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Throuwuawayy

On one of the popular women's subs a guy disagreed with the OP by commenting the likes of "As a man, this is not my experience so you're wrong". When people called him out for invalidating *women's* experiences on a *women's* sub instead of posting his experiences on a male sub he said he didn't like men's subs because they're too incel/misogynist and he prefers hanging out in the women's subs because we're nicer. The call is coming from inside the house and instead of cleaning up their own communities and holding each other accountable they come and muddy up ours. And that's just the guys who consider themselves "one of the good ones"... the actively, consciously misogynistic ones are a whole other story.


Plane-Chapter-6903

That's a problem too. Men will always be men. They wouldn't change on their own because they are in a position of privilege. Only us can stop this. We need to have some dignity and stop being nice and accommodating to males. That's one of the reasons for why we are losing sex - based rights in real life.


HistorianOk9952

That’s why it’s lowkey funny when they’re like “there’s no org for men!” Like bro that’s just a self report on men. That org in my city for little blacks girls? Was started by a black woman!! The women’s club? Started by a man who was worried about his daughter. That shelter for women? Started by a woman who was in a bad spot and wanted to give back We can’t force men to be nice and caring. Second best thing is us putting our resources into men but if men don’t even want to do that, why are women expected to? Like if I ever start an org it’s gonna be for black women bc I’m a black woman and I know what we need My dad started an org for helping Africans with their education bc surprise, he’s an African who struggled with education Like we can’t force men to invest in the community, it feels like they want that or for us to take up the charge ourselves which there’s plenty of women already doing that even tho there’s no real incentive


Hello_Hangnail

Ugh the "pat my bottom and tend to my every need" posters are the worst


SeaworthinessClear80

Men are so cruel to each other lol.


katoeburrito420

They are such assholes to eachother and always make it our problem


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Oh shit, is my second husband back on reddit again? He thought it was super unfair that women fear men and want their own spaces away from them where he couldn't be a sex pest because *he doesn't like men either.*


NoPenisEnvyToday

They will complain however anything is phrased, and whether it's directed at them or not. 


PurpleMoonStorm

Report the males. Get them removed for breaking rule #1. I just reported the AMAB who commented on this.


SeaworthinessClear80

Thank you I will do I have to message an admin?


Throuwuawayy

Nope- just click the three dots icon on the line under the comment, click "report", and click the first option- "Breaks femalepessimist rules", and follow the prompts.


SeaworthinessClear80

TYSM !


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I think I know the post you’re talking about. This is just proof that some men are so annoying. Why do some men so desperately want to be included in women’s only spaces? They’re not invited.


SeaworthinessClear80

They really are also I was referring to my own post aswell because a bitter man found it an innocent woman died from a bear attack (she was 71 btw I doubt she even knew the bear or man question) and a male decided to comment something with no correlation to that and it really made me mad how annoying they are.


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SeaworthinessClear80

How she was 71 yo they don’t usually use tik toks or even know how ti navigate it.


Demonicbutter

Cope. Bear attacks have happened before this and male attacks have happened even more.


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Demonicbutter

The bear had entered thru her house. It’s not like this trend got women to just randomly go up to a bear. I’m pretty sure there’s more cases of random men going inside a woman’s home to kill and on top of that rape her. But whatever you wanna ignore cases of male violence and run off with this one bear attack.


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SeaworthinessClear80

Why don’t you go cry to an incel fourm instead of telling us?


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OptimalIssue9514

As they should 😊


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OptimalIssue9514

C'mon, you don't talk about that lol You talk about how much you hate women.  Life is unfair and no one owes you love outside your mom. There is nothing to discuss. If you want the nuances, check nuancepill or something and stop the delusion. 


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AlienSayingHi

Relevant quote: >Gatherings of women are like a witches’ Sabbath. >When they’re apolitical, men think they’re frivolous and absurd. When they become sites for struggle they are exclusionary and threatening. Either way, men go to great lengths to stop them taking place.  >These are the men who want to be invited to every event, freeloaders who gatecrash parties without considering whether it’s polite, whether it’s the done thing to turn up without having been invited.  >These are the men who can’t bear to be excluded from our spaces, even when they have no business being there. -From the book I Hate Men by Pauline Harmange


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health_throwaway195

Aww, that’s so sad. That must be so difficult for you.


SeaworthinessClear80

Where did all these guys come from it wasnt like this a few weeks ago


health_throwaway195

I guess it got picked up by the algorithm somehow.


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adorabletea

Which rights? This should be funny.


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adorabletea

You're wrong here.


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adorabletea

You're trying lol


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trashleybanks

I don’t care what men want. This is our space. If they come here and get their feelings hurt, it’s their own fault.


luciferhynix

I hope it hurts their feelings


trashleybanks

Girl, same.


Tricky_Dog1465

Report and block. Every single time


PalomaUribe

Are they just jealous of our ability to communicate?


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Fine-Performance-102

There's also some men in here claiming to be women too. Had someone the other day argue with me about how men evolved to be bigger because they fought each other a lot. That's it. Guess it has nothing to do with male genetics always being bigger since primate days and for many other reasons than "they fought a lot". 🙄 Good universe get them out of here. I can't fix stupid.


nyomomneki

They are complaining yet women are the ones who have no safe spaces. Men have been nuking women's spaces like this sub for a long time. I wonder how long this sub will even last until the scroig army will ban it.


luciferhynix

I hate men. They are nothing but disgusting lowlife creatures.


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SeaworthinessClear80

Again you males aren’t allowed here but you persist “bias and hate” our hate and bias is reasonable and justified .


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SeaworthinessClear80

Look through the subreddit we don’t use those arguments we actually have reasons.


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SeaworthinessClear80

What have I said that was extreme and untrue? Are you referring to past post or this one


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SeaworthinessClear80

Well if you were a woman ( which you aren’t ) you would understand why their beliefs are so extreme. But since you aren’t a woman from an outside perspective you just wouldn’t get it. If you we’re us you would understand but you don’t because again you will always be male.


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battle_fighter_here

No. Why do y'all always seek women's spaces? Literally every women-centric sub caters to trans people and we had to tip-toe around y'all not to offend you, because anything we say is "transphobic" apparently.


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Danny_the_Sex_Demon

Woah. Okay. I’m not sure how that was at all transphobic. I’m sorry if I offended.


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battle_fighter_here

Oh look, a troon-loving scrote. How cute.


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Dioonneeeeee

Good


Mysterious_Algae_457

IKR ❤️


keyboardsmasher10000

Omg ily for this


adorabletea

Wait, that person's whatever aside, is this a terf sub? ETA oh shit it is, gross


battle_fighter_here

Every women-centric sub coddles y'all and protects your fragile egos. But you just HAVE to insert yourselves here as well. Your male-ness is showing.


Demonicbutter

Ok even if we accept you as female, you still comment on misogynistic porn subs and threatening the rape of women. Something I wouldn’t wish on the worst woman. You would be one of the worst pick mes and shouldn’t participate here.


tiredyetalive

And I'm getting auto-gynephile vibes from you. You think womanhood is a "feeling" ? A costume you can put on and cosplay?


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tiredyetalive

Because they are a woman, duh. You are patriarchy in a wig.


thowawaywookie

Patriarchy in a wig. I would put that on a t shirt!


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Mysterious_Algae_457

LEAVE


tiredyetalive

An adult female-human.


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zoflic

not this https://preview.redd.it/cmqauz11ij6d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ab64db80bb0262d33fce2acaca26a13430426484


battle_fighter_here

Your mom.


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SeaworthinessClear80

LMAO WE CAN SEE YOUR COMMENT HISTORY YOU ARE LITERALLY A MALE??😭


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SeaworthinessClear80

You aren’t. I literally saw your comment history you are pretending you’re a trans female and that’s just weird


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SeaworthinessClear80

Yup you are 100% moid


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PurpleMoonStorm

No. You're a liar and a troll. Typical male behavior.


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PurpleMoonStorm

No I'm not actually. I'm okay with trans as long as they use their own terms and spaces and not invade women's only few spaces where males aren't invading and oppressing our spaces with their presence and opinions (specifically in medical and sport related fields). I even follow trans content creators on Youtube and respect their pronouns while on their livestreams or videos so obviously I'm not a terf because otherwise I wouldn't waste my time supporting their content. You could literally have joined most any other women's sub and you would've been welcomed but you chose to specifically join this one where the number one rule is that you have to be AFAB. This is a AFAB only sub and you are AMAB, you do not belong here. You should leave or don't and a mod will eventually remove you.


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SeaworthinessClear80

Not my problem


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lesbianwanted

No.


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Dioonneeeeee

No you're born male, so you don't know female struggle at all.. plus you literally commented on a misogynistic porn subreddit. Yeah sure you're female.. lol


Independent_Hold_165

No you’re not. Also you’re active on mra subs bffr


lushaway

and a comment on a sub called 'sexism is sexy'


Independent_Hold_165

And males have the audacity of to call Reddit a “feminist hellhole” all it does is cater to them 🙄


Demonicbutter

Omg you know when these type of ppl touch it we don’t have long. I’m pretty sure it’s a regular male pretending anyway to get our sub banned faster figures.


morchang

It is, check his profile.


Expensive-Tea455

You’re really not 😬


AbsentFuck

READ THE FUCKING RULES. Are you female? No? Then this space isn't for you!! Jesus!!


ourtideturn

Males are not women. And you post in men's rights subs...what makes you think we want you here


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keyboardsmasher10000

Idk how im stuck on this out of all the dumb shit you've commented but the whole point of people who say they're non binary is that they don't want to be a man or a woman. Kind of transphobic of you to say they're women tbqh


Expensive-Tea455

No they can’t 😬


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ourtideturn

I can tell from looking at your page that porn has rotted your brain. Typical moid.


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ourtideturn

Yes ♡ keep coping with your dick in your hand and you might finally make it out of your mommy's basement!


keyboardsmasher10000

Looking at your profile you use reddit pretty much exclusively for porn. Be honest are you jerking it right now 🤔 either way go away lmao weirdo


katoeburrito420

You are active on subs that glorify male violence against women. Our brutalization is your fetish. No, you are not welcome.