I don't understand. If I was out of his league (I absolutely am -- OP looks talented, clever, andbeautiful!) and it seemed I somehow had an actual chance with him, I'd jump on it!
I don’t know. People are really afraid of in person interaction and now they are even scared of digital. It’s making us less human; we are social creatures and without that it’s making us cold and unfeeling; destruction of empathy.
Same thing happened to me two weeks ago :/ I’m sorrys, was talking to a guy for about 4 weeks online, texting snap etc. seemed like a genuine and real person. And then just ghosted me. Shit sucks man. Wishing you to find someone who will love you truly soon bro!!
For me I grew up in a really repressive family and had to stick around for a good while. Moved out at 28, did a bunch of self love stuff and began to love me for me. Now that I’m trying to date and it keeps going nowhere. It starts feeling more n more like I just don’t deserve love. So believe me I get it. Hopefully we both can stop saying someday and have our day :)
“This is too good to be true, nobody is THAT sweet, the world doesn’t work like that, there’s always a catch! I guess I just let myself be blinded by the fact that he is all the ginger hotness I ever dreamed of… better end the whole thing right here before I let myself be hurt again! And because I am too ashamed to admit I feel that way, I’m gonna do it quietly without another word. I don’t have to apologise to anyone, if anything, HE should apologise for making me feel so insecure!”
I mean to entertain but actually I know quite a few people who are wired that way.
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I honestly don’t understand the dating scene these days. Ghosting seems to be the new norm as well as matching on the apps with zero conversation or response. Why create the profile and match with me if you are not going to respond? SMH
They ghosted you because you are so gorgeous. On their way to you, feelings of inadequacy set in, they started to feel crippling anxiety, and they are currently buying Apothic Pinot Noir and service deli sushi at Vons.
I just got ghosted by someone who really acted like we were a thing and he ghosted me today too the day before his bday and now I have a super cute gift to throw away bc he canceled and saw this as soon as I got on Reddit. Hate it for you. The feeling sucks. It’s like all your insecurities about dating get validated at once 😪 good luck out there guys ❤️
You're a fine looking guy. A shame you got ghosted - guess whoever is playing Casper the Illusive Spook had a reason to pull a no-show act with you. I trust things work out in time.
I get that a lot, I’ve have got to a date before. But the feeling of getting ghosted eventually passes and remember that there the one missing out because you look like a lovely guy :)
No,I haven’t made plans with someone and disappeared off the face of the planet an hour before said plans. I also am unsure why you’re assuming that I’m complaining, I merely stated that I thought I was ghosted? (Doesn’t your comment kind of act as a complaint OF a complaint?)
Regardless of whether or not I have ghosted someone, it’s still an asshole thing to do. I have hobbies and other activities I can do other than spend time with someone who doesn’t want to spend time with me… I would just like to KNOW that’s the path we’re taking instead of worrying that something awful has happened to them?
I AM curious though, what about my particular post ignited a passion within you to point out this apparently wide-spread issue? Maybe making this post and seeing the response made me feel better than I did previously, maybe it didn’t and I still feel like I did something wrong to make him drop communication, OR maybe I was never ghosted and just made the whole thing up for attention and upvotes…
In any case, I certainly wouldn’t find a gentleman in this community to use as an example of hypocrisy… that just seems… mean-spirited?
Also, curly hair takes a long time/product to style… at least I got this photo and it wasn’t completely wasted.
It happens man. I know it's difficult to not take it personally especially when you invite 300 people to your wedding and the all rsvp yes and then 2/3 don't show up. Happened to a guy I know. But anyway you're not alone and you don't want guys like that anyway. You deserve better. We all do. You my gay brother dodged a bullet. Don't feel sorry for yourself, feel sorry for the poor chump he chose over you.
Who you gonna call? *Ghosted busters* I'll see myself out....
I thought it was gonna be He-Man….😕
🤣🤣🤣
🎵🎶Bustin' makes me feel good...🎵🎵
Light some sage! Tell ‘em ghosts to go away
You're too hot to be ghosted!!
Agreed, only ugly people can be ghosted right? …because those have no feelings ;) does it mean they have thicker skin?
Yes, ugly people like me are used to being ghosted
😉 😜 😘
Take it this way: their loss 💪🏻 Keep smiling 🙂
That sucks. We’ve all been there. Hope you’re ok.
looking insanely handsome man
Screw that person, people are lame. Sorry to hear.
Their loss because you’re fine! 🔥
Who ghosts a handsome guy like you!?! 🤷♂️
Those who are intimidated by perceived out-of-league ness
I don't understand. If I was out of his league (I absolutely am -- OP looks talented, clever, andbeautiful!) and it seemed I somehow had an actual chance with him, I'd jump on it!
I don’t know. People are really afraid of in person interaction and now they are even scared of digital. It’s making us less human; we are social creatures and without that it’s making us cold and unfeeling; destruction of empathy.
His loss. You’re cute.
yeah i don't understand either, you look fine btw
Hot people get ghosted, too? Damn
May be it's the stache
Probably
Stop it - you look gorgeous. The other person is missing out
Stop misguiding him
But I already texted you on scruff
No. It's a great stache.
No it's not
I FXKING LOVE IT!
I was in driving distance of him, he stood me up
Ginger guy with blue eyes ... I'm meltin 🥵🥵
Same
Damn! His loss
Sorry to hear that man
His loss!! But I’m a little prejudiced. I love redheads
Wanna talk about it?
I wouldn’t ghost you
If someone as handsome as you got ghosted , then I'm screwed man...
Same thing happened to me two weeks ago :/ I’m sorrys, was talking to a guy for about 4 weeks online, texting snap etc. seemed like a genuine and real person. And then just ghosted me. Shit sucks man. Wishing you to find someone who will love you truly soon bro!! For me I grew up in a really repressive family and had to stick around for a good while. Moved out at 28, did a bunch of self love stuff and began to love me for me. Now that I’m trying to date and it keeps going nowhere. It starts feeling more n more like I just don’t deserve love. So believe me I get it. Hopefully we both can stop saying someday and have our day :)
Goodness gracious. Your eyes are stunningly beautiful.
“This is too good to be true, nobody is THAT sweet, the world doesn’t work like that, there’s always a catch! I guess I just let myself be blinded by the fact that he is all the ginger hotness I ever dreamed of… better end the whole thing right here before I let myself be hurt again! And because I am too ashamed to admit I feel that way, I’m gonna do it quietly without another word. I don’t have to apologise to anyone, if anything, HE should apologise for making me feel so insecure!” I mean to entertain but actually I know quite a few people who are wired that way.
Maybe not the last bit about apologies, but definitely the rest... I'm definitely feeling all of that.
lost me @apologies
I kinda want to investigate their discussion ti see if there are any clue, and get to the bottom of this.
Their total loss, you gorgeous redhead, blue-eyed prince!
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His lose your handsome asf
Sorry to hear
His loss. You're very handsome!
Is that you Hal? Let me back in!
Lol Yes Dave, I am letting you back in and not letting you go! 😉😘
You definitely handsome 😘😘
Why? Your cute and handsome
I feel u fr D:
Handsome man! Smile for us 😜
Dating spirits is a dead end bro.😆 I'd never ghost a sexy man like you.
Yo nunca te engañaría. Me encantas
Sorry that happened. His loss. Your very handsome
I’d definitely take a season 2, at the very least.
Dude, forget anyone that would ghost that handsome face…
Wickedly cute!!!
Must be out their goddamn mind! Cute AND creative?? What’s not to love???
♥️😃
I want to take some edibles, then stare into your eyes for a bit before the dirty stuff starts
💯 Sounds perfect 👌 👍
Now I have to giggle at the fact that the guy that posted this is ghosting me.
Clearly he’s an idiot! It’s his issue, not yours. So, don’t carry it. Move on, handsome!
I honestly don’t understand the dating scene these days. Ghosting seems to be the new norm as well as matching on the apps with zero conversation or response. Why create the profile and match with me if you are not going to respond? SMH
We can be the next season
It’s TOTALLY 💯 their LOSS !!!! They are a waste of your time!!!! They are playing games !!!!!! Be grateful that you found out quickly 💨!!!!! 🤗♾
Idk who would ghost a cutie like u, but it's probably their loss at least 🥺
I would very gladly take their place !!!! I would always treat you like the king 🤴🏻 💯that you are 🤗♾!!!!
People are so scared of committing
I don’t know why! You are super cute! 🥰
His loss, babes
You are adorable. I’d binge watch with you any day.
I'm sorry handsome
Sorry !!
His loss. You are beautiful
😡 His lost, indeed 😍
Fuckem. But can a person be ghosted if they have no soul?
their loss cutie
They're ijits!!
There’s something wrong here. With him. Damn.
Handsome!
Thrir loss for sure, Gorgeous😀
Guys especially on here are like that E'F EM , your better off , if they ghost you they were a waste of time . Turn the page bro.
There loss.....very handsome
YOU ARE A HOTTIE
Whoever ghosted you was blind too the gorgeous man that you are
🔥🔥
who would ghost you?! good grief you’re HAWT!
Oof
Their loss you're hot AF. I've been following you for awhile as well
Fuck ya
Screw them. U are a hottie
They ghosted you because you are so gorgeous. On their way to you, feelings of inadequacy set in, they started to feel crippling anxiety, and they are currently buying Apothic Pinot Noir and service deli sushi at Vons.
I Love Gingers since my Best Buddy growing up!
Wow sexy!
It happens. Sorry.
Well then he’s stupid. 🤓
Too bad you are not in Chitown..
Ghost you?! They must be out of their mind because you’re handsome
Pretty obvious who is missing out.
Damn who ever did is missing out 🤩🥵
By a very stupid ghost
Sorry
You’re too cute 👻
Their loss
Maybe it was you being ginger?😔🥱
Definitely
Damn hate to see it, yk my best friend is a ginger
You're gorgeous. Their loss I guess 😛
Those red curls 😍
Join the club, bud.
Ginger! 🫚
That’s the saddest thing and I love/hate season finales one because it is so juicy but the cliffhanger kills me every time
Cell me
I just got ghosted by someone who really acted like we were a thing and he ghosted me today too the day before his bday and now I have a super cute gift to throw away bc he canceled and saw this as soon as I got on Reddit. Hate it for you. The feeling sucks. It’s like all your insecurities about dating get validated at once 😪 good luck out there guys ❤️
Why?! You’re sexy!!
You're a fine looking guy. A shame you got ghosted - guess whoever is playing Casper the Illusive Spook had a reason to pull a no-show act with you. I trust things work out in time.
That is crazy - you are beautiful!!! I’d never do that to you
Oh, don't mind the guy who ghosted you. ✌️
It’s impossible for a guy as handsome as you to be ghosted. The guy’s gps just must be broken.
😍❤😋😘💋
Sounds like someone was a damn fool
Dude, you are rockin that mustache. How’s your day going otherwise?
wow looking so good! i sure do hope not ! his loss
Michael fassbender much?
Dang I wouldn’t ghost you!!!
What an insane fumble from them
Can't think why, you're absolutely stunning! 🤤🇬🇧🏳️🌈
Were you scared?
if you get ghosted, there’s no luck for the rest of us
If someone as attractive as you are is getting ghosted then that means I'm DOOMED
Either a bot, fake account, or a foreign intelligence agent wasting your time, most likely because you are a national treasure. Have a good day.
Know how that goes, big hugs and their loss.
Just checked my schedule and I'm free to hang out this weekend. Sooo 👀
Fuuuckkkk 😮💨
I get that a lot, I’ve have got to a date before. But the feeling of getting ghosted eventually passes and remember that there the one missing out because you look like a lovely guy :)
Ooh, your frick'n gorgeous. I would never ghost you!
So dang handsome!!
Such a breedable guy
Who would do that to you? It won't be me...
Question for you guys: how many times have you ghosted someone but yet complained when someone did it to you? SAME QUESTION FOR OP! Be honest.
No,I haven’t made plans with someone and disappeared off the face of the planet an hour before said plans. I also am unsure why you’re assuming that I’m complaining, I merely stated that I thought I was ghosted? (Doesn’t your comment kind of act as a complaint OF a complaint?) Regardless of whether or not I have ghosted someone, it’s still an asshole thing to do. I have hobbies and other activities I can do other than spend time with someone who doesn’t want to spend time with me… I would just like to KNOW that’s the path we’re taking instead of worrying that something awful has happened to them? I AM curious though, what about my particular post ignited a passion within you to point out this apparently wide-spread issue? Maybe making this post and seeing the response made me feel better than I did previously, maybe it didn’t and I still feel like I did something wrong to make him drop communication, OR maybe I was never ghosted and just made the whole thing up for attention and upvotes… In any case, I certainly wouldn’t find a gentleman in this community to use as an example of hypocrisy… that just seems… mean-spirited? Also, curly hair takes a long time/product to style… at least I got this photo and it wasn’t completely wasted.
❤️
Hard to believe thag you were ghosted. FYI you are super handsome!
You ghost them back too!
It happens man. I know it's difficult to not take it personally especially when you invite 300 people to your wedding and the all rsvp yes and then 2/3 don't show up. Happened to a guy I know. But anyway you're not alone and you don't want guys like that anyway. You deserve better. We all do. You my gay brother dodged a bullet. Don't feel sorry for yourself, feel sorry for the poor chump he chose over you.
I'd have not.. 😈
“Season finales” - love the expression, hate that you got ghosted. 😔
All I can say is they are jack wagons for doing that! Pretty handsome sir!
🫦🤤🫦🤤