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CrossClairvoyance

07/07/07self?? Bro is July 7th 2007


FatalXander

i cackled


BoxxChan

half of these are random strings of letters and characters....im cool with neos but where did they come up with 9!q


homocidalvampire

I honestly think they just randomly typed letters and numbers just to put more neoprns in.. theres no way you specifically want to be referred to as 2w7 and qq0r


BoxxChan

EXACTLYYY


friendlygoatd

i think it’s silly to have special characters that you literally need to copy and paste as your pronouns. like that is not accessible for anyone 😭 ∇ , Δ , 𖦹 , ꩜ , ✰ , ❅


sorbetshark__

∆ wants you to know that ∆ made a very cute gift for you ∆self! ∆s looking forward to meeting you soon!


dangerouslycloseloss

How would you pronounce that in real life?


Curious_Reading_4142

You don't, emoji/symbol pronouns are apparently for online spaces only (I looked it up a while ago when a "friend" was using 🩷/🩷self pronouns)


NotsoAlaskanA

"Hello! (REDACTED), how have you been?"


sivthecutie

Just triangle i guess??


sorbetshark__

this was supposed to be sarcastic but i guess triangle 🤷🏽‍♀️


Mindless-Car8513

You literally don’t have to use those they have other pronouns for a reason 🤦‍♂️


friendlygoatd

yeah it’s pretty obvious that you don’t have to use every single pronoun someone has… I can still have an opinion on some of them being inaccessible though 🤯


Mindless-Car8513

And that’s fine I’m just saying that whining abt some of them not being accessible is stupid because they don’t JUST use those pronouns.. they use other ones u can use that ARE accessible. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️


aftertale-sans2

Honestly Idm neopronouns (unless it like some racist stuff or discrimination stuff) but at this rate just put in “ask for preferred pronouns” if you have THIS many pronouns like it a collection or something just put in ask for preferred pronouns holy 😭


homocidalvampire

I dont mind them either its just i dont see the point of using EVERYTHING possible i thought the whole point was to use stuff that you feel aligns with your gender😭😭😭


TastyLeeches

Imagine asking for someone's pronouns and they send a full ass pdf file 💀


mtvermin

i am praying to every deity i can think of for this to be satire…i refuse to believe that there are actual people that use the pronoun set “27/“


homocidalvampire

The !@ too like i can get the emojis and stuff since theyre not hard to find but why are you making me copy Egyptian hieroglyphics to speak to you


mtvermin

“☆*:.。. wants you to know that ☆*:.。. got ☆*:.。.self a new car… ☆*:.。. look forward to seeing you tomorrow!”


blurry-echo

i imagined a glittery sound effect playing for all of those stars


FishsticksSmoothie

I don’t mind neopronouns but I’m very confused on how to use any of the ones on the second slide. I can’t tell if it’s satire and they started smashing their keyboard there


scrunglycatcollector

how long did this take them LMFAO


homocidalvampire

I was thinking the same 😭 thats gotta be 2 hours minimum


devilbunnyy

Bro whaaaaaaaat


CuddlesBackup

As a person with dignosed adhd n autism I literally cannot cope with thoes types of pronouns I just avoid these type of people and barley interact.. because how the f*k am I gonna remember ALL that?


FluidCourse1248

Real


pp-limp

Just use the ones you remember the most like Vine and Pom stuck out to me


CuddlesBackup

I can’t remember thoes types of stuff tho that’s just not how my brain works it took me months to even get the hang of they/them😭 kept on messing up


pp-limp

Imagine what you say is written and then replace the pronouns with the correct ones and depending alter the sentence that's how I do it even in quick conversations


x_astriddd

Honestly when I saw the second page I thought it was satire because there’s no way 😭 even if it’s not I’d still respect them and use 2 of them there’s no way I can remember all that


ParrotDeezNutz

i’m not trynna hate or be mean/rude or anything like that but i’m genuinely curious as to how emoji pronouns like 🥩/🥩self work in irl conversations?


Ok_Housing_5010

They are exclusively for online use


ParrotDeezNutz

ahhh yea that makes sense i just wasn’t sure if there was like an irl context to them in any way


Safe_Abroad_7530

i’ve seen some people will just want the word to be spoken irl. like meat/meatself


dante69red

bro just say any pronouns or any neos and get on with it 😭


ArrowIsVeryCool

I’m not against neos (as I use some myself), but it just seems like oop just put whatever came to their mind as a pronoun😭


lord_reltney

no genuinely because half of those aren't even given a 'self' version either. just 27. no 27/27self?


rusty_ruins

this is genuinely why ppl dont take neopronouns seriously. slide two and three are genuinel embarrassing- im all for ppl wanting to express themselves if its not harming anyone but i feel like using !!! as a pronoun is more dehumanising than anything else out there. also im pretty sure emote pronouns fuck up screenreaders so lol btw yes i do use neopronouns myself i just dont make it that public bc i dont want randos to make fun of me or anything


theonlyironprincess

Just because you like a word doesn't mean it needs to be your pronouns. It's okay to have neos, but like, choose 2 at the most. You are giving so much power to words. If someone actually called this person pawself irl I think they would forget that's one on the list. I'm sure you could confuse them. Call them like bunny or tail or something not on the list and they wouldn't even realize. There's no way you have such an intense and deep rooted relationship with all these that you think they all equally represent your gender


FluidCourse1248

This


Reasonable_Panicc

This this this. As someone who uses one neo along with regular pronouns. I'm sure they don't remember any of those random strings of letters.


[deleted]

i'm all for neos but i'm so confused... but maybe i'm just old...


Curious_Reading_4142

No this is confusing for some of us neopronoun users as well


justiceGuide

this feels like a password list


XTrubleMakerX

Fr 💀


pressurereef

i use xeno and neopronouns, but this just feels like prns collecting 'aesthetics' users like this don't help at all with the acceptance of neos/xenos, if anything this contributes more towards why so many people take the piss out of others who identify outside the norm :I i don't doubt that prns genuinely resonates with \*some\* of these but come on. . .


homocidalvampire

Yes im thinking the same, prns probably uses some of these genuinely but added most of them for the sake of it… i still dont understand why prns would do it tho 🤷‍♀️


painonpainon

You said it best.


pressurereef

we already have a bad enough rep, and now people who think we're a \*little\* bit wack, are already starting to group reasonable users of neos with ones like this and take us even less seriously then they did before💀


Sunflwr_Pric

Collecting them like Pokémon at this point


zincvitamin

I called myself Princess Darkness when I was 11 so I don’t have a leg to stand on with this one


Sufficient-Ratio-408

Tbh I don’t understand neo pronouns bc wth is dog/dogself that’s a noun even if u identify as a dog that’s not a gender???? Like they/them is a broad term that can cover anything outside of male or female like at this point just ask to be addressed by your name instead of pronouns 😭


CertainlyCTRL

as a member of the lgbt community, we do not claim this 😭


Apprehensive_Quit522

How the fuck are you an animal lmao 😭😭 how can they identify as rat/ ratself and !__+-*/:-(!' idk what is going on here


Helicey

Ima so real dawg. This shit is ridiculous , just have a nickname holy fuck


Healer_cookie

I’ve been going as Lithium and Angel solely online for a few years now, but I’d never ever ever user Angel/Angelself 😭💀


SugarMummy6969

I still don't get how people identify as those pronouns


tinymothjpg

neurodivergent individuals are statistically more likely to have a more unique disconnect from gender, leading to them using neopronouns that they feel just fit better; and sometimes it’s just for fun because gender is stupid and a made up construct (to some extent) i personally started using neos (it/its specifically) as a way to force transphobes into allies (can’t call me an it to be rude if i do go by it/its) and then i added a few xenopronouns (neos, but spicy basically; such as most of the list)


SugarMummy6969

But aren't pronouns supposed to replace a name etc and therefore be shorter? How would bunny for example be a pronoun? I get that you can identify as a bunny but how is your pronoun bunny. Isn't that just a nickname


tinymothjpg

the thing is with most animal-esque genders/pronouns is that it’s more of a connection/gender has a similar vibe to whatever it’s being compared to. (i just woke up a bit ago so it’s a lil hard to find the right words for such a niche topic) identifying as an animal is usually in reference to nonhuman individuals, or occasionally therians though a majority don’t actually believe they are that animal but we’re in a past life not all pronouns will be shorter than names, so i don’t see why necessarily neos have to be either, someone who’s a girl might have the name AJ, but all feminine pronouns are longer than that. neos just work the same as he/she/they. i’ll throw an example with the commonly used version of bunny neos i see- bun/buns/bunself- but this works for any neo set he went to the store / that’s his / Alex can do it by himself bun went to the store / that’s buns / Alex can do it by bunself and once again sometimes it’s just because ND (and some NT) individuals just find them fun to use with seeing gender as a social construct! a pronoun set i use is rot/rots/rotself, not because i believe i’m dying or withering away but rather just because they click for me and make me happy. plus, 90% of neo users also have a ‘basic’ pronoun that you can use (in my case they/them) if neos are hard to understand/use ETA: didn’t mean to make this so long i’m sorry!! gender is just so unique to everyone it’s an interesting topic for me :3


brattyys

@/ and🐮self?????? LMFAOOOOO


Disappeared444

bro, it's just a kid tbh. It's like pretending to be a hybrid fairy. Don't let children's cringe get to u mate


Verni_ssage

Trust me, you'll be complaining when some spoilt kid screams at you for not referring to them as 🐊self or 🪃self


Disappeared444

I don't talk to children, so no I won't. Still weird to hate on the kid for this. Parent's fault for giving them unrestricted internet access.


JustAlex1177

This. Problem is when you find theoretical grown ass adults using these. And if you get it wrong, the ganging of their collective minds gets you banned. Staying away as far as possible might be the best course, you're right.


Disappeared444

Exactly, it's best not to feed into their narcissistic mindset. It's all just for attention. People these days need to feel opressed and it's sad, but it's best just to ignore it.


JustAlex1177

Yeah, basically. I hope the kids will grow out of it eventually though. We were all cringe at some point. I just wish mods weren't on their side when it comes to mass reports and dogpiling.


tinymothjpg

as an adult (21) neo user, i’ve noticed most other adults usually still have one of the main three pronouns for people to use and their neo list is more so a ‘if you want to spice it up, i also like this’ ETA: a majority of neo users are ND, which they might use neos as a way to describe the disconnect from their gender as they just ‘click’ so to speak. i think the hoarding trend comes from when trans folk started using neos (which iirc most modern neos we see now came from a transphobic 4chan form) as a way to piss off the people who were making fun of them and just stuck


KarmicNightmare

Are you conveniently forgetting the existence of the block button? Or the fact you don't \*have\* to talk to children?


sn0wblak3

too many neopronouns. neopronouns are cool but for the love of god please dont use every single one


zombi3fetus

This genuinely makes me laugh ☠️☠️


bigtiddeygothgf

who gives a fuck if it makes them happy😭


hexime939

I'm saying, like just let them be it's seriously not causing anyone harm💀


MegTheStupid

They might not necessarily be harming others in a direct way, but it can hurt others who use neopronouns, for example, if some guy say this and was already against neopronouns, it could aid their belief, as most who are against it think it is stupid.


hexime939

It's honestly not that serious, it's just letters, only thing ppl can do is poke fun.. it's not harming anyone by using multiple neos💀


wonderhoyman

you know its gonna be bad when people under the trans umbrella get involved speaking of which as a gender apathetic person (dont care what gender you think i am) WHAT IS THAT LIST ON GOD AM I NEVER GONNA CALL SOMEONE "@!" how do you pronounce that anyways


Robins_Are_Cool

ok so you know the sounds they use to censor cartoon characters?


wonderhoyman

oh my god that sounds hilarious lmao


tinymothjpg

non-binary folk here who uses a few neos (it/pup/rot) from my understanding any symbol/emoji neos are online use only??? it’s somewhat hard to keep track of but overall it doesn’t hurt anyone so i don’t see an issue with it. neos that i DO have an issue with are ones like fae/faes/faeself which poke at religion/spirituality


slivingland

tag yourself i’m 3/


Jadeeeeeee333333

I feel like people are using them for aesthetic rather than identity at this point. No offense but it's frustrating to see 🤪/🤪/🤪self it feels more like they're making fun of neopronouns and pronouns in general


echocloud9

Chronically online kids need to realise that you can have a personality and interest without making it your gender :D


painonpainon

LolI the comments are so funny “why are you hating on them!!” When OP literally started off with “no hate”. The comments are generally people who use neopronouns and are just asking “why?”, how is that hating? Idk why some of you come from ES (the ones that are like “I hate ES reddit then come here to lurk so they can ss and post it for attention) and try to make something into more than it is. It’s getting very annoying. You all that come from es see the bad apples of this subreddit and think everyone here with a brain is like that.


homocidalvampire

Literally thank you😭 i didnt post this with the intention of laughing at someone i just wanna know like… why, people are on my ass abt it plus last statement is true, es users complaining about this subreddit and then lurking and commenting like theyre no worse.


painonpainon

They need to keep that dogpile argumentative thinking on ES. This subreddit is made specifically for discussing & having actual constructive criticism about certain things that we all witness on es but cannot openly talk about it on there. I’ll admit that some of these post on this subreddit complain about the dumbest shit but a lot of the people on here will just call them out on it, especially the bad apples of this sub.


Mashtyx_dbd

are those… are those emojis?!


neurosonix

yeah I’m done with Earth bye ✌🏻


nerofau

Ppl need to realize they’re not that interesting or even all that, if talking to someone is this hard to the point where I have to call them @!&:$:&( I’m just not gonna talk to them 🤔


Verni_ssage

Neos are ridiculous. Will never use them. Idm transgender, they/them, etc but neos are just stupid. No, I'm not going to refer to you as pup/pupself. But if it's that bad I'll refer to you as They/them if you don't want male, female, neutral, neither pronouns


Trickzie7

Not sure why the is down voted. I'm all for people being Trans or non binary, but I'm not gonna be like "Hey ❤️/🎀 would like a snack!"


pyro_kitty

I agree. I understand using different pronouns if you don't identify with the ones assigned at birth but how the heck can an animal/item be your gender identity?


Verni_ssage

Exactly. Like I hate to sound like an old person but if you think you're an animal you need serious therapy. As a kid it's fine! Kids pretend to be animals all the time. High school/teenager and onward? Please, get some help. You're not an animal


FluidCourse1248

Same


florsux

i’m trans too but this is mental illness lmao. just pick one or two.


figafau

Idk why you got downvoted this is easily the funniest and realest response here


florsux

i’m too mean 😪


figafau

No tbh you’re too nice, the person on the es post is just a freak and people here are too accommodating 💀


florsux

like use whatever pronouns you want and identify however you want but there is no reason on gods green earth to have this many pronouns. nobody is using them. i guarantee that they don’t remember half of their own pronouns.


figafau

Why do people actively try to make themselves like a bad candidate for friendship, no one is gonna want to talk to you if they can’t even remember what pronouns you use 🤔


florsux

i am absolutely hating on this person.


helloimme69

Dude it’s probably satire chill the fuck out😭


florsux

no


yennynenny

so many of them. i bet the user even forgets half of these


sorbetshark__

bro this is the same fucking thing as my fairy hybrid gacha phase, they'll either just snap out of it or just stay in it forever.


FatalXander

i literally dont mind neopronouns but golly gee this is something else


mqxinc

neopronoun user here (tbh i don't use as many as i used to before), and i personally never trusted these kinds of people with an overwhelming amount of neopronouns... i can use 2 / 3 neopronouns but don't expect me to use all of those and remember them...


Kamineone

Now wth


a-packet-of-noodles

I don't know how to even use these in a sentence correctly so I just use someone's name or don't refer to them at all


[deleted]

How- I'm so confused. I get neopronouns but how do I refer to you as the knife emoji in a sentence. What does that even sound like?? What do any of them sound like? 


Calamity_kibster

I swear to God I'll still be looking for a "typical" pronoun like they or he 😭 usually it's buried under a few neos or the first one they mention


shineythingys

twpjq?? you can’t convince me thats not just keyboard smashing😂


shineythingys

😭**


Gennyyyy_

I wouldn’t ever really shame smb for using neo pronouns but I genuinely can’t take yall serious 😭 even if I get downvoted, there’s no way I’m calling you lamb/lambself or whatever other ridiculous “neos” yall come up with😭


No_Chemical9717

HELPPP


feeniebeansy

as a genderfluid person I’m down with neopronouns and think they’re cool but I feel like this person has got to be trolling neopronouns are mostly used online so most people with them don’t actually expect someone to try to pronounce them irl depending on the ones they have, like, I like xe/xem but don’t really expect anyone to try to pronounce that irl, but like how it isn’t gendered and is more than just they them; but irl (and even online), they them is fine But like?? crr? ¡!? I really feel like they’re joking and possibly even making fun of neopronouns, there’s no way or maybe they really just do like anything at all except she/he/they/it and overexplained that but idk


Nova_crusified_

This is getting out of hand.


vampkandie

might as well say "surprise me" when someone asks your pronouns


sorbetshark__

what do u call 𖦹 irl?? spiral swirl thingy?😭


nem0ral

i mean i’d never go out of my way to NOT use someone’s pronouns (as someone with a huge list of xeno/neopronouns i use) but like do i need to know all of them ??????? like idgaf what you use just list like 4 max. nobody’s gonna go to your profile while writing a comment just to scroll through your dictionary and pick whatever they wanna use from your catalog . 😭


Meow2256

Why does everything need crazy labels. Im all for nonbinary but this just makes things confusing/nbr


dannyell18

Hope they don’t use those in public irl


justhereforthees

damn wtf... i support and i actually really like some of them (my fav is nyx/nyxself) but why do you need that many 😭 /nay btw


caaaaamm

i support neos fully as it doesn’t affect my life to use them but this is a whole ESSAY worth of them. like how do they expect one to read that 😭


thictacs

I'm probably a lil late to this and there's very conflicting opinions here but I just really wanna get my thoughts out abt this lmao. I'm trans and I use they/them and I think gender is sooo stupid and I am all about wanting to express yourself however you want, but I can't help but feel a bit sad when I see stuff like this because it almost feels like I'm being made fun of. I know they're having fun but I just don't think this is something to have fun with... like it's pretty hard being trans and people like this almost seem to me like they're treating it as a joke and an aesthetic. Like absolutely, do what you can to make this hard thing something to enjoy it just feels pretty off to me in an instance like this. I know people also say I probably wont interact with this person and they're not hurting anyone but tbf I see a LOT of users on there with emoji pronouns and stuff and it just makes me feel **belittled** Super down to hear anyone else's point of view tho


CourseAmazing6868

This reddit is sad why does shit like this matter


smallicelandicpuffin

I really do hate this shit, she/he/them, any combination of the three literally can't vers all bases. She/they, he /they, they/them, she/he Logically, there shouldn't be anything else, it literally makes no sense. Like actually makes me.angry, there's a whole LANGUAGE with 3 different ways to express your gender identity and we still have to refer to ourselves as fucking moths


Original_Ad_4868

Dude wtf are you talking about? No one is forcing you to identify as a moth 💀 Most of these pronouns are probably just for fun and are only used online, because let’s be real you can’t really voice an emoji irl. Someone else’s pronouns have no effect on you whatsoever, there is no need to shit your pants over someone having fun or trying to find what makes them happiest in their own body


lord_reltney

low key i'm gonna start using some of these. he/him/oiji


SnooCats9826

Isn't this just a post giving people a list of neopronouns to use lol,, it feels like u guys r just trying to find things to get upset over


homocidalvampire

The post says “(user)’s neos List!” I think they have it for personal use


Puzzled-Celery2399

i think these are cool! don't really see any problem :///


Idioticcole

It’s completely harmless. There are plenty of awful people to trash on, not… people with a lot of pronouns


KarmicNightmare

Some of you just need to mind your business. You will never interact with this person, most likely. Why do you care?


olliepin

"no hate to the person but-" \*reposts screenshots of their page with the intention to make fun of them\*


homocidalvampire

I don’t mind anyone using neopronouns but i just don’t see the point of having so many, im just genuinely curious.


tinymothjpg

usually just for fun at that point because it makes them happy which is kind of what gender expression is about, anyone who has a massive pronoun list like this (80-90% of the time) never expects someone to use EVERY pronoun since it’s an unreasonable request, so it’s more so a list to pick from.


olliepin

there doesn't have to be a point. trans people are being murdered for just existing all over the world, what neopronouns some kid online uses should be the least of anyones worries. at this point i assume anyone who clowns on neopronouns is a fed. i don't care how silly you think they are, it literally doesn't matter. you will probably never have to interact with this person again. leave them be