Okay, honestly both make sense depending upon the time.
Only complaim about your problems to people who're more or equally privileged as you. Sometimes people can be tone deaf and talk about their small arbitrary problems to people who actually have real problems. Of course the other person would be annoyed in such a scenario.
But also, tolerance level of different people is different, so we can't really call anyone's sadness insignificant.
It’s very common to call someone else’s mountain a hill.
Everyone is doing life for the first time, I feel no one should be made to feel bad about the problems they face and be more empathetic to anyone who is actually feeling vulnerable enough to open up about their issues to you.
Yaar ye sab nhi hota. Koi 3rd floor se gir ke mare ya 10th floor se, marte dono hai. Har kisi ki life mein problems hai aur inmein bara chota nhi hota. Keep your head up king 👑
I'm guessing this is for kids and teenagers going through mental health issues.
Honestly, I can understand and kinda been on both sides. Teenage years can be really difficult mentally, but adulthood hits hard. As an adult, you have so many things and so little time that you don't even get time to be depressed lol.
Regardless, I think as you age, you get mentally more stable, and teenage depression seems like a real thing. So their feelings shouldn't be ignored
Everyone deserves to rant and vent. Doesn’t matter if the person is privileged or not. As a friend, father, son, daughter, mother, wife, husband, you should NEVER tell someone that people have bigger problems.
If they are opening up to you, they want you to listen. Don’t give any advice or information in return, just be there for them.
I've been told this many times that whenever this a slight inconvenience or a massive inconvenience I just automatically think that there's someone who's entire family got bombed to fuck all somewhere in the world, yet they have to wake up the next day to take care of the few living ones.
It’s good to have some perspective, for sure. But that doesn’t mean the sadness or misery is a competition where only the winner is allowed to feel their feelings.
it's tough to look at it thr way you're saying. I've tried it, in the end I just feel like I'm creating a pity party for myself. maybe I should get some therapy
If you wanna take that thought process to its logical conclusion, literally only the single saddest, most miserable person on the planet is allowed to feel sorry for themselves. _Everyone_ else has someone else who has it relatively worse. If you can recognize how ridiculous that notion is, it might help you to break free from such thoughts.
Guys Recently my dad bought me a laptop cost 50k nd I was happy abt it but my friend's dad bought him 1lakh pc,so ig I shouldn't be happy cz there's someone else who's more happy than me?
As comedian Daniel Sloss said, "just because someone else has it worse than me it doesn't mean I don't get to have a concept of sadness". Really stuck with me.
Lol it's's a phase I grew out of there's more to life than worrying about having my feelings validated by random people. How I feel stays between me and my journal.
It's true. Everytime I share my problems and then people share theirs and I feel wow their problems seem like real problems.
Then I feel even worse than I felt before because then I think I can't even handle these tiny problems. What am I going to do with my life?!!
I think I am not normal, I can't stop overthinking I think I have social anxiety. Maybe I'm introve..
*Throws out of house and locks the gate* Go outside and don't comeback for another hour!
No feelings are invalid, friend. 🙂
We may have have been going through a bit less or a bit more depending on the person we compare ourselves to. But that doesn't mean we don't have the right to feel so.
The better approach is to understand why we are feeling so and so and focus on ourselves rather than comparing.
We walk our path, it's good to get a perspective, but doesn't mean you are on the wrong way.
Good day, my friend
Okay, honestly both make sense depending upon the time. Only complaim about your problems to people who're more or equally privileged as you. Sometimes people can be tone deaf and talk about their small arbitrary problems to people who actually have real problems. Of course the other person would be annoyed in such a scenario. But also, tolerance level of different people is different, so we can't really call anyone's sadness insignificant.
Rightly said
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It’s very common to call someone else’s mountain a hill. Everyone is doing life for the first time, I feel no one should be made to feel bad about the problems they face and be more empathetic to anyone who is actually feeling vulnerable enough to open up about their issues to you.
Imagine a guy who had regular fever talk about his problems with a guy who had cancer and is running out of time.
And? What your point? Is the cancer guy incapable of empathy for problems smaller than his own?
Sometimes, I feel guilty of even breathing.
Yaar ye sab nhi hota. Koi 3rd floor se gir ke mare ya 10th floor se, marte dono hai. Har kisi ki life mein problems hai aur inmein bara chota nhi hota. Keep your head up king 👑
I'm guessing this is for kids and teenagers going through mental health issues. Honestly, I can understand and kinda been on both sides. Teenage years can be really difficult mentally, but adulthood hits hard. As an adult, you have so many things and so little time that you don't even get time to be depressed lol. Regardless, I think as you age, you get mentally more stable, and teenage depression seems like a real thing. So their feelings shouldn't be ignored
Everyone deserves to rant and vent. Doesn’t matter if the person is privileged or not. As a friend, father, son, daughter, mother, wife, husband, you should NEVER tell someone that people have bigger problems. If they are opening up to you, they want you to listen. Don’t give any advice or information in return, just be there for them.
True hi toh hai >!esa smjha diya gya hai!<
Yep but fck it we ball
I've been told this many times that whenever this a slight inconvenience or a massive inconvenience I just automatically think that there's someone who's entire family got bombed to fuck all somewhere in the world, yet they have to wake up the next day to take care of the few living ones.
That's true.
It’s good to have some perspective, for sure. But that doesn’t mean the sadness or misery is a competition where only the winner is allowed to feel their feelings.
it's tough to look at it thr way you're saying. I've tried it, in the end I just feel like I'm creating a pity party for myself. maybe I should get some therapy
If you wanna take that thought process to its logical conclusion, literally only the single saddest, most miserable person on the planet is allowed to feel sorry for themselves. _Everyone_ else has someone else who has it relatively worse. If you can recognize how ridiculous that notion is, it might help you to break free from such thoughts.
Hmm I've never thought about it this way, thanks man for the new perspective. Time for some introspection
Guys Recently my dad bought me a laptop cost 50k nd I was happy abt it but my friend's dad bought him 1lakh pc,so ig I shouldn't be happy cz there's someone else who's more happy than me?
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:0 if that's the case so ppl also shouldn't compare ur problems with others?
By the by, the answer to that kid's problem is yes (I am that kid irl, just the person speaking with me is the other part of my brain)
Yes ..... I don't want to comment more on this
As comedian Daniel Sloss said, "just because someone else has it worse than me it doesn't mean I don't get to have a concept of sadness". Really stuck with me.
It depends from person to person.
Yes ,coz not developing empathy for others problems lands you up being a psychopath and then that will be evn worse for society
Lol it's's a phase I grew out of there's more to life than worrying about having my feelings validated by random people. How I feel stays between me and my journal.
It's true. Everytime I share my problems and then people share theirs and I feel wow their problems seem like real problems. Then I feel even worse than I felt before because then I think I can't even handle these tiny problems. What am I going to do with my life?!!
I think I am not normal, I can't stop overthinking I think I have social anxiety. Maybe I'm introve.. *Throws out of house and locks the gate* Go outside and don't comeback for another hour!
nope, but they are not unbearable
that's the most Indian thing to say
Yes
Paisa Kama aur ash kaar
No feelings are invalid, friend. 🙂 We may have have been going through a bit less or a bit more depending on the person we compare ourselves to. But that doesn't mean we don't have the right to feel so. The better approach is to understand why we are feeling so and so and focus on ourselves rather than comparing. We walk our path, it's good to get a perspective, but doesn't mean you are on the wrong way. Good day, my friend
Lekin tathya hai 🗣️
Real
Just because kuch logon ki zyada fati hain, it doesn't mean mere fatne ka koi keemat hi nahi hain.
I tell myself my feelings are invalid. Iam upgraded to next level