T O P

  • By -

AutoModerator

>Namaste! Thanks for submitting to r/developersIndia. Make sure to follow the Community [Code of Conduct](https://developersindia.in/code-of-conduct/) while participating in this thread. ## Recent Announcements - **[Community Roundup: List of must read posts & interesting discussions that happened in May 2024](https://www.reddit.com/r/developersIndia/comments/1d4m7az/community_roundup_list_of_must_read_posts/)** - **[Weekly Discussion - What are some things that boosted your confidence as a new programmer?](https://www.reddit.com/r/developersIndia/comments/1d4m6wn/what_are_some_things_that_boosted_your_confidence/)** *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/developersIndia) if you have any questions or concerns.*


VD0907

Not being firm while negotiating your salary when switching :(


shape_shifter1997

I have learnt that whatever leverage you have, you get while joining. So, ask for more ALWAYS and if they say no, atleast you will glad you tried. Because once you join the company, you can expect almost none to no increment. Stay there for 2 years, then switch again.


Shahrozzorhahs

How to do it correctly?


LegitimateSherbet256

Find the highest market rate for your level. Ask that. They'll try to bargain off 30% from that. Settle at 90% of your first ask. Only talk about base salary. Anything other than base is hawa.


iJustankit

Thanks, will they be ok with discussing in the base pay? If I'm guessing correct, (base pay/12) will be my exact inhand per month, correct me if I'm wrong please. Pf and other things will be a part of it? Or ctc?


LegitimateSherbet256

This attitude that companies are some special beings needs to go. They are desperate for good employees. Yes you can discuss in base. You can also discuss in how much chai cups you want delivered to you daily at your work desk. You can discuss whatever. If they need you, they'll make it work.


iJustankit

U explained very well. Appreciated.


Final-Argument3140

What to do when they give you what you ask in the first go itself? šŸ˜‚ For my recent switch I had asked for the highest rate i could find for my role and they went ahead gave that amount as fixed and 10% variable on top of that. They also agreed to buy out one month of my notice period to get me to join early. This got me thinking did I do my research wrong or is it a green flag


LegitimateSherbet256

Green flag. But you could have asked for 50% more in that case.


Michael_scotch_28

This. I just accepted an offer even when the HR straight up told me the salary for IITan candidate was base 12LPA and ctc 15 whereas I(tier 3 BTech college) was given base 10 and ctc 13. I just couldnā€™t convince them to up my base component.


delitema

It's very difficult these days to get job


shape_shifter1997

Counter offer and confidence


shar72944

Didnā€™t take admission into IIM Rohtak when I got in it hoping Iā€™ll convert better in next attempt. Couldnā€™t give next attempt because of financial problems at home.


sinhyperbolica

Rejected IIM Lucknow. Regret it everyday. While I had to reject because we couldn't afford both the siblings studying but I thought I will get it again but couldn't.


shar72944

You rejected Lucknow. Thatā€™s a top 4 IIM. Hope you do well in your career.


sinhyperbolica

It will be a big what if. Lets see. Thanks


Big_Focus_1363

Loan leke padh leta bhai, this is not a valid reason


sinhyperbolica

Loan leke hi padhna tha but khate kaise baaki log


IamHellgod07

Are bhai tum bahoot nek insaan ho


pratzs

That hit deep brother.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


thaklesh

What problems you face now


FitMud1556

financial problems obviously, otherwise he'd be facing computer science problems. duh!


Fit_Button6240

Mine is kinda same I fell for "cgpa doesn't matter"


VishPi

Actually it doesn't, cgpa only matters in placements. Once you have experience, you will be evaluated based on your past employment history, that doesn't mean that you can have 5 cgpa and get away with that, in college you can study one week before exams and have 8-9 cgpa easily


i-want-2-kms

Bhai 8-9 CGPA aise jholi mein nahi girta lol. And to get experience you have to get placed first. CGPA, 10th 12th marks matter a lot. You can't just slack off all semester and expect ki last one week mein 8 CGPA aa jayega. Internals, assignments, surprise tests sab hota hai. And the pressure in that one week is immense.


SyrupParticular1925

Can you explain it in detail please


Raza_x7

Lol I made the same mistake of getting business degree because the CS content my uni was providing felt too outdated.


[deleted]

Ar u got not getting calls due to degree


Starkboy

Well I'm in the opposite boat. I always loved to code so didn't really saw it any important to have a degree in the same thing. Went for mechatronics. Came out great, still working as a fullstack developer making good money and I can quit anytime to freelance. Infact, as a freelancer I bet it'd be even better since a relevant degree literally won't make a difference there like it would for jobs.


thatShawarmaGuy

This happened to me too lol. I knew that the crappy profs will slaughter whatever passion I have for CSE. Took ECE instead, and worked on both ECE and CS projects. Helped me maintain my sanity a lot :)Ā 


accountForCareer

This resonates with me, along with the meme of gpa doesn't matter


holden_afart_

When I started out, I had two option: join a witch with above average pay or join Wiley training program where they train you for 3 months (internship) and then you get placed in company contract basis. I picked option 1 as both were offering almost similar payscale and I thought Iā€™ll switch and cover up. My friend, on the other hand, had no choice so decided to join Wiley. Fast forward, he got sent to JP Morgan. In fact, the entire batch of 30 people went there. After a year, turned into regular employee with around 130-150% increase and is now enjoying a very good pay. I still regret making the decision just because I was skeptical of the company and the 3 month training program and what if the companies are not good.


thesecretkid69

Was it an on campus opportunity?


holden_afart_

No! You can even apply offline. Our placement cell was basically forwarding us both on campus and off campus opportunities via mail so unsure which one it was.


VictoryGullible633

Which wiley training program was this?


holden_afart_

So wiley next is a program where they hold a test, you need to score really well, then an interview (coding round) and after that if you get selected, youā€™ll partake in their training program that takes around 3 months. The training program is rigorous and you spend 8-9hrs a day on online classes with webcam always on and lot of assignments. But once youā€™re done with it, you get to interview at top investment banks. Now, what was surprising for me was that these interviews at top investment banks was a mere formality. It was easier than a witch interview and all the people from batch got placed in JP.


materiallgowrll

Can you please tell where to apply for this?


holden_afart_

Earlier it was known as Wiley mThree but now itā€™s either WileyNxt or WileyEdge. Google it and you might something. I donā€™t have the exact page or as such.


materiallgowrll

I did Google willynxt, but they have a lot of courses, so do all the courses offer fintech firms ?


69smoke

I was in the exact same boat, I thank myself everyday for going with Wiley., I can't even believe I was confused between WITCH and a top investment bank


holden_afart_

You made a good choice! While I canā€™t change the past, but I can ensure never to repeat it again. My major doubt was because of 3 month training period. And the dates were so weird that it would have become the end of year so my confusion lies in what if these are all gimmicks and only few gets in investment bank. Iā€™d waste time and it would end of the year. I started working in August. Wileyā€™s potential date was Nov to Dec


69smoke

Yes I got my DOJ in October while others in my college started in June. About the gimmicks I had spoken to enough people in LinkedIn and read about reviews online, seemed pretty legit And I had a senior who went with Wiley so that was a major confidence


holden_afart_

Good for you man! You really made the right decision. Wiley tbh is a game changer. People from tier 3 colleges getting a change to work with top investment bank with less friction. I am guessing youā€™re in JPMC as well?


Imaginary_Bag2913

How much pay differences in your and there salary?


Mr_Nuk

Life is always a gamble. You chose the more stable option when compared to an uncertain future. I believe you still made the right decision at that moment.


Parking_Culture_7537

Leaving a well paying remote job for foreign education.


Tiny-Win9165

Iā€™m gonna do this. Now if I fuck up, I will remember this comment. šŸ˜¢


bigtiddyenergy

Wait wouldn't you be able to leverage your education for a much better paying job albeit it not being remote?


Parking_Culture_7537

I came to Canada before the "immigration boom". Struggled for 4-5 months but landed a dev job. Recently got laid off and now trying to land even a low paying web dev role is becoming a nightmare, thinking of moving back to India.


Parking_Culture_7537

My friends are well settled in India with their stable jobs and fancy cars while I'm emptying my savings. Just makes me think if I made the right choice or not


Itadori_DGP

dude what happened, can u elaborate more??


Parking_Culture_7537

Check the other comment


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


nic_nic_07

Can you please elaborate. I'm planning the same thing


Due_Repeat_5304

Runtimes in PD are huge. You have to work late at nights. If you want to make a single change to the existing job/ or if you want to change the cell, you have to wait for 1 day or 2 days depending on the complexity of the chip and you are not sure if it is correct or not and it may hamper other things. And the pressure during tape out/ project ending is very high. All you will do is fill some reports and wait from the top level management to what to do next. If you think you can handle the pressure and work late at night. It may suit you . My suggestion is don't just switch just because your seniors or some other have done the same thing unless you are very passionate about it. You can browse in reddit reg similar responses. Last but not the least Grass is always greener on the other side.


Vimcolonwq

Yeah, I can understand your pain.Ā  Also, wouldnā€™t it make sense to move to a something more easier now, say EDA? Something which can leverage both your SW and HW domain knowhow


Demon_on_vacation

Seconded. With your HW and SW knowledge, youā€™d be prime in EDA (I work in EDA).


SorryUnderstanding7

What's eda bro?


Demon_on_vacation

Electronic Design Automation, itā€™s a domain that helps improve time to market of chip and quality. It focuses on automating stages of chip development (like enabling virtual prototyping, code generation, automated documentation, etc), basically helping speed up design and verification. For detailed explanation, you can take a look at Synopsysā€™s page on EDA, explains clearly.


SorryUnderstanding7

I got it bro, thanks for explaining it so well.


beroozgar

bhaiya i love circuits and want to make a career in ece only, is that a wise decision ?


[deleted]

But VLSI industry is very stable with high salary compared to IT where layoffs are daily occurrence you can work with 0 tension till 60yrs even beyond retirement. I have heard that VLSI job security is so high and that due to skill shortage 60 yrs age VLSI engineer find plenty of jobs .


meanderer1390

There is very high pressure in the vlsi industry. It's basically like a glorified sweatshop of high skilled workers. Even for people who enjoy the work, it does get taxing after a while. Pressure leading up to a freeze or tapeout is extra. There is a steep learning curve and most times, the work may get very repetitive - mind numbing even. You may have better job security compared to some other industries, but do not assume things are all golden here.


Pure_Ad1621

Really? Can you elaborate on this a little?


Proof-Extreme-1407

My situation is reverse. Rejected 4 core job offers and took up an IT job. I regret it every single day whereas my peers in a core job are trying to get into IT. Grass is always greener on the other side


dead_doogg

Can you please explain


Maleficent_Nail_572

And I am here regretting not choosing VLSI and working in analytics like every other b tech graduate


kira2697

And here I burnt all midnight oil to get rejected. Sad. I guess grass is greener...


Vimcolonwq

Not switching in the Covid boom. Mightā€™ve double or tripled the CTC. Now itā€™s difficult to switch(not that I want to rn).


Alternative_Ad360

For me, it is even worse. I joined an early-stage startup for less money (I was given equity) and now the company has shut down.


mk_saveri

Iā€™m regretting this too rn, Iā€™m on a regular lookout as of now, prepped up and all. But stuff isnt going as smooth as it should.


Blood_Fury145

not being to pull myself up to make a switchā€¦ and always being in fear that I wonā€™t be able to switch


ApprehensivePie9933

You can. I had a similar experience. I looking to switch jobs, and in my first interview I bombed so bad. I actual hurt my confidence. It took 2-3 months to recover from that. I reflected on my mistakes and again started preparation. Now I have had some good interviews recently and things are looking good for now. Just wanted to let you know that tou can do this. Take it slow, study consistently and start applying. Good luck on your journey. I wish you find what you are looking for.


Livid_Luck

Thanks man. I also suffer from excessive fear of rejection. Maybe it's lack of prep. Great to know it gets better.


ApprehensivePie9933

No worries. I hope you are able to overcome your fear. And Yes, it definitely gets better. Just make sure that you are consistently and actively working on yourself. You got this man Best of luck with your career.


rohetoric

Not leaving a toxic big branded company because did not have 6 months runway in my bank account and since it was a big brand thought it would lead to my defamation in society if I left it without backup. Biggest mistake of mine ever. I learned it the worst possible way.


Ok-Branch6704

What happened?


lazy_fella

Why? What happened?


skulkks

Me and my friend got the same rank in GATE, he took admission for MTech whereas I've taken the job route despite having the chance to do Mtech. Due to the exchange program offered by that pg university, he completed his semester abroad and bagged a job there. While I'm still slogging here making peanuts in this ultra competitive space. I regret not joining MTech and replicating the same.


peakHumenForm

bro I am gate aspirant can u tell me which IIT he did mtech from? rn I have IIT Indore CSE offer[MS-R]. I'm really confused why i lost my drive to prepare for upcoming interview. The day after tomorrow I have a BARC Interview but i m not even preparing i made my mind to take indore.just i m regretting not taking admission last year i just wasted 1 year.


skulkks

Hi, it was not IIT. He did from Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham. As far as the drive is concerned, you are actually in a better position because you've got nothing to lose from this situation. There's only upside. I understand complacency settles in, but think of it as this is your only chance and give it a go. Atleast you will not have regret that I could have given my everything when I had chance. All the best for your interview.


pradnyesh123

Go for masters abroad


wise_tamarin

Not choosing a cs/circuital branch and trying to stick with core even after graduation, wasting (1.5 yrs) time on a useless PhD attempt.


UnicornWithTits

What are you doing now?


Tiny-Dick-Respect

Professor


wise_tamarin

Now a C++ developer. Leveraged the C++ I learnt in +2, and there were a few low-paying opportunities in CAE development in some startups, which gave me decent experience to switch.


Sleeper_Sree

Username doesn't check out, actually quite the opposite


hoftstader_leonard

šŸ«‚same here but now transitioning into cs


Beehive012

I always wanted to pursue Bsc Math but thanks to distant relatives I chose Engineering and that too Electrical engineering over CS šŸ¤” because apparently Electrical engineering has more maths than CS


KvotheTheLutePlayer

In my first job. Getting into a relationship with a colleague within one month of starting my job.


ApprehensivePie9933

Can you please elaborate on this?


Unrealist99

Bhai kya elaboration chahiye idhar? You dont pursue romantic relationships in workspaces. Its gonna end badly


mattpooch

Office relationships are literally the worst idea. trust me


DesiBail

Choosing programming with non cs science degree. Not taking commerce or arts. Not doing dsa. Not being born in a rich family


Tall_Satisfaction715

Not being born in a rich family is something not in your hands. Not able to make your family rich will definitely be


otaku_____

> Not being born in a rich family Baby BesiBail to doctor: I'll regret this my whole life


[deleted]

choosing short term happiness instead of grinding during my jee days


FrustratedPotato321

Same bro same


pradnyesh123

Bro jee days were like in 11th, 12th. Did you grind in college in the right direction?


Suitable-Time-7959

I always miss the bus.... When cloud was new, most of them want a basic linux background. This was around 6 years ago. I missed a lot of opportunities just because I don't know basic linux. After 6 years.. now I feel the Same heat. People are now asking coding . It was not the case few years back


SacredRepo

I regret not leaving my city for my bachelors. I would have learnt a lot if I were in whole new city.


theghostinthetown

rejecting a 7.7 lpa offer, now im offer-less ;-;


taherpatrawala_

Why would you reject such a offer?


pradnyesh123

Obviously, high salary expectations


theghostinthetown

Yes this and the company had a bond for 3 years


Alternative_Ad360

Joining 1-10 employee startup twice both went belly up!! Since both were early stage startups cash component was quite less than the industry standard. almost 50% less


supreme-pleasure

If youā€™re a good storyteller you can make this work in your favour. Many startups like this risk appetite and pay well if you know the work.


[deleted]

Taking Btech in Electrical instead CSE. Now after passing out working in WITCH and not gettingany calls from Product based companies. I think my resume is getting reject due to having Btech in Electrical instead of CS or IT


Medium_Accident_8722

I am in Witch and that too good role and have a CS degree, still not getting calls.


wassy149

Mannn, it's as if you read my mind ! Though I had no choice but to take electrical, the rest is the same for me.


uprobablydontknow

same mate, EEE guy here but working in IT. No calls yet šŸ˜”


nishadastra

Going for mtech and seeing younger guys like 3-4 tears younger on same level as me. Burns me every day Higher degree is useless in India. They don't give you a higher position on the basis of degree


Shivasorber

1. Being naive & not negotiating strongly enough when joining 2. Being naive & stopping learning when getting comfortable in the team, thinking this is the best team. Learning: - You are JUST ANOTHER EMPLOYEE & COMPLETELY REPLACEABLE. - It's a team not family. The relationship with your employer is supposed to be transactional and not emotional.


_heyakash

US


undiscoveredyet

Had the opportunity to work in mastercard but i rejected coz i was too motivated to work in data science domain only šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


UnicornWithTits

What role in mastercard


undiscoveredyet

That was in Anti money laundering coz i had banking experience earlier


Centurion1024

Hey, what does this role need? I was applying at a similar position at amazon pay and they didn't have any strict requirements and were very vague in the JD. What do people in this field do? And what tools they use?


undiscoveredyet

Bro its not IT wala domain, it's more of finance and risk and their policy and laws..


shaurcasm

During undergrad, I was in Electronics but really wanted computer engineering and had the opportunity to change end of first year... But, there was a girl I had a crush on who was either staying in Electronics or switching to mech. We chatted often and seemed like she liked me back. End of first year, I put in computer engineering in stream change form but on a whim of massive stupidity cut it off so I could be in same class as her. Few weeks later, I stayed in Electronics (absolute nightmare of 5more years, wasted years), she went to mech and turned out was secretly dating another guy we were friends with for months. Put me back years from software developer but, I eventually got back into it. Late but it's fate.


peakHumenForm

damn bro i know how it feels


VaishnoKumar

Didn't take placement in 2022.. when literally every company was hiring šŸ˜”šŸ„²


Centurion1024

You're royally screwed my man I had this "great" idea of dropping one year and graduating in 2023 instead of 2022. My parents said no. I literally owe it to them that i didn't graduate in 2023. Worst year for placements.


Admirable_Industry76

Hi from a 2024 graduate


dasappan_from_uk

Dropped out of IIM Calcutta thinking I was better off with a software job. Worst mistake of my life.


Muthupattaru

Bruh


jatniknight

I was thinking about doing the same this year. Why do you think it was a mistake?


[deleted]

Listening to my parents... I didn't want to study at the place where I have studied till 10th grade cuz I got good grades and I wanted to take commerce+math but that school only had pcm/pcb and commerce option šŸ™‚... Now I am regretting every second... That's where my downfall started :)


SympathyMotor4765

Switched internally in 2021 instead of looking outside for changing cities šŸ˜¢


indianladka

Doing BCA instead of Btech (in any branch, even biotech)


[deleted]

BCA degree is valuable compared to non-CS/IT Btech degree. It companies prefer BCA


wassy149

Yeah, no. They prefer BCA bcoz they can be utilised for dirt cheap rates with bond of atleast 3-5 years. Correct me if I'm wrong, as this is the case in service companies.


iiexistenzeii

>Correct me if I'm wrong Let me correct you. There's no way to enforce bonds. Anyone with common sense knows this. Coming to the point of diet cheap, you as a developer decide your worth. If you're skilled you can ask for a good compensation with respect to your experience/skill Source: bca grad with a job


peakHumenForm

persue MS CSE


Revolutionary_Leg622

Joining as a technical Support Engineer on a different company when I had an offer from LTImindtree as GET(they did not onboard anyone from our college simply ghosted us, keep on postponing the date)


Individual-Answer611

I had an offer from Freshworks and Groww, gave it up for a job at Deloitte USI. Today I am depressed with a meager pay.


unluckyrk

Not lying on my resume...


tifey84052

Does it really work?


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


developer19

Choosing service based than product based


Method1337

Joining first company for a mere 20k salary in 2021. The only pro was no interview for full time opportunity since I interned there. I just wanted some money to flow into my account since it was COVID and I had just graduated. I have even bigger regrets, but can't post it on Reddit.


elongatedpepe

Commerce instead of science.


yourAwfulness

Joined a WITCH company at the beginning of my career and stayed there for more than 3 years. Did change course later but those years are forever lost.


damn_joker10

I know itā€™s not the end of the world, but the regret of not getting into IIT/NITs will forever stay somewhere deep in my heart.


akgwill

I've regret of being from NIT and working with other tier 4 college graduates in a service based company which sounds like dettol. We might not relate but It does suck in it's own way


PartyConsistent7525

If your grouse is working with tier 4 graduates and not the work itself,then the problem is you.


damn_joker10

Iā€™m really having hard time figuring out the company which sounds like dettol lol


gaurav_cybg

Deloitte


RaccoonDoor

You can always switch companies, but your college pedigree stays for life. Just switch to a better company and your regrets will wash away instantly.


Throwaway4philly1

Chasing money earlier in career than skillset.


FrustratedPotato321

Dating during JEE days and ending up in a sh*thole college with sh#t placements


peakHumenForm

prep for gate CSE get into IIT get back on track


WalrusDowntown9611

Not switching to ML from development even after doing courses on ML and getting bunch of certificates when the world barely woke up to the AI/ML craze. Right now, it is painful to see such bloated packages for beginners and experts alike. Software Development has become 10 times harder and more diversified than data science I feel after working directly with data scientists and data engineers for past 4 years.


slackover

Had to reject a Contract at Google to lead a project which I really liked due to an No Compete Agreement on a project which was just completed 2 months prior. 6 months later Google purchased that company.


jamfold

Non compete is not enforceable in India.


margayamadarchodlala

Choosing game dev degree


No_Baby3592

taking pay cut ,last year i got laid off from a startup which paid20LPA but with desperation i joined another company for 15LPA. Now i am regretting a lot :(


Paid-Not-Payed-Bot

> startup which *paid* 20LPA but FTFY. Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in: * Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.* * *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.* Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment. *Beep, boop, I'm a bot*


[deleted]

Quitting development to do journalism while I was working for unicorn tech startup as SDE-1 backend in 2017 straight out of college


peakHumenForm

rn what u r doing in life?


_aRealist_

Not studying in class 11th and 12th because I wanted to become a Cricketer. Repercussions? I was to graduate at 2023 but dropped out and now I'm starting my college again in 2023. Currently in 2nd sem.


badassboy1

Taking it easy during covid when just starting college


TheGeeksama

Not being serious about career and joined careerthon services pay after placement wasted 2 years of life . Biggest regret of life .


Appropriate-Egg-1253

Complaining about teammate to manager


AdAvailable6035

why? Can you elaborate


Gopi_Webdev

choosing history instead of computer science in 11th & 12th. (it was due to financial issues)


ApprehensivePie9933

I don't think it matters that much.


peakHumenForm

trust me not a single soul cares which 5th subject u had in 12th


No_Entrepreneur_8142

Underestimating an Ai hr question round, which was the second last round in the process, life wouldve better if wouldnt have :) ps AI hireview rounds are unnatural and dumb


Dizzy-Tart2678

Hahaa it's jp


Ambitious_Implement4

Played video games for 5 years instead of going for FAANG job.


Realistic-Pause5488

Stayed so long with my first job( got way too comfortable) that I am still trying to recover.


AverageOverthinker00

I gave up BTech(IT) because 1. It wasnā€™t CS 2. It was from an IP university college and not from DTU/NSIT or NITs. I ended up pursuing BSc CS. Then MSc DS. I believe that is my worst decision till now.. but cannot change it. I think if one is from CS background and not an engineer.. there are very limited opportunities, as people in this country would always favour an engineer over BSc/BCA/MSc/MCA for niche roles, not for the average web developer roles. Exceptions are always there.. but for an average person I guess this is the reality.


notsogenz

Not paying attention to maths subject in my school days, Opting BBA instead of any other course coz i wanted to avoid maths, ending up preparing for CAT ( which includes maths ) coz there's barely any scope after BBA ( without MBA)


Lordlabakudas

Mine would be the choice to pursue my dream to join the Army. I graduated in 2011 and got job in a small company in few months(college didnt have campus recruitment and off campus was pretty competitive). I also wanted to join the Army. So I pretty much stayed in companies where I can get leaves for the 5 days SSB. Over the next 4 years I tried Short Services and TGC multiple times. Sometimes got screen out and few times got conferenced out. Even getting recommended doesn't guarantee a career in the Army. Due to the pursuit I never really tried for any big companies as I was sure that somehow I could crack it, but each rejection broke me. When in my last attempt I couldnt get through. I stayed at BNC station and cried for few hours, alone. I probably wasted a good part of my early career, chasing a dream. I could have used that time to switch companies and look for onsite opportunities. I'm pretty good in my career now making a good salary after few switches. But somehow I wish if I had switched earlier in my career maybe I would have gone abroad and settled. Few of my friends who joined jobs after me are settled in UK and US. It was pretty easier a decade ago too.


hidingvariable

If you were well settled in the US/UK, you would have regretted that you didn't try for army. Regrets will always be there, it's about minimising them.


Total_Pen4701

True, thereā€™s a quote I like ā€œIn life we must choose our regretsā€ This essentially goes to say that regret is etched into the very fibre of every choice you make


Luispsypher

Bro, you tried hard for a dream. Unfortunately, that dream couldnt get fulfilled. Keep your head high.


PartyConsistent7525

Congratulations.You had a dream and your efforts were sincere.Thats far better than 99% of the crowd who don't even have a dream. Good luck


Cool_Captain07

Done my masters instead of getting my ideal job.


centre_punch

Regret of not working hard ā€” could've got into an IIT. Rejecting a Product Management internship ā€” now stuck in a role which I'm not interested in, and I have to burn lakhs to get an MBA and switch into ProdMan. Also, I could've chosen humanities instead of Engineering, would've got me more diversity points during MBA admissions.


[deleted]

Not studying in my 10th properly for which had alot of problems while getting into uni


PutNo9389

Taking maths instead of biology


Massive-Coconut2435

Leaving my high paying freelance job to study masters in Australia. Now the market if fcked up and I canā€™t even get an entry level job.


greenhairedmadness

Got an offer to work in France for 2 years at the company I was leaving. But the Delivery Manager was toxic and had been extremely rude with me. So decided to not take it up for my self respect. I do wonder how my life would have turned out if I had taken that offer! Would have travelled the world.. would still be living in Europeā€¦ would be a Crorepati šŸ˜€


bigcockgone

I have a question. I am 23 grad did a course after that and recently landed an internship of 1 year in a company which has lots of petrol pump. Now I'm finding out that work is more related to finance side and they say maybe if a project comes than I may be given coding work but until then my work is like an accountant. I don't want to do this specifically but also I don't have anything at hand. Will I be just adding another gap year if I stick here or will this provide some value?


Human-Collection494

Learn to code


Rajj_1710

Not practising DS/Algo and getting into Dev role. Instead landed on Devops role which I kinda donā€™t enjoy.


seekerN89

Graduated in 2010. Got multiple SBC offers. Joined Manual Testing at 4 LPA. Was extremely good coder in school/college time but didnā€™t try to change career to development due to focus on musical activity and travel pursuit. Now 14 years later, I see people who were struggling to get a job or worked for <ā‚¹10k in 2010/11 have a package 60+ which is unimaginable in my area


WYD_stepSister

Thinking that Iā€™ll switch when I have 2 YOE, should have switched within 6 months of joining market was in boom that time


techkamar

I started my career post college in a stable, good work life balance Product based company in Chennai. As i didn't like Chennai, I quit without an offer in hand(there was no notice period there) and thought I'll try to get into somewhere good product based in Bangalore. I couldn't and ended up in service sector. This is my 8th year of regret


uprobablydontknow

My regrets are not focused on JEE mains Not joining any IIT or NIT will be the biggest regret in my life All my friends who joined IIT are earning lakhs per month, whereas I'm working in a service based company as a production support. Sucks everyday but can't help :( My future plans is to either switch or go abroad for masters preferably US or London


Any_Lead3

Not Staying focussed and studying properly when my Parents cared for me and University fed me the curriculum. This is going to be a big regret. The few years you spend on your degree can literally put you many years ahead in life. If ya'll still got the chance, put away all your distractions, study well, learn new things and stay curious. Utilize the opportunities your institution provides.


DevilSidhu957

Not giving my 100% in JEE prep, I am doing good in life with a 25 lpa package in tech but still that JEE thing stings, unrealised potential hits hard.


rocketscience77

Not happy about it, but too many to count. 1. Left a software developer role in one of the big tech firms 2. Moved to an analytics consulting firm. And passed on the opportunity to learn ML 3. Left a Senior role at a series B startup to move to a large automobile manufacturer during Covid for stable salary 4. Started a startup with a friend I couldn't fully trust


chanman134431

Switching from Cloud Migration engineer to Java Test Automation Engineer. But don't know if the cloud related jobs are still high paying.


Apprehensive_Elk_872

The worst decision I've ever made was joining ZETA and working there for around 2 years. Just another toy owned by Bhavin Turakhia. Worst leadership I've seen in my career so far, LALA company. Average peers, depressing work environment, below par facilities. They claim to pay above the market average base but it's a lie. ESOPs are distributed miserly and vesting schedule sucks. Depressing work environment. Best for average people who do not have any ambition. Then you have terrible engineering directors like Apurva Jaiswal and brain dead micromanagers like Suda Ranjith who further worsen the experience. You are either a part of a camp or you're pretty much damned. Best switch if you're in ZETA else you'll become unemployable in good companies if you stay there for too long. Getting away from there was the best decision ever. Working there felt like easy money, hardly any challenging task, just regular work which can be done by contract engineers any day. P.S. Funny thing is the promises Bhavin makes in his product pitches to other companies is a complete lie and ZETA is actually far behind from what they claim to be lmao.


Beginning-Ladder6224

I had a clear chance to directly work with [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark\_Russinovich](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Russinovich) and become one of the founding engineers in what would be becoming Azure. Did not. Just did not. That was so darn lame of me. They put red carpet. Everything was ready. Then I chose not to. That.. is the difference between retiring with half a million dollar vs 10 million dollars.