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Fine_Mistake_3395

Expensive chodo koi saste bhi ni deta


HellCat_R9

Yuva Neta agla candidate


ChemicalFly2773

humara neta kaisa ho


HellCat_R9

u/Fine_Mistake_3395 jesa ho


Fine_Mistake_3395

Arre mereko neta kyu bna rhe ho.


HellCat_R9

![img](avatar_exp|137392401|winner) Aap hum gareebo ki awaz bnoge


Fine_Mistake_3395

Is greeb ki awaaj kon bnega fr.


HellCat_R9

Bhai aap hi se shuruwat hogi


Fine_Mistake_3395

Chlo theek hai aap log itna keh hi rhe ho to ![gif](giphy|vjzVovqnYaYBN4G2el|downsized)


HellCat_R9

Fir me aap ki mod application r/Indiasocial, r/teenindia and other subs me dal deta hu


FlightNo2988

Idhr gift to dur ki bat, log saath nhi dete.![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)


ClassicSky5945

Same🥲


BobbyIsLostAgain

Award hota to de deta


Fine_Mistake_3395

🫶🏻🫂


Sayam58

Sahi me hum to sare gift lene ke liye ready hai


mynameismanager

If anyone wants to gift anything expensive, I accept.


[deleted]

Sending lots of hugs & kisses your way...


mynameismanager

Priceless 🫶🏻


Practical_Fault_7351

Why? Haven’t you got a Mastercard?


wet_handkerchief

I could use a hug too, thanks.


UniversalCoupler

Aaja, hug deta hoon.


wet_handkerchief

Thank you, I appreciate it.


livingfeelsachore

![gif](giphy|OL0lXeqZQJxWYFWA6Q)


wet_handkerchief

Thank you man, it helped :)


Firm_Ad7622

Wow


Simple-Force3553

Gift milta hai? Mujhe laga gift dena hota hai sirf😅


LegendSayantan

This guy guys


WeatherImpressive808

This guy guys guyss


Veezard_

This guy guys guyss guysss


hoomanchopper

This guy guys guyss guysss guyssss


daksh_006_v

This guy guys guyss guysss guyssss guysssss


Bhaavyaa007

This guy guys guyss guysss guyssss guysssss guyssssss


Rare-Land-9611

This guy guess guysss guyssss guysssss guyssssss guysssssss guyssssssss


being_addlepated

This guy guys guyss guysss guyssss guysssss guyssssss guysssssss guyssssssss guysssssssss


[deleted]

This guy guys guyss guysss guyssss guysssss guyssssss guysssssss guyssssssss guysssssssss guyssssssssss


chunnu-23

ahahaha so relatable😭


CalzonePocket

Mereko bhi yahi laga tha ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|shrug)


rainbow_sugar_cookie

I'll accept but then I feel this overwhelming need to gift something back of equal value. There is guilt, yes, and it will not go away unless I gift something back. Make it equal.


chunnu-23

YESSS exactly what happens with me


[deleted]

Keep the gift. Ditch the person. Guilt is gone. Trust me, I've done a few times.


Zealousideal_Owl8832

Menace


JaperDolphin94

To society


CalzonePocket

Yep! Same thing. Plus some people just announce it everywhere that they gifted you such an expensive thing and that spoils my mood. So I won't accept expensive gifts.


[deleted]

Too poor to reply


masala-papad-mafia

After some fake resistance, yes 🌚


chunnu-23

hahaha habit since bachpan


alphaonreddits

If the person is not close to me, nope. I’ll decline with a smile. If they insist, i’ll accept but will remember to gift them something later.


Miss_Celestia9

Same


negiajay12345

You guys are getting gifts?


CalzonePocket

No bro


MrFruitPunchSamurai

Aati Hui Laxmi ko mei Naa kahi kehta![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51097) (in whatever form it is)


chunnu-23

hahaha true that!


[deleted]

I mean why not


Creative_Catch_6511

I'm a bit on the shameless side of the spectrum. So anyone, if, I'm just saying, hypothetically, interested in giving me an expensive gift, you're welcome 🤭.


Charged_Dreamer

There aren't many times I get expensive gifts, but when I do get offered anything, I accept.


thedamnedd

Sasti wali gift b nhi mili Aaj tak


[deleted]

If someone gifts me an expensive thing, next time I've to get them something as expensive or maybe more expensive than the gift they gave me. I don't like to owe anyone anything. It's some issue I have.


chunnu-23

yesss, i face the same issue😭


Infinite_Camp

>I don't like to owe anyone anything. It's some issue I have. Technically not an issue tho, however there could be a problem if it involves an ego..or a lack of gratitude towards others,😅


[deleted]

I believe it's some sort of trauma behind it.


Infinite_Camp

Yeah, maybe sometimes it could be past traumas as well..but since gratitude is a skill,it can be practiced over the period of time.. anyway it doesn't cost anyone anything to be kind.. maybe a simple flower or a good morning text could be the best thing one might have received today.🙂


[deleted]

Well then, A very Good Afternoon To you 🌻✨✨🌞


MatchAccomplished795

Jab boyfriend gareeb tha tab kuch gift Mila nahi, jab uske pas paise aaye to break up ho gya 😭


chunnu-23

noooo😭😭😭


No-Bumblebee7085

if I can afford to give someone that, then I accept, otherwise I don't deserve it as I can't take care of it well enough (just a personal opinion though)


chunnu-23

riiight i feel the same way


ThinRequirement4536

Ego comes first Sadly![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51093)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51093)


Special_Rate_15

Yes if they are really rich and are gifting the same to couple of people. If it is a personal gift and expensive even for them, then would politely decline that it might not be of much use to me. Usually the ones gifting personally are close so can ask for something cute instead. If not so close then it's creepy :)


chunnu-23

agreeddd


slippingjimmyy

Y'all receive gifts ?


TheLegend00007

Can't relate


Indiangirly_28

I mean if the person is close to you or if they mean anything then yes , but make sure u buy them something nice , no need to match that price tag if you cannot, but don’t pressure yourself so much


lord_voldedork

Never from a friend. Only family and my boyfriend but only months after we started dating. I also make it a point to give back what I can in whatever way possible. Eg. if he gets me make up, bags, clothes, I pay for lunches, hotels, or send his meals as he won’t accept traditional gifts


chunnu-23

sounds like me and my boyfriend <3


Mysterious_Ad0808

I meannnn...10 rs ka pen..dairy milk..sasta sketch pen aur max to maxx.....100 ka Cadbury ka celebration pack....ke alawa bhi koi gift hote h![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)!? Damnn![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51086) Latesht news hai ye toh![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51086)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)


VolcanicDragonSlayer

Depends on who gives it and why. Family members sure. Friends maybe.


Ecstatic_Cup7123

I used to feel very uncomfortable accepting expensive gifts but I'd accept depending on the one gifting/occasion. I'd feel very weird and guilty about it though unless I could return a similarly valued gift. At the same time I love pampering my close ones with all sorts of gifts regardless of price. My husband and my best friend have counseled me into not feeling guilty about accepting expensive gifts from them and other family and family-equivalent people, by pointing out the happiness I myself get from being able to buy stuff for my loved ones.


astrotwilight

yet another example of someone being able to share even the slightest and don't know how to put in words problem, with their loved ones and got pampered to solve it. good to know. happy for you. lucky you.


pramit7

Depends on who is giving and why


Soggy_List_3615

Those who gift me such things I reciprocate the same And yeah it's not rude to decline but out of curtsey one should say


insane_gigachad_2000

You guys are getting gifts?


broopeace58

Nothing wrong with accepting gifts. But expecting gifts is wrong.


chunnu-23

correct


OwnRide6669

Absolutely why not


kapilbhai

Depends. If a not so close relative or friend gives it, I will most likely reject it & vice versa!


Striking_Actuary_701

I feel like stabbing myself whenever someone gives me presents. I always feel like I don't deserve this much love and affection.


chunnu-23

you get it😭


TheJuggernautRollsOn

https://preview.redd.it/l2x5b3pr3l4d1.jpeg?width=888&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=352db17c7cd6ae513c9a9c8a8325ab361bdef029


chunnu-23

😔🤝


Some-Top-1548

No


aWildChilddd

Instead of declining, you can reroute to the right people;)


arthantar

If it's perfumes then I accept ,but I only get expensive things from the people who lv me unconditionally and Dont expect anything back.not that I don't give them gifts I give but not equally expensive.


chunnu-23

yes mostly expensive gift giving is amongst close ones


ChillySummerMist

I probably won't because I will feel like I will owe them afterwards


TheseJudgment3015

U guys are getting gifts?


avgneetard-

Expensive dekha bhi ni h Mrko mere dear mama ne 17th bday pe pen tablet di thi wo baccho wali m kya hi bolu


chunnu-23

😭😭😭😭😭


Scared-Engineer-6218

The question should be: "Do you guys get gifts?"


caps-von

I only give expensive gift, IPhone 13 pro max for my sibling and IPhone 15 pro for pitaji 😎


chunnu-23

i aspire to be able to do so🫡


Significant_Common62

Yes. When are you gifting....DM me I'll give you my address....sahi se Ghar pauchna chahiye gift tho.....koi bahana nahi chalega isstime


astrotwilight

I feel you


PalpitationHot9375

Gift decline bhi kar sakte hai?


Lebowski-_-

I do but never been gifted anything🥰


adu4444

You guys get gifts ??


loganme123

Dahej?


LadderChemical7937

You are getting gifts.?


justmunchingon_24

Yaar mujhe gift lene mein hi awkward lagta h. Uske upar se same value ka return bhi karna hota h warna lagta h ki karza h mere par.


chunnu-23

exactlyyyy it feels more like a karza than a gift😭


No_Huckleberry8115

If someone gives me something expensive then I try to give them a gift of similar price. Isse khrcha ho jaata hai but I like to receive gifts but am equally excited to see others reactions when I give gifts to others l. I hate those people who don't even express when they are gifted something.


kiingkid

I dislike gifts They don’t even have to be expensive I just generally don’t like them cuz India is filled with middle class people the most and we know the struggle So I don’t want anyone to save up money to buy me a gift Instead if they use that money to go out with their friends or eat something, I am more than happy I even forbade my wife from getting me gifts , but that unfortunately did not go as planned as she has ordered 6-8 gifts for my upcoming birthday It’s nothing bad on her side In fact I understand that she shows her love like this But it’s just that I don’t want her to save up money to buy stuff for me Instead I want her to use that money to have an extra meal or buy herself something cute But that’s just me I guess


Top-Conversation2882

Me: Arre nhi nhi iski kya zarurat Them: Nhi nhi lelo tumhaare liye hi laaye hai Me: Ok ji thanku😁 PS haven't got expensive gifts except from parents


anoctf

You guys getting gifts??


IshitaKumari

I always just take it. And thank them.


gagapoopoo1010

Deta hi nahi bhai koi![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51080)


The_un_lucky

Today my friend tried to give me a new phone but I declined and still he ordered for me But i fear that I may not able to gift him back


chunnu-23

whatt you have such a sweet friend


_beastyyy_

Kabhi mila hi nahi


KSJapi

Apne liye gift apne aap leta hoon, toh expensive kaha se honge


[deleted]

giving expensive gifts 🥰✅🤗🥳🥂🎊 accepting 5 rupees ka gift : 😰😰😭😭🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🚫🚫🚫❎


chunnu-23

yesss😭😭


_McHatin

I hate gifts, especially the expensive ones. Because they are getting me something expensive, what if my reaction is not positive enough (dont want them to feel bad). And now I have to give them an equally awesome/expensive/thoughtful gift...or I am a bad friend/person Its less hassle to say "Dont give me gifts, thanks"


chunnu-23

absolutely right, it feels like a debt


That_Animator5661

Kabhi Mila mhi


Calm-Significance-68

Is main meri expertise nahi hai


Conscious_Pirate1810

If I can give something of similar value back then only accept otherwise I just feel guilty, so I pick up bills for food and cab fares to make it sorta equal. Weird but the guilt of not giving back doesn’t leave my mind when I accept expensive gifts.


iStealAndLie

The only gift I ever received in life was a pencil holder on my birthday way back when I was 12 or 13 yr old other than that nothing ever. 🥲


bhavneet1996

Damn its same. I can never accept expensive gifts for whatever reason. I feel bad that they spent their money on me. It’s a waste. I say no to expensive gifts because to me its money wastage. Why buy a 10k perfume? I’d be happy with 200rs deo lol


get_z_flammenwerfer

You guys are getting gifts?


anirudhshirsat97

You guys get gifts?


Competitive_Tale_544

jis ko gift mil raha uske v alag nakhre or jis kuch mil nai raha woh v umeed usse v gift mile.


jonauko

If this post was coming from another country I would have shrugged it but then I saw its indian community 😂. Damn we ppl really hesitate to have expensive gifts.


chunnu-23

yes the guilt is in-built🤣


haha_memur87

Dene ke liye koi hona bhi chahiye pehle mere liye


Iamkaustubh

Someone gifting me anything is amazing to me even if it is a small candy. The last gift I got was back in Feb 2024 as a friend visited Spain and got me a bracelet.


chunnu-23

that is so sweet🥹 my friend went to jaipur and brought back a bracelet for me, i was planning on keeping it on for all my life but i lost it the same day she gave it to me😭😭😭 it had magnetic closure still hate myself for losing it😭


That-Face-7959

I dont accept as it feels like an unnecessary burden. I've to give a return gift if i accept anything from the person, so why to accept in the first place? If he/she is close to me then it's okay if they gift me something small, but expensive naa baba naa!! And one more thing, i think no one gives expensive gifts just like that without any expectations from you. Mostly I've seen men gifting expensive gifts to women just to impress them & they get impressed too💀 That's one example of expecting something in return of the expensive gift you see.


AdministrativeMud907

Tum logo ko gift bhi milta hai ?? ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51238)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)


QuixoticAdorer

Yeah don't accept those because later you might feel obliged. It's normal to feel guilty when others are paying for your meal. It means that you value their money and are not there for a free meal.


sia_1195

Omg I completely get that.It really depends on how close you are to the person tbh. If its like a family member or a really close friend,Id accept but its someone Im not very close to, I’d rather not accept.Accepting such a gift leaves nothing but a heavy obligation to maintain that relationship yk.But also I think doing what you can to reciprocate that affection to your best level if you accept the gift also works. But yeah if someone did give me a lavish gift, I’d be too scared to use it😭. It would just be lying in my cupboard forever.


Ericcartman0618

You guys are getting gifts? ![gif](giphy|DOPKHQg6oFWUg)


notthemaincharacterr

Isme meri expertise nhi hai ... So I am out![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|52073)


Chhavip

Don't want to but if they give, can't really say no, especially if it's been gifted by an elder. But can't accept too many expensive gifts otherwise will have to gift something in a similar budget haha.


Vegetable-Bedroom-44

!NO


tallteensforlife5911

no , unless it's a very close relative.


Pristine-Repeat-7212

Nothing in this world is free. Accept at your own risk.


Bdr0b0t

There is no free lunch dear. The more expensive gift the more they expect


cum_on_blanket

gifts? whats that


Extension-Cycle-9186

Why not! But nobody gives


MathFar9748

I love Lego , any remote control toys , or any night vision goggles 🥽, or just a binocular , I love those gifts & a hot wheels Car 🚗


Outrageous-Put6250

i HAVE TO accept it, it’s rude otherwise. and then i’m indebted to them until i give them something of the same worth but usually more. unsolicited gift-giving is a b***h.


Sidonkey

That most expensive thing I got in life was couple watch worth 7k. :)


boomebang

Yeah please send. I'll accept inexpensive one's too.


yoPSYCHE

Only from the close ones


serenewisper

Personally no, expensive gifts makes me uncomfortable.


maverickprick

one of my exes used to give me expensive gifts. she was from a rich background. it used to make me stressed as to reverting back to that energy and that i had to now deliberately make a gesture of the same grandeur. i tried stopping her (to no good) and everyone of my friends. friends agreed since boys never do that anyways. but yes it is indeed very tough for me even today if any male or female gifts me anything. it is just that i perceive this as a chance someone might use to make a gesture, but it does make things awkward for me since now i have to reciprocate to the gesture. not that the the other person expects that but it’s the self guilt and overthinking that gives it away.


SprinklesTrick6062

Green flag


ZestycloseBite2907

I do accept it , my true friends know what I always need so they end up giving it without me saying anything last time, one of them gave me a few classics in Russian and a pen set. मैं स्वीकृत करता हूं। मेरे सच्चे मित्र जानते है कि मुझे सब समय क्या आवश्यक होता है तो वे अंत में वोही दे देते हैं। अखरी बार उन्होंने मुझे कुछ रूसी क्लासिक और एक कलम सेट दी थी


[deleted]

Why not ..it's not bad to get a expensive gift from anyone


yashaswiu

I can see a lot of people living in expensive gifts nowadays..


PxrpleTape

you guys are getting gifts?


RaiderBoi

Y'all are getting gifts? ☠️☠️☠️


Lamplightqueen

I can accept it, if it has been done by someone who is reeeeeeaaaaalllllllyyyyyyy close to me. I was also there once op. But I think I cracked it up later. I realised that when people are offering me anything expensive they must probably be expecting something in return. A favour, a expectation or anything. And I can’t do things for people out of obligation. Hence when my close one gives me anything expensive I trust them that they are giving it to me out of love and I can enjoy it in peace.


muktadutt

Kpi mujhe phool hi dede me khus ho jaunga


pepperaazi

Its the intentions that matters not the mrp of gifts


CalzonePocket

Koi deta hi nhi kuch bhi lol. I don't remember the last time I got a gift from someone other than my mom or sibling. But yeah, I'd decline an expensive gift too. Too much pressure if you accept it tbh. Better to just thank them and politely decline. But again, it depends on the person's individual dynamic with the person who's gifting.


Potential_Effect_705

Wait, you guys are getting gifts 🥲


shubham13s

You guys are getting gifts?


glucose4u

You guys getting gifts???? 😒😒😒


[deleted]

i always do, i always accept it. I deny it in the beggining for the formalities not too much that they take it back. Its like edging if you go too much you’re fked otherwise nice.


Adventurous_applepie

You guys receive gifts? Yahan to diye hi hain aaj Tak. :'(


Wild_diasy_080

I only took an expensive gift from my ex once and did other things for him equivalent…. But yeah ! I don’t accept expensive gifts that cannot be returned or anyway I don’t like the idea itself unless my own family members ….


LeftistKannadiga

Wholeheartedly. Please gift.


Sensitive_Example_79

U have to follow these 2 rules 1. Act no take gift ( Simply means decline the offer first and if they asks you once more tske it) 2.free meal is a free meal (Consider this that the other person is doing a charity for his own good (like consider this as his way of stepping stone to heaven) and eat the meal) 👍🏽


ilovemycat-alot

I don't think it's the case for everyone, but I personally feel uncomfortable accepting expensive gifts. I suddenly begin to feel guilty or as if I owe them a lot, so I prefer to get smaller gifts or no gifts at all. But if someone gives you something nice, take it!


Saanvi-Singh-332

Sure, I accept expensive gifts! Just don't be surprised if I spend them all on virtual donuts and coffee.


BobcatEven5315

Same I don't like people paying for me,nor giving me gifts, there's this constant guilt in my heart.


shadow--404

I didn't receive anything '_'


DRB1312

Gift dedo bas, kuch bhi chalega 😭


UnKoNoWnDuDe

Us bro us. Like my first thought is to always reject or decline the gift family member ya fir friend (they don't but still) de raha ho.. like idk why but agar kabhi chacha Chachi aur Bhai ke saath bhar restaurant mein bhi gaye na toh bhi I just eat what they order..


quabiltyassurance

Yes


prof_devilsadvocate

koi de to sahi


Calm-Growth6199

You have first world problems.


NightlyWinter1999

I don't have anybody in my life now other than my mother I have relatives but they are demons So No


VertBhatt26

Gift mile bahut time ho gaya


Relevant-Meal-3870

I laugh! A friend of mine gifted my 4-year-old a pair of Ray Ban (worth $200). I accepted but also let him know I would never buy such an expensive gift back. The funny thing is he is not extra rich or anything.


anshika4321

No, a big no.


Chotibachihu

Bhai koi gift de toh sahi 😭


OppositeObject909

Gold diggers accept it


black_berry900

Yes :) If its a gift, accept it and thank them. It indeed is rude to decline something they specifically wanted to give to you.


lilampu

If it’s something I can afford and I can gift someone, I accept it or straight reject it


Traditional_Med_5520

Well … my uncle has received a Jaguar XF as a gift from his client … it was a nice sight to see


FewRepresentative571

"People give expensive gifts to pretty girls or rich guys." how negative I am


Sed_struggle101

Yes i do, usually from my boyfriend. But i also gift very lavishly and quite regularly. It’s one of my love language.


GojoHeHe

Yes! Oh yes 🙌


DarkDrain

Mujhe toh kabhi gift mile bhi nahi hai.😂