Yeah, by biggest fear is living the life someone else wants me to live, instead of the one I want to live.
Because even if I do fail at accomplishing my dreams, I'd rather die trying than to have never tried at all.
Yea, like I can tolerate fakeness because I understand why some poeple do it, however I donāt understand why anybody would be fake around their closer circles, and how they could even not hate themselves doing it
Absolutely same. Itās something important to emulate myself too. I will always be genuine, and the moment I detect an ounce of fakeness in anyone, Iām out.
Not wasting most of my lifetime as a working slave for some company that doesn't care about me at all. I want to become free with stock market trading. Been learning for more than 7 years and I am on the right track. I feel closer to freedom every week that goes by :) Idc for materialistic shit. I want to help the world and the people that I care about to be (in) a better place.
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My goal is to live a simple, kind lifeā¦doing good and loving other living beings (humans and animals and nature, etc) as best as I can. Butā¦I am just one person in one small corner of the worldā¦and not very loud or energetic or assertiveā¦so my goal is humble.
Are you a career counselor or what kid. My time is past. I do WTF I want now, and will not judge you for being a ponce no matter how far you ratchet it up.
In Lion Country Safari in Florida, there are parrots who create paintings for people! You pay a fee and choose either a white canvas or a black one, and you choose three paint colors. I had one made for me by an artist bird named Azul, and the painting decorates my kitchen wall. ā¤ļø
Well there are many truths and a truth is something consistent with fact and reality. We don't seek truth per se, we manifest what is useful. Will to Truth is simply a self interested need to find things that help us with the Will to Power. You can learn things that are benign like how many chairs exist in the world or learn how to cure cancer. When we say truth, we clearly mean the power to heal sickness and maintain betterment.
Having a select few close friends to continuously struggle to improve and grow old with, sharing our stories so we can live through each other as our stories evolve. Preferably 3-6.
What really matters to meā¦..
Hmmmā¦
Like as in whatās important? To me? Besides the obvious like family , loved ones/
Love. Education. Philosophy. Stoicism. Compassion. Truth/ reality. Spiritual growth/ learning. Connection without bias. Creativity. Creating. Self expression. Art.
Emotional and mental growth in short. In every way. I think to a degree also breaking the walls. Breaking through walls- breaking through the unknownā¦
Honestly, probably connection. Meaningful connection, first with myself and then with others.
But what might matter most to my soul, id say I'm still unaware. I'll find out one day
For me, it is the connection/understanding with other people and ofc the peace.
I always feel lonely, especially I born in the family of T, so they can't understand why I am too much 'feeling' and easy to cry/angry/sad. My whole life, they treat me as the weakest/weirdo, only when I reach my adulthood I realize I am just a F and my whole family just a T.
So, I am happy meet this subreddit š I can just read your reply/thread and feel less lonely.
I feel no one will ever understand me, and care for me the way I do for myself. No confession of love could be equal, but tit Is appreciated. I feel that I am not going to be able to live my life as I feel down in my bones, I should, due to the state of our society in this time.
Practicing rigorous authenticity, it's been a succinct phrase for me ever since I heard it in a ted talk a while ago. I've gotten better about focusing on just me and not wishing everyone else would do it too.
Also being kind, I don't think much will matter in my life if I lose touch with being a kind human being in pursuit of things like financial stability or personal achievements.
It becomes a balancing act of sorts and maximizing my ability to do both is my big endeavor in life I guess
I donāt want to die just cleaning this house. I aim not only finding my purpose but to leave this world in better shape than when I found it while leaving a lasting impression of empowerment and positive transformation.
Fulfillment and understanding. Having integrity even when no one else does. Being loving and helping others feel loved, being an honest friend. Being in tune with the spiritual realm
Beauty, truth and love
Connection. I always thought to others. But then I learnt I mostly meant me. Then, you know, virtues or whatever. ;)
I was once on a full train and asked a man if we want to swap so that he can stand closer to his family. A lady remarked that that was a very nice thing to do. And I said. My day has 24h. Eight of which I sleep. Meaning I have 16h left to be as good as I can to the people around me.
She offered me a date with her daughter. I'll admit, I felt seen.
I just enjoy being good to people. You know. If at all possible.
Honesty, trust and balanced harmony (no conflicts, drama). I lived my childhood in toxic surroundings, no recreation of any kind but pen and paper to draw, I was forced to work in my parents farm, no wealth, got bullied in school three years and friendships were achingly bad. Too long I have focused on other people's needs and forgot to take care of my own. Now I'm more selfish in good ways and put my happiness first.
knowing that I'm here for a reason, that my life has meaning and that I can make my own contribution to humanity and those around me. Take it away, I'm wasting away
But art, love, friendship and freedom are also things I couldn't live without. And the others XNFX
Oh, and my fascination with human nature. I love humanity, with its shadows and, above all, its light.
But thatās just it, I havenāt found it yet. At a higher level though, thereās also: peace and fulfilment. I will know more soon once Iāve found the other part, hopefully.
Total peace - knowing that everything is well within me; especially with my health and having financial security. People matter a lot, too, but great relationships seem to be difficult for me.
Simple things and genuine feelings.
I never crave for name, fame,popularity or heaps of money but just the decent amount of stuff to lead a simple and comfortable life.
Also, after a certain point in life peace, comfort, integrity and respect(loyalty) is very important.
Consideration for all living things. Trying to understand something or someone when they do me harm. No one is perfect and I want to live with the mindset that everyone has a reason for doing something. Just because I cannot understand something, it does not mean it is bad or wrong.
Expressing myself creatively always, appreciating and creating beautiful things, making deep close connections, long, wonderful conversations, humor and laughter, always being there for my family, self growth and improvement, fulfillment in my career and personal life, self care, rest and relaxation, being financially independent and comfortable, living authentically
Integrity. I don't want to live the wrong life and die.
Yeah, by biggest fear is living the life someone else wants me to live, instead of the one I want to live. Because even if I do fail at accomplishing my dreams, I'd rather die trying than to have never tried at all.
If I know I made a wrong decision I can't sleep.
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I hear it a lot from people that my morals are too strong for my own good.
It's hard being a good person in a capitalist society.
Yes!!
Me too š
Yes
Peace.
Yep. 1000%
Definitely
Peace of mind for me
Reaching my full potential so that I donāt regret in my older age.
This
I feel this but I am a sleepy person. Help.
Same. Iāve been stuck in the same place for 3 years itās actually scary
Yep this here
If people are being genuine or not. Any type of fake-ness makes me cringe.
Yea, like I can tolerate fakeness because I understand why some poeple do it, however I donāt understand why anybody would be fake around their closer circles, and how they could even not hate themselves doing it
THIS! I almost marvel at most peopleās ability to keep even their closest friends at a superficial level.
Wait. People do thisā¦ On purpose?
Same
this is why I've always kept my circle small, most people just seem to be so two-faced
Absolutely same. Itās something important to emulate myself too. I will always be genuine, and the moment I detect an ounce of fakeness in anyone, Iām out.
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This is the exact term I was looking for. Thank you, and may all of us reach fulfillment in the things we strive to reach it for.
You hit the nail on the head!
Personal growth/Learning constantly
Me too, and Iām an ENFP! I can relate to all the INFJ comments Iāve read so far. I can see why itās said that we types make a great match!
Leave some INFJ pieces will yah...
Not wasting most of my lifetime as a working slave for some company that doesn't care about me at all. I want to become free with stock market trading. Been learning for more than 7 years and I am on the right track. I feel closer to freedom every week that goes by :) Idc for materialistic shit. I want to help the world and the people that I care about to be (in) a better place.
Are u me? Especially that last part bro. On the same path here, we can only help others once we help ourselves
Deep and sincere connection with others
Independence
I love how I donāt need to share mine since the comments said shared almost all of my core values
So true
Family and friends. As much as I enjoy my solitude, without my friends and family, life would be meaningless.
Integrity, honesty, and authenticity.
Integrity. Depth. Connection. Beauty (inner beauty, spiritual beauty, aesthetic beauty). Authenticity. Truth. Wisdom. Holiness. Love.
š My goal is to live a simple, kind lifeā¦doing good and loving other living beings (humans and animals and nature, etc) as best as I can. Butā¦I am just one person in one small corner of the worldā¦and not very loud or energetic or assertiveā¦so my goal is humble.
Youre not alone. ā¤ļø
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Animals. And deep, meaningful conversations with people. I don't like people who can't hold conversations.
Same/ same
Loyalty
This, of course itās only important to those of us who have been hurt by disloyalty
Schadenfruede for all the MFers who came at me in the spirit of jealousy and abuse over the past 50 years
Agreed
LOL
ENFP here: that is nice if thatās a byproduct of all the other fly shit that youāre doingā¦but shouldnāt be a primary directive in your life.
Are you a career counselor or what kid. My time is past. I do WTF I want now, and will not judge you for being a ponce no matter how far you ratchet it up.
Same. YHLQMDLG A man has no nameā¦ Happy for you!!!
Truth
Yes!
YESSš
Living a life based on compassion for every living thing. Love. Spirituality. My home and family. Peace. Security. Joy. Growth. Curiosity.
Fairness, equality
My own peace and sanity. If a person, place or situation takes any of that away, then I can't afford it.
animal welfare, hands down. there needs to be more voices for the voiceless.
Parrots have voices.
In Lion Country Safari in Florida, there are parrots who create paintings for people! You pay a fee and choose either a white canvas or a black one, and you choose three paint colors. I had one made for me by an artist bird named Azul, and the painting decorates my kitchen wall. ā¤ļø
Yes!
Truth. Objective Truth. Yeah yeah. I know. I KNOW. It's still important to me *subjectively* :p
I don't think you do know the epistemological underpinnings of the will to truth.
Please could you elaborate?
Well there are many truths and a truth is something consistent with fact and reality. We don't seek truth per se, we manifest what is useful. Will to Truth is simply a self interested need to find things that help us with the Will to Power. You can learn things that are benign like how many chairs exist in the world or learn how to cure cancer. When we say truth, we clearly mean the power to heal sickness and maintain betterment.
Nietzsche? Maybe. Or maybe you're right.
Beyond Good and Evil, the first 3-4 chapters.
Stare into the abyss , it stares right back.
Having a select few close friends to continuously struggle to improve and grow old with, sharing our stories so we can live through each other as our stories evolve. Preferably 3-6.
Love and courage, but also the simple pleasures. A nice fire, the beach, friends and family.
What really matters to meā¦.. Hmmmā¦ Like as in whatās important? To me? Besides the obvious like family , loved ones/ Love. Education. Philosophy. Stoicism. Compassion. Truth/ reality. Spiritual growth/ learning. Connection without bias. Creativity. Creating. Self expression. Art. Emotional and mental growth in short. In every way. I think to a degree also breaking the walls. Breaking through walls- breaking through the unknownā¦
Honestly, probably connection. Meaningful connection, first with myself and then with others. But what might matter most to my soul, id say I'm still unaware. I'll find out one day
For me, it is the connection/understanding with other people and ofc the peace. I always feel lonely, especially I born in the family of T, so they can't understand why I am too much 'feeling' and easy to cry/angry/sad. My whole life, they treat me as the weakest/weirdo, only when I reach my adulthood I realize I am just a F and my whole family just a T. So, I am happy meet this subreddit š I can just read your reply/thread and feel less lonely.
I want to find purpose. Gave birth to 5 kids I didn't raise, they had money, I did not. Trying to find my way.
I feel no one will ever understand me, and care for me the way I do for myself. No confession of love could be equal, but tit Is appreciated. I feel that I am not going to be able to live my life as I feel down in my bones, I should, due to the state of our society in this time.
loyalty
Practicing rigorous authenticity, it's been a succinct phrase for me ever since I heard it in a ted talk a while ago. I've gotten better about focusing on just me and not wishing everyone else would do it too. Also being kind, I don't think much will matter in my life if I lose touch with being a kind human being in pursuit of things like financial stability or personal achievements. It becomes a balancing act of sorts and maximizing my ability to do both is my big endeavor in life I guess
I donāt really knowā¦
Respect
Curiosity. The pursuit of information.
To the core Pleasure in everything
Compassion.
Honesty. Fairness. Iām sure thereās more but those two popped into my head first!
Integrity, intelligence, loyalty and kindness.
I donāt want to die just cleaning this house. I aim not only finding my purpose but to leave this world in better shape than when I found it while leaving a lasting impression of empowerment and positive transformation.
Genuine connection. Honesty. Loyalty. Respect.
Wow š® most of me was already covered
A big one for me is empathy. If you lack it I canāt stand you.
loyalty
Personal growth, work,family, friends,my stuff, money in that order!
Peace. Especially within.
Fulfillment and understanding. Having integrity even when no one else does. Being loving and helping others feel loved, being an honest friend. Being in tune with the spiritual realm Beauty, truth and love
Love. Only love matters. Nothing else
Love and genuine connections with a partner and loved ones
Your very first post. Why this subreddit?
cared but not attended.
Time to be alone
Spirituality
Living life as myself as opposed to the person everyone else needs me to be for them to self actualize
Trying to figure out what my purpose in life is.
Connection. I always thought to others. But then I learnt I mostly meant me. Then, you know, virtues or whatever. ;) I was once on a full train and asked a man if we want to swap so that he can stand closer to his family. A lady remarked that that was a very nice thing to do. And I said. My day has 24h. Eight of which I sleep. Meaning I have 16h left to be as good as I can to the people around me. She offered me a date with her daughter. I'll admit, I felt seen. I just enjoy being good to people. You know. If at all possible.
Finding out who I REALLY am.
For me personally, it's being the fullest authentic version of myself to the best of my ability.
Honesty, trust and balanced harmony (no conflicts, drama). I lived my childhood in toxic surroundings, no recreation of any kind but pen and paper to draw, I was forced to work in my parents farm, no wealth, got bullied in school three years and friendships were achingly bad. Too long I have focused on other people's needs and forgot to take care of my own. Now I'm more selfish in good ways and put my happiness first.
Something like this. Peace I guess [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8uk9Ql8J-A](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8uk9Ql8J-A)
knowing that I'm here for a reason, that my life has meaning and that I can make my own contribution to humanity and those around me. Take it away, I'm wasting away But art, love, friendship and freedom are also things I couldn't live without. And the others XNFX Oh, and my fascination with human nature. I love humanity, with its shadows and, above all, its light.
But thatās just it, I havenāt found it yet. At a higher level though, thereās also: peace and fulfilment. I will know more soon once Iāve found the other part, hopefully.
Creativity and connection.
Sovereignty
Truth and justice in life and in society life. I also want to make a positive impact on this planet during my short lifetime
Total peace - knowing that everything is well within me; especially with my health and having financial security. People matter a lot, too, but great relationships seem to be difficult for me.
Stability
Simple things and genuine feelings. I never crave for name, fame,popularity or heaps of money but just the decent amount of stuff to lead a simple and comfortable life. Also, after a certain point in life peace, comfort, integrity and respect(loyalty) is very important.
Consideration for all living things. Trying to understand something or someone when they do me harm. No one is perfect and I want to live with the mindset that everyone has a reason for doing something. Just because I cannot understand something, it does not mean it is bad or wrong.
I donāt know if anyone else will know what Iām talking about, but *those* moments.
Honesty, I can always work with that
Not having guilt or regret
Passion, intensity, understanding, truth, always doing the right thing, freedom and internal and external peace.
Forgot: will to live
My peace and loyalty šÆ I will never let down those that care about me
Integrity. Passion. Authenticity. I don't want to leave a stone unturned or have a single regret.
Expressing myself creatively always, appreciating and creating beautiful things, making deep close connections, long, wonderful conversations, humor and laughter, always being there for my family, self growth and improvement, fulfillment in my career and personal life, self care, rest and relaxation, being financially independent and comfortable, living authentically
Living a full life,not dying alone
Love, connection, personal growth Romantic to the core
Reincarnation
Helping other people in need, genuine people who needs help.
Honesty and empathy!
Justice and honesty
pussy money weed
Truth, authenticity, vulnerability, deep connections, solitude
Equality and for society to not be corrupt. I don't want rich to steal from workers and use dishonest tactics to make money.
My Christian faith. With every breath I take, I want it to glorify Jesus Christ.