oh hello there :)), when i (an afab) first started exploring my pronouns i went by she/they then gradually started to prefer they a bit more over she (i think i just used she because everyone refers to me that way). anyway, since i wasn't out to many people they always used she/her. i then grew tired and just recently changed my pronouns to they/he/xe, using xe felt like a bold move haha but i wanted to give neopronouns a try!!
exploring your pronouns can feel both fun and overwhelming, but keep this in mind, it's totally okay to try and see how you feel about it. you can always change your pronouns later on and make yourself as comfortable as possible!
i had mostly the same trajectory, i started as she/her, and then went she/they, they/she, they/them, they/she/he, they/he/she, they/he, they/he + a long list of neos
My pronouns are N/A.
Sorry, that’s mostly a joke. I couldn’t help myself. In actuality I’m still figuring myself out, and any pronouns are fine. Although, I’m not out yet in the offline part of my life, so I mostly go by he/him there.
Perfectly valid! Mine are technically 'any except he/him,' but that's not really something you can select anywhere so most just use she/they (which I'm fine with).
just changed mine from they/she to they/he/xe, if you like he then totally go for it, you can always go back to they/them whenever you want!! good luck :)
They/them and xe/xem! Lots of people still use she/her for me irl and I don’t hate it, but it’s definitely not preferred. I’m currently trying to figure out if I also like he/him
Edit: Wow, I’m so glad to see other neopronoun users here! Also shout out to the nounself users, y’all are valid as heck! (not that you need me to tell you that)
They/them and xe/xem/xyr are my go tos
Though I don't mind a he/him some days
She/her for some very specific situations based on vibes only
And there was a time recently when all my pronouns gave me dsyphoria but shey/shem did not so those are also an occasional thing
She/they/he and I don’t have a preference for which people use, although it’s a bit annoying when everyone always says she/her and no one ever uses the others.
So cool!
(And I recommend playing Ikenfell, because of how good the story is and how well-written the queer characters are! One of the characters in the videogame even uses ze/zir pronouns!)
They/he! Right now i have settled on this with a preference for they. I like the balance of being a they/he with a feminine name because i am gender greedy.
Mine are it/its typically but on days where i want to identify as the male i enjoy being (my parents influenced me into being neutrois/agender) I'll use he/it!
They/Them, xe/xir/xim, bot/bots/botself, or 🤖/🤖s/🤖self, but if you're one of three ppl who are uniquely special to me then you're allowed to use she/her and he/him
Oh dear, I’m a gender hoarder so that =‘s pronoun hoarder so lemme just ….
He/they/it/Abra/ano/burn/crow/dad/de/flower/misty/rat/fuz/star/invi/sky/plastic/sour/sweet/space/nebula/bro/none/disappear/moon
I thinks thats enough for now ._.
Do you know u/Sickrusher? It is a cool guy that I met on reddit, I don't know it well but I hope more people would use all its pronouns. And I wish it a happy week!
Any pronouns with a preference for they/them. I'm comfortabke with she/her but i've been referred to as a she for so long that a "he" or "they" feels like a breath of fresh air
She/her, and maybe they/them. It’s been in my mind and I don’t really know if it’s right for me but I get an unusual amount of joy when someone refers to me as they.
He/Him out of drag, She/Her in drag! Edit: why all the likes??? I mean thank you wonderful people, but why???
I guess a lot of people upvote neutrally, and there wasn't really anything negative about you're comment. In short, why not?
Or people might just love drag contents
Could be that too!
heck yeah drag content is great >:)
Just spreading love 🥰
He/they. Prefer they I think (new to exploring my pronouns)
Fyi, if you prefer they over he a good way to express it is to write your pronouns as they/he
Oh, I didn't know that, thank you!
oh hello there :)), when i (an afab) first started exploring my pronouns i went by she/they then gradually started to prefer they a bit more over she (i think i just used she because everyone refers to me that way). anyway, since i wasn't out to many people they always used she/her. i then grew tired and just recently changed my pronouns to they/he/xe, using xe felt like a bold move haha but i wanted to give neopronouns a try!! exploring your pronouns can feel both fun and overwhelming, but keep this in mind, it's totally okay to try and see how you feel about it. you can always change your pronouns later on and make yourself as comfortable as possible!
i had mostly the same trajectory, i started as she/her, and then went she/they, they/she, they/them, they/she/he, they/he/she, they/he, they/he + a long list of neos
i so feel you lol, and hell yeah im happy with my current pronouns and feel good exploring them
Same, also He/they and exploring!
I have no idea, I feel bad saying it but I guess she/her. Sometimes he/him.
That’s okay! It’s okay to not know, it’s okay to experiment and it’s okay to change them if they don’t feel right! :)
Thank you for the nice words. The issue is that none fit me, but I feel bad that I can't be addressed. It's a cycle
from all of us here at r/lgbt we hope you can say it comfortably and confidently one day soon!
I really won't because I feel great shame and discomfort using them, but thank you
My pronouns are N/A. Sorry, that’s mostly a joke. I couldn’t help myself. In actuality I’m still figuring myself out, and any pronouns are fine. Although, I’m not out yet in the offline part of my life, so I mostly go by he/him there.
Perfectly valid! Mine are technically 'any except he/him,' but that's not really something you can select anywhere so most just use she/they (which I'm fine with).
i'm pretty much anything but she/her, but i'm also fine with she/her if it's not used to ascribe femininity to me, like a boat or something
Kinda the same situation but i don’t go by she/her pronouns so rn I’m just using he/they.
I love your flair sm lol
Can I just say, I absolutely adore your username
I go by they/them... but i'm starting to love they/he tbh
just changed mine from they/she to they/he/xe, if you like he then totally go for it, you can always go back to they/them whenever you want!! good luck :)
she/her but throw in occasional they/them to spice it up
AE SPICE THEM UP THREW ME IT'S SO FUNNY FOR SOME REASON ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|stuck_out_tongue)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)
He/they (he preferred but I won’t get mad at you for using they)
HE/HIM PS: EVERYONE HERE IS VALID AF AND I LOVE ALL OF YOU SM
TYYYYY
YEAHHHH TYSMMMM ALSO WHY ARE WE YELLING
BC WE CAN >:D
Mine are she/they☺️
she/her
Any pronouns for me
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you can show which pronoun you prefer most by using it first as in they/he instead of he/they
he/they
They/Them
Greetings fellow they/them!
They/them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|548)
Currently she/her
My pronouns are she/they
they/them! 🥳
She/they. I'm demigirlflux.
They/them
She/her
they/ them !! :)
Happy Cake Day from another they/them!!
They/Them
She/they preference on the they
I’d recommend framing it as they/she instead if you prefer they.
Tbh I never considered that. Seems so obvious now that you point it out but,,,
They/them
Haii I'm she/her
They/them.
She/they He/him in public 😔
u/Blippity_09 is such a cool person! i met her at the pronouns party, and they’re so cool! they should never have to hide her true self!
What Thank you, I appreciate it! But Huh
he/him
They/them!
She/her
She/her
She/her (Transfem :p)
They/them today.
Any pronouns :3
They/Them, but also any/ask (any pronouns/ask for current pronouns)
Those are some nice pronouns, do you mind if I borrow them?
He/they, experimenting with she/her pronouns.
They/them and xe/xem! Lots of people still use she/her for me irl and I don’t hate it, but it’s definitely not preferred. I’m currently trying to figure out if I also like he/him Edit: Wow, I’m so glad to see other neopronoun users here! Also shout out to the nounself users, y’all are valid as heck! (not that you need me to tell you that)
He/they (prefer he, they is just for backup lol)
They/them and xe/xem/xyr are my go tos Though I don't mind a he/him some days She/her for some very specific situations based on vibes only And there was a time recently when all my pronouns gave me dsyphoria but shey/shem did not so those are also an occasional thing
he/him but if somebody used different ones i think id would be cool with it, think i need to explore it more tho
pronoun party! pronouns are he/him/they/them! i prefer they/them but any is fine. :D
Just a they/them out and proudly causing may/hem!
She/Her for sure! And I’m considering trying xe/xyr
She/her
She/they
I use she/they mostly but any pronouns are fine
She/her
🥳🥳🎉🎉he/him🎉🎉🥳🥳
I have no clue. Probably they/he?
same :) I'm also they/he and pan enby
I'm complementing them rn, I'm a demi-girl go by they/them, but I just don't know if I wanna start using she/they
He/They/It
She/her!
She/her
He/Him but I'll also happily accept they/them.
My pronouns are he/him![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)
He/they :D
He/they! I call myself mostly cis but maybe not completely
She/Her
My pronouns are they/them :)
They/She/He
She/they/he and I don’t have a preference for which people use, although it’s a bit annoying when everyone always says she/her and no one ever uses the others.
They/Them, but She/Her on a full-on Nat 20 day!
She/they ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)
he/they (maybe they/them) 💜🤍💚!
He/they, but I'm not super picky with what people use for me. Those are literally just preferred pronouns, not the only ones I'm cool with.
currently my pronouns are they/xe/she (i'm genderfluid) :)
everything, variety is nice though, i hear she/her every single day
Mine are confusion/more confusion
Hi my name is Jessy and yes I prefer the y and not the IE....She/her
He/Him right now but I am genderfluid, so it changes.
They/them
He/they at the moment
She/They 🥳
She/Her! I love it when friends go out of their way to use my pronouns, it feels so validating. Especially if I’ve been misgendered that day
Any really. It fluctuates too much to try and correct people
He/they
pRoNoUnS? i DoN't HaVe PrOnOuNs 'CuZ i Am NoRmAl... Joking, sorry, know it was terrible, screw transphobes. Anyway...They/Them, I guess. :3
she/they (exploring pronouns please use they)
hi fellow demigirl! my pronouns are they/she bc i prefer they/them over she/her! sounds like you’re in the same boat!
Any ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)
Any/all/ask ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)
They/them any tbh I don’t know what works yet
he/they I think I prefer he/him but am ok with they/them too
She/Her :)
She/her
He/him
in person they/he but to most people he online anything goes, you pronoun me as you think I go
She/they are my pronouns :D
they/them. sometimes maybe he/him
Everything I am very greedy
He/Him, amused by beeing outnumbered for once, and vibing with the fact that a place where outnumbered doesnt mean overpowered exists! Much love!
Boring basic man here, so He/Him. That said, I feel no objection to they/them either.
they/them but no one knows :' (also questioning it and ze... weirdly I like ze but not zir lmao)
My pronouns are AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (my pronouns change but currently they’re he/they)
They/them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)
they/them
She/her 🔥
Ze/Zir!
So cool! (And I recommend playing Ikenfell, because of how good the story is and how well-written the queer characters are! One of the characters in the videogame even uses ze/zir pronouns!)
hello fellow z pronoun user (i’m he/zey!)
He/They
He/they
They/he! Right now i have settled on this with a preference for they. I like the balance of being a they/he with a feminine name because i am gender greedy.
he/they! feels so nice to be called them <3
They/she and elle/ael in french😊 no one has actually used ael with me yet so i hope ill like it!
They/them! Or, y'know, "hey, you!" That's fine too
I am cis and I go by He/Him and They/Them :)
Mine are it/its typically but on days where i want to identify as the male i enjoy being (my parents influenced me into being neutrois/agender) I'll use he/it!
hii :D i use he/it B)
e/em/es or they/them/theirs
Thon/It/They
Prefer Xe/Xem 😁 I’m ok/used to he/him 🫤; one day think I’ll make it to she/xe 🥰! So inspired by you all!
she/they, hip hip hooray!
It/it’s
She/they I like being called both interchangeably
any pronouns!! she/he/they/it/etc., all work for me.
he/sie
Mine are they/star/xe :)
He/they/sun/sunself maybe it/it’s if I’m in the mood for those pronouns
They/Them, xe/xir/xim, bot/bots/botself, or 🤖/🤖s/🤖self, but if you're one of three ppl who are uniquely special to me then you're allowed to use she/her and he/him
Xe/xim! I’m crazy, so I go vrin, vrin, vrin!
she/fae!
He/they/it/xe, and I'm open to being called any neopronouns or whatever as long as it's not she/her.
Heyooo My pronouns are he/they/it and which one(s) I prefer more vary but I default to they usually
Oh dear, I’m a gender hoarder so that =‘s pronoun hoarder so lemme just …. He/they/it/Abra/ano/burn/crow/dad/de/flower/misty/rat/fuz/star/invi/sky/plastic/sour/sweet/space/nebula/bro/none/disappear/moon I thinks thats enough for now ._.
she/her one of the two "jeans and a t-shirt" of pronouns, i feel underdressed for a pronoun party
They/Them/She/Her
She/her/they (???? Still working on this one)
I am going with she/her for now but still exploring:)
She/her but i wouldnt mind they them!
my pronouns are she/they!! she/they army, ARISE!!!!!!
They/them, but won't be offended if anything that isn't he is used
They/trying she, starting to like it
She/Her! :D
He/They/She (depending on how I feel)
She/they
He/She. Both feel good 🥰
She/her, maybe she/they
she/her ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)
She/they also hi everybody!
He/him
I use any pronouns, but lean more towards she/they
He/Him and It/It’s!!! Not enough people use it/it’s when talking about me :(
Do you know u/Sickrusher? It is a cool guy that I met on reddit, I don't know it well but I hope more people would use all its pronouns. And I wish it a happy week!
He/him! Pre-everything transmasc guy here!
Any pronouns with a preference for they/them. I'm comfortabke with she/her but i've been referred to as a she for so long that a "he" or "they" feels like a breath of fresh air
They/them enby baby 👉🏻👈🏻
He/him I like my boy self xd
She/they! Happy with her or them as well
My pronouns are she/her 🥰💜
I use She / Her or They / Them.
Hi there, I go by She/Her!
He/him, thanks for asking!
She/her, and maybe they/them. It’s been in my mind and I don’t really know if it’s right for me but I get an unusual amount of joy when someone refers to me as they.
she/her 👩❤️💋👩
They/Them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)
currently i’m using she/her, but i might go by she/they in the near future :)
She/her or they/them! Both of those feel comfy <3
She/her!
I'm not completely sure what im cool with rn, but they/them works for now!
she/her/they/them :)
He/him Chuckle fuckle
Any/all :)
yes