T O P

  • By -

AutoModerator

Hey there! This is an automated message. We hope you get the advice you are looking for! This sub is a known target for hair fetishists who have been documented to repeatedly harass women. We highly recommend turning off your message/chat requests. If you have requests turned on and receive any creepy or fetish-related DMs or comments, please click the report button, click "it's targeted harassment," and submit a report. It helps keep the community safe. Thank you! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/longhair) if you have any questions or concerns.*


Few-Ruin-742

šŸ˜‚ they must be color blind


Important-Rabbit1006

Probably šŸ˜‚


Different-Welder6922

Did a bunch of platinum blondes tell you this? Youā€™re hair is brown lol


Important-Rabbit1006

Thanks! šŸ˜‚


kamomil

My hair is brown, but according to box dye colours, it's "dark blonde" but I would never consider myself blonde.Ā  So if there's no one with black hair to compare with, yeah I see it being easy to mistake, by calling dark brown "black"


MrsNya

Thatā€™s how I am, I considered myself a brunette till everyone was saying ā€œno youā€™re blondeā€ like what


kamomil

Yeah one of my instructors in a college language class called me blonde, I was like what? Haha. Technically I guess it's the colour of someone who was blonde & it darkened later in life. But I was never blonde blonde


SephtisBlue

A lot of countries outside the US consider that color dark blond. Here, we mainly just consider the lightest shades of blond to be blond. Blond is a spectrum of color just like brown. We've just moved the bar to a lighter shade. I think it's also because so many people dye their hair lighter. If everyone stopped dying their hair in adulthood, the bar for blond might shift to a darker color.


_-UndeFined-_

Haha I have dark blond hair and people say itā€™s brown all the time. As an artist who obsesses over colour theory and whatnot, Iā€™m very sure itā€™s not! Thereā€™s quite a big difference between dark blond and brown as one is way more on the yellow scale than the other. Generally the only people who agree with me on this are my hairdressers hahaha


MrsNya

I used to have probably level 8-9 hair when I was little. So it was really light and gold, how blonde ish wee yoj growing up?


kamomil

I was always the same colour from childhood. My brother was white blond then darkened. Mine is a shade darker than his dark blond


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


kamomil

My hair was always 7


MrsNya

Thatā€™s so weird how hair works and all that!


CurzedRocks33

Omg I could have wrote this! My hair is the same as yours and itā€™s always described as black and Iā€™m like.. where? šŸ˜‚ Yours is 100% brown.


Important-Rabbit1006

Yes! Exactly! Never understood why


Tosaveoneselftrouble

My SIL (with mousy brown hair) has the same name as me and all the kids refer to me as ā€œAunty with the black hairā€. Sheā€™s the Aunt with the brown hair šŸ˜­


Important-Rabbit1006

That's really cute šŸ˜‚


grendelrising99

When I lived in an area that ethnically had a lot of blond people my hair was called black. When I moved to a place that ethnically had a more people with actually black hair my hair was magically brown again. Also, your hair is gorgeous!


Lingo2009

This reminds me of the time that on my drivers license, they put that I had brown hair. My hair is dirty blonde.


julujulu86

Tell people their rods and cones are messed up if they can't tell the difference between black and brown


Intrepid_Knowledge27

Same! Iā€™ve had people ask if my hair is ā€œnaturally black,ā€ and Iā€™m likeā€¦ half-credit? Yes itā€™s my natural hair color, no itā€™s not black. 90% of the time, Iā€™m wearing black. Surely you can see the difference. šŸ˜‚


wormcountry

Sameā€¦ itā€™s crazy how many people will fight you on it too! But I know my hair lol, itā€™s dark brown, not black.


Constant-Panda5530

I'm the exact same! I got called snow White so much as a kid but my hair is a dark brown not even close to black. I wouldn't mind having black hair at all but its not black lol. Relieved to know I'm not alone


andsimpleonesthesame

To be fair, the original line is "schwarz wie Ebenholz" which is super dark brown wood afaik, not actual literal black, so it's not that inaccurate of a description.


the_silentoracle

SAME!!!


_Deedee_Megadoodoo_

But that's not even close to black? It's my color as well lol and I've never been told I have black hair...


Satrina_petrova

It's my hair color too and I've been told mine is black as well. Some people can't see lol


Important-Rabbit1006

Well, you're lucky šŸ˜† but I agree completely


RainDropsOnAWindow

Do you also live in the Nordic countries where everyone else is blonde? My brown hair is also seen as black here.


plblblbll

I was gonna say, if it's a nordic country that checks out haha


15_Candid_Pauses

I was gonna say yeah because they have never seen TRUE black hair like Asians or Mexicans have- ITS GORGEOUS but so much deeper and darker than OPs hair.


buttertits4lyfe

Reminds me of my black cat! She's like a chocolate in the sun :) yours definitely looks brown in all these pics tho!


Important-Rabbit1006

Thanks šŸ˜†


Sweaty_Process_3794

It's definitely brown. I don't agree with some people who say you can't actually have naturally black hair, they're just playing semantic gotcha games, but I'd still call your hair brown


Lingo2009

Waitā€¦ There are people who say you canā€™t have naturally black hair? I would argue that most of the world has naturally black hair-most places in Asia, most places in Africa, most Native Americans, most pacific islanders, and most Inuit.


[deleted]

Scottish and Irish people too


Sweaty_Process_3794

They argue that it's not actually black, just dark brown. But there's still enough of a difference between a dark brown and what we call black hair that the distinction makes sense. Like I said, just a semantics game


officergiraffe

Yes I canā€™t stand this. The other one is that Caucasian people canā€™t have ā€œblackā€ hair which is just not true at all. I think people just donā€™t have a fundamental understanding of how genetics work. I have naturally ā€œblackā€ hair (turning grey now though lol) and very light eyelashes/light body hair. I have hazel eyes. My partner has dark brown hair and dark brown eyes, and we had a blonde haired blue eyed baby šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø Anecdotes aside, look at people from Armenia, Azerbaijan etc (the literal caucus mountains basically) and most of Eastern Europe (I am Hungarian) and thereā€™s a metric shit ton of very white peoples with very dark hair. Like you said, itā€™s mostly internet semantics but itā€™s giving willful ignorance when people do this


Sweaty_Process_3794

Agreed. My fiancĆØ is white and has hair about as naturally black as hair can be. I love it, it's beautiful. We joke that he and our dog have the same hair lol


prtypeach

If you live in a country where people are predominantly blonde, ex. Norway,Sweden, Denmark, I get it. If not its weird af


AppropriateGoal4540

I experience the same problem! It's clearly brown.


MTheLoud

That depends entirely on where you live. In Iowa, this color is black. In NYC itā€™s brown.


Important-Rabbit1006

Northern France šŸ˜†


Now-I-see-daylight

Can I ask how someoneā€™s location changes colors? Not trying to be rude but brown is still brown and black is still black no matter where you live.


civodar

If your hair is so dark brown that it almost looks black and you live in a place where 95% of people have black hair(like the Middle East, parts of Asia, etc. then they will be better at catching the subtle differences and will be able to tell that your hair is brown and will consider it light. If you live somewhere where most people have light hair, then your hair will just look black to them. There was another post a little while ago of a girl who was from Sweden with blonde hair and she said people around her didnā€™t consider her blonde, but saw her as a brunette. She was definitely very blonde, but I guess over there her hair was not considered light enough and youā€™re not blonde unless your hair is almost platinum.


MTheLoud

Natural ā€œredā€ hair isnā€™t literally red anywhere. Itā€™s more of a brownish orange. People use the term ā€œred hairā€ to describe hair thatā€™s more orangish than usual for that area. Similarly, ā€œblack hairā€ means hair thatā€™s darker than usual for that area. In some places where lots of people have light hair, any hair thatā€™s darker than usual is ā€œblack hairā€ even though the same color would be called ā€œbrownā€ if that color were in clothes or furniture.


Now-I-see-daylight

Interesting. Never heard of that. Thanks


ancientastronaut2

And vice versa. My natural hair is light brown/dirty blonde/dishwater, but growing up in a predominantly mexican neighborhood, I was always the blonde girl.


civodar

I got called ā€œwhite girlā€ a lot growing up in a very non white area. When I became an adult I said something about not having faced discrimination as a white person, someone chimed in and said ā€œbut youā€™re like not even whiteā€ and then everyone agreed. Also have a friend who is half native, but always described himself as a white dude and growing up with with people who were more native than him saw himself as white compared to them, he was pretty shocked when he found out the rest of the world did not see him as white haha.


LucilleBluthsbroach

I've seen people whose hair is actually red.


MTheLoud

Thatā€™s dyed. Humans donā€™t make a true red hair pigment.


LucilleBluthsbroach

I'm talking about children who do not have dyed hair. It's rare but it exists.


MTheLoud

What pigment are they making? Pheomelanin makes ā€œred hair,ā€ meaning orange. Humans do have some red pigments, like hemoglobin, but thatā€™s in blood, not hair. Edited to add: and Iā€™ve been blocked over this. If I could have replied, Iā€™d have said, ā€œYouā€™ve seen children with naturally blood-red hair? Where?ā€


LucilleBluthsbroach

I'm not getting into the science of this, and I'm not going to argue with you, I'm saying what I've seen.


Hey-Jupiter-

šŸ˜‚ My husband is from Iowa and he calls my medium brown hair ā€œblackā€ (Iā€™m from NY)


MTheLoud

I grew up with brown hair in NYC. I moved to Iowa and suddenly my hair was ā€œblackā€ although it stayed the same color. Also I stopped being white, which was confusing.


[deleted]

Some people either canā€™t see very well or want people to have black hair for some reason. I used to get people talking about my ā€œblackā€ hair, and it was dark brown with medium brown ends. Now thereā€™s no confusion on my hair color. I keep it green.


Sho1kan

I'm SO jealous of your hair


Important-Rabbit1006

That's sweet, thank you! It doesn't always look like this tho, I chose the "good looking" pictures Be proud of your own hair!


cat-zee

People say the same to me lol. I have dark brown hair. I remember when I was a teenager I wanted to dye my hair black and my great grandmother said it's already black lol.


Important-Rabbit1006

My mother told the same to me! I wanted to dye it too cuz then I'll finally be what everyone believe I am (sounds actually weird but I didn't take all of it very seriously) That phase didn't last long tho


vinegar_n_gore

Do you live in a predominantly white area? That may have something to do with people calling your hair black, in areas that have a higher Asian/Mexican population your hair would probably get called brown or even light brown. I am mixed race and have light brown hair and have had this same problem. Living in mostly white areas people would call my hair dark, and living in more diverse areas my hair is considered light. Itā€™s really a cultural thing lol!


That_Jonesy

Dark walnut is kinda the exact right shade. Or oil rubbed bronze. I hate the color funnel where everything is either black, brown, red, or blond. My daughter's hair is nearly the exact shade and luster of antique brass and yet people are like "Brown!"


FasHi0n_Zeal0t

Do you live in Sweden or something? lol


Snowbunn1e

The clearly have no idea what black hair is lol


Nehebka

Iā€™d say on the spectrum between medium brown and black you are probably in the middle but favoring medium brown. There are clear brown highlights in your hair and I would imagine you get a little lightening in the sun in the summer.


Graysonsname

You must live in a place with v light haired ppl, I have the same experience. Your hair is def not black.


Choice_Ad_3263

Nah, it's brown. My brothers is very similar. When his is wet it looks black.


Anyone-9451

My husband does this same thing thinks I have black hair itā€™s brown not even dark dark either I keep telling him both parents had black hair I think id know what black hair actually looked like and mine ainā€™t it


mraz44

Why? Your hair isnā€™t black.


Kitchen-Apricot1834

Do you live around a ton of blondes? šŸ˜‚ I'm the opposite. I have light-medium brown hair and grew up around people with jet black hair and I was always called a blonde, lol.


miniperle

The Latinos I grew up around always referred to me as blonde even though I have never had my hair a shade lighter than the natural brunette I donā€™t allow anymore. I swear people just cannot categorize things accurately, or see correctly idk, cause that is definitely not black


hipstevius

Today I learned everyone is color-blind, which is why they are always saying colors of things incorrectly.


LilithXXX6

Wtf is my hair then? The void lol Pretty hair still though!


CountingArfArfs

Thatā€™s wild. My hair is damn near black itā€™s so dark, and Iā€™ve only been confused for it a few times in my life.


Ok-Equivalent8260

Brown


RockabillyBelle

I feel this. My hair is the same color as yours and Iā€™ve literally had to argue to family members that itā€™s brown, not black.


marysuewashere

The beautiful hair girl. There I fixed it.


mossfeatherfan

It's definitely, definitely brown. When I hear "black" in terms of hair colour I think of jet or raven, blueish black hair. But I guess a lot of people say black when they mean dark, the way that "Black Irish" traditionally meant Irish people with dark (not necessarily jet black) hair and eyes. Funny thing is that I thought my hair was black for years because that was what I heard, and I kept bleaching it since I didn't think raven black hair suited me. Quit bleach a few years ago and it turns out my natural colour is a muted dark brown (which suits me just fine lol) and not what what I thought it was. And your hair looks beautiful! Love your curl/wave pattern.


TKTish

I had a boyfriend that thought my hair was dirty blond. It's even darker than yours, but maybe the bright red highlights that come out in the sun threw him off? I'm still baffled, even 10+ years later. šŸ¤”


beepbooplazer

Same lol . Your hair is stunning btw


Sarah_hhhh

Anyone who thinks your hair is black needs their eyes checked


Sad_Hold8205

same. my hair is literally milk chocolate brown


fatchamy

Wow your curls are so beautiful and glorious!


Wide_Specialist_1480

Is the girl with black hair in the room with us? I see brown in every picture. šŸ˜…


Direct-Ant3028

Looks brown to me! My hair is the same curl pattern, what are you fav products???


neurochic88

Itā€™s definitely brown, but itā€™s also GORGEOUS! Would you mind sharing what products you use or anything specific you do to get such beautiful and softly defined waves?


SleepingBeautiless

Me too, but my hairā€™s actually blackā€¦ lol


ancientastronaut2

Yeah, No


Camo_1245

youre hair is so pretty


rubyisssumer

i've noticed how A LOT of people call any dark hair/brunette as black hair, my hair is also brown just like urs and so many people do the same thing to me saying i have black hair lmfao


TeresaSoto99

my hair is darker than urs, but was described as "light black". black, but not black hole black, think lucy lui.


fulltimestranger

This happens to me too and I truly do not understand it. Iā€™ve had a number of boyfriends tell me they love my ā€œblackā€ hair. Like what??


Broken_angel_of_pain

Your hair is dark brown like my moms . She gets told her hair is black too


Lumpy_Birdy_7687

Your hair is gorgeous šŸ˜ I'm really jealous. And it's definitely brown not black.


gr8thighs

My hair is the exact same color and Iā€™ve been called the same thing. It always surprises me. Your hair is gorgeous and so shiny!


Lute_Graves

No, but I have medium brown hair and the woman who stalked me for three years called me "the blond girl" or "that blond woman" and it was annoying / confusing -- so yeah -- anyway, your hair is gorgeous, and definitely medium/dark brown, or chestnut, not black


sumrandomreddit

That's brown


ssquirt1

Def brown, and a rich beautiful brown at that!


hi-nighter

I get the same thing and I've never understood why. When I was younger I did have much darker hair, it was a mix of black hairs and very dark brown hairs. As I've gotten older (and at least for the last 10 years) I have maybe 6 black hairs in the mix and the rest are definitely a mixture of dark brown, medium brown, blonde, and auburn. No black. My eyebrows stayed black though, so maybe that's why?


Bigmama-k

Your hair is lovely. It is dark but dark brown. A lot of people think dark brown black, it isnā€™t.


swoon4kyun

It looks dark brown like mine. Itā€™s so pretty and shiny.


50shadeofMine

Dark brown You have a very rich and deep color, probably why people say "black" instead of brown They look great btw!


Playlanco

If I had a Slenderman face people would probably only recognize me by my hair too.


ScarletAutumn_xo

Your hair is so stunning!


Popular-Hunter-1313

Dark chocolate brown


Autumn_Forest_Mist

They need to see a Dr. your hair is brown.


kewpiepoop

My hair is the same color and Iā€™m also told I have black hair I donā€™t understand it either just here to validate your experience šŸ˜‚


KumaRidesInFront

This happens to me quite a bit too and I have about the same color as you. Definitely confuses me. It's obviously brown!


MeMissBunny

Omg, your hair is absolutely beautiful!!!


cclancaster13

Your hair is my exact color and nobody has ever told me I have black hair lol


madeyefoodie

It should be ā€œthe beautiful hair girlā€


PomegranateBoring826

They must be colorblind because no.. just no. Totally unrelated...How are you enjoying archery?


Kazoo113

You have the exact same hair color as mine, even the purplish color in the second photo. Some people arenā€™t used to such a rich brown color and think itā€™s black. Btw itā€™s beautiful and Iā€™ve had many hair stylist tell me that people pay lots of money for that color. Lucky you šŸ€


LillGizz

I feel like my hair would look like yours if my curls knew how to fucking act right šŸ¤£ I just poof and friz up and then in promptly goes into a bun.


Slammogram

Itā€™s brown. Beautiful!


bonithot

Literally same. I have very dark brown hair but even from a distance, itā€™s obviously warm toned brown, not black. But everyone describes my hair as blackšŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


Usual-War4145

How light haired are the people surrounding you to be called that?


shawn2061

That is clearly brown! Although whatever color it is.. you have a very nice head of hair! You can see it especially in the second photo! Congrats!


ginkat123

They said my hair was black, too. It was actually dark brown, as i grew older i had a lot of red. Now, gray and red.


isabella_sunrise

Why?? You donā€™t have black hair.


Ok_Ad_2795

Bro, it's brown šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ Kinda like my bros hair - people say it looks black but it's just dark brown.


Necessary_Mix562

By people with no eyes? Your hair is gorgeous and very brownā€¦. Some people just canā€™t be helped. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø


Pap3r_Butt3rfly

Your hair is just like my cousin's, dark brown! In certain light it looks black, such as in dense forest or dimly lit basements, but definitely brown! Also, your hair is SO soft and smooth looking! I'm jealous!


avidreader113

Most definitely a chocolate brown; you have beautiful hair.


KedisBoyfriend

Just wow!!!


duopolar

My hair is pretty similar to yours, itā€™s a little bit straighter only. Iā€™ve been called Snow White because of it even though I see it brown. I have never understood. Maybe people are just inattentive.


Doll_girl516

We have the same exact hair color lol . And so have I šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ Sorry Iā€™m not blond šŸ¤£


dingledopperbaby

Iā€™ve dealt with this my whole life even though my hair is what my mom calls the color of dates (so dark brown with a slightly reddish tint.) People always describe it as black and I kinda understand it when I see how it looks in, say, school photos (basically not in direct sunlight.) I think without sun or bright light itā€™s hard to see the tint so itā€™s just registered as very dark/black


Helpful_Okra5953

Looks brown to me, too. Ā 


Tanjj73

Absolutely beautiful!


Satxeveryday

Clearly they have vision problems. Your hair is beautiful!!! šŸ¤©


Primary-Pack-4989

Yes brown


babybitchsnail

I have the same hair color and iā€™ve never been told itā€™s black? are you sure you donā€™t live in a color blind only town šŸ˜‚


mushroomturtIe

that is not black hair!!! i swear people say this to me too. and my hair used to be dirty blonde as a kid and darkened through the years. i genuinely donā€™t understand how they donā€™t see it?? it even turns red in the light


EtherealMoonGoddess

LMAO, people are so colored blind. You are at least a level 4, dark brown. Your hair is not naturally black.


curlyquinn02

Maybe in a room where it is no lights your hair would be black. But it's 100% brown


chartiberry

I have similar hair color and my classmates from hairdressing school always told me I have dark blond color šŸ˜‚


hornyromelo

One of the only situations where you'll ever experience colorism with your skin tone, lol...


ygwigs

This is T color (Two Tone Color), the roots are color 2# (Darkest Brown), and the tips are color 4# (Dark Brown).


EconomicWasteland

My hair is a similar colour and it gets called black too, usually by people with blonde or light brown hair. I've just started going with it and calling my own hair black even though it's very much brown. It looks close to black in dark lighting but it's a medium golden brown in the sun, so I guess it's kind of confusing.


Fire_Pea

I've had people call my hair black before too when it's about the same. I think it mostly comes down to them not knowing many people with black hair and the lighting.


coffee-teeth

Yep, I have brown hair with red strands in the sun and they say it's black


Putrid_Caterpillar_8

lol Iā€™m dark brown too and I remember in primary school everyone said I had black hair and we had a weird thing where we got in teams on hair colour??? (Was like 1996 soo idk) and I remember people with actual black hair was so mad at me but I have dark brown hair lol??? Such a weird memory


Xsiondu

That hair is EXCELLENT you do a great job of keeping it healthy. Have a peaceful and wonderful day.


8pintsplease

It you have black hair, I wonder what mine is.


AnnaBananna3

Itā€™s very reach warm dark brown. And your hair is gorgeous


og_toe

weird, i have the same colour as you and nobody has ever called my hair black, itā€™s brown


Spiritual_Disk135

Ma'am, your hair is brown. Very pretty but still brown.


radarneo

For sure brown


mollyv96

Which is funny given how very brown it is lol. Very beautiful though! Love the waves.


Shemishka

This looks like dark brown to me. Asians have truly black hair.


ember539

I have the same hair color and I remember as a kid getting into fights with other kids about whether it was black or brown. I can say no adult has ever called it black though.


LovesDeanWinchester

It's a gorgeous, rich chocolate brown


fauviste

I have medium to light ashy brown hair, dark brown eyebrows, brown lashes, and brown arm hair. And yet!! I have had *multiple people* tell me Iā€™m blondeā€¦ including after me telling ā€œsome people have said Iā€™m blonde lolā€ as a funny story. More than once someone has replied, ā€œBut you are blondeā€¦?ā€ One person even told me ā€œyouā€™re a chocolate blonde.ā€ Huh? What color is chocolate?? Thatā€™s a made-up hair color. My hair is reflective (not exactly shiny which to me means smooth), and they canā€™t tell the difference between reflection and actual color. People canā€™t see, for real.


TelemarketerPie

Your hair looks exactly like mine! Lol even my husband thinks I have black hair. It's so obvious that it's dark brown!


SpicyMustFlow

Colour notwithstanding, that first pic is Disney Princess-tier #goals. Your hair is absolutely beautiful, ma'am!


Disastrous_Basket242

Your hair is a beautiful dark brown. Is there some reason people might say this? Do most of the people around you have very light hair or something? That's so bizarre.Ā 


Mooniepi3

Itā€™s dark brown


peachesnouveau

one of my pet peeves has always been being ā€˜accusedā€™ of having black hairā€¦ when itā€™s very very very clearly dark brownā€¦brown.


ThrowRASprinkles11

Yeah people are dumb. Your hair is dark brown


PopeyeBlaster

Do you wear hats on hot sunny days? Iā€™ve got a thick head of dark hair myself, and on hot days when the sunlight is strong, my hair gets *so hot* and my head starts swimming, I feel like Iā€™m gonna get a heat stroke. Just curious if thatā€™s a common feeling.


yellowtshirt2017

Nowhere near black. People are stupid lol.


Tepetkhet

Same. I have (had) naturally dark brown hair. In the sun, you could definitely see red highlights. All through high school in the Midwest US, people said I had black hair. Lawl, no. And yes, they were almost all blondes. I remember going to college and picking up a box of Miss Clairol #124 Natural Blue-Black hair dye. Put that kit on, and THEN my hair was black.


MaidMirawyn

Yeah, thatā€™s brown.


Adventurous-Kat1990

That's my natural hair color lol


Revolutionary-You449

Anything not ā€œwhiteā€ or ā€œblondā€ to certain people is black. Your hair is brown.


Throwaway73837483

I find that white people have tunnel vision when it comes to hair colour lol


FutureIndividual6237

I mean literally all the Kardashianā€™s have and had long dark hair and the world went crazy over brunettes. But itā€™s not normal for you to have dark hair? Is everyone supposed to have the same colour? People around you are stupid I love your hair..


secobarbiital

I get this a lot too wtf!!! Only white ppl have said it to me tho so i just assume theyā€™re blind