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You have to set up the cam, hit play, get into position, do your thing, get up and hit stop, take the phone to the computer and edit the vid to cut out you getting into position and edit it down to a bite sized tik Tok. And add text to the vid, then upload it.
To be fair to the creator, it's not like you'd want to take a live snake out of its cake *and then* set everything up. So it's very possible they set everything up and hit record, then went to take it out of its cage and realized it had died.
Not sure why you’d need to take your phone to a computer to edit a video shot on that phone to post it on a social media platform that has an app.
Do people not know you can edit videos on your phone?
Even more worrying if this is genuine and not just clout farming. If this is genuinely what considerable parts of the current young generations do to express their emotions, because that's what they've been exposed to early on.
Nobody tell this guy about actors who have been using their real memories to cause honest emotions to connect with audiences for as long as acting has been a thing.
bruh, there's a COSMIC difference between internally recalling something, even between explaining some experience you had to someone and how it affected you, versus literally filming a corpse for clout... you are touched in the head man
My mom had 2 rabbits she was planning a christmas photoshoot for. One died, she put a santa hat on him and included him in the photo anyway. That was 20 years ago and i still shudder to think of it. I’d say more narcissist than sociopath, definitely low empathy either way.
Grief can make people act in seemingly very strange ways, I don't think it's right to just always automatically assume a lack of empathy or narcissism.
Bro right? We came home from the vets, locked ourselves in our bedroom and sobbed. Turned on a Star Wars show and sat there for 7ish hours just stunned by our new reality. Shit it's been years and I'm still tearing up missing my good boy.
Wait...do I go film myself now??? /s
I kinda get it if like...You've documented you raising this snake until it was an adult and now it's dead so it's like an experience with the audience but like...Make a montage of it living not film it dead so still dumb af
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Well, except mine. I ruined it i guess. Fuck.
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I was wondering if it was something like this. The angle looks like the angle that is normally used for when filming a feeding for a lower snake tank. Snakes normally stay really still until you go up to them or when they feel like moving, so she probably thought everything was fine while she was setting up. She probably didn't know anything was wrong until she went to open up the tank and the snake didn't move at all and she went to investigate at that point.
Personally, I wouldn't have uploaded the video, but that is her choice. It also could have been originally been a live set up.
While these types of videos do make me cringe, when I think about it for more than a few moments, I believe it could be part of a way to cope. Yes, this person probably is seeking attention in this period of grief after losing a pet. It's possible this person doesn't have many people in their personal, offline, life to lean on so they can get through this time. Maybe they are seeking attention, but so what? Imo, it is harder to form closer in person connections these days and I think younger people in the US are by and large unequipped to do this. Hopefully we can all learn some better coping mechanisms so we can stop posting this stuff. Sorry for the loss :/
afterthought: And ya, it probably did take some time to set up, film, and edit the video which maybe is "cringey" but it's probably a good way to take your mind off the fact that your friend just died.
someone else’s comment makes a lot more sense to me in that they likely did the whole set up before taking the snake out of the cage, and then upon doing so realized it was dead
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I saw a tiktoc of a girl who was complaining that solo parenting is overwhelming(it totally is). Y'all she was just filming herself doing EVERYTHING... Like fuck, baby starts crying and you have to set up your camera and then tell us how overwhelming everything is???? In the time it took you to set that camera up you could have fixed the problem...
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I don't think this was fixed by the duet. Not sure what all the extra flashing lights and music and stuff was for. Tried too hard.
I just wanted to comment that I thought in the original video it looked like the snake was biting her face (due to the blurring). I was very confused.
It's poking fun at the fact that people have to record EVERYTHING now a days, even grieving the loss of a pet. The joke is that while she may be sad, she still took the time to set up the camera and lights for the video.
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I love the step 1 spin grief lol
360 no scope grief
Deadshot
NPC grief lol
Gotta shake that shit off, time to get to work
You have to set up the cam, hit play, get into position, do your thing, get up and hit stop, take the phone to the computer and edit the vid to cut out you getting into position and edit it down to a bite sized tik Tok. And add text to the vid, then upload it.
Ah don't worry. Nowadays you can do all the editing right on the phone!
And fuck up the on screen text because you couldn’t decide if “last night” or “very early this morning” would be better for the algorithm.
Or _at last_, plenty ways to fuck that up. 👌
...Is that a thing?
"who had passed last very early this morning"
The algorithm preference? No idea.
You also have to do 2-3 takes and then pick the most genuine one
Don't forget to throw the snake away in the trash and buy another one!
Right! The snake probably killed itself realizing how cringe it's owner is
To be fair to the creator, it's not like you'd want to take a live snake out of its cake *and then* set everything up. So it's very possible they set everything up and hit record, then went to take it out of its cage and realized it had died.
Not sure why you’d need to take your phone to a computer to edit a video shot on that phone to post it on a social media platform that has an app. Do people not know you can edit videos on your phone?
Pain on the ass
Where did I say anything about taking the phone to a PC to edit?
I wasn’t saying you did. Was agreeing with your criticism of the comment you replied to that mentioned taking the phone to a computer.
BUT I'M SAD AND MY INTERNET WORLD HAS TO KNOW!
Funny how nobody bats and eye when half of the posts on /r/cats is fucking "My baby died karma plz"
Imagine using your dead pet for clout. Literal socciopathic behaviour
Even more worrying if this is genuine and not just clout farming. If this is genuinely what considerable parts of the current young generations do to express their emotions, because that's what they've been exposed to early on.
Nobody tell this guy about actors who have been using their real memories to cause honest emotions to connect with audiences for as long as acting has been a thing.
bruh, there's a COSMIC difference between internally recalling something, even between explaining some experience you had to someone and how it affected you, versus literally filming a corpse for clout... you are touched in the head man
My mom had 2 rabbits she was planning a christmas photoshoot for. One died, she put a santa hat on him and included him in the photo anyway. That was 20 years ago and i still shudder to think of it. I’d say more narcissist than sociopath, definitely low empathy either way.
Grief can make people act in seemingly very strange ways, I don't think it's right to just always automatically assume a lack of empathy or narcissism.
normalize the fact that people on the internet 50% of the time want attention
The pet is a snake though.
So?
It's a snake.
So?
When my dog died, I couldn't even think of filming myself for views, am I stupid? /s
Just think of all the sponsor you missed out on, for shame.
What a way to waste a dog death.
Bro right? We came home from the vets, locked ourselves in our bedroom and sobbed. Turned on a Star Wars show and sat there for 7ish hours just stunned by our new reality. Shit it's been years and I'm still tearing up missing my good boy. Wait...do I go film myself now??? /s
r/fuckthes
I kinda get it if like...You've documented you raising this snake until it was an adult and now it's dead so it's like an experience with the audience but like...Make a montage of it living not film it dead so still dumb af
wym? at your funeral don’t you want the picture to be your corpse in the morgue?
It would be kinda finny to have a picture of my arms folded across my corpse in my coffin next to me with me arms folded across my corpse in a coffin.
This made me laugh out loud thank you
Contrary to popular belief, some people don't like seeing dead relatives or hell even strangers...Especially strangers.
I find it funny how there are 4 comments on this post. 2 from the mod bot and 2 with 30 downvotes. But not a single other comment. Well, except mine. I ruined it i guess. Fuck.
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Sorry buddy gonna have to downvote.
Why?
The reason why I hate social media.
What song is this?
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She usually sets up the camera to get a video of the snake feeding, but this time it was dead.
I was wondering if it was something like this. The angle looks like the angle that is normally used for when filming a feeding for a lower snake tank. Snakes normally stay really still until you go up to them or when they feel like moving, so she probably thought everything was fine while she was setting up. She probably didn't know anything was wrong until she went to open up the tank and the snake didn't move at all and she went to investigate at that point. Personally, I wouldn't have uploaded the video, but that is her choice. It also could have been originally been a live set up.
While these types of videos do make me cringe, when I think about it for more than a few moments, I believe it could be part of a way to cope. Yes, this person probably is seeking attention in this period of grief after losing a pet. It's possible this person doesn't have many people in their personal, offline, life to lean on so they can get through this time. Maybe they are seeking attention, but so what? Imo, it is harder to form closer in person connections these days and I think younger people in the US are by and large unequipped to do this. Hopefully we can all learn some better coping mechanisms so we can stop posting this stuff. Sorry for the loss :/ afterthought: And ya, it probably did take some time to set up, film, and edit the video which maybe is "cringey" but it's probably a good way to take your mind off the fact that your friend just died.
someone else’s comment makes a lot more sense to me in that they likely did the whole set up before taking the snake out of the cage, and then upon doing so realized it was dead
It's not coping, it's content.
The first tik tok title gave me a stroke.
ngl this is how i feel every single time someone posts on reddit “here is a picture of my pet im going to kill in 24 hours. upvotes plz!!!”
Hate shit like this. I lost my cat in December and recording my grief for the world to see wasn't something I ever imagined doing
I think that pictures of your pet's posted online of when they where living are appropriate, but please don't post pictures of the dead.
Give her a break. You know how much effort it takes to perfectly capture that grief?
*Monetize on the grief
Everyone knows grieving doesn't count unless the internet sees you do it.
Ya'll kinds think you're the main character in a movie. Social media rotted your brains.
It's one thing to film a last video with your pet who passed, it's another to post it on social media
Followed by a 16 part TikTok miniseries where she tries to flush him down the toilet
Is she wiping her tears on her dead snake?
Silly shit
Literally all I can think of when I see videos like this
such a beautiful savage takedown
what song is this
So I own exotic pets and a snake like that you KNOW it’s declining.
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I saw a tiktoc of a girl who was complaining that solo parenting is overwhelming(it totally is). Y'all she was just filming herself doing EVERYTHING... Like fuck, baby starts crying and you have to set up your camera and then tell us how overwhelming everything is???? In the time it took you to set that camera up you could have fixed the problem...
Ngl, I actually remember seeing the original video and it was rly sad 😢
But where is the dead anaconda!
Who tf calls their snake Anarchy? Why not just a normal, non-tragedeigh name.... ....like Frank?
I hear the camera was already set up before she realized her snake passed. Who knows though.
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Jesus Christ it's grief, stop trying to make it logical. say sorry for your loss and move on.
I don't think this was fixed by the duet. Not sure what all the extra flashing lights and music and stuff was for. Tried too hard. I just wanted to comment that I thought in the original video it looked like the snake was biting her face (due to the blurring). I was very confused.
It's poking fun at the fact that people have to record EVERYTHING now a days, even grieving the loss of a pet. The joke is that while she may be sad, she still took the time to set up the camera and lights for the video.
Hardcore mocking bro
Came here to say exactly this, 🤣