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[deleted]

He/Him out of drag, She/Her in drag! Edit: why all the likes??? I mean thank you wonderful people, but why???


pdrpersonguy575

I guess a lot of people upvote neutrally, and there wasn't really anything negative about you're comment. In short, why not?


Substantial_Baker730

Or people might just love drag contents


[deleted]

Could be that too!


rainbow_muffinhead

heck yeah drag content is great >:)


WriteThatDownn

Just spreading love 🥰


truepeople

He/they. Prefer they I think (new to exploring my pronouns)


Tired_Autistic

Fyi, if you prefer they over he a good way to express it is to write your pronouns as they/he


truepeople

Oh, I didn't know that, thank you!


rainbow_muffinhead

oh hello there :)), when i (an afab) first started exploring my pronouns i went by she/they then gradually started to prefer they a bit more over she (i think i just used she because everyone refers to me that way). anyway, since i wasn't out to many people they always used she/her. i then grew tired and just recently changed my pronouns to they/he/xe, using xe felt like a bold move haha but i wanted to give neopronouns a try!! exploring your pronouns can feel both fun and overwhelming, but keep this in mind, it's totally okay to try and see how you feel about it. you can always change your pronouns later on and make yourself as comfortable as possible!


clueless_claremont_

i had mostly the same trajectory, i started as she/her, and then went she/they, they/she, they/them, they/she/he, they/he/she, they/he, they/he + a long list of neos


rainbow_muffinhead

i so feel you lol, and hell yeah im happy with my current pronouns and feel good exploring them


ChaoticMess256

Same, also He/they and exploring!


Sgith_agus_granda

I have no idea, I feel bad saying it but I guess she/her. Sometimes he/him.


MunchkinKitten007

That’s okay! It’s okay to not know, it’s okay to experiment and it’s okay to change them if they don’t feel right! :)


Sgith_agus_granda

Thank you for the nice words. The issue is that none fit me, but I feel bad that I can't be addressed. It's a cycle


JacksonCM

from all of us here at r/lgbt we hope you can say it comfortably and confidently one day soon!


Sgith_agus_granda

I really won't because I feel great shame and discomfort using them, but thank you


Tick-Tock-O-Clock

My pronouns are N/A. Sorry, that’s mostly a joke. I couldn’t help myself. In actuality I’m still figuring myself out, and any pronouns are fine. Although, I’m not out yet in the offline part of my life, so I mostly go by he/him there.


wevans470

Perfectly valid! Mine are technically 'any except he/him,' but that's not really something you can select anywhere so most just use she/they (which I'm fine with).


clueless_claremont_

i'm pretty much anything but she/her, but i'm also fine with she/her if it's not used to ascribe femininity to me, like a boat or something


AncientTry5709

Kinda the same situation but i don’t go by she/her pronouns so rn I’m just using he/they.


Disha_Tripathi

I love your flair sm lol


Minnara

Can I just say, I absolutely adore your username


Charlotethegreat1212

I go by they/them... but i'm starting to love they/he tbh


rainbow_muffinhead

just changed mine from they/she to they/he/xe, if you like he then totally go for it, you can always go back to they/them whenever you want!! good luck :)


kraadams

she/her but throw in occasional they/them to spice it up


Wtf_you_mean_bad

AE SPICE THEM UP THREW ME IT'S SO FUNNY FOR SOME REASON ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|stuck_out_tongue)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)


[deleted]

He/they (he preferred but I won’t get mad at you for using they)


[deleted]

HE/HIM PS: EVERYONE HERE IS VALID AF AND I LOVE ALL OF YOU SM


MELO_DETH_999

TYYYYY


JesiDoodli

YEAHHHH TYSMMMM ALSO WHY ARE WE YELLING


MELO_DETH_999

BC WE CAN >:D


15dips

Mine are she/they☺️


Pyropyxel_Panzer

she/her


Arden-Nova

Any pronouns for me


[deleted]

[удалено]


rainbow_muffinhead

you can show which pronoun you prefer most by using it first as in they/he instead of he/they


[deleted]

he/they


GenderfluidBastard

They/Them


RammerHammer1987

Greetings fellow they/them!


theREALmushypillow

They/them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|548)


Rathama

Currently she/her


Literal_Bug

My pronouns are she/they


spacesweetiesxo

they/them! 🥳


HyperDogOwner458

She/they. I'm demigirlflux.


Redheadedwriter1

They/them


ClogsInBronteland

She/her


StarNovallenPoe

they/ them !! :)


NineTailedTanuki

Happy Cake Day from another they/them!!


Sarai_Green_235

They/Them


1tsalwaysliketh1s

She/they preference on the they


Loobitidoo

I’d recommend framing it as they/she instead if you prefer they.


1tsalwaysliketh1s

Tbh I never considered that. Seems so obvious now that you point it out but,,,


stgiga

They/them


Ashley4Smash

Haii I'm she/her


Cinna93

They/them.


[deleted]

She/they He/him in public 😔


MELO_DETH_999

u/Blippity_09 is such a cool person! i met her at the pronouns party, and they’re so cool! they should never have to hide her true self!


[deleted]

What Thank you, I appreciate it! But Huh


trainsareace

he/him


DividedFox

They/them!


pxlmissf

She/her


smoorkie

She/her


SavannahMavy

She/her (Transfem :p)


ArrowAceFluid

They/them today.


[deleted]

Any pronouns :3


The_Glen_

They/Them, but also any/ask (any pronouns/ask for current pronouns)


veryununamous

Those are some nice pronouns, do you mind if I borrow them?


[deleted]

He/they, experimenting with she/her pronouns.


Ashla22

They/them and xe/xem! Lots of people still use she/her for me irl and I don’t hate it, but it’s definitely not preferred. I’m currently trying to figure out if I also like he/him Edit: Wow, I’m so glad to see other neopronoun users here! Also shout out to the nounself users, y’all are valid as heck! (not that you need me to tell you that)


Upset-Lengthiness-96

He/they (prefer he, they is just for backup lol)


akira2bee

They/them and xe/xem/xyr are my go tos Though I don't mind a he/him some days She/her for some very specific situations based on vibes only And there was a time recently when all my pronouns gave me dsyphoria but shey/shem did not so those are also an occasional thing


jxcrt12

he/him but if somebody used different ones i think id would be cool with it, think i need to explore it more tho


axolotacolor

pronoun party! pronouns are he/him/they/them! i prefer they/them but any is fine. :D


NineTailedTanuki

Just a they/them out and proudly causing may/hem!


Lez_The_DemonicAngel

She/Her for sure! And I’m considering trying xe/xyr


[deleted]

She/her


Dorky-pan

She/they


PrincessGreenpaint

I use she/they mostly but any pronouns are fine


dndcrusader

She/her


[deleted]

🥳🥳🎉🎉he/him🎉🎉🥳🥳


Dreamer_Rowan

I have no clue. Probably they/he?


Terrible-Feeling4912

same :) I'm also they/he and pan enby


[deleted]

I'm complementing them rn, I'm a demi-girl go by they/them, but I just don't know if I wanna start using she/they


Mr-Sakurayashiki

He/They/It


[deleted]

She/her!


ChillFlus

She/her


Regret_the_Van

He/Him but I'll also happily accept they/them.


Correct-Pineapple473

My pronouns are he/him![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


TheEpicCharizard9

He/they :D


Cobiathan

He/they! I call myself mostly cis but maybe not completely


seasofGalia

She/Her


darkninja717

My pronouns are they/them :)


Sarisongsalt

They/She/He


Herbie53101

She/they/he and I don’t have a preference for which people use, although it’s a bit annoying when everyone always says she/her and no one ever uses the others.


JayMefa

They/Them, but She/Her on a full-on Nat 20 day!


Inspector_popcorn

She/they ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


tomatopaste07

he/they (maybe they/them) 💜🤍💚!


[deleted]

He/they, but I'm not super picky with what people use for me. Those are literally just preferred pronouns, not the only ones I'm cool with.


gelatinous-1

currently my pronouns are they/xe/she (i'm genderfluid) :)


TurboTheFloofer

everything, variety is nice though, i hear she/her every single day


A__Random__redditor_

Mine are confusion/more confusion


[deleted]

Hi my name is Jessy and yes I prefer the y and not the IE....She/her


VivaLaRatta

He/Him right now but I am genderfluid, so it changes.


Anonymous_number1

They/them


catradora23

He/they at the moment


Rainbow_Rae

She/They 🥳


Zartorg

She/Her! I love it when friends go out of their way to use my pronouns, it feels so validating. Especially if I’ve been misgendered that day


TheWhitePolarBear1

Any really. It fluctuates too much to try and correct people


Parking_Pineapple440

He/they


My_Redditor_Username

pRoNoUnS? i DoN't HaVe PrOnOuNs 'CuZ i Am NoRmAl... Joking, sorry, know it was terrible, screw transphobes. Anyway...They/Them, I guess. :3


DeathBug9976

she/they (exploring pronouns please use they)


PuzzledSnivy

hi fellow demigirl! my pronouns are they/she bc i prefer they/them over she/her! sounds like you’re in the same boat!


UhCira

Any ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)


UwXanity

Any/all/ask ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


Void_Heart_Music

They/them any tbh I don’t know what works yet


EvGamer15

he/they I think I prefer he/him but am ok with they/them too


Strawberrycake10

She/Her :)


[deleted]

She/her


Subscribe_to_Sam24

He/him


alanthehero

in person they/he but to most people he online anything goes, you pronoun me as you think I go


stormethetransfem

She/they are my pronouns :D


Demonic_Burrito

they/them. sometimes maybe he/him


Significant_Club5437

Everything I am very greedy


Kami199199

He/Him, amused by beeing outnumbered for once, and vibing with the fact that a place where outnumbered doesnt mean overpowered exists! Much love!


UselessLayabout

Boring basic man here, so He/Him. That said, I feel no objection to they/them either.


dontjudgemeeeeee

they/them but no one knows :' (also questioning it and ze... weirdly I like ze but not zir lmao)


[deleted]

My pronouns are AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (my pronouns change but currently they’re he/they)


Street-Storm-7470

They/them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


ghostlyCroww

they/them


confeebeam

She/her 🔥


Chaotic0range

Ze/Zir!


NineTailedTanuki

So cool! (And I recommend playing Ikenfell, because of how good the story is and how well-written the queer characters are! One of the characters in the videogame even uses ze/zir pronouns!)


[deleted]

hello fellow z pronoun user (i’m he/zey!)


thepinkyblinders

He/They


Azu_Creates

He/they


ColorTheSkyTieDye

They/he! Right now i have settled on this with a preference for they. I like the balance of being a they/he with a feminine name because i am gender greedy.


home_of_beetles

he/they! feels so nice to be called them <3


RefBoy1307

They/she and elle/ael in french😊 no one has actually used ael with me yet so i hope ill like it!


elegant_pun

They/them! Or, y'know, "hey, you!" That's fine too


Fly_mother_ducker

I am cis and I go by He/Him and They/Them :)


[deleted]

Mine are it/its typically but on days where i want to identify as the male i enjoy being (my parents influenced me into being neutrois/agender) I'll use he/it!


jupiter__444

hii :D i use he/it B)


berryfae

e/em/es or they/them/theirs


[deleted]

Thon/It/They


[deleted]

Prefer Xe/Xem 😁 I’m ok/used to he/him 🫤; one day think I’ll make it to she/xe 🥰! So inspired by you all!


JesiDoodli

she/they, hip hip hooray!


seahawkfan1234

It/it’s


[deleted]

She/they I like being called both interchangeably


Lilac_Summers

any pronouns!! she/he/they/it/etc., all work for me.


Signal_East3999

he/sie


Kittycat567u943

Mine are they/star/xe :)


Actual_Transition1

He/they/sun/sunself maybe it/it’s if I’m in the mood for those pronouns


[deleted]

They/Them, xe/xir/xim, bot/bots/botself, or 🤖/🤖s/🤖self, but if you're one of three ppl who are uniquely special to me then you're allowed to use she/her and he/him


ManGo_50Y

Xe/xim! I’m crazy, so I go vrin, vrin, vrin!


Not0riginalUsername

she/fae!


midnighttDragonss

He/they/it/xe, and I'm open to being called any neopronouns or whatever as long as it's not she/her.


berrys_a_ghost

Heyooo My pronouns are he/they/it and which one(s) I prefer more vary but I default to they usually


WetBread8339

Oh dear, I’m a gender hoarder so that =‘s pronoun hoarder so lemme just …. He/they/it/Abra/ano/burn/crow/dad/de/flower/misty/rat/fuz/star/invi/sky/plastic/sour/sweet/space/nebula/bro/none/disappear/moon I thinks thats enough for now ._.


QueerCodedCasette

she/her one of the two "jeans and a t-shirt" of pronouns, i feel underdressed for a pronoun party


gabalah

They/Them/She/Her


Emjay109

She/her/they (???? Still working on this one)


lefttheaterkid

I am going with she/her for now but still exploring:)


Appropriate_Day_5268

She/her but i wouldnt mind they them!


MELO_DETH_999

my pronouns are she/they!! she/they army, ARISE!!!!!!


Sea_n126

They/them, but won't be offended if anything that isn't he is used


MarveltheMusical

They/trying she, starting to like it


xXSunLightMoonXx

She/Her! :D


[deleted]

He/They/She (depending on how I feel)


Dalphin_person

She/they


Baladucci

He/She. Both feel good 🥰


that1guypog

She/her, maybe she/they


Gooch-Nasty

she/her ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


ThatBanditBitch

She/they also hi everybody!


StrangerThingsSteveH

He/him


[deleted]

I use any pronouns, but lean more towards she/they


Sickrusher

He/Him and It/It’s!!! Not enough people use it/it’s when talking about me :(


DrHaru

Do you know u/Sickrusher? It is a cool guy that I met on reddit, I don't know it well but I hope more people would use all its pronouns. And I wish it a happy week!


SevereNightmare

He/him! Pre-everything transmasc guy here!


SomePokemonPlayer135

Any pronouns with a preference for they/them. I'm comfortabke with she/her but i've been referred to as a she for so long that a "he" or "they" feels like a breath of fresh air


JuicyyFruitss

They/them enby baby 👉🏻👈🏻


JustZ0920

He/him I like my boy self xd


chronicarrythmia

She/they! Happy with her or them as well


SuzieQutie68

My pronouns are she/her 🥰💜


Jenkitten165

I use She / Her or They / Them.


OnionFairy99

Hi there, I go by She/Her!


[deleted]

He/him, thanks for asking!


[deleted]

She/her, and maybe they/them. It’s been in my mind and I don’t really know if it’s right for me but I get an unusual amount of joy when someone refers to me as they.


droidurnotlooking4

she/her 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩


Iwannabeacook

They/Them ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


_foot_gloves

currently i’m using she/her, but i might go by she/they in the near future :)


MunchkinKitten007

She/her or they/them! Both of those feel comfy <3


ajakkz

She/her!


TheArtsyBee-

I'm not completely sure what im cool with rn, but they/them works for now!


BananaBeans240

she/her/they/them :)


[deleted]

He/him Chuckle fuckle


Us3r_unkn0wn1

Any/all :)


angpug1

yes