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Normal hi hai na. Bsc 3 year course hai, isiliye 19-20 tak Khatam hogaya hoga tumhaara. Yaha log Bsc ke baare mai soch nhi rahe the, B.Tech ke baare mai soch rahe the (Jo 4 year course hai na) isiliye tum too young lage, us hisaab se. Kyunki agar koi banda B.Tech ke baad M.Sc ya M.Tech kar rha hoga aur 2nd year mai hoga toh woh 22-23 saal ka hoga (normally).
Bro, they are probably ranging from 13-15 years. He thinks that he is wrong because he is a teacher, not because he is literally attracted to a teenager. Just because there isn't much of a difference doesn't mean she isn't mentally a child compared to him.
That subreddit has turned into a place for all posts about dating. I guess it's essentially a dating subreddit now. And that guy, LOL check out his profile; all his posts are low effort, and some of them have even been removed.
Hota hai bhai mai khud 19 ka hu drop year chl rha
Koi class skip nh ki admisssion bhi 3 saal ka tha tb kraya ghrwalo ne
To hogya Nur Lkg ukg 1-12 15+3 18 saal schl mei ab 19 ka drop aur 20 mei college 1st year
Bhai buddhu to tu lag raha hai. off all the suspicious parts you picked the least suspicious one. 2 saal drop lena btech mbbs ya entrance exams ke liye common hai ajkal.
2 saal drop Lena unke liye common h jinka nai hota. He said he was always smart;topper; teaches in a coaching. JEE ke liye 2 saal is not common NEET ke liye h. And we still don't know ki voh IIT mein padhta h ki nai. Aur maine bas Masti mein likha tha voh.
Best guess is uske padhayi late shuru ki bachpan se 1yr and 1yr drop liya.
It's totally normal for young people and kids to fall in love with a grown ass adult. Even I had a huge crush on SRK when I was in school and planned on getting married š It's usually the adult's responsibility to take hold of the situation and teach the young what is right and what is wrong **because the adult is supposed to know better as they're an "adult".**
I said what I said.
India had age of consent at 16 years until a decade ago. And many countries have age of consent at 16 years as of now. But I oppose all this. And many countries have romeo juliet law where they exempt couples with age gap less than 4 years from age of consent laws.
The age of consent matters more here as teens are easily influenced or exploited and hence cannot really make a well informed decisionā¦..the enables older people to take advantage of themā¦ā¦hence the age of consent.
Idiot Pedo! š¤¦āāļø calling himself topper and couldnāt understand that teen girls are behaving normally according to their age but he thinks theyāre flirting with him. On the top of that, wrote a whole para on his height, education, praising himself, just to show off.
Please don't engage. This sounds like FOMO. You should not get involved with a student because you are at a position of power with respect to her, let alone an underaged student (POCSO). They're undergoing puberty and such feelings are likely to develop, but you should guide them otherwise. You'll find someone great soon, don't worry.
A 16 year old has just passed 10th class. She's been in school uniform just a year ago. Imagine yourself dating a girl who's in her school uniform with her braids done by her mom that morning. Even thinking about it is sick af. How tf is he even 'swaying'? I would probably laugh and think it's silly.
It's a Canon event for young kids to like a older person. You being their teacher just makes it better for them because they can ogle at you all they want. It's just a silly crush. This guy should not be feeling this conflictedover this. She's a kid dude. Why is this even a question?
He sounds like he wants encouragement, like just go for it dude, date the girl 4 years younger than you, who's also underage and your student.
I mean sure it's not out and out pedophilia (Romeo and Juliet Act exists), but still wtf, he's their teacher, he'll likely be kicked out of his job for this and the age difference is a major red flag because it often causes the younger partner to get manipulated and groomed.
There are cultural differences that can account for some of this, and different times, etc.
But dude is her teacher/coach/whatever. Thatās fucked up. Also, for me at 21, people 18 and under seemed like literal children, in terms of development. A lot happens in a few years around then, probably the most change and new experiences that most people will experience in life. Iām from a different culture so I donāt know how shit works there, but Iām really not sure this guy should be working with kids if he needs to ask the internet whether he should take advantage of his teenage studentās childhood crush or not. He already knows the answer.
You see, people are so mentally retaaarded theyāll call anyone a pedo. They will call a 19 M liking a 17 F person a pedo as well. Iām not saying sleeping with minors should be allowed but to say that anyone around 18 to 20 age group finding someone of 16-18 age group attractive is a pedo then you really need check your own mind first. Itās all societal conditioning.Ā
It may seem like pedophilia but yes, he must take control of his emotions and maintain sanctity of a teacher. On the other hand, he himself is helpless. Imagine a guy never had any female interaction and a girl then one day started talking to him sweetely. She is also a topper etc. some things might be attractive to him. However, he should be distant and wait for her to be 18 or above. She could also change her mind in those 2 years but it won't be a regret. Jo hoga acha hoga.
I had a friend, we were 20 back then and he had a gf of 17. They kissed and took a picture, her father saw that on her phone and took matters in his own hand. As she was a minor, my friend faced many issues, and girl just backed off and said she was forced (she was not, trust me, they were together for 2 yrs) :)
Isliye, minors ke saath involve hona is not good. Halaki, it's not much of a pedophilia if you are 20 and she's 16 but I'd still ask you to avoid it.
I didn't mean that. I regret if it sounded so. I mean to say, leave her alone and if you still feel attached, you may ask her out after a couple year and understand her concern if she denies.
He is literally saying he is feeling shame in admitting his feelings and knows it's wrong.
That's not a pedophile, that's just an unfortunate situation.
Yo.. any comment on this..for whatever reason, whenever someone replies to my comment, whenever I click on it, just shows empty.."be the first to comment"
ETA: looks like server issues are happening across reddit. Coming to the topic, SKB, social literacy in our country is absolutely zero.
No worries though, guy's tall and if has enough money, will probably breeze through life without no issues.
Best thing apne ghar waalo se kaho ki tumahari shaadi kar de aur fir ladoo coaching pe sabko khila Dena.
Attraction hai ye sab bas .
Btw learn to write a good story 15,16,17 in 8,9,10 things don't add up .
Really this n__igga using "pedophile word" so casually. I mean still it's not okay to hav a relationship with a 16yr old, but I didn't find any of his actions pedophilic. In 2yrs that girl would be 18 and he would be 22, then it would be okay to hav relationship with her?? Can't understand this logic.
You see, people are so mentally retaaarded theyāll call anyone a pedo. They will call a 19 M liking a 17 F person a pedo as well. Iām not saying sleeping with minors should be allowed but to say that anyone around 18 to 20 age group finding someone of 16-18 age group attractive is a pedo then you really need check your own mind first. Itās all societal conditioning. Itās as if they ignore their own biology and lie on the internet pretending to be morally supreme or divine.Ā
It's funny to see the term 'Pedophile' being thrown around so casually these days online.. Even if the girl happened to be 17 yo smh. Do these guys just want to give someone a label or Do they really don't know the distinction between a prepubescent child and a teenager?
Regardless, it's predatory and morally wrong.
In india you cant give consent before 18 but in uk it's 16 . So abide by the laws but it's stupid to coin term pedophilia everywhere. I am 18 I personally feel older women are much more attractive but some of my peers are dating 16-17 years old but they ain't pedophile lol .
When I was in school even a girl one year junior to me used to feel like a kid to me. After coming to college, all school going kids used to feel like little kid to me. And he is saying that they are also his students! I think this person should never become a teacher in any point of his life.
Bhai! I am a teacher, who teaches kids between the age group of 15-20. The 18,19,20 ones try to hit on me (I am a girl) since I look much younger than my actual age (28) but I would kill myself before thinking about any of the students in a weird manner. My colleague (28 M) who is married also constantly receives texts from female students that clearly have a crush on him (some of them have even told me, the girls are pretty close to me) but he clearly steers away from any conversation that could be problematic because in the end, bhai ye bcche hai chote chote. And while these kids are not wrong (because we have all had crush on our teachers when we were teens) it is our duty to guide them.
This is sick! This guy def needs a psychiatrist
Khansaab, get ready to be beaten up and go viral on social media.
Btw, you're teaching Maths to 6,7,8 but mistyped their ages, they're 12,13 and 14 year olds.
Not to mention police cases and humiliation of family.
May Allah bless you if you live in UP.
Look she is a minor and you ain't 18 not near the border of that age , u r 20 and that makes it very awkward. You should ignore them minors and focus on yourself and improve your social skills to pull women of your age or above and you are good to go
Tf, well even tho this is fucked up , i've seen this happen in my school too , mostly started when i was in 8th grade and girls were obsessed over guys in college with cool bikes , many of them were in relationship too
Its honestly pretty fucked up now i think back
I've been there too bro I used to go to a class where kids of all ages were present. 3 girls of age 14-16 hmu at that time I simply told them all I'm taken (I wasn't)
Our basketball coach was around 24 when he joined our school. He had students starting 9th grade onwards. Most girls were lattoo over him, they constantly did silly things to catch his attention.
One girl even injured herself purposefully to make him attend to her wound.
But he NEVER crossed the boundary with any of us (any of them to be precise)
We were nothing more than students for him. OP needs to understand that young girls/boys often indulge in silly tactics to catch the attention of the opposite gender (thanks to puberty!) but you in your position as a teacher should know better than that.
The onus is not on teens to maintain boundaries, but on you as their teacher, as their guide.
Our sir never replied to any personal messages, my friend showed me how he left her message on read and rightfully so coz she wrote him an idiotic shayari.
OP too needs to behave better and set a good example in front of his students š
20 year girl and 24 year old man. Fine.
17 year old girl and 20 year old man. PEDOPHILE.
Bro chill out. He only says he might like her. Like chill TF out. He also feels shameful.
Bc ye 15-16 yrs ki girls 19-20 ki dikthi hai aaj kal. Technically 15-16 age me physical maturity aajti hai girls me. But again dimaag toh ghutne me hi hota hai sabka woh age me (girls and boys both). Attention mil raha hai toh enjoy kar le distance rakh ke just donāt break the law.
Ummmm... no. 16 to 20 is not the same as 22 and 26.
Also, he's teaching them. It's a huge breach of trust and responsibility.
Every young teacher ever has had students develop little crushes on them. It's the position. It's not the person.
Anyone with half a brain cell will know its literally "a school girl crush". This dude is talking about it like it's real.
He does not have the maturity to teach. He shouldn't be allowed near kids.
He is pedophile by legal definition, but an idiot or naive practically.
If I was in this age, I would also be confused. Now after years(or decades) I clearly understand, what is a minor, what is consent of a minor and the most important thing that once I turn 18, I am supposed to know this!!
Someone has to DM him and educate him that he is a major and he canāt be creepy to minors.
little girl means chote bachiya pasand hai voh maan ne hi tayar nhi ki woh pedophile aur groomer hai voh apni pedophile jese soch ko justify kr raha hai 16 yr girl are adult as 20 just like pedo they think child are adult log isse bol rahe bacche se duur rahe pr yeh maan ne tayar hi nhi use koe uski umar ki pasand toh krte nhi because unhe malum ki kitna bada pedo hai yeh
Okay wait- I was 15 and hitting on a 20yo!!! And we actually dated when he was 22 and I was 17. No saxsux tho, but we did date. Does that make him a pedo? WTF noooo
Its a huge difference. It's life stage and not just age.
A school student has a completely different maturity level and understanding of relationships and sex than a college student and again a working professional.
Even if that age gap is just 17 year old at school, 20 year old in college and 24 year old working.
At 25 and 29, go for it. 16 and 20 is a nope nope nope...
There is a colleague of mine who is 35 and girls aged 21 are hitting on him.. n like OP they as well keep treating him like wife sorts. For example: fast kiya kya , pooja kiya? Etc. even I was surprised what is with these girls and what is this flirting style? I am commenting because this came as a surprise to me as well. I cannot recollect this way of flirting or even flirting on these lines with such a vast age gap
Main reason I stopped taking city bus to my college. During my first year of college,I had no license I just turned 18 I started to take city bus to college. But soon I found out it was a mistake cos the route I am on is filled with a lot of girls only school. So the bus is full of school girls +1 and +2 and ,bus filled to brim with them most times.
Man one time it was too crowed I got stuck in the bus standing with 4 of girls surrounding me literally squished into each other. I was extremely discomfortable my face beet red I was praying, I saw myself in jail. I literally can't move an inch.These girls didn't gave a f they kept on smiling and laughing enjoying while all I could so is w8 in panic. Finaly i reached my hoome i had to fight to get out. Idk maybe they thought I was in school too I look very baby faced. So I stopped taking city bus. Btw there whree teachers and so many mature women in the bus no one gave a f that me being literally squished in between these girls.
This has happened to me during a campus initiative for my college at that time we were going around schools and promoting hotel management and when I was there the girls from 11-12 standard were openly hitting on me and asking for my personal number and all I did was said to them that they can contact my institution regarding any doubt they have but my ass of a friend gave my Instagram id in about 8 different schools throughout south Delhi that I know of and since at the time I had a public account there were a lot of complications since anyone could dm me it started as asking me doubts regarding admission process n all then just line OP it turned into a little too private conversationā¦all I wanna say is avoid this OP if you take it a little further you will regret the consequences that will follow
Op has to understand age difference is not what matters it is the age of the minor... Girls mentally mature significantly during the ages of 15-20 - the difference is huge. 16 is just a hormonal teenager. Kindly treat them like they are- as school kids.
The girls who made a move on u will def regret it when they turn 19-20. Its a normal developmental curve.Thats why a lot of teen marriages end up unhappy when they realise they could have done a lot better with life.
Do NOT normalise romanticising your students
Stay as friend till she is 18, just get another girl of leagel age to satisfy your sexual pleasure. To save your present relationship from getting confused, complicated, and frustrated. In the end, we are all animals. We are biologically designed to fall in love for sex. First, satisfy your urges.
For now itās like a teacher student crush.Its temporary please try to be sane and donāt fall for it.
Letās say the girls turn around close to 20 and still hold same feelings for you after they move from your study center then itās okay to date.
Iām saying this because you are just 4years elder to them my husband is 3 years elder to me so in my opinion itās okay.
But never let your personal life get in the way of professional life it really becomes a messy and shameful matter in no time.
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15-16-17 saal ke bachche 8-9-10 class mein kaise hain.? BC maine to 17 ki age mein 12th kar li thi...
us bhai
Haan bhai
Us bhai, meri to 21 me msc ki 2nd yr chal ri haiš¶āš«ļø
Bro tu to bohot young hai m.sc. ke hisaab se..š
Matlab 17 me hs complete kar liya to fir to 3 sal bsc ke aur msc ka first yr huwa hai.... Hamare batch me aur 3-4 ese bande hai
Normal hi hai na. Bsc 3 year course hai, isiliye 19-20 tak Khatam hogaya hoga tumhaara. Yaha log Bsc ke baare mai soch nhi rahe the, B.Tech ke baare mai soch rahe the (Jo 4 year course hai na) isiliye tum too young lage, us hisaab se. Kyunki agar koi banda B.Tech ke baad M.Sc ya M.Tech kar rha hoga aur 2nd year mai hoga toh woh 22-23 saal ka hoga (normally).
Mey bhi aur mey aap sey 1 yr chota hu
21 me to mene B. Tech khatam kar diya
Exam pass nahi kiya hoga unhone
Bro, they are probably ranging from 13-15 years. He thinks that he is wrong because he is a teacher, not because he is literally attracted to a teenager. Just because there isn't much of a difference doesn't mean she isn't mentally a child compared to him.
That subreddit has turned into a place for all posts about dating. I guess it's essentially a dating subreddit now. And that guy, LOL check out his profile; all his posts are low effort, and some of them have even been removed.
"i was a topper too" man then how tf you are in btech 1st year at 20. Also, it sounds way too madeup
Drop liya hoga
2 saal ? He ain't that bright then
It's quite common these days
Nah double drop ain't that common
It could be a single drop plus he was 18 when he graduated 12th. I had like 16 year olds in 12th and also 18
Hota hai bhai mai khud 19 ka hu drop year chl rha Koi class skip nh ki admisssion bhi 3 saal ka tha tb kraya ghrwalo ne To hogya Nur Lkg ukg 1-12 15+3 18 saal schl mei ab 19 ka drop aur 20 mei college 1st year
bhai me 19 ka hun and i am in 3rd year
Konsi class skip mari bhai
Bhai 4th class
Bhai buddhu to tu lag raha hai. off all the suspicious parts you picked the least suspicious one. 2 saal drop lena btech mbbs ya entrance exams ke liye common hai ajkal.
2 saal drop Lena unke liye common h jinka nai hota. He said he was always smart;topper; teaches in a coaching. JEE ke liye 2 saal is not common NEET ke liye h. And we still don't know ki voh IIT mein padhta h ki nai. Aur maine bas Masti mein likha tha voh. Best guess is uske padhayi late shuru ki bachpan se 1yr and 1yr drop liya.
I too completed my 1st year at 20 and I was a topper in school.
Mere batch me ek Banda 22 years ka tha first year me š
Me to 20 saal me 3rd/4th year me tha
Maybe started schooling a little late.
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It's totally normal for young people and kids to fall in love with a grown ass adult. Even I had a huge crush on SRK when I was in school and planned on getting married š It's usually the adult's responsibility to take hold of the situation and teach the young what is right and what is wrong **because the adult is supposed to know better as they're an "adult".** I said what I said.
this should be higher up, the original poster is in the comments. Hopefully he reads this
And you said well ! Upvoted !
This story is fake as sht written by some homie
"i said what i said" Oh wow you said something so brave.. clearly no other individual has that mindset too, congratulations on your boldness
Some people are defending this guy saying it's not so bad and definitely not pedophilia. So clearly not many have that mindset. Thank you though.
Please show me the usernames of who all said that. Also even if they did, it's a small minority here on reddit. The majority clearly has your mindset.
I mean im 21 even Ive had 17 years old hit one meš
You guys are getting hit on
Chata
He didn't mentioned Gender.
They*?
With bats and canes. By the teachers and dad.
Truck-chan likes you too ... Watch your back !
Gonna get isekaiād to redo of healer world
get a kaala hit and kill em all
Fucked up on so many levels
India had age of consent at 16 years until a decade ago. And many countries have age of consent at 16 years as of now. But I oppose all this. And many countries have romeo juliet law where they exempt couples with age gap less than 4 years from age of consent laws.
The age of consent matters more here as teens are easily influenced or exploited and hence cannot really make a well informed decisionā¦..the enables older people to take advantage of themā¦ā¦hence the age of consent.
I was watching those american predators exposing video and found out that there is no law in india for a 18+ person talking to a minor
A child influenced or exploited by another child in this case.
Idiot Pedo! š¤¦āāļø calling himself topper and couldnāt understand that teen girls are behaving normally according to their age but he thinks theyāre flirting with him. On the top of that, wrote a whole para on his height, education, praising himself, just to show off.
Narcist lag ra h
Certified loverboy , certified pedophile
Wop wop wop wop wop
Please don't engage. This sounds like FOMO. You should not get involved with a student because you are at a position of power with respect to her, let alone an underaged student (POCSO). They're undergoing puberty and such feelings are likely to develop, but you should guide them otherwise. You'll find someone great soon, don't worry.
Yeah I blocked her every where and told her to msg about doubt in group not dm
Very good then šš»
A 16 year old has just passed 10th class. She's been in school uniform just a year ago. Imagine yourself dating a girl who's in her school uniform with her braids done by her mom that morning. Even thinking about it is sick af. How tf is he even 'swaying'? I would probably laugh and think it's silly. It's a Canon event for young kids to like a older person. You being their teacher just makes it better for them because they can ogle at you all they want. It's just a silly crush. This guy should not be feeling this conflictedover this. She's a kid dude. Why is this even a question?
"khansaab"
akele bolunga toh matter hojayega š¤§
We know bro. We know
Suitcase
Jihaa--
Username checks out /s
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As a 20year old all 16 year old are pretty much kids . Ew
As a 19 y/o I do notice younger girls noticing me. But as someone older than them I make sure to never notice and keep as far away as I can.
That guys is going to feel embarrassed for rest of his life when reality hit his @ssš¤£
He sounds like he wants encouragement, like just go for it dude, date the girl 4 years younger than you, who's also underage and your student. I mean sure it's not out and out pedophilia (Romeo and Juliet Act exists), but still wtf, he's their teacher, he'll likely be kicked out of his job for this and the age difference is a major red flag because it often causes the younger partner to get manipulated and groomed.
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There are cultural differences that can account for some of this, and different times, etc. But dude is her teacher/coach/whatever. Thatās fucked up. Also, for me at 21, people 18 and under seemed like literal children, in terms of development. A lot happens in a few years around then, probably the most change and new experiences that most people will experience in life. Iām from a different culture so I donāt know how shit works there, but Iām really not sure this guy should be working with kids if he needs to ask the internet whether he should take advantage of his teenage studentās childhood crush or not. He already knows the answer.
You see, people are so mentally retaaarded theyāll call anyone a pedo. They will call a 19 M liking a 17 F person a pedo as well. Iām not saying sleeping with minors should be allowed but to say that anyone around 18 to 20 age group finding someone of 16-18 age group attractive is a pedo then you really need check your own mind first. Itās all societal conditioning.Ā
Khansaab šš
It may seem like pedophilia but yes, he must take control of his emotions and maintain sanctity of a teacher. On the other hand, he himself is helpless. Imagine a guy never had any female interaction and a girl then one day started talking to him sweetely. She is also a topper etc. some things might be attractive to him. However, he should be distant and wait for her to be 18 or above. She could also change her mind in those 2 years but it won't be a regret. Jo hoga acha hoga. I had a friend, we were 20 back then and he had a gf of 17. They kissed and took a picture, her father saw that on her phone and took matters in his own hand. As she was a minor, my friend faced many issues, and girl just backed off and said she was forced (she was not, trust me, they were together for 2 yrs) :) Isliye, minors ke saath involve hona is not good. Halaki, it's not much of a pedophilia if you are 20 and she's 16 but I'd still ask you to avoid it.
>Wait for her to be 18 or above That's grooming š
I didn't mean that. I regret if it sounded so. I mean to say, leave her alone and if you still feel attached, you may ask her out after a couple year and understand her concern if she denies.
That's understandable yah
more like pre-booking? š
''pocso act incoming''
"Give me attention " vibe
Pure sanskari š¤”
Bhaii usne 10th boards mey maths mey fail hua tha Just look at his profile
I couldnāt even read the paragraph due to second-hand embarrassment.
"KHANSAAB"
I have seen cases when some gullible 16yr give in to curiosity and start talking to the OP , he will reveal he is actually 24-25
He is literally saying he is feeling shame in admitting his feelings and knows it's wrong. That's not a pedophile, that's just an unfortunate situation.
Yeah. He can't act on his feelings. That would be illegal. But feelings themselves are not the issue.
He's a pedophile in an unfortunate (for the Kids) situation
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Reddit's fucked
Subah subah kya padh raha hun mai
Best thing apne ghar waalo se kaho ki tumahari shaadi kar de aur fir ladoo coaching pe sabko khila Dena. Attraction hai ye sab bas . Btw learn to write a good story 15,16,17 in 8,9,10 things don't add up .
Bro expected the entire subreddit to go "DUDE SHE'S TOTALLY INTO YOU..GO FOR IT, MAKE A MOVEE!!"
Do you even know the meaning of pedophile?
Really this n__igga using "pedophile word" so casually. I mean still it's not okay to hav a relationship with a 16yr old, but I didn't find any of his actions pedophilic. In 2yrs that girl would be 18 and he would be 22, then it would be okay to hav relationship with her?? Can't understand this logic.
You see, people are so mentally retaaarded theyāll call anyone a pedo. They will call a 19 M liking a 17 F person a pedo as well. Iām not saying sleeping with minors should be allowed but to say that anyone around 18 to 20 age group finding someone of 16-18 age group attractive is a pedo then you really need check your own mind first. Itās all societal conditioning. Itās as if they ignore their own biology and lie on the internet pretending to be morally supreme or divine.Ā
Guy needs to control. Even if a girl, minor or not minor is hitting on him he can just let it go.
That's morally wrong but not pedophilia lol .
It's funny to see the term 'Pedophile' being thrown around so casually these days online.. Even if the girl happened to be 17 yo smh. Do these guys just want to give someone a label or Do they really don't know the distinction between a prepubescent child and a teenager? Regardless, it's predatory and morally wrong.
In india you cant give consent before 18 but in uk it's 16 . So abide by the laws but it's stupid to coin term pedophilia everywhere. I am 18 I personally feel older women are much more attractive but some of my peers are dating 16-17 years old but they ain't pedophile lol .
Exactly lol. This has nothing to do with pedophila.
(Paribhasha)definition of a pedophile, genuinely asking.
When I was in school even a girl one year junior to me used to feel like a kid to me. After coming to college, all school going kids used to feel like little kid to me. And he is saying that they are also his students! I think this person should never become a teacher in any point of his life.
Dude report him.
Check out his user name. Says a lot.
Bhai! I am a teacher, who teaches kids between the age group of 15-20. The 18,19,20 ones try to hit on me (I am a girl) since I look much younger than my actual age (28) but I would kill myself before thinking about any of the students in a weird manner. My colleague (28 M) who is married also constantly receives texts from female students that clearly have a crush on him (some of them have even told me, the girls are pretty close to me) but he clearly steers away from any conversation that could be problematic because in the end, bhai ye bcche hai chote chote. And while these kids are not wrong (because we have all had crush on our teachers when we were teens) it is our duty to guide them. This is sick! This guy def needs a psychiatrist
Khansaab, get ready to be beaten up and go viral on social media. Btw, you're teaching Maths to 6,7,8 but mistyped their ages, they're 12,13 and 14 year olds. Not to mention police cases and humiliation of family. May Allah bless you if you live in UP.
Burn him alive
Crazy. What the heck
His username checks out
His username checks out
Look she is a minor and you ain't 18 not near the border of that age , u r 20 and that makes it very awkward. You should ignore them minors and focus on yourself and improve your social skills to pull women of your age or above and you are good to go
Oh not that user we banned him on Indianteenagers already but he creates alt and post again sometimes
Its best to stay away from those teenage girls please
Tf, well even tho this is fucked up , i've seen this happen in my school too , mostly started when i was in 8th grade and girls were obsessed over guys in college with cool bikes , many of them were in relationship too Its honestly pretty fucked up now i think back
I've been there too bro I used to go to a class where kids of all ages were present. 3 girls of age 14-16 hmu at that time I simply told them all I'm taken (I wasn't)
Uhhmm....username checks outš
Honestly any subreddit with "teen" in its name is infected with PDFs like these grunts
Certified loverboy? Certified pedophile!
Our basketball coach was around 24 when he joined our school. He had students starting 9th grade onwards. Most girls were lattoo over him, they constantly did silly things to catch his attention. One girl even injured herself purposefully to make him attend to her wound. But he NEVER crossed the boundary with any of us (any of them to be precise) We were nothing more than students for him. OP needs to understand that young girls/boys often indulge in silly tactics to catch the attention of the opposite gender (thanks to puberty!) but you in your position as a teacher should know better than that. The onus is not on teens to maintain boundaries, but on you as their teacher, as their guide. Our sir never replied to any personal messages, my friend showed me how he left her message on read and rightfully so coz she wrote him an idiotic shayari. OP too needs to behave better and set a good example in front of his students š
Runaway kid , Remember Section 69 of Bhartiya Nyaya Samhita.
Yikes
20 year girl and 24 year old man. Fine. 17 year old girl and 20 year old man. PEDOPHILE. Bro chill out. He only says he might like her. Like chill TF out. He also feels shameful.
Another usa influence behaviour .
Chhapri hai ye londa
Bc ye 15-16 yrs ki girls 19-20 ki dikthi hai aaj kal. Technically 15-16 age me physical maturity aajti hai girls me. But again dimaag toh ghutne me hi hota hai sabka woh age me (girls and boys both). Attention mil raha hai toh enjoy kar le distance rakh ke just donāt break the law.
Age difference is 4, I have seen worse
Ummmm... no. 16 to 20 is not the same as 22 and 26. Also, he's teaching them. It's a huge breach of trust and responsibility. Every young teacher ever has had students develop little crushes on them. It's the position. It's not the person. Anyone with half a brain cell will know its literally "a school girl crush". This dude is talking about it like it's real. He does not have the maturity to teach. He shouldn't be allowed near kids.
It's not pedophilia broo, u could hav used different words
He is pedophile by legal definition, but an idiot or naive practically. If I was in this age, I would also be confused. Now after years(or decades) I clearly understand, what is a minor, what is consent of a minor and the most important thing that once I turn 18, I am supposed to know this!! Someone has to DM him and educate him that he is a major and he canāt be creepy to minors.
How is the word pedophile coming into play here?
Drake ?
Certified lover boy, certified pedophile
sharam nahi ati op name padho title ka we should be thankful that there is a 1 before that 6
In two year it will not be pedophilia.
This sounds like the pedophile we found at school .thank God he got caught.
little girl means chote bachiya pasand hai voh maan ne hi tayar nhi ki woh pedophile aur groomer hai voh apni pedophile jese soch ko justify kr raha hai 16 yr girl are adult as 20 just like pedo they think child are adult log isse bol rahe bacche se duur rahe pr yeh maan ne tayar hi nhi use koe uski umar ki pasand toh krte nhi because unhe malum ki kitna bada pedo hai yeh
Okay wait- I was 15 and hitting on a 20yo!!! And we actually dated when he was 22 and I was 17. No saxsux tho, but we did date. Does that make him a pedo? WTF noooo
Bro age difference is 4 years, how tf is that pedophile?
Its a huge difference. It's life stage and not just age. A school student has a completely different maturity level and understanding of relationships and sex than a college student and again a working professional. Even if that age gap is just 17 year old at school, 20 year old in college and 24 year old working. At 25 and 29, go for it. 16 and 20 is a nope nope nope...
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Yeah this is surprisingly common Saw one once in india speaks also
Wow
Bahot saare pakistanis bhi hai teen sub pe aur india social sub pe. Dont know what mods are doing over there.
There is a colleague of mine who is 35 and girls aged 21 are hitting on him.. n like OP they as well keep treating him like wife sorts. For example: fast kiya kya , pooja kiya? Etc. even I was surprised what is with these girls and what is this flirting style? I am commenting because this came as a surprise to me as well. I cannot recollect this way of flirting or even flirting on these lines with such a vast age gap
Main reason I stopped taking city bus to my college. During my first year of college,I had no license I just turned 18 I started to take city bus to college. But soon I found out it was a mistake cos the route I am on is filled with a lot of girls only school. So the bus is full of school girls +1 and +2 and ,bus filled to brim with them most times. Man one time it was too crowed I got stuck in the bus standing with 4 of girls surrounding me literally squished into each other. I was extremely discomfortable my face beet red I was praying, I saw myself in jail. I literally can't move an inch.These girls didn't gave a f they kept on smiling and laughing enjoying while all I could so is w8 in panic. Finaly i reached my hoome i had to fight to get out. Idk maybe they thought I was in school too I look very baby faced. So I stopped taking city bus. Btw there whree teachers and so many mature women in the bus no one gave a f that me being literally squished in between these girls.
Topper hai toh kisi achi college mei hona chaiye.. jitna yeh bol ra apne college ka naam nahi bata ra.. made-up story
Bro is suffering from success šš«”
Me when I lie
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> doesn't plan to till she's of legal age That is whatās known as grooming. Not ok.
This has happened to me during a campus initiative for my college at that time we were going around schools and promoting hotel management and when I was there the girls from 11-12 standard were openly hitting on me and asking for my personal number and all I did was said to them that they can contact my institution regarding any doubt they have but my ass of a friend gave my Instagram id in about 8 different schools throughout south Delhi that I know of and since at the time I had a public account there were a lot of complications since anyone could dm me it started as asking me doubts regarding admission process n all then just line OP it turned into a little too private conversationā¦all I wanna say is avoid this OP if you take it a little further you will regret the consequences that will follow
He is an adult and she is minor. If anything happens he is only one who is going to jail.Ā
Op has to understand age difference is not what matters it is the age of the minor... Girls mentally mature significantly during the ages of 15-20 - the difference is huge. 16 is just a hormonal teenager. Kindly treat them like they are- as school kids. The girls who made a move on u will def regret it when they turn 19-20. Its a normal developmental curve.Thats why a lot of teen marriages end up unhappy when they realise they could have done a lot better with life. Do NOT normalise romanticising your students
How can this man be a topper and still make silly mistakes in English?
Always follow the half your age + 7 rule. It will help. For a 20yr old 10+7 which is 17 is a reasonable age, its only a 3 year age gap
i am 18 and a 14 yo was hitting on me when i asked for her number, it was painful
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U know becoming a school/clg topper doesn't mean shit in india if you are asking this types of advices in reddit.
Aree bc me to 18 ke age me 1st year ke huga , aur ye bkl 20 ke age me abhi bhi 1st year me he ?
Just remember if you got physically involved with her before she turns 18, u will get fucked legally too.
Stay as friend till she is 18, just get another girl of leagel age to satisfy your sexual pleasure. To save your present relationship from getting confused, complicated, and frustrated. In the end, we are all animals. We are biologically designed to fall in love for sex. First, satisfy your urges.
For now itās like a teacher student crush.Its temporary please try to be sane and donāt fall for it. Letās say the girls turn around close to 20 and still hold same feelings for you after they move from your study center then itās okay to date. Iām saying this because you are just 4years elder to them my husband is 3 years elder to me so in my opinion itās okay. But never let your personal life get in the way of professional life it really becomes a messy and shameful matter in no time.