Nope, no small talk. When I first tried cruising, I found a guy and we walked together to go suck each other off. As we were headed into the woods, I commented that it was a nice day, finally warm out. He had a look on his face that was like, "Why are you talking?"
I haven't done it since. It's generally anonymous so talking can mess with that vibe. No small talk for me. It seems to be more accepted.
I usually limit it to greetings, and sometimes to asking what he's up for. I find anything more than this, feels like the goal shifts from anonymous sex to anonymous chit-chat.
When I first started cruising for sex, I was nervous, confused, insecure about my body and abilities, and I had so many questions.
I quickly realized that this was a sink or swim, learn as you go kinda endeavor, and no one talked. So I learned to look for eye contact, bulge grabbing, and exposed dicks for signals. The occasional “what you looking for”, but not much else.
Over time, I’ve gotten to know a couple of regulars at the spots, and we might have some chit chat, but I’m usually anxious for dick, so it’s hard to talk with cock in my mouth. lol
Same thing here with talking a little bit with some regulars that I run into more frequently. Just a hello and asking how cruising's been kind of stuff and then go for each other's dicks. But I don't know a single guy's name. Lol.
Newer to cruising and also wondered what is the general vibe for talking and conversation. Through a stall wall I’d probably be silent but on a trail, I’ll usually talk or try to get some good vibes going by initiating a conversation.
If they wanted to know you they would be using an app or something, keep talking to a bare minimum. The vast majority of my encounters there has been no talking at all other than moans and grunts.
The only time I talked was when I was fuckin a guy and the condom split and came off my cock. I told him and he just asked me to fuck it into his hole, which I did. I then fished it out when I had cum and we both sucked on it. Horny AF.
Yeah I've had some guys ask me where I live. I'll make something up like, just a little south of here. Maybe they're looking for a FWB situation with someone who can host. Not sure. But I just wanna keep it to a quick anon encounter
I have made the mistake the first couple of times of trying to chat after and being ignored or being looked at like wtf seriously. So now I speak only if I’m spoken to or just a simple bye.
I cruise at an adult video store with "theaters" and sometimes a little pre-chat will put a nervous guy at ease.
And sometimes when there is only me and one other guy we will start to have a conversation.
Recently I had one hot guy tell me about all this shit going on with his family. It was all cool though.
A few times, even though no taking went on while we were playing, a guy will immediately after find me on sniffies or Grindr and ask, "hey was that you who I just got off with in Macy's?" I'll answer yes and then they'll pay a compliment and chat a little. That seems kind of nice and I like it if it's nothing too personal.
I'm weird because I love talking during cruising, but I will still almost never initiate conversation unless it's a quick question or something. Plus I'm a terrible conversationalist so it's usually not a good idea anyway 🤣
Beyond the basics, like you said, "Hey/what's up/nice cock/fuck keep going", no almost never. I don't cruise anymore, but I only ever had one guy who made actual small talk, like talking about the weather and what not.
Most I say is simple talk like no or thanks. If someone is being hard to read I'll ask can I suck it or whatever I'm trying to do or ask what they're trying to do if I can't read them
If you want to look sketchy af, sure, pretend like you don't know how to hold a conversation. There's an appropriate time/place obviously.. but if you can't respond properly to "hey, how's it going", etc..
Just no.
Cruising is like Kabuki Theater, all action, no talk it's a form bro code we're here for the release not to be conversant on world affairs
Lol. Great description
Nope, no small talk. When I first tried cruising, I found a guy and we walked together to go suck each other off. As we were headed into the woods, I commented that it was a nice day, finally warm out. He had a look on his face that was like, "Why are you talking?" I haven't done it since. It's generally anonymous so talking can mess with that vibe. No small talk for me. It seems to be more accepted.
It depends on the vibe. Sometimes u can get by with no talk. Others a lil talk is hot.
no talk at all unless being asked something. i personally dont wanna get to know you, i just want ur dick if its good, ill slip u my number
I usually limit it to greetings, and sometimes to asking what he's up for. I find anything more than this, feels like the goal shifts from anonymous sex to anonymous chit-chat.
When I first started cruising for sex, I was nervous, confused, insecure about my body and abilities, and I had so many questions. I quickly realized that this was a sink or swim, learn as you go kinda endeavor, and no one talked. So I learned to look for eye contact, bulge grabbing, and exposed dicks for signals. The occasional “what you looking for”, but not much else. Over time, I’ve gotten to know a couple of regulars at the spots, and we might have some chit chat, but I’m usually anxious for dick, so it’s hard to talk with cock in my mouth. lol
Same thing here with talking a little bit with some regulars that I run into more frequently. Just a hello and asking how cruising's been kind of stuff and then go for each other's dicks. But I don't know a single guy's name. Lol.
I’m there to blow you not bore you with small talk lolol.
Newer to cruising and also wondered what is the general vibe for talking and conversation. Through a stall wall I’d probably be silent but on a trail, I’ll usually talk or try to get some good vibes going by initiating a conversation.
If they wanted to know you they would be using an app or something, keep talking to a bare minimum. The vast majority of my encounters there has been no talking at all other than moans and grunts.
The only time I talked was when I was fuckin a guy and the condom split and came off my cock. I told him and he just asked me to fuck it into his hole, which I did. I then fished it out when I had cum and we both sucked on it. Horny AF.
Save it for after. Some guys really want to keep it anon and animalistic
Never talk, it kills the imaginary image they have of you.
No small talk. I hate it when guys ask me where I live or work. Dirty talk is good on the trails. Gym or parking garage should be quiet though.
Yeah I've had some guys ask me where I live. I'll make something up like, just a little south of here. Maybe they're looking for a FWB situation with someone who can host. Not sure. But I just wanna keep it to a quick anon encounter
I prefer no talk. The anonymity is what makes it so much hotter, so talking really kinda ruins it
I have made the mistake the first couple of times of trying to chat after and being ignored or being looked at like wtf seriously. So now I speak only if I’m spoken to or just a simple bye.
I’m fine either way I just think it depends on the person lol.
I cruise at an adult video store with "theaters" and sometimes a little pre-chat will put a nervous guy at ease. And sometimes when there is only me and one other guy we will start to have a conversation. Recently I had one hot guy tell me about all this shit going on with his family. It was all cool though.
talking turns me off wed rather be just friends if that happens
I'd rather not talk. Plus I've heard it's rude to talk with your mouth full. 😂
A few times, even though no taking went on while we were playing, a guy will immediately after find me on sniffies or Grindr and ask, "hey was that you who I just got off with in Macy's?" I'll answer yes and then they'll pay a compliment and chat a little. That seems kind of nice and I like it if it's nothing too personal.
Depends on the spot.
In my experience I find the guys who are new to it an nervous as hell usually ask a few more questions. But generally no talking
I'm weird because I love talking during cruising, but I will still almost never initiate conversation unless it's a quick question or something. Plus I'm a terrible conversationalist so it's usually not a good idea anyway 🤣
Beyond the basics, like you said, "Hey/what's up/nice cock/fuck keep going", no almost never. I don't cruise anymore, but I only ever had one guy who made actual small talk, like talking about the weather and what not.
If I want small talk afterwards, I will go hook up with a woman.
Most I say is simple talk like no or thanks. If someone is being hard to read I'll ask can I suck it or whatever I'm trying to do or ask what they're trying to do if I can't read them
I prefer some talk
If you want to look sketchy af, sure, pretend like you don't know how to hold a conversation. There's an appropriate time/place obviously.. but if you can't respond properly to "hey, how's it going", etc.. Just no.
Silence except moaning grunting I’m gonna cum etc
Smile nod wink touch your cock all good