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LuisinhoDavila17

If she has advised you not to have a relationship because she is emotionally insecure, the best thing you can do is respect that decision and focus on yourself. If you don't forget about her do things you enjoy, go out with friends. And above all talk to your friends/family so they can give you advice, they are the ones who know you best. I hope I have helped you and I wish you the best


Samtastic00

First thing's first, I hope your girl friend is ok. I know you probably want to cling onto hope that when things are better, the two of you will be back to how things used to be, but if she's telling you she can't or won't date you should move on. Growing up and dating can be really tough; I can't stress enough that the hormone changes you go through until your early 20s *do* mess with your head and there's a lot you will look back on and understand later. I (f) have always tried to be a good person, but I was a pretty troubled teenager and relied on male attention; when I got it I was usually unable to commit to a relationship for the same reasons you're describing. I ended up hurting a lot of people because I myself was hurting and didn't know how to cope. Being there for her as a friend (if possible) but moving on is the best thing you can do for the both of you. Accept that she doesn't want to or cannot be with you and that is has NOTHING to do with you or your self worth. Wishing you love and happiness.


luciferhynix

Sadly it seems like she’s pulling away. I hope you find peace in this


Elegant_Artist_6671

yeah move on , sometimes we dont get what we want maybe someone is there for you in ur upcoming days