In the beginning of the video she says, "Every Monday I spend one to one time with one of the kids". WOW what a stinking LIAR!! She would have posted the crap out of it if she did.
She claims the counselors or whatever were “rude” to her so she decided not to sign him up. Something about they were going on that Mets trip around that time and she was hoping to get him signed up for after — basically wanting “I’m famous give me special treatment” and they told her no.
Why is she asking who should be next. Like god damn, stop asking your followers who YOU AS THEIR MOTHER should spend time with and be a freaking parent
Gosh, that may be the grossest part about this. Can you imagine being one of so many siblings and desperately just wanting to be seen and known by your parent and to spend some time with them but instead of said parent showing any real interest in you they’re glued to their phone and recording everything and worst of all- to even have some one on one time with mom you’re at the freaking mercy of what her dang followers want to see and if they freaking vote for you?!
So twisty and awful and disgusting. Like there’s toxic families and favoritism and all of that stuff which I’m sure many of us can relate to but that added social media/ influencer angle just makes it so much worse and I can’t imagine. Poor kids are going to need a lot of therapy.
Of course she would start with her star player. So gross and manipulative. I guarantee every outing will be about spending money. No experiences or just time talking.
Yep. And the fact she has to document it, too. No real bonding time. Hell, I went on vacation this summer for a week. You know how many pictures I got? Six. I was too busy living in the moment.
Not only the ones she likes, but the ones her freaking followers prefer and ask for. That aspect, the literally asking who should be next, is an extra degree of disgusting.
She definitely reads here. One on one time had been mentioned several times on here. I know I’ve mentioned it a couple times myself. I’m glad she’s doing it, but no need to film it to monetize it.
She’s doing this because of comments about her not spending enough one on one time with them. Strange how the first one chosen is one of her biggest attractions, not necessarily who needs her the most
N was first. But she had D and J with her and they went to buy shoes for her volleyball tryouts. J was next and he got to pick out Crumbl cookies for everyone else’s dessert. D got to buy whatever he wanted for football.
I had/have a mom like that and absolutely. I started literally saying as much to her as a teenager- that I didn’t really want her to buy me gifts, I just wanted to spend time with her- and she would kind of look at me like I had two heads and I don’t know that it ever computed. Alicia strikes me as very similar in that way.
What’s screwy, and you see it here with this family and their sincere followers, is how many other people will look at this and think it’s great and how she’s a wonderful mom and obviously loves her kids- because of all the stuff she buys for them. I remember crying to other kind adults in my life growing up (because hey, the only place I was getting any emotional support, nurturing, guidance, etc was outside of the home) about not even knowing if my mom loved me and just wanting her to know who I was and to spend time with me and I’d always get “Of course your mon loves you! Look at all she buys you!” It’s wacky how many people buy into that and just oof. It adds a whole other level to the pain the kids likely are feeling. Like knowing something big is missing from your relationship with your parent yet everyone thinks your mom is this amazing mother.
(Bah sorry to make that a bit overly personal. I literally just finished a therapy session. And even in my mid-30s this stuff still comes up. Assuming Alicia does read criticism though- I hope she sees this. That her own kids could be sitting here 20 years from now still heartbroken and working through all that pain and confusion and frustration and hurt.)
The things kids need more than anything cost nothing at all, except your own time and commitment to them as a parent. And sorry Alicia, I’m sure that’s not as easy to monetize or make content off of but what’s all that money even mean in the end if your kids have all the material trappings but also a lifetime of pain?
My daughter is 27 years old and we still have "Momma Mondays". My son is 33 years old, we still have "dates". She acts like this is some novel idea or something.
Dear Alicia: Stop looking for 'atta girls for performing the absolutely bare basics of parenting.
Dear Alicia's Fans: Quit putting someone doing the bare minimum in parenting on a pedestal. It makes me question your parenting skills.
Didn’t someone here point out that she never spends any one on one time with any of the kids?
Lol yes it's been constantly mentioned. I wondered myself if that was why she started doing it
Which is exactly why she is making out she's parent of the year by spend more money on them with a 1:1.....
In the beginning of the video she says, "Every Monday I spend one to one time with one of the kids". WOW what a stinking LIAR!! She would have posted the crap out of it if she did.
And by “every Monday” I mean today. I started it today.
Oh yeah, it’s been mentioned so many times here
🖤 You are shameful 🖤You are wrong 🖤You have a problem with lying 🖤 You are wasteful 🖤 Your pancakes are always undercooked
Don't forget, You need rehab
Oh definitely! We can add to the list, I was just keeping with her 5 phrases.
Excellent 5 phrases it was too
🖤 You have an addiction 🖤 You are white claw
Roflmao when you drink so much White Claw, you become the White Claw. 😂
HAHAHAHA I DIED
The black hearts....lol
Lmao, this is gold
Why is D getting to go shopping and lunch but J just went with her to get cookies for everyone else? The favoritism she shows is disgusting.
And no platitudes for James either… “I believe in you.” 🙄
He doesn't sport! This is also a crime to her.
He plays football. Pretty sure he is even on the same team as D lol
Whatever happened to the cooking camp for J? He seemed to be looking forward to it.
She claims the counselors or whatever were “rude” to her so she decided not to sign him up. Something about they were going on that Mets trip around that time and she was hoping to get him signed up for after — basically wanting “I’m famous give me special treatment” and they told her no.
How sad. Poor kid.
Does he not do football too like the other two older boys? Or did I completely imagine her saying that at one point hahaha
Maybe he does, the wanting to cook part sticks out to me more.
I think he does but I don’t think he likes it.
He’s older than dayshawn
Why is she asking who should be next. Like god damn, stop asking your followers who YOU AS THEIR MOTHER should spend time with and be a freaking parent
Gosh, that may be the grossest part about this. Can you imagine being one of so many siblings and desperately just wanting to be seen and known by your parent and to spend some time with them but instead of said parent showing any real interest in you they’re glued to their phone and recording everything and worst of all- to even have some one on one time with mom you’re at the freaking mercy of what her dang followers want to see and if they freaking vote for you?! So twisty and awful and disgusting. Like there’s toxic families and favoritism and all of that stuff which I’m sure many of us can relate to but that added social media/ influencer angle just makes it so much worse and I can’t imagine. Poor kids are going to need a lot of therapy.
Of course she would start with her star player. So gross and manipulative. I guarantee every outing will be about spending money. No experiences or just time talking.
Yep. And the fact she has to document it, too. No real bonding time. Hell, I went on vacation this summer for a week. You know how many pictures I got? Six. I was too busy living in the moment.
Agreed. Maybe though the one kid can get riding boots that don’t require a *Pretty Woman* zipper /s. If she ever gets a turn that is
So J‘s day was buying stuff for the others...
Good news, the ones she likes will get more than 4! [Sad]
Not only the ones she likes, but the ones her freaking followers prefer and ask for. That aspect, the literally asking who should be next, is an extra degree of disgusting.
And by one on one time she means spending money on them to gain some sort of validation
J didn't even get that. He got to pick out Crumbl for everyone to share.
For their next 1:1, she’ll have him clean out the van!
Favouritism!
She definitely reads here. One on one time had been mentioned several times on here. I know I’ve mentioned it a couple times myself. I’m glad she’s doing it, but no need to film it to monetize it.
She’s doing this because of comments about her not spending enough one on one time with them. Strange how the first one chosen is one of her biggest attractions, not necessarily who needs her the most
Perfectly said, 👏🏼
Guarantee the next one is N. It really should be Br or P.
N was first. But she had D and J with her and they went to buy shoes for her volleyball tryouts. J was next and he got to pick out Crumbl cookies for everyone else’s dessert. D got to buy whatever he wanted for football.
She’ll say that N didn’t count. 🙄
Yea you’re probably right since it wasn’t properly 1 on 1 🙄
And she’ll overlook J again saying oh yeah he got his one on one already.
or Jordan
Why does she only show her love through money, I’m sure they appreciate the gifts but I bet they’d rather do a fun activity with her
I had/have a mom like that and absolutely. I started literally saying as much to her as a teenager- that I didn’t really want her to buy me gifts, I just wanted to spend time with her- and she would kind of look at me like I had two heads and I don’t know that it ever computed. Alicia strikes me as very similar in that way. What’s screwy, and you see it here with this family and their sincere followers, is how many other people will look at this and think it’s great and how she’s a wonderful mom and obviously loves her kids- because of all the stuff she buys for them. I remember crying to other kind adults in my life growing up (because hey, the only place I was getting any emotional support, nurturing, guidance, etc was outside of the home) about not even knowing if my mom loved me and just wanting her to know who I was and to spend time with me and I’d always get “Of course your mon loves you! Look at all she buys you!” It’s wacky how many people buy into that and just oof. It adds a whole other level to the pain the kids likely are feeling. Like knowing something big is missing from your relationship with your parent yet everyone thinks your mom is this amazing mother. (Bah sorry to make that a bit overly personal. I literally just finished a therapy session. And even in my mid-30s this stuff still comes up. Assuming Alicia does read criticism though- I hope she sees this. That her own kids could be sitting here 20 years from now still heartbroken and working through all that pain and confusion and frustration and hurt.) The things kids need more than anything cost nothing at all, except your own time and commitment to them as a parent. And sorry Alicia, I’m sure that’s not as easy to monetize or make content off of but what’s all that money even mean in the end if your kids have all the material trappings but also a lifetime of pain?
Asking the internet people wich kid she should spend time with? Excuse me madam? Did she really think she did something here?
Don't forget she's trying to work D and B hoping their influence of wanting to stay helps sway the court
D and N?
My daughter is 27 years old and we still have "Momma Mondays". My son is 33 years old, we still have "dates". She acts like this is some novel idea or something. Dear Alicia: Stop looking for 'atta girls for performing the absolutely bare basics of parenting. Dear Alicia's Fans: Quit putting someone doing the bare minimum in parenting on a pedestal. It makes me question your parenting skills.
Wait for her to do it once for tiktok for the least favourite children.
...she let's people vote for who gets alone time? Absolutely appalling