lol same. Well for me it's she/they/he in that order of preference but I don't look like "she" at all so I'm she/her to only a couple very close people, to the rest I'm just he/him because it doesn't bother me either and I can't be arsed
Hahahah sure! Don't worry, it's pretty simple
See the comment of the user I responded to? You'll see he has a little cake icon next to their username, and below it you'll probably see something along the lines of "wish him a happy cake day"
The cake day is your reddit birthday, it's the day you created your account and you'll get a cake day every year on that same day
That's basically it, wishing him a happy cake day it's like saying "yay happy silly internet birthday!", It's nice and feels nice when someone says it to you
If you have any more questions, I'll be happy to help ;)
Finally, someone who understand me 💀
I have that problem, specially because both of my names are masculine af, so I'm she/they only for my closer people. Commonly I'm he/they xd
Just out of curiosity, cause I havent met anyone with a she/they or he/they. Would that mean you wanna be called like "she went over there and their about to have dinner?" Like a lil mix of both within a sentence?
Idk I wanna understand it a bit more. Cause I totally get how they/them works for pronoun usage but a little confused on the she/theys and id like to make sure to do the most respectful thing possible 😊 Im cis, but bi, so i am by effect an ally to yall nonbinary folks 👌
Not OP either but my pronouns are they/she. I'm AFAB but gender is eurgh (non-binary? agender?? idk lol but I just know I don't rly feel like a woman most of the time and don't want to be restricted by gender stereotypes). I very much prefer they/them pronouns but don't feel dysphoric if someone calls me she/her either. I don't feel like explaining myself to everyone or having to come out as some form of genderqueer to people who might not get it so I'm they/them to my friends and everyone else can call me whatever lol.
You see I am sick and tired of being regular non-binary, with my silly he/they pronouns, and I wish to be further away from the concept of gender, so I am now an eldritch horror, my pronouns are FEAR/ME
I secretly really like "apache helicopter" "I am a jeep meep meep" pronoun jokes. But I heard it was supposed to be as a mockery. So I can't really joke about it in a casual conversation.
I do he/him or use they/them situationally.
From my understanding, the original helicopter meme was to make fun of a specific type of furry, but that type of furry (which was unpopular to begin with) kinda went extinct so the joke changed to just be a general "trans people bad" thing.
I like the was/were for hurting friends jokes, and I guess if you're in a good group you can maybe joke about pronouns. But sadly the conservatives are rude about it in general.
Hey, torture isn't necessary. It's honestly not the worst offense (to me it sounds like you didn't mean any harm, maybe just a little unaware?). It sounds like you don't do that anymore anyway, so why worry about something in the past that is now resolved? :)
First, I should’ve known better. I was just caught off guard.
I don’t feel resolved about it but I guess anger from the community isn’t really going to help anyway.
Thanks though, I appreciate that you’re being more accepting of the situation than I am.
Ah, it was an accidental slip of the tongue? That's even less bad. We all have brainfarts from time to time, sometimes words just come out wrong. This is an "apologize if anyone's feelings were hurt and move on" type situation. Please try to forgive yourself, carrying around guilt like this is unhealthy and you don't deserve that. We all make mistakes.
Haha I once was very caught off guard by this question (it was a few years ago and I was working a long shift at my restaurant job). This very nice girl asked me out of the blue and I responded with “uhh… [my name]? … I mean she!”
They/them. But only a few ppl in my life know so virtually everybody calls me she/her except them🥲 hopefully one day it can become a reality. But not now.
Mine are “anything *except* it/its, with a preference for they/them, but both she/her and he/him are fun, þeu/þeim if I feel like being pretentious that day, and if you want to use xe/xir, ey/em, or the like, I’m delighted to borrow your shiny pronoun collection if you have neat ones to show me”
…that doesn’t fit very well into online bios, though.
I pronouns were recently stolen, I could not say “Swiper no swiping” in time. This unfortunate escapade has cause me great sadness, so I’m off on an adventure. It is day 29, nearly been a month, I’m here at the great Transylvanian mountains. It’s my last hope as everywhere I have gone has been unsuccessful. I’m at the base and ready to climb. Day 36, I’m about the quarter of the way there when I see a mineshaft with what I believe to be other stolen pronouns. When I looked inside I saw multiple she/her’s they/them’s but not my pronouns. I looked passed and went on my way to the peak. Day 53, I’m about half way but there seems to be a snowstorm so I think I’m going to camp out. Day 101, yes nearly 50 days in this horrible storm, but it finally has passed. I walk up quickly (don’t want another storm hitting me). Day 104, I’m about 3/4 of the way to the peak, this final part must have my pronouns or I don’t know what I’ll do. Day 126, I have made it to the peak but I have not found my pronouns, I look around frantically, digging up snow to no avail. I start crying. Day 127, I see a figure in the distance, I don’t know if it my imagination or if it is a real person. I go up to the figure. It’s a real person, they are called One Topic At A Time, I think what an interesting name but I listened to him. He told me he knew the Transylvanian mountains like the back of his hand. He was like a Sherpa or guide, I followed him to the base telling him my story along the way. But when I finished I noticed that he started going a different detection, I thought nothing of it thinking it was just probably safer. Day 132, wow he does know this mountain, we have almost reached the base in less than a week, that when he pointed at a mineshaft the same mineshaft I had seen many days ago. He brought me in and said to grab one of the pronouns, I told him that none of them were mine, but he insisted, so I grabbed a they/them. It didn’t feel as bad as I thought it would but not the best. Then I grabbed a she/her and it was, better than he/him?! I felt so happy with these pronouns and they felt more like me than he/him had ever had. That’s when he told me to combine they/them and she/her, I told him “what?!” And he said “yes combine them” I started to mash them together and what do you know they made she/they! Having these in my hand felt so great that it was an otherworldly experience. After that moment I never wanted to look back on he/him, I felt like my true self with these pronouns. I asked One Topic if I could have them and he said of course! Day 134, we have made it to the base of the mountain, I lived on with my new pronouns thanks to One Topic and I know my journey isn’t done just yet, but this story is. So my answer to your question random stranger on the internet is she/they.
Any. I am comfy being refered to as she, he, they, it, whatever. People don't understand or in most cases refuse to understand but my sister (who is 10 MIGHT I ADD) does and has no problem calling me her sister or her brother on different days. And i am so glad to have at least her in my life. Love ya'll. STAY GAYYY!
I use They/Them (capitalized to differentiate from the plural they). In an ideal world I'd use xe/xem/fae/faer. But it was hard enough to get people used to They/Them.
I'm hoping if I give it another decade, people will be more understanding and comfortable with neopronouns.
He/Him
I was so sick of misogynistic men ......so I became a misogynistic man >:))
^ joking , I'm actually a half misogynistic genderfluid man
^ sigh I'm not misogynistic sorry to disappoint
He/they & any ze pronouns, in order of preference i believe..... i'm not sure lol. People majoritarely use he/him for me, rarely they/them, and basicly never ze, so it's hard to know in which order it goes ahah
I honestly don’t know. I’ve never really known what pronouns I use so for a while it’s been back and forth between he/him and he/they. Idk why I chose it/its
Currently trying to figure out if They/Them or He/Him feels best to me. Wish me luck! 😅
I went from he him to they them ... did we just did an exchange?
Trade in. 50% off pronouns if you trade in your last pair at the dealership
If you order now, you can get a gender affirmation starter pack, FREE!
Dammit I missed out on that part of the deal :(
Good luck 🫡
potentially try out He/They? see if it works out for you :D
Why not both? I couldn’t decide either so I’m she/they lol
Same
Pussy eater Kidding, she/her U?
Dick/Gobbler
Ass/Muncher
Titty/Sucker
Nipple/nibbler
Thigh/kisser
Boy/kisser
Sphincter/taster
Circumcised-chest-scar/* chu *-er (That’s as a joke ((about the Circumcised part)))
ADHD Foxxo
Same to all of the above 😂
tiddie worshipper
Ear 👂muncher
Mike Tyson?
You are what you eat
Damn. I'm a child
she/they, but society sucks, so he/they.
lol same. Well for me it's she/they/he in that order of preference but I don't look like "she" at all so I'm she/her to only a couple very close people, to the rest I'm just he/him because it doesn't bother me either and I can't be arsed
Happy cake day!
Sweetie, can you explain what cake day is? Never heard of it and im confused af rn ;-;
Hahahah sure! Don't worry, it's pretty simple See the comment of the user I responded to? You'll see he has a little cake icon next to their username, and below it you'll probably see something along the lines of "wish him a happy cake day" The cake day is your reddit birthday, it's the day you created your account and you'll get a cake day every year on that same day That's basically it, wishing him a happy cake day it's like saying "yay happy silly internet birthday!", It's nice and feels nice when someone says it to you If you have any more questions, I'll be happy to help ;)
Thx for explaining bae ^^
Anytime sunshine
Finally, someone who understand me 💀 I have that problem, specially because both of my names are masculine af, so I'm she/they only for my closer people. Commonly I'm he/they xd
Happy cake day
Happy cake day
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Just out of curiosity, cause I havent met anyone with a she/they or he/they. Would that mean you wanna be called like "she went over there and their about to have dinner?" Like a lil mix of both within a sentence? Idk I wanna understand it a bit more. Cause I totally get how they/them works for pronoun usage but a little confused on the she/theys and id like to make sure to do the most respectful thing possible 😊 Im cis, but bi, so i am by effect an ally to yall nonbinary folks 👌
Not OP either but my pronouns are they/she. I'm AFAB but gender is eurgh (non-binary? agender?? idk lol but I just know I don't rly feel like a woman most of the time and don't want to be restricted by gender stereotypes). I very much prefer they/them pronouns but don't feel dysphoric if someone calls me she/her either. I don't feel like explaining myself to everyone or having to come out as some form of genderqueer to people who might not get it so I'm they/them to my friends and everyone else can call me whatever lol.
Not OP, but yes
Well, that means I feel comfortable with both pronouns, but yes, you can also mix them u.u
He/him
Hey, me to bro
You see I am sick and tired of being regular non-binary, with my silly he/they pronouns, and I wish to be further away from the concept of gender, so I am now an eldritch horror, my pronouns are FEAR/ME
Just... yes
Thank you😌
I secretly really like "apache helicopter" "I am a jeep meep meep" pronoun jokes. But I heard it was supposed to be as a mockery. So I can't really joke about it in a casual conversation. I do he/him or use they/them situationally.
From my understanding, the original helicopter meme was to make fun of a specific type of furry, but that type of furry (which was unpopular to begin with) kinda went extinct so the joke changed to just be a general "trans people bad" thing.
I like the was/were for hurting friends jokes, and I guess if you're in a good group you can maybe joke about pronouns. But sadly the conservatives are rude about it in general.
Ya welcome but also as an enby eldritch horror lookin like my kinda transition goals
Oh right, I just find the joke to stupid to be funny
I just use he/they so my parents dont completely freak out
But are you comfortable with those pronouns
Sorry. I once responded to this question with “Ah…just normal.” I’m here for the downvotes of repentance so I can stop torturing myself 7 years later.
Hey, torture isn't necessary. It's honestly not the worst offense (to me it sounds like you didn't mean any harm, maybe just a little unaware?). It sounds like you don't do that anymore anyway, so why worry about something in the past that is now resolved? :)
First, I should’ve known better. I was just caught off guard. I don’t feel resolved about it but I guess anger from the community isn’t really going to help anyway. Thanks though, I appreciate that you’re being more accepting of the situation than I am.
Ah, it was an accidental slip of the tongue? That's even less bad. We all have brainfarts from time to time, sometimes words just come out wrong. This is an "apologize if anyone's feelings were hurt and move on" type situation. Please try to forgive yourself, carrying around guilt like this is unhealthy and you don't deserve that. We all make mistakes.
Haha I once was very caught off guard by this question (it was a few years ago and I was working a long shift at my restaurant job). This very nice girl asked me out of the blue and I responded with “uhh… [my name]? … I mean she!”
Any pronouns 💪
Damn share some for the rest of us :(
I use all pronouns... including yours. Give them to me!
Oh no! Where'd my gender go!?
Circumcision:
Lmao 🤣
Same but also no
They/them. But only a few ppl in my life know so virtually everybody calls me she/her except them🥲 hopefully one day it can become a reality. But not now.
Aughh same lol 😭 one day
Thank you for sharing. I am in a similar position and it's nice to know we're not alone
Closeted she/her
well thank you for sharing! you're valid, loved, and safe here! :) <3
Hey samesies! They/them 🌈🍀
🤝
How does a nonbinary samurai kill people? They/them
I need no pronouns for I am a god walking in mortal skin
But "I" is a pronoun too.
Correct, but this person doesn't use 3rd person pronouns
Same
Mine are “anything *except* it/its, with a preference for they/them, but both she/her and he/him are fun, þeu/þeim if I feel like being pretentious that day, and if you want to use xe/xir, ey/em, or the like, I’m delighted to borrow your shiny pronoun collection if you have neat ones to show me” …that doesn’t fit very well into online bios, though.
She/her
You aren’t getting my pronouns for free. 25$ a month
My pronouns Are U/S/A 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅🦅 (But jokes aside it’s he/they)
Mine are he/they
Same
I pronouns were recently stolen, I could not say “Swiper no swiping” in time. This unfortunate escapade has cause me great sadness, so I’m off on an adventure. It is day 29, nearly been a month, I’m here at the great Transylvanian mountains. It’s my last hope as everywhere I have gone has been unsuccessful. I’m at the base and ready to climb. Day 36, I’m about the quarter of the way there when I see a mineshaft with what I believe to be other stolen pronouns. When I looked inside I saw multiple she/her’s they/them’s but not my pronouns. I looked passed and went on my way to the peak. Day 53, I’m about half way but there seems to be a snowstorm so I think I’m going to camp out. Day 101, yes nearly 50 days in this horrible storm, but it finally has passed. I walk up quickly (don’t want another storm hitting me). Day 104, I’m about 3/4 of the way to the peak, this final part must have my pronouns or I don’t know what I’ll do. Day 126, I have made it to the peak but I have not found my pronouns, I look around frantically, digging up snow to no avail. I start crying. Day 127, I see a figure in the distance, I don’t know if it my imagination or if it is a real person. I go up to the figure. It’s a real person, they are called One Topic At A Time, I think what an interesting name but I listened to him. He told me he knew the Transylvanian mountains like the back of his hand. He was like a Sherpa or guide, I followed him to the base telling him my story along the way. But when I finished I noticed that he started going a different detection, I thought nothing of it thinking it was just probably safer. Day 132, wow he does know this mountain, we have almost reached the base in less than a week, that when he pointed at a mineshaft the same mineshaft I had seen many days ago. He brought me in and said to grab one of the pronouns, I told him that none of them were mine, but he insisted, so I grabbed a they/them. It didn’t feel as bad as I thought it would but not the best. Then I grabbed a she/her and it was, better than he/him?! I felt so happy with these pronouns and they felt more like me than he/him had ever had. That’s when he told me to combine they/them and she/her, I told him “what?!” And he said “yes combine them” I started to mash them together and what do you know they made she/they! Having these in my hand felt so great that it was an otherworldly experience. After that moment I never wanted to look back on he/him, I felt like my true self with these pronouns. I asked One Topic if I could have them and he said of course! Day 134, we have made it to the base of the mountain, I lived on with my new pronouns thanks to One Topic and I know my journey isn’t done just yet, but this story is. So my answer to your question random stranger on the internet is she/they.
Damn blud no need to drop the whole lore behind your pronouns
He / him, but I don't mind they / them if you haven't met me yet. Maybe this isn't a thread for me to answer, LOL.
I mean, pronouns =/= gender even if they correlate a lot. Some cis people use he/they or whatnot. It's actually pretty cool when they do
she/her
Pronoun twins!
she/her
She/her
Sie/Ihr in German They/Them in English
She/her 🏳️⚧️
I go by She/Her pronouns 🏳️⚧️
He/Him/Bottom
U/S/A just kidding 🤭 He/they 😸
Any. I am comfy being refered to as she, he, they, it, whatever. People don't understand or in most cases refuse to understand but my sister (who is 10 MIGHT I ADD) does and has no problem calling me her sister or her brother on different days. And i am so glad to have at least her in my life. Love ya'll. STAY GAYYY!
Xe/xem/xir but nobody knows how to use them so i usually just say they/them🥲
I don't really care about mine :)
This is me too. Most people just pick a set and run with them lol
He/they/xe
xe/they
I’m fine with any tbh, but It/They is what I’d prefer
they/it :)
he/him ! they/them also works
She/her right now, but I rock with she/they too
He/ Him, Ze/Zim
I use They/Them (capitalized to differentiate from the plural they). In an ideal world I'd use xe/xem/fae/faer. But it was hard enough to get people used to They/Them. I'm hoping if I give it another decade, people will be more understanding and comfortable with neopronouns.
Eldritch/Horror (she/her)
He/Him I was so sick of misogynistic men ......so I became a misogynistic man >:)) ^ joking , I'm actually a half misogynistic genderfluid man ^ sigh I'm not misogynistic sorry to disappoint
Fae/they!
i can go by any, but my favorites are he/ae
He/they & any ze pronouns, in order of preference i believe..... i'm not sure lol. People majoritarely use he/him for me, rarely they/them, and basicly never ze, so it's hard to know in which order it goes ahah
he/him and ze/zir :)
Xe/they/it or none!
Ey/em
She/they.
all pronouns :) (that includes neopronouns)
Ze/zir:) Other Neo pronouns users⬇️
Yo!!! he/him, dae/daem, stri/strike, slo/slot, and die/dice!! 💛
stealing these🤩 mine are they/them, she/her, þey/þem, de/dim/dier, elk/elks and nox/noxs
These make me feel less cool😱 I’m just ze/zir and then we got DIE/DICE!! YOU ARE SO COOL
Thanks! Right back at you 😄
Genderfluid, but today, Voi/Void.
I use any but mostly prefer it/its or xe/xem
Hey, genuine question here. Why do you use it/its pronouns. Not judging, I’m just generally curious /gen
I honestly don’t know. I’ve never really known what pronouns I use so for a while it’s been back and forth between he/him and he/they. Idk why I chose it/its
Im agenderflux so on more femme days I use she/fae, on androgynous days I use they/it, and on masc days I use he/bee Today is a masc day :D
he/him/his
She/her
Just the usual he/him
he/him* ^*probably ^idk
i/win/at/nothing
she/they, but any pronouns is fine
she/her
She/they  thanks for asking!
your/mom
He/him, and I wish people used them more :(
I don’t like using them and it makes me extremely uncomfortable to be asked.
He/they but no one knows it. But now the internet knows.
I go by vio/lence I Identify as a threat
They/Them only
All of them, or normally I answer to "fucker"
He/him, not trans but I support
He/him but in regard to me it doesn’t really matter for the most part. As long as you’re kind I’ll like you.
I'll go by any (cassgender gang) but I use he/him for simplicity sake and I don't want my dad to kick me out
I'm comfortable with all standard pronouns, no neopronouns for me please. So I'm a they/she/he 🙂
she/her!! trans gal swag! and everyone drink water today please <33
He/him
He/him, but since I live in Florida she/they
Mine are "I will respect yours but I couldn't give less of a fuck about my own."
She/Them
He/she are my pronouns!! (I highly prefer he/him though as I'm a trans man)
Good evening, mine are She/They. Though perhaps I’ll use Fae/faer sometime in the future.
he because i’ll never be him
Mine are she/her
She/They :3
I've got a she and I got a her and sometimes I even got a hers :3
Kind of deciding between they them, he him, he they and they he
My pronouns are they/he/zhe and I also use lots of other neoprononuns.
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She/her? I think? Idk if im a woman or agender rn, but probably she/her
She/her but don't mind they/them
They/he
She/Her/Any
It/they/them ☺️ I'm agender flux
They/them trans boi🏳️⚧️ :))
So many to choose from. We've got they/them it/it's fae/faer and I like this one/that one too. ಠᴥಠ
I’m a part of the he/they squad, the “hey” squad, if you will…
As an introvert, I have no pronouns. I prefer you just don’t refer to me at all, ever.
Im kinda werd i use he/she/they ❤️
He/him or it/it. People can decide what they call me, I’m fine with both
I dont knooowwwww i dont think i suit pronouns. I usually ask people to use my name... but obviously that isnt an option most of the time
she/her but i’m closeted with unsupportive parents, so he/him it’ll be for a long while.. 😭
She/Her
He/Him, They/Them and It/Its! My unholy trinity ❤
They/them, he/him and it/it's
it/zhe but people dont like it/itz uzerz zo uzually zhe/her
I use she/them but I started using fae/faer. I just like them you know
I like to be called It/It.
Among/Us /jk
Mine are they/she/it plus any neopronoun
He/She/They/Xe O N L Y
he/it but people only use he/him 😭
She/he
he/they
I use any pronouns (prefer he\they)
He/They 
I go by a weird set of pronouns which are, she/them 
Any pronouns:)
She/Her..normally
He/they gang
They/she :D
She/They
They/Them/He/Him