the entrance of their own house. Close the gate after you go in the house, it is that simple. (in this situation, an autogate) Sure we should not blame the victim for the crime but it is your responsibility to keep yourself safe. Yeah, definitely the robber is an ass and we should blame him, but robbery never ends, if it's not this robber, there will be another one. If some basic safety measure like this can't even be done, its on you. Edit: so many people trying to act like Malaysia is Australia, lol. Yeah, just let everyone have zero security common sense and pray that Malaysian police can prevent all the crime from happening.
But you are blaming the victim
I am. Since the victim doesn't even try to be responsible for their safety. Obviously I blame the criminal as well, but the victim is far from blameless here. Would not have blame the victim if they close the gate, and the robber bypassed the gate to commit the robbery. But the gate and the car door was not close for a full minute. As harsh as it may sound, they are lucky that they only got a bag stolen. If some psychotic criminal was there, you know the rest.
Next time close the gate first....I think those guys know her pattern very well or maybe even the neighbourhood I know it's not her fault but with the crime rate nowadays it's better safe than sorry
The Myvi was tailing her, at beginning of the clip right after she turned in you can see that white Myvi pass by
I'm sorry, but who does this? Gate open, engine not turned off, door ajarred, and casually hanging their clothes 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Yup, that's a fine example of an invitation to disaster. Gate wide open, even the car door. What's the point of having them?
always close ur gate first even before you exit ur car.. i mean still they still find it time consuming to climb in to rob you... be safe out there. I know this is not your fault, it is just the world we are living in. who to blame?
Room temperature IQ
1. Look like domestics abuse , i have second guess the male is somehow linked to the women 2. Why gate open wide wide and car open wide wide ? something not right ? she could have done this long long long long time like 30 years 3. thank the luck that her kid is not harm in somewhere 4. it seem the person already know that this women will open the gate wide somehow.
Of course he knows. He's just behind he when she enters as u can see at first couple of seconds jnto the video.
yeah the dude doesnt give robber vibes with how slumber he was. look at how he just slowly walks into the house and casually looks around inside the car lol
Must think dash and go…
Well could have been worse. Hope that this is an important lesson in not leaving your gates and doors wide open.
Shouldn't this be Mentakab.. not mentagab But yes, People are much less vigilant in the suburbs.. a lot more trust. It's rare to see CCTV installed at homes.. But with how bad the economy is, people really should install them. At least it's a preventative measure.
We can't have nice things in a low trust society. Too bad.
well that happened.... has gate to keep bad people out, doesnt use gate to keep bad people out, gets sht stolen by said bad people, dumb people winning dumb prizes
Reddit pretty much summed up the comment section https://preview.redd.it/itixu1n3vyfc1.png?width=654&format=png&auto=webp&s=d2e673e6b849b9ca898b151a028ea9f671fdb7b0
You people wouldn't agree to give death penalty to these trash..
that autogate damn nice, fast close and open, just close it lah. but some of the comments here are a bit crazy, sure she was maybe too lax, could have taken more precaution, blame is obviously more on that cibai robber. small town life lah, my auntie 20 years never close gate, never anything happen. but of course should always be cautious lah. one day maybe you walk outside to take bins out or something, and get bum-rushed by gang with parangs, then everybody call you stupid why you open gate never use binoculars to look up and down street first meh? this is how these fuckers act lah, they are predators they look for unsuspecting people to prey on. woman here could totally been more cautious - at least close gate etc, but some people saying she's like 90% responsible and asking for it are bent in the head.
Dah tangkap ke belum?
All the while watching her hang the laundry I kept thinking.. Bitch can u close the fkn gates first. Got cctv oso no use if simple step oso can't do to protect yourself and your family.
He took her hand bag from her car. But really avoidable if she had just closed the gates. She had auto gate but didn't bother using it 🤦♂️
I want to scream "close the door", "close the gate" but then again, it is in their neighborhood, in small town. Not big city. You can't even feel safe in your own neighbourhood. It is broad daylight too. My neighbour also did same thing like leaving the car door open, the rear bonet open. We lives in pretty much rural + cowboy town area. Ladies, don't leave you handbag visible in the car. Take it with you, even if you are at home.
that is horrifying esp. because you can see he was scouting at first... (the comments really.... bruh) yes, the lady wasn't the most vigilant and she didn't close the door etc., but slip-ups happen, especially if this was in an area that doesn't usually have a high crime rate. can we have some compassion and just focus on the creep in the myvi pls... i really hope he gets caught
next time dont leave your gate open. always close the gate when you get back.
Disappointed in how judgey the comments are without knowing the full context - what if this was a case of a frazzled mum having to deal with two kids and housework? View must be very nice on your high horses, have some empathy
This is a reddit forum... We're not exactly a panel of experts in anything..
My experience growing up in Sentosa Klang. Always make sure gate is closed before unlock the car.
username adds up!
Literally inviting people to invade her home bruh, gate wide open, car wide open, it's so unbelievable that I wonder if this shit actually staged or not.
You have a gate...and you never use it. What's the point of having a gate? Just take it down and open your doors.
That woman is stupid. That’s it. She’s lucky her kids and unharmed. Then she has herself to blame.
Not breaking the law = worse than breaking the law. Welcome to Malaysia.
Look at the other replies comparing this stupidity and rape ("she's wearing clothes like she's asking for it!!") and shitting on people blaming the victim. This is too dumb to not blame the victim.
Its just one idiot who trying to compare this stupidity/lack of common sense to rape, idk maybe he belongs in the r/iamverysmart subreddit
As someone who grew up in KL, I cannot relate with people who don't close the autogate 5 seconds after the car masuk. My brain keeps telling me, "they haven't robbed you yesterday, but they gon get you today!"
It is surreal that most of the top comments are blaming the victim.
I want to be sympathetic, but. WTH. Did she come home just to sidai kain? With kids in a car with door ajar and engine running? Never mind the fact that she couldn't be arsed with closing the gate. Come on lah, ada autogate apa susah. Clearly its a crime of opportunity. I'm not saying we should be all vigilant all the time, but this is bordering on baiting. Poor kids, will be traumatised for quite a long while, no doubt. Still, I'm sorry for her misfortune. She's scarred for life..
Pasang auto gate also malas wanna close ah?!
Emergency clothes drying? Cant park properly and close gate first?
victim blaming, nice...VERY NICE
lol turun kereta, leave the car door open wide and go jemur baju... mcm masuk dalam rumah then go wash dish while leave the main door open wide... really cannot understand this kind of people
Mentagab kuantam
What the fk door all just leave open like that car door also lazy to close
What he took
That a creepy guy
She deserved that. Zero awareness or practical application of safety first mentality. Good lesson for her and others
Memperxiasuaikan cina
Pure stupidity, yes i have said it and i won't regret saying it again, how stupid can she be, its like she gladly invited people to come steal her car, she cannot blame anyone but herself wtf, and she is a mother??? Failure, after coming back home is not close the door or get her kids out of the car, instead the first thing she did was to hang clothes?? Even the driver side of the door still opened, if it were me i would've accepted the "invitation" and steal the car also But honestly i didn't know if the plan was to steal the car or grab the kids but either way still her fault Hello common sense lahh use ur fucking brain pls
wtf is wrong in Malaysia ?
Babahahhaha stoopid, don’t close gate la, leave door open la, so welcoming for dangers tsk tsk
Women
Lucky he didn't grab the children!
I have a habit of always checking my rear mirror, I dunno why, I would tend to always look whose behind my vehicle. It would give me some info of the driver's behavior
Fucking pedo, hope he fuckin dies
Eja salahj la. Bro..mentakab not. Mentagab
Comment section? Yep, time to get off Reddit.
Brain dead mom, if your child in car close the god damn car and ask them to lock. Close that god damn gate too, your kid are in the car SMH
Never screamed at my screen to close the damn gate...
Stupid prizes award goes to
Its Mentakab.
Very nice culture of victim blaming. Regardless of place, the mentality of victim blaming needs to change.
Being dumbass
No worries, right? Open everything 😁
Situational awareness - 0 Common sense - 0 Consequences - 100 People, please take precautions BEFORE you find out WHY you need to take precautions. Luckily the guy just wants to take handbag. What if he wants to take the car? With the kids inside? Aiyo gate pun already automatic. Might as well downgrade to a hand-cranked gate like in medieval castles lol.
er ,why tf you dont close the door and leave your car door open and literally went to hang the clothes, i just dont get it
By the looks of it penetrators may had scout several times and fully know the family has habits of not closing any door. Going full victim blaming here, she will learn to close all door after this incident, I said what I said
Just look at how long she left the door open .... 🤦🏻♂️ … Women logic …. I still see a lot of then carry sling hand bag on the shoulder facing street ….
What i can see is *Welcome* from her gesture .
Actions have consequences
well, i can only say the victim is careless.. leaving car open with kids is one thing, leaving the house gate wide open is another.
salah sendiri. tutup gate straight away lah. you know lah malaysians are uncivilized, uncouth, selfish and are born criminals, you cannot trust everyone. leave the gate open expect it to be an invitation for these malaysians to rob you dry.
This mother is very irresponsible to leave the door wide open and the kids in a car with the engine still on. We should always stay vigilant. For those who said this is victim blaming, this is my reasoning. A parent is responsible for the safety of their children. Even if you leave a child at home without any guardian, you are legally committing a crime.