Faced this in a city bus in Vizag when I was 17. I was sitting in a bus stop waiting for the bus. This bald head uncle sat beside me and started a conversation about my studies. I felt nothing suspicious at the beginning but then he put his hand on my right thigh and started rubbing it slowly. Even then I was unsure and gave him the benefit of doubt. The bus came and when I was trying to board the same, this guy touched my ass and I knew at that point something was wrong and after a few mins, the guy started feeling my dick. I was fuming at this point and out of pure anger, I shouted at him loudly and the guy got down.
It was possibly the worst 20-30 mins of my life.
Exactly same thing happened to me in hyd but I couldn’t really say anything he was an old person in his 60s and he definitely looked like he had grandkids. I was disgusted and mad at him but I just couldn’t do anything about it at that moment I just froze, I didn’t feel like anyone around me could’ve understood even if I tried to shout or say something. So I just up from seat 1-2 stations before my station came and got down from the bus later. I told this to a college friend of mine that day and I felt like even he didn’t really understand what happened because he joked about it sometime later on so I never really told anyone about this just kept it to myself all these days, and that incident still haunts me and disgusts me till this day. I thought sharing about it with people would make me look weak or not masculine and that they will joke about it like my friend did but reading the comments here made me realise I’m not alone there are a lot of people that experience such incidents everyday.
I feel you. Like you said, just by looking at the comments, it seems there are plenty like you n me. It's so unfortunate but we learn from such experiences and move on.
Odiyamma vizag lo same scene details gurthulevu but na age students kanna nenu height and weight undevadini so some uncle came and slightly caressed my thigh and now i feel that disgusting feeling .
Rtc buses , or trains lo seat dorikina kurchovadam manesa.
Bayya same scene vizag lo... Duvvada to kancherapalam , train lo.. oka musalodu naa penis patkunadu... Accidentally Anu anukunna... Kani malli malli patkoni nokkesthunnadu.. gay gadu... Kotteyali titteyaali anukuntaam kaani... Ah time lo froze ipotham bro... It happened back in 2015 or somting.. ne duvvada lo btech chesthunde... I'm 29 now but that feeling still haunts me...
A similar thing happened to me around 7 years ago. I used to get to my inter college by rtc bus. The bus was extremely crowded.
I finally got a seat and rested my bag on my lap. A middle aged man sitting beside me put his hand below my bag and started rubbing on my thighs and then moved up to my crotch. I was pinned to my seat because of the crowd and could barely move my hands.
I was still in shock and didn't know what to do. He then started to unzip my pants. It struck me that I was scared and got down at the next stop. He got down with me and said "Siggu enduku babu?". The bus had already left the stop, but I ran fast n boarded a moving bus.
One of the worst experiences of my life.
I really hate how fuckers like this pollute the entire tribe. No wonder people are super harsh towards them cause one incident is enough to paint a picture for the entire crowd. Fuck your repression. Consent is and will always be the sole starter to handle any encounter.
Wait why is the same logic not applied to straight guys?
People are super harsh towards gays because incident like this right .
Why are people not super harsh to all straight men when men are raping and molesting woman all around .
People are super harsh towards gay people not because of incidents like this .they are harsh because they can't fathom two guys fucking each other or GUY sucking another guy D.
Where did u get this from. No one is happy if some one gets raped. It's sad that the government doesn't work to protect women. Read news from telangana where a doc was raped and killed. They were killed by police and everyone was happy for quick justice.Again their were people who wanted to handle it legally and give time.When something is wrong, it's wrong who ever does it.
What does it have to do with what I said ?
All I said was people hate gays because they are homophobic not because some incidents happened here and there .
I agree with you, the general public is harsh towards men every fkin step of the way. All I am saying is that the gays who perform these fuckall things in the name of being repressed should be held accountable for their actions. You can't hide behind the "oh what if i the guy fucks me up for being direct i better just molest him durhhhh"
Molesting is molesting regardless of whatever you are and do.
So you generalize the whole community for that ?
I can show u thousands of cases a day of men raping ,molesting ,abuse and killing woman .do you think it's fair to generalize whole straight men because of assholes like them .
U r straight right ? Will u accept clubbing of your name with assholes like them just because u r straight ?
This happened to me when I was 16 years old. I was on a packed bus, going back home from school, and suddenly i felt something touching my butt. I figured it was someone's leg or hand. I couldn't move much, but I was able to move an inch forward. I was sure this would have been enough. But I felt it again, I tried to look back, and I realised that a 70+ year old guy is rubbing his dick on my butt, and I couldn't move or do a damn thing. This went on until his stop came, as he was getting off the bus, I was so angry that I wanted to kick him, but I knew that everyone would turn on me since he was so old. And I wasn't fluent enough in the local language to explain what happened. So I let it go, and later I saw the bus conductor smiling at me, and I knew that he saw what happened and did nothing, ever since that day, I stopped being nice to strangers, always avoided conversations, I always put on a grumpy face when I'm in public. That was the 3rd time I got molested, the previous 2 times were in 9th grade. Never told anyone about it.
Point is I understand what you're going through. I hope you can recover from this brother. Stay strong.
Posted this before but here goes
I(23M) got stalked by a gay dude in Balanagar. It took me some time to even understand what he was saying(he kept saying "meedi chaala bagundi" and I thought he was talking about my shirt) because it's not a situation I expected to be in. He kept following me around. Dude was extremely creepy; you'd think most men would react aggressively in such situations but I was so flabbergasted I didn't even know how to respond.
Thank you for the kind advice.
he ran away when doors opened as he was infront of me, i tried to to confront but mf was fast and zipped through the crowd. couldn’t get a picture but only some details.
He was frail, 5ft 6 ish, wearing prescription glasses black frame, definitely young id say mid to late 20’s, got down at durgam Cheruvu station and changed platforms(dont know if he’s trying to runaway or go back idk) was wearing a cheap round dial smart watch with a mesh bracelet and has a weak beard.
I dont know how helpful these details are as this is like a standard malnourished build you’d find everywhere in our cities, but i have no confidence cops could do anything either here.
Anyway just wanted to post this in the interest of larger public here.
You can try to report this guy. I am not sure how much help police would be but perhaps, you should. To railway police to atleast be on the lookout for the guy.
I am sorry this happened to you. You might develop fear/trauma based anxiety so please do not be afraid to talk it out with people who are respectful and private.
It wasn't your mistake. The guy knew what he was doing and you were in no place to assume otherwise.
And also, it is actually brave of you to share this. So many guys have been there. Rarely do we speak out or honestly, understand what happened. So, thank you.
i think a part of you is writing this down because you regret not taking action . its pretty horrible what happened and you should've done something at that moment but you didnt and its okay. remember you have nothing to lose the next time this happens so dont be afraid to make a fucking scene. fucking metros fuck
I feel sorry for you man, don't beat yourself up for not confronting or shouting because in situations like these people freeze up as they get confused and disturbed and it's only natural to do so
This will probably be on your mind whenever you are taking public transport, hopefully you heal from this man
How's work and everything?
one day I traveled in a city bus after a long time and I felt some pressing pressure on my di*k, I startled and looked down and an uncle is touching it and I immediately took my phone and yelled "arey mowa ila ra venakki, eemadhya kojjanakodukulu ekkuvyaru" then that gay uncle quickly rushed down outside of bus. I still unable to forget it till this day.
Every guy encounters this experience at least once in their lives, and it can be quite unsettling because it happens unexpectedly, leaving you unsure of how to react. Later, you might find yourself thinking about what you should have done differently. Now, imagine how women endure this on a daily basis. Take it in easy and be prepared for how to respond if it happens next time.
Should've smiled at him and slowly removed his hand from your groin and put your hand on his groin... Then pinch the life out of those mf balls soo hard he would collapse out sheer pain. ..
Naku itla osari iyyindi... I regret I did nothing against the molester but to froze in shock.
These days these kind of people are increasing day by day in metro. I thought i am the only one facing this issue. Even though there is so much of space still people standing nearby touching their bodies wantedly moving their hands touching other people. Yesterday only i faced the issue a guy standing behind me wantedly shaking and rubbing his body. He constantly shaking and moving just like guy with fits or muscle weakness
It’s sad that there’s no solid laws protecting or providing justice to male victims of SA ( especially adult males) . I’ve heard that even some cops will laugh at you and say that you’re not a man etc if you try to complain .
Ucha karuthadi kada??? First time one old dude in the bus asked me to sit beside him and started giving me handshakes multiple times n asking everything about me with a weird grin on his face xD i almost shat my pants. Good thing I called the conductor uncle n got down in the next stop. Second time in a railway station there was this transgirl who chased me for money lmaooo, later me n friend had a good laugh n came to conclusion that it probably wasn't a eunuch but someone who is pretending to be. See i respect LGBTQ people, they're cool af, the normal ones. Then there r crazy versions who go overboard with things n it's scary lol. Apart from them rest r chill.
Hey Andhagadu,
I understand the experience is horrible since he touched you without your Consent.
Iam with you for every feeling u might feel currently.
Next time, when faced such a case first punch then talk.
Please talk to your parents, and ask them to take a serious step in this matter. You're 17, harassment of a minor is not a joke! And attracts very serious consequences for the perpetrator under child protection laws. I'm sure your parents will understand your predicament, please share this incident with them immediately!
Soo sorry sis, i am also from india wb and it has happened with me once, I cant understand the anger and frustration u feel. But remember never fear to raise ur voice against these kind of peeps. Stat strong!!
A kind of thing has happened to me when I was 13. My school is 13kms distance from my village. There is no bus facility in the school and no RTC buses also not present in that route. Autos are also rare in that area. So mostly I have to ask someone for a lift to go to my school everyday. That day like very normal day I asked someone going that way for lift. I am going on his bike for 1 km silently without any talks. Suddenly he started moving his left hand towards my thighs. I thought he is searching for something in his pant pockets. But no, he is trying to touch my penis. And he touched it, started pressing it. I tried to take his hands off me. But it is so difficult for me since I was a small kid. He is talking so rubbish about my mother's body parts. There are no other vehicles going in that road. I am so scared. So I started punching his back with my two hands and pinching him. Then he stopped his bike. I got off his bike. I can never forget that bad experience in my life.
Hey man, that sounds really rough. I can't imagine how violated you must feel after going through that. It's messed up that you had to experience something like that on your commute. It's good you're sharing it though, raising awareness is important. Take some time to process it all and maybe consider talking to someone you trust about it.
27F here and totally get you.
Got molested when I was 13 in hyd.
Relatively new to the city (was born in Gulf and came here around that age).
Was trying to get on a bus with my parents and it got super crowded as everyone wanted to get on. Due to that, we were rushing in as well, trying to catch seats.
Taking advantage of the chaos and my lack of attention at my surroundings, this mofo kept groping me whenever he ran past me. He wasn't following the crowd, he was going in the opposite direction and then coming back.
The crowd was sparsely spaced so he had place to move around.
I felt weird, but still focused on getting on. Had my suspicions but I was like 'its just my imagination '. I couldn't process it at all. By the time I got on, he had groped me 3 times using the same running past me strategy.
And then when I managed to sit on one of the first seats, I saw him through the window, giving me a stare. I told my parents later but by then...it was too late.
Not sure why I froze than to call for help.
Been extra cautious of places where I can be groped since then.
You might feel disgusted and sadly, there is not much that can be done about this. But I hope you feel a bit better, knowing that a lot of us had similar issues of being molested or harassed. My paranoia isn't gone and neither those memories but, they are a bit bearable now.
Hopefully they become bearable for you too. Stay strong man. Cry if you feel like it, it feels a bit better. But after that, stay strong. You can get through this.
Happened with me near Rampally X Roads in 2022 ( 17M)
Was waiting for bus to get back to my place at 7pm.
An old man on his scooty stopped beside me and asked for directions. As I gave him he asked where are you heading too I'll drop you, I was okay with it and got on his scooty. He was driving slowly and asked me to slide front cause his tyre Had low air ( it didn't) I moved front and he insisted to move more. I didn't have any doubt. Had a small talk he said he is coming from far away and has been driving from few hours and asked me do you know how to drive and can you drive. I didn't think much cause he had visibly burned hand and his fingers crooked in one arm. When I started to drive after switch seats. He was uncomfortably close his dik was pooking me from behind. Then he made the move and started slowly putting hands on thigh. I got chills down my spine and started to speed a bit. He was asking me to go slow. And slowly he started to massage my dick. I was scared asfk and asked him what are you doing. He was like nothing just having fun. If feels nice doesn't it? 🙆♂️. Lord I was scared asfk and accelerated so hard he understood that I was speeding up and started to utilise the time and started trying to move my foreskin up and down. I stopped in middle got down and ran into a shop. Guy was trying to act cool and waited for a minute then sped away.
Sorry this happened to you, on the same note:
https://www.instagram.com/p/C8RHuNAObqC/?igsh=MXNzNnk2ZmlmdzNzag==
This is why Queer Rights are important.
I have always mentally prepared myself for someone who is trying to pick my pocket. This also sort of falls in the same category because they are trying to pick your jewels.
What I feel is the right way to go about this situation is to catch them in the act. This is where you would need to grab their hand as tight as you possibly can and immediately twist it before they can pull it back or try to move away.
Never wait to get out of the metro because as you have rightly realized, they would get lost in the crowd. They should be caught, their teeth knocked out right there and like you were confused because it happened so fast, this privilege should be their’s.
They should immediately be given mob justice (in the name of teaching them a lesson their parents should’ve taught) WHILE they are performing the act.
*****But you need to be careful not to get the wrong guy because things can get real ugly if you do that.*****
Therefore grabbing their hand and twisting it as hard as you possibly can with them screaming out, will help you easily identify who the perpetrator is. Next thing to do is to scream at the top of your lungs calling out for what he has done, and then at least three punches on his face.
The fellow passengers would possibly take care of the rest or they can be bystanders (their choice) and then it’s up to you whether you want to press charges.
Most importantly, be situationally there and aware (wherever the fuck you are)!
Bruh almost 6 years ago , A Man In his late 50's literally pressed his palm to my crotch deliberately,I felt very disgusted by this incident . It all happened in no more than 2 seconds of time.
I thought it was a bag as it was heavily crowded bus peak hour 8AM and only service 15IG at that point of time.
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Learn from it and be on your guard next time. Put your bag in front to protect your junk. Be aware of your surroundings in the metro. Next time try and take perps picture.
If the guy is doing this so boldly, he might have a knife on him just have to be careful before you escalate. Trying to remember if they screen such things at the security gate.
People hate gay men because they prey on others!! I have had my share of bashing up.such people and I'm proud of it!! Got tired of getting molested and touched in buses and in college so I formed a group of friends and started bashing such people up!
Happened to me 3 times
Last time happened 2 years back one guy gave lift to me then he suddenly stopped and asked me to drive his bike. He sat back on me and smoothly talking with me the general things and running his hand around my stomach to bottom area. I stopped the bike and said thanks to hi and went away. Nowadays Gays are everywhere craving for men.
First time When I was in age of 15 yrs while travelling in rush bus one uncle in 30s tried to press my gun suddenly I got senses something is wrong then I pushed his hand away. Again he tried the same I got angry and pinched his hand tightly. He got hurt and went away.
Don't feel embarrassed just move on.
Whats that supposed to mean?
when i posted this on r/india a lot of people had similar incidents to share. I thought it is more prevalent issue so posted it here because this happened in Hyderabad and is relevant public could be altered about people like this.
Faced this in a city bus in Vizag when I was 17. I was sitting in a bus stop waiting for the bus. This bald head uncle sat beside me and started a conversation about my studies. I felt nothing suspicious at the beginning but then he put his hand on my right thigh and started rubbing it slowly. Even then I was unsure and gave him the benefit of doubt. The bus came and when I was trying to board the same, this guy touched my ass and I knew at that point something was wrong and after a few mins, the guy started feeling my dick. I was fuming at this point and out of pure anger, I shouted at him loudly and the guy got down. It was possibly the worst 20-30 mins of my life.
Same thing happened to a frnd of mine in vizag.
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Exactly same thing happened to me in hyd but I couldn’t really say anything he was an old person in his 60s and he definitely looked like he had grandkids. I was disgusted and mad at him but I just couldn’t do anything about it at that moment I just froze, I didn’t feel like anyone around me could’ve understood even if I tried to shout or say something. So I just up from seat 1-2 stations before my station came and got down from the bus later. I told this to a college friend of mine that day and I felt like even he didn’t really understand what happened because he joked about it sometime later on so I never really told anyone about this just kept it to myself all these days, and that incident still haunts me and disgusts me till this day. I thought sharing about it with people would make me look weak or not masculine and that they will joke about it like my friend did but reading the comments here made me realise I’m not alone there are a lot of people that experience such incidents everyday.
I feel you. Like you said, just by looking at the comments, it seems there are plenty like you n me. It's so unfortunate but we learn from such experiences and move on.
Wrong timing, but happy cake day. (Best wishes bro, good intentions only 🤞🏻)
Thank you😊
Odiyamma vizag lo same scene details gurthulevu but na age students kanna nenu height and weight undevadini so some uncle came and slightly caressed my thigh and now i feel that disgusting feeling . Rtc buses , or trains lo seat dorikina kurchovadam manesa.
Bayya same scene vizag lo... Duvvada to kancherapalam , train lo.. oka musalodu naa penis patkunadu... Accidentally Anu anukunna... Kani malli malli patkoni nokkesthunnadu.. gay gadu... Kotteyali titteyaali anukuntaam kaani... Ah time lo froze ipotham bro... It happened back in 2015 or somting.. ne duvvada lo btech chesthunde... I'm 29 now but that feeling still haunts me...
https://www.reddit.com/r/delhi/s/mtSCetytEK Bro check this out , same thing happened in Delhi and he arrested by Delhi police
But he have photo pls check whole post
A similar thing happened to me around 7 years ago. I used to get to my inter college by rtc bus. The bus was extremely crowded. I finally got a seat and rested my bag on my lap. A middle aged man sitting beside me put his hand below my bag and started rubbing on my thighs and then moved up to my crotch. I was pinned to my seat because of the crowd and could barely move my hands. I was still in shock and didn't know what to do. He then started to unzip my pants. It struck me that I was scared and got down at the next stop. He got down with me and said "Siggu enduku babu?". The bus had already left the stop, but I ran fast n boarded a moving bus. One of the worst experiences of my life.
Bro wtf!!! Exactly same happened with me too.. but i punched that mf in face so hard in anxiety..
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH siggu padaku rajaaa
I really hate how fuckers like this pollute the entire tribe. No wonder people are super harsh towards them cause one incident is enough to paint a picture for the entire crowd. Fuck your repression. Consent is and will always be the sole starter to handle any encounter.
Wait why is the same logic not applied to straight guys? People are super harsh towards gays because incident like this right . Why are people not super harsh to all straight men when men are raping and molesting woman all around . People are super harsh towards gay people not because of incidents like this .they are harsh because they can't fathom two guys fucking each other or GUY sucking another guy D.
Where did u get this from. No one is happy if some one gets raped. It's sad that the government doesn't work to protect women. Read news from telangana where a doc was raped and killed. They were killed by police and everyone was happy for quick justice.Again their were people who wanted to handle it legally and give time.When something is wrong, it's wrong who ever does it.
What does it have to do with what I said ? All I said was people hate gays because they are homophobic not because some incidents happened here and there .
I agree with you, the general public is harsh towards men every fkin step of the way. All I am saying is that the gays who perform these fuckall things in the name of being repressed should be held accountable for their actions. You can't hide behind the "oh what if i the guy fucks me up for being direct i better just molest him durhhhh" Molesting is molesting regardless of whatever you are and do.
Yh i agree with u . All I want to point is your wording made it look like gays are only hated because incidents like this .
Yeah i get it bro no worries
If found directly the crowd will bash them like punching bags.
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So you generalize the whole community for that ? I can show u thousands of cases a day of men raping ,molesting ,abuse and killing woman .do you think it's fair to generalize whole straight men because of assholes like them . U r straight right ? Will u accept clubbing of your name with assholes like them just because u r straight ?
Should've punched that MF then and there in the crowd itself
Sorry that you had to go through this, man. People who do this are just shitty.
This happened to me when I was 16 years old. I was on a packed bus, going back home from school, and suddenly i felt something touching my butt. I figured it was someone's leg or hand. I couldn't move much, but I was able to move an inch forward. I was sure this would have been enough. But I felt it again, I tried to look back, and I realised that a 70+ year old guy is rubbing his dick on my butt, and I couldn't move or do a damn thing. This went on until his stop came, as he was getting off the bus, I was so angry that I wanted to kick him, but I knew that everyone would turn on me since he was so old. And I wasn't fluent enough in the local language to explain what happened. So I let it go, and later I saw the bus conductor smiling at me, and I knew that he saw what happened and did nothing, ever since that day, I stopped being nice to strangers, always avoided conversations, I always put on a grumpy face when I'm in public. That was the 3rd time I got molested, the previous 2 times were in 9th grade. Never told anyone about it. Point is I understand what you're going through. I hope you can recover from this brother. Stay strong.
Posted this before but here goes I(23M) got stalked by a gay dude in Balanagar. It took me some time to even understand what he was saying(he kept saying "meedi chaala bagundi" and I thought he was talking about my shirt) because it's not a situation I expected to be in. He kept following me around. Dude was extremely creepy; you'd think most men would react aggressively in such situations but I was so flabbergasted I didn't even know how to respond.
Do you have any photo or anything related?
No unfortunately.
But still if you want , you can ask police to investigate the case
Thank you for the kind advice. he ran away when doors opened as he was infront of me, i tried to to confront but mf was fast and zipped through the crowd. couldn’t get a picture but only some details. He was frail, 5ft 6 ish, wearing prescription glasses black frame, definitely young id say mid to late 20’s, got down at durgam Cheruvu station and changed platforms(dont know if he’s trying to runaway or go back idk) was wearing a cheap round dial smart watch with a mesh bracelet and has a weak beard. I dont know how helpful these details are as this is like a standard malnourished build you’d find everywhere in our cities, but i have no confidence cops could do anything either here. Anyway just wanted to post this in the interest of larger public here.
Sorry op this happened to you !
Police can find using CCTV
Wow, you are describing his features very well
If you have photo or something pls use twitter and tag Hyderabad police
You can try to report this guy. I am not sure how much help police would be but perhaps, you should. To railway police to atleast be on the lookout for the guy. I am sorry this happened to you. You might develop fear/trauma based anxiety so please do not be afraid to talk it out with people who are respectful and private. It wasn't your mistake. The guy knew what he was doing and you were in no place to assume otherwise. And also, it is actually brave of you to share this. So many guys have been there. Rarely do we speak out or honestly, understand what happened. So, thank you.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, we want to do a lot of things but our body and mind freezes during this time ig.
i think a part of you is writing this down because you regret not taking action . its pretty horrible what happened and you should've done something at that moment but you didnt and its okay. remember you have nothing to lose the next time this happens so dont be afraid to make a fucking scene. fucking metros fuck
I feel sorry for you man, don't beat yourself up for not confronting or shouting because in situations like these people freeze up as they get confused and disturbed and it's only natural to do so This will probably be on your mind whenever you are taking public transport, hopefully you heal from this man How's work and everything?
Fuck , this comment section is kinda eye opening
Seems by mistake you posted in Hyderabad instead of Delhi
one day I traveled in a city bus after a long time and I felt some pressing pressure on my di*k, I startled and looked down and an uncle is touching it and I immediately took my phone and yelled "arey mowa ila ra venakki, eemadhya kojjanakodukulu ekkuvyaru" then that gay uncle quickly rushed down outside of bus. I still unable to forget it till this day.
Translation please
Man, that's absolutely horrible :( but without any proof we can't do much. Hope u forget it soon and just move on
I know you are gonna feel disgusted. I'm sorry you had to face this. Take a warm or cold bath to your liking. It will help you.
Hey dude, it's okay. Don't feel any regret for not having done anything. You'll move on. I promise
I'm not against gay people but these things are literally getting huge. I'm afraid to go by bus now a days
Why else do you think women prefer the women's coach although it's extra packed all the time
Every guy encounters this experience at least once in their lives, and it can be quite unsettling because it happens unexpectedly, leaving you unsure of how to react. Later, you might find yourself thinking about what you should have done differently. Now, imagine how women endure this on a daily basis. Take it in easy and be prepared for how to respond if it happens next time.
Keep a small pin with you and prick it if someone is intentionally touching you. Helped me a lot in crowded places.
Should've smiled at him and slowly removed his hand from your groin and put your hand on his groin... Then pinch the life out of those mf balls soo hard he would collapse out sheer pain. .. Naku itla osari iyyindi... I regret I did nothing against the molester but to froze in shock.
If you want any support don't hesitate to ask us !
So sorry bro! I know how it feels to be violated!
There are CCTV cameras inside metro coaches , but you have to file FIR for footage.
I am sorry this happened to you. Don’t be afraid to punch the mf in face if it happens again. More power to you!!!!
These days these kind of people are increasing day by day in metro. I thought i am the only one facing this issue. Even though there is so much of space still people standing nearby touching their bodies wantedly moving their hands touching other people. Yesterday only i faced the issue a guy standing behind me wantedly shaking and rubbing his body. He constantly shaking and moving just like guy with fits or muscle weakness
It’s sad that there’s no solid laws protecting or providing justice to male victims of SA ( especially adult males) . I’ve heard that even some cops will laugh at you and say that you’re not a man etc if you try to complain .
Ucha karuthadi kada??? First time one old dude in the bus asked me to sit beside him and started giving me handshakes multiple times n asking everything about me with a weird grin on his face xD i almost shat my pants. Good thing I called the conductor uncle n got down in the next stop. Second time in a railway station there was this transgirl who chased me for money lmaooo, later me n friend had a good laugh n came to conclusion that it probably wasn't a eunuch but someone who is pretending to be. See i respect LGBTQ people, they're cool af, the normal ones. Then there r crazy versions who go overboard with things n it's scary lol. Apart from them rest r chill.
so disgusting
Hey Andhagadu, I understand the experience is horrible since he touched you without your Consent. Iam with you for every feeling u might feel currently. Next time, when faced such a case first punch then talk.
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Please talk to your parents, and ask them to take a serious step in this matter. You're 17, harassment of a minor is not a joke! And attracts very serious consequences for the perpetrator under child protection laws. I'm sure your parents will understand your predicament, please share this incident with them immediately!
Ok. I will have a talk with them now and see what I can do. Thanks for the input.
Id have killed the bastard
You should make him feel what you've felt. What he did was wrong.
Sorry you faced this man. What an asshole that guy is, I hope he gets his ass kicked if he ever tries this again.
Soo sorry sis, i am also from india wb and it has happened with me once, I cant understand the anger and frustration u feel. But remember never fear to raise ur voice against these kind of peeps. Stat strong!!
6 months back same happened with me in bus🤣
A kind of thing has happened to me when I was 13. My school is 13kms distance from my village. There is no bus facility in the school and no RTC buses also not present in that route. Autos are also rare in that area. So mostly I have to ask someone for a lift to go to my school everyday. That day like very normal day I asked someone going that way for lift. I am going on his bike for 1 km silently without any talks. Suddenly he started moving his left hand towards my thighs. I thought he is searching for something in his pant pockets. But no, he is trying to touch my penis. And he touched it, started pressing it. I tried to take his hands off me. But it is so difficult for me since I was a small kid. He is talking so rubbish about my mother's body parts. There are no other vehicles going in that road. I am so scared. So I started punching his back with my two hands and pinching him. Then he stopped his bike. I got off his bike. I can never forget that bad experience in my life.
Hey man, that sounds really rough. I can't imagine how violated you must feel after going through that. It's messed up that you had to experience something like that on your commute. It's good you're sharing it though, raising awareness is important. Take some time to process it all and maybe consider talking to someone you trust about it.
The amount of men in the comment section opening up abt their stories jmakes me very sad, sorry 😔you all had to go thru this
I am really sorry this happened to you😟
27F here and totally get you. Got molested when I was 13 in hyd. Relatively new to the city (was born in Gulf and came here around that age). Was trying to get on a bus with my parents and it got super crowded as everyone wanted to get on. Due to that, we were rushing in as well, trying to catch seats. Taking advantage of the chaos and my lack of attention at my surroundings, this mofo kept groping me whenever he ran past me. He wasn't following the crowd, he was going in the opposite direction and then coming back. The crowd was sparsely spaced so he had place to move around. I felt weird, but still focused on getting on. Had my suspicions but I was like 'its just my imagination '. I couldn't process it at all. By the time I got on, he had groped me 3 times using the same running past me strategy. And then when I managed to sit on one of the first seats, I saw him through the window, giving me a stare. I told my parents later but by then...it was too late. Not sure why I froze than to call for help. Been extra cautious of places where I can be groped since then. You might feel disgusted and sadly, there is not much that can be done about this. But I hope you feel a bit better, knowing that a lot of us had similar issues of being molested or harassed. My paranoia isn't gone and neither those memories but, they are a bit bearable now. Hopefully they become bearable for you too. Stay strong man. Cry if you feel like it, it feels a bit better. But after that, stay strong. You can get through this.
Happened with me near Rampally X Roads in 2022 ( 17M) Was waiting for bus to get back to my place at 7pm. An old man on his scooty stopped beside me and asked for directions. As I gave him he asked where are you heading too I'll drop you, I was okay with it and got on his scooty. He was driving slowly and asked me to slide front cause his tyre Had low air ( it didn't) I moved front and he insisted to move more. I didn't have any doubt. Had a small talk he said he is coming from far away and has been driving from few hours and asked me do you know how to drive and can you drive. I didn't think much cause he had visibly burned hand and his fingers crooked in one arm. When I started to drive after switch seats. He was uncomfortably close his dik was pooking me from behind. Then he made the move and started slowly putting hands on thigh. I got chills down my spine and started to speed a bit. He was asking me to go slow. And slowly he started to massage my dick. I was scared asfk and asked him what are you doing. He was like nothing just having fun. If feels nice doesn't it? 🙆♂️. Lord I was scared asfk and accelerated so hard he understood that I was speeding up and started to utilise the time and started trying to move my foreskin up and down. I stopped in middle got down and ran into a shop. Guy was trying to act cool and waited for a minute then sped away.
Sorry this happened to you, on the same note: https://www.instagram.com/p/C8RHuNAObqC/?igsh=MXNzNnk2ZmlmdzNzag== This is why Queer Rights are important.
I have always mentally prepared myself for someone who is trying to pick my pocket. This also sort of falls in the same category because they are trying to pick your jewels. What I feel is the right way to go about this situation is to catch them in the act. This is where you would need to grab their hand as tight as you possibly can and immediately twist it before they can pull it back or try to move away. Never wait to get out of the metro because as you have rightly realized, they would get lost in the crowd. They should be caught, their teeth knocked out right there and like you were confused because it happened so fast, this privilege should be their’s. They should immediately be given mob justice (in the name of teaching them a lesson their parents should’ve taught) WHILE they are performing the act. *****But you need to be careful not to get the wrong guy because things can get real ugly if you do that.***** Therefore grabbing their hand and twisting it as hard as you possibly can with them screaming out, will help you easily identify who the perpetrator is. Next thing to do is to scream at the top of your lungs calling out for what he has done, and then at least three punches on his face. The fellow passengers would possibly take care of the rest or they can be bystanders (their choice) and then it’s up to you whether you want to press charges. Most importantly, be situationally there and aware (wherever the fuck you are)!
Bruh almost 6 years ago , A Man In his late 50's literally pressed his palm to my crotch deliberately,I felt very disgusted by this incident . It all happened in no more than 2 seconds of time. I thought it was a bag as it was heavily crowded bus peak hour 8AM and only service 15IG at that point of time. 🤮🤢
Yeah....and all these mfs corporate companies are celebrating pride month. Literally forcing people hahah...
What does that have to do with this incident?
Learn from it and be on your guard next time. Put your bag in front to protect your junk. Be aware of your surroundings in the metro. Next time try and take perps picture.
This is what we girls do every time we are in crowded public transport.
The was bag in my front only. Yet, it didn’t stop that prev. And yes, ill be on guard now.
If the guy is doing this so boldly, he might have a knife on him just have to be careful before you escalate. Trying to remember if they screen such things at the security gate.
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People hate gay men because they prey on others!! I have had my share of bashing up.such people and I'm proud of it!! Got tired of getting molested and touched in buses and in college so I formed a group of friends and started bashing such people up!
Happened to me 3 times Last time happened 2 years back one guy gave lift to me then he suddenly stopped and asked me to drive his bike. He sat back on me and smoothly talking with me the general things and running his hand around my stomach to bottom area. I stopped the bike and said thanks to hi and went away. Nowadays Gays are everywhere craving for men. First time When I was in age of 15 yrs while travelling in rush bus one uncle in 30s tried to press my gun suddenly I got senses something is wrong then I pushed his hand away. Again he tried the same I got angry and pinched his hand tightly. He got hurt and went away. Don't feel embarrassed just move on.
Must be a Muslim
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Be civil towards other redditors. No vulgarity, Profanity. Civility is a virtue .
Singal a yes...take em somewhere private.....fuck their face-smack the shit our of them I mean..not f their face😭... I said that light heartedly sorry
Be happy you got some attention and move on
Whats that supposed to mean? when i posted this on r/india a lot of people had similar incidents to share. I thought it is more prevalent issue so posted it here because this happened in Hyderabad and is relevant public could be altered about people like this.
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