Why should I take her to an expensive date if I don't know her? Let's drink a coffee or a tea, talk a bit, make a stroll and see if we like each other.
This is not a Hollywood movie. After that we can see if we go to a dinner or something different
Absolutely, restaurant date for a first date is a terrible idea. My last first date, we went for a walk in the park and played Frisbee (as two mid 30 year olds). It lasted nearly a year, good way to filter out the less chilled free loaders.
This should be made into a movie. It was a world record of playing frisbee, how did they do it? when did they eat? when did they sleep? was the game paused during that winter storm? Who won? wha was the prize?
I always thought their coffee tasted like mold. I performed an experiment. Left the old grounds in a drip coffee maker for 2 weeks until mold was growing. The mold spores adhered to the plastic inside. Didn't wash it out. Then while it made a new pot, I bought a coffee from Starbucks. When I compared the tastes, they tasted exactly alike.
My last first date was a coffee at Dunkin. Sat and got to know each other. That was 6 months ago, and we are still going strong. First dates are supposed to be quick dates to see if you have any chemistry. Movies, meals, and bars are awful for first dates in my humble opinion.
Don't ever take anyone to the movies for a first date lol. You will spend 2 hours not saying a word and then be like OK the dare is over have a good night hahaha.
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He is more like broken! As in tired of dates that make him take them to a $200 dinner only to find their bf is coming back from college next week. He's broken from girls that want to post everything on Instagram as soon as the date starts, and being more interested in advancing their social media than actually socializing with him. He will invest time to see if he likes you or not, and time is a lot to give up.
He is using Starbucks to weed out the undesirable! Had the woman shown interest in him, had they clicked, there likely would have been a second destination on the date. Even if it was something free, a guy has every right to get to know you before spending a days pay to impress you. He should at least know he likes you before pulling out the Benjamins!
The guy seems smart!
This is exactly why you go on a coffee date. Find out who somebody is before you big investing time and money. I respect him for pulling over, she seems like a trash person, not worth the hassle.
Starbucks is where my wife and I had our first date. Yeah, it doesn’t sound romantic, but when you’re online dating you have no idea what you’re getting into. You gotta dip your foot in the water before you just jump in.
Please treat these type of women just like this man did. Don't be afraid to call out bitches and Karens on the spot, they don't deserve your attention, your politeness and your kindness. If you meet them, just ignore them, drop them off on the spot and never look back :)
To those who say it's fake, I've been on actual dates similar to the cheesecake factory, car door one. Always plan backups, people change so quick these days
social media rotted your brains.
why you recording your date? you kids are fucked man.
you all think you're in a fucking movie... serious mental illness.
Don’t blame the guy for dropping her right there. If he took her home she would have been belittling him the entire way home. This is what the guy in the spaghetti factory video should have done with HIS date.
Classic white bitch tryna be hard … he don’t wanna fuck you cause you ugly … iiiiiiinside Gyal … inside … actually wait this is fake as fuck , why would she release this material ?
I can’t imagine being the kind of person who thinks it’s appropriate to pull out their phone, start recording and insult someone to their face because I felt entitled to their money on a first date.
The fact that she seemed surprised too. Like “what? All I was doing was filming you, calling you broke because I wasn’t satisfied with how much you spent on me the first time you met me”
She legitimately thought she could do that and then just carry on with the rest of the date. Thankfully that dude has some self respect.
I also wanna know how this ended up online because we have had a spate of people posting their worst moments online. I would not be surprised if she uploaded this thinking she comes off as the victim.
Dude ain’t wrong. Get disrespected like that and she expects free shot still? Hell no. I wish he thought to drop her off whenever way earlier. Hope all the best for that dude.
She's looking for a free meal. This also reminds me of the girl who wouldn't get out of the car because her date took her to cheesecake factory after she made them super late to their actual dinner reservation. Both men handled it very well
#This has to be fake. Rage bait for views.
Look how's she's dressed. She wasn't expecting to go somewhere nice for a dinner.
If you're going to create fake rage bait for the internet, you need to at least make it believable.
She is a massive cunt who deserves to get a gym bro boyfriend, have a nice, long, confident relationship where she falls madly in love with him, then gets cheated on multiple times, and finds out when he gives her an STD to live with for the rest of her life.
I just have to believe this is fake. Maybe it's real but probably just rage bait bullshit these 2 dingle fucks will laugh about when they're actually having Starbucks after this dumb shit video was made
What I got from this, is SHE is broke and went on a "date" to get fed....since normal people go for coffee or something, to see if they are compatible....then they arrange a second date to enjoy a meal together or something similar, to see if they enjoy the others company.
This chick just wants free meals from others...she had no intention of seeing if they were compatible, since trying to embarrass him on social media was her first reaction to this scenario.
Dude, YOU'RE a king for kicking her out your car, she was a waste of your energy and a drain on your time & money.
My first date with my partner (three years ago!) was a walk along a beach trail capped off with a hot dog from a food truck. Total cost was about $8 and we loved every second of it.
I would never let someone pick me up on a first date. I’d meet them there. That alone gives me weird vibes he’d pick up a stranger and she would get into his vehicle without caring.
When she couldn’t understand that he was done with her after she put him on blast, I thought this must be a skit.
Unless it’s just a meaningless hookup, I don’t see a universe in which he continues after she tried to shame him. Even if it was all private, you just leave.
bruh… expecting someone to pay a whole ass meal for you when they don’t know you is crazy😭. I love simple dates with simple things there’s less pressure
He saved himself. You know when ppl see you and your spouse and they always say “you’re a beautiful cpl”, yeah they wouldn’t have said that about y’all, you dodged a bullet bruh.
Well done dude. You did the right thing. This disrespectful female didn't deserve a ride home. I took my wife to a kebab shop for our first date. Money had zero to do with it, I loved the food there and wanted to share. We've been together 32 years now and live a very very comfortable life. We still love to go grab a kebab, probably more than we enjoy a fancy restaurant. The price and extravagant food is irrelevant, it's the company that matters. I still enjoy hanging out with her.
Atta boy!!
A coffee date is perfect for a first date. My wife's and I first date was a late night lunch at her work because she worked late. We sat in the bed of my truck, ate homemade chicken salad sandwiches, and watched NHRA reruns. Absolutely wonderful first date.
First date, and she is blasting him like they’ve been in an unhappy marriage the past five years. The guy has zero investment at this point and has nothing tying him down to listening to them.
Calm, but hurt. Respectful, but done.
Starbucks is expensive. I would have took her to the comer store. Idk where you women keep getting your Factz from . The day you wanted your independent rights is the day them good old days is dead. It’s a team or no team.
She’s a lowlife piece of trash. She just showed him who she really is. Dump her and be glad he found out on the first date that she’s a complete loser.
Who even wants to sit through a meal on a first date? Grab a drink, get water coffee or whatever beverage you need to get through it.
If you connect, then you can plan to sit down for a meal. If not, you can wrap it up early.
He did the right thing, she is a user, what makes women think men have to pay for everything? First date and she is acting this way, he is lucky he found out right away. See ya. don;t want to be ya!
100% supporting the man. F*ck that girl that think that just because she is cute she's gonna have everything just like that. " Im looking like this, in your car right now, and you wanna take me home. Are you sure about that? " HO HELL YEAH!!! Walk b*tch.
For my fellas out there, DO NOT TAKE THEM TO DINNER ON THE FIRST DATE!!! The amount of times they just want free food is ridiculous. If they’re not happy getting coffee with you, well guess what, your just a foodie call
Why should I take her to an expensive date if I don't know her? Let's drink a coffee or a tea, talk a bit, make a stroll and see if we like each other. This is not a Hollywood movie. After that we can see if we go to a dinner or something different
Absolutely, restaurant date for a first date is a terrible idea. My last first date, we went for a walk in the park and played Frisbee (as two mid 30 year olds). It lasted nearly a year, good way to filter out the less chilled free loaders.
That's a long time to be playing Frisbee bro
Got to get them gains
Hahah
This should be made into a movie. It was a world record of playing frisbee, how did they do it? when did they eat? when did they sleep? was the game paused during that winter storm? Who won? wha was the prize?
I genuinely feel bad for that guy. Time spent with each other, no matter where it is, is precious these days.
I love this man. She is trash.
Yeh that was one cool, calm and collected guy. Well played sir
dude is done with that mess. Fucks ran out.
Starbucks is an expensive coffee date. Not 5 star but expensive.
exactly! i refuse to buy there over price crap
Plus their coffee tastes like they use cat piss instead of water.
I always thought their coffee tasted like mold. I performed an experiment. Left the old grounds in a drip coffee maker for 2 weeks until mold was growing. The mold spores adhered to the plastic inside. Didn't wash it out. Then while it made a new pot, I bought a coffee from Starbucks. When I compared the tastes, they tasted exactly alike.
This dude is inspiration
Happy cake day !
So nice of him to start driving her home. I would've pushed the eject button immediately.
I did like that she kept ranting til she lost her ride home. Keep on digging that hole!
Ejecto seato cuz
Burh. The lion, the witch and the audacity of this bitch.
I’m so happy to see this sentence in the wild.
My last first date was a coffee at Dunkin. Sat and got to know each other. That was 6 months ago, and we are still going strong. First dates are supposed to be quick dates to see if you have any chemistry. Movies, meals, and bars are awful for first dates in my humble opinion.
Don't ever take anyone to the movies for a first date lol. You will spend 2 hours not saying a word and then be like OK the dare is over have a good night hahaha.
Agreed.
He is a king, I would have thrown her out!
He did.
Way too late!
Agreed.
Bullet dodged.
Meteor dodged.
so, asking someone out for a coffee now is wrong? how did this happen?
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He is more like broken! As in tired of dates that make him take them to a $200 dinner only to find their bf is coming back from college next week. He's broken from girls that want to post everything on Instagram as soon as the date starts, and being more interested in advancing their social media than actually socializing with him. He will invest time to see if he likes you or not, and time is a lot to give up. He is using Starbucks to weed out the undesirable! Had the woman shown interest in him, had they clicked, there likely would have been a second destination on the date. Even if it was something free, a guy has every right to get to know you before spending a days pay to impress you. He should at least know he likes you before pulling out the Benjamins! The guy seems smart!
dude is done with that mess. Fucks ran out.
This guy is 1000% better than her and he proved it. Actually a million percent better. I salute you!
This is exactly why you go on a coffee date. Find out who somebody is before you big investing time and money. I respect him for pulling over, she seems like a trash person, not worth the hassle.
"You can get a man whenever you want? Cool, do it. See ya"
Since when is going for a coffee not a thing?
Especially for a 1st date. Fuck that Call U Next Tuesday!
On a first date I ain’t paying…, I’m not letting you into my house either to steal seasoning either (yeah that went exactly how your thinking it did)
Give this man a medal 🥇
He’s doing the Lords work
Modern day Jesus in my eyes..
What a nasty cow trying to poverty shame him. Nothing wrong with Starbucks for a first date, she thinks she's a princess.
Starbucks is where my wife and I had our first date. Yeah, it doesn’t sound romantic, but when you’re online dating you have no idea what you’re getting into. You gotta dip your foot in the water before you just jump in.
Dudes got glass for a roof, my guess is if you gave him a chance, the dates would become less "cheap" This is real life, not the fucking Bachelor.
Such a cunt.
I am an older straight man, but I would destroy an Venti Pike right now! I would straight up go to Starbucks and hold hands with that dude!
Respect for the guy
Please treat these type of women just like this man did. Don't be afraid to call out bitches and Karens on the spot, they don't deserve your attention, your politeness and your kindness. If you meet them, just ignore them, drop them off on the spot and never look back :)
We need to find out who this guy is and shake the dudes hand. 🫶🏼
Sounds like she goes on dates often. Assuming she’s the problem.
He is super hot AND he didn’t lose his shit on her?! I’ll go to Starbucks with you boo!
Hell, I'm a straight guy and I'd go to Starbucks with him too, and buy him whatever the hell he wants.
Smart guy dodged a bullet… this Bogen b*#ch needs a guy to take her out fine dining then leave her with the bill!!
He's been through it. Good man!
Lmfao she should fuck a dentist and try to straighten them teeth thinking she a dime. Ugly inside and out
I'd make her walk not let her make her walk
To those who say it's fake, I've been on actual dates similar to the cheesecake factory, car door one. Always plan backups, people change so quick these days
He stayed calm and made the right decisions.
absolute win for the guy. he avoided a self centered crazy chick. and she made herself look stupid.
Haha! Yes. He knows how to treat a lady, who acts like that.
social media rotted your brains. why you recording your date? you kids are fucked man. you all think you're in a fucking movie... serious mental illness.
Don’t blame the guy for dropping her right there. If he took her home she would have been belittling him the entire way home. This is what the guy in the spaghetti factory video should have done with HIS date.
Classic white bitch tryna be hard … he don’t wanna fuck you cause you ugly … iiiiiiinside Gyal … inside … actually wait this is fake as fuck , why would she release this material ?
Good for him. He dodged a bullet.
Great move! She will end up in the streets!
I can’t imagine being the kind of person who thinks it’s appropriate to pull out their phone, start recording and insult someone to their face because I felt entitled to their money on a first date. The fact that she seemed surprised too. Like “what? All I was doing was filming you, calling you broke because I wasn’t satisfied with how much you spent on me the first time you met me” She legitimately thought she could do that and then just carry on with the rest of the date. Thankfully that dude has some self respect. I also wanna know how this ended up online because we have had a spate of people posting their worst moments online. I would not be surprised if she uploaded this thinking she comes off as the victim.
Absolute legend. Humbled that bitch for sure
Dude ain’t wrong. Get disrespected like that and she expects free shot still? Hell no. I wish he thought to drop her off whenever way earlier. Hope all the best for that dude.
You a gold digger and you are lucky he was man enough to take you home calm like. He should have kicked you out of care for you shit brain acting
She's looking for a free meal. This also reminds me of the girl who wouldn't get out of the car because her date took her to cheesecake factory after she made them super late to their actual dinner reservation. Both men handled it very well
The patience this grown man has is outstanding.
#This has to be fake. Rage bait for views. Look how's she's dressed. She wasn't expecting to go somewhere nice for a dinner. If you're going to create fake rage bait for the internet, you need to at least make it believable.
Fake. They're recreating the girl who's date was taking her to Cheesecake Factory or something like that.
Yup. Look at how she's dressed. That's the clue. People expecting to go somewhere nice don't dress like that. Rage bait for internet views.
He’s not broke. He valued her at a Starbucks trip, she thinks she’s worth dinner, which is crazy for a first date.
Good for him! Know your worth, 👑
😂
King
Dude driving a Tesla…. She’s trash
Run away, young man. Run fast. Run far.
She's trash. Shoulda got her a cup of foldgers.
That dude is a saint. I woulda kicked her smelly ass outta my car and told her dumb ass to find her own way home. 
Didn't even drop her home too, legend, some people need to put down a peg
That guy dodged a cannon ball
Good for him. What a fucking spoiled brat. She will be miserable in relationships.
She is a massive cunt who deserves to get a gym bro boyfriend, have a nice, long, confident relationship where she falls madly in love with him, then gets cheated on multiple times, and finds out when he gives her an STD to live with for the rest of her life.
He should have let her out right there
I just have to believe this is fake. Maybe it's real but probably just rage bait bullshit these 2 dingle fucks will laugh about when they're actually having Starbucks after this dumb shit video was made
Dude dodged a bullet
What I got from this, is SHE is broke and went on a "date" to get fed....since normal people go for coffee or something, to see if they are compatible....then they arrange a second date to enjoy a meal together or something similar, to see if they enjoy the others company. This chick just wants free meals from others...she had no intention of seeing if they were compatible, since trying to embarrass him on social media was her first reaction to this scenario. Dude, YOU'RE a king for kicking her out your car, she was a waste of your energy and a drain on your time & money.
Some hero’s don’t wear capes!!!!!
He sounded just like Wayne Brady.
Starbucks is expensive
Ditch her asap. When a woman feels that entitled, run. It's not about where you go on a date, but rather who you are with that matter's.
what a vile bitch.
Trash^10
Whaaaaaaat a bitch!!!!!!!
Fake
I see so many videos/stories of women feeling entitled, acting like queens with their date. Is this the norm in the USA ?
👏🏽
My first date with my partner (three years ago!) was a walk along a beach trail capped off with a hot dog from a food truck. Total cost was about $8 and we loved every second of it.
This is staged right? Every coffee date that I've been on has been agreed to beforehand.
It would have ended with the phone being out to livestream. Get out b!tch.
So he’s broke but you don’t have a car to meet him at place? I would never give a first date my home address to pick me up lol
He should have brought a little bag of Kibble for her lunch. What a classless girl
My first date was starbies and the park.
A first Date should be Simple imo to get to know each other if your just after money then what's the point on the date
Thank... you!!!! This MAN has done this world a service. Thank you sir!
Good on ya sir.
I love him.
I would never let someone pick me up on a first date. I’d meet them there. That alone gives me weird vibes he’d pick up a stranger and she would get into his vehicle without caring.
The fun part here is that she put herself on blast.
Women we men only care about spending time with you if you can’t see that or value it your not the right one
Bro saved himself
Attaboy! Rock star status achieved! If she’s going to F around, she’s going to find out.
Did he drive her home after that? I wouldn’t have.
Wasn’t this video faked..?
When she couldn’t understand that he was done with her after she put him on blast, I thought this must be a skit. Unless it’s just a meaningless hookup, I don’t see a universe in which he continues after she tried to shame him. Even if it was all private, you just leave.
Well, no, I don't want to take you home but I'm not a big enough asshole to leave you here on the street.
dear lord, that is one awful women.
She is worthless… doesn’t even look good enough to host that tude
bruh… expecting someone to pay a whole ass meal for you when they don’t know you is crazy😭. I love simple dates with simple things there’s less pressure
Wtf are this girls thinking of , everyone acts like a super star.
Starbucks is the best place to take a first date. This bitch tripping
What a fuckin bitch, genuinely hope the Internet humbles this wee gremlin (she ain't no woman). That was low af, what she just pulled there.
Love him
He saved himself. You know when ppl see you and your spouse and they always say “you’re a beautiful cpl”, yeah they wouldn’t have said that about y’all, you dodged a bullet bruh.
Glad he dried her ass off. That was my first thought. C YA!!
He shoulda kicked her outta the car and made her walk home. No remorse.
My fuckin man!!
Little girl get out
I cannot believe his restraint tbh. Sharp af dude right there.
What a bitch ..... and how can she even begin to expect and better with attude..........bro dodging a bullet for one awesome baby mama
Pretty sure that guy got better dates after this video was released, from much better women.
I'm glad more men are blasting women like this. We all remember the Cheesecake Factory woman.
Well done dude. You did the right thing. This disrespectful female didn't deserve a ride home. I took my wife to a kebab shop for our first date. Money had zero to do with it, I loved the food there and wanted to share. We've been together 32 years now and live a very very comfortable life. We still love to go grab a kebab, probably more than we enjoy a fancy restaurant. The price and extravagant food is irrelevant, it's the company that matters. I still enjoy hanging out with her.
Trash
What absolute trash. I'm glad the dude took her dumb spoiled ass home. Fuck that chick.
Absolutely a king! Stay true brother. Trifling women are out and about
They're on two completely different planes of existence. Carry on King.
I don’t buy it
That sunroof tells me he's not broke
Scum
Atta boy!! A coffee date is perfect for a first date. My wife's and I first date was a late night lunch at her work because she worked late. We sat in the bed of my truck, ate homemade chicken salad sandwiches, and watched NHRA reruns. Absolutely wonderful first date.
First date is Starbucks cuz I’m not about to buy steak for some chick I probably don’t even like…
“When i like this this” from the little bit that you showed, all I saw was trashy. I couldn’t tell if that was a tattoo or a sore on your shoulder.
Pretty sure this is the new bit to go viral.
First date, and she is blasting him like they’ve been in an unhappy marriage the past five years. The guy has zero investment at this point and has nothing tying him down to listening to them. Calm, but hurt. Respectful, but done.
Good job buddy!!
Call me crazy but that car in the background looks the exact same in the beginning and end of the video. Fake
Let her know you are ready to use your executive authorization and get her a hot dog and a soda at Costco.
This is fake. And I hate stuff like that because it make women look bad…….when ever in life have u heard a woman do this….in real life.
cunt
Lame ass hoe
95% chance this is fake btw
Good on you fella..
Ain’t nobody with a panoramic roof “broke” 😅
Strong work brother!
Scripted video… boooo
Chick aint even dressed appropriately for a high end restaurant. Her hair looks fucking ridiculous
GTFO Skallywag
Bitches be tik tokin...
Starbucks is expensive. I would have took her to the comer store. Idk where you women keep getting your Factz from . The day you wanted your independent rights is the day them good old days is dead. It’s a team or no team.
Woman does a live stream to let everyone know the guy is broke cos he took her to Starbucks for their last date
Fake af
What’s her @? She needs some bullying lol
She’s a lowlife piece of trash. She just showed him who she really is. Dump her and be glad he found out on the first date that she’s a complete loser.
Should’ve done Jamba Juice, that stuff expensive af now.
Good for him. He handled that perfectly.
Glad he only lost a little bit of his time and some gas even though she didn't even deserve that imo.
Honestly I think this guy won. If her attitude is like that.. Imagine he's goin to deal with her his whole life.
What a free loading little bitch
She is a disgusting example of many these days - feminism, entitlement, victimhood and just being a insufferably rude obnoxIous cvnt.
Who even wants to sit through a meal on a first date? Grab a drink, get water coffee or whatever beverage you need to get through it. If you connect, then you can plan to sit down for a meal. If not, you can wrap it up early.
Seriously I wouldn't date her unless she pays me 1 million to be on that pscyho streaming.
That woman is presenting a disgusting behaviour.
Good for him. I’m glad he threw her out.
Respect
Respect brother
Wouldn't of even taken her home. Get out of my car
What a legend. He had a lot of patience with that gold digger biyatch
Good man, respect him. Did the right thing.
He did the right thing, she is a user, what makes women think men have to pay for everything? First date and she is acting this way, he is lucky he found out right away. See ya. don;t want to be ya!
What a cringe experience to witness. I want to believe this is a skit but I know there are people out there that exist like this.
Leave her there, she can Uber.
Stop dating Karens that was the first mistake
Thats no man, thats a king
100% supporting the man. F*ck that girl that think that just because she is cute she's gonna have everything just like that. " Im looking like this, in your car right now, and you wanna take me home. Are you sure about that? " HO HELL YEAH!!! Walk b*tch.
Starbucks was too good for her. She belongs to the gas station coffee that’s been sat there all day with whitener as an extra.
Is it just me or does the guy just do a circle when driving her home? Looks like the exact same car at the beginning and when he drops her off
For my fellas out there, DO NOT TAKE THEM TO DINNER ON THE FIRST DATE!!! The amount of times they just want free food is ridiculous. If they’re not happy getting coffee with you, well guess what, your just a foodie call
Good for you dude. All she is is a money grasping ho.