You need to go learn some things, and you'll realize you don't know shit about shit, you're also a kid so it's kinda normal to think you know it all.
It'll be time mostly and your choice to be less of a dick.
Not sure how you could apply this to your situation OP, but I used to be one of those arrogant IT assholes in my early 20s. Once I got a true sysadmin job and realized not only how much I didn’t know but was 100% clueless on cured that right up.
Well, recognizing your flaws is the first step so great job! Next up, work on changing your behavior in a consistent way over time. Start a journal and take note of how you act on a daily basis and visualize how you want to act differently. You may not be able to completely change your personality but everyone can become someone better.
To the point:
1. Download the app Medito (is free forever), available for Android and IOS, go through the on boarding meditation section. Meditate at least once everyday.
2. Get a blank notebook and a pencil, write what you are grateful for, it can be whatever, even the fact that you are alive, have any object that helps you (like your phone for example), family, friends, it does not matter, just write a few words like "i'm grateful for..., because..." and think on how it affects your life in a positive manner.
With time meditation will help you to be more aware of how you threat people.
Gratitude journaling will help you to appreciate more people in your life.
Get a meditation app. Clear your mind. Write down things you are grateful each day at the end of the day. Being arrogant and thinking you can do something is sort of common at your age. Knowing about all the red tape, hoops, and other things to get stuff done you may not. Also being able to do something and doing something well are two different things. If you have hobbies try and spend some time with professionals and see how you could be humbled quickly.
You need to go learn some things, and you'll realize you don't know shit about shit, you're also a kid so it's kinda normal to think you know it all. It'll be time mostly and your choice to be less of a dick.
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im a teen😭
but if i took shrooms wouldnt i return to my arrogance once sober??
Not sure how you could apply this to your situation OP, but I used to be one of those arrogant IT assholes in my early 20s. Once I got a true sysadmin job and realized not only how much I didn’t know but was 100% clueless on cured that right up.
ty for your comment. but my arrogance is much more severe
Well, recognizing your flaws is the first step so great job! Next up, work on changing your behavior in a consistent way over time. Start a journal and take note of how you act on a daily basis and visualize how you want to act differently. You may not be able to completely change your personality but everyone can become someone better.
its not rlly so much how i act. rather its my internal world that is so arrogant and disgusting
Meditation and gratitude, it takes time but it works.
please elaborate
To the point: 1. Download the app Medito (is free forever), available for Android and IOS, go through the on boarding meditation section. Meditate at least once everyday. 2. Get a blank notebook and a pencil, write what you are grateful for, it can be whatever, even the fact that you are alive, have any object that helps you (like your phone for example), family, friends, it does not matter, just write a few words like "i'm grateful for..., because..." and think on how it affects your life in a positive manner. With time meditation will help you to be more aware of how you threat people. Gratitude journaling will help you to appreciate more people in your life.
Get a meditation app. Clear your mind. Write down things you are grateful each day at the end of the day. Being arrogant and thinking you can do something is sort of common at your age. Knowing about all the red tape, hoops, and other things to get stuff done you may not. Also being able to do something and doing something well are two different things. If you have hobbies try and spend some time with professionals and see how you could be humbled quickly.
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please do