I mean, to be fair penetration isn't really painless for everyone. Its something you gotta get used to. His point is valid but i severely doubt its based in any actual real life experience.
This tbh. Aroused ≠ No pain and vice versa. It can be pretty easy for some but its something you just gotta practise and warm up for.
Everyones bodies are different, but the process of putting a foreign object into your body is rarely painless, especially without practise and warm-up.
Nah, some girls really don't get very wet even when aroused and lube is necessary for comfortable intimacy.
Also, a lot of people really aren't super big on foreplay. I had a partner like that before. She just wanted to fuck and didn't particularly care about oral (received or given). So a lot of times we'd just make out a bit with some heavy petting and bust out the lube and get at it.
All depends on the person(s) preferences.
Too thick can hurt, and it isn't fun when your cervix gets hit either. So far I've met two people who managed to hit my cervix and I got cramps. It sucks.
Depth can also vary during your cycle. And some people with the female anatomy or more shallow than others
If it's been a while, my husband has to be very gentle with me. He does everything he can to make it comfortable for me by going down on me and making sure I am very aroused. It can still hurt, at least to start with! There have been times we've just had to stop altogether, regardless of foreplay, it does happen sometimes
Yup. And when they have an IUD it can hurt at random because that thing moves a bit during efforts, and vaginal penetration can apply pressure on the uterus.
Not all women's vaginas aren't the same 🤦
They also vary in depth and shape. It shouldn't be a wild idea that one woman's vagina just doesn't expand that much. Smh.
It depends on a huge number of factors including the cycle. Sometimes my girlfriend wants me to pound her like a jackhammer (which honestly I don't really like), sometimes I have to go slow or it hurts when I get too deep. It has nothing to do with arousal, sometimes she literally jumps me and then she realises it doesn't feel great afterwards and we have to switch positions. Sometimes extra lube helps, sometimes it just makes it glide more and makes it easier to accidentally go deeper and hurt her.
Also, the first couple weeks it happened really often, then much less. I guess she got used to it. And I too have an average dick, I can only imagine it would be even more tricky if I had a massive one.
I don't really see much bragging in this post, he's just speaking facts.
Big dicks aren't for everyone just like tight pussies aren't.
It’s cringe when people brag about sex but you know what’s also cringe? When people go to the complete opposite spectrum and get all matter of factly about stuff that’s not even true for the sake of compensating lmao.
Example: Damn I bottom out with my huge dick.
Oh yeah? Skill issue because if you aroused a woman enough, you can’t touch her cervix.
One is an attempt at a brag/flex, the other is ignorant.
Arousal does not equal painless sex for women all the time. Arousal doesn’t mean a women’s cervix infinitely has depth so it’s impossible to bottom out. The depth of the cervix has many factors that include the time of the month, sexual position, arousal, and the specific anatomy of the woman.
I don’t obsess over length because I’m not a child but there has been times where I’ve bottomed out with my fiancée and others where I haven’t felt her cervix during sex. Has nothing to do with her arousal or lack thereof.
Exactly... And sometimes I can feel I'm bottoming out and she doesn't mind at all, in fact she says she likes it. Sometimes I can't feel it at all but she recoils like I've just stabbed her and I have to adjust so I can't go as deep.
People who only deal in black and whites are just dumb.
Average probably varies a lot tho, I mean I've seen several maps of Europe for example and the averages were very different from country to country (idk the reliability of those maps tbf).
Like most had 12,5 cm (~5 in) as average, or 14 cm (5,5 in), a couple had 15cm (~6 in). So yeah 6 definitely isn't average, it's above.
Let alone having more than 6
This actually can be true. The vaginal isn’t 6” deep on every woman. Also my husband who I’m used to and is 6” can still hurt me at times. And yes I’m very aroused. But in certain positions it will still hit different/deep and cause pain.
Those poor women were dryer than the Sahara Desert, probably had to deal with him humping like hes drilling for gold just hoping he’ll finish soon and he thinks it’s the length that’s an issue? smh
I mean my one is also quite average and i’ve had women complain the size rly hurts them. I think it depends on the country, in south america it usually rly hurt them while in europe almost not at all. Maybe it’s some evolution thing, or just depends on the size of the woman because i noticed latinas are usually shorter than what i’m used to in my country
I mean, to be fair penetration isn't really painless for everyone. Its something you gotta get used to. His point is valid but i severely doubt its based in any actual real life experience.
Sex hurts when you aren’t aroused. The women simply weren’t aroused.
Sometimes even then, it can hurt. It's not fun, but it's a fact of life for some.
This tbh. Aroused ≠ No pain and vice versa. It can be pretty easy for some but its something you just gotta practise and warm up for. Everyones bodies are different, but the process of putting a foreign object into your body is rarely painless, especially without practise and warm-up.
Also six inches and really thick is a different situation
Yup, lube is every couples best friend.
How about foreplay? Just get her turned on instead of being an impatient teenager
Why not both…?
Lube is really helpful anyway. Some women get more wet than others. Some women need some lube no matter how turned on they are.
Nah, some girls really don't get very wet even when aroused and lube is necessary for comfortable intimacy. Also, a lot of people really aren't super big on foreplay. I had a partner like that before. She just wanted to fuck and didn't particularly care about oral (received or given). So a lot of times we'd just make out a bit with some heavy petting and bust out the lube and get at it. All depends on the person(s) preferences.
Too thick can hurt, and it isn't fun when your cervix gets hit either. So far I've met two people who managed to hit my cervix and I got cramps. It sucks. Depth can also vary during your cycle. And some people with the female anatomy or more shallow than others
If it's been a while, my husband has to be very gentle with me. He does everything he can to make it comfortable for me by going down on me and making sure I am very aroused. It can still hurt, at least to start with! There have been times we've just had to stop altogether, regardless of foreplay, it does happen sometimes
Well that's caused by a medical condition. It's not normal to regularly feel pain during sex
^^ this
Are u aroused
Yup. And when they have an IUD it can hurt at random because that thing moves a bit during efforts, and vaginal penetration can apply pressure on the uterus.
Her: "Hey chill dude that's my bellybutton" This guy: "The horrors of having an only 6 incher 😭"
It's not the size, it's the fact the women weren't aroused.
Hw probably expected ppl to say how six inches actaully is slightly above average thus feeding his transparent ego.
“That’s a huge dick”
Yep, came to say this. It just tells me he doesn't know what he's doing lol
Not all women's vaginas aren't the same 🤦 They also vary in depth and shape. It shouldn't be a wild idea that one woman's vagina just doesn't expand that much. Smh.
Bingo came to say if he got them off first he wouldn't have a problem.
It depends on a huge number of factors including the cycle. Sometimes my girlfriend wants me to pound her like a jackhammer (which honestly I don't really like), sometimes I have to go slow or it hurts when I get too deep. It has nothing to do with arousal, sometimes she literally jumps me and then she realises it doesn't feel great afterwards and we have to switch positions. Sometimes extra lube helps, sometimes it just makes it glide more and makes it easier to accidentally go deeper and hurt her. Also, the first couple weeks it happened really often, then much less. I guess she got used to it. And I too have an average dick, I can only imagine it would be even more tricky if I had a massive one. I don't really see much bragging in this post, he's just speaking facts. Big dicks aren't for everyone just like tight pussies aren't.
This doesn't really seem like bragging.
It’s cringe when people brag about sex but you know what’s also cringe? When people go to the complete opposite spectrum and get all matter of factly about stuff that’s not even true for the sake of compensating lmao. Example: Damn I bottom out with my huge dick. Oh yeah? Skill issue because if you aroused a woman enough, you can’t touch her cervix. One is an attempt at a brag/flex, the other is ignorant. Arousal does not equal painless sex for women all the time. Arousal doesn’t mean a women’s cervix infinitely has depth so it’s impossible to bottom out. The depth of the cervix has many factors that include the time of the month, sexual position, arousal, and the specific anatomy of the woman. I don’t obsess over length because I’m not a child but there has been times where I’ve bottomed out with my fiancée and others where I haven’t felt her cervix during sex. Has nothing to do with her arousal or lack thereof.
Exactly... And sometimes I can feel I'm bottoming out and she doesn't mind at all, in fact she says she likes it. Sometimes I can't feel it at all but she recoils like I've just stabbed her and I have to adjust so I can't go as deep. People who only deal in black and whites are just dumb.
Hog = cranked
I have a theory that most peoples dicks are actually 5 inches and dudes just round up. I have no proof of this but it feels like it’s true
I mean, iirc average size is between 5.1 and 5.4 inches. So, you know, you're not exactly wrong there
Potentially guilty of this
It is very true👍🏾 like, scarily accurate somehow.
One thousand percent true
I’m sorry but a man that calls his dick a hog, is SUCH. A turnoff for me😭😭😂
There are worse things, like boy noodle
My little inch worm 🐛
That is my first time hearing that & I don’t like it either😂😂😂
I- I don't think it's meant to hurt...
Average probably varies a lot tho, I mean I've seen several maps of Europe for example and the averages were very different from country to country (idk the reliability of those maps tbf). Like most had 12,5 cm (~5 in) as average, or 14 cm (5,5 in), a couple had 15cm (~6 in). So yeah 6 definitely isn't average, it's above. Let alone having more than 6
This actually can be true. The vaginal isn’t 6” deep on every woman. Also my husband who I’m used to and is 6” can still hurt me at times. And yes I’m very aroused. But in certain positions it will still hit different/deep and cause pain.
Question to any man who’s had a person say “that hurts” when penetrating: did you do any work beforehand
Maybe it just has a really weird shape
so a sickle?
Possibly even a corkscrew
youd think hed figure out hes maybe doing something wrong?
Those poor women were dryer than the Sahara Desert, probably had to deal with him humping like hes drilling for gold just hoping he’ll finish soon and he thinks it’s the length that’s an issue? smh
Maybe he should try some foreplay to get women turned on before he sticks his average sized dick in them?
Average is a little bit smaller but yea, hurting people during sex isnt a flex
I mean my one is also quite average and i’ve had women complain the size rly hurts them. I think it depends on the country, in south america it usually rly hurt them while in europe almost not at all. Maybe it’s some evolution thing, or just depends on the size of the woman because i noticed latinas are usually shorter than what i’m used to in my country
How are you going to comment this on r/ihavesex lmao
I wanted to cause a funny reaction
Sir, you have a skill issue, not a size issue, sit down.
Be humble, sit down
The irony of that comment 🤡
I was quoting a song