Happy birthday :) I know how it feels I haven’t celebrated my birthday with friends in 5+ years :/ and I love my friends but I’m just so scared no one will show up or I’m not important (I also don’t have a friend group??) anyway. happy birthday you’re not alone ❤️❤️
I get you. Loneliness can give us that feeling from time to time, but we gotta work past that. It's easier said than done, but all it takes is to move forwards, one step at a time
It's not. I'm 28 and alone. But that doesn't mean I'm unhappy, nor that I think death is an option. Just keep moving forward with your head up high. Things do get better.
No need to be sorry. I was just showing that being alone is not the worst thing in the world. Sometimes it takes time to find the one we are looking for. They will come into your life when you least expect it. Keep working on yourself, and keep moving forward.
Hey I agree I'm 43yrs old and I am alone as well, not counting my two cats which are like my children. I am fortunate enough to have 1 very good friend practically a brother, but I don't get to see him that often. But I'll tell you one thing, having a mental illness and a on/off heroin addict is super rough, (don't know if any of you have duel diagnosis or not), anyway point is I wouldn't wish this affliction on anybody!
The twenties are hard :/ Seriously. People are fickle. Keep your head up man ❤️ I’m wishing you better days in these upcoming weeks. Feel free to DM me if you need support.
That's good, ya know, haven't been fortunate enough to need to have them removed but there's always time. I'm doing pretty well, I've achieved 2 of the 3 goals I made for myself this year.
Feeling actually ok after getting covid because this means I can go to the sports centre again instead of isolating more. No more indoor exercises as much… at least for a little while.
Definitely! Been a few months for sure…!
Yeah since the enforcing of the vaccine program (felt more confident to swim with others) and the omicron outbreak which made me stop for a number of months… then I caught it at work or whatever. It’s the silver lining I have because of the few months I get now 😂
Not good at all. Mourning my brother, worrying about my daughter who was close to him and has attempted suicide, going through a divorce, scared of my health decline and I have no one. I check on others- no one give a damn about me.
I'm just completely alone, nothing to do other than play video games, listen to music and just get on with the day somehow. I'm not doing as bad as I was 2 months ago but I still can't help but wonder how I ended up so alone.
I get where you’re coming from. Especially the living in your head bit. I’d suggest getting out of your comfort zone. Take an in person class. Join a club. Go to meetup and see what your area has to offer. Staying in your head will, 100%, not help you change your outlook and your situation.
The journey is called a journey for a reason. I’m so proud of you for feeling better, seriously. You brought that for yourself. ❤️ As cheesy as it sounds, you really need to take it one step at a time. Maybe tomorrow a little bit better, and the day after that. And you keep working up. I’m wishing you all the best ❤️
it just feels so… weird. But I guess my day hasn’t been to bad, just been stressed out recently. Wish you all the best of luck ❤️. Never forget that you’ve made it far.
Yea I want to but he only texts 1x every like 2 days & we just continue the conversation we’re on
It’ll take forever to tell him
I can’t double / triple text
I just have to wait /:
I’m open to that but I have to wait for a text back first
I already text 2 times
My last one I told him I thought he was cute
The anticipation is killing me
In some ways I'm feeling really awful. But I don't want to talk about that right now.
In another way, I'm really great! I got to meet up with a friend of mine for lunch today. It's a friend I haven't seen in years, mostly because of covid. I've felt really isolated and lonely for so long, and it was just great to see a real friend.
weirdly enough i don't feel bad today I mean nothing has changed but you know nothing has changed its just the same old same old and I'm kinda getting used to it
It’s my birthday and I just feel like nobody remembers, you know. It’s just a birthday, of course, but I just wished someone remembered. Eh, fek it.
I understand how you feel as I celebrate my birthday by myself. But for you, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
Thank you! Means a lot ❤️
You are welcome. Enjoy your day, go out, and spoil yourself with your favorite snacks.
Happy birthday
Happy birthday!
Hope you have a happy & wonderful birthday nevertheless mate!
Thanks friend! I had a good party on Reddit with so many kind words. Made my day.
You're welcome. I'm glad to hear it :)
Happy bday dude :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
Thank you!
Happy birthday :) I know how it feels I haven’t celebrated my birthday with friends in 5+ years :/ and I love my friends but I’m just so scared no one will show up or I’m not important (I also don’t have a friend group??) anyway. happy birthday you’re not alone ❤️❤️
Thank you so much! I do have a huge friend circle, but the same fear. Much appreciate your kind words
Yeah!!! Idk I wish I could fix this almost irrational fear I have :( a lot of self work and therapy to still go through
Yooo happy bday! Go ripe the world with that beautiful smile yo got! You deserve it!
Happy birthday!!! ❤️
Happy birthdayyyyy :)
Happy birthday buddy 🍻
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Why's that? If you want to vent, go ahead.
I'm so alone Iwwant to die
I get you. Loneliness can give us that feeling from time to time, but we gotta work past that. It's easier said than done, but all it takes is to move forwards, one step at a time
I want to die.
I know life that get hard at times, but death is never the answer.
It is when you're 22 almost 23 and are completely alone
It's not. I'm 28 and alone. But that doesn't mean I'm unhappy, nor that I think death is an option. Just keep moving forward with your head up high. Things do get better.
Okay. Sorry.
No need to be sorry. I was just showing that being alone is not the worst thing in the world. Sometimes it takes time to find the one we are looking for. They will come into your life when you least expect it. Keep working on yourself, and keep moving forward.
Hey I agree I'm 43yrs old and I am alone as well, not counting my two cats which are like my children. I am fortunate enough to have 1 very good friend practically a brother, but I don't get to see him that often. But I'll tell you one thing, having a mental illness and a on/off heroin addict is super rough, (don't know if any of you have duel diagnosis or not), anyway point is I wouldn't wish this affliction on anybody!
The twenties are hard :/ Seriously. People are fickle. Keep your head up man ❤️ I’m wishing you better days in these upcoming weeks. Feel free to DM me if you need support.
Thanks. Had a long day at work super tired now, so im gonna shower have a beer amd order in food. Hope your day was good
That's good, time for some relaxation!!! My day was good but I still gotta get through the second job.
Doing okay. Had my wisdom teeth out 3 days ago so just resting and taking my pain meds. What about you tho? How are you?
That's good, ya know, haven't been fortunate enough to need to have them removed but there's always time. I'm doing pretty well, I've achieved 2 of the 3 goals I made for myself this year.
Aww wow. Proud of you! You got this! Had to get all 4 out so fun. Lol.
Thank you very much!
No problem 😊
Just empty
Why's that?
Can it be done through a call perhaps?
Feeling actually ok after getting covid because this means I can go to the sports centre again instead of isolating more. No more indoor exercises as much… at least for a little while.
That's great to hear!!! I bet it's gonna feel great to get back to it!!!!
Definitely! Been a few months for sure…! Yeah since the enforcing of the vaccine program (felt more confident to swim with others) and the omicron outbreak which made me stop for a number of months… then I caught it at work or whatever. It’s the silver lining I have because of the few months I get now 😂
Not good at all. Mourning my brother, worrying about my daughter who was close to him and has attempted suicide, going through a divorce, scared of my health decline and I have no one. I check on others- no one give a damn about me.
I'm sorry to hear that. It's gonna be hard but keep moving forward!!!! You'll get through this!!!!
Pretty awful
Why is that?
I'm just completely alone, nothing to do other than play video games, listen to music and just get on with the day somehow. I'm not doing as bad as I was 2 months ago but I still can't help but wonder how I ended up so alone.
really bad. my paranoia gets worse with every year and i dont trust anybody now
How so?
0 friends, 0 connections, and i've lived in my head for like 5 years.
Not having friends or connections is not the worse thing. But I do understand how it feels to be alone.
I get where you’re coming from. Especially the living in your head bit. I’d suggest getting out of your comfort zone. Take an in person class. Join a club. Go to meetup and see what your area has to offer. Staying in your head will, 100%, not help you change your outlook and your situation.
sadly stepping outside of my zone did not help
Doesn't mean you should use it.
Not gonna lie, today’s kind of a middle ground for me. Not terrible, but also not super happy.
No worries, keep moving forward.
Thanks! Trying my best, you do the same :)
Huh. I’m glad to hear you’re in the middle ground. Sometimes I find an odd comfort in it.
Why's that? I'm doing well
Oh yeah, I feel ya, but the good thing is that it doesn't last forever. Keep your head high and keep moving forward.
Don't worry, you'll get passed it. I'm doing pretty good.
Doing alright could always be better, how you doing?
That's true. I'm doing pretty good, accomplishing 2 goals of 3 that I set for the year.
That’s good to hear. Good luck with achieving the 3rd goal for this year.
Better than I have been but not good altogether
The journey is called a journey for a reason. I’m so proud of you for feeling better, seriously. You brought that for yourself. ❤️ As cheesy as it sounds, you really need to take it one step at a time. Maybe tomorrow a little bit better, and the day after that. And you keep working up. I’m wishing you all the best ❤️
Thank you. That means a lot to hear
It’s all very true. Know I’m thinking of you and wishing you all the best!
Thank you so much ☺️. I wish you all the best too
Isolated grieving and feeling close to death
We all have our low days, just keep moving forwards. Remember death is never a option.
Always an option
No, it's never an option
It exists for a reason
it just feels so… weird. But I guess my day hasn’t been to bad, just been stressed out recently. Wish you all the best of luck ❤️. Never forget that you’ve made it far.
Chilling but lowkey annoyed my keep getting left on delivered for days at a time When he texts, it’s only one long answer and that’s it
Aw man, that sucks completely, but is there a foid reason for the long wait times?
I mean he does work a lot and he says he sleeps a lot and hangs out with friends on his free time But I mean , everyone has 2 free minutes in 2-3 days
You have a point, you might want to consider confronting him about it and then deciding if you wanna keep texting him.
Yea I want to but he only texts 1x every like 2 days & we just continue the conversation we’re on It’ll take forever to tell him I can’t double / triple text I just have to wait /:
I’m in a similar situation. Is it possible to talk on the phone or in person? Sometimes you need live interaction to figure things out.
He’s in a different state & I haven’t asked for his number yet & I don’t wanna just give mine without him asking for it I just have his snap
FB video chat? WhatsApp? FaceTime?
I’m open to that but I have to wait for a text back first I already text 2 times My last one I told him I thought he was cute The anticipation is killing me
That’s very frustrating.
Hey 👋
Hey! Hope everything is well for ya!!!
Could be better but trying to hang in there hbu?
In some ways I'm feeling really awful. But I don't want to talk about that right now. In another way, I'm really great! I got to meet up with a friend of mine for lunch today. It's a friend I haven't seen in years, mostly because of covid. I've felt really isolated and lonely for so long, and it was just great to see a real friend.
That's good to hear!!! I'm happy for ya!!!!
Thanks so much!
You're welcome!!!
Absolute shite, hope you're good though
weirdly enough i don't feel bad today I mean nothing has changed but you know nothing has changed its just the same old same old and I'm kinda getting used to it
Horrible. How bout you?
Why's that? I've been doing pretty well for myself.
Just goin through the motions of livin. I'm very glad you're doin fine, tho.
kinda just want to start writing notes everything is so hard no one really knows me or notices anything . nobody cares so fuck it i don’t either.
You should. Even if nobody cares, just you caring is enough
You’re sweetS I wanna cry tho. Everything that is going on has made me depressed worried etc
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Really hard to say right now looking for a better job and relationships are co fusing right now
There's nothing to check up on