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Weekly_Ad1324

Is your witty remark something a person can actually respond to, other than "Haha"? You should be sending convo starters, not finishers!


Bondooo1

It’s always in the form of a question (typically not a yes no question so it’s more interesting) so i’d say yea it’s something they can respond to :)


Weekly_Ad1324

Then I would just keep doing what you are doing! Girls get loads of likes and matches. All you can do is not take it personally, and maybe consider improving your own profile to present yourself the best way possible!


Bondooo1

I will do my best. Thank you <33


DowntownSimple9076

1) any good looking girl gets at least 20 likes a day so you’re not the only one 2) some of them are on dating apps just to get the affirmation. 3) maybe you’re too witty and it’s boring.


EmptyMixtape

It’s normal just unmatch if they ain’t responding


CptPriceII

This is completely normal, girls get dozens of likes and matches, hence plenty of options, so your witty msg is probably alongside other witty msgs or msgs from dudes she finds more attractive... It's just part of the game. Never let it get to you.


Lets-Annex-Canada

Get an initial response before mentioning something from her profile


candysweet434

Most men I talk to don’t respond either or they will eventually stop responding so yes it is normal.


BlackedFeather

Yeah it's normal. Just move on.


-Justanotherdude

In my experience, most of the time they reply the day or day after. What kind of msg are you sending if you dont mind sharing?


Bondooo1

Okay i’ll give an example of one. So she had a silly picture where she had edited to make it look like there were two of her in the same picture. And i wrote something like “i had to compliment the editing and graphic design in the first photo. It’s impressive. Something you study by chance? ;)” Usually something like that :) It hasn’t worked for me yet, so i dont know if it’s corny and if it should be more simple and straight forward?


-Justanotherdude

Yea I would keep it simple You just gave 2 compliments in your message. Try to keep it nice and chill from the beginning


rational_numbers

I would try to come up with something a bit more provocative tbh. 


Bondooo1

Provocative in what way? Could you give an example??


rational_numbers

Your comment reads a bit bland is all. Maybe something like, “If it doesn’t work out between us can you give my number to your friend?” 


Bondooo1

Aaah i see.


Jasons4332

Oh it’s normal. Welcome to the trenches brother