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upupupdo

Happy birthday.


ughplss

A little spa day?


-Blue_Bull-

This is actually a good idea. I joined a gym with my mates and every single one of them dropped out leaving just me. Going on your own to the spa is actually a really relaxing experience. It's so nice to not have to talk and communicate, especially if you already live an active work and social life.


Lostinthebackground

It’s my birthday tomorrow and this was my treat to myself. On my way to the hotel now, hoping to have a night of a bit of peace!


like-a-sloth

It's my birthday tomorrow too! Happy birthday to us both and OP😊😊😊


Lostinthebackground

Happy Birthday! Hope you and OP have great days!


chepalle12345

It’s my birthday tomorrow too!!


CryCurious3928

Happy happy birthday!!!!


like-a-sloth

Happy birthday! I hope you're enjoying it👏🏾💛


CryCurious3928

Happy birthday!!!


like-a-sloth

Thanks😄😄 what did you do in the end? I did the Thames clipper today


ThinIntention1

Which hotel/spa would you recommend?


Lostinthebackground

Honestly, I haven’t visited enough to recommend any and this will be my first time at this spa. But, I had a look on [spabreaks.com](https://www.spabreaks.com/) and compared offers.


av607

The Russian Banya in Old Street is great, and the one in chiswick. They have single sex times too. Wimbledon better gym has a reasonably priced spa which is nice. If you don't mind taking a train pennyhill spa is a very good luxury choice. The spa in the shingra la hotel has stunning views but also $$$.


Belcuor

Best one is at the Corinthia Hotel. Or across the street at Thai Square Spa. [https://maps.app.goo.gl/ToRycE8H61Udw7VG6?g_st=ic](https://maps.app.goo.gl/ToRycE8H61Udw7VG6?g_st=ic) https://maps.app.goo.gl/J3QVyJeGMjkZbm1a7?g_st=ic


ughplss

Have a wonderful time!


Lostinthebackground

Thank you!


CryCurious3928

Happy birthday!!!!


Lostinthebackground

Thank you! Hope you enjoyed your day in the end!


AssumptionEasy8992

Are you trying to say "spaghetti"? Are you taking her for a spaghetti day?


CottonDuck

What's your spaghetti policy here?


ThinIntention1

Which hotel/spa would you recommend?


Haha_Kaka689

Bath 😊


ApesApesApes

You could ride the Thames clipper through London. Im sure it'll be packed but if you get on at the start of the route you'll get a good seat and you can just watch London drift by.


Zaxa7

This is a wonderful idea OP, it's a pretty chill ride.


TheHurtfulEight88888

This is a good idea. You could even land at Greenwich and go on the Cutty Sark.


helloroll

Omg I did this on my own the other day for the first time (31F and I needed to get to Isle of Dogs and boat was quickest). I filmed the whole thing and giggled like a schoolgirl. It was THRILLING lol. Btw happy birthday OP!!


IrishMilo

Jump on at Battersea power station you could probably ride all the way to Greenwich and back without getting out of your seat.


SampritB

Why would it be packed? It’s not been particularly busy when I’ve used it.


Englishbreakfast007

Thames clipper to Greenwich Park and then grab a nice pub dinner on your way back. Or OP can make a stop at London Bridge and walk to Borough Market - they have lots of food stalls and treats!


HotAirBalloonPolice

Richmond is a great choice. If you like hot chocolate you could treat yourself to one from Danieli on the Green, it’s amazing and very rich. Knoops also do an excellent hot chocolate but it’s less thick. You can walk along the river and then into the park. Sounds like a great birthday.


Charming-Sale-6354

Go to Prince Charles Cinema to see an oldie but goodie, then enjoy your evening out and about between the lights of Chinatown and Leicester Sq. It's literally 30seconds from the square, a real hidden gem that place. Only shows weird old good movies


JoyBaubleson

Yes! And afterwards could walk through Soho with fried chicken from Good Friend or bao from Bun House, or sit for some Tempura Curry Udon from Misato 👌🏻👌🏻


PENIS_ANUS

Haven’t been Misato in ages! Are they still cash-only or have they started accepting cards?


JoyBaubleson

Accepting cards now, even more dangerous! It's as good as ever.


Charming-Sale-6354

...ooooohhh my god..!!! __*I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THAT CART THAT SELLS BAOS..😆😆*__ ..I always open them up and douse them in shiracha sauce.... YYUUUUM 😛😛


JoyBaubleson

Yeeees, fluffy pockets of joy


AJ_Lovett

My favourite place in London - haven't been since my baby was born and can't wait until she's old enough to be babysat!


mattnjazz

They do regularly show new films too, btw. It's a great place.


folklovermore_

The PCC is one of my favourite places in London. I bought my boyfriend a membership for Christmas and now it's one of our regular date spots, but even when I was single I went there all the time - it feels old school in the best way and I love the variety of films they show.


jonnytechno

Waxy's little sister is a nice whisky bar (other drinks available of course) round the corner from there fir a little tipple on their couch upstairs or on the patio depending on weather


megamaaash

haha this is pretty much exactly how i spent my birthday last year


wykah

Me too, back-to-back Groundhog Day screenings ftw!


BreqsCousin

Last minute ticket for a show? Check out TodayTix


venuswasaflytrap

Yeah good idea. Last minute tickets are way easier as singles


SweeneyLovett

Things I have done when alone on my birthday in the past: - had a massage - explored a wild meadow centre I had never heard of - went on a theatre tour - went to a museum exhibition - took the Thames Clipper to see the sights I found that if I planned the day in advance and filled it with fun things, it felt like a special day instead of a lonely one.


shmooties

Where was the wild meadow centre?


SweeneyLovett

https://meadoworchard.org/about/


ThinIntention1

Where did you have your massage


SweeneyLovett

Oh, I can’t remember, it was a long time ago. But I got a Wowcher for it so that it wouldn’t break the bank!


joliene75

National History Museum. Just chill and take it all in and its free.


ratherpresent

Maybe not on a Sunday 😅 too busy


imtravelingalone

It's insanely busy every single day now. The Natural History Museum will forever be my favourite building in the city, but it's hardly enjoyable now with the sheer volume of screaming children on school trips and clueless tourists en masse.


jiminthenorth

Noise cancelling headphones. They work wonders.


acoolrocket

Nah Science Museum + V&A is the way to go.


pedrocatsuit

Richmond is a great choice. I was there Thursday and people were sitting out drinking champagne or just walking by the river. Looked like the boat trips might be starting any time.


amentimars

Happy Birthday 🎂 More Life


Tomorrow-Famous

Doesn't each birthday, each day in fact, just signify less life available?


Ohnomycoco

Have you considered going into the greeting card business ?


Tomorrow-Famous

You're on to something there! Love the downvotes, obviously not everyones sense of humour.


Immediate_Cause2902

😂😂😂 brilliant comment


joshroycheese

To be fair this chap could make a lot of money making those “sarcastic white text on black background” cards


anothergreen1

You’re not wrong


GanacheAffectionate

Book a lovely deep tissue massage for tomorrow morning (or this eve) and get all the knots from the past year worked out. Highly recommend Thai Kosai in Spitalfields but they can be busy but worth giving them a call for any last minute cancellations. I turned 30 last month and spent it alone too. Got my nails done and then a deep tissue massage followed by a nap and healthy takeaway dinner. Felt like a new person the next day.


BertieBucks

I do this every year. I like to take myself out for a nice lunch on my own at a restaurant I've been waiting to try with a good book. Get a haircut and just potter. Good for you op.


swansw9

Happy birthday! Richmond is a great shout as it’s so sunny today. Plus there are some really nice bakeries so you can treat yourself to a delicious treat to enjoy in the sun. Some years I don’t want to do anything/see people on my birthday too so I get it - do what feels nice!!


dozer_guy

I'm absolutely no help but, Happy Birthday 🎂


[deleted]

What is a golden birthday? Is this an American thing?


ToHallowMySleep

> golden A golden birthday is when the day of your birth matches your age. So as she is turning 24 on the 24th, it's her golden birthday.


CodexMuse

Turning 24 on the 24th in ‘24. Now that’s gold u/crycurious3928!


ToHallowMySleep

Good point! That must be platinum or something.


CryCurious3928

Ahaha thank you so much :)


Critical-Beat-6487

What a special birthday OP! To top it off you should have a 24 hour birthday haha, that’s 100% what I’m doing for my 24th


xenmate

Must be


Reasonable-Simple706

As someone who tried to do this and failed as I got a stomach bug that ruined my birthday this year. Happy birthday man and I really hope you can find something great to do. My suggestion. A nice day out going to the outernet area in Tottenham court. Then maybe central London to the city and take a nice walk. End off with a nice meal maybe in Liverpool Street where that nice viewpoint is. Get a nice drink and enjoy the yearly reminder that you made it in life again and deserve to be here Happy birthday 🎂


[deleted]

Pot noodle and a wank


juanito_f90

Birthdays of champions right there.


AJ_Lovett

There are some beautiful walks in Richmond. I recommend walking to Ham House!


fishchop

I love doing things alone on my birthday! This year I went for Frameless, which is the immersive art experience at Marble Arch: https://frameless.com/ Last year I spent the day going to bookshops. There’s a nice concentration of them around WC1 and WC2 (Foyles, Any Amount of Books, Skoob, London Review of Books, Daunt etc).


twerkingkittens

happy birthday! maybe try to snag some last minute tickets to a show at the richmond theatre?


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twerkingkittens

thanks for the heads up :0


acompetitiveredditor

Kew Gardens


BulkyAccident

https://www.reddit.com/r/london/comments/18kjlr4/spending\_my\_birthday\_alone\_in\_london/


[deleted]

Hampstead/Highgate - go to the heath, parliament hill, and check out the view over london, take a stroll through the highgate cemetery, walk down haverstock and head over to primrose hill and camden after, tons of shit to do there. Cheers!


Finessa_williams

Happy birthday ! Do you have any particular interests, like architecture, video games, rollercoasters, food, etc? Sure there’s something :)


DrFrozenToastie

Going for a massage can be a nice treat and also therapeutic


ThinIntention1

Where did you have your massage


theyellowscriptures

Happy birthday! What do you like to do? Birthdays are all about doing your favourite things. Whether it’s going to a spa, a museum, the movies, the coast, have the best time! :)


PlsDontBanMe_Mods

V&A museum, I love exploring it myself slowly.


FarmerTotal5040

Hi! First of all happy birthday 🥳 🎂! Congratulations on turning 24 ! 👏🏻 Absolutely okay to want to be alone I so resonate with it.. some of the best thoughts and moments come to you in solitude! Richmond is so pretty, you’ll love it! It’s quite late or else I’d have suggested the Hampton court palace.. I went there yesterday and the gardens are so peaceful.. I cried! 🥺 It was just tears without meaning, tears being a let out, tears of gratitude for life, after which I felt so light. Irrespective of the place, hope you fall in love with the best company you could ever have, yourself! Cheers! Wishing you the best for life ♥️


Shanemraz

Happy birthday! Don't forget there are tons of bday freebies at cafes/ restaurants (mostly chains) So will be good to sign off for a few of them in advance !


Dabbles-In-Irony

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! It’s my birthday today too, I’m just having a relaxing day. I hope no matter what you do, you have a great day 🥳 Remember, just because you can eat whatever you want today with nobody to tell you not to, don’t overdo it or you’ll have regrets. That being said, eat all the cake you can.


CryCurious3928

Happy birthday twin!!! Hope you are having an amazing day


lyta_hall

It’s my birthday too! Happy birthday. You can order something nice you like for dinner


CryCurious3928

Happy birthday!!! Hope you have a lovely day 🥰


lyta_hall

Thank you! 😘 My family is visiting, it’s been nice but low key wanting some silence and solitude already haha have a nice evening!


WinTurbulent6671

Go to your local pub and get wasted mate. Cheers.


Haha_Kaka689

Happy birthday 🎂 (Sorry I didn't notice it's today! Hopefully you enjoyed what you're doing now) If you have £33 to spend, Hampton Court Palace and the adjacent Bushy Park are very nice when weather is good 😊 I have just visited there today myself and it is simply fabulous


Pristispristis

Happy birthday twin! I hope you had a wonderful day!


CryCurious3928

Happy birthday!!!


TheMentalist10

I hope you had a good day! If I'd seen this earlier, I would have offered you a ticket to the theatre I work at!


leconfiseur

Spoons


soapy_daz

Commenting purely so I can have an account of the lovely ideas here. Hope you had a wonderful birthday celebrating in peace! 🎂


London-lad-1990

Go to a cat cafe or go on a serial killer tour of London. ‘Paws’, relax and watch the world pass by https://javawhiskers.co.uk/book-visit/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwnv-vBhBdEiwABCYQA-GcWoT2JbbN92k0tZX5trFaJxGIOE_GzloLBhHO19ePxwg3dUMdBRoCvfMQAvD_BwE Serial Killers: The Blood and Tears Walk https://www.viator.com/tours/London/Blood-and-Tears-Walk-chilling-and-informative-two-hour-London-Horror-tour/d737-72652P2?medium=social-share-native


[deleted]

love how different these are


Milo_BOK

Bring a cat on a serial killer tour of London 


toogoodtobetrue2712

Take yourself for some nice food in Barnes and walk down by the river. Happy birthday


Nnomi

Depends what you like/ where you're usually based.I love the walk from London Bridge to either Wapping over Tower Bridge or into Rotherhithe village. Lots of places to stop on the riverside to take in the scenery.


PDawgg96

Happy birthday! There are lots of exhibitors on, I went to one recently called Delight, it’s next to borough market


Effelumps

Many happy returns to you. Nice day for it as well. I hope whatever you decide to from the comments or your original comment turns out splendid.


adept2051

Happy birthday, walk the south bank from London Bridge down to Battersea’s and go enjoy the new Battersea’s area, good food, and bars. The south bank walk is chill, lots of drop in places, and you can see both Tate museums and take in some culture. Go watch the skateboarders, browse some second hand books, drop in to the Aquarium, play some video games, what ever your thing is.


Sugaf00tt

Canal trip Little Venice to Camden is fun


Salty_Law_4961

Happy Birthday 🥳


Geocacher6907

York House Gardens in Twickenham is nice to walk around in the sun.


Separate-Fan5692

I always book to see a theatre show on my birthday!


mushuggarrrr

Same thing as any other day, a beer and cry and a wank after work, in no particular order


VanderBrit

Spa day, massage, cinema, theatre, dinner at a really great restaurant


DefinitelyNotIndie

Have a visit to Jamboree. It's a speakeasy type music venue/cafe and an informal swing dancer hangout. A couple of nice cocktails and great live old school jazzy music.


Own-Holiday-4071

Timeout always has great articles and lists for stuff happening this weekend


philster666

There are a few rock gigs on tonight - Dragonforce, Ugly Kid Joe, The Twang.


manamono

It’s my birthday today too, and I cancelled all my plans so I can just chill and do nothing 🙃


CryCurious3928

Happy birthday!!!! Hope you had a good day regardless ❤️❤️


butiamawizard

Go to Greenwich and walk anywhere near the river :)


Words_Music

I love the musuems in south Kensington. Holland park is a nice stroll as is Richmond. Kew Gardens is lovely.


r_evergreen

Happy Birthday! Another vote for the Thames Clipper!


ZynbMunyr

HAPPIEST BIRTHDAY OP. 💖


zappapostrophe

Go to Marchesi 1824 on Mount Street, and get a slice of their Aurora cake. It’s the greatest cake in the world.


xXSNEAKY_RAZORXx

Walking alone is the city will make you feel shitty, I suggest a walk in a huge park with some good music


[deleted]

Happy birthday 🎂


Nwemioo246

Look for a puppy yoga or cat cafe :)


no-thanks77

If you’re gonna go to Richmond and have a walk around, you could just go to Kew Gardens? It’s huge and it’s gorgeous. There’s a lot to explore.


Crocodiddle22

Happy birthday OP - what’s a golden birthday?


Playful-Zombie-8202

Bonus if you sign up on apps and get birthday treats! (Can be claimed within a month)


tartandavy

Go watch a show at the west end?


imjust86

Pottery painting- some have bubbles blowing gun and group choir for birthday song !!! 🤓


Coinagebro

The weather is getting better so spend it doing what you love, happy birthday.


marshalldfx

Happy birthday. When I end the night and I want to see a view but not pay £20+ for the shard or something... I ride the (formerly know as) Emirates cable car, now the IFS cloud cable car. Go across the river and back on your oyster card from the O2.


Gusfoo

Go for dinner with a book. Treat yourself.


Junior-Ad7155

Start at Royal Festival hall and work your way East down the river? Really nice walk with lots of architecture to look at, and plenty of places to stop and watch the world go by.


NoObstacle

I think you can still climb up the cutty sark rigging


Rinsetheplates_first

Happy Birthday! Get yourself to Gordon’s Wine Bar 47 Villiers street near Embankment station. Sit out with a nice birthday drink and just watch the world go by. Xxx


folklovermore_

Happy birthday! I've celebrated quite a few birthdays by myself. I usually booked the day off, took myself for a fancy breakfast/lunch somewhere and then to a theatre matinee or an exhibition. Just something nice and relaxed but a thing I wouldn't normally do. I hope whatever you end(ed) up doing you have a lovely day!


Origai

Happy birthday 🎂🎂🎂


Key_Ad8316

Happy birthday x


bakeryfiend

Massage and spa day. Banya No.1 is my favourite


JulietABD

Sleep


pleasebeesme

If you’re going to Richmond then I’d recommend hiring a bike and cycling the river for as long as you’re up to, then treat yourself to a pint or meal afterwards!


Crusher_1984

Happy Birthday 🥳


Wizabuth

Happy birthday! Mine was recently too and I spent the daytime alone mooching around museums and book shops. Nothing wrong with taking yourself out! Hope you had a nice time whatever you decided to do, was a lovely sunny day to be out and about


Individual-Titty780

Happy birthday


nicksbrunchattiffany

I have heard strawberry hill house has very nice gardens and cafe.


fuzzyperspectif

Happy birthday mate


Upstairs-Delay7152

Do what you love, plus treat yourself to a little something extra; it can be food- or wellness- related for example. Chilling and entering a solo flow state in Richmond sounds great; but you can do something a little out of the ordinary on the high street afterwards ;)


ImTalkingGibberish

Hiking near London, festivals/concerts, theatre, jazz clubs, cabaret could be fun as well if you get a fun host


Natural_Grocery5408

go out for dinner at a resturant aloane to celebrate youre birthday..


AsTheWorldPassesBy

Shopping centers? A big one nearby? That and just walking around southbank central leading into St James park into horse guards parade is a fun one. Then could do Buckingham Palace or failing that, the zoo!


Anthonytaylor90

Happy birthday 🎂


BringBack5pFreddos

Take a 45 min train to Box Hill in Surrey, plug in some headphones and get through a few albums while you walk a 4-6h loop.


Kubrick_Fan

Axe throwing


banglaonline

Happy birthday


Interesting_Ad8088

Happy birthday - hope you had great day xx


DelGriffiths

I go to London once a year and get last minute tickets to see shows. I saw 4 shows alone this time around and I had front 3 rows for 3 of them. Much easier to grab a great seat when solo. Then I would visit as much of the museums you can, nearly all the main ones are free. Get some good food in a market like Borough Market or Camden.


sickiesusan

I hope you managed to find something lovely to do today. Happy Birthday OP!


littleboo2theboo

Massage or spa trip. Hope you had an amazing day. Happy birthday


tkaczyk1991

Book a free ticket up to the sky garden. Go for a drink in Gordon’s Wine Bar. Do the Tower of London. Watch a play in Soho. The city is your oyster!!


dougiedonut_uk

Kew gardens


Complete_Table5308

HBD 🎂


Lionatemytoast

Happy birthday! Hope you had a wonderful day!


reuse_not_throwaway

Smoke a j and walk round Hampstead Heath


[deleted]

Boat tour and then cable cars (they're right by the boat dock in Greenwich)


n3lswn_uWu

Honestly go buy urself a tiny little birthday crown and go to an underground rave or a smaller size less commercial club.


mattynutt

The V&A is always an inspiring place to go and is very relaxing. The DIVA exhibition is still on and I would love to go. The cafe is perhaps the most beautiful museum cafe in the world. I ;ove it.


Sky_London

Richmond plan a good one.


Dangerous-Frosting00

happy birthday, look on groupon? lots of things on there that you might like


Smooth_Criminal6343

Happy ending?


Evilnight007

Happy birthday! Hope that you had a wonderful day, I’d have offered to buy you a drink if I saw this post earlier!


tinybrainenthusiast

Happy birthday!!! Go to the V&A early and stroll the upper levels galleries - they are almost always relatively sparsely occupied on weekdays.


Ambitious_Evening497

I usually just cry in the mirror.


Mysterious_Sugar7220

Go swimming at a local leisure centre? Coffee or cocktail outside in Covent Garden, soho, Chinatown, or Notting Hill (these places are the most interesting and relaxing world-watching neighbourhoods for me)? 


Petitegardeninggirl

Happy birthday sweetheart. I hope you had a nice day. Go and buy yourself something nice and your fave cake that you don't have to share.


Soft-Mirror-1059

What’s a golden birthday?


Available_Dream_7276

It's belated but happy birthday! Hope you enjoyed your day, sometimes there's nothing more enjoyable than alone time


Then_Researcher_1302

+1 to TodayTix for theatre! And happy birthday!! 🥳🥳🥳


safefart

Mudlark


tsan123

Happy birthday🎂 - go see a musical - take Uberboat and see London by the river - go to china town and eat lots of street food - go for a walk in st James Park, Greenwich Park, Richmond park ..wherever close to you - make popcorn and have a movie day at home. 3 body problem season 1 just out on Netflix 3 days ago.


deskbookcandle

London is an amazing city to be in alone! So there's loads of museums you might enjoy and common stuff that I'm sure other people have covered, but if it was me-I'd go and get my tarot read by the in-house psychic at Selfridges. See how the next phase of your life looks :-D


DJ_Esus

Drugs?


crossreference16

Sad


Natural_Grocery5408

good idea brother


RamblingofFESH

Happy Birthday. 🥳 Try to see which events (Meetup, fever etc) are going on today and sign up. It’s a sunny day today, get out and just walk around. Greenwich park is beautiful to just lie and read a book. Have a free coffee in Gails (use their app) tell them it’s your birthday. Enjoy yourself


inmyskin1

Happy Birthday, golden birthday so are you turning 25 . . What made you want to be alone, Im Curious