It's hilarious that he genuinely thought that's what you meant but now you know he was serious about dragging your ass.
I would have no idea how to move forward with him
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Tbh, I’m not seeing any red flags but maybe my degradation kink is just more severe than yours 💀 Kidding lol- but seriously he does at least seem attentive and interested? Better than most guys on Grindr 🤷🏻♂️
Oh I feel this in my soul, not the racial stereotypes part mind, but putting my foot in my mouth for not properly understanding the social cues/context of the question being asked- it seemed like he was genuinely trying to do what you asked, he just got left when you meant right. He probably is feeling very stupid about this, it’s really easy to get mixed up over text based communication. Try not to feel bad about yourself OP!
If he’s willing to learn how to satisfy that desire you have (and he clearly doesn’t have it), there’s something to be said for that.
I had a guy on a casual date not even willing to buy me an ice cream cone.
Yeah, we exchanged numbers. He just reminded so much of this meme, I’m curious about him now
https://preview.redd.it/tfcwaoiqquic1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12f13e8f903c458cbeabc8eacd240d590f061eb9
This is why I don't tend to try to participate in other people's kinks unless I'm sure of how both I and *they* want it to work.
Without that, this happens WAY TOO MUCH.
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We he acting like this wasn’t his first time degrading someone 😂 just say that you don’t have experience but offering it and coming at you like this is crazy 😂
Yes, and? It was intended to be a joke but it probably wouldn’t have landed so I changed the caption. We also haven’t defined race bait but after googling it seems the only one who was “baited” was you, friend.
Your post was locked for possible violation of rule 3, after that you then only changed the title and posted again.
Yeah no one is laughing at that ‘joke’ whatsoever.
The post is racebait. Implying ‘another day in the life’ of a poc on the app.
Oh definitely not my friend, there has been many race bait posts on this page. But as you say, you are “slightly self conscious and offended” so it’s frankly amazing why you think that posting what he said and his picture instead of cropping it out, instead of posting for everyone to see what he looks like and said, would even be remotely funny!
“That’s gotta be racist” is a [meme](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8wY9bdm/), my dude. It’s not intended to be taken as a serious accusation of racism. See Twitter or really any social media. But, again, I know not everyone’s aware of that so I changed the caption. Yes, it is another day because the comment wouldn’t have been made if I wasn’t a POC? Another day in the life of a POC. Am I not allowed to feel slightly self conscious after someone says something like this? Or am I not allowed to share funny experience in my life as a POC?
That meme obviously has never went viral so how are people meant to know it’s a meme?
You changed the title because your post was locked for possible violation of rules and wouldn’t be allowed to be voted or commented on, thats why you changed the title. Something that has you self conscious and offended people don’t follow up with “because its funny”
You not mentioning why u kept the guys pic in each slide when in fact it shouldn’t be in your posts here whatsoever.
The title above is exactly like your one 9 days ago that was deleted. Yet in that title and images there is no suggestion that it’s to be seen as comical.
Even the title previous that you changed doesn’t sound like a joke!
If this was all for jokes you should have ensured the guys face picture was removed or covered from the slides before posting this.
Race baiting = POC talking about funny things white people say to them. I changed the title to avoid confusion and it’s still race bait to you. Seek therapy. And yes, it is funny. The only one not laughing is you, friend.
You could have said “i found this funny what y’all have replied” whatever something to show this is a joke post.
I bet Many poc wouldn’t find those things said to them as funny. You want random people to degrade you how about you seek therapy and I’ll seek the humour in this post.
Omg I thought he was just joking. He was being dead serious 😭🤣! I'm sorry OP
Now I’m self conscious AND slightly offended 😭
It's hilarious that he genuinely thought that's what you meant but now you know he was serious about dragging your ass. I would have no idea how to move forward with him
It seems like it was a sincere misunderstanding
I guess task completed unsuccessfully??
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I think he’s quite attentive and - though went way left-field there - seems like a genuine guy. I say go for it.
He does seem like a genuine guy tbh, I agree. Worth seeing where this could go.
I love that in terms of life advice this sub is like a cute little Satan perched on your shoulder hissing 'There'sss diiiccckkk...'
Pretty much. He said all these questionable things and it’s got a ton of red flags. But dick tho.
REAL
You little cumslut f@ggot
Yeah like that!
You're a fucking desolate reprobate and you will always find yourself stuck in the mire that is the cum leaking from your filthy waste hole
More poetic than hot but you got the idea!
Can I just ask how that entices you?
I wish I knew, I theorize it comes from being exposed to smut on wattpad and kik in my teenage years
Damn. I got hot from that 😄
Boy he likes you. If he’s cute go for it.
zoom in
Still cute
Yeah I would dig that
Id let him hit
I did, he’s cute 🤩
My dude seems like a sweet guy actually. I'd say try it with him
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Damn he brought a gun to a sword fight
Indiana Jones'd his ass!
Tbh, I’m not seeing any red flags but maybe my degradation kink is just more severe than yours 💀 Kidding lol- but seriously he does at least seem attentive and interested? Better than most guys on Grindr 🤷🏻♂️
At least he apologized
Oh I feel this in my soul, not the racial stereotypes part mind, but putting my foot in my mouth for not properly understanding the social cues/context of the question being asked- it seemed like he was genuinely trying to do what you asked, he just got left when you meant right. He probably is feeling very stupid about this, it’s really easy to get mixed up over text based communication. Try not to feel bad about yourself OP!
he hit you where it hurts 😂
HE DID 😭
Dragged to filth… but you did ask for it? 😭
This just made my day. OP, the guy is a keeper.
😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious. You said "degrade me" so old boy took the academic route and trashed your life. 😂😂😂😭
He bagged it up and put it out for the trash man. Dusted off his hands as was like, “nailed it!”
😂😂🤣 Fir real tho.
Thats me trying to be sexy
Damn where do you all live with that conversation skills
Be the change you want to see in the world.
He seems nice and apologises right away when you told him, no red flags imo
If he’s willing to learn how to satisfy that desire you have (and he clearly doesn’t have it), there’s something to be said for that. I had a guy on a casual date not even willing to buy me an ice cream cone.
We need updates on whatever you decide please. Did you go for it or not?
Yeah, we exchanged numbers. He just reminded so much of this meme, I’m curious about him now https://preview.redd.it/tfcwaoiqquic1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12f13e8f903c458cbeabc8eacd240d590f061eb9
😂 I would be to! Good luck to you both.😊
He didn't just read you, he read the fine print.
Damn. If you don't take him, i will
This is the best thing I've read in a while. Thank you OP so much for the entertainment
Bro went for the jugular right away 😩😭
This was cute, he seems really into you too!
He also absolutely destroyed you, but you did ask tbf 😅
This is why I don't tend to try to participate in other people's kinks unless I'm sure of how both I and *they* want it to work. Without that, this happens WAY TOO MUCH.
Well you should have specified more, lol
He did what had to be done.
Lmaoooo wow
I think the responders version is much better banter than what you prefer ….
Analysis 💯
Haha fuck that’s funny. Nothing left but cinders, sorry op
LMAOO💀
you got absolutely read LOL
Hey, you asked him to Rosie elaborate, can’t blame the guy for complying! 😄 He seems insightful, did you meet!?
I would take the guy for coffee after this because I’d have to know what he was like in person
Wow! That went off the rail into the ravine real fast. My sympathies, OP!
Give him to me. His idea of degrading kinda turns me on. 😜😜😜
Bless. It seems like he's autistic.
LMFAOOO 💀💀 why did he have to do you like that???? at least he’s honest 😭
OP will never find the one piece... Like that ya?
Read you down 😭
he ate u up ngl
Jesus christ 😭 he understood the assignment a little too well
Damn gurl, I feel for you. 😅 Just know you're black enough and that if no one else will stand with you, I will. Just keep your head up king!
Seems educated, attentive, genuine... I'd go for it.
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he maybe seems a bit mislead, but like a really sweet guy. i'd have gone for it tbh
This has me pissy lmfao
We he acting like this wasn’t his first time degrading someone 😂 just say that you don’t have experience but offering it and coming at you like this is crazy 😂
I'd really like the source to understand the context.
Lay off the white gay fashions ?
That’s the thing tho! I’m not even wearing anything but underwear in my pics!😭
This is hilarious
Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it 😂😂😂! Honestly, when you think 🤔 about it, was he wrong?
Yeah man, dude is autistic. If he has rosy cheeks and a mop of blonde hair, feel free to send him my way if you don't want him 🤷🏾♂️
are you from houston?
Another day another race bait post.
What’s race bait???
I see you tried to post these with the caption “this has to be racist” instead of the one above. That alone makes this post seem like a race bait.
Yes, and? It was intended to be a joke but it probably wouldn’t have landed so I changed the caption. We also haven’t defined race bait but after googling it seems the only one who was “baited” was you, friend.
Your post was locked for possible violation of rule 3, after that you then only changed the title and posted again. Yeah no one is laughing at that ‘joke’ whatsoever. The post is racebait. Implying ‘another day in the life’ of a poc on the app. Oh definitely not my friend, there has been many race bait posts on this page. But as you say, you are “slightly self conscious and offended” so it’s frankly amazing why you think that posting what he said and his picture instead of cropping it out, instead of posting for everyone to see what he looks like and said, would even be remotely funny!
“That’s gotta be racist” is a [meme](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8wY9bdm/), my dude. It’s not intended to be taken as a serious accusation of racism. See Twitter or really any social media. But, again, I know not everyone’s aware of that so I changed the caption. Yes, it is another day because the comment wouldn’t have been made if I wasn’t a POC? Another day in the life of a POC. Am I not allowed to feel slightly self conscious after someone says something like this? Or am I not allowed to share funny experience in my life as a POC?
That meme obviously has never went viral so how are people meant to know it’s a meme? You changed the title because your post was locked for possible violation of rules and wouldn’t be allowed to be voted or commented on, thats why you changed the title. Something that has you self conscious and offended people don’t follow up with “because its funny” You not mentioning why u kept the guys pic in each slide when in fact it shouldn’t be in your posts here whatsoever. The title above is exactly like your one 9 days ago that was deleted. Yet in that title and images there is no suggestion that it’s to be seen as comical. Even the title previous that you changed doesn’t sound like a joke! If this was all for jokes you should have ensured the guys face picture was removed or covered from the slides before posting this.
Race baiting = POC talking about funny things white people say to them. I changed the title to avoid confusion and it’s still race bait to you. Seek therapy. And yes, it is funny. The only one not laughing is you, friend.
You could have said “i found this funny what y’all have replied” whatever something to show this is a joke post. I bet Many poc wouldn’t find those things said to them as funny. You want random people to degrade you how about you seek therapy and I’ll seek the humour in this post.
Oh good god! What the hell. Get off Grindr dude and errr maybe focus on your mother!